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So, your body gets ruined by pregnancy? You lose the one thing your SMV depends on if you knock up a girl? You become basically untouchable by the opposite sex because you now have to work 2 jobs and raise a child that courts forced full custody on to you? Nah, most guys get to live life and only have to babysit every other weekend, yeah, most guys pay child support. I would gladly pay child support to only have to be a babysitter every other weekend and still have time to myself... For some rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 03:21 AM
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I can't really conclude anything about this... But, how is your sleep hygiene? When I had sleeping difficulties, improving my sleep hygiene was imperative for helping me, it might be something for you to look into to see if it helps you at all. Are you suffering insomnia as part of anxiety? If so, do you have good coping strategies of when you become anxious? Would you consider therapy? I think RP is moderately against therapy (well, definitely against marriage counseling because well... feminis…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 03:06 AM
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This... Makes me sad, simply trying to be nice and thoughtful isn't that bad ladies... Yeah, sometimes it's hard when you're having a rough time of things (God knows I've been bitchy for the past 2 weeks, fuck 14 hour days 7 days a week, I just want a single second to myself...) but there's nothing wrong with doing random nice things for your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 02:20 AM
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Sorry, but I don't want to get married. I want a non-legally binding lifetime partnership symbolized with a $500 moissanite ring that I would likely wear on a thin chain necklace so I wouldn't end up de-gloving my finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 02:56 AM
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My mother is the very definition of Narcissists Personality Disorder. She is the most toxic person in my life, she goes out of her way to make those around her suffer and then plays it off as if she's the victim. My father is definitely her BB, he makes the money but she controls everything. All the land he inherited through his family is legally in her name, so he can't divorce her without losing everything. In my household getting knives thrown past your head was the normal, I was forced to sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:46 AM
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Small town girl, raised on the farm, still live on a farm, I'm a moderate doomsday prepper (I just like having the knowledge of how to live out in the wilderness without society in case something doomsday-ish does happen and I need to be able to to survive). I think finger nail polish and full face makeup are the most pointless things in the universe. I recently got really into BWF and flexibility, because I think parkour looks cool and it might up my survival chances in case society does happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 11:42 PM
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You don't know a single woman who would get mad at her boyfriend for being mad at them for eating dinner without them after a 16 hour work day? Really? When I get home from an exceptionally long day, the last thing I want to deal with is an angry SO. Getting home and immediately walking into an unexpected fight would bother most people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 11:26 PM
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And neither do I. Extreme lack of sleep and stress tend to affect most people's ability to behave rationally. Less than week prior to this my "big bitch mare" somehow broke her leg in her stall, had to be euthanized, and I had to drag her body out of the barn with my tractor, it's a little upsetting to have to do that do an animal you've been caring for for years and it definitely impacted me deeply and emotionally. So, I'm already emotionally disheveled, coming off of a 16 hr work day with 3 ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 11:20 PM
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Thank you! Jeezus H Christ, most men out there won't know how to get you off anyways so what's the point of sleeping with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 11:04 PM
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Honestly? Because they know how to defuse the bomb. My bf (closing in on 2 years now) deals with my high tension crazy moments (I guess they're shit tests of some form that I haven't noticed yet) in the best way possible. I've had an absolutely emotional and stressful week, worst week of my life. On Saturday it came to a head, he really has done nothing wrong, he's been wonderful, but he got irritated by me not answering my phone because he was waiting onn me to get home so he could make sure I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 04:46 AM
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Or maybe it's that having children is extremely draining, life- altering, and stressful? There is literally no more value in children then there is in a dog, it's something you get to clean up after and care for and some people like that. I like my dogs, they're adorable, but way easier to care for than an infant. But either way, they drain your money, energy, and time and they will never ever pay you back. You will get zero return on your investment, you will age faster, you will be seriously s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 06:55 PM
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I must have mis typed something up there, I don't think of it as sexual harassment, just old guys having some fun ribbing a young woman and making a game out of trying to get her to blush. In my opinion sexual harassment is only sexual harassment if it makes the woman feel legitimately unsafe. I do know women who would jump all over what these men say and cry "sexual harassment!" Despite the fact that while obnoxious, they're harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 03:52 AM
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It definitely sounds like you aren't selfish. But don't forget that there are a multitude of men out there who are. A woman isn't going to be motivated to try and maintain a porn- level sex life if the sex life is shit for her either way. A woman isn't going to drop to her knees to blow a guy if there's never even a hint of reciprocation. Sex typically stops whenever the guy is done, guy comes, it's all over with whether she got anything out of it or not; in that respect guys get more consistent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 10:07 PM
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I think I could be one of the few women who could legitimately claim I get "sexually harassed" on a nearly daily basis. I live in a super small town, we have one gas station and that's it. No grocery store, no bar, I think there's a church somewhere nearby... But yeah, super small town. As an addict of caffeine and nicotine, I drive to the gas station almost daily to grab an energy drink or pack of smokes. (I know I need to quit, I don't even like smoking anymore, I have no excuses, it just take…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 03:33 PM
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Sex is like pizza, of course the world's best pizza is going to be fucking fantastic. But that doesn't mean all the other pizza is any less delicious. Even some of the worst pizza is still satisfying. TL;DR: I like pizza, and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 12:46 AM
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And that's one of the great things about attraction, it's not universal, there are key factors that are generally attractive across the board but every person has quirks that they prefer over others. Example, as a straight female I don't find a damned thing about Chris who plays Thor attractive. I kinda like his face but the whole picture does less than nothing for me. If I guy like that hit on me I would feel uncomfortable through no fault of the man's, just not my cup of tea
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:54 PM
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Because people generally don't feel sympathy for men? Isn't that like... an RP belief in and of itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 08:33 PM
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My scale doesn't work on what percentage the population falls under. 1 is DEAR GOD BURN IT WITH FIRE and 10 is basically perfect (in my opinion that's Mila Kunis. Like damn. I've never met a 1 before, and Mila is the only person I'd list as a 10. 5 is not pretty but not ugly either. No most women I know fall somewhere in the 4-6 range, but I would say at least 50% of the people I know are definitely more attractive than or on par with Taylor Swift. I think she's a perfect example of average, Car…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:47 PM
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I think Taylor Swift looks weasel-y her eyes are too squinty, and her chin is super pointy as well as her nose. To me, she isn't really attractive at all, but she isn't exactly ugly so a 5. Carrie Underwood has a nice girl-next-door vibe, but her face is a bit too rounded, eyes a smidgen too far apart, overall a very average appearance. Anne Hathaway has a better balanced face than either of them, she's cute but not really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:00 PM
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Is Rebel Wilson Fat Amy from fucking Pitch Perfect? IT ISS, I'd say she's a perfect 3, not attractive but there are definitely worse out there. Another 3: Amy Poehler http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0688132/?ref_=nmmd_md_nm 4: Tina Fey http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0275486/?ref_=fn_al_nm_1 Taylor Swift and/or Gretchen Wilson and/or Carrie Underwood. A lot of country singers fall into the 5-6 range. (Yeah, Taylor Swift is pop now but she was kinda country at first. Okay cute, but not hot... famous person…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:25 PM
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Beta comfort is the bane of my existence. Or the Coolidge effect... or whatever it is in a man's brain that makes him treat you like porcelain in the bedroom. (Not a man so idk) Nothing makes me actively want to be a bitch like having to pull my own hair... Can't there be a guy who will cuddle you, make you feel safe and cozy in most of your life (solid commitment, he loves you, he'll mostly look out for you, etc) but be perfectly happy to wrap his hands around your throat and just... ya'know. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 03:54 AM
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Enough alpha for the tingles, enough beta for the commitment and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 03:15 AM
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I'm not sure on the average, but I'm related to 2 couples who I think are on opposite ends of the spectrum. My parents got hitched after 6 months, 30- something years later, still going strong. My cousin got married after 9 years, divorced a 3 years later... Shit happens I guess, I think it's kinda backwards, but I did find a study that found zero correlation to how long a couple was together before getting married and how likely they were to divorce (or maybe it was the opposite correlation you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 06:03 PM
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That's where the introspection comes in, but we do blanket assume that she had fairly good judgement in picking out her captain. If it was something explosive and random like ,"He threatened me with a knife because so and so lost the big game" then well... yeah, you should GTFO. But most issues brought up are not of this nature. Most issues are brought up because (A) She was being a bitch or (B) She has a nice guy but he isn't really a "Captain" and she's trying to make him one. There are occasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 05:54 PM
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I think he's saying dread game makes the woman feel insecure, which would make her more needy and clingy and it would be exhausting to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 05:44 PM
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There's a difference between soft dread and hard dread. Soft dread I'm okay with because it just happens naturally. Like if we go to a bar and I have to go to the bathroom, I come back out and there's another woman chatting up my man, he's leaning against the bar, arms folded, body language closed, obviously this woman approached him and as I come up, he puts his arm around me, kisses me and introduces me to the bar skank who slinks away. That's soft dread, other women find him attractive and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 05:38 PM
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I've definitely seen posts where people recommend "nexting" your man. But it's not a sub to bitch about relationship problems, to come around and say "Oh, he was so mean and said such and such" then general consensus is that you probably did something to result in him saying that. Lots of tough love and criticizing our own behavior, analyzing ourselves and becoming better at being in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 05:14 PM
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Not badly enough to justify trying to burn him alive. He cheated on me... That's it... I handled it extremely poorly... I did some other things, but the attempted arson tops it. He had just inherited the house because his grandmother had died a month prior... I did have had some untreated mental issues at the time also which contributed to my behavior, a lot of my behavior, actually. I'm significantly less of a crazy bitch now, thankfully, and spent every day making sure I never fall back to bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:43 PM
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Or it screams court- ordered therapy for attempting to arson an ex's house... which is one of the many things that pepper my past. I think most people would agree that was a terrible decision, but also an interesting experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:35 PM
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They haven't banned men? And yes, we do say it's a bad idea to sleep around, but many of us weren't born redpill, we found it and decided it all seemed like a decent enough idea. Being Red Pill isn't about not having a past, it's about accepting the consequences of our past and working to better our futures (relationship wise). Having a past that's... Rather full of interesting experiences and horrible decisions, I know that it's within a man's rights to not want to commit to someone like me, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 06:33 PM
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TRP is not a neutral place, but I do believe it's a place where men are learning to overcome the "women are wonderful effect". For example, if you have water in a bucket at 5* but you want it to be 10* you're not going to add equal parts of water that's 10 degrees. Nope, you're going to want to add 15 degree water to even it out to 10. TRP is the space that's adding that 15 to help men even out to the 10*. It's a relatively extreme place, but that's my 2 cents on why it kinda needs to be. Edit: …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 05:41 PM
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You hit the nail on the head, Atlas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 04:17 PM
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As someone who grew up on a farm, I'm in compete agreement with you, men who work with their bodies are much more attractive to me then men who lift in the gym for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 03:12 PM
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Is BPD Bipolar Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder in regards to your post? Which one it is greatly influences my potential advice... For either one, stick with your therapist, weekly, learn coping skills Via CBT/DBT/ maybe even ACT if your therapist is familiar with the model. Journaling regularly will help you see patterns, once you find patterns you can use your coping skills to not be the crazy guys don't wanna stick their dick in. I saw mindfulness was already mentioned, and it's a …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 08:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 12:25 AM
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No, not the tingles, but it's a definite plus for long term security though. Alpha fun and beta bux. Money is not needed for tingles, but is definitely needed at some level for long term security
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 12:05 AM
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Not sure about this one. I expect an equal relationship. I don't plan on giving my all independently of whatever he is doing. He better be giving me his all as well. That doesn't mean I want a back rub for every back rub I give him. I just expect that we both do our best. To quote an old teacher of mine "you both should give 110% of your 50%". Agree that he should be faithful and I definitely don't wanna control or suffocate him! So... If he messed up one day you'd stop giving it your best? I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 11:07 PM
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The basic difference is the end goal; TRP goes more towards "how to get laid a lot" RPW is focused on obtaining a relationship and marriage. The ideology is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 08:44 PM
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Unless they had a keen interest in them... Kinda. Like I said, it seems to be more of a compatibility question. A more urban chic probably wouldn't care if the knew how to put up a tent, just like I don't care much for going out to fancy dinners. It's not that they're beneath me which "dating down" seems to suggest, they're simply not a good match for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 06:05 PM
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(1) Ok (2) Not OK (3) Not OK same for (4) and (5) (6) OK (7) OK (8) Not OK same for (9) and (10) (11) It's OK, the hippos will only love you based on the condition you provide for them anyways. They're hippos...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 06:35 AM
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Personally, those are high SMV skills. But they really might be more of compatibility questions. I'm moderately into survivalist techniques and doomsday preparation (gotta be ready for the zombies!! Or, ya' know... societal collapse). I just think it's a good idea to be able to survive if shit goes to hell. Since it's important to me I find those skills/ interests valuable in a man (perhaps even more valuable since they're stronger than I am and could protect me from other men). I would "date do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 06:18 AM
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So... off topic, but am I just really really really bad at telling ages? I swear your post says she's 23 but my brain is insisting she's nearly 30 based upon her pics... what??? Am I the only one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 03:43 AM
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Well, I was going to post something but you put it so well there's really no need :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 03:05 AM
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A day late, but yes. Yes to 1) and yes to (2). It's (2) that I find more interesting. It's true, but I think it's a subconscious thing among women (including myself) When I first met my SO I distinctly remember thinking "he could be fun as a fling, maybe a solid FWB situation, but I could never date him." I found his raw masculinity extremely attractive with plenty of tingles, and that alone was enough for me to think he wasn't relationship material, not the kind of guy you settle down with. As …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 01:03 AM
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So... Can I answer these? How many sports did you play? Anything from 5 year old soccer to letter athlete in high school? Everything from 5 year old soccer to a lettered athlete in high school, cross- country and track my senior year, continued running in college, still compete in triathlons, mud runs, and competitively ride horses. Were you in boy scouts? No... I'm a chick... Can you drive a manual transmission car? Yes Have you ever had to pop start a car? Yes Have the pipes in your house free…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 12:42 AM
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You should go ask /r/fatpeoplehate... Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 11:57 PM
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Someone I can respect/ someone who is obviously more masculine than I am. That for me is the first base of if I wish to continue "vetting" him out. Typically I come across as very masculine/ aggressive in day to day interactions (definitely making improvements) but I run a barn and break horses, buy/resell horses for a living. So 90% of the time, I'm covered in mud,manure, filth, and sweat. My hands are callused, I work physically hard and it's important to me that my man also works hard in the …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 11:25 PM
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Thanks for that, my first instinct is to get bitchy with people because I find it so disrespectful to him. Since I'm making a concerted effort to not be like that anymore I appreciate all of these nicer ways to say it :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 10:28 PM
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That's a good way of putting it. I honestly had no idea about his history, but when we became involved he sat me down and told me all about it because he knew (especially since we live in a small town, rural area) I would get told things about him and he wanted me to know the truth from him rather than hearing stories from someone else. Small towns are super gossipy because everyone gets bored with their own lives I guess...
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 10:26 PM
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I really do think that's why they're all so persistent. It's the dream of finding a "fixer upper" and coming out ahead.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 10:22 PM
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I think the sidebar under Introductions the link "Explaining the RPW sub" covers this pretty well. I'm super new here, so I can't give you a great answer to this question. It's something I'm still a bit unsure myself. This sub is very self- improvement based and that's something that drew me to it. I think when over at TRP they discuss how women shouldn't expect men to pay for the dinner bill, they're mostly referring to female entitlement. I'm don't venture over there so I won't pretend to know…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 07:51 PM
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I'm especially hung up over possibly ruining a few opportunities with great men due to past bad behavior like neediness :( Do you mean you were needy in past relationships and you're afraid they will talk to your exes and they'll say "whoa, you don't wanna date herm she's super needy."? If that's the case, it's fully out of your control. Just take a deep breath, accept that you made some mistakes, your past is not without consequences. Focus on NOT being that girl again, focus on being the bette…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 06:00 PM
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Asking the important questions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 02:53 PM
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You are a plate. It's time to move on in no uncertain terms. It's best to express your desire for a relationship early on in the dating time line, and don't have sex before you get a commitment. If he doesn't want a commitment and still pushes for sex it's time to 'next' him. Doing otherwise is a waste of your time, so respect yourself and your time and move on. I'd say yes, just live your life and if he comes back tell him you're looking for something more serious and if he doesn't want that wi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 02:36 PM
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Do we ban the troll? I'm almost afraid it would get too quiet around here without HSW to stir the pot a bit... But she is a troll... Eh, I'm sure if we banned her she'd just grab another name and come back, so why not? There's also the possibility that HSW isn't really a real person, could just be an invented online persona, then again anyone could be... I guess I fall onto the "don't ban" her side simply because she does contribute a lot, trolling or not, and because I don't doubt that she'd co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:46 PM
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So... What were these extremely high standards? Generally curious, I had a good friend who also had freakishly high standards, but she was alpa widowed, was a solid 5 soft 6 herself, but damn she wanted perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 08:03 PM
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Thank you for this post. This has always bugged me, it always seemed counter- intuitive. You love him so much you don't want to be attractive for him any more? You love him so much you don't care about your body anymore? What??? I'm new here to RPW and I wouldn't consider myself a RPW yet, but I'm working on it. I'm starting with the physical changes and habits because they're the easiest things to improve over my more masculine and aggressive mind frame. But I find "playing dress- up" helps me …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/15 04:11 PM
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When put like that, yes, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 02:53 PM
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The way I see it, the person who denies the sexual advances of the other becomes the gatekeeper of sex. I believe my question was in the confines of a monogamous LTR who becomes the gatekeeper of sex? I see now that it isn't truely correlary to individual sex drives, but it can give the impression to the women who begin getting turned down by their men that they (the woman) has the higher sex drive in the relationship. When I first posted this thread I was coming from a faulty point of view, I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:11 AM
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Yeah, often time reversing advise can be tricky and as a man you're better able to advise other men, someone else also recommended the MMLS thing and I plan on looking into it. You RPers get such a bad rep on reddit, but honestly I think you guys hit the nail on the head more often than not. Thanks for the conversation :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:21 PM
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Woah, woah, woah I had no idea they equivocated posting nude pics and violent rape. I think RD and BP can agree that there is a huge difference there. Yeah, revenge porn is a pretty shitty thing to post but nowhere near violent rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:10 PM
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The deadbedroom community wouldn't like me very much, I still have daily sex, maybe a day here or there without but typically daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:57 PM
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Thanks for the resources! I honestly wasn't expecting to learn so much from this thread, I figured there would be more mindless squabbling than anything. I'm glad to see how informative this community can be :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:50 PM
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That video is hilarious!! And it definitely makes a point...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:47 PM
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No need to be so aggressive and accusatory. My experience is what it is, no, it doesn't negate science, obviously. I know and understand the role of testosterone in sex drive, but that can apparently be negated by the Coolidge effect in strictly monogamous long term relationships where in the male loses interest in his female companion. This can cause the appearance of a lower sex drive when it's instead a loss of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:39 PM
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To be fair I don't know any female hooked either...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:28 PM
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Thank you for the information and advice. I will definitely be looking into those forums. And I've always thought guys liked getting girls off? Like, they brag about that type of stuff don't they? Locker room talk and what not. Wouldn't whipping out my vibe during be insulting to his masculinity, almost like saying "you're not man enough for me"? I guess I've always assumed men thought of vibrator in a similar vein to how many women view pornography, as an insult to their attractiveness and sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:25 PM
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Sorry to derail this, but what the heck is "social calendaring"? I've seen it posted several times, and just can't wrap my head around what it actually is...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 09:34 PM
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That makes me sad :( Is... is my sex life just going to be over? Once the coolidge effect takes place is it just done for? Why the heck are humans monogamous creatures if the male is designed to lose interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 02:42 PM
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That... Is an excellent post. My libido is mostly responsive,but very easily triggered, I've turned down sex with my partner once in the 2 years we've been going at it and that was on grounds that I had the flu and had been very ill all day. However, he has turned down sex with me dozens of times an even gotten angry with me for persisting. Therefore I basically never initiate sex because I can't handle that much rejection without a very strong, negative emotional reaction. But I do get horny fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 02:18 PM
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Oohh, I love fitness! It's a great way to stay trim and bond with your SO, for what it's worth I still wear the same jeans I did in High school. Physical attraction is vastly underrated in this area, everybody is so afraid of hurting the others feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 03:35 AM
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True, low or fluctuating libido people can still want kinky sex. I'm talking the least amount I'very ever actively wanted sex is once a day, that's when I'm at a "low point" in my natural fluctuations. Most I've gone without while in a relationship was 6 days, luckily I have a vibrator, mastrubated 3 times a day... like, sex is an active requirement for my relationships, 2 weeks without and it's over, no ifs ands or buts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 12:11 AM
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Then, would it stand to reason that women with unusually high sex drives might have higher testosterone levels than average women? My main confusion is if it's scientifically proven then where are these guys at? Why isn't it across the board true in real world experience? Why don't these high libido women have more masculine features (darker or thicker facial hair, for example) if more testosterone = higher libido cut and dry? There has to be something we (as a whole species) are missing to this…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 12:00 AM
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That was a very interesting read! It really is a broad, complex subject that is difficult to study
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:52 PM
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More consistent and constant that what? I mean, they tend to start off strong, first couple months are great, then... idk, it's like they get comfortable in the relationship and stop trying. What was once super awesome, kinky sex turns into less variety, less satisfying, and less frequent sex. I always end up being the more aggressive and pushing partner and it bothers me greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:31 PM
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I'm asking mostly for others personal experiences, in your relationships has the man or woman been the gatekeeper of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:25 PM
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