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One of those surreal moments. I just had a similar but different experience in which one if my friends is constantly texting a girl I like, whereas I simply ignored her the last time she texted me. I saw both of them in person the other day, and she was curious trying to find out why I ignored her the other day (she even apologized if it bothered me etc) meanwhile my friend is constantly talking to her. Later that day, those two are hanging out and she starts texting me on HIS phone asking me to…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 08:41 PM
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True, and in fact I've gotten plenty just through Tinder/mutual friends and a $5 sack of weed. But I've been amazed at the lengths some of my friends will go to for a chance at some tail, which usually doesn't even work out. So the saying that a hooker is often cheaper than an average girl these days is probably true for anyone who doesn't have enough experience to seal the deal without dropping money on pointless dinner dates, gifts, gas money etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 06:40 PM
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Biology is a social construct, shitlord! /s
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 06:37 PM
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Not sure if I'm just continuing the chain of woosh, but did you just take that persons joke comment literally? (Only hit on women that show overt interest or else you're a creep, saying to come back and post when you need validation etc etc)
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:31 AM
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Wow, that's an interesting point. I've seen glints of that truth before, but hadn't considered it. Poor AFCs getting turned down and replaced by chads even when the girl is allegedly trying to avoid that. Funny note, a little trick I picked up here is that when a wary girl tries to call you out, you either jokingly agree and amplify about what a player you are, or you just turn it on them "what, you think I'm a player?" And often they'll say no that's not what I meant! and proceed making out.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 11:08 PM
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Interesting note...I often find that older women (26 up) on dating apps almost always have somewhat unwelcoming bios. Even if you like what you see at first, you'll like run into a "not looking for hookups, please grow up if that's all you want" etc sort of preemptively shaming you for finding her attractive and wanting to sleep w her (unless you're a white knight who would never dream of such an act...which is what she's hoping you are. Its possibly a shit test but it's likely her time with Cha…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 02:26 AM
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Oh man, that's the worst. I have a long term plate who's currently working in LA as a masseuse. It turns out most of her clients are middle eastern because of their insurance. Almost all of them try to impress her with their beta bux. She openly talks about it with me - many of them are shy or weird because they don't know how to interact with women over here, while others are pretty blunt about being rich and wanting her. She's gone on some dates with them. Idk why I'm writing this...she is onl…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 02:14 AM
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No, I think this is an important part we could be overlooking. I know girls like the OP described....they'd have several guys (some being 'guy friends') in line to fuck them at any time. Sometimes there's high sexual tension between them, meaning they both wanna fuck. They just need an excuse to do it. So, what I'm getting from this is the OP's girl knew or was friends with all the guys at the party, and simply wanted all their dicks. It wasn't a "random sex party." A major piece of evidence bac…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:13 AM
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That may be so, but in this context, the two people have already met and likely banged. Then he tells her he's a night cleaner and she drops him forever. If your point is that a woman's looks are of similar value to a man's status, then maybe you're on to something
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 09:14 AM
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Yeah, this all plays into the fact that girls don't want to feel like you're only coming over for sex. It makes them feel like sluts (and sometimes rightly so, but you gotta keep that hamster spinning). I had a girl once pester me about how tired she was so I took her home after we fucked. The next day she complained to her friends that she felt like a whore because I drove her home after we fucked. She would then try shittests like this in the future. Its a careful balance sometimes. Good work …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 10:13 PM
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Thanks so much for this post, you hit several good points here. First, about scarcity mentality, you may be on to something. I didn't have sex until I was almost 18, with an ugly chick. In the years since then, I've learned a lot and have had some amazing experiences, but my count is still less than a dozen. I even tried tinder lately, and fucked a few terribly average girls. Meanwhile, as I mentioned elsewhere, one of my fwb tried tinder and she had an infinite stream of dicks thrown at her, wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 11:24 PM
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Thank you so much for this reply. PLEASE do make the post you're considering making about this issue, not only because it's an interesting phenomenon but we need more acknowledgement and awareness of it. Now that you mention it, I could easily see her using the cocktail carousel to deal with whatever has happened in her life. She is also really into daddy & bad little girl roleplay in bed...which is fairly common but I wonder if it's another red flag. Either way, she's surely been influenced by …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 11:06 PM
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Hey, thanks for those links man. Good point about virgins, too. I'm getting really turned off by the high count of most women I've been with lately. Even my FWB of 3 years moved to LA and got DRUNK on power upon installing TINDER there. An infinite stream of men throwing ab & dick pics at her, and she gets the pick of the litter. Hearing her gush about it on her first trip back to town killed me inside.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 11:01 PM
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Thanks man. Interestingly, SHE brought up the partner count thing. she asked how many girls I've been with and eventually got it out of me (less than 10). Maybe I shouldn't have revealed it but too late now. She then told me to guess her count, as a sort of game. 20? Nope. 5? Way off! 15? Still cold...30? Nope. 40? Nope...cold. I eventually gave up and she revealed it was in the 60s. She's been active for five years, so it averages down to one new partner a month. Easy to hamster that situation.…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 10:57 PM
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Wow, I can't believe I didn't think to spin it back at them like that. I've just been acting dismissive of it, but flipping it on them or A&A sounds more fun and productive. Thanks for the post.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:54 AM
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Fair point, thanks. When you put it like that I think it'll be easier for me to just let it all play out. I let myself get irritated by their complaints sometimes but I'll try to just use it to my advantage.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:38 AM
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I've been doing this lately (if I'm busy ill just turn off my phone for 6 hours etc) and I've been getting lots of comments about it from girls. Their responses are actually starting to irritate me. For example, my current three plates have all recently told me I "suck at texting" or I suck with my phone, etc. And I'll straight up tell them, "yes, I'm busy and don't like texting" but they'll STILL find ways to bring it up passive aggressively (in person). They're intrigued by the mystery of it, …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:18 AM
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Well put, and this is very concerning for me. I recently met a girl who fell head over heels for me. I'm two years older and have an N count of 9. She's 21 and has an N count of.....65!?!!?! I don't know how to handle it. She's cute and fun and clean, but I haven't been able to make myself stick my face in her Pussy yet, because 65 people by age 21!?! Your instant response might be to next her, but my head spins upon thinking about it. If she had never told me that, I'd think her partner count w…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:36 AM
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I'm sorry but I don't see what that quote is trying to convey?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:40 AM
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That's my only fear as a general klutz. Is it the sort of thing that you go to alone, or do you usually go with some buddies?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 06:26 AM
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Interesting, I'm always open for new life experiences. I've heard a few people talk about line dancing lately. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 06:08 AM
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Yeah, something I didn't touch on was that my entire frame would shift if I were to accept her invitation. I don't particularly want to act friendly and happy for her birthday, when she's basically just a plate who quit on me when she couldn't lock me down. I shouldn't reward that behavior IMO, especially since my time could be better spent. I will admit this might be different if she was VERY attractive, but she's just average. I'm not inclined to do an awkward social dance with her and having …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 02:54 AM
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Appreciate the word of warning; I've definitely been in that situation before and it's terrible. In this specific situation I'd probably just laugh if she found an orbiter to be her date for the night, but I have no interest in finding out.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 02:49 AM
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You're not wrong; I can definitely still fuck her. But as BaconEggsAndSleaze pointed out, its only worth thinking about for a guy with no options. I know you don't know the whole context, but this is a plate I've been spinning for months. Wasn't open to threesomes, was clingy and constantly wanted exclusivity. I'm over it. I don't really care about her fucking other guys, and she has such a blue friend group I don't really see it happening soon, but I think if I made any more moves it would just…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 02:47 AM
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I like it. I finally woke up to this mentality about a year ago. The truths of this sub ring so clear. There has to be a balance. You could easily flip the script and be a guy begging her to come over and fuck (but not spend family/quality/cuddle time together, because well you're not in a relationship anymore) because you just can't bare the thought of her sleeping alone on Christmas. It's a raw deal for her. Just like it's a raw deal to go to some woman's family function for her feelz and then…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 02:40 AM
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I'm honestly surprised how many responses this got, and I'm also surprised how many rang out with "you can still fuck her." I know I can. I don't want to, because it's simply not worth it. Its almost strange to me because in my blue days I didn't have as many options, so I might degrade myself by still trying to fuck her. As it is now, I've already made moves with other girls. With the particular girl that broke things off with me, I don't expect her to have many high value friends that would be…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 02:32 AM
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This is a good point. But I'd like to say that the anti-niceguy movement seems to have picked up traction lately. Specifically, girls seem to have just discovered the term "fake nice" and have viciously applied it to every poor beta out there. You can be alpha and a generally nice/kind person. If you're beta and nice, most girls are going to instantly assume it's all a devious act to TRICK them into fucking a beta, and they will resent you and shame you for it. I feel bad because there really ar…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:36 AM
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Interesting. I've been solely on Tinder and met some cool/cute chicks but a lot of psychos, fat chicks, and attention whores. My FWB (who advised me to get tinder to find a girl to play with us) recently told me I should try expanding to okcupid and pof. -The only problem is, due to a recent streak of undesirable girls matching with me (I spam the match button) and very few hot chicks giving me the time of day, I'm becoming more skeptical of online dating each day. Its seeming more and more like…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:07 AM
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A plate recently broke things off with me because I wouldn't be exclusive with her. She said I hope we can still be friends, and invited me to go drinking on her birthday. I used to always accept these offers of awkward friendship but instead I said, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't want to have to restrain myself around someone I'm used to kissing and fucking, and watch them do it with someone else instead. Nothing to gain from it (I fear that since she liked me so much she would sabot…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:50 PM
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I think you're confusing empathy with sympathy, junior. Settle down
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 12:42 AM
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Idk, since this is the internet I think of /s as being used in place of your actual sarcastic tone IRL. In other words, you might as well complain that using a sarcastic tone IRL ruins sarcasm because it shouldn't need to be pointed out.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 04:46 PM
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Good post all around, but This was honestly the reason I opened the thread: to see others' reaction to the snapchat filter today. I found it absurd, but concerning. Women are literally proclaiming they "rule the world" while simultaneously bitching about being oppressed by the patriarchy. The most mind boggling aspect of it is that if men were to dedicate a day to themselves with the tagline "men rule the world" it would be viciously ridiculed as a patriarchy circlejerk....but for women its all …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 04:44 PM
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Agreed. I've had great success with this line in the past, inspired by another trp post. Obviously they must find you attractive, but it works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:10 PM
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You're right, and I've been thinking about it since the day it happened. I let her reaction convince me that its wrong to make such a big deal about it, but after another invite to just "cuddle" (I'm 22) I'm realizing I should really make this clear to her. She wouldn't like it if I withheld cuddles, yet I'm supposed to give them to her without reciprocation. Hmm. Thanks all for the encouragement
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 05:41 PM
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I know I can eventually, but the specific way things worked out "guilted" me into it. For example, her friend texted her that she got dumped during our convo, which led to her saying "you're not gonna dump ME right away, right?" Etc...another thing is I sense she felt she was being "used" by fucking without commitment. I let her take advantage of me so we could both get what we wanted but obviously that was a horrible, weak decision and she has weird views such as BJs are more intimate than sex …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:29 AM
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Im in a slightly similar situation....except in my case, the chick fucked on the first date but refused to give BJs. After a few fucks, I was desperate for a BJ and she picked up in it. She started teasing me and then weaving in talks about exclusivity....long story short, she got me super horny and then got me to "be her boyfriend" and then BACKED OUT of the bj. I told her I couldn't date someone who didn't give head, and she said that was shallow. I lost frame by saying it was a joke...but I s…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:10 PM
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I see your point, but I think this thread is relevant to things such as Tinder. There is essentially a screening process. You have to use a good opener and a few exchanges before securing their number and fucking. I think OP's advice is spot on in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 02:56 PM
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As my own little anecdote, I've gained a few plates lately and thought I had "free sex" going on. But in reality, when I had my main plate over it would always turn into a huge time investment that I didn't consider. Even if she came over at 10pm, she would want to slowly drink until getting horny and then it would be a long process of foreplay and many bathroom breaks because she drank so much, and then a long period of cuddling after, and then I'd make us food and spend more time talking etc a…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 08:37 AM
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Sounds like you know when you should have gone in for the kiss. Don't question your gut feelings.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 11:34 PM
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It is pretty weird. The latest trend of course has been star wars, which I understood at first but after seeing 50 "everyone go see it now" posts it feels eerie. Everyone has been reduced to free advertisement, or spouting their knee-jerk political opinions.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 11:17 PM
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The nickname idea is very interesting to me. In my BP days I never gave pet names to girls I liked, and would always awkwardly use their full name "hello Samantha" or just no name at all "hello" which does nothing to reinforce a bond. Once I started calling girls babe, cutie etc they became much more receptive and I've had fantastic luck with it. I now have girls calling me babe and daddy in bed. The reason I'm replying to you though is I feel like I'm wearing some of these names out, because I …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 10:38 PM
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I appreciate the reply, that really helped me get on the same page as you. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 07:35 PM
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I'm actually conflicted about this because it seems too fake. Why would someone wait several days to ask someone who they are? On top of that, it seems he's trying to imply that he saw too many people at the party to guess whos number it could be (abundance) but in reality it seems kinda obvious that its her since they have history that is clearly fresh in his mind. All I'm saying is would it be better to send the text sooner rather than later, to give reasonable doubt? Otherwise it seems transp…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 08:18 AM
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