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I have worked with some in the past and at my company most of them married and didn't become 6-figure inc*ls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:49 AM
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Depends, if he's also unattractive there's not a whole lot you can say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:41 AM
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not monetizable, just like Father's Day What. At least where I am Father's Day is a thing? I think it not being a big deal is also a reflection of peoples' relationships with their fathers. Edit: What I mean to say is I buy gifts and cards for my dad, uncle, and grandpa (before he passed). I don't buy gifts or cards for anyone for International Womens/Mens/Pizza Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:58 PM
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Woody Allen’s entire career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:33 AM
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I'm sure I'll get downvoted but maybe these jobs should start paying better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:24 AM
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The depo shot has another great benefit - no or very infrequent periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:29 AM
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I'm making a bone-in prime rib roast.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:29 AM
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It could be a defense mechanism against totally non-romantic stuff. I avoid eye contact because I've had so many people try to waste my time trying to sell me stuff or trying to get to me to join their cults.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:56 PM
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Because there's no shame (and negatively, some pride with certain groups) in admitting you have a mental illness in liberal circles. Conservatives often range from calling it a weakness or a sin to flat-out denying it exists at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:29 AM
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It's definitely this. Debate is dead here, it's just people coming to have their biases confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:03 AM
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I found a repost of it without all the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:32 AM
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I wasn't so sure until I saw all the responses to that video of the Mennonite women who had no idea what Batman was. The idea of someone who knew absolutely nothing was incredibly appealing to a lot of the dudes on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:51 AM
1

Very Miss Saigon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:00 PM
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One of my favorite songs. "Man, I saw your wife the other day. She suuuure is ugly!" "Yeah but she sure can cook!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:03 AM
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You're still gonna see the same questions. A lot of Bible Belt dudes are 3 steps away from Christian Taliban at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:27 PM
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Wtf is this "(wink, wink)" shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:16 PM
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Yeah, one of the things I think I should have said was that it requires being part of that religious community. You can't just show up and try to fit in because you want the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:58 PM
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None, it's gibberish as you said. Mixed with some weird masochism/sadism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:56 PM
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I've seen a few on Twitter. I think they're just role-playing female misogynists because if not, I am scared. One was a teacher who said she is intentionally going to either ignore or teach female students wrong because she thinks girls shouldn't know anything in order to be good slaves for daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:45 PM
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Your post and your title don't really match. A church Chad will have his pick of religious and traditional women, but generally they will want him to be in the "marriageable age" range 22-30 and demonstrate religious leadership/headship skills, or at least be a committed man of God. A recent unmarried "convert" at age 40+ isn't really going to have his pick of young tradcon virgins to marry at many churches because he will be an outsider or at the very least outside of the "normal" age to them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:30 PM
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They're having sex with other women in this time, but they keep bothering the ones that they didn't get to claim, too. There's a guy I used to work with that kept messaging me periodically for YEARS after because he wanted to sleep with me. Not have a relationship, he wasn't interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:15 AM
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Voluspa, Capri Blue
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 09:24 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. I've never used it but OLD seems like a bad format for the reasons you outlined.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:34 PM
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Are they striking out because they expect instant sex or think she's not attracted at all and 95% of women simply don't work that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:53 PM
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I've never used these. Is salary something the app actually lets you filter by? If so, what's to stop everyone from lying and saying they're a millionaire?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:04 PM
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I never got it back in his Supernatural days. Watched The Boys recently and I get it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:05 AM
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One of their kids is disabled so the time she could use to work is spent on him. I should have mentioned that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:19 PM
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Correct, it's dumb because they're buying gold digger bait but then complaining they attract gold diggers! But even normal women don't want to pay over 50% for the privilege of having a "high value man" around. Only Pick Mes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:44 PM
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I know someone who has 3 kids and recently spent his entire yearly salary on a car but can't afford to feed said kids so the wife is always asking family for money (she's a SAHM).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:55 PM
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It does kind of leave me laughing when you see guys saying they want to get a Bugatti to attract women, but never want to spend an additional cent on any woman and call anyone with expectations otherwise a gold digger. Not saying that's OP but it's becoming more of a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:53 PM
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they won’t love it when they’re wearing diapers for fecal incontinence, or shitting in a bag, or having a hysterectomy for cervical cancer. It's crazy how often you see guys online talking about that rosebud shit as literally blowing her back out. That's normally a medical emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:14 AM
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It sounds like something people who like it REALLY like it and people who don't like it REALLY don't like it. I'm in the REALLY don't camp and would probably end up calling the cops if someone started choking me unprovoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:41 PM
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"I can cook well" can come off like a brag as well. "I can manage my own finances and have no debt" can sound like "ok, that's nothing to be proud of, welcome to being an adult," but then having a higher income makes these guys say "I don't care how much you make, that's not attractive to me." "I'm good at following orders," is a really strange thing no one really says in normal conversation, even if it's true, unless they're applying for a position as an assistant. The longer I type this out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:52 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like a lose-lose question for women. If you don't have an answer it means you're literally just a walking sack of organs with high expectations, but if you have an answer then you're full of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:46 PM
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The reason I know this isn't real is because no bird waits 38 minutes between shits. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:12 PM
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The woman is sometimes even depicted as being sexually excited by verbal abuse, roughness, violence, or even torture. A combination of this and twitter edgelord (edgelady?) pickmes has all these dudes convinced this is what women really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:08 PM
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Mushroom risotto, pot roast, baked salmon, the best damn shortbread biscuits you've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:51 PM
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Because that is the ultimate topic of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:12 PM
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Once we do within 6 months y'all will start advocating for Africa-style FGM because "it looks cleaner."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:07 PM
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I live in LA too. No one is making you go there, other options exist. Oh also, skip Sidecar Donuts if you don't want to get ripped off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:41 AM
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Content aggregator with comments. Proto-reddit from the early aughts. I'm surprised it's still around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:54 AM
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He should at least talk it out with her. She might be inexperienced, or have trauma. It would suck for everyone if they finally had sex and he decided it wasn't worth the wait after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:03 PM
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A lot them have roommates. The narrative that actresses = prostitutes is old as the hills but not always true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:53 PM
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Sounds exactly like 1999.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:26 PM
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True. I just don't see how reddit or any other platform would get overrun by Chinese speakers because they have their own social media apps, firewall or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:17 PM
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Are these some shower thoughts or did something happen? I think the language barrier is sort of a self-maintaining barrier, you don't see reddit overrun by Spanish in the main subs or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:01 PM
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Fun fact, bukkake is a slang term so in Japanese it doesn't only reference the porn term. In Japan it's also a style of noodles so one chain had to change the name of one of their staple menu items when they opened in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:22 AM
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This happened to me in high school, and then at my first job. The job one was stupider because it was started by guys claiming they'd slept with me. I never slept with any of them but it got so bad I ended up being "laid off" over the harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:14 AM
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In Japan in particular, it’s a stereotype that big muscles are for attracting gay men. Look up Bara manga as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:48 PM
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Wow. Where are you from that everyone is so large?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:53 PM
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No girl ive dated was less than obese. Surely there's some medium between 50k follower Instagram Stacy who's guaranteed to shoot you down and actually obese. Or are you just calling everyone not super fit obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:44 PM
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They want first meetings to be in the sack, they don't want to know anything about you until they've determined the sex was good enough for round 2. (Not saying all men but the ones here? TRP classic was very clear about 'text for logistics only, F close as soon as possible, don't talk because you'll fuck it up by saying something stupid')
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:35 PM
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Aw man. Wonder what it finally was that led to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:12 PM
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What ever happened to Atlas? Half of the fun here was seeing her hot takes on shit. I know she changed her name a couple of times but I've lost track.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:44 PM
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I like alone time. I don't see the problem with that unless he's obviously got a secret family in the other city.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:56 PM
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It doesn't work if they're preventing more qualified people from getting hired in place of buddies who aren't qualified for the position. Had a senior guy hire a friend at our tech company before who couldn't even use a computer and it was a total waste of everyone else's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:05 AM
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Just remember on the Bristol Stool Scale that being a 4 is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:06 PM
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And be prepared to marry quickly, but not be allowed to be alone with her until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:03 PM
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Once had a coworker telling me I needed to get under the table and give the waiter a blow job for giving me a free ice cream at lunch. I am not a whore for ice cream so I just gave him a larger tip as thanks and never went back to that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:31 AM
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*persecuted. The law doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:44 AM
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Anecdotally I have seen a lot of shorter man, taller woman couples in Japan. But neither are very tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:06 AM
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JIF had a salmonella recall recently, make sure you check the numbers if you find any.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 08:51 PM
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People of PPD act like we're mayflies instead of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:28 PM
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outside in the dead heat of summer The major cons in California are always during the summer. Every time I go I have regrets because no amount of AC can cure the smell that grows from nerds walking around outside in the heat. Yes, it's a little better now but it's still unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:32 PM
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I got a FB friend request from a guy who looked like the first pic. Since I’m nowhere near model-tier I just assumed it was a scam and deleted it immediately after a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:55 AM
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Google Ezo Momonga.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:38 PM
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AWALT probably now means AWALAH.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:02 PM
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As often discussed here, because a lot of men would rather run away and shack up with a mistress than do the paperwork to get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:54 PM
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Because guys like OP would dump the fast food worker who supported him in med school to get a trophy wife who has zero skills so he can complain she doesn’t contribute anything and never has.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:59 PM
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Some of the 5-6s might be taken too. If they say no because they're taken, that means they have inflated standards too because they didn't just drop everything to get pumped n' dumped by you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:47 PM
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Question - do you also give gifts in return to your coworkers? I received some gifts but I buy gifts for everyone. Nothing too personal, just like alcohol or some food item I know they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:18 AM
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Dude unless you get on a reality show no one is going to pay anyone to lose weight so they don't have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:49 PM
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Not all women find Chris Hemsworth attractive but if you say this the men here say you're going to be forever alone because you clearly demand an 11/10 when it's actually he's just not your type and you prefer the Joseph Gordon-Levitt type instead. There was a guy here losing his mind that not every woman here thought Tom Brady was 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:09 AM
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PCOS correlates with higher risk for ectopic pregnancy. Most of the current low-risk treatments for ectopic pregnancy are considered abortive in nature by Catholic hospital guidelines and treatment is deferred until your life is at risk, at which point they will attempt to remove your entire fallopian tube to remove the fetus. Today, you can go to another hospital if this happened to you, but if this became law, it is likely all hospitals would have to comply with this same directive and thus, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:09 AM
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Then birth control because some idiots think it causes abortions (it does not, the theory that it prevents fertilization = abortion is like saying I should be given lottery winnings because I might have won if I bought a ticket even though I didn't). Some people even want to make interracial marriage illegal again. I don't know where this ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:28 AM
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It will likely become federal law after the next red wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:23 AM
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I'm not approaching anyone personally so this is all hypothetical but the problem is that not all guys know what a woman's intentions are and a lot of assumptions are being made, even if they're discussed (assumed to be lies). A lot of guys here will argue that average women have higher body counts because of what I described above even if that doesn't apply to her personally and assume if she doesn't sleep with you on date 2 she's hooking up with Chad even if she's actually just going home and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:04 AM
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Because average women who wish to are able to sleep with above-average men who are looking for casual sex. This makes their looksmatch men very upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:57 AM
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Hang around here awhile and you'll see it's a common sentiment from the guys here that only very attractive women are good people and honest about their intentions, because they don't need to sleep with more attractive men for validation. Something to do with hypergamy and their bias towards apex fallacy. The "average" woman is the most hated creature here because she can choose to have casual sex (not necessarily secure commitment as frequently) at a rate the "average" man cannot. Regardless of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:53 AM
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If this was my situation, I'd rather stay a 3.5 and WGTOW than bust ass to become a 5 that dudes here would pump n' dump/hatefuck because they think the 5 is a terrible human being that must think she deserves a 7 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:04 PM
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100k net worth is not much. $1M net worth isn't even that much these days. Neither of these people have a lot of gold to dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:21 PM
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I'm guessing you probably live in a solidly middle-class or upper middle class area, or near the coasts. A lot of these dudes live in towns where everyone is fat or pregnant by 25 so their experience is different from yours or mine. Not having kids by 32 is by no means an outlier where I live because the COL is high and birth control is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:52 PM
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if a 7 man approaches a 5 woman, she automatically owes him 2 sex acts with nothing in return. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:47 PM
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Math sounds about 420.69% accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:32 AM
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I have not ever actually done it but sometimes it is tempting to see what's the most outrageous thing you could say that they would actually agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:09 PM
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I agree. Both shonen/seinen harem anime and the types of movies referenced here are wish-fulfillment fantasies that the audience somehow interprets as fact instead of fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:59 PM
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For a minute I thought they were talking about selling personal data lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:44 PM
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LASD have such a bad rep they make LAPD look like Boy Scouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:42 PM
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I have lots of male friends and have long ago accepted it’s fine because I’m unattractive. But hey, I have friends, which to me is better than being hot and having no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:51 PM
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I think the ones here like to think they're sex-positive (because they want to defend men who want casual sex) so they would never act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:20 AM
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You'd probably have a smaller percentage of conservatives fighting with you if you said religious conservatives. From my experience they're the ones most like what OP described.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:27 AM
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What happens if you have daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:09 PM
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I always assume they’re bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:26 AM
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erotic novel Also many options for free out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:25 AM
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There's a lot of women who are pretty misogynistic themselves, so I wouldn't be surprised if those are the fish that bite that particular lure. RP guys thinking it works on some women would be right, the ones who insist it works on every woman because all women are exactly the same are the ones that piss the rest of us off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:22 PM
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I think what he's saying is texting/talking beforehand gives them more opportunity to say something that could be a red flag to the woman that the guy wouldn't necessarily realize was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:20 PM
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It's not and they're picturing guys who live the 6 figure lifestyle from the 90s, not in today's money. At least speaking from a HCOL area.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:21 PM
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Some of my Indian and Chinese software devs are over 6 feet and pretty skinny so they might have 6-packs if they took off their shirts. Not super rare. Probably everyone who reads this is picturing Patrick Bateman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:19 PM
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Ambition turned up to 11 would be so annoying. Imagine his LinkedIn profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:17 AM
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I would hope by long they mean just long enough to put into a ponytail, not like Pentecostal long.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:19 PM
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If she has to dress in a restrictively modest way, shun technology and just blindly obey to be considered traditional, it sounds like the only women who would fit this are in closed religious communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:18 AM
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I googled “Japanese Dolls” hoping to find a traditional doll for my niece and under Google Shopping they had all these sex dolls for sale (like realdolls) in the form of Japanese women, except one looked about 8 years old. It had a child’s dress on, pigtails, everything, but marketed as a child silicone sex doll, $569. It looks like Google fixed it but I was looking up if it’s even legal and I’m still not sure if it is or not, but even if it is, I’m still disturbed as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:58 PM
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I accidentally came across a realistic child sex doll for sale on Google today. So I'm going to say discovering that someone owns something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:09 AM
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Some of those women are conservative with everyone else too. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:29 PM
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I mean, if they are I doubt they’re spending that much is more my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:30 AM
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Rich parents of the bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:08 AM
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Actually yes? They don't seem like normal people to me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:04 PM
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James McAvoy is my 10/10 Huge muscle guys like John Cena and The Rock don't register as human men to me, more like living action figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:59 AM
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He's an 8 to me. I'll take him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:53 AM
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Well for one they don't dump tons of sugar and high-fructose corn syrup into every food just because there's a corn lobby that wants money for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:31 AM
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I'm allergic to both cats and most dogs. Cat owners are usually very understanding about this. Dog owners usually treat my allergy like a moral failing that needs to be overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:31 PM
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add the wrong person as a Facebook friend and they get a long video of us with the camera capturing our face sufficiently diverse lighting and angle and expressions. Records our voice saying enough words… then you can be replicated, the possibilities… reputations you can ruin. This already happened to some girl who made a public campaign against it when it happened to her a few years ago. The deepfakes weren't even very good back then but there are people who definitely think it's her anyway. Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:26 PM
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This was me before the pandemic but even then some people said I was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:18 AM
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Followers of an Indian religion that preaches non-violence as one of its central tenets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:32 PM
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I'm an ally of BBQ for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:26 PM
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Because a lot of these guys aren't looking at women as individuals but as commodities and want an untouched product.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:39 AM
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So if the daughters look like both of them, does that mean people think Barack is their mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:56 PM
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In the same manner we say on this board all day long that attractive people get away with everything. Racist by saying stereotypical shit about Asians (I guess "positive racism") like "I looove Asians because they have such nice pale skin" because that's what the BTS guys look like but then saying derogatory or weird gatekeeping stuff about other ones that don't look like that. It's just an inverse version of the guys who do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:28 AM
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They do if they're unattractive and being racist about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:20 AM
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With all the kpop fans out there now, not really. It's evened out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:09 AM
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This sums up how I feel about a lot of things here. I'd award you for this quote if I had any to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:36 PM
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Or he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:03 PM
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That sucks. I get bored here but that's probably partly living in the south bay, which weather-wise is a bit more like being in SF so you rarely need AC here, but the tradeoff is it's far from anything exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:58 AM
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Ah, good call. I've lived here my whole life and I'm somehow still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:47 AM
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I have a friend who used to live next door to that building. Creepy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:21 AM
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Shit, how many LA people do we have here now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:19 AM
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Was that the one where people just said mean shit about others "anonymously" all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:16 AM
5

Thank God. I don't find any of this funny at all but every time I hear "equal rights, equal lefts" I know it's from someone who's itching for an excuse to coldcock a woman. Edit: in case it's not clear I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:21 PM
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That's good. It's still a procedure with a long and painful recovery time so I doubt it would explode in popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:29 PM
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It will never become popular because it's too expensive and invasive and you can't work out aside from physical therapy for about 6 months. If it were quick and easy it might but not the way it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:09 PM
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It's not a popular opinion because it sounds easy but it's expensive, painful, and will leave you basically disabled for months, only to come out at most 4 inches taller with weird proportions and at high risk for complications like blood clots, nerve damage, and dislocations. It's nowhere as simple as most other cosmetic surgeries because you're essentially breaking your legs in order to put them back together and you need those legs for everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:42 PM
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What these groups actually want to get rid of is BC. As someone who uses it to not be in excruciating pain all the time (endometriosis) this is the actual thing that can and would affect me directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:37 PM
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Whereas RP videos are either boring or straight cringe so no one's watching them just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:31 PM
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he's Asian and lived in Laguna Beach (extremely white suburb of Southern California). If he can't figure out how to drive his ass 20 minutes to Irvine where the rest of the Asians are that's his problem lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:47 PM
1

Exactly. I have to turn it off from the cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:09 AM
1

The Office is torture to me, why does everyone love it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:06 PM
3

I baked mine with dill garlic butter last night and put cherry tomatoes in there with it, turned out really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:29 AM
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Shouldn't a CMV be something they're actually willing to discuss and think about, or do we just allow rants now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:56 PM
2

And the ones that aren't have never left the bible belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:56 PM
2

I too am racist against rats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:14 PM
1

He's actually more like 5'6.5". 5'8" is his listed height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:49 PM
3

This is me but any time anyone talks about astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:43 PM
10

They probably both hate the same pop songs so it might be a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:40 PM
4

The gym bros I used to work with were all like this. Oh and they drove Teslas lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:14 PM
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Entire wardrobe consists of Under Armour, furniture consists mostly of crates of Muscle Milk stacked on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:12 PM
1

Yeah probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:34 AM
2

This is on my list! I recommend To Hell and Back by Charles Pellegrino (read the updated version) about the A-bomb, it's great. Though I suppose any history probably counts as true crime if it really happened and some people died of non-natural causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:50 PM
3

Sounds exactly like the kind of guy the dudes on this board want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:35 PM
1

The most I saw in my area (LA County, CA) was $5.09 for premium at a station known to be a rip-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:07 AM
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It’s a very specific set of people who live in specific parts of LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:46 AM
1

Where do healthy, not-fat-not-thin girls fall into this scale? BMI 19-23 ish? Seems like you're trying to create a binary here when there isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:40 AM
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Even in LA, location and culture matters. The gym maxxing and perfect everything is probably required if you're clubbing on Sunset but it's a different vibe in the beach cities or the eastside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:49 PM
2

I don't know a soul who actually went to one of these (went to a UC school, that probably matters), and that includes people who aren't obese or incredibly ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:36 PM
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I thought Love Languages were how you express your love to others, not how you want it to be expressed to you. Oh well, it's all bullshit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:33 PM
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It shouldn't be but we've established these cultural milestones that are otherwise sort of arbitrary. What's unfortunate is when these get rolled down earlier and earlier and you meet 15 year olds calling themselves incel and making it part of their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:23 PM
3

Cheating, by a mile. Porn won't give you an STD or come back asking for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:21 PM
1

I thought it was a dick on his throat so maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:00 PM
1

Girls who play video games <> Gamer Girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:49 PM
2

I'm 39 and Asian and got carded last week as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:21 AM
8

just how low rent are you all? It's part of the revenge fantasy that single mothers will have lost all family support for choosing to have an OOW child of Chad because it falls outside of the tradcon pattern for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:58 PM
2

Not only this but they get mad that it happens this way and women they aren't attracted to are awarded with rando penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:52 PM
2

When you say a one on one date tends to be dull, it makes me think you're bringing your friends along so you don't actually have to talk to her. That would be the part that makes it extra weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:45 PM
1

I'm 39 and half my female friends don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:02 PM
3

Totally agree these charts are pretty meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:15 PM
4

Yeah these charts are awful but I think they were trying to get at least 1 major racial group represented in each row. I have heard some people say Asians are never going to be above a 7.5 (am Asian and probably a 4.5 on this chart), ever, but that's frankly also equally subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:01 PM
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I agree with you and I'd also like to add that only an even smaller subset of actual Marketing and Advertising people use their own images as part of their job. Most of the time you work for a brand and you push that brand, not your own image.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:49 PM
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Yeah, depression is one thing but if you knowingly date someone with schizophrenia or bipolar with psychosis you're in for a very bad time, at least some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:37 PM
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Women can be nice to some gross old man There are a lot of old men in nursing homes who think their nurse is flirting with them. It's actually sort of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:24 PM
1

Point being, while men learn they can accidentally do things that are creepy af. I mean, thank you for acknowledging that you learned, and that a behavior can be creepy. Too many people here insist behaviors aren't creepy, only unattractive people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:23 PM
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Most of the time the dads of those 19 year olds aren't super cool with her dating a man close his age either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:28 PM
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For some reason dudes on the internet only think anime is Shonen Jump and loli/Hentai and nothing else counts. So the girls that are into shojo and yaoi aren't like this at all but don't really register to dudes as "into anime" since it's not what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:52 PM
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Dudes with yachts who naturally attract lots of women of various ages aren't coming to reddit for validation from strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:27 PM
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Yeah, if it was the exact same person who rejected them before I totally understand but if it's someone they've never met before who just happens to be in the same demographic, that's punishing them for other people's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:40 AM
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He wants them to be impressed he can order alcohol without a fake ID.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:38 AM
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If I remember the convo correctly, this guy said Tom Hardy was a 7/10 but Tom Brady was the most beautiful man in the world. Sure, he's an NFL legend but it was a little odd how much he was pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:15 PM
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There’s a guy here who had several rants about how Giselle is not attractive and old while Tom Brady is a 9.9/10 in his eyes and deserves so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:10 AM
1

Not interested in any of this personally but I think the only thing that actually offends me is "demoting to plate" an LTR because she did something you didn't like, without explicitly breaking up with her. That's just cheating if you don't declare the change in status to the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:54 AM
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I mean, do you really need to carry half of Home Depot with you? Backpacks are a thing if you really do. Edit: Do what you want, I'm just saying the reason women dislike cargo shorts isn't related to jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:37 PM
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Women's pocket envy usually ends at being able to fit a phone, keys and a small wallet. There's no need to carry your whole house around in your bottoms. That's what bags are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:26 PM
0

Gaming is mainstream. A lot of anime is watched by casual fans. Nothing wrong with either. It's the people who start embracing their identities as Gamers and Otaku (Weebs) and get obsessed that get weird and unpleasant. Full disclosure, worked in a game-adjacent tech field, played games, watched anime and read manga through my mid-20s. There's a definite difference between casual fans and the weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:08 PM
1

Upvote for buttergolem trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:51 PM
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They're not but the assertion that a woman who has a decent income is immediately unattractive unless her money comes from doing sex work is sort of extreme as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:21 PM
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What's the alternative? Women who make a lot of money tend to be old, unattractive and difficult. The kind in suits that are senior bank managers, probably yeah. A lot of these guys are young and only make 6 figures because they work in tech. They can find a girl who works in tech in a similar salary range in the same age range, they definitely exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:23 PM
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Yeah, and it's not like you can walk into a CVS and just buy it over the counter without going to the doctor first for a prescription for oral contraceptives. That doctor visit is another cost, and there's always the possibility you're going to get stuck with a doctor who refuses to prescribe it for XYZ reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:32 AM
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That really sounds like Tinder is oversaturated with dudes then. I'm not on any OLD sites and I still get weird facebook "Friend" requests from either old guys or dudes with the 6'2" music producer type photos. I tend to think the latter profiles are a scam but that might be because I'm old and know I'm not some hot young Stacy that these guys would be actually interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:49 AM
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The thing is they're not all actively doing something about it. They're just using this framework to complain. I don't really see the bar getting raised much here because that would mean they all have to put in the work for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:54 PM
1

What about twitch, Steam, and Discord? At this point everything is social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:38 AM
2

Did anyone else read the Legaladvice post about the guy who wanted to sue because he paid for dinner and didn't get sex? The girl who was being sued posted it and said it wasn't negotiated, he gave his card to the waiter when she was in the bathroom and it was paid for before she ever saw the bill. Legally he had no leg to stand on since there was no agreement of any kind so it was treated as a gift and he was essentially arguing he was paying for prostitution while it was a regular date with no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:38 PM
2

I found the comment to be pretty funny. I’m almost sure it was meant to be, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:06 AM
2

I live in LA so take this as you will, but I used to work with a guy who considered veganism feminine and meat-eating masculine, and I happened to be the only woman in the office not following some special diet, so he would call me names like "Meat Girl" and "Beef Chick" and whatnot. This was after we had catered In-N-Out burgers and I had one because they're delicious, it's not like I brought in a standing rib roast to the office for lunch or anything. I'm pretty sure he only dated vegetarians …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:54 PM
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Might be a personal bias, but I don't think Olivia's exactly a shrinking violet either though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:56 PM
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Lol, one of the quotes is from someone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:16 PM
1

Agreed, I feel that way about the OG soup as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:02 PM
4

Haven't done that yet but I have mastered Olive Garden soup and breadsticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:25 PM
2

Fully agree. Meaningless thought garbage, saying things just to say them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:15 PM
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"So Becky, why did you break up with Kool Aid Man?" "He keeps busting through my drywall because he says he's too alpha to use doors."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:43 PM
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Looks fade; dumb is forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:25 PM
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No. Absolutely not, maybe it happens if they're destined to be 6'2" and big-boned. I didn't ask to be 5'1" and I wish I was taller every day. As a child the doctor said I would be 5'4" and I feel disappointed in my height instead of grateful to be undersized.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:46 PM
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You're right, he won't. But he'll hold that experience as the pinnacle of his existence and be disappointed in every other girl he can get from then on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:53 AM
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None that I know of. Some of my male friends have been cheated on but I did not pick those girls to be friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:35 AM
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I have never been this woman so I can't say. Never had a ONS or a casual sex relationship. However, not tagging this as Q4W is going to lead to all sorts of wild responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:39 PM
1

I did try out the Instant Pot for a brisket and it came out pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:17 PM
2

I agree. There's too much black and white thinking in this board about pretty much everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:10 AM
1

I sort of resent the stereotype that women who have jobs can't cook and that only tradcon women can feed themselves. Cooking is fun and saves money versus eating out. Yeah, I probably won't be making a 4-hour roast after coming back from the office but I can do that on the weekend and make quicker meals during the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:46 PM
3

I’m convinced this is staying up for shits n giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:23 AM
1

Reminds me of the meme "Hello my name is Firstname Bunchofnumbers and i have some incredibly shitty opinions"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:49 AM
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There probably are but the point is if it's her card he's NOT paying so that's just fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:52 PM
2

I like the idea and would encourage it, unless it seemed like a cult. I haven't done it myself but wouldn't say no to trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:38 PM
1

You’re right, I’m really starting to notice how dated this chart looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:55 AM
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Sometimes the same girl was sleeping with all of us. Eskimo brothers. Wait. Are you sure you guys aren't her harem instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:55 PM
2

Ok, that's fair. I ask because there are some people who really would consider only their own needs here and dump quickly after taking what they wanted. Even in the scenarios where a woman has sex with a guy on the first date and he loses respect it isn't directly because you slept with him, its indirectly that he assumes you had sex with lots of other men and that asuption is the root of what makes him lose interest. I've never done that but even when people say "I don't ever do this" and do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:07 AM
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The problem with this is that it's entirely subjective beyond attractive/unattractive. You call Tom Brady a 9.5 but Tom Hardy a 7 and I'm willing to bet there are a lot of women here who would invert those ratings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:58 AM
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Yeah, especially if they have a hateful or avoidant personality both before and after.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:45 AM
2

Devil's Advocate type question... so let's say you finally get a date with a virgin. After a few dates (more than you would put up with from someone with any experience), you finally convince her to have sex. And it's terrible. Then what? Do you dump her and consider her used goods and move on to the next virgin, or do you stay with her and keep trying? What if you don't like her enough to stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:25 AM
1

This gets asked here every 2 weeks but it's not a thing. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:11 AM
2

It's kind of funny because telling Asian girls that "White guys must like you" is usually meant as an insult because it means you have features that Asians think White people think are attractive but Asians don't, like tan skin, monolid/slanted eyes, prominent cheekbones, and flat, sleek hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:42 PM
3

"I love when I can smell a man's colon"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:42 PM
0

I feel like the unasked-for putdowns on social media are combative themselves. Why would you have to loudly insult others to advertise yourself as a man-pleaser if you can do it quietly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:27 PM
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This is a weird concept for me because where I live (Southern California), most private schools are only for the obscenely wealthy/famous or the religious. The UMC families typically just sent their kids to public schools in their wealthy school districts near where they live. Yes, some of the white blonde teens in Manhattan Beach look like models/volleyball players, but that's only a segment of that population as a whole. Edit: The best-looking high school class I've ever seen was my friend's c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 06:35 AM
3

Yeah, if they're saying it tastes like dirt, it's not good chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:59 PM
6

People here take statistics about the negative outcome as a guarantee it will happen. Women over 35 are less fertile and have a higher (1/70 vs 1/400) chance of having a baby with Down's Syndrome, but everyone here seems to think it's a given these will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:40 PM
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I see them but it's not anywhere as bad as it would be in places where mayonnaise salads and cheese casseroles are the norm. And I'm in LA also.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:54 PM
2

On here? People here aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:15 AM
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It's creepy to us because it reduces us to a commodity with a binary aspect of New or Used.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:03 PM
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Right. A 38 year old housewife who worked until 30 and has kept up on industry information? Possibly. One who only completed a few semesters of community college almost 2 decades ago and hasn't taken any coursework since? Very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 03:10 AM
2

It can vary. I have a degree in a bullshit subject and got a tech job. But I also graduated Magna Cum Laude from a top tier school and made Phi Beta Kappa with it. Finished all my requirements early and took a bunch of other unrelated classes that were more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 11:27 PM
3

I don't think men would notice most of the cases women report as female hair loss except for the ones that are pretty severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:59 AM
3

When and where? The internet has killed off a lot of magazines and for good reason. The main readers today probably grew up reading it in the 80s and 90s but I can't imagine anyone young with an internet connection spending money on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:06 PM
2

I personally think that's why he's so fond of Kim Jong Un, because he has that level of control over his people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:06 AM
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To be fair, he tried to ban it first. Really the only thing he tried to do that I supported.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 09:49 PM
2

You can also go to a tailor. I actually know a guy who does this for casual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:10 AM
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They don’t have to be expensive but well-fitting, contextually appropriate, and clean clothes are important. I’m not saying he needs to be ready to attend a black tie event tomorrow, but showing up to a restaurant in sweaty gym clothes, or gaming t-shirts with cargo shorts isn’t going to score any points. You can buy most of your clothes at Target and still look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:11 PM
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Obese and unhealthy and consider public health precautions as oppression. A winning combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:18 PM
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It probably is culturally defined. I was born in the US but I was raised to take responsibility for damned near everything (Japanese family, strong, STRONG sense of guilt and shame). A lot of the examples people cite here are actually a bit baffling to me, especially people who raise their daughters like princesses who can do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:42 AM
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They’re revolting all right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:09 PM
2

What if you own a duck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:35 PM
1

But Socialism iz bad rite?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:32 PM
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This guy, has heard stories from other coworkers, other classmates, etc. and knows that the girl likes to have fun (no problem with that). He automatically views her in a sexual tense, due to the stories he has heard. Man makes advances, woman turns him down politely but is very upset that she is looked at as a "sexual toy". This happened to me at work, because the rumors were started by my boss as revenge for turning him down. Eventually I was the one who got "laid off" but I did not sleep with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 01:14 AM
1

What if she masturbates alone with a phallic object? Does her N count go up with every different product she tries?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:05 AM
1

I'm guessing it was chicken neck, probably grilled. You know a Japanese restaurant is authentic when the menu is nearly unreadable due to the bad English. Edit: it could also have been poorly translated salmon or yellowtail "collar"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 12:01 AM
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Children now have different accents from their grandparents. This is a result of widespread media usage (i.e., the internet and television), not really immigration. It's happening everywhere--you'll find far fewer young people with thick regional US accents like the Philly Delco accent today as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 06:29 PM
5

it's dark, opulent and sexually twisted My sides. No one is taking this thing seriously besides you. It's like an extended comedy sketch, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:52 PM
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With my terrible endometriosis and PCOS, I had to have a cyst removed that could have cost me one of my ovaries, so my doctor recommended it. Turned out it did not have to be removed, just a piece of it cut off, but I'm now old and I still have them frozen just in case I change my mind on kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 11:36 PM
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The direct cause isn't fully understood but the risk is higher if you have PCOS (which I do), have low body weight or are under 35 or have high estrogen levels before taking the HCG trigger shot before the procedure. In my case I had also been taking Lupron for several months before I started on the other treatments to stimulate egg production so that might have added to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:07 PM
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Yesterday I saw a pretty girl at the mall and I thought "she's really a good breeding specimen, I wish I could have her eggs and then have kids with her dna". Who is going to actually carry the kids? You're not a salmon that can just spooge on the eggs and leave them to hatch in the river.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:45 PM
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It's not painful unless you get Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome. I did and it was horribly painful and kept me out of work for 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:44 PM
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They want someone young and independently wealthy without a career. Most of those guys are going to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 06:28 PM
12

I was told very early on in my time on this board that I am a gold digger because I earn 6 figures and my SO makes the same, actually slightly less at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 06:25 PM
3

Just cook thighs longer. That's the huge plus, they don't really dry out unless you're way, way overdoing it. You can also buy boneless thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 01:05 AM
3

This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:06 AM
5

Its all about coming and telling the boys you blew the back out of some girl and earning respect if she was fine. Uhh, so max respect is anal prolapse? I'm too old for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 12:42 AM
3

Only if he created her personally in a lab to love only him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 05:51 AM
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Those would be the people sat behind a computer all day who have time to engage in this shit, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:50 PM
12

They just lost so they probably also lost their homes and livelihoods (much of Japan was firebombed to hell), had little money, and were malnourished from years of war rationing. That's of the men that survived. I've watched countless documentaries about postwar Japan and a common lament among these women was that all the young men in their age group were drafted into the military and subsequently killed in the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:02 PM
1

To quote my friend who falls in the omega male category for most the reasons mentioned, "who wants to do all that?" He probably still does better than some of the incels though, because he's not hateful and actually wants to talk to women. He just doesn't feel the need to improve his situation much (he did recently get a full-time job for the first time in years, so at least that's something).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:55 PM
3

I have PCOS and endometriosis and a BMI of 21.5. I don't think that's fat enough to count as obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:51 AM
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I think we also have a lot of tradcon Bible Belters raised in purity culture here, even if they're no longer religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 07:36 PM
5

The 21yo looks 30 and the 30yo looks 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:08 PM
20

My favorite part of this is the lack of actual edits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:56 PM
2

Must be true for me because whenever you guys here post images of the 6'6" GigaChad models you think women set as the standard with enormous square jaws and shoulders the width of a Mack truck, I just think they look odd and a bit alien in a way I can't relate to at all. I see people that I am attracted to far more in real life than those male models.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 05:24 PM
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If you're looking for the best, look for Egyptian or Turkish cotton. Egyptian cotton is supposed to be the softest and most absorbent, but it may not be the best choice if you live in a humid climate since once wet, it takes a long time to dry out so is prone to mildew growth in those areas. Turkish cotton is less absorbent but is a good luxury alternative and dries on the towel rack quickly. I bought my Ralph Lauren Turkish towels from Macy's nearly a decade ago and they're still holding up wel…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 08:11 PM
5

First good laugh I've had today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 06:02 PM
3

The easily played get played by everyone, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:46 PM
2

Did a homestay in Japan for the summer in college, definitely would not have happened. We were treated like children and not adhering to the rules like being out late would have been considered very rude to the host family. The one person who insisted on going out all the time on their own and coming back late and drunk did indeed get kicked out and sent home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:46 PM
5

I would, too, but not for the reasons he thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:21 PM
3

Probably more in Kabukicho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:32 PM
2

NHK World is my happy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:30 PM
5

Also, that their experience makes you a liar and thus you're lying that you don't like ice cream. In fact, they will think you have a fetish for ice cream and it's actually the only dessert you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:25 PM
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I agree but I also think there's a sizable number of Bible Belt evangelical purity culture veterans who feed into this, that predates much of internet culture. Think promise rings and purity balls. Also Mormons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:29 PM
1

There's likely some plastic surgery involved to feminize certain features. Some women would probably benefit from it, too, but the procedures are usually marketed at mtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:55 PM
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Yes, absolutely. I often notice positive things about people over time that I might not have really noticed right off and that might make me like them more. I think the only "No" pile people that would be there permanently are people that are there because they did or said something offensive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:28 AM
1

I don't even think most men do that, just some thirsty weirdos here. Guys who go places and do things with friends are busy talking to their friends. Sure, a hot girl might catch their eye if she walks by right in front of him but this complete assessment of everyone in the vicinity isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:43 PM
2

The guys who say any amount of makeup instantly makes you slutty and trashy are cracking me up. "I knew she was a whore because I couldn't see the dark circles under her eyes!" Right, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:35 AM
2

This is true but you can get called a boomer for almost anything now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:00 PM
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I'm pretty short but I do weigh less now, 125 was my highest weight stated for honesty (I have never been in the overweight category by BMI). But my point still stands--I have narrow hips and short legs, plus childish features that just aren't 'hot' and will never be without plastic surgery, but I'm ok with that personally. Just explaining that not everyone who isn't 'hot' is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:04 PM
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I've been considered cute maybe but never hot my whole life and I've also never weighed more than 125lbs. Some people just aren't that type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:59 PM
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Friend of mine works in a boat shop and he says from what he's seen the old adage is true: “The two happiest days in a boat owner's life: the day you buy the boat, and the day you sell the boat.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:15 PM
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dudes who, if you told them to wash the dishes, they wouldn't wash the cups because that's not a dish. This is the perfect analogy for some of the engineers I work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:58 AM
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I actually do see a lot of groups of men at high-end restaurants, it's not just the guys I know. Some of them are probably on expense accounts, but simply enjoying good food doesn't make you a soyboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:58 PM
1

dinner at an expensive white-tablecloth restaurant? I actually know a group of guys from work who plan dinners out together just for the experience of eating at these places. Maybe not all white-tablecloth places, but award-winning or new places opened by notable chefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:49 PM
3

My SO is Chinese and I don't think he cares one way or the other if I took his name or not as long as any kids had his last name. If I took his I'm not giving up any of my email addresses since my own name combo is super unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:30 AM
2

That's the problem with this board, they take AWALT to mean all women think and behave the same and anyone who reports their personal experience or preferences to be outside of their bias must be a liar. Anecdata to the contrary doesn't CMV for anyone, just makes them angry and feel lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:48 PM
2

May I recommend ZeFrank's True Facts About the Anglerfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:30 PM
5

At least we're not Anglerfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:01 PM
1

Yeah. They could, but I doubt that'd happen anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:01 PM
3

Gonna be hard. Xenoestrogens are in all sorts of preservatives and additives in commercially produced food. Your best bet is probably to buy only organic products from farmer's markets as much as possible, which probably sounds unappealing and unmanly to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:21 PM
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Maybe 30 years ago. He puts mayonnaise in his hair, some of it probably travels to his mouth too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:50 PM
2

How long have you been here, if you had any expectations whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:49 AM
2

It's true I am pale, but that's not how it works, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:14 PM
1

As an ethnically Japanese person, I'm extremely confused by this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:43 PM
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They are not. Judging by the posts here, men on PPD think the only attractive men in the world are pro wrestlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:00 PM
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I was thinking the same. They’re supposed to be international women of mystery themselves, with means and top secret intel, not innocent milkmaids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:39 AM
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I have a friend who’d post stuff like that all the time when she was a virgin because she thought it was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:51 PM
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Does this mean only 5% of women are attractive? And is this in your opinion your own taste, or do you think most men really only want the same 5% of women? Not an attack, I’m just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 11:28 PM
1

I guess I should go to Vietnam if I want to be average!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:56 AM
1

That's interesting. I'm 5'1" and when I go to Japan I'm... less short but still pretty short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:29 AM
3

Also I know some gay dudes who don’t like anal either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:03 AM
6

PPD: you don’t love me unless you’re literally psychotic!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:59 AM
3

In high school almost no one is making enough gold to dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:55 PM
1

That's awesome then, props to him for accomplishing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:28 AM
1

That's sort of alarming if that's medically obese, he doesn't even look fat. He must have had exceptionally poor muscle tone previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:53 PM
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However, my question is if just looking makes someone a pedo according to people. Depends if your hand is on your dick while you're looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 01:33 AM
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To add to this, it may not be 60-80 hours of actual work for everyone, but also time spent commuting and time away from home since many people spend an additional 10+ hours or more getting to and from work per week and meal breaks are usually required but unpaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:48 AM
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My father worked 60 hours a week as an executive and made a great salary and my mom stayed home all week and went to work on Saturdays only and I spent every Saturday with my dad growing up. It was actually pretty great to have a dedicated day with my dad like that, but I'm also an only child so I didn't have to compete with others for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:45 AM
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No, you're confusing this with normal people being turned off by the guys who say they're looking for a wife and throw down a list of requirements for the perfect virgin Mormon sex doll/baby factory. Most women want a relationship that develops into love, not some rando to dump a fuck into them and leave. The few that want the latter usually have issues and something to prove to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:44 AM
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The incestuous overtones make me want to vomit. I cannot for the life of me imagine that a well-adjusted woman who has a good relationship with her own father would want to call a man she has a sexual relationship with "daddy".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:24 PM
3

Do the needful!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:37 AM
9

Adding to this: loud screaming orgasms from no or minimal touching (bad acting), surprise gangbangs, squirting, gaping orifices or prolapse, changing positions constantly, zero prep rough anal, slapping and spitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:31 AM
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OP watched "You" and is hoping he can have a similar bookstore encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:22 PM
5

2TB internal SSD, a Picard shirt, some blu-rays, and some candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:02 PM
5

Gold-diggers tend to encourage gold-digging in others. Most people aren't like this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:55 PM
2

Those actually are pretty ugly women's shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 11:20 PM
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If she can afford it, why not? I know men who don't do these things either but no one calls them lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:35 PM
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I'm not. I've never been hot, and I've never even been young. I was one of those babies who start creepily talking about random stuff that sounds like it was from a past life as soon as I could form sentences. I can bake some pretty good cookies though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:38 PM
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I would be too, that and more superchargers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 12:32 AM
2

This is quickly also becoming “which Tesla is ours”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:24 PM
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You joke but I'm actually buying my SO a SSD for Valentine's day. Still less expensive than these bullshit diamonds. Yes, though unfortunately they don't last as long.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:33 PM
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It is. Laminated doughs take hours to make because you have to roll, chill, roll, chill, etc to create the layers. And sometimes if the conditions are wrong, you can do everything right and they'll still come out hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 09:26 PM
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"Non-normie" men are seen as either weirdos or brilliant. "Non-normie" women are just seen as social failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:16 AM
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MGTOW has a reputation on other major subs for brigading and making agenda posts, so people on other subs are going to be more aware of it and complain to admins more if they see something they don't like. I don't think the rest of reddit is even aware FDS exists. I only ever hear of it on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:40 PM
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Ahhh, thanks for clarifying! It was both, I simply had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:05 PM
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lighter crypto whores What does this mean, they want payments in Litecoin?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:53 AM
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They were also direct about what they wanted, didn't hint anything, I find this interesting about people from Japan that when they interact with foreigners, they're super blunt, almost rude sometimes, because they've been taught that Japanese culture is indirect and the opposite of western culture, so in dealing with outsiders, they should expect the opposite and behave accordingly. Regarding Japanese-Americans, I remember the weirdest praise I ever got was from a boss who said I "wasn't like (h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:18 PM
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He didn't say he was short in the OP, which he probably would have if he thought going to Japan would be an advantage for him. I once saw a post on a different Japan travel forum where a guy said "Am I going to be a giant in Japan? I'm 5'9". He does, however, come off like someone with horrific social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:07 PM
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I don’t know if this counts as agreeing or not but some people will never be sexy even if they lose a lot of weight if their proportions are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:38 PM
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there is so much play that is gender neutral. Is riding your bike a "boy" or "girl" activity? Finger painting? Play-doh? A toy keyboard or drum set? I know some people who don't appear to do any of these things with their kids; all their play is either Disney Princess EVERYTHING for the girls and Marvel/video games for the boys and every minute not doing these things or school/homework is spent in front of a screen. I'm fully aware this is a terrible way of parenting but I'm sure they're not alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:54 AM
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There's definitely some subjectivity thrown in though. I've seen people who won't ever rate certain races above a certain score because that happens to be their preference and act like that's objective measurement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:17 PM
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If OP is even remotely looking to C his V on this I'll truly be shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:06 AM
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I've been to work happy hours but always left by 8pm. Otherwise, yeah, it matches up with my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:10 PM
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It sounds like you just really don't like other people so even if you didn't have to do anything differently and some girl was head over heels for you, you wouldn't really care outside of being able to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:37 AM
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And then after I was done I would bow. So respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:16 PM
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I hate thongs and I thought they were out of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:14 PM
2

I know a 400lb gay guy who loves him some thongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:13 PM
2

And then when they fight to asset dominance they roar like they're summoning satan. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8eyOA5ub8E
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:45 PM
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My cousin died at age 37 of congestive heart failure from a lifetime of drug use. He was always the cool guy until he got sick and his body swelled to twice its size in the years before he died. Not a glamorous way to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:32 PM
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Only if they have the odor of Eau de Spoiled Milk and wear sandals with socks. So hot right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:59 PM
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It's sort of the "don't be unattractive" part of "be attractive; don't be unattractive" maxim that reddit is famous for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:24 PM
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if you dress like an actual manchild. If you work in the tech or game industry this is at least 50% of engineers and QA. Graphic tees and hoodies with unkempt beards and twice yearly haircuts by Fantastic Sams are everywhere. The bar to dressing better than this is not that high in these industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:16 PM
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Ask him what kind? And also remind him egg salad is gonna take a lot longer than other ones so how hungry are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:44 AM
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But honestly, a dude that comes in wanting to be a woman's first love has a giant ego and will probably have issues with seeing women as individuals over a personal possession. I'm not sure about egos but I see this a lot in anime fan types where they watch a lot of media that presents girls as new objects to be collected, unwrapped, and consumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:43 PM
2

But are they horse-sized ducks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:40 PM
1

I did exactly this but became the disappointment by "only" going to UCLA instead of USC and saving them 75% of the money they saved for me. I'm glad they paid for me since I would have qualified for 0 aid as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:30 AM
1

Do you have a vertical rotisserie at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 08:52 PM
1

My number one fave is James McAvoy, gonna see him in stage next month. My friends tell me he’s short and has a big nose and looks super normal if not ugly. Other ones: Daniel Craig (he’s literally James Bond so I don’t know what they’re on about, Jeremy Renner, Rami Malek. I happily acknowledge these are all conventionally attractive guys, but they’re not everyone’s favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:39 PM
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This man is going to have a prenup a mile long and tell her she doesn’t have to work again, and her allowance will be $20 a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:28 PM
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Go to Korea for the skull surgery, Russia or China for the leg surgery, be in recovery for 10 months, end up looking like Frankenstein’s monster and he leaves you for a natural anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:05 PM
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I really hate this question when the answer is always "I never ask, I can just tell by looking and what other information I can find" because I was the target of some bad harassment at an old job where several guys claimed they slept with me and I slept with none of them. Also the TRP lists of "slut tells" contain some really stupid ones like "drinks anything other than <current trendy fruity drink>", "messy house", "if she has any male friends she's had sex with all of them", "went to college",…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:50 AM
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Hot to me. Female. Many of my friends think the male celebrities I like are ugly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:44 AM
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Lol, they’d hate the music at their parties anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:40 PM
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This is true, but they’re all happily doing each other, there’s no line of sorority girls waiting to get in at the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:31 PM
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Also it doesn't matter because they believe everyone is high N if they don't look like a homeschooled Mormon regardless of what they actually say or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:53 PM
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Agreed that's insane. He'd be screening out actual nice people. The only people that pass his test would be people who enjoy vicious gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:40 PM
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Why are you so eager to P&D someone who clearly wants something different? Plenty of other fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:15 AM
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This is absolutely true, and Asians have a lower BMI threshold at which we can start developing health issues. I probably have more muscle mass than what you're thinking, though, so it's not all belly fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:23 PM
3

Sugar in bread. Sugar in drinks. Sugar in everything. It's corn syrup. In addition to being a sweetener, it also acts as a preservative to lengthen the shelf-life of foods. $$$ all around for those producing these products.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:32 PM
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I have a BMI of 22 and get called fat buuuut... I'm Asian and live in Los Angeles. I imagine if I lived in Louisiana it would be different, race issues aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:29 PM
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When men cheat there's a lot of plotting, lying and scheming involved. Gaslighting, manipulating, etc. Since we're going only by anecdotal personal experience. My cheating ex picked my friend to cheat on me with and tried to turn all my friends against me for shits and giggles. I didn't cheat on him but I did date his friend after I left him so I'm sure he told everyone else it was me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:50 PM
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My mom called me ugly all the time and said I'd look much better if I got plastic surgery lol. She still does, in fact. Edit: not in a mocking way. She literally thought she was being genuinely helpful so I wouldn't have inappropriate expectations out of life. It gave me cripplingly poor self-esteem instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:27 PM
2

The guys here make it sound like women all want men who look like Tom of Finland.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:14 AM
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Why would you pimp slap a woman who doesn’t have anything to do with you if she doesn’t need you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:14 PM
3

That's horrific but ultimately, I wouldn't avoid doing something that benefited my life because of the possible inconvenience it would cause upon my death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:03 AM
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Agreed, it's not the actual lift but the confidence that comes with it for him. I don't see this as a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 01:38 AM
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If he looked good in his photos and showed up in anime gear, it was a shit test from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:08 AM
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In true public, like on the street, I don't evaluate the attractiveness of strangers at all. In places like work or a class where I can see how they talk or move or smell, maybe 35%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:44 PM
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There are plenty of women without children who don't go on places like /childfree though, who are happy and fulfilled. Kind of like how there are lots of men who just do their own thing without being on MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:41 PM
2

They probably thought they were being novel, it's not a standard just because it's on TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:37 AM
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I've never bothered to look in there and I'd rather ignore it for PPD. Kind of glad this thread exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:00 PM
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thread about birth plans, fathers in the delivery room etc Great, I can just see it. Incels arguing for no C-sections, epidurals, elimination of Medicare coverage for anything related to maternity and childbirth; MRPs arguing for C-sections or the "husband's stitch".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:16 PM
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Muscle can help with face and frame. Guys with a doughy face who lose the fat through lifting can improve their appearance that way, and this can give them confidence. Fitness is never a bad idea. The problem is when they believe it is the only idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:45 PM
1

What is wawa hoagie?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:08 AM
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I'm close to your age and while I'd probably never use it, I don't think there's anything wrong with it if people are getting what they want out of it. If they're 40 and complaining that hot 19 year olds aren't responding then that's pretty annoying but if they're happy I don't see a problem with it. Edited to add: I think the problem is when people of any age don't understand that they're not literally ordering sex off the internet. It's just facilitating a meeting but you aren't literally buyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:25 PM
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It gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:52 PM
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I've only touched 2 dicks my entire life and I've been with the same guy since I was 18 and have had men say to me they don't believe me because of XYZ reasons, that must be a lie because I drink whiskey or have male friends or because I'm Japanese and apparently all Japanese girls are major sluts. It's irritating and I'm not looking to date them, this just comes up in conversations but it makes me think that might be happening for a lot of other actual low-N women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:49 PM
2

Honestly yeah, this is stupid. Been going to E3 since 2002 and it was never solely a male space.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:20 AM
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I played far more games 10 years ago, mostly FPS games like the first Modern Warfare, Black Ops, Killzone, etc. Yep, Tits or GTFO was standard for a girl talking in the game. So I played with my mic off and got to enjoy the game like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:18 AM
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I upvoted this for the first sentence, not the pizza part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 09:30 PM
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Maybe it's because I'm Asian but I don't think he was bad looking. It was the rest of him that made him awful. In any case, had I been his age and liked him I would have been trash to him anyway since he only wanted blonde White women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:28 AM
2

The only pillow with words I have ever coveted was one that said "Be nice or leave"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:34 PM
4

Correct, women care as much about your watch as you care about their purse. It's an item to impress other men, not women. If it helps you feel confident that's good but you'd be better off spending that money on a closet full of flattering clothes and taking your car to get maintained and detailed than on a timepiece.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:19 AM
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Do you know how we know? As soon as women have children, if it's any way financially possible, a majority of women drop out of the work for, temporarily or permanently. And a lot of this is because childcare is very expensive and if she doesn't earn enough money, she's basically just working to pay for childcare she could do herself. Then, children don't go to school full-time until they're 5, so that's 5 years out of the workforce assuming she doesn't have more kids. Depending on the job, it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:51 PM
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And they all think if they were female they'd be 9/10 hot with men giving them stacks of cash just for being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:27 PM
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Lol, then we have several bi guys here. Always interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:23 PM
1

I know which guy you're talking about; he fascinates me. Only attracted to ultrafeminine waif types but calls himself a twink and orders dick online from dudes when he wants it. I'm dying of curiosity of what this guy looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:00 PM
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I wouldn’t think it makes a woman sexy, but a man who says a financially independent woman is a turn-off would be a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:47 PM
1

I was worried you were gonna be over 40. At your age it’s not a big deal. Just stay legal and away from high schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:44 AM
2

Lmao TIL my whole team is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 09:58 PM
5

Simon Pegg cannot become a Chad by gymmaxxing for example, he'll still be an average schmuck but with muscles. And lot of women find Simon Pegg attractive. He also happens to be funny, which is why he's famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 09:38 PM
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Next it's going to be "Women, do you cook?" but it doesn't count if it's to feed yourself or feed a man or feed a family. Also it doesn't count if you used a cookbook or learned from your mother, only if you learned from Le Cordon Bleu or YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 12:48 AM
13

Right? He'll ask for her insta and get bored immediately when he sees she either doesn't have one (she does but it's for some dorky interest and not selfies) or it's all pictures of her pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:29 AM
15

Possible reasons? Super introverted Poor/bad social skills - No female friends means no going out where guys are, stays home and reads booksand writes fanfiction Afraid of men Not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:22 AM
2

I've seen women called gold diggers for not wanting to date a NEET on this site while they themselves had jobs and money, so who knows really?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:51 PM
0

They all do now that someone took a photo of her without her sweatshirt and turns out she has a huge rack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 10:04 PM
1

Yeah, I can think of a case where it's needed and that's for the guys and girls who live with their parents and continue to behave as the child into their 30s. Then when they get into relationships they become super codependent and force their partner to confirm to their parents' wishes and standards. At that point, is your partner dating you or mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:46 PM
2

I've heard them referred to as wedding vegetables before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:58 AM
4

"IT" was an interdimensional hermaphroditic space clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:55 AM
1

Relevant video
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:30 PM
1

They're reliable, boring cars. I say I'm a Camry but I actually drive an Infiniti.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:28 PM
1

Japanese born in the US, like a a Camry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:13 AM
1

Age: 37 Ethnicity: Toyota Camry Location: SoCal Income: $140k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:23 PM
1

Lmao the eyebrows
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:53 PM
2

Upvote for stadium on his head, that's a new one to me. But those guys should definitely shave it at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:26 PM
2

Actually, BB and being used for money and utilities for unattractive women is totally a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 09:46 PM
6

They don't and many of them are very angry to be left with this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 09:42 PM
1

As a female who isn't a hot young white girl and isn't interested in casual sex I'd never use Tinder ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 09:38 PM
15

With advances in cosmetic surgery, I'd actually argue the opposite. You can study all you like but dumb is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:21 PM
3

I'm 37 and horrified by you kids. Wrap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:31 AM
2

I don’t know where you’re from but in my area none of these restaurants exclusively employ hotties and if a girl is beautiful she’s not going to squander her looks trying to get extra tips from you ordering the ultimate red velvet cheesecake, she’d go for a modeling or acting job instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:34 AM
2

I was about to comment that he doesn’t look that bad but then I saw this. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:29 AM
2

Usually some of them died so having a lot didn’t always mean you had to feed them all at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:04 AM
5

its also really annoying to listen to a guy blather on about what he plans to do or how he's "going to make it" lol Imagine how much worse this sounds after 40 when it doesn't happen but they're still dreaming big about something in the far future lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:01 AM
1

It's one of the RP tenets that gets thrown around here a lot. Obviously women could never be doctors or lawyers or manage their finances! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:34 PM
3

I keep seeing the "make his plate" or "fix his plate" thing on twitter and I really don't get it. Maybe it's because in my house either everyone's plate is fixed or it's self-serve so you can get the portions you want. In any case this takes like 20 seconds if the food's already done so I don't see why these women are bragging about it like it's a skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:55 PM
1

Yeah, film varies widely depending on the project, I'm sure. I didn't actually go into video games myself, I'm in a 'game-adjacent' company but it's actually ecommerce and so the work is steady instead of project-based and the pay is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:00 AM
2

A lot of the animation people I know went into video games instead. Lots of ugly people, working long, crunch-y hours but they got better jobs that also paid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:46 PM
1

I still do. You do see the hottest hosts at some of the high-end restaurants here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:44 PM
3

This friend of mine dragged me to one of their info sessions before I really knew what it was and it scared the hell out of me and I thought it was a cult for sure. There was a guy there shouting along with the speaker like he was in a Southern Revival church, but for the teachings of Landmark and not God.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:42 PM
5

Scientology/Landmark/est I had a friend who got into Landmark and invited me to her bachelorette party where 100% of the Landmark girls believed in horoscopes and the only ones that didn't were me and another of her high school friends who didn't do Landmark.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:29 PM
12

It's not just the price, it's also the composition, full of added sugars and hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:57 PM
9

I'm kind of sick of hearing this while also hearing moaning about how very few women are actually attractive and complaining about women with short hair, women who don't shave, women who don't wear dresses, etc. It's more like "don't be unattractive" than anything else. It doesn't automatically make a woman attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:41 PM
3

garbage, litter, home maintenance, mowing, edging, cleaning the outside of the house, trimming the bushes, cleaning / staining the porch / patio, killing hornets and wasps... My SO grew up in another country with maids in a condo and doesn't have a clue how to do any of this. Fortunately I live in a condo now so this is reduced but there's no way he'd take to these chores naturally if we moved to a single family home like a champ because penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:26 PM
1

Haha! We definitely do age, that’s why I’m trying to take care of my skin as much as possible in small ways. I just happen to look extra young because I have childish facial features and I’d rather not like a geriatric child just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:27 PM
2

Maybe true. I'm Asian and I can tell when other people look old though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:28 PM
2

I'm sure you're aware but in case anyone else is considering it, while retinol can help with sun damage, it can also make your skin more photosensitive and easily damaged all over again, so make sure to use a broad-spectrum sunscreen during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 07:59 PM
5

Or being Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 07:49 PM
4

One of my best guy friends does it. I don't call him out on it because it's none of my business but he says online he was born on April 1, 1982 instead of 1976 (April Fool's is not his actual birthday).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 07:47 PM
1

Men must be 2nd best then cause I still see that too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:29 PM
3

Two Buck Chuck doesn't age well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:22 PM
1

Early 30s is peak. Guys in their early 40s and up telling themselves that sorority girls are into them for anything other than material goods and 'rich' experiences they can post about on instagram are the ones lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:57 PM
1

I knew a rather chubby Chinese guy with an Oxford education and an accent to match, and that accent did a lot of work for him in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:13 AM
2

Nor British. I'm not even from there and I can tell you there's massive differences between RP English and Cockney, West Country and Northern, Glaswegian and Welsh, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:09 AM
2

Not a movie, but a series, The Naked Director. It’s about the rise of the porn king of Japan in the 80’s and it’s one of the best-looking Japanese TV shows I’ve ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 06:25 PM
6

Also she lived like 20 min drive from my house which imo is a little more driving than i care to do. You must not live in a major city, 20 minutes is nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 01:07 AM
1

I've had female friends shame me for tipping 18% instead of 20-25%. Meanwhile some of my dude friends tip 15% off the pre-tax amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:24 PM
19

Most porn is made by men for male consumption, so no. Women are far more likely to watch lesbian porn than the stuff you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:29 PM
2

Same, I already pay for my own stuff so nothing would actually change except OP's pride about his salary and tit-for-tat neuroses will probably come out in the wash and make him look like a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:01 PM
1

I was not aware women were even welcome in MGTOW. I support men doing their own thing but not the sub itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:56 PM
2

In a literal sense I suppose so but being an object of curiosity or regarded as a fetish does not mean I’m beautiful and I’m very aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:57 PM
3

Among my in-group (east Asian) I'm unattractive and I've always known this but in my life I've tended to get the most attention from white guys, and not always the troglodyte weebs either. It's flattering but I always assume it's either curiosity or fetish since I am objectively not attractive so it's sort of meaningless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:32 AM
1

Come to /r/short and you too can feel like shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:41 AM
1

What the actual fuck? How did she even think she'd get away with that? I look more like her filtered photo than she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:18 AM
10

Yep, if the guys here take it as free reign to slap, choke, and draw blood without asking they’re gonna be even more mad when some girls call the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:28 PM
1

Not all celebrity kids with beautiful parents are hot. My own genes would poison the well. #1 is outside the realm of possibility for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:55 AM
2

I have a friend who's 6 feet and is most attracted to men around 5'6"-9". But they don't like her back so I don't know how well that's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:32 PM
3

This place is like the barbershop in Gran Torino, say what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:58 PM
2

Everyone that posts on this sub must have old dads. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:08 AM
10

It might sound nice but most companies wouldn’t be willing to hire a mature woman with zero job experience into a position usually filled by younger, sharper minds. So it probably depends on what that career is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:13 PM
1

You can make it on a griddle or skillet instead of a tandoor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:19 AM
4

They look delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:08 AM
2

We've now reached peak calamaricel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:13 PM
4

Depends how fat, face gains are a thing with weight loss for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 08:59 PM
7

Are you progressively more frustrated and horny as the 90 days go by or do you reach a point where you ascend above it? Serious question as I’m not familiar with the NoFap philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 08:55 PM
1

No. I wouldn’t want to intentionally become a single mother. Also in my case my SO is from another culture and there’s no way I’d want to tie myself to his family forever without him to help navigate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:47 AM
3

I read this thread and OP was judged YTA because they assumed the woman was pregnant based on her weight distribution and hearing a small part of a conversation that could have been taken out of context, then changing her orders without acknowledging it until the bill came. It was possible the woman was no longer even pregnant but still carried some baby weight or had a recent miscarriage. Servers should not have a responsibility for what patrons consume as long as it is not misrepresented. How …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:52 PM
8

Often it means they think she looks easy and ugly enough she’ll work harder to make it better for him, good enough to dump a fuck into but wouldn’t want his friends to find out. Not flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:45 AM
3

I don't need to get married but I wouldn't have children or share finances without being married. That said I'm like 90% infertile so I'm not putting a lot of stock in having kids anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:59 PM
4

I get what others are saying here about men not respecting women but I'm like you in that I am really, really unable to participate in the FSM so I'd rather focus on professional competency, financial stability, etc. I like cooking and dressing nicely but most women don't even see me as a fellow female once we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:55 PM
3

So I guess it’s dog fucker week, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:05 AM
2

Generally the goal of homeownership, aside from merely having a place to live, is that you are purchasing an investment in the form of an appreciable asset that will provide you profit upon sale. In certain markets at the moment, it does seem questionable to buy in if you can't afford it and the amount you have to invest isn't enough to make the monthly mortgage/insurance near the price of market rent or if the property itself seems massively overvalued. But overall, it is a sound long-term stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:47 AM
2

Right, as long as you can pay it off and your credit score is good, you'll be better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:33 AM
4

I somehow managed to get through most of this thread but I lost it at the oatmeal, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:23 AM
5

Yeah maybe someone can CMV on this one but a mortgage you are paying off is technically a debt but that seems like a better thing to have than to just be paying rent that goes into someone else's pocket if you can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:20 PM
10

Especially if they’re into hentai.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:37 AM
6

Is this a Geico commercial?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:31 AM
2

I don’t see a problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:39 AM
1

Same here. For the life of me, I can never keep a female friends group, only one-on-one friendships. Within a group, individual women invariably always pair off against me because I must be doing something wrong. On the other hand, I'm part of lots of groups of mostly male friends because they don't have these same rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:14 PM
5

Yep, around 40 they all start wanting kids, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:50 PM
2

Also this thing about the covers... women don't buy the books for the guy on the cover, that's just whatever the publisher decides to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:09 AM
2

It's all literally free, user-submitted content. The writers don't write for money except for some pros just doing it for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:54 AM
2

Imagine a guy finds you so hot that he'd risk 10 years in jail to fuck you. These 88 year olds, so hot right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:51 PM
3

Human Anthopology 101: pre-civilization humans living in nomadic hunter-gatherer groups required a lot of investment from both the male and the female to survive. Men who ran away to impregnate other women while his mate was pregnant or rearing their baby risked returning to find them dead, or having to split resources with his new family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:28 PM
11

Some of column A, some of column B. Edit: been on the receiving end from other girls. Not saying I support bullying and its methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:27 AM
-1

The egg video is literally gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:25 AM
1

Dude needs to get a divorce before he becomes the next mass shooter. I don’t get why he’s still there unless this is all just venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:04 PM
6

tokio pop star That’s hilarious because when I was 14 I had the biggest crush on a pop star from the Japanese boy band TOKIO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:24 PM
0

There are too many possible definitions here. Have I set fire to a daughter in law for not providing enough dowry or encouraged other women to have babies out of wedlock to 'keep a man'? Certainly not. Have I pretended to forget to introduce a female friend to a male friend who expressed interest because I knew them well enough to think they would be a terrible match and didn't want the conflict? Yeah, more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:03 AM
1

I guess everyone is dumb in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:47 AM
3

Don't just stop at "hi" and stare at her back waiting for a reply. The "and some small talk" is important to keep a conversation going.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:47 PM
2

If you say and do something ridiculous and she has a ONS with you, it's not because of what you invented about yourself. She was prepared to have a ONS, with you or with someone else. If you spend weeks or months working on a low-N woman with the intent to pump-n-dump because the thrill of defiling her through deception give you jollies, that's another story and pretty despicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:39 PM
2

That doesn't make you sound like a good salesman, it just makes you sound like a shit friend. Edit: he sounds dumb, too, if he believed a YouTube Service Agent "from his area" is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:27 PM
3

He's old and likes 'em very large. It's fine if that works for him but telling all these young guys to shop at Walmart is pretty bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:08 PM
2

I'm Asian and James McAvoy is my one and only white celebrity crush. It's not just his face though, I've met him and he was extremely nice and does interesting and funny interviews. If he came off like a massive douche in real life when not acting (like Tobey) I would have lost interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:26 PM
4

I do, too. This whole "women only want guys with beady hunter eyes" thing is baffling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:11 PM
1

I saw Kelly Brook at The Grove a few years ago, sitting by herself taking selfies. Those measurements are super wrong. If I didn’t know she was famous I would assume she was a normal girl because of her size as celebs in LA (at the time I guess) were usually super slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:33 AM
1

Devilish in a Good Omens way, or a The Witch kind of way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 10:10 PM
8

It's true it's not hard not to become obese, but there's a huge difference between 'not fat' and ready to wear a bikini and look good in it this afternoon. Just being 'not fat' doesn't make a woman attractive, it just makes her not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:33 PM
2

I went to Shake Shack and ordered a double shackburger by mistake but it lasted for 3 meals!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:27 PM
3

I’ve met some obnoxiously deluded people but most of us know, and have known all our lives. Yes, sometimes pretty girls will try to compete with you for the validation guaranteed to them, even if they don’t want what you’re after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:11 AM
1

Maybe. Maybe screaming and shoving their faces in the direction of some dancer's extremely flaccid junk was just part of the experience there. I sure didn't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 10:41 PM
3

I went to one when I was 20 because my roommate forced me to go with her and her friends. It was embarrassing and all the dancers were clearly gay but some of the horny 50 year old ladies didn't seem to mind. Edited to add I refuse to ever go back to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 08:39 PM
1

Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:26 PM
2

That thread from yesterday seemed to confirm it. If the man didn't choose the woman, he may respond to the flattery but he ultimately isn't that interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 05:41 PM
1

Woman 1 is almost literally my friend, except she plays sports so she’s not fat. She’s just kind of masculine but she finally found a guy that’s into her and they had their golf-themed wedding. Her company isn’t beauty-oriented and she never wears makeup. Most of the nurses I know aren’t very fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:18 AM
1

If the weather keeps going the way it's been it won't be too many this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 10:15 PM
1

Pretty sure there's more money in IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 08:36 PM
1

My high school ex used to give his friend so much shit about how gross it was that he was dating a fat girl. I found out many years later that my ex married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 08:22 PM
2

All the girls who move here say they're a model-slash-actress, which means waitress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 08:11 PM
2

It depends where they are. If they live in LA and are complaining there aren't enough models I don't feel sorry for them but if they're in the rural midwest or the south I can very well see that as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:49 PM
2

It's completely subjective. I'm a woman and I'd pay for a 2-star Michelin dinner if I feel like it for both of us. You have guys in here screaming about not getting sex after Red Lobster.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:59 PM
2

Is that actually the same person? I can't even see any of the same features.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 11:57 PM
3

Yeah, sometimes you meet people who think they're tough but to everyone else they just come off as the male version of "I want to speak to your manager."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 11:38 PM
2

Those appeal to people who aren’t addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:47 PM
1

Yeah, that’s what I’m afraid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:43 AM
1

$8k for a nosejob my own mother barely noticed I have poor facial ratios and the amount of money it would take to correct them (even in Korea) is astronomical and frankly, I'm not even sure if it's possible, let alone worth it. I'd hate to spend so much money on a procedure that basically makes very little difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:38 AM
1

I'm 5'1", so let's just say 5'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:31 AM
5

Yeah, it's usually about the metaphorical dick. We don't all know what anyone's packing and it's just a silly meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:35 AM
1

At the time I posted this, kandyapplez' unequivocal Yes was the top post. I meant that the incel crew usually think posts like this are the most honest since it conforms to their beliefs and makes women look shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:34 AM
4

I'm 5'1", just being taller than me is enough. There are very few men shorter than me. Prefer 5'6-10", anything taller than 6' is too tall for me. The men I've found most attractive have all been 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:58 AM
4

I can guarantee the top answer is not mostly women upvoting it. It's dudes rewarding the answer they wanted to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:55 AM
8

C, as long as this society isn't ISIS where women aren't allowed to work or do anything alone. If the men here are anything to go by, the group B men would spend all their time angry I'm not a supermodel either so what's the point, and option A is just completely unappealing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:09 PM
3

I mean, they saw it in porn, so it must be true!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:59 PM
1

This thought process is so weird and alien to me. I'd rather die than be a single unwed mother after a pump n' dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:56 PM
1

Adoption Safe Harbor Laws (Baby Drops) Back alley doctors
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:55 PM
1

Just OP please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:53 PM
3

-1 for every zit. So I'd be in negative SMV territory at certain times of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 09:37 PM
5

Agreed, also no woman becomes a doctor solely so she can find a doctor to marry. Why go through 8 years of schooling and residency when you can just become a nurse or a pharm rep if you really want to be around doctors?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 07:58 PM
4

I've found a lot of the guys I knew who were adamantly against kids when they were younger are suddenly talking about kids once they hit 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:38 AM
5

It exists but the majority of women are not participating in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 03:34 PM
5

I know a LOT of weird women but they're not necessarily attractive so maybe you don't see them. They join nerd fandoms, write fanfiction, do crafts instead of post selfies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 12:14 AM
1

It does kind of sound like something a serial killer might do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 06:37 PM
6

Also tradcons from the Bible Belt/Mormon lands who grew up hearing “your body is a temple, don’t graffiti on it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:27 PM
3

As long as it works and it’s clean, who cares? Also I don’t knock Priuses as long as I don’t have to drive one. Rented one once for a couple of weeks while I was having my Scion fixed (yes, laugh please), and man it was boring. But I live in LA where gas is expensive and you gotta drive everywhere so I don’t fault anyone for wanting to save money on gas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 01:55 AM
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Not sure so much about out of spite or just putting in less effort but true about the diets, since also metabolism slows down over time. Big difference between gaining 15lbs since you're not as active as you used to be vs 150lbs from going to daily buffets though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 07:01 PM
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It's true that BMI isn't a good indicator since it doesn't take composition into account so a bodybuilder will also have a high BMI, but there are still a lot of obese people out there. I have a morbidly obese friend and he tries to do walks and not be completely sedentary, but he has a lot of leg issues from his weight and health issues overall. I can't imagine someone willfully making that a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:58 PM
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Does anyone really want to become obese? More like people want to be able to eat whatever they want and not exercise without consequences but I have a hard time believing a lot of people want to become obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 05:16 PM
1

Change "Women" to "Moths" and your answer is "Lamp"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 05:14 PM
1

The former. I don't look masculine but my personality is. I'm only attracted to men who have some kind of vulnerability; extremely masculine men make me feel threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:44 PM
1

SHAME
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 07:32 PM
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how "whales" should date men on this sub instead No man on this sub wants "whales," except our resident chubby chaser. They're angry these women are getting men they don't "deserve" but they don't want those women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 10:39 PM
3

I was told by my ex, "my parents will love you." Well, they did but apparently he didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:27 PM
7

"Ugh, I guess you'll do."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:23 PM
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This one, plus "I could pick you up and carry you off and you couldn't do a damn thing about it!" Well, that's actually terrifying to hear from a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:20 PM
5

No public hair for example, even though that's a sign of fertility. Porn. Porn is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:52 PM
2

Ostracized or killed. Much safer just to pretend to be like the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:29 PM
3

This seems cultural, as men in other eras and cultures had long hair. See: European Middle Ages, Ancient Greece (not Rome), historic Asia and Native Americas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:28 PM
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Wide hips and breasts are probably enough to convey fertility without overlapping with traits old people have. If you actually want to have a child, a woman can have these things and still be infertile, whereas having a child is proof she can probably have another. Most people aren't consciously selecting for the literal ability to have a child right now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:23 PM
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In the past that self interest for gays meant marrying so as not to be ostracized by society or worse for being gay. Not marrying because it is your duty to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 06:30 PM
2

With the American accent he sounded almost like Adam Devine. Horrific.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:26 AM
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Not at all. I have more male friends than female friends and always have. We just don't want to fuck each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 08:11 PM
2

You are literally twice as manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:32 PM
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Obsessive, no. But don't have dandruff and BO and halitosis and other stuff that might actively be a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:22 PM
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The frumpy gays I know are in LTRs or married, not in the casual sex scene. But we're all old so that might also be part of it. My friend told me, "I'm 40, which is like 90 in Gay Years."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:21 PM
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Because if in this case, that advice makes you a slut within X number of first dates alone. Some of them are the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:38 PM
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The only guys I ever met who every wanted to marry under 30 were very religious. However, I do see men around 40ish who do do want to marry if they haven't already. Most of the ones I know haven't insisted their brides be 20 year old virgins either. They're usually looking for younger, but not significantly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:06 PM
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I personally don't care about this double standard but I take offense to the guys who say a low n-count is important (I'm not a slut myself, I'm ok with this) but ALSO that every girl should sleep with a man on the first date because to do otherwise is manipulative and denying him the opportunity to evaluate if he wants a relationship with her or dump her immediately if the sex wasn't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:53 PM
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A lot of people survive gunshots to the face, just with horrific facial injuries. Also it doesn't matter if you put on your best dress if they find you a week later and you've turned into sewer soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:52 PM
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You may not be but there's a guy I know who I realized is super hot because he looks a lot like James McAvoy (both are 5'7"), who is my favorite. So it could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:50 PM
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Seriously. My father is 5’6” and I’m actually really insulted by these comments. Obviously I’m really short and think 5’6” is fine because I’m used to men this height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:11 PM
2

It will often smell 'off'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 09:59 PM
4

I wear makeup everyday so I can trick myself into loving me. (It's not working)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 09:58 PM
5

OP just happens to be the Sultan of Brunei.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 12:04 AM
1

I do think office environments can be an equalizer if your office's power structures aren't super rigid; i.e. a 35 year old can be the peer of a 23 year old if you're all in the same department and have an even older boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:58 PM
2

Almost all the guys I've found attractive have big noses and big eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:04 AM
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I watched a TV documentary about women in Tajikistan last week, where until 2011 most marriages were religious (Islamic) marriages only and not registered with the state. This became an issue because a lot of men leave the country and move to Russia for work and send money back to their families, but end up deciding to stay in Russia and divorce their wives back home in order to marry Russian women. Without a state marriage, the Tajik women were left with nothing (most of them did not work due t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:59 PM
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Supposed to be, yes. Apparently many people don’t understand the both parties part and get someone unfamiliar with family law to draft up something that sounds good to them but won’t be an ebforceable contract. You could present me with a 30-page document that contains the clause that I am now your slave and forfeit all legal rights, but even if I sign it, a judge will not rule that a legal document.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:34 PM
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Agree with your 1 and 2. Re: prenups, a lot of prenups are thrown out because they're not made in good faith with appropriate legal representation on both sides. Telling your fiancee 2 days before the wedding to "sign here or the wedding is off" and then her finding out the prenup said she surrenders everything and is left destitute if you decide to divorce her for your secretary? Won't fly with any judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:39 AM
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That's over 1.39 BILLION in Vietnamese Dong! *(I'm not Vietnamese, it's just fun saying billions of Dong)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 09:43 PM
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LOL, so true. I was going with this is what the guy is thinking, not necessarily the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 09:38 PM
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You're in your late twenties or in your thirties. The dating pool of eligible high quality men is growing ever smaller and your youth is gradually fading. He's also beyond college age years and coming into his own. Other women are going to want him as thier own. Right. This kind of says that no matter what kind of girl game you think you have, it won't be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 09:29 PM
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If I ever have kids it will have to be through IVF. If there's a mistake I might not even be the mother either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:39 PM
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They look really good, in a game context. They don't look human at all though. Like asking how attracted we are to a specific model of car, doesn't really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:26 AM
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Men only look at their beautiful souls... which are the exact shape of their bodies, of course. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 09:52 PM
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It's only disabled as CSS, so if you have CSS styles turned off sitewide you'll see the downvote buttons. I leave styles off so that I can look at reddit at work without people knowing which sub I'm looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 10:22 PM
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Yeah, this is not how I select random numbers. You're asked to do many times throughout your life so if there's a formula for picking one based on 10, that's not a random number anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 10:17 PM
10

I just had a stroke reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:50 PM
2

Yeah, I had recurring ovarian cysts so they were considering removing my ovaries. It stopped coming back after the last surgery though, so I still got everything, just with ridiculous endo pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:44 PM
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I froze my eggs at my doctor’s recommendation. Cost $15k and I had horrible side effects that sent me to the ER and I missed 2 weeks of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:13 PM
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Especially when employers don't want to give you a 4% raise to go with it but your other costs go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 08:14 PM
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It's not even about compromising max sexiness. Functional pockets are nearly non-existent in women's clothing. There are a few startups that make "special" pants with pockets but they're usually around $200. Just for pants with a pocket you could put your phone into without it falling out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 11:17 PM
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Murder. But I think I'd rather be murdered quickly and simply than just barely survive a prolonged torture designed to end in murder that included repeated rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:24 AM
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IamVerySmart people are also kind of insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:19 AM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:20 AM
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I keep no junk in my car except a few items in the trunk and waterless wash it once a month. Always get lots of compliments on how clean it is when I drive to lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:20 AM
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Is it considered masculine if I have a messy house and a clean car?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:05 PM
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The short guys I know personally have normal dating lives if they have normal personalities. One guy lifts a lot but he just says the absolute worst things without realizing it all the time and I don't think he dates a ton, but I don't think that's because of his height but rather because he keeps shoving his foot in his mouth. I don't think she's a dude in disguise. Just a heightist and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:28 PM
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It's frustrating because her posts are the ones that dudes are going to remember here and use as "proof" that ALL women think this way and she's the one who's being 'honest'. Meanwhile I think most people online are making a waaay bigger deal out of height than real life reflects.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:10 PM
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Right? Oh nooo, I'm not White so I'm the stain that taints this "high value man."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:31 AM
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Means eat less if you're fat. But just dieting isn't gonna make average Jane into Margot Robbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:48 PM
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True, black Barbie looks good in pink too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:43 PM
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Maybe it’s some sort of weird race neg where he only wants women with the exact color palette of Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:03 PM
3

She doesn't look really Asian but she somehow looks just like Amy Wong from Futurama.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:41 PM
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No one buys me shit just for being there but I find it easier to make male friends once they know I’m in a relationship because they aren’t afraid I’m going to start liking them out of desperation if they act like a human being to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:28 AM
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Or like the other guy that replied to my post and said she wasn't even hot. I think he's the same guy who said only trans girls are hot though, so he's only attracted to penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:41 AM
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Routinely? No. Did it once when he was 18 for shits n giggles and is 40 now? Don't care about that. The cam girl thing would be a problem if he was spending a ton of money on it though. I don't care about his money because I want any but that just screams poor money management to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:24 AM
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All the men in this sub are only interested in women who look like the first picture regardless of the conditions. This is who they're referring to when they say "women" as in "why do women do X" and have trouble imagining that any other varieties of female can be attractive or are even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:16 AM
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This whole question seems like a gotcha so they can say whatever we think we're contributing to the relationship means nothing because we're not getting any younger or sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:21 PM
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Every person, male or female, that I know personally who has bought their own home (in California) before the age of 30 had some help from their parents. The only case I've seen where a woman lives in "her own home" but isn't paying her own bills was a girl in my building who wanted to marry rich and did (her family paid most of her bills while she lived there because she wanted to be an actress) and now they live in a ritzy neighborhood in a huge house. Meanwhile I'm still paying off my 30-year…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 10:36 PM
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I will take your unwanted pretty boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:32 PM
1

I'm in LA too but I don't meet these types often. I'm in a tech field so it's mostly atheists and quiet mainstream Sunday Christians who don't talk about their beliefs, lest they be deemed irrational and affect their work. I met more weirdos like that when I worked at an entertainment industry-adjacent place though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:10 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:56 PM
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Californian here. SO glad I bought my home in 2009.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:09 PM
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It's more like if you show up at an office and hand them your resume and say "I'd like to be hired" and are told they don't have an opening. I have no faults to tell you about if we're simply not open to hiring someone at this time, and I'm not about to fire the person you think you're better than just because you showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 09:30 PM
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That guy was more bitter than this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 09:13 PM
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why the fuck in the first place puberty would took place in 16? It does sound old, but likely due to poor nutrition for large numbers of poor people vs good nutrition for the smaller numbers of exceptionally privileged people that are written about in stories we still read today. Our ancient ancestors lived for around 30 years This doesn't mean people lived a full life and died as old grandparents at 30. It's an average influenced by the fact that a lot more children were born and died before th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 07:37 PM
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You mean get a job in HR in a corporation? There are a lot of people in current year who go into massive debt to get useless degrees. Believe me they suffer. Badly. To be fair, this was possible when I graduated 15 years ago. Not so much anymore. I'm tech industry and I and many others I've worked with for a long time have unrelated degrees or even no degrees at all (men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 02:07 AM
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I met 4 Kazakhs on my international language trip in Japan and 3 of them looked very Asian and one of them looked very White.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 01:05 AM
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Yup. The number means nothing really. My point was don't be a retard in a text-based opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:24 AM
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Some just have the mentality of one. I would have assumed this was covered in the OP by "weird". If you're a 7 but you send a message literally saying "sup" she's not even gonna click through your profile to see your photo if she has other messages in coherent English.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:12 AM
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There is no way 60% of the population has been clinically diagnosed with depression. Mental health treatment and evaluation is not THAT widespread and just hearing someone say "omg I'm so depressed because I missed watching the Bachelor last night!" does not mean they have depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 10:56 PM
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I think what they're saying is that it does matter to men, it's just that the men on this sub who say a woman only needs to be not fat and not crazy are just too crazy or fat to imagine anything else being required.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:50 PM
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When I see a guy claim that multiple or all women he has asked out or gotten flirty with have rejected him in a cruel fashion. I just can't believe it. I agree with you in general but I could see it happening if he has negative social skills; e.g. opening with extreme negs, being a jerk in general, etc. Girls may be afraid of confrontation but everyone reacts more strongly when they feel they're being attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:32 AM
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My parents are attractive people. I am not. I look like my respective grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:06 AM
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Shouldn't it also make sense that a SAHM's responsibilities include making and tailoring clothes for the family out of raw materials with intricate full-color embroidery, producing high-quality homemade food, and, preferably, also homemade beer? I have never met anyone who does these all things outside of a hobby (aside from cooking, of course). What century are you from? Is she allowed to buy butter from the store or does she have to churn it herself too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:03 PM
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I honestly thought MGTOW sounded like a nice idea before I saw the subreddit. I expected it to be men talking about traditionally manly pursuits without the need for validation or approval from women. The male equivalent of old cat ladies talking about cats and knitting and generally not even acknowledging the other sex exists, if you will. That's... not what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:35 PM
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Some of these guys are also old and out of shape too. There aren't enough models for every guy who has a decent career to have one. There aren't enough cheerleaders for every boy in school to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:55 AM
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Compared to other countries, yes, but it's often what goes with it that is universally unattractive. Obesity is very often accompanied by poor health, poor hygiene, low motivation, lack of energy, laziness, lack of willpower, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:49 AM
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A lot of dudes post shit photos online so that doesn't really help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:22 AM
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Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:14 AM
1

I get it completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:25 PM
3

Planet Repression of the Bible Belt Cluster.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:23 PM
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I graduated high school before the millennium and it's honestly hard for me to relate to people who don't remember a time when you had to make plans without flaking because you can just text to say you're not coming 3 minutes before you're supposed to meet or who don't remember playing outside as a child without being literally tethered to your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:19 PM
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Lots of Asian women are that thin but no one even notices they’re women let alone thinks they’re attractive unless they have gorgeous faces and at least C cup boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:31 AM
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I would feel unsurprised when they likely divorce 18 months later because forever is too long for most 18 year olds to comprehend and hope he was smart enough to get a prenup because she can go back to school and marry someone else later if she can’t support herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:35 PM
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The whole no seduction part of the OP. They don’t show them eating dinner for an hour in porn, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:56 AM
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I've never heard of this before but I also don't follow wine mom/minion meme people on facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:38 AM
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It happened to my friend after she broke up with her shitty ex, he posted photos of her all over and she found out, it ended up being the straw that broke the camel's back and she had a full-on mental breakdown over it. Went nuts, lost her job (as a teacher), had to hospitalize her, etc. I don't blame him specifically for her mental illness because I'm pretty sure she already had issues before him but it was an incredibly shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:50 AM
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There are bound to be some women who are DTF and many, many who aren't. I still doubt he's having hardcore, performative porn sex with them within 30 minutes of meeting them. I also think there are bound to be lots of women he encounters who aren't receptive for a number of other normal reasons that he'll just not talk about because nothing ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:36 AM
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There's a small number of women DTF who go to clubs and meat market bars but the average woman isn't walking around with a lubed buttplug on a daily basis in the chance she meets the guy with the right jaw angle to have GiGA AnAL with in the next 15 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:04 AM
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Or even further, being immediately ready to do the sex acts depicted in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:50 AM
1

Ok, I misunderstood you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:33 AM
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Really hard to see without seeing what they and their partners look like in real life, but in real life I see couples all the time that appear looksmatched, at least in my opinion. Maybe the perspective of women here is different because they don't use dating apps, so when they meet a guy it's based on more than just a photo and whatever he wants to make up about himself to represent his profile online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:17 AM
1

In which way do you think the women here are misrepresenting being picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:07 AM
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Picky by their own individual criteria. The problem with PPD is men here try to set their standards for women's choices in men based off what they think and that's the stuff women here say they don't care about. "I didn't like him because he said something weird to me that made me feel unsafe and smelled funny" might be a reason why she doesn't call you back and this somehow becomes "she didn't like me because I'm not 6'3" and my jaw must not be square enough" because she didn't tell you why she…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:54 AM
4

On the internet no one knows you're not having GIGA ANAL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:49 AM
1

I'm glad you clarified it was magical and not a sex change surgery, because if it was to transition it would be like infinite dollars but if it was magical I'd accept $10 and some corn chips to get rid of my endometriosis. I'm a failure as a female anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:55 PM
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I think it's a fine and good idea when practical. I practice this most of the time, though I make an exception for my gay, married friend, but I always tell my SO ahead of time. I might walk to get coffee with a colleague and talk about work stuff, but I don't really count that as alone time. Basically if my SO is fine with it then it's no big deal. The rule about never drinking without his wife present is more weird to me. And calling his wife 'mother'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:30 PM
3

Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:47 PM
3

What are burger people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:14 AM
1

Agreed, that matches my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:20 AM
2

Same here. I'm also not white so part of the invisibility might be people unconsciously assigning me to a role of 'the help' or 'nail salon worker' or something equally boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:09 AM
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My father has offered me money for specific things before and when I was very young I accepted. That's all. Never asked any other man for money for any reason and would rather starve than be stuck owing money to an unrelated man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:25 PM
3

Maybe someone should stop giving her money for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:19 PM
2

i think most very feminine brained women would say they would want to die to save their baby Probably also depends greatly on if there are other children already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:59 PM
2

Neuroticism 0 Clearly just filtering out anyone who posts on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:26 AM
2

Mmm... lobster boil omelette
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 10:02 PM
1

I don't want to go into how "women have it harder than men waaah" or anything here but he's the guy so it should be a little easier. If the husband's family is traditionally asian and strict, they might expect the daughter-in-law to move in with them and be at the beck and call of his mother but they usually don't put these expectation the husbands of their daughters. Make sure they don't expect you to pay a bride price or a dowry though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 10:00 PM
1

My cousin (male) literally only ate buttered noodles until he was 25. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:28 PM
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Yeah, healthy food with fresh vegetables doesn't just keep in the cupboard forever so it usually requires a trip to the grocery store or just ordering it from a restaurant (obviously keeping in mind what you're ordering is healthy). I suppose I could do that less if most of my diet came from cans you buy at Costco but that's not how I was taught healthy eating is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:25 PM
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Her picture was not at all what I was expecting. Why did he even hit her up in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:17 PM
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Accusations of lying when not answering to your expectations. Example: “I like short men and being 6 feet is not important to me.” “Lies! Studies confirm women prefer tall men, so I know you’re trying to deceive me because I only see girls talking to tall guys.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:14 AM
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Just a random sample, maybe 3%. People in my office who I know at least a little and are of a similar age and lifestyle cohort? 40%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 09:10 PM
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It's not 'reverse' if you simply define it as one losing assets in a divorce. The fact that men perceive this to be a men's issue doesn't change the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 09:03 PM
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You don't definitely need a degree to be smart. But uneducated and unemployed? How is she surviving? The unemployed concerns me more than the uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:31 AM
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I was staring off into space at a food court near my house and some guy said I was making eye contact at him and giving him dirty looks because of his race (Latino guy at an Asian food court) and tried to pick a physical fight with me. I wasn't trying to make eye contact with him at all, nor did I care about his race, but now I focus my space-staring at the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 08:04 PM
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Curious what kind of careers these are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:39 PM
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This is also true. Women don't usually jump in a stranger's lap and say "hey bb wan sum fuk" like some people here seem to think. It's often more subtle and if the guy is oblivious to it it may never escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 11:32 PM
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Completely alien to me but I make enough money to buy shit I want and also don't like CardiB. I mostly listen to classic rock or nerd music.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 11:23 PM
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I went to the Michelangelo exhibit at the Met and was astounded by the muscularity depicted in all the figures, even females. Basically Michelangelo and many other artists of his day used exclusively male models, even for female forms, but the depiction of women as essentially men with breasts was a personal choice for Michelangelo, who was almost certainly very gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 08:15 PM
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I think they're fine but I've heard other people say he has funny shoulders. ​ But what's your deal with genetic garbage and all that? I'm genetic garbage, should I just kill myself so no one has to be inconvenienced by seeing my less than perfect face? No. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:27 AM
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I see what girls like. They always look or talk about THOSE guys. He's not seeing what every woman in the world does and thinks. He's looking at specific girls in order to say this so there could be some bias here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:51 AM
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Maybe you only see "women" as the girls you find attractive which only like these types of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:43 AM
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Ok you said one, so I'll name one--James McAvoy. You've probably seen billboards all over town of him in Beast mode for his new movie. He worked out seriously hard for this and packed on a lot of muscle but this guy has low, sloping shoulders by default. He's also 5'7" but this doesn't stop him from being attractive to a lot of women. I thought he was attractive even when he was young and thin and not all muscled out and famously said he'd rather eat dog poo than go to the gym. Edit: because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:41 AM
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That reminds me, I'd like to add toxic mommies to the toxic femininity definition discussion next time it comes up. Good God those people are exhausting. Oh you don't want to homeschool your child and breastfeed them until they can read and let them cross the street by themselves before they're 18? You monster!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:05 AM
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Go watch one of those Duggars shows (early seasons before all the relationship drama). I don't like it but I get how they do it, it's just not appealing to me. Basically the Costco/church potluck method of raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:58 AM
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The husband was in a band though. Rock stars have their own cred.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:48 AM
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If Chad in this case really likes her you mean, he's the one who has to wait. It helps screen out dudes who are looking for ONS or pump and dumpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:43 PM
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conservative women who follow time tested advice. Honestly, learning to wait 4 or more dates before fucking fixes 80% of the issues. It's kind of weird around here because I would say I definitely agree this is better advice and a lot of women here say the same and get told it's terrible advice and you need to be DTF immediately or you're going to get passed up for someone who will. Not sure if that's just men with self-serving advice or they really believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:55 AM
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I actually switched to ibuprofen because naproxen sodium irritates my stomach more but yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:34 PM
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Not to you specifically but the overall theme of this thread is that the world is bad and GLO-type traditionalism is a possible solution. GLO has talked about it basically as white sharia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:09 PM
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I agree with most of your observations but I don't think white sharia is a solution to this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:31 PM
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Not feminine, not fashionable currently. I might have an ugly face but I have good hair, so I'm not going to cut it all off. Has associations with old women or "I need to speak to your manager."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:15 PM
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When a cute girl tries to be edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:22 PM
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and probably not ever try again Yeah, there's this weird idea that gets tossed around here that sex MUST happen on the first date, the very first time you ever see each other in person, preferably before you know really anything about this person, and if it doesn't happen, you'll never have good sex with them and need to next them asap. Truth is that many women aren't comfortable having sex with someone they don't know well enough so a "no" today might not mean "no" after the next date or so guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:22 AM
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Regular porn, absolutely not. Paying huge amounts of money and buying lavish gifts to a specific cam girl? Pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 08:47 AM
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which is why all the celebs on TV diet down. Some of them look horrible in real life though, when they’re really thin on camera, usually the low budget TV girls. I’ve met some A-list actresses in person and they looked slim and elegant but not shrunken and twiggy like those TV girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 08:43 AM
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I’m your size and I’m aware many men consider me grossly fat. What I choose to do with that information varies. Edit: size 2/4, Xs/s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 08:32 AM
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I'm not terribly political but I couldn't be with someone who was in favor of female disenfranchisement, a Dominionist, or into Biblical Patriarchy (Quiverfull, Stay at Home Daughters, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:58 AM
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My authentic impulse is to stay home and go back to sleep. If I do that, does that make me a bad girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:13 PM
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I guess you can have a butterface and still have a perfect hourglass figure and men will be interested (hence the term), but it's not simply "just don't be fat." However, I think you have a point in that women do overestimate how thin men expect women to be when they say "don't be fat," women suddenly think this means you must look like a supermodel or some delicate waif when for a lot of guys it usually just means a pretty woman with a healthy BMI is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:10 PM
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I guess some people are drawn to danger because it's exciting to them, but they probably haven't really thought out what a future with such a person would be like. >Good girls too, wholesome types. Why do you think that is? Rebellion, probably. I doubt they intended to marry a guy for cocaine. > now I tell girls about it on the first date because they all love it lol wtf? I personally have a poor opinion of anything beyond weed (which is legal in my state) but I've heard everyone else does drugs…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:47 AM
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I agree that some women can be skinny and still look like shit to guys. If all a woman had to do to be attractive was lose weight there wouldn't be ideas like this that gets posted here pretty frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:10 AM
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Probably good that ended as quick as it did, then. No one wants to find out their SO is a neck-stabber.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:06 AM
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Oh hell no! Was the guy hiding there or did they just go there because it was his last known address?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:25 PM
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"I was born into a Catholic family so I guess I'm Catholic" doesn't count. It doesn't but "my family says we need to marry in the church so you have to officially convert and take the classes" is still something to watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:36 PM
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FWIW as an actual woman I agree. Most felonious behavior shows low impulse control, low future-time orientation and low intelligence to me. And I also agree that women who seek out drug dealers and gang members to date should be a giant red flag for the STEM lords of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:34 PM
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I was going to say it sounds like it was written by an alien but I can't unsee your comment now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:00 AM
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I totally understand, I’d feel the same way. I hope your friend is doing okay. What I don’t get are these kids I hear about crying at work, in meetings, because of stress or something not getting done. If you’re getting fired I can see it, but not just because a planning meeting didn’t go the way you hoped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:37 AM
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Condos are usually less because they’re less square footage (meterage) but you might be paying out the ass for HOA fees in the future unlike in a house. Where I live, the model used to be, buy a condo when you’re young as a starter home and then buy a single-family house later on when you have kids etc. However, with the price of a house being near $1M for a basic small house, a lot of people can’t afford to do this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:55 AM
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I’m not a crier but I broke down sobbing at work when my mom called me from the hospital and said my grandpa was taking his last breaths and I had to say goodbye to him right then. I think that was an excuseable reason but I’m pretty sure I also frightened some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:50 AM
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Got it. And yet here people insist on SAHMs...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 01:43 AM
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I agree, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:30 PM
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Most Japanese I know would rather die than pretend they care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:23 PM
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A Mommy Makeover would never make me 22 again so I'd never do it unless I was the one that wanted it. Edit that this is hypothetical at this point as I'm not a mommy and don't have mommy boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:07 PM
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Curious if the surgeon's wife was working or if she was a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:01 PM
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But some of the sports stars have acne too? I don't know where I'm going with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:42 AM
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They will once they grow out of it like most guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:08 AM
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17 year old girls who have perfect skin Already eliminating over half since at least half of them have acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:17 PM
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Money + autism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 08:45 PM
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My cousin’s wife is 8 years younger than me and before the kid she had the most perfect skin. Now it still looks good, but she has some new wrinkles and we look closer in age than we used to (I have no kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:03 AM
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I'm joking, of course, because of this shitty hypothetical. That sub has so much rage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:17 AM
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And who posts angry rants on /r/hapas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:03 AM
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It's turned into a character archetype as of late.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:53 AM
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OP with standards too judgy and weird even for PPD’s standards. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:34 PM
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I understand. We're all humans here. But it's still a job I'd never do so I'm glad you don't mind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 03:56 AM
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You're a hero, man. Seriously, thank you for doing what you do. We had to put my grandma in a nursing home after she went from dementia but functioning to dementia and not functioning at all after a stroke and a fall. My mom felt really guilty about it and visited her twice a week for 6 years before she passed. But there were people in there who were a lot better off physically than my grandma (my grandma didn't speak at all after the first year there due to the progression of her Alzheimers) wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:28 AM
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So then who looks after gen z when they get old ? They've probably seen their parents throw their grandparents in a nursing home and visit twice a year when they remember they're still on the will. A lot of what our elders are experiencing aren't ringing endorsements for having kids to take care of you when you're old when a lot of middle-aged people aren't willing (or able in the case of severe disability) to actually take care of their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:51 AM
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That's interesting. I was picturing debutante balls with ambrosia salads. I cannot even imagine the pitfalls kids encounter with the peer pressure to post their whole lives online now. That's good to bring that up so it's not just the parents saying so though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:55 PM
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The class dottywine is referring to is cotillion Do people even do this anymore outside of the South? I've never met anyone who's been to one of these things, but I live on the West coast, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:42 PM
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Except she broke up with him. Sounds like if she didn't he might have stayed too and just made either her or himself miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:36 PM
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What a catch. Now he can make other people miserable instead. Hopefully you can find someone who won't end up like that next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:32 PM
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Sounds like you did the right thing. Someone trying to make up for lost time like that will probably just grow resentful and feel stuck in a relationship with any one person, while either cheating or making you miserable in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 09:03 PM
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I remember watching this at 18 thinking it was super inaccurate but it’s been so long I don’t remember any details. Dumb movie and not memorable. Kind of disgusted they’re doing a gender-flipped remake instead of letting this turd stay buried.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:38 AM
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I'm gonna grow my gut out big enough to set a drink on. A+++ I’ve seen this shit for real and it amuses me every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:23 AM
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Aging is also inconsequential for unattractive ethnic women, invisible either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:26 AM
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No one cares how I live but through Facebook I saw that my awful ex (the one with the cheating witchcraft story) ended up marrying the ex of his friend who he used to call fat all the time. As in, he used to make fun of his friend for dating her because he thought she was fat. And he ended up marrying her. I'm not sure how the friend felt about that though, because he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:43 PM
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Agreed it's funny, because it makes no sense. What's she gonna take, half his Funko pops?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:38 PM
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Are these the guys screaming about divorce rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:29 PM
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I like big tits but I've NEVER swiped left on a girl because her didn't weren't big enough. Never. Not once. Your examples are "all women" vs "me, a man." There are lots of other men who aren't you who would do that. For women, being taller is a requirement. For me, "taller" is taller than 5'2". Not a significant filter. There's this weird belief that all women regardless of their own height are only into men over 6'2" but just looking around you can see that's not true. Edit: FWIW I don't neces…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:54 PM
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One, this wouldn't explain why women are so hellbent on emphasizing height. You could easily turn this around and say men are hellbent on emphasizing breast size. And so just like how the itty bitty titty committee will come out and raise their hands and say NAMALT, there are also women who aren't into tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:10 PM
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I agree with this one! But my all-time favorite is James McAvoy, who’d also probably confound these guys. And not because of the muscle in Glass, I’ve liked him for years, even when he was a skinny, floppy boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:54 AM
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How dare they exist after completing puberty?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 07:38 AM
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Kinda weirds me out when I see posts in /relationships where 18 year olds are talking about their parents that are 38 and then I come in subs like this and the 38 year olds are talking about dating 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 07:36 AM
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Oh if I only had a brain!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 07:28 AM
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Yeah, that relationship fucked me up pretty badly. If I told the whole story here it would probably sound like bullshit but basically he was a fat beta who lost weight and decided to go full dick after he decided he was hot. Probably because of additional attention from people like my shitty friend. I thought he was nice when he was fat and I was not an attractive girl so he was my first everything. At the end of it I was left without the friends I'd had since elementary school and even my mothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:02 AM
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Isn’t “universal healthcare” just the official version of “subsidizing retards” though? It is but it reduces the penalty for actual payers. Right now, if you got into an accident and were treated by a specialist at the hospital nearest to where your life could be saved that happened to be out of network, your insurance could refuse to pay and you'd be on the hook for tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars, simply because you were treated by the wrong provider. This is the kind of stuff that ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 01:48 AM
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I mean, my ex justified cheating on me with my friend (yeah, the friend was shitty but it ruined a lot of things) by saying he was trying to help her learn witchcraft (?) and figure out her sexuality. He was helping her! How dare I have a problem with it! People can be shitty. Normal people can see through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 01:35 AM
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The AITA OP is also a woman and was so appalled by her friend's actions and excuses that she made this post so you could all jerk about it. Yes, the friend is selfish and terrible but there's no evidence that women are more likely to do something like that from this thread. The friend is trash and most people agree regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:58 AM
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Creating strawmen so you have an excuse to argue with people who don't even consider themselves feminists about how much feminists suck? That’s every other day on this board.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:43 PM
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In my 20's my body was fitter but my face was fat and didn't start getting thinner till after 25. In my 30's I look better than a lot of my peers simply because I haven't let myself go (and no kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:15 PM
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Multiple wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:27 PM
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I'm gonna go ahead and say anxiety and depression severe enough to make people no fun are probably red flags but a hot girl so insecure she doesn't even know she's attractive despite being 8/10 is a pretty common trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:56 PM
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IMHO, it's due to weight lifting. Some of it, but a lot of the dadbod guys who think they aren't really fat are actually medically overweight, just not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 01:40 AM
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It's more refreshing in warm weather, yeah. If you have a Marie Callender's nearby, theirs is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:46 PM
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It tastes pretty much like a standard sweet potato. But the inside is purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 10:42 PM
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Just curious, what kind of pies do you like? I love baking, the last pies I made were apple, sour cream lemon, and okinawan sweet potato w/coconut cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 09:50 PM
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It's like a more intellectual version of YouTube comments in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:40 PM
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She threw cardboard at him, he hit her in the face. He escalated it. He could have thrown cardboard back at her instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:33 PM
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Upvote for papadums. Yum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:02 AM
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You're thinking of Gen Z. Millenials are those born early 80s-beginning of the 21st century. In other words, most of the people on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 12:51 AM
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That's right. I think he was from Spain or Greece or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:11 PM
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It's like Schrodinger's wife: Women are simultaneously refusing to be docile housewives because they want careers and also contributing nothing because they don't work and just want to stay home with babies all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:13 PM
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Also men were usually stripped of shirts for flogging. They didn't want to strip women for modesty reasons. Kind of like how women got burned at the stake instead of drawn and quartered so the executioners didn't have to expose women's obscene breasts to the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:57 PM
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Was he the guy who’d name drop soccer players all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:33 PM
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Why aren't MRAs dedicating 100% of their time to spreading Islam since their views on women align greatly? This is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:14 PM
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Maybe "Creep" as a noun. "Creepy" as an adjective is still used for all sorts of stuff that has nothing to do specifically with sexually unnattractive men. Horror movies, child predators, abandoned murder houses, and Kathy Bates in Misery are all things that can be described as "creepy." Creep usually describes the behavior as well as the appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:58 PM
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gas station sushi, occasionally worth it. Never worth it, unless you're in Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:58 AM
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No one has any interest in reading random articles. I'd like to add this about videos, too. I'm not going to watch someone's 20 minute YouTube rant just because it gets posted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:55 AM
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Ok, maybe I just personally don't give a fuck about sexbots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 10:54 PM
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That has zero to do with sexbots, much more trying to prevent a Skynet scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 10:44 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair either. IMO it should be based on age because teenagers are generally shit drivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 09:03 AM
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You don't have a time limit when it comes to building a career Actually, you kind of do. Age discrimination may be technically illegal, but most people are way more likely to hire a 22 year old recent graduate for an entry-level position than a 40 year old mom with no experience in the working world. Plus, if she needs retirement savings and starts at age 40, she’d be way, way behind someone who started contributing at age 22, even if they stopped contributing for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:01 AM
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As long as TSLA shares keep climbing he can do whatever the fuck he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:29 PM
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In my case, no, and if they did I would assume it was as a set up to a joke and I was about to be humiliated in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:24 PM
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Female Poor hygiene, body odor, greasy Sadistic Already has kids Hard drugs History of cheating Compulsive liars, dishonesty in general Tradcons Asian fetishists (I'm Asian). Weebs could be ok depending on the person, fetishists are not. Racist Expects all sex to be like porn Spends a significant amount of time participating in the following communities online: Conspiracy Theories, Fat Hate, SlutHate, Coontown, Bodybuilding, 4chan, Manosphere, InfoWars Makes wild assumptions about my personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:18 PM
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I think I'm socially retarded but I still did decently, to my surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:33 PM
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31/36
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:32 PM
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And don’t do this either if you’re in a 2-party consent state.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 03:09 AM
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Yikes. We had one guy in QA with really bad eczema who kept scratching his flaky inner thighs at his desk, leaving a cloud of skin flakes on his chair. Fortunately he quit before we had to say something. Our smelliest engineer was an old dude who got laid off earlier this year. Most of ours are either brogrammers or well-adjusted married dudes though, no incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:13 PM
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The lead architect on my team is a jiu jitsu champion, a lot of them work out and talk about protein and macros all day. It's a thing. Programmers aren't just fat betas anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:00 PM
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In that case, while it's hard to boost your status by getting a higher-paying job, you can immediately boost your status by not posting in /r/Braincels. Also that song is 20 fucking years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:57 PM
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Clearly he's unfamiliar with the term Brogrammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:42 PM
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And those kids end up posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 06:44 PM
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she will enter the craved female submissive state of admiration for him, what we would see as "love". Submission =/= love. You can be submissive to your boss, but that doesn't mean you love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:16 AM
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So is being poor, or being unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:17 AM
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It is pretty meaningless now, but in the 80s, blondeness was still a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 08:35 PM
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Literal Superman was also a fat kid who people called “Fat Cavill” until he lost some weight and got hot, but he’s still a big gamer and spends time in gamer circles online, where this mentality is fostered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:26 PM
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Encourage more women to be very tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 12:30 AM
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I really don't care. I obsess about the tax implications of every investment or source of income, so if they think all this is tax free, they're stupid. That being said, it's a waste of resources because there's no way to know if someone's actually reporting income or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:47 AM
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As an ugly minority child growing up in a school with pretty blonde girls, I never expected to be the princess. I'm more like the funny talking animals on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 07:47 PM
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Vasectomy is reversible, so that's not even something they need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 07:28 PM
1

Have you seen How To Be A Latin Lover?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:09 AM
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It started that way but there’s a subreddit for it, so it’s not just a troll concept anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:11 AM
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Probably. Thigh gap was a big deal with guys a few years ago though, before thicc became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:18 PM
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Trendy body requirements, like thigh gap, bikini bridge, A4 challenge, the belly button challenge, etc. Look, we get you all want thin girls but most of these are stupid and don’t even prove much beyond someone having a specific body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:35 PM
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Bad NIMBY bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 07:10 PM
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Yes? I was planning to be a doctor from around that age but I didn’t end up feeling confident enough to try for a med program by the time I finished high school. I didn’t dream of being married or having children like a lot of other girls. That didn’t really seem like an option for someone like me back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:38 AM
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Thank you. I have a pretty good job as a product manager and make enough money to afford my own place, so I’m doing ok. I’m not so hideous anymore that me being there upsets other men I work with. That was more when I was younger, I’d say now I’m just the invisible sort of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:34 AM
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Exactly. I’m actually just really short, which makes it worse because I look dumpy. I’m 5’1” and currently 120. Even when I was 108 I was still dumpy because I’m short and have narrow hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:29 AM
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I don't know if I qualify as fat just by not being hot (BMI 22.5) but I was an ugly child and knew by the age of 7 that while other girls might aspire to grow up to be princesses (aka trophy wives), I was ugly and I'd have to work hard to make money and boys probably would never like me except for weirdos (that turned out gay), so I'd just end up taking care of my parents. Around 17 I started wearing makeup and started dressing better. I got a boyfriend and we've had issues but so far he hasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 08:44 PM
2

Same here. If we exchange gifts, it's an even exchange and it's stuff like B-movie DVDs, video games, graphic tees etc. (and I usually spend more anyway). Edited to add: I get a lot of free work swag and they directly benefit from this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 03:43 AM
1

Nothing to do with 50SOG but you might be amused that there are multiple cases where gay X-Men (Charles/Erik) fic ended up getting published with different names into actual books. This probably happens a lot, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:32 AM
2

I think most men like agreeable women and that's not really controversial. I'd say I'm agreeable but I'm not necessarily docile or subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 11:17 PM
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He didn't come back, I think he's fapping over her story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 11:01 PM
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It's like reading a post by a woman who left her husband because he beat her and concluding it's evidence all women are attracted to this man because they like being beaten and leave because they just aren't loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:53 PM
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There are also things they could do, like discourage the insane work-life imbalance that became the prevalent corporate culture there. Neither men or women care about getting married or having kids when you have to devote your life to your job 7AM-1AM every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:32 PM
1

Asians Japan says hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:25 PM
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If you define "getting a man" as having a dick inside you tonight, even if you find the owner physically repulsive The thing is, men don't really want this either. You guys say men have no standards but there's all this screaming in here how obese women, old women, single mothers, etc. are disgusting and not worth dicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 01:40 AM
1

Roses are red, violets are blue. Omae wa mou shindeiru.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:21 PM
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I'd believe the stat that possibly, at max, 1 in 4 are chronically single and possibly no longer looking. This is based on personal observance. I don't think it means 1 in 4 men are posting on angry manosphere boards about how much they hate women and want a robot waifu dropped into their laps on demand. That number is obviously much smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 03:21 AM
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This question is a trap though. If she says "no, he's not very attractive" then you'll say he's a cuck and she's just BBing him. If she says "Yes, I think he's very attractive" then you'll say he's Chad. Even if she's the only person who thinks he's very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:56 PM
1

34% obesity rate for women 20-39, per the CDC. Men of the same age are 30% obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 08:47 AM
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Sometimes around here he drops the mask and answers in good faith. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 12:59 AM
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My grandpa almost lost his Medicare benefits because they discovered he'd been born 9 days before what was on all his paperwork since he was born in a house and they didn't report it correctly. It worked out okay but I can't imagine the hassle they'd give you for being off 35 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:28 AM
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If you become legally 16 do you also lose your right to vote, drink, and make further legal decisions without a parent or guardian?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:25 AM
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I told someone I think I'm ugly, and they said, "so why don't you get plastic surgery?" I said, "Then I'd be fake, poor, and ugly!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:13 AM
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People definitely age and mature at different rates. I just turned 37 and get carded reguarly, don't call people "hon/sweetheart/(insert mom term here)", etc., whatever you think of when you think of women you know becoming the school moms you knew when you were a kid. Some guys in my high school class look 30 now. Some of them look 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:12 PM
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Round these parts they say even the most disgusting woman can go down to skid row and wander around without pants until she finds a willing hobo down to bone, therefore they cannot exist. The real issue is women don't want this. Men don't really either but they're thinking sex is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:04 PM
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5'1" Asian, I look like an Asian version of Jennette McCurdy. Or at least have been told so by several different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 03:18 AM
2

Ahh! The most recent things I've made were mango cheesecake, sour cream lemon pie, vanilla buttercream cake, and chocolate bundt cake, from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 08:17 PM
2

These dudes would probably prefer having a nice girlfriend who bakes cupcakes and reads books. So he can yell at her for not respecting his macros and not having 'real' hobbies. I love baking but no one wants to ruin their diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 08:05 PM
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I thought my aunt became some kind of alcohol hooker 😂 Maybe that guy just wanted a drinking buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 11:34 AM
1

I was at the mall this weekend and there was a Korean-American girl out shopping who was about 6'1" with a great figure and had a guy with her (also asian) who was about 6'. They looked very happy together and I felt like an oompa loompa watching them while I waited in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 07:26 PM
1

Has he talked about San Diego yet? If he does it's him for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 07:10 PM
1

Berkeley is part of the UC system and while these schools are public and receive state funding, they are research-oriented and have a higher academic standard than general "state schools." In California that'd be more analogous to the CSU system.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 07:09 PM
1

Is this another AWALT thing? Horoscopes are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:10 AM
2

Melatonin is a naturally occurring hormone that regulates sleep. Clearly you are lacking in it if you have insomnia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 09:34 PM
2

I'd read this!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 08:42 PM
2

Do men consider Grimes hot? That's really surprising to me if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 08:41 PM
3

Take a melatonin before bed and reduce carbs. Stop exercising that much, you're just going to burn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:33 PM
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This idea that most men require very, very little money to live on and the only reason they'd ever want to buy anything is solely to impress women is strange to me. Some of the biggest purchases I've seen men buy are for their own enjoyment or hobbies or to impress other men, like fast cars/motorcycles for the thrill of driving, fishing boats, watches, power tools, pool tables etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:28 PM
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At least go buy a boat you can complain about all the time, geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:17 PM
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I don't think they necessarily have to be a ripped thug, it's just that you can't always tell much about a person from the internet until you meet them in person, much like the guys who complain the hot girl they met online is fat in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:51 PM
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Nice guys, you either come off as weak children or dude chicks, Third option: unstable assholes A lot of guys who think they’re “nice” really aren’t and throw up red flags immediately without realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:58 PM
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I worked with a girl on my team for 3 years and knew absolutely nothing about her personal life because she never talked about it. Meanwhile the guy who sat next to me would tell us his life story frequently and talked about his sister's health issues, about his friend's friends whatever, etc. We all knew more about his dog's siblings than this other girl who worked there. I think it's more of an Extrovert/Introvert thing and not gender at work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 05:06 AM
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Yeah, it's almost like observing beautiful animals in Planet Earth, or abiding by the Prime Directive in Star Trek.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 08:00 PM
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Same. They're nice to look at but our worlds do not collide in my head. I almost feel like contact with me would pollute them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 07:34 PM
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To you. I'd rather have a 5'7" guy with a nice face than a 6'7" potato-faced guy. But I'm 5'1" so 5'7" is already enough of a difference to me. Significantly more than that feels impractical and silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 08:42 PM
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I'm guessing this entire argument was about my comment where I agreed with someone RP? I'm a nobody here so I don't really represent "most bluepillers" but using my quote alone is really taking it out of context. The problem with "Objective" ratings is that they really aren't because there's no standard that says everyone will agree this person is exactly an 8 and this other person is exactly a 5, or that girl X is definitely, programmatically going to be attracted to guy X because guy Y thinks …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 07:27 PM
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Size 4 here, only brands that make my size are high-end designers and children's. It's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:35 PM
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Fully agree on both points. "Objective" appearance ratings are mostly bullshit because of preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:47 AM
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The Brits here will say that rules out all of us, then!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:40 AM
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I'm only repeating what other users here say all the time, it's not my personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 10:02 PM
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Lol, I'm not brown but I'm from LA, I suppose same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:54 PM
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This board only cares about white people in anglo countries and will scream that your experiences are irrelevant in order to reinforce the walls of the echo chamber here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:00 PM
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Depends how much fermented mare’s milked he was willing to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 04:06 AM
3

Smoke dope with the pope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 06:11 AM
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Not OP but probably stuff with large designer logos, LV luggage, bling everything. Most of the actual wealthy people I've met wear high quality but understated clothing and avoid ostentatious wastes of money. There's no need to prove wealth when they actually have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:34 PM
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Tekashi 6ix 9ine is a couple years younger than me making more than I'm ever likely to make, but I have no problem saying I'm worth more than him. I had no idea who this was until just now and I wish there was a time machine so I could go back 10 minutes into the past where I lived in ignorance of this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:14 PM
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If Prince William weren't the literal prince of England his hair today versus age 22 would be incredibly depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:24 AM
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“Want to come to a bbq with me and my bobcat?” He had a literal bobcat as a pet and no other guests were invited to the bbq.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 04:41 AM
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Looks matter but they're not everything. I can't speak for everyone but I'm certainly tired of hearing the reason some guy can't get laid is because of his PSL(? what was this again?) rating or his Jaw angle or that he's under 6 feet and NO WOMAN EVER desires a man unless he looks exactly like Chris Hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:32 PM
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Lots of war rape includes sodomizing with objects and then murdering the victim. I don't think those examples are about lust at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:02 PM
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Kinda reminds me of LA. People I know who grew up here are nice and not at all like the vapid stereotype of "LA people" but I find plenty of those among the transplants. Of which there are many.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 06:55 PM
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Wanted (the 2008 movie with the psychic loom, guns, and Angelina Jolie) This is one of my favorites and I didn't expect to see it anywhere on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 10:46 PM
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I really don't think all of it was trolling, I think it was an excuse for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:07 PM
2

Impossibru!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:06 AM
2

Of all people, you picked Joel de la Fuente from Man in the High Castle? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 10:17 PM
1

Uniqlo for quality basics, H&M for trendy, Nordstrom for fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 10:13 PM
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I haven't been to any high fat areas (the South? Rural Midwest?) in a long time but there are too many non-fats in a high COL area to stand out in any way simply for not being lardy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:46 PM
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/r/bigdickproblems is that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:32 PM
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The doctor's obviously not a billionaire on her own but if she was on her own she'd be more than comfortable on a doctor's salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:28 PM
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Me too. Had saag paneer for lunch today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:55 PM
2

Doctor, novelist, novelist (1st wife), actress (trophy wife).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:53 PM
5

Imagine all the delicious meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:48 PM
2

That looks strangely similar to my Korean friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:48 PM
3

I learned how many other people love chard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:45 PM
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Enforcing unnecessarily structured social norms and being judgy about it. "Omg, white pants after Labor Day??" "Why didn't you write me a thank you note?" Shouting out annoying and vapid "You Go Girl" type shit out in public. Feigned helplessness, bonus for it then turning into real helplessness where she doesn't bother to learn how to do anything new and then needs other people to do it for her. Should anything happen to my dad, I will need to take over as executor of everything for my mom beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:00 PM
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Everyone who isn't collecting social security or going to Costco on Saturday nights for fun is leaving facebook basically, it's not just the hot young things. My engineers have all left it and I'm just on because of a couple of annoying friends who use it as their primary communication system.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:27 PM
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Maybe if you're both very into food/restaurants. But if you want to be like the ancient Hawaiians, make sure your girl never touches pork, bananas, or coconuts, those foods are reserved for men only in old Hawaii.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:20 PM
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So, guys that say they never buy women dinner, do you: Split the check? Make her pay? Be like the ancient Hawaiians and refuse to eat with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:46 PM
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Guys don't think that normal women are sexy just cause they're not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:38 PM
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The risk of not doing so is King Joffrey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:35 PM
3

I would guess revoking custody from the mother wouldn't happen because: The presumed (not actual) father probably wouldn't want custody of the child he discovers is not his. The actual father likely doesn't even know about the existence of the child and would not likely want custody of a surprise child. Thus unless some other party steps in, the child is now the problem of the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:31 PM
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I hit the wall so hard I displaced some bricks in it and I’m actually now part of the wall itself. FEAR ME
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:29 AM
2

Front to back, yo. You ever wipe the wrong way and get shit dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:06 AM
6

I love chard. I can put it in my mouth anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:03 AM
3

It's a blue pill. And I have pain issues. I much prefer ibuprofen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:40 AM
1

But does she paint?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:58 AM
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Some tips from a 4th gen: Move the fuck out of your parents' home as soon as possible. Make sure your house/apartment looks nice and not full of weird cultural/religious paraphernalia. Make friends outside your ethic group. Eat foods outside your ethnic cuisine. Go OUTSIDE. Do outdoor sports, learn to ski/surf, get a dog and walk it. When you meet a girl, don't talk about your family or your parents in a way that will make her think you're going to let them have any input in your lives. Don't le…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:48 PM
2

It was the same total intensity, just condensed into 10 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:13 PM
1

And they’re not even delivering any pizzas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:59 AM
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But no reddit in Amish towns.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:58 AM
1

Still doesn’t come with waifu delivered prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:56 AM
2

Swords or GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:24 AM
0

What if we're born and raised in the West and suck at math? Who the fuck enjoys doing math? Not me. They don't even believe in God. I do but I'm bad at attending church. So what? At least white atheists believe in Sam Harris, Richard Dawkins, and themselves. Bullshit. Asians believe in nothing. Except the Chinese Communist Party amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:13 AM
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My family was already here in the 50s, newly starting over after being released from internment camps. If you’re gonna deport us all, no “home” country would take me, so I guess I get to look forward to another prison camp or a short gas shower in your idealized future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 07:40 AM
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Breast cancer awareness is more visible thanks to the scam that is the Susan B Komen foundation, who gives only 20% of funds to actual breast cancer research. Tell your mom to get a mammogram by calling her on the phone, not by buying a bunch of pink shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 07:06 AM
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Maybe because I don’t actively participate in this and just see porn thumbnails I imagine OP is basically saying traditional gender dynamics includes shibari ropes, latex mummification, and needle play and I’m just confused because that doesn’t sound particularly traditional to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:48 AM
1

And then when a woman with a truly unique personality comes along if she ain't 8/10 you guys don't care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:30 AM
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There's an Indian grocer down the street, good lunch specials at the deli counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:49 AM
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Also they sometimes slept with raw meat on their face Please tell me more about this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:01 PM
5

Fatty D's My new rap name
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:48 PM
2

I work near Silicon Beach and you wouldn't believe how many average to overweight guys I see wearing this outfit so common it's practically a uniform: short-sleeve plaid shirt unbuttoned over a graphic tee, over baggy/relaxed fit jeans. Bonus points for beard and too-long hair. Personality will make or break guys like that with girls, since they sort of all look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:55 PM
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They might also dress really badly. No one notices if you're ripped if you're covering your body with oversized Eddie Bauer pullovers and pleated khakis or a huge hoodie with relaxed fit jeans. Makes them invisible along with the bad/no personality. I see a lot of dudes who dress like this in the elevator at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:18 PM
4

Aaaaahh I can't tell anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:03 PM
3

0.051% of the time, it works everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:03 PM
1

Right? I thought this was purge week. Bring on the homoerotic Ubermensch wanking we've all been waiting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:55 PM
3

Even if you believe the Bible is infallible the people that interpret it are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:46 PM
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Lol, he wasn't specific what kind of Indian. The guy who sits across from me at work is Indian and 6'2". The other Indian guys are about 5'9"-11". If you're in Alaska I can imagine him not having a lot of options there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:20 AM
1

Would you rather be Trump or Putin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:17 AM
4

Seems awfully short. None of the (4) Indian guys at my company are short or incel though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:13 AM
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The worst smelling person I've ever encountered who wasn't homeless or derelict in some way was French. On average I've met more smelly Indians but the cheesy, lasting permafunk from the French dude was by far the worst I've ever smelled on a lone human.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:03 AM
1

Did you include the right number of stamps? I've got some Forever stamps from 2008 if you wanna borrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:55 AM
1

If it's not Scottish, it's CRAP!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:26 PM
1

Not in my case because I don't look like my mom, I look like my dad's sister instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:19 PM
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The movie came out 4 years ago and it wasn't that good. I just saved you from watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:17 PM
2

Where do I find the nearest boat to deport myself on my river of tears for driving an Infiniti
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:15 PM
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Curry is fucking delicious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:11 PM
0

Weird. Probably a phase, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:56 PM
3

You still died in part 3 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:55 PM
1

Did she happen to be... Chinese?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:52 PM
2

when chang came around. Chang? Is this Chinese Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:43 PM
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Individuals actually say this to you? What a bunch of cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:56 PM
1

It’s like an orange on a toothpick! A virtual planetoid!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:38 PM
2

I remember thinking LaVar Burton was cute on that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 03:44 AM
1

Thirsty creeps were the ones who were down at the video rental. They still have a porn Blu-ray section at Fry’s Electronics in my area. All the guys looking in there were 60+.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 03:30 AM
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Yes, I like to give and to receive. Love both. I think the difference here is you know what you’re doing, you’ve received and thus you understand the need for prep. A lot of young dudes don’t see this aspect since they’re never show that in porn, so some guys literally think women’s assholes are lubed and ready to go like the vag and he can switch holes without warning during the act. I’m sure you can imagine how unpleasant this would be, as opposed to having prepped for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 03:17 AM
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And then, weirder still, they claim they'd want to date them if they could--my dudes, make a tumblr, start talking about Harry Potter or Dr. Who, these women will find you. And then these dudes will run away screaming. They do not know what they're asking for, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 10:12 PM
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Nerdy as in really introverted, not the ones posting their Zelda thigh high socks or cosplay photos on Instagram. Most of the former are pretty much invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 07:00 PM
1

Ok, cool. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 02:16 AM
1

If you're obsessed with male virginity, do you count sex with women who are not this definition of "attractive" as options or even as sex itself? Just asking because I have seen some people say it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 01:47 AM
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For women: Do you count females outside of this narrow set of traits as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:51 AM
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Yeah men all totally only solicit hookers to lose their virginity. It was either this or with the girl your father picked for you to marry, for most people, throughout most of the history of human civilization. Casual sex is a modern invention, aided by the creation of the Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:38 AM
1

I just clicked through to that wiki article and saw the photos. Holy shit no thank you that doesn’t look appealing to me in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 02:54 AM
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Hapa on this site is usually East/Southeast Asian and White. If you look at her eyelids... the outer corner is hooded but the inner corner is not. Heavy outer eyelids are less common but still found in Caucasians but the curvature of her inner eyelid is not found in pure Asians. But her hair texture does look more typical of Asians. My guess is white/Japanese.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:00 PM
1

and equity As if anyone is digging really deep to find out what your current equity is on your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:06 AM
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Sorry, I don't understand what you mean by this. I was going to assume but it could go either way. He might be willing to pay but it doesn't mean he should pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 02:47 AM
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"Petite" in clothing means short (under 5'4") and comes in a range of sizes from 00 to 14 and sometimes larger. I'm 5'1" but my size 4P ass would probably make you vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 02:39 AM
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I had to look this up since I've lived in CA all my life and never heard of it. Turns out it's on the Salton Sea. Probably not worth the trip unless you're out there for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 02:36 AM
1

Split the bill if you don't want them to think you owe them something else. A lot of men will happily pay for a stunner to eat with them but see paying for an average girl as a waste of their money and time if she's not guaranteed to put out. Unless you intend to, I suppose. Edit: I'm not in the South so YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 02:29 AM
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If you think you're too old, you can always become the cool aunt/uncle to someone else. Not everyone has the best relationship with their own parents and you can become a mentor or a friend to someone who needs it. Or you could adopt an older child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 10:42 PM
2

I’m in favor of splitting the bill so no one owes anything to the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 06:29 PM
1

The weirdest is there's a couple that works for us remotely. They're both software engineers but work on different projects. Both seem to be pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 02:07 AM
2

others work from home and are still technically SAHMs Technically true, but not really what most people mean. If this is the case I know some SAHDs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 10:16 PM
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A lot of things that worked in days of yore Also, the period of time where most middle-class women were SAHMs with a lifestyle we're thinking of today was a very short period of time in history after WWII. Prior to this, wives' responsibilities included childcare but they weren't centered around this, they included a lot of other tasks that often included farming or helping the husband with his business. Cooking wasn't to impress, it was a necessity, and sewing wasn't a hobby, it was a task nece…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 10:14 PM
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I'd be unhappy if someone forced me to be a SAHM. But I respect your preferences as they work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 08:17 PM
1

My dad is 5'6". The most attractive guy I know in person is 5'7". I don't think the inch makes the difference there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:54 PM
1

This is all very regional. Probably very common in the northern Midwest, less common on the coasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:50 PM
11

Agreed. This is rock band on tour numbers. Pure projection IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:54 PM
3

3x multiplier on holidays!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:53 PM
6

I saw some TRP calculator thing once that was like, you should estimate 2 new dicks a week for every year past age 15 or something crazy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:42 PM
3

In my experience, this is something that happens with people you meet at work or school, where (at least for most women), you're not approaching each new person you meet as a potential suitor because the situation calls for this not to be the case. Over time you may get to know them better and they become more attractive or less attractive based off the things they do and say and the way they behave. Also, it's not always immediate physical attraction or not, maybe you never really looked at som…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:31 PM
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Men have to work out if they want an attractive body and a nice face, because fat affects your face as well. You don't need to be ripped to have a nice face. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 08:32 PM
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I was being a bit facetious there but the key there is she’s older than him in this hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 08:58 AM
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In the context of your post, let’s say you met her in person (so no profile to look at) and found her attractive. Turns out she’s 6 months older than yourself. Do you throw up in your mouth and ghost her like a ghost pepper, or do you just see how it goes since she didn’t turn you off immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 01:35 AM
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Op, what if you met a girl and thought she was younger than she actually was? Would you be offended or feel tricked?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:27 AM
1

STEM industry woman here, I’ve never heard this from a female colleague because they usually end up with someone in a similar field with similar earning potential. I do know one female engineer who supports her husband because he’s in a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 01:27 AM
1

I’d assume a first post to this sub would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 09:58 PM
2

Maybe I’m just old but I think all of these look terrible. If you’re over 30, hit the gym, get a haircut, and buy whatever is in the mannequin at Banana Republic and you should be fine with most ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 09:55 PM
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if I in any way thought my bf was better than me in any sense, at anything, then I was hypergamous. But if you thought he wasn't better than you in any sense, you must be an arrogant feminazi who hasn't learned her place who is planning to cheat on him with the pizza delivery boy. Can't win with these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:17 PM
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so if a guy is actually honest with her and tells her she nasty, she's less inclined to believe him. Conversely you also have those women who have low self-esteem and have been burned so they lash out and push others away, even men with genuine attraction and good intentions. They might hold up impossible standards as a defense mechanism so they can remain alone and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:20 AM
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I mean, I guess it depends who's determining whether they can cook or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:08 PM
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That's my point. My SO likes what I make but I'm not the type of cook that people will rave about so I usually just say I can't cook. I got asked to make a breakfast casserole once (I don't do casseroles because I don't like them) and it was pretty unspectacular and I've never forgotten that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:24 PM
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The latter is why I'm not a confident cook. I cook at least twice a week ("fairly basic meals" from scratch) but I'm not an entertaining-for-groups-of-20 kind of cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:20 PM
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I'm wondering if the perception of people not knowing how to cook is that these people literally could not feed themselves, or if they just say they don't know because there's a large gap between "can make myself a sandwich" and "can make a full Thanksgiving dinner that everyone agrees is delicious."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:11 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. I suppose the "technical" part of any illegality is due to the previous law still being in place and the provisions of the Maternal Protection Law being that it was legal provided certain criteria is met, which just about anyone can claim. The entire point of my original comment was not that it was difficult to obtain because it is not, but that it doesn't carry the moral stigma you find in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:31 PM
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I meant in Japan it is technically illegal but no one cares. I didn’t say it was prosecuted in the US/Can, that’s a non-starter, especially while it’s legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 08:51 AM
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Conversely, I’m ok with being fun and youthful as long as he otherwise has his shit together. There’s a guy I know that gets really excited about things and I think it’s actually really attractive. Also I’m older than you so I don’t think it’s just something all people grow out of necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 07:50 AM
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In Japan, abortion is the common solution to this problem because it doesn’t carry the same moral issues you find in the West. It’s technically still illegal but it’s very commonly practiced and not prosecuted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 07:21 AM
3

“Strongfat”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 09:23 AM
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That does suck but different options will have different effects. Just because one type doesn't work for you doesn't mean they all won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 12:00 AM
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I don’t have a problem personally with 5 or 10, but more than that wrong if it violates the half plus 7 rule. A lot of dudes saying they want to date a fresh high school grad at 38 is definitely creepy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:25 AM
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She could get a GED later. Not having at least that would make it difficult to get a job that pays more than a very low wage and you’d get stuck with her depending on you for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:36 AM
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Exactly my experience at that age as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 07:27 PM
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They’re advocating for large age gap relationships, late 30’s or older men with 23 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 06:39 PM
1

I think that dude was from Spain, this guy's from Greece. Similar comments though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:04 AM
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east asian couple: likely a cultural difference i'm not familiar with. stunned to see asians raise their voices in public period. Chinese people are loud with each other. If they're Japanese he's probably drunk. If they're Korean he's just angry about being culturally oppressed by the Japanese since 1910.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:46 PM
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Did you have to pay for his dinner for him to hang out with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:18 PM
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It sounds like you may need to up your fiber consumption a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 08:07 PM
2

Yeah, it would come out sounding autistic if she said it just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 08:02 PM
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I have never uttered that sentence to anyone in my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 08:01 PM
2

There are some white guys with Asian American girls but it seems like the guys online who pine about Asians really want the foreign ones, thus the inflated perception of Asian American female SMV. The example in the post I was referencing was about AAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:21 AM
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Then you're dealing with people who want to only take race at face value. Seems pointless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:02 AM
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I've grown up around a lot of them in my community and it was never a problem until Elliot Roger and the famous subreddit really showed up. Most of the half-Japanese hapas I've known IRL have no interest in dating full Japanese-Americans anyway so the bitterness over there was initially strange to me. But I know AMWF hapas as well as WMAF. It seems more common in my community since most of us are very (3+ generations) American.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:01 AM
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Your example was about Asian Americans, not fobs. I know who wants the fobs; the less English they speak, the better. Hard pass for me on those dudes. I've had a few approach me thinking I'm from Japan but they lose interest immediately after we speak. Yeah, I don't want to bait the hapas!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:44 PM
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A 7/10 Indian guy is a 7/10 Indian guy. But an Indian guy is statistically more likely to be unattractive over a white guy and also shorter, so if you give a description of a person with either "Indian guy" or "white guy" they will assume the white guy will have better features and taller so they would most likely go more for the white guy just off that description. Why are you even discussing this then? Doesn't it only matter what a prospective partner will think of you when your picture comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:39 PM
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The girl will have the highest SMV combo of race gender Probably not. Weebs are overrepresented on the web. In my experience as a Japanese female (ok maybe Koreans are rated more highly now? who knows), it's really only other Asian guys that are interested if you're born and raised in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:31 PM
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I'm not white. I'm Indian. I think you have some self-reflection to do then. Stop focusing on orbit shape and tendencies, it borders on phrenology and you can only fix yourself. Looking at tendencies and trying to apply them to yourself is useless. I've known some very attractive (and even tall) Indian guys but since I'm not white either you probably don't care what I have to say since you've put Whiteness on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:25 PM
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That doesn't strike you as subjective in any way? It's always assumed a white guy is going to be more attractive? Perhaps this is because it's white people (i.e., you) making up the rules here. For example, Indians have terrible eye areas almost always even if they have good everything else. "Terrible eye areas" is some Incel bullshit btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:16 PM
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That's exactly why preferences are a thing. Certain redditors believe entire races are an automatic 2 or 3pt deduction or addition, or that blond men aren't hot at all, or that blond men are the hottest, or that women are ugly if they have big noses, or that big noses are the best, etc etc etc. It's true that most young, fit people find obese people less attractive than other fit people, but within those general guidelines preferences vary widely and will influence your perception of someone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:01 PM
2

I love Hawaii but I do love visiting the cold, too. It's super nasty and hazy right now from all the fires. Yay brown skies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 11:09 PM
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You've talked about it ad nauseam. Yes I've been there. It's like any other California city. Some nice parts, some crappy parts. I live in LA though so ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I just don't get why you think it's paradise compared to like, Maui or New Zealand or somewhere else more exotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:53 PM
2

Yep. Ask him about San Diego.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:46 PM
1

We'll all be dead by then. Don't think too much about it. Go visit San Diego while you're still young.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:42 PM
2

In the US? Have you seen Americans, especially in prole areas? I say 23 because it's the age when a lot of other people are starting to make money where they can support themselves and not have to ask you to be a beta bux for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 07:39 PM
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They also have no means to support themselves if they just work at the mall so once you knock them up at 23 they stay home and get fat and ask you for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 07:32 PM
1

Lol, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 11:46 PM
1

I’m working on a project involving this at work and I do wonder if it’s really worth it. Google does have too much control, you’re not wrong about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 11:36 PM
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AMP isn’t a site, it’s just a Google-hosted version of a page optimized for mobile (no JavaScript, limited CSS), is there some sort of agenda you’re associating with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 11:28 PM
1

Didn't just have a thread about how it's biotruths that men don't want to raise another man's child? If so, why do you guys need a video on this from young Mandy Patinkin here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:37 PM
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I haven't seen the show either but I did a google image search for him and no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:19 AM
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She's Scottish but her natural accent is super posh so the character's accent is just Northern.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:58 PM
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Most women do not realize how rare men are once you stray from the median, overweight, 30K a year male. Maybe in small towns. In major cities this doesn't describe the majority of young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 07:11 PM
1

I'm enjoying this seminar on Hoeology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:33 PM
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I agree about homeschooling, it seems like it’s creating a generation of weirdos who don’t know anything about socialization aside from what strangers on the internet tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 07:55 AM
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They're long commercials for toys now. Maybe not back in the Bambi era but they certainly are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 11:44 PM
2

So it's cheap, but salty?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 11:39 PM
4

TIL my coworkers are committed to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 07:55 AM
2

wealthy elderly man in this late 70's who was dying at home. He had a wife who was either in her late 40's or early 50's. In b4 "well duh she's too old, he should have been with a 22 year old so he's not a real alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:27 PM
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For me it would depend on what he's doing. I don't mind if he's doing something productive and getting other things done that contribute to the relationship, but not if it means playing Wow and LoL and watching porn and anime all day, then shouting at me that he's hungry and wants dinner if I'm late coming home from work. FWIW, I think stay-at-home wives who do nothing productive all day are just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:25 PM
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Yikes, he looked better before, unfortunately. He looks now like if he stops working out for a week that he'll blow up into a beer keg.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:58 PM
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It’s relevant to the original post he linked... I think. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:58 AM
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They range from a little younger to a little older than him, a few have toddlers. He comes from a big family but always said he didn't want kids. I guess that wasn't permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:41 AM
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If you're not an ass about it, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:37 AM
1

I think RP men are thinking of these 40+ guys as looking like Michael Fassbender and Jon Hamm and everyone else is picturing Kevin James and Jake from State Farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:35 AM
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Maybe gay porn, twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:26 AM
2

the men who don't want kids never change their mind. For the most part. SO suddenly wants multiple kids, Catholic-style, at 40. I don't. I was always ambivalent about it but I fall under the medical issue camp and I don't really want this anymore. The reason he's changed his mind? All his friends at work now are dads who keep telling him how great it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:14 AM
2

I think the funniest was reading some asktrp about amused mastery, posted by a 16 year old. Sorry but kids don't know enough shit to have mastery of very much at 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:02 AM
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The only one out of these I ever read was Twilight and there was a whole lot of oneitis for Bella. No abundance mentality at all in this entire series.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 08:15 PM
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TIL I need a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 10:10 PM
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I got downvoted but the other comments in this thread support the idea I’m not alone. Unless he’s a widower, there’s going to be the actual mother to deal with, and often the kids will not take kindly to having her be “replaced” by daddy’s new plate unless she was a terrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 10:35 PM
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Okay? That’s fine, she doesn’t have to date bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 10:32 PM
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Basically don’t be using that as an excuse to cheat. I’m not homophobic so just thinking of men with men doesn’t turn me off like in your friend’s scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 10:04 PM
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I wouldn’t care unless it meant he was collecting STIs behind my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:55 PM
1

Ok, good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:46 PM
2

Not into choking and I think it’s a dangerous assumption to default to all women being into it and doing it without prior discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:43 PM
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Basically yes, and the assertion that gets bounced around in this sub by certain men that since all women love babies and children then they’d just love to become an insta-mom to the kids you just wrestled away from your batshit ex is totally off-base for many of the women here and a lot of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:32 PM
2

Not OP but I just can’t do masochism at all, sorry. If that’s required, I’m out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:22 PM
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Barf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:15 PM
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My mother gave me a dishtowel with that on it last Christmas. I immediately gave it back to her and said thanks but please regift this to one of your friends over 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:13 PM
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Women can overcome less than stellar looks by being friendly, flirty, and enthusiastic -- provided they meet the bare minimum floor for looks. There are also guys here who say they know the second they meet a woman if they want to fuck her or not and that won't ever change in the future unless she does something incredibly drastic to improve herself because from that point forward she will only get older and less attractive. I'm not saying you're wrong but YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 07:47 PM
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I guess your friends are just really different people. I cannot fathom how this would even make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:48 PM
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OP: "Women hate sex! Here's the proof!" Comments: "Women looove sex, they want dick all day!" See, told you they're all hoors!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:47 PM
2

"Fucking a stranger at a friend's funeral just to feel alive again"? A very female thing to do. Who the fuck does this? Sounds like someone with some serious damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:45 PM
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Sounds like it was meant to allow alternate viewpoints to prevent every thread from becoming a big circlejerk. But I didn't see the original context, so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:38 PM
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I understand what you're saying here but I've seen the opposite happen a lot: Guys can also bond with each other just on a superficial level. New guy shows up to a party. Everyone says 'sup' and offers him a beer. Next thing we know he's hanging out with the group (guys) and they barely know a thing about him, except he's cool and he likes video games so that's enough to bond over. Women can be superficially nice but sometimes too cliquish to actually let a newcomer bond into the group, particul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 05:40 PM
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Some girl is gonna go up to him and say Hi and if she doesn’t fit the definition of perfect he has in his head, he’s gonna tell her “fuck off, roastie!” and come back here and complain again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 01:56 AM
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One of my jr devs liked the Asian girl jr dev so much he insisted on doing 60% of her work for her. What a moron. I guess you could discipline her for claiming work done that wasn't hers but the problem is really him, not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:16 PM
2

Blue, the Wizards quiz said Lawful Good, though I would have said Lawful Neutral personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:57 AM
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Because I’m 5’1” and too tall is not comfortable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:38 AM
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Short to average height, big eyes, high brows, aquiline nose shape, nice smile, non-square jaw. James McAvoy is my favorite. Not picky about coloring as there are Asian guys that have this combination of features. Maybe my first bf. He still fits some of this description though. 3/4 - not really Haven’t really thought about it but I’d rather WGTOW than settle for someone I’m just not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 11:16 PM
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