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| 3 | Argument with a radical feministRage bait. | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 04:53 PM |
| 195 | American dating advice is useless in europeCold approach works in Europe but you'd have to initiate actual conversation. Pick up lines and corny attitude are an American thing. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 04:37 PM |
| 7 | How to avoid the friend zoneIt happened to me a lot in highschool. The solution to it is to be more frank about your intentions from the beginning, and if they reject you, you leave. Easy to deal with for both parties. It also allows you to work on yourself and your approach without spending 7 months being hung up on one single person. That's literally all there's to it. Anyone that tries to redefine what is the friendzone, tell you it does not exist, or make a hypothetical plan on how to get out of it, is wasting your tim… | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Where do horny women go when they want to find a man to sleep with?Misandry. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 07:42 AM |
| 3 | I'm tired of Women and their lower brain capacityThis is a rage bait , guys. Just downvote and move on. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Why does sex always last 1hour+?As a guy who tried that kinda of shit when I was inexperienced and trying to impress, it really not enjoyable for that long. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 09:50 PM |
| 4 | What is your opinion on the video? (It seems to not be pulling in as much views as she'd usually get.).Without even watching the video, I suspect it would be a classic motte and bailey argument, which is majority of this gender war slop going on. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | “Rape is not a women’s issue, it’s a men’s issue” What do we think of this?I'm not sure what argument are you trying to make here. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/25 09:54 AM |
| 5 | How do you handle being cockblocked by a girl’s fat/unattractive friend?Your whole post is basically a begging the question fallacy. My honest advice is to simply move on when that happens. This simply one of the situations where guys delude themselves into thinking that they would have scored with that 10/10, if it weren't for those meddling fatties! 1) it could seem to you that you are hitting it off, but she's actually uncomfortable and just good at hiding it. 2) it's not always the unattractive friend. 4) not every guy reports this. I know guys who can approach … | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | If you are asking out a girl who is your friend for let’s say coffee, should you explicitly mention it’s a date or nah?Good luck. I don't have advice for that, but my 2 cents is next time, don't wait until you're friends with a girl to ask her out. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Best answer to "I would date someone like you"?In my experience, they always say that to try to fuck with your head. Some girls are just like that. My advice? Treat it like an awkward compliment and don't overthink it. Call it out if she repeats it. Put your energy into finding someone who will actually date you. | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 03:53 PM |
| 14 | Friend's ex wife is crazy for meI find it funny that he said "I wouldn't hesitate" after already having sex with her lol. Honestly tho, I feel like this post is a fake fantasy. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:07 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?And using a line will just make you look real fucking dumb. This is not a TV show. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:57 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?I think they are saying they've got this one drink and are not gonna drink further, which is why they don't have an open tab. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:53 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?Never utter this shit in real life. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:48 AM |
| 0 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU makeI'm not doubting you but I get the feeling that this will backfire. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 06:43 AM |
| 11 | Stop entertaining drynessTrust me, girls absolutely know what they are doing when they are squeezing you for attention. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 06:07 AM |
| 24 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.I'm not saying you are entirely wrong. I mostly agree with your premise. Here's what I'm saying: baddies know that they're baddies and got options. They will remind you of that fact the moment things aren't going well, and it usually gets ugly. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:33 PM |
| 26 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.Just give it time. The attitude will be back. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Hitting Girls at the gym?In my opinion, unless the conversation starts spontaneously it's always gonna be awkward. Because what are you gonna do, just hover around until she finishes her sets ? How many girls are you gonna try this with before you become "that guy"? | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 10:49 AM |
| 4 | Old School Tip: The hand test & determining the perfect time to kiss.you should check socialskills. | /r/seduction | 16/04/23 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Dont take seduction adivse from womenPeople are bad at introspection. Women shouldn't get seduction advice from men either. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDMost of them are not tho. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:32 AM |
| 7 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedIn high school, maybe. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Should fathers teach sons how to improve their "game"Lost his virginity at 12? What did his dad tell him, go and ask your 12 years friend to have sex with you? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessthat's a horrendous level of down bad. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:48 AM |
| 5 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.if you say that's incorrect then I'd believe you are being ignorant. Nice discussion lmao. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend slept with my friendI'm sure this works to some extent but it's not necessary. What gets your friend laid is how good his game is during the dates with those women. If you suck, doesn't matter if you are posting documentaries. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend slept with my friendNo, he showed him that if you don't like your friend fucking your girl, don't give him the green light to fuck her. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:11 PM |
| 6 | My girlfriend slept with my friendOP overplayed his hand here haha. He thought she'd stick around no matter what. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:07 PM |
| 0 | Hotter girls are easierThis a sub to help guys get laid, what do you want. socialskills is the sub you are looking for, where they give copium. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach actually works.That's crazy. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.“I love the excitement in your eyes when you talk about your interests, and it makes me want to kiss you…may I?”. lmao. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 2 | "I'm not that kind of guy"Haha I'm rewatching the show and couldn't help but think how Ross doesn't help himself at all. It's alright to be emotionally available, in fact, it's the right thing to do if you want to be in a healthy relationship, but being too available for someone you've just met has the counter effect. I was like Ross growing up and it didn't help me at all. If you want, read these two books and they will change your outlook on stuff: No more Mr nice guy by R. Glover and Models by M. Manson. They helped m… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not that kind of guy"Don't be Ross. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Girl ignored me on our date.I don't know why you are downvoted, this is the way to do it. Unless you are well off financially and doesn't hurt your pocket, always go for a no pressure first date. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | I got a guy’s number!!!She's just over the moon because of this. I thought it was adorable. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:37 AM |
| 4 | Unpopular opinion: I would rather have honest closure than a vague easy let downSounds like you need to stop being hung up on rejections. Every girl will have different reason for rejecting you, and you won't be able to please everyone. Especially if the reason they give you is something you can't control. In that case, it would just destroy your self esteem. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Trying to get a guys attentionYou've idealized him. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | A stranger I met gave the perfect analogy on how to attract women: "Women are like fish. Make a net. A strong one. As good as you can make it. She'll swim until she becomes curious, and once she's caught in your embrace, she's all yours."OP came up with this analogy. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Camgirl wants to meet upWhat do you find misogynistic about this sub? | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:51 AM |
| 8 | Camgirl wants to meet upJust don't let her empty your wallet. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Constantly asking girl out for dinner but no further result.You do you. A first date is just to get to know each other. It should put no pressure on either side. And if I just met you, I'm under no obligation to care what u have in your stomach. I ain't your dad. Stop quoting me the gold digger manifesto. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Constantly asking girl out for dinner but no further result.Happy for the ones that dodged this bullet. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 4 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.Ugly people don't date, apparently. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]He did nothing wrong. You should not be an orbiter. If you want to be friends with a girl, do it because you want to be friends. Don't put yourself in a position in which you have to wait for her to bestow her pussy upon you. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 07:56 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]She tried to guilt trip you. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?People are bad at introspection. That's about it. Men give women bad dating advice, too. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/I generally text them "Hey this is Oualid, it was nice meeting you! Here's my number. I'm gonna text you later when I'm free" Then I text two days later or something. Generally works. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Can you just approach women anywhere?Get off Twitter, man. And no, im brown (from north Africa). | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Can you just approach women anywhere?That's just some weird rationalisation you tell yourself. First, not nearly every woman of every race prefers white. Second, white men can still be seen creepy/thug/criminal. Third, white men struggle with dating as well. Dating is the last thing I'd expect someone might be worrying the white man is beating him at. (and no, I'm not white) | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Can you just approach women anywhere?why bring race into tho? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with rejection?First, it seems to me that you only try to hit on girls after you get to know them for a while. You friendzone yourself. I never hit on friends in my close cercle because it's high risk and it just makes things awkward. Only move if she's the one initiating. Second, rejection stings, I know. But it's better than being lead on. Rejection means you won't waste your time and you can move to other things. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I assume this is /s. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | [Question] How to deal with "White Knights"?In retrospect, I should've possibly responded by saying, "Yes, you." Never do that. When the situation can be diffused in a peaceful manner, go for the peaceful manner. She picked you over her friend by telling him to back off. Me thinks you should have stayed with her, but hey, you lost nothing. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 10:29 AM |
| 136 | Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?Dude even asked on askreddit lmao. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out for valentines day and she said she was flattered but would have to "consider..." Move on, right?That's why I said if she had a valid raison then you might give her the benefit of the doubt. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Asked a girl out for valentines day and she said she was flattered but would have to "consider..." Move on, right?Consider what exactly? I met my girlfriend around exams periods and she said she couldn't go on a date because of that. She asked me to keep in touch and go out after we finish exams. I would text her every weekend for a little chat for about a month and then we went out. If she didnt give u an actual reason why then it's a no. Move on. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 10:26 AM |
| 14 | Let’s talk about flirting in a sexual wayThere's truth to it. Men can give bad advice to women too. People are just bad at introspection. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :You could have responded any other way and would have probably came out on top. Why did you choose this? | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 08:57 AM |
| 3 | What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve gotten on this sub?Women give "feels good advice" when it comes to dating. It goes the other way around, too. People are simply bad at introspection. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 3 | This is a friendly reminder that you should start a skincare routine if you don't have oneTry looking here. My friend buys his shit from them. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | 19 year old with no game and shy( need advice)That's mostly just your anxious brain talking. And even if they feel like that, so what? Someone thinks badly of you, that's their problem. You are fairly popular and a good dancer. That tells me you at least have some social game and are confident in yourself. Flirting with girls is just another level of social interaction, so you'll get there with enough practice. I personally suck at flirting so I prefer to be more direct. Can't help with you that. Dancing is great, have you tried using that … | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | 19 year old with no game and shy( need advice)How are you with other social aspects? | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 09:06 AM |
| 12 | Subtle touch, flirting, teasing (not negging), and eye contact are key to being viewed as a romantic interest, not a platonic friendI guess a lot of guys miss is that game is just another level of the social game, if you are not comfortable in a social setting, chances are you'll suck at getting girls. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 08:39 PM |
| 16 | Subtle touch, flirting, teasing (not negging), and eye contact are key to being viewed as a romantic interest, not a platonic friendI'm very bad with flirting/teasing with a girl that i've just met, I'm always very direct haha. My girlfriend told me that during our first date she liked my humour and story telling. I don't think I even flirted with her apart from telling her that she looked great and that her eyes are beautiful lol. for the touching part, you guys can do the kiss with the cheeks like they do here in Europe, but I'm not sure if it's accepted in the US. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends?I have horrible text game, how does a convo get sexy? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 35 | Stop getting ahead of yourselfA lot of guys imagine their entire marriage with a girl before even asking her on a date. Was guilty of that when I was a teen. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold ApproachAlmost all my friends who can't even imagine starting a convo with a random girl can't start a convo with any random person for that matter. If you want to be good at talking with women, you need to be able to talk to anyone. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold ApproachGenerally, people who have approach anxiety have anxiety in most social situations. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Any older female virgins (>25)? How do you get over it?The girl I'm currently seeing is extremely shy but I didn't mind it cuz I was socially awkward too at some point. I find it adorable still. You'll get there. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.The suppressed giggle means she got something back then that she doesn’t think OP can give her, Reading too much into it. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 01:53 PM |
| 12 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?Stop overthinking it and go for it. She's at your house. It's already established that you aren't there to recite the bible. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to explain I'm unavailable to new gfI'm actually interested in how the exchange went haha. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Fuck the game/u/TerminatorReborn is still correct I reckon. If she thinks you are attractive, it doesn't matter what you say to her (unless you can't string two proper sentences together). I do agree that just telling her that she's beautiful off the bat is bad form. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 12 | Smoothest rejection I’ve ever had, we both got a laugh outta itFeels nice. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 12:29 PM |
| 11 | Women go for men who give signs of being a good dad for their young.I refuse to believe this is anything other than a joke. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 08:42 PM |
| 3 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetMirroring I think mirroring is trying to mimic her mouvements. If she leans back, you lean back, that sort of thing. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:19 PM |
| -3 | A guy at work always steers our conservation towards sexWhat I'm trying to say is that by doing this you either come off as a tad creepy or you succeed. Depends on your target. I don't give a shit about this dude in particular. | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | A guy at work always steers our conservation towards sexTalking about sex is fine, but steering every conversation towards it can be a bit uncomfortable for some, I guess. | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about screwing the neighbour.Dude she's 60 lmao. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 14 | A girls perspective on ‘nice guys’but most don't give a shit about your car, your house, your job.. Eh, they do. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you?Maybe try to be quick witted without offending people, then. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't know. I found it works better the other way. Usually I suggest a day I'm free on, and if she says she's busy that day I ask her what she's free on so I can see if it works for me. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 11:50 AM |
| 4 | when was the secret meeting?Your post reminded me of exactly this interview of Stephen Fry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGedFY6UHLo&t=76s I'm lucky to have watched this video when I was a teen because it made realize that I'm not alone in my feelings of being lost and left behind. Don't worry OP. | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you are wondering why you are getting downvoted, it's because this post would get raided by every professional virtue signaller on reddit had the roles being reversed. Thay being said, I don't find a problem with this, as long as there's no malice. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.clearly innit. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.This seems like a rationalisation. Surely, you can do both at the same time, no? | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.How is cold approach simping? | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:52 PM |
| 9 | Unprotected sexAlso would say personally I don’t believe if the roles were reversed any logical female would say it’s rape but the world keeps surprising me so fuck do I know 😩 You haven't been to some parts of reddit/twitter, then. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 05:38 AM |
| 11 | If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive?Just try switching your preference to bi on tinder. Some gay men don't even need your name before asking you to come over lol. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 10 | If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive?Women generally prefer men do the chasing. Note: I said generally. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 02:50 PM |
| 20 | It's about time you became the man women want you to bebeyond model hot- no lie, no ego | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 05:20 AM |
| 5 | So I think my sisters friend wants meThis his more red flags than a minesweeper. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 11:09 AM |
| 3 | How to get laid in collegeBecause "just put yourself out there" is a shite advice | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 40 | It's not that women prefer jerks, it's that they desire the underlying complementary characteristics that often go with being a jerk.Rom coms conditioned guys to behave like nice guys. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 06:13 PM |
| -7 | [deleted by user]You are reading too much into it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | DO NOT TAKE APPROACH ADVICE FROM SUBS LIKE r/askwomenReddit is also full of people with bad social skills that mistake themselves for being introverts. That's why you get the sort of advice that is basically "I don't want to be approached anywhere". Back to your topic. I agree. People are bad at introspection. That's why you get bad dating advice from women. You can even flip the situation and you'd get men giving bad dating advice to women. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 5 | Lifting....Changed everythingI think he's terrible for beginners. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 10:44 AM |
| 157 | [deleted by user]I'll say it. Just because few women can give you good advice on dating does not mean the majority don't give shite advice. It's just how it is and it goes both ways. Just go to any askreddit type sub where women ask men for advice, and you'll get insecure basement dwellers saying "personally, just breathe within 10 meters radius from me and it's enough". I'm not saying that women are incapable of complex thought, before some wet blanket goes there, I'm saying people are bad at introspection. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, stop watching dating advice, alpha male content and other crap like that. It’s making you second guess yourself and it’s ruining your confidenceWhat people mean when they say text for logistics is that you shouldn't overdo texting. Some guys would get a girl's number and they would take way long before they set up a date. Or after they set up the date, they keep texting in-between until the girl gets bored and flakes. If you already got the girl's number. You're in. Text for a couple of days before to create a rapport and then set up a date. What you could say via text is better said in person. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 3 | This girl rejected me three times and I still took her home that night.Of all the things that didn't happen, this didn't happen the most. | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.Women give shit advice to men about what you consider "real companionship" too. People in general are bad at introspection. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:46 PM |
| 317 | I love this subreddit, but i hate most of you.Just like everything else, take the good and leave the bad. Downvote what you see toxic behaviour. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | how to tell she is interested in being more than just friendsYou ask. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:18 AM |
| 8 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?You might need therapy. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 01:25 PM |
| 6 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Down bad. You will grow resentful towards her in the end. It will end badly. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | The hookI think the guy was just smug about it haha. | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:46 AM |
| 2 | How to flirt with plausible deniability?I don't see why would you want to do that. If they reject you, move to someone else. You don't have to stick around. | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:39 AM |
| 13 | Do you use dating apps? If so, how do you not allow them to crush your self esteem and drive you insane?Most girls use tinder right now as an ego boost. | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Texts back after a month??She's just bored. Move on. | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 10:34 AM |
| 8 | Okay so i have been texting this girl for 2 months and when i ask her out she just flaked outOn the bright side, you learned your lesson: these hoes ain't worth 2 months of texting. | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 10:20 AM |
| 13 | Stop asking her if she’ll go on a date with you, instead tell her she’ll LOVE the place your taking her to for your date.It's a woman you are replying to. Every post that is not copying some rom com movie trope gets assaulted by these types lmao. | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Stop asking her if she’ll go on a date with you, instead tell her she’ll LOVE the place your taking her to for your date.Wet blankets will take offense at the "make the decision for her" but if you read the post just a second time (since comprehension skills are not taught in school apparently) you'll get what he means. If you are playful about it, it'll work. It goes without saying that you need to have talked a bit before. | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 10:00 AM |
| 0 | Is it just me or for every dating advice there is an opposite advice?Bro it's simple just get a haircut and be chill I never seen anyone say that here. | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | A funny interaction I had with a guy at my gymSome poor souls are going to fall for this and lose $20. | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 18 | Cute girl from Tinder wouldn't stop talking on first dateI just had the opposite experience from you. I was talking to this girl and she told me she doesn't like small talk via text. I thought it was fine. During the date, it seemed like she doesn't like to talk at all lmao. Couldn't get a sentence out of her. One of the worst dates I had in my fucking life. | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 242 | How to stop pedestalizing women.Good advice, man. I've got a friend who started dating this girl and for the first two weeks he'd be giving her all the attention there is. I told him "dude, it's a bit too early for you to be that invested. She will drop you." and he scoffed at my advice. She dumped him quickly afterwards. inb4 this thread gets bombarded by women getting offended. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | An easy way to not lose your fucking mindI don't know about that. People like to be told they are pretty. Just be sincere about it. | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | I dropped the "only text to set up a date" rule and my results explodedYou are doing it the correct way. That's what people mean by using text to set up a date. Not too much texting, but not so little. | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 10:42 AM |
| 0 | How I Text WomenThis is sound advice. Don't get fooled by women getting butthurt in the comments. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Lacking sexual confidenceThe fuck is this BS. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Tip For Nerdy Intelligent GuysWell, you'll find plenty of foreign girls looking for romance in France. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Tip For Nerdy Intelligent GuysTry going to cafe shops that have a language exchange every weekend. You'll find plenty of girls there that you can strike a conversation with. Do you live in a big/medium city? | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Tip For Nerdy Intelligent GuysIf she doesn't know of any, say you're trying to expand your reading group of friends and ask for her number. Guy asks a girl number just to be friends. They hang out as friends. Some time later, he asks her on a date because he actually likes her. Gets rejected because they are just friends. Surprised pikachu face. | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | The number one trait you need to get laid.No reason to get defensive now is there. | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Why you are not attractive, and how to be it.Hoodies look awful on me. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.That's because advice by women on how to pick up women is almost always BS. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 1 | (Old FR) The time a girl LITERALLY chased after me for my number (and what I did)Cold approach is also impossible in France. Big difference in culture. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 20 | DON'T compliment their bodies or face, Compliment their STYLE.This guy gets it. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Is DMing girls on Instagram even worth it?Most messages get filtered if you do not follow each other. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 01:05 PM |
| 5 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemI guess. I don't plan to have kids myself so maybe that plays into it. I also don't like to have someone dependent on me. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemFair enough man. It's your life, even though I don't share the same mindset. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemI see where you are coming from, nothing wrong with that. But I'm not talking about attraction per se, I was just saying that I don't think men find have a problem with being in a relationship with successful women. Perhaps I misunderstood /u/TheOffice_Account comment. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 26 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemObviously, yes. I like being with a woman who is successful and has a direction in life, just like women want a man who is the same. The only thing I don't like about being with self proclaimed independent women is that some of them can't shut up about it. I already compete with other men about who has the biggest dick, I don't want to go home and do that with my partner. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 17 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemAre you suggesting that men don't like to be with successful women? | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemI can only imagine OP rewriting every sentence thrice so he wouldn't be lynched by a woke squad. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.That, and also by guys who read all the material on this sub, and think to themselves "aaah, i'm gonna fact check with my girl friends". | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 08:41 AM |
| 7 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.Interesting. What do you think about this post: https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/luz21b/im_tired_of_guys_who_say_they_just_want_to_be/ | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 5 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.so you fake being not interested in her vagina to get into her vagina? because that what you are saying. /u/PuroPincheGains is right. It's incredibly manipulative, and it will hurt both of you. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.I can't believe this post sits at 94% upvoted. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 10 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.Did you take that from a Netflix show? | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 10:46 AM |
| 14 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.Alright, but presenting yourself as a friend will get you a first class ticket to the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.You have the right mindset. True friendship with a girl can be really fulfilling. Keep the friends you have. OP's advice is really bad because it will turn you into a frustrated gremlin later on. When a woman thinks to herself "this guy seems like a decent guy and would be a good friend", there's no coming back from that. If you follow OP advice you will get a text message from that girl asking you what outfit she should wear for her date on Friday. "Should I wear something sexy or casual? what … | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 09:11 AM |
| 13 | Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.How to get in the friendzone 101. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 07:58 AM |
| 5 | Invited over to a girls house as a first date - do’s and don’ts?Make her sign an NDA. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Only use texting to set up a date.Chatting a bit is fine, but you should always move to meeting in person. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 38 | Only use texting to set up a date.Here's your answer: He gets girls on tinder, | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Blew it.We even had several 2+ hour conversations lasting until midnight. Don't do this until you are in a relationship with a girl. | /r/seduction | 03/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 30 | The key to BOUNDARIES!One thing I don't understand is this: Eventually took her home. Didn’t make a pass at her, made her feel completely comfortable. What do you mean? You had a date, took her home, and still didn't escalate? Why did you take her home then? She even wanted to show you "naked pictures" and you were still worried about making her uncomfortable. She was already comfortable enough. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | She's not the prize, and neither are youWhat didn't you understand? (not being sarcastic). | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 172 | She's not the prize, and neither are youThere should be no chase. There should just be asking out someone you find attractive and have fun with them. I agree with you, but that's not how the world works. Act accordingly. | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 5 | Alpha male MINDSETI think the internet has normalized people having anxiety problems so internalizing that ' things will turn out fine ' is now considered alpha now. I digress. If you like that definition of confidence, I suggest your read into stoicism. | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 03:06 PM |
| 13 | Alpha male MINDSETThe first five are not "alpha". It's just how any normal person behaves, really. Number 7 is good, but you'll find yourself asking for help from people, there's no shame in that. I agree with number 6 to the extent "don't over analyse what you say", but I hope people understand that it doesn't give them the right to have absolutely no filter, you can come off as an asshole. Don't mistake being an asshole for being "alpha". | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Women that “like sensitive guys?” Its a trap!I've noticed that there are different levels of "sensitivity" that each woman can tolerate in a man. I think you shared way too much lol. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 11:52 AM |
| 10 | Men who see women as human beings will find more success than men who see women as objects, and use them to impress others, or try to get a reputation as a 'player'. When you're humble about your skills, the game becomes a lot easier.Many studies prove that men with Dark Triad personality traits, i.e. psychopaths, are getting laid way more than an average man. Can you source this? But all in all, I agree with your point. The most important thing is not to put women in a pedestal and don't seek validation from them. This is not just with women, but with everyone. However, if you want a fulfilling relationship, it's better you treat as equal. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 10:14 AM |
| 7 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”Dudes should stop asking girls how to approach other girls. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseThere's definitely a scale, but obviously it's not absolute. What is a 7 for me might be a 6 or 5 for someone else. Always try to better yourself. Dont try to reason yourself into a false reality. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Things I learned that could help you guys from EuropeThanks for the advice! | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 09:20 AM |
| 15 | Things I learned that could help you guys from EuropeIs it a normal thing in the US? Those "I did X number of cold approaches today" leave me confused as well. | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Things I learned that could help you guys from EuropeAny game advice from people living in France? Kinda struggling here because I get the impressions that cold approach is not a cultural thing here. | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 3 | It's hard because of shitty menThat's more red flags than a minesweeper. | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 03:47 PM |
| 0 | It's hard because of shitty menYou are not a nice man, then. /s | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up A Hot Girl In 3 Minutes (infield)No kidnapping. 0/10. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys?it comes from sources much wiser than myself. Stoicism? | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 01:09 PM |
| 5 | Cold approached a police officer 😂It's fake and I only read the title. | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | They're just people.Can you link to the sub? | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Saved myself from an awkward attempt at conversation by being straightforward.OP got the girl tho. I call this an absolute win. | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Saved myself from an awkward attempt at conversation by being straightforward.Hell im a dude and my phone is often on airplane mode. I hate unexpected calls. | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | I put a dog picture.. what should I say to this in a flirty way?Is this taken from one of those dating flash games? | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 05:35 PM |
| 0 | When you hear "Not Ready For A Relationship” - PLEASE Learn from my mistakesDoesn't want to come across as pitiful and awkward Proceeds to do exactly that. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Is 'remaining alpha' actually good for a long-term relationship??That's what I said. I understand what he's doing, I'm just not confortable with manipulating your partner throughout your relationship with them. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 21 | Is 'remaining alpha' actually good for a long-term relationship??Some stuff he said really stood out. Like this one: I kept 'gaming' her throughout the relationship. I mean, I kinda get the point. But this seems manipulate to a point, at least to me. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:35 PM |
| 16 | How you all text girls? Im boring at texting...I feel that if I send a girl one of those memes, I'd end up on /r/cringepics. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 04:30 PM |
| 2 | No Thanks, I’m Married - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 13I don't think there's anything to say at that moment. | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Don't fear the friend zone.Girl friends are good but I don't think it's a good idea to become friends with a girl that had rejected you before. Yes, there may be exceptions, but once you're put in the friendzone, move on. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 10:12 PM |
| 13 | Girl I've been talking to sent me this. Does this mean anything? Am I over thinking it?But why? | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of negative attitude from redpill and incelWhat does the podcast talk about? | /r/seduction | 22/06/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How do I get a girls number at the gym?I know their are different people but it's still crazy how they vary on fucking everything and every advice gets a ton of upvotes. One thread they're telling you approach as much women as you can and the other telling you you shouldn't. One thread people discussing 'negging' and how can you use it and a thread telling you about how a simple conversation would suffice. | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 07:26 PM |
| 3 | How do I get a girls number at the gym?This sub gives an advice in one thread and the opposite of it in the other thread. | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 03:41 PM |
| 5 | How to become more mentally quick/wittyYou just reminded me of /r/nofap. Forgot that place exists. | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I try too hard and end up saying stupid shit or acting super goofy in groups, and it just naturally happens. How can I stop myself from being a total dork in that regard?Well, be yourself, but not too much. | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 10:39 PM |
| 24 | Asked out a 10Seriously? To you, women are only good for dating/fucking? He didn't even imply that. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 12:13 AM |
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