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Pragmatic might work
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 08:46 PM
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Lot of people here saying move out and let mom deal with it. I agree 70%. But you're still his daughter and this is affecting your relationship with him. Consider approaching it from that angle. Consider telling him that you don't like that and it hurts you. Or something similar to that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 12:05 AM
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I'm a man, but im also a psychologist. And in my experience, playing it cool never makes anyone stop doing anything ever. All it does is communicate that you'll tolerate it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 06:11 PM
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Thank you. I'm a dude who mostly observes and get really unsettled by how often "I'd date you!" happens. And full transparency, I notice that desire in myself too. I just shut it down. Because my feelings are almost always irrelevant here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/22 05:44 PM
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Then you definitely know far more than I do. And your final comment is so true. Military personnel don't give up when they've given their word. In all their relationships. If you know what you're signing up for, the military officer corps is full of people who know what a commitment really means.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/22 10:46 PM
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I work for the Army, and this strategy "go find a military man" very often ends in divorce. It's not easy being a Soldier's partner. Lots of dinners alone, even when they're not in deployment. Being a soldier is a 24/7 job especially for those in leadership positions. Plus, when they get home, they're often stressed from being overworked as it is. It can lead to a hard marriage. Divorces are practically a meme in the military, such as "Got my second divorce, meaning I'm officially qualified for …
/r/RedPillWives22/01/22 09:19 PM
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Man here who is also a psychologist and VERY aware of my feelings and emotions. I've finally started to bottle them up after multiple women weaponized my earnest interest in emotional connection. It was like as soon as I started to take particular care of their emotional needs, they started to take advantage of my vulnerability. Like an invading army conquers territory, they crept into my psyche and tried to bend it to their will. Which makes me very very sad honestly. But after being burned, it…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 03:01 AM
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Feeling responsible for others? It's very very common. Especially for people who have been mistreated. One of the main theories is that people who've been mistreated develop this negative self talk "if only I'd done X, then they wouldn't be mad" and that leads to a general overpowering feeling that they are responsible for another's emotions. This plays out most often with feeling responsible for parents and/or significant others' emotions. And it's just not true. No adult is responsible for ano…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/21 02:37 AM
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Full disclosure, I'm a man, but I'm also a psychologist. And I'm here to tell you that you are not responsible for your father's mental health. Whether you decide to say anything is entirely up to you. But you are not responsible for him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/21 01:44 AM
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No. No one is allowed is be happy. /s
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 08:51 PM
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If you need someone to talk to, please consider calling the suicide prevention hotline. (800) 273-8255. Stay safe.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 02:37 AM
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My fiancee and I met online. We lived an hour away. We started texting, and after 20 minutes, she said "I'd like to meet you" and we met up that weekend. Being blunt means you get to find out if you can get what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 02:47 AM
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That's a great show for everyone. I still watch it from time to time when I'm ruminating and need to take a mental break from my mind
/r/RedPillWives25/02/21 10:06 PM
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Awesome! Then I highly recommend this book. It's written by its inventor who doesn't decades crafting it with business teams. I live my life according to it. When I'm overwhelmed, I just tell myself "you don't have to clean the entire home. Just spend one pomodoro on the kitchen and it'll at least be that much better". The book is super short and no fluff in it whatsoever. Best of luck! https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.amazon.com/Pomodoro-Technique-Francesco-Ciril…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 11:08 PM
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Man here, but I do have a PhD in experimental psychology. Given the uniqueness of the question, I hope it's cool I jump in here. When you say you need books on "executive functioning", and that you struggle with it, what do you mean by that? You don't have to tell me everything, but a general description of the types of EF issues you notice and how long you've noticed them will be a great help in pointing you to a good source. I will give one general recommendation. It's my experience that "acad…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/21 02:23 AM
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My opinion. There is far more to men than red pill or blue pill. Both are full of shit. Find a man who takes his own pill, not someone else's. I can't tell you who or where to look for because I don't know you. But here's my thoughts, what do you value? What do you enjoy about life? What do you believe about how one should live life? Set aside time, say 15-30 minutes, 2-4 times a week, where you sit down and explore your own values. Write it out in a journal. Go as deep as possible. Dig into you…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 06:08 PM
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I'm a man who usually lurks because I believe this sub is not my place. So i rarely comment. And I'm a little unsettled at the number of men giving advice here. I think I understand even more why the sidebar essentially says "to men, comment if you must". OP, be very cautious at taking any of these men's advice. You don't know them and also remember that RPM is very different from RPW. Best of luck.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 03:55 PM
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My sisters were batshit crazy growing up, and little mental health help was sought. The way I've described it is "those struggling with mental illness can leave a lot of blood on the tracks in their wake"
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 09:58 AM
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In order to find out if he is high or low value, you need to prioritize your values. Then determine if he is high or low on those. The questions posed by another poster are an astoundingly good start though. Ask yourself if his answers to those questions would matter to you
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 05:54 PM
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I've recently fallen in love with the Pair of Thieves underwear. They're about $10 a pair and so worth it. I replaced all of my underwear with them. They're better for running, sitting, standing. They don't overheat my balls or chaff my dick especially while running. Total cost for constant comfort: $100. Give that i pay $5 a couple times a week for a good morning coffee, that's a freaking steal.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/06/20 05:53 PM
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Yup! That's pretty much it lol. You like what you like. And it's ok to ask for it. Those who don't want to provide shouldn't be with those who want something. That way, compatible people are together. Check /u/fuckswithducks for a real trip down the world of someone who can only get aroused when he's holding a rubber duck.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 08:36 PM
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Psychologist here. The complexity of human sexuality is infinite. There are people who can only get aroused when someone shits in their mouth. Or when someone shoves a birthday cake in their face. Or when they hold a rubber duck. All of these are documented. There are general patterns of course, but individual people are not bound by statistical averages.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 02:39 AM
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I agree. And I wonder if she sees the link between "no evidence" and "i didn't contact police", and how she is actively helping her husband hurt her children. I'm very biased on this case. Fiancée was sexually abused by her father. Her mother did nothing. So it kept happening. For years. Her mother deemed that acceptable for a financially comfortable life. Fills me with rage just thinking about it. Fucking rage. And I see parallels here with the poster. She is teaching her children that it's mor…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 06:51 PM
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Anyone else get a little depressed that she deleted her post and is at risk of becoming an enabler?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 05:33 PM
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If you stay with him, you are teaching your children that you're OK with him beating them Even if he gets 50/50 custody, then you can watch like a hawk, and the second there's a bruise, you can prove it and protect them permanently. My fiancé was sexually abused by her father. And her mother let it happen. No police. No divorce. And it k90mept happening. What my fiancé learned is that her mother was OK with letting her daughter live 100% with a pedophile. And now, we've cut her entire family out…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 05:06 PM
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Someone on reddit once was talking about this frustration, and said something amazing. It was too the effect of "why can't my therapist just give me a grade, so I know if I'm doing good at therapy?!" They later went on to talk about how they understand that what their therapist thinks is rarely important. The most profound effects therapy has given them is provide them with a safe environment with which to explore their own experiences and thoughts. But it's still hard. I'm a research psychologi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 08:29 PM
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Psychologist here. If you feel comfortable, I would love to hear what books you've read. I enjoy hearing success stories that a psychology book helped someone understand something.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 05:55 PM
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Food for thought. My mother cared what I believed in. And generally speaking, the more she disapproved of something and tried to "instruct" me, the more i was intrigued by it and wanted to seek out people who agreed with it. I didn't always agree with those people, but idefinitely did with some of them. To this day, my mother and I can't talk about certain things because we disagree. It's unfortunate because I feel it's driven a wedge between us. Not the disagreement. But the inability to accept…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 05:23 PM
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Not OP. But I'm also an Irish Catholic and my fiancee and I are deciding to forgo the ring for tattoos. Neither one of us like jewelery. So we designed tattoos that are specifically designed to reflect something personal about our relationship to both of us.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 11:36 AM
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Another option is to date a man who's job satisfaction has nothing to do with money. I'm a scientist making less than 100k and my fiance runs a business, making about 130k. I'm stoked for her success and hope she keeps pumping cash into our home. My life satisfaction has nothing to do with being the primary breadwinner. I'm happy I'm providing something, but more than that, I love my job, and would still do it even if she made a million per year.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:44 AM
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Also, masks don't work for protecting the healthy. They only work preventing sick people from infecting others. So the only ones who should wear them are already sick.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 05:13 AM
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You're seeking help here to understand your feelings. That is very hard to do over internet and it is also above Reddit's pay grade. Therapists are explicitly trained to help people sort through their feelings. I have a PhD in experimental psychology and went to school to many therapists and have gone to therapy for plenty of reasons. Therapy helps life if you approach it with the right mindset. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 03:40 PM
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