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What about LUNCH with an “old coworker”? Still a date? Only difference is one is during the day and one is at night.
/r/askMRP26/09/24 09:35 PM
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What about LUNCH with an “old coworker”? Still a date? Only difference is one is during the day and one is at night.
/r/askMRP26/09/24 09:27 PM
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Yea what is that?
/r/seduction20/06/24 01:40 PM
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I love the way your dick feels in my mouth. But most of all I love sucking it.
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:28 PM
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IDGAF attitude. Outcome independence. I’m the “prize” mentality.
/r/seduction30/05/24 07:31 PM
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OYS #1 Age 45, Height 5’10”, weight 182, Navy Method BF 20%. Mission: Live my life congruent with my values. Relationship: Married 15 yrs, 13 daughter. I’m not even going into what I did wrong or right since dropping the red pill 2 years ago but mostly wrong. Here are links to previous posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/cwm38o/wtf_happened_worse_before_it_gets_better/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/db4enh/comfort_or_stfu/?utm_source=share&u…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 02:50 PM
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What did you do to take care of the acne from TRT?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/21 04:41 AM
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I’m sure you would agree that bottom line right now I have to actively stop giving a fuck about her feelings or what she thinks of me.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 03:06 PM
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I’m 44.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 02:52 PM
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You’re correct. I see all the areas I’m lacking in ( finances, lifting, social life) and where I know the work lies. But I think you hit the nail on the head, as has everyone else, and that’s getting rid of the oneitis. Get out of her head and frame. I know getting my shit together will help but I need to actively not think about her. All the advice here on this post is spot on.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 02:51 PM
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That was a mistake. I never apologize for pissing her off. But the sex was coming either way. She was ready to go the second I opened my mouth. Almost like she had been waiting for it and thinking about it. I could’ve kept my mouth shut and taken whatever I wanted and it would’ve been the same intense session. But frame is definitely where I’m going to put work in. I am on my own path and doing this for me. To become a better man. No more I make her the mission. I’m my own mental point of origin…
/r/askMRP09/12/19 06:56 AM
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Fair and deserved. But appreciate your time because this is just a part of my journey and today is a big part of that. Thank you.
/r/askMRP09/12/19 03:00 AM
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Roger that. Already re-reading. Also rereading my posts from today and seeing where Ive been clearly focused on the wrong goal. Thanks for kicking my ass.
/r/askMRP09/12/19 02:20 AM
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This is exactly what I need.
/r/askMRP09/12/19 02:05 AM
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I see that ever so fucking clearly now. I’m glad I came here today for these vets to help get it though my think skull. Thing is I realize all this just have been stubbornly holding on to oneitis. Onward and upward!
/r/askMRP08/12/19 11:20 PM
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Thank you. You’re right and I’ve noticed this for quite awhile. That is my mission. I’m doing this for me and I know I’ll be solid.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 11:17 PM
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You are 100% correct. For the first six months everything was fantastic because she came around and then it crashed because it wasn’t entirely for me. I’m not gonna lie I didn’t realize this now and have been struggling to get away from it. At one point I would say yes but now I’m more about me. This is the key part. I will get there and am getting there. I’m gigging my heels in as we speak.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 11:07 PM
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This entire thread has grounded me. What a crazy journey. Bear with me for a moment. I get IOIs and could pull younger pussy. Have a couple younger women I could seal the deal with. She was with me a week or so back when a hot 24 year old I flirt with came up and hugged me at the bar in front of her. She didn’t say anything and no signs of any jealousy or results from preselection. I’ve since gone back to the brewery with friends. Fast forward to last night and she’s being bratty so I tickled an…
/r/askMRP08/12/19 11:01 PM
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I’m definitely going to stop with active dread in any form. Just me being awesome and improving with be my dread.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 10:56 PM
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What a crazy journey. Bear with me for a moment. I get IOIs and could pull younger pussy. Have a couple younger women I could seal the deal with. She was with me a week or so back when a hot 24 year old I flirt with came up and hugged me at the bar in front of her. She didn’t say anything and no signs of any jealousy or results from preselection. I’ve since gone back to the brewery with friends. Fast forward to last night and she’s being bratty so I tickled and pulled her bun on her hair as I do…
/r/askMRP08/12/19 10:51 PM
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Your comments are on point.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 10:29 PM
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You’re exactly right
/r/askMRP08/12/19 10:21 PM
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That’s makes total sense. All the input today has helped tremendously.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 10:20 PM
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I get that now. Back to square one now.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 07:21 PM
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Up 20lbs and still trying to bulk. Hence the extra weight in the midsection. Man boobs no. Pecks for the first time ever. Lifts have improved and working on hypertrophy also. What is your answer?
/r/askMRP08/12/19 05:21 PM
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Back to square one. That’s what it feels like. And that’s how I’ll progress from here.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:53 PM
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I don’t have all my ducks in a row. Financial is lacking. Working more OT to fix that. I could add another hobby If I had time besides my Krav Maga. Social scene could be better. Always looking for new guy friends. Own the shit out of house work cuz I hate when shit isn’t done. Leading and she defers to me for everything.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:43 PM
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Do I up the beta and reduce the alpha seeing the alpha ain’t getting shit wet. Again do I just NGAF and do what I want? I see I’m too harsh but maybe it’s ok to slip into beta/comfort at this point but with no covert contracts.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:33 PM
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Yes I am. Just not sure how to NGAF and just give comfort. But I know the comfort doesn’t wet the panties.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:29 PM
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You’re right. I guess I’m just way to much emotionally invested. So again I need to just drop everything I do to “effect a change in her”, get her out of my head and just do me. I’ll read that article.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:26 PM
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Lifts have increased slightly. BW up to 175. Body fat at 18%. Figure I should still be eating at high surplus to continue with muscle/strength gains.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:22 PM
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That’s makes sense. I’ll read it.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:18 PM
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I get that. And re-read the comment. But how and why give comfort and attention when it’s not reciprocated? I understand at this point it’s a lot of alpha but even after the starfish and with the resentful attitude she has I give comfort and attention. How though should I do it prior? I give attention and affection at time with OI. Love giving back/ foot rubs with nothing expected at time but where does it end if she seems to not have any attraction towards me? Hence me delving into the realm of…
/r/askMRP08/12/19 04:16 PM
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Why give her attention and comfort (beta) when I don’t get shit back? She initiates absolutely no attention or affection. When I have ghosted her lately such as logistics only she’ll eventually show some reaction seeking attention. Then I’ll cave and reciprocate and initiate and it’s the same ol starfish and resentment by her.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 03:54 PM
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No. Gone further down hill. For my part I’ve had set backs with some DLV such as mate guarding and neediness. Which was part of the whole crash and burn or the aftermath. I see now of course that I was doing everything for her and doing the dancing monkey. Hence when the good times started to wane I became a little bitch. Now? I have to be able to truly be ok without her in my life. If she comes around again great but either way I continue to increase my SMV.
/r/askMRP08/12/19 03:45 PM
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Are you thinking she is needing comfort more so because she is or isn’t ovulating? Just curious. It’s something that’s a bit foreign to me. Pre red pill or if I had found it earlier I would’ve got fixed. I had the chance but blew it when I was beta boy. Anyways any advice is greatly appreciated brother.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 04:42 AM
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Who knows. For all I know she could be ovulating. Never see any signs. So I just feel her out. Hormonally it’s hard to tell with her.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 04:29 AM
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Yea was going to take it easy. Not over do it and see how she responds and definitely not DEER and really just keep the words on my end to a minimum. About the cycle, she is on the vaginal implant and doesn’t get her period or really just light. So no. Since swallowing the pill I’ve assumed she just doesn’t get or I can’t track it. Fuck I hope I’ve not missed this shit. But have no idea how I would even track.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 04:14 AM
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I get the 5 “I’s”. I’m getting better noticing these comfort tests of sorts. I’m getting the feeling down the line aways as my SMV and dread increase I could see some full blown comfort tests.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 03:50 AM
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That’s what I’m going to do. Good advise. What should I say? How much comfort? A hug and kiss on forehead? Shit I’m over thinking this. But these shitty comfort tests are getting more frequent.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 03:37 AM
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That’s what I’m thinking. Getting better at seeing it. So a little comfort when I see her in the morning? Maybe hold her a bit if she’s receptive and maybe a “Hey babe” and a kiss on the forehead?
/r/askMRP30/09/19 03:35 AM
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Yes that what I always read to say right? So don’t placate and say in the morning “Hey babe. You doing better? Am not seeing the forest for trees and scared of her reaction? I know coming off the shitty comfort test and her threatening to leave seems like I need to give comfort but not say sorry. Fuck I sound like a pussy.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 01:52 AM
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Yea definitely me. Always has been. And she would’ve been even more into it earlier in our marriage. Unfortunately with her age I understand that time is almost at a end for the fun times. I found the red pill too late for this marriage. We’ll see what the future holds.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 11:43 AM
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The anger is still there. I can’t lie. I know she is about through. Peri menopause and all. What could’ve been if I had know early in my life what I know now. Still angry. But, true can I be happy with my wife when she basically become uninterested in sex? Life is too short I know that. We’ll see.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 11:37 AM
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Did exactly that this evening. From a strong frame because I wanted to. Got an apology immediately. Moved on. Reset tomorrow and keep on keeping on being awesome.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 02:41 AM
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Exactly. Great advice and I see everything clearly now. In fact, I did that exactly. I gave her some comfort and words this evening from a calm frame. And immediately got a sincere apology which I of course accepted. Yours and everyone else’s advise is golden. Much appreciated.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 02:36 AM
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Fair
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:29 PM
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I hear ya and have pondered this a lot. You are spot on with how i might never change because all she has ever known me as was her beta boy. She may never come around. NOW she seems to be resisting the new me even after a taste of alpha. Makes sense because she loses her control.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:28 PM
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That’s good advise. I see the shitty comfort test aspect. She was sooo worked up and pissed that I basically ignored. But it will come again and I’ll use that. It makes sense. It’s been ALL alpha and no beta. I’ve foolishly been believing that is what I must continue with.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:24 PM
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Make sense. The IDGAF attitude is so pervasive I’m looking at her as just someone I can’t show “beta” emotions to. From a strong frame I know that is ok. And in my situation I think I need to pull back and “do my own thing” but let her know that I care and show her that I’m not a fucking robot.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:17 PM
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That is exactly whats going on. I need to slow my roll.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:14 PM
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That is exactly it! I feel like if I step off the gas and go back to giving comfort things will explode. And it’s just the opposite. Actually I’m almost not sure how to give this comfort. I believe I just can’t be scared to show some beta but from my frame and I’m good. There is a difference.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:13 PM
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