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Ask her what her bf does for a living. Serves Teo purposes. Gives you your answer without seeming desperate and sets you up for further flirting No matter the answer
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:01 AM
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Ha! That was actually funny! The idea that you have enough empathy to deduce anything about my daily life or online activity is funny to me. At least I choose to see it as funny. Seeing you as willfully ignorant is just sad but that's on you. But it's kinda like when you see someone salute Hitler, you kinda amuse they are nazis. When you applaud misogyni it's kinda obvious that you're one as well. I hope you grow up one day because what you have shown so far is childish. I know you try to paint …
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:08 PM
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At least you entertain yourself with your ignorance. And still trying to weasel I see. If you feel intimidated that's on you. I wasn't trying to be. I was trying to tell an idiot (you) why he's an idiot. Its a bad habit I have. I have to speak out against willful ignorance like you're displaying and I do it almost every day here on reddit.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:32 PM
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I like how you're trying to weasel yourself out of your own actions and justify them as being okay. And no thank you. I'm perfectly fine calling you out in the open.
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:19 AM
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No. You indirectly admitted to being a misogynist. Slight difference. You applauded someone parroting misogynistic bs. Kinda makes you a misogynist as well by default so for theirs sake - I have don't have any female family-members that have to depend on you. That's gonna suck.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:27 PM
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"Haven't decided yet "
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:50 AM
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That's the point I'm running around trying to make. It's a survival tactic
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:38 PM
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Your lack of ability to put two and two together is becoming worrying at this point. I'm a man. You should not participate in a discussion you're not capable of following. You refused to see reason early on and kept doubling down on saying stupid shit so here we are. At least you understood that I insulted you then, good. I was worried about that at this point. I hope you remember me being "annoying" and reflect on your lack of empathy going forward. Try seeing things from other people's perspec…
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:36 PM
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No
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:31 PM
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That's just.... Weird
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:31 PM
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No
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:30 PM
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Wow... You okay dude? This thread reeks but this was a new level
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:30 PM
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Your lack of ability to understand what I'm saying does not make it off-topic. Try reading it again more slowly this time. Do you feel attacked? Good. Because you keep doubling down on staying stupid shit like victim-blaming like you did just now. Don't tell others to be self-aware when you don't practice the ability yourself. But okay. I'm gonna try and be clear (again). What anybody does with their own body and time is none of your business. You're basically saying that we should stop all soci…
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:26 PM
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You fail to see the point if you think that was a copy pasta. The comment I responded too was made from a place of misogyny and inceldom. It reeks of a lack of empathy and ability to think logically and I have to address the issue fully because otherwise the guy who made the comment is gonna look at his upvotes and think he is right. He is not. That's not how the real world works and its frightening to me to see that more than a 100 people in this subreddit apparently agreed with him. You're not…
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:17 PM
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Ms? Well, at least you confirmed your lack of ability to think logical. Get of the Internet and grow up. Please. You're clearly somewhere between simp and an average porn-addict. I'm no Sherlock Holmes bur even I can deduce that much. What anybody does on the Internet, does not give you an excuse to be an incel or a creep, does it? As long as they are not hurting others, why the fuck should your opinion on anything they do with their own body matter? It's their body. You can fuck right of until …
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:11 PM
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"Not having game" is not a thing. Lack of confidence is. You're just a fucking incel if you keep thinking that shit and you're doubling down on that right now. I have sisters and have seen their dms so no. I think my anger is entirely justified when I tell you that you're an incel and a child that needs to grow up and face some of the truths of the real world.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:03 PM
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You're spot on. I can't believe some People don't get this. You don't have to be an Instagram baddie to have creepy or threatening dms.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:01 PM
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THANK YOU. As a member of the male part of the species I deeply apologise for some of these creatures that I have the misfortune of sharing sharing gender with. I feel absolutely disgusted and saddened to read some of these comments. The sheer navalgazing and lack of empathy some of these commenters ignorantly show to the world is mortifying. I'm gonna take this as my sign to be more active here. I cannot stand by and let these guys keep thinking this shit and not be told they are fucking idiots…
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:59 PM
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A man of incel-culture FTFY
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:56 PM
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Why display your misogyny to the World like this?
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:56 PM
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That's just sad Edit: i feel sorry for you
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:55 PM
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Stfu. Read a book. Fucking incel. That's not how the real world works. That's not why women won't talk to you. They wont talk to you because you're a creep with poorly veiled intentions and zero confidence. But that's just you. I would loooooove to read some of your "convos". I'm sure it's intellectually stimulating shit and not overly sexualised comments in a disgusting attempt to flirt. Grow up. Get of the Internet. Do some push-ups. Build yourself. Stop being an incel. Please.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:55 PM
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You might not a simp but you don't have a lot of empathy or logical thinking either, huh? It's protection. That's it. There might be narcissist who truly do get of on "ghosting" but 999 out a 1000 it's about protecting themselves from their next potential stalker or simple as a way to avoid receiving threatening or abusive texts because that's what has happened when they politely rejected someone in the past. Your advice is sound. Don't simp. You're just giving it out in a horrible context
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:52 PM
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I'm flabbergasted as a man reading this thread because of the sheer inceldom it reeks of. This whole subreddit is apparently full of full on incels and misogynist. You're absolutely right btw. Some simple respect and decency (Not be a creep or potentially dangerous. Simple shit) will get you very far.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:49 PM
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Wtf? I hope you dropped this: /s This comment make you seem like one the people women should be banned on dating apps if they don't respond.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:46 PM
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I have found my people. I lost all interest in dating like 2 years ago. I try every couple of months to get back into it but I'm just bored by it at this point.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:45 PM
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How to say you're an incel without saying it.... just because she ghosted you, doesn't make it her problem. You being ghosted is very much your problem. She doesn't owe you anything at all and not a minute of her time or thoughts either. Her "ghosting" you is a sign of what you did wrong and not because she "has options". Stfu with that weak shit. She doesn't owe you anything. Move the fuck on. Besides it's on you for only talking to one girl if you can get upset enough about "ghosting" to turn …
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:43 PM
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"So, what does your bf do for a living?"
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:45 PM
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Of the top of my head I can think of at least 4 different occasions were I've been on first dates that ended with sex and didn't cost me anything. The last date I went on she expected me to pay and that honestly turned me off and even though I probably could have ended with sex I couldn't get away fast enough after we had finished eating. It's not about what you do (or eat), it's about how you make her feel and how comfortable you can be in seeing were things will go.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:22 PM
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I hold that Pete Davidson is just an insane fuck. Well-endowed but also regular casanova when it comes to actually pleasing the women. Given the women he has dated I don't blame him personally, for wanting to rock their world. That's probably the rumor that's sparked most of his success. Have someone like Kate Beckinsale maybe low-key confirm that she almost passed out in bed with him or something equally as appealing. AND he is a funny, casual guy with a lot of social proof given his comedy and…
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:36 PM
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Huh. Learned something new today
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:54 AM
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Go on the date and keep flirting. The flirting is what got you the date. Not the attempted kiss. What are you also doing trying to kiss this girl? Your post didn't read as if you picked the right time to do that more like you gambled and it paid of long term because you apparently can flirt despite failing at kissing her. It's gonna be quite clear when she wants you to kiss her, look for that moment on the date, of it happens. If you can keep up flirting and get some kino going it should be easy…
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:41 AM
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This. The only professional way to handle it going forward. Its gonna take some days to bounce back probably but this is the adult way of handling it
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:42 AM
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I'm not saying you're wrong, just that I think its the wrong framing to look at it through but that's just me. Hookup culture is also hard to say exist when it's a fucking stupid term for something that's always existed.
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:59 PM
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That's the first time I've heard someone call it that. And I disagree. The dude is just being a bitch about wanting sex with no strings attached. Ain't something as deep as the "male friend zone" going on
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:37 PM
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"We are both consenting adults, does it really matter as long as we like it?" "Listen. I really enjoy you and like you and I don't want to break that by forcing it into some box"
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:13 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain and say yes. You're wrong for it. The boy you were seeing is as well but he doesn't know it because you ghosted him instead of calling his manipulative ass out. He is gonna be on tinder thinking that this is an OK thing to do when it's fucking not. This could all have been avoided early on if either of you had opened your mouth and talked about expectations from the other. In my opinion, if you're enough of an adult to fuck someone, you better full well look that p…
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:09 PM
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He was but OP missed out some on not confronting the guy. The dude will walk around thinking that this was a sound way to have a fwb when it's fucking not. OP and the dude are both missing out on an adult conversation that needs to take place.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:03 PM
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Sounds like it tbh. Call out his ass before moving on though. Might be enlightening
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:58 PM
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Don't know why you are being down voted. Your comment make you come across as a bit of a douche but you are spitting facts.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:56 PM
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"So, what does your bf do for a living?" I've only gotten positive responses to this question. It's simple, polite yet leads to so many possibilities. It doesn't matter if she has a bf, you can still move yourself into a positive romantic position with this question
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:20 PM
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What rock do you live under?
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:16 PM
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Dating is a numbers game, imagine how many other guys think you like you do? How many dudes that actually go and shoot their shot at the smoking hot Babe? Probably quite a lot, and the "attractive" guys might have their own issues about talking to attractive girls - or might not even be attractive to girls. As long as you're pleasant and not a creep, odds can definitely be in your favor. Go shoot your shot. What kind of stories would you rather have to tell when you're old and grey? Of you chasi…
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:40 PM
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Fair point, this was also just a throwaway answer. But no, it would not be. But still i wouldnt send it. I would maybe send something incredibly teasing or suggesting but not the real thing
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:52 AM
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"I only send that to girls that has already seen the real thing" Also let's them know I don't send unwanted dickpics
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:18 PM
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Tinder is a numbers game though and it suuuuuucks as a man. Manage your expectations aggressively. Expect zero results and dont throw away your likes. Be disciplined I what you're looking for and be honest about it. Honesty works best so be open, but not sleazy or creepy about what youre looking for.
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:04 PM
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I can vouch for the importance of social proof. Went on a first date with a girl. After food she had to stop by her job, a danceschool where she was a poledance-instructor. She had to teach a class for like an hour, I had a book and there was a sofa. No biggie, and who walks in but one of my great friends! Cue me and him greeting each other, hugs and immediately starting to catch up. My date was stunned and impressed at the same time. It works! Ended up seeing her for close to a year.
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:43 PM
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Fuck yeah. Thats the kind of talk more People need go hear.
/r/seduction22/03/20 11:35 AM
3

To qoute Wes Watson: "You have to build that savage motherfucker" looks like thats what you did.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:21 AM
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Did your mindset change during that time?
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:19 AM
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Only crazy women
/r/seduction21/07/19 07:14 PM
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Ask her for a favor. Ask her to say her own name. If she asks why, just say you want to be sure how to pronunce it. Been in your shoes. Only problem was that it was it occured to me while driving the two of us back to ny place. Had to improvise
/r/seduction06/11/18 10:39 PM
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I wont feed into What youre doing here. Get off tinder man and re-evaluate. Im trying to prove its fake. Dont dig yourself further into the hole
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:58 PM
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What? No? Cropped my own pics to use along with lewd bio. Sent selfies via snapchat. By fake i meant fake name
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:30 PM
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Ive done it several times and havent been accused of catfishing.
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:00 PM
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Male a fake account until you hit it off with someone. Only share your selfies via snapchat or something then. Adjust your approach and get off tinder for a while. Get a girl friend for now. Not a girlfriend.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:48 PM
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Dude. Relax. I take good selfies, thats All. Learn how to take a good selfie. That Will help YOU on tinder. Find your good angle and how to take that good pic. I have zero smiles in my tinder pics. Tinder is just appearances. A good profile doesnt get you laid, it gets you the starting attention. You need to calm down and fake it. Worst time of my life ended after i learned myself to smile, pleasantly. Its not my smile. Its fake asf but it looks genuine and fucking normal. Took me a month a hate…
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:16 PM
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You. You are your own biggest obstacle. Your issue isnt tinder. Your issue is with you. Work on you. Become someone you want to be, and others will see it too, until then remember rule 1&2 of tinder. Be attractive. DONT BE UNATTRACTIVE. PASSIVE-AGRESSIVE BITTERNES IS SERIOUSLY UNATTRACTIVE
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:17 AM
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This guy lives
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:15 AM
11

I love your project man! Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction16/06/18 05:53 PM
1

Tl;dr?
/r/seduction02/06/18 04:06 PM
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If you want to verify a girls status, assume they have one. I always ask 'So, what does your boyfriend do?'' Either they deny having one, ie theyre single, and ask why you thought they had one. Setting you up for a line like ''Girls like you are never single ;-)'' or something along those lines. If she starts talking about her SO, you have verified her without coming across as only interested in her for obvious reasons.
/r/seduction02/06/18 12:43 PM
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This... Could... Work...
/r/seduction28/03/18 11:04 AM
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Well.... You could tease him? Be agressively flirting with him and actually get him going. When you put your hand on his thigh, actually stroke and massage the thigh, get him hard and his blood-flowing. If he then tries go for the kiss, keep it shorter and lighter than he wants too. Break the kiss. I hate it when girls do that and immediately want to escalate kino. Basically, go 90% of the way and make it clear you want him to take the last 10%
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:06 AM
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True. He wouldnt need it. Im just categorizing him....
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:13 AM
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This is actually spot on ^ The man who can combine all three qualities becomes a pua-god if he so wishes
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:53 AM
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Three in real life, always texting a few more tho.
/r/seduction26/12/17 12:03 AM
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Oh, okay.
/r/seduction21/12/17 09:15 PM
2

Please list the two rules then
/r/seduction21/12/17 08:26 PM
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26 - basic social media then. Dont be childish. They would but for mass-snaps (like trying to find out who responds/might be interested) gym pics seem obvious. Its about mixing it up, of course. Oh, and learn what your best angle is so you can consistently take good selfies as snaps. Snap is great in the regard that you have a chance to flaunt your looks (if any), if you have a handsome face, a girl seeing it a couple times a day might eventually compliment you on it or even think about kissing …
/r/seduction06/12/17 06:18 PM
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Context i was looking for age. Different age groups tend to use social media a bit differently. Gympics early in the morning seem like something some would enjoy. If your work offers the chance to take a snap that makes you look good do it. Commuting isnt all that exiting but snapping a weird looking stranger could spark convo
/r/seduction06/12/17 06:13 PM
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I say it depends on who you are snapping and for what purpose. A bit more context to your situation could be nice so i can only give a bit of general advice and insigt. sexting. Snapchat is perfect for sexting because you get notified i people screenshot you so its relatively safe to exchange nudes and sextexts. I have done this with great success. Learh how to take a good dick pic (never send one that isnt asked for and even then, dont go full bird, hide it in the waistband of your boxers or so…
/r/seduction06/12/17 10:05 AM
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Social-proof, thank you! That was my missing argument!
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:35 PM
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Interest can start in alot of places. Adding someone on facebook is pretty risk-free and how i got in touch with my first FWB. didnt get her number until recently
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:34 PM
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That is true. That age group is hardcore social media fanatics. I guess its also a question of approach. We all have our own style to it and how we prefer doing it. And i agree with you. A phone-number can be a sign of comfort.
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:31 PM
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Thank you : )
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:29 PM
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You are right about the followers thing totally, although that isnt a problem really, where i live. But if you cant make it work over snap or insta, what good is a phone-number then? I have gotten girls snap and gotten them in bed, without ever having their phone-number. I have gotten phone-numbers and had every text ignored, even if she iniated with kissing or kino before i asked for her phone-number.
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:30 PM
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Shit, which one? I have a video of the first one on my phone. She recorded it the day before our first date. I titled it ''the best about giving blowjobs'' its her describing, in detail, graphic detail, what she enjoys about giving a blowjob. The whole time she is biting her lips and smiling and its just wonderful to watch. Well, i get that, but i got her to play with herself while thinking of, and sexting me AFTER she was on a date and her initial words about the dude was 'i really like him' an…
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:26 PM
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I know... And trace it too. People are paranoid and its direct acces to your most personal device, what if you called her up at an embarrasing time? One i let go of getting wood, the pace quickened up. You just need a way of contact. Kik, reddit, email, facebook, twitter, instagram, doesnt matter. You just get a way of contacting her.
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:15 PM
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Do you not realize WHY, you cant get a girls phone-number anymore? Stalking. Thats why. Alot of people think that their phone-number is as sensitive as their home-adress. Its direct contact to their phone (Ask yourself how important a girls phone is.... You have to be pretty fucking special to get that close, that fast) Snapchat, email, insta, fb is a layer, its not direct contact. It gives her a means of ignoring/blocking you if she thinks you are creepy. Its your loss if you arent flexible dud…
/r/seduction17/10/17 04:12 PM
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Am i the only one that can see good advice packed away in there? 1-5 is okay, with a bit of explanation. (1 ALOT of explanation, actually) 6 is just upside down though, like extremely upside down. Dude, ever heard of persistence? I have two FWB's thanks to PERSISTENCE! One was an just a friend for six months until we ended up frantically sexting after a date of hers didnt work out (dude didnt like bj's, wtf?) And a bit of time later after ALOT of sexting and flirting, i approached the fwb-questi…
/r/seduction17/10/17 04:02 PM
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