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Reading this post has made me realise I find it very hard to distinguish between when I’m feeling good, and when I’m feeling good whilst hoping I have someone’s approval (having emotional investment). How do I experience positive emotions which are not anchored to someone’s approval? Especially when the aim is to have a good time with someone else? It seems a very foreign concept to me currently. When I try to avoid emotional investment, it seems that I'm avoiding all emotions altogether, and I …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:45 PM

Thank you. I'll be thinking about what you've said. If I'm reading this right, you're saying that the girl is literally asking if you guys should go somewhere else, and your response is that you're fine sitting on a bench and CHATTING What I mean is, that is what I'm thinking internally. Externally, I say okay and we go somewhere else. RE: Mystique - I have read in countless places that you shouldn't give too much of yourself away, you shouldn't let her suss you out completely, and so soon. But …
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:44 PM

What do you usually do? In order of price...
/r/seduction10/04/17 04:05 PM

All but one were obvious dates. Some were from dating websites lol. As I said, all were either a drink, a hot drink, ice cream etc or/and walks/sits in parks. Just general hanging out.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:49 PM
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Thanks mate. I'm actually fine when meeting girls for the first time, or on dates, (hence why I still get dates) it's just afterwards I realise she doesn't want to see me again and I feel helpless.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:07 PM
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Yes and she did.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:05 PM
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