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Rant/VentingWaldenWit/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:24 AM
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WaldenWit/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:39 AM
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I don't like that she didn't ask, but you have a point. I hate that half-ass, " you can come too if you like..." especially after the fact. I know you're looking for an answer here to tell you what to do, but you're your own, man - you have to do what feels right. Sometimes people think that when they go on vacation they have a free pass to flirt - and they usually do flirt - and ofcourse in a different country, this leads to some BS that you would regret if you were ever in a relationship. Poin…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:32 AM
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Agreed. that's why i'm here...
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:37 AM
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I like that. You have a good point dude. Thank you for your input - it's constructive, and I knew it...but needed to hear it . thanks man
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:15 AM
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I understand what you're saying. Thank you. I'm here so I can learn the techniques of repairing myself. I must!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:44 AM
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Not married, yet. And the split...that's not going to happen chief. I want to be married - it's a goal of mine. Not yours, that's cool, I respect that. I'm not cutting and running - I want to improve myself and be a better man.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:43 AM
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Harsh again, but true. I have become pussywhipped...and I have myself to blame for not holding frame. Thank you for your input dude
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:40 AM
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Harsh but, it's true. I am playing the blame game and really I have to blame myself. But I don't want to go down the path of self-pity, that's why I came here, to gain perspective and LEARN. I do appreciate your input though. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:39 AM
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Or maybe I'm getting lazy and complacent. Thank you for your reply though, it does add to the narrative of what I have to do
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:38 AM
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I felt that way too...the Toxic relationship thing. Shit-tests are where i'm off to study now. Thank you for your time
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:37 AM
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I should specify - we do have our sexytime - but I feel like at this rate, if something doesn't change it WILL start to stagnate. WE're both in good shape, I could always be in better shape.... Like I said, i'm a catch and she knows it. Perhaps I lost sight of that, and let the confidence slip...thanks for your input man
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:36 AM
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I feel you man - thank you for saying what I needed to hear outside of hearing it only in my head. I will stand my ground, because I have definitely lost my footing -thank you.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:33 AM
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I have brotha - I keep reading the "don't be afraid to lose her." I think that will have a better psychological effect - which will benefit me. Maybe it's the parental issues I had...parents walking out and shit... thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:33 AM
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I do see this now. I have always thought this - and it's actually reassuring to see someone else notice outside of my own mind. I've lost the "me time" that I coveted for so long. All in replacement for her and her life.....it's myself to blame - you bring a good point!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:32 AM
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Thank you - you're right. hold my ground - need to start that up again over the things that matter the most
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:30 AM
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Thanks a lot dude. I will give it a read. I feel ya - my mom was the same...
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:30 AM
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Hey man. Thanks a lot. You're right. The sense of self is lost... I have saved it, and I appreciate your time
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:29 AM
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That's the thing man. I feel like if I change too much she'll "clock out" and just become stubborn in her "new her". Maybe i'm being paranoid. I want to love her and be affectionate (used to love that she was appreciative of that before - now it feels like i'm spoiling her without any of the return). My first instinct is to shower her with love and not ask questions about receiving it - but I can't. It'll eat at me how unfair it will be. Maybe I know that I need to be more stern - which isn't to…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:48 AM
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