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Both need to agree that anying over x $ (say 100, or 250 or something in that range) need both to agree. Or keep you finances separate and cover joint costs via a small joint account.
/r/MenSupportMen05/12/24 04:22 AM
1

As I understand it they aren't the same. Could be some overlap. Sexism can be a benevolent superiority/arrogance, while Misogyny is naked hatred of women. Its a pity the usage of one has come to mean the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:42 AM
1

What city/town area. I'll do some searching. I bet there's something out there if we look.
/r/MenSupportMen16/04/24 11:03 PM
3

Do you have any volunteer groups nearby? (Fire fighting? Rescue? Meal on wheels? Pet rescue? Red Cross? )
/r/MenSupportMen15/04/24 06:22 AM
1

Keep things simple, walk the fine line through the middle of most issues, agree to disagree, more thought before speaking, more logic and data to guise decisions.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 08:13 PM

That's an upside isn't it? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:28 PM
12

Not sure what, if any, down sides there are to routine paternity tests?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:16 AM
1

Because we're different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:28 AM
2

"If the genders were reversed..." is such a relevant concept.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 11:37 PM
2

Depends how you approach it. If your assumption is people mean well and want best result, then diffences in how we get there become minor. If your approach is that "the left"or "the right" are morons, criminals, fucktards and traitors, then,not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:47 PM
1

We should show the world how you should react to this (yawn!), not decend to their level.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 08:43 AM
1

I think the term misogynistic is over used. Save it for the dire extreme cases.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 12:33 AM
3

Leave it to your son to decide when he's 18
/r/MensRights11/11/23 10:29 AM
2

All good mate.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 10:34 PM
2

My point wasn't about power plays and shit like that It was about asking a question when she knew the answer she wanted already instead of asking. The restaurant example was just an illustration.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 10:27 PM
47

Ask question when they know what the answer is, or what they want it to be. "Where do you want to go for dinner tonite?" "Itallian." "Oh, I was hoping we'd go to.... instead."
/r/MensRights09/11/23 05:06 AM
13

She says she's consisten with feminine and masculine roles. If that's the truth then no issue with expectation. Her handling on the date night is petulant and manipulative though.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 04:19 AM
0

Unless there was a arrangement that he builds career and earns, and she maintains house. Even then if partnership breaks down it should be a two way alimony ( he provides money, she maintains house for each other).
/r/MensRights02/11/23 03:44 AM
3

Obsession with women instead of focus on self.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 07:07 PM
1

Yes it's unreasonable, and no you shouldn't do it anymore. Low key meetings, a drink or coffee is much more rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:50 AM
5

That's a question for each gym owner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:54 AM
50

It's a conspiracy theory. In the west atleast, look at hourly rate of pay, enshrined right to vote, participation rates in university. All equal. The minor issues to do with remaining, lingering, pockets of sexism are more than compensated by affirmative action and quotes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/23 03:19 AM
5

I'm not hearing dramatic difference between reaction to men and women kidnapped. Am hearing dramatic horror about kids and elderly.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 08:12 PM
15

What % are thrown out? And for what reason?
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:51 PM
1

Who is "we"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:13 AM
6

What pay gap?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/23 12:01 AM
2

Wisdom. I wish this resource had been around when I was in 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:54 PM
19

Don't call it circumcision, call it genital mutilation. See how many are in favour then.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:40 PM
7

If Uber don't do some basic due diligence on claims like this, I'm recommending boycott Uber.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 03:09 AM
2

Seems to. It's sad.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 11:24 AM
7

You will be okay brother. Tough times for a while but all will come right. Exercise. Socialise a bit. Don't drink or do drugs or become violent.
/r/MenSupportMen22/08/23 03:50 AM
5

Be interesting to see if vasectomies increase.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 05:23 AM
4

Men control the keys to relationships, women hold the keys to sex. In general.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 09:06 AM
4

There's alot more awareness by men of the option of DTOT (doing their own thing, I dare not regmfer to it a the M thing lol).
/r/MensRights03/08/23 01:00 AM
1

Dig deep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:02 AM
1

I see your point, and somewhat agree. But as someone who thinks that in general women are not as strong as men, and that's its reasonable for a national women's sport team to earn less than men. I can't then say every women for herself if I'm stronger can I.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 02:29 AM
1

Ultimatums are unseemly. Express your preference, and ask others to make their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:58 AM
1

Firstly, thank you for your civility and communicative approach. Appreciated. It's rare. 👍 I don't agree that the progress is acknowledged though. Its also rare. Take your point about ongoing role. My concern and view is that without an end goal, clear, visible, robust that we run the risk of not stopping when we should. These initiatives cost (bureaucracy, diversion of time, tax not spent on kidney machines and traffic lights kind of thing). Can I put a counter view that St George has killed th…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 04:56 AM
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It's not weird, we should all listen to a variety of views, or else we become our own echo chamber.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 02:14 AM
1

Be nice if more zealots acknowledged the last point "We've progressed 87% of the way since 1910, and I think the only other things left to do is abit of x, and a minor amount of y." What does the end point look like? Our KPI achieved? When does focus on 'patriachy' fade away and people just get on and visit art galleries in their spare time? Is it equal numbers of men and women graduating from university? No articulable barriers to equality of opportunity?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/23 07:10 PM
1

Not answering my question, deep end stuff on feminism? And to criticise someone for saying a thing doesn't exist, you'd need to prove that it doesn't exist.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 05:06 AM
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Claiming someone had radical right wing views and claiming they are a radical right winger is the same thing. I've listened to several hours of his beliefs and not yet seen deep end stuff on feminism. Please be more specific, which lecture or interview counts as deep end?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 02:11 AM
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No, we should not!
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 11:10 AM
0

Name an era or a country that has been less 'patriarchal' than Western world right now.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 05:31 AM
1

Radical right wing! Really? Cite a few instances please. (For what's worth he believes in tax payer funded health care, reasonably progressive tax system, and de-criminalising drugs - judge him for what you actually hear him say, not what you were told to think).
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 05:30 AM
-1

Is women's proportion of legislators due to 'patriarchy ', or choices?
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 05:25 AM
1

Needs a bit more resolution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:39 AM
2

🤣
/r/MensRights13/07/23 04:20 AM
23

He needs to learn to say " You get the chicken!"
/r/MensRights13/07/23 04:02 AM
1

Rather pick my battles and win them, than fight everything and lose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:24 PM
2

True MGTOW don't complain
/r/ExRedPill09/07/23 08:26 AM
1

Alimony is a bit one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:22 AM
2

Putt putt golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:07 AM
3

Unless grievously unjust, existing arrangements should be grandfathered, and new law apply to new divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:50 AM
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Doesn't need a logical argument, just a vague, emotional, "I want" feeling and it fails.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 03:11 AM
1

Hanging around some you have strong romantic feelings for when it's doubtful they will be returned is daft. Doing when it's certain they won't be returned is just gobsmackingly stupid. Pure self defence. Sensible too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:36 AM
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Thanks for the tips, will he going through that first list in detail. Definitely listening well for myself before deciding if I want to continue or not. Not into censorship. Especially self censorship.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:36 AM
2

Disagree and agree. I'm taking about intercepting crime 15 years before it happens. Stick in time saves 9. If someone has got to courts system, we reacted 15 years too late. That person will (probably) never pay tax, never be a good dad eyc if we let it get that far. Paradigm shift I know. Look up how many people are in gaol in your country. Multiply it by say $100,000. Would you like to keep spending that, per year, keeping people in gaol? Or spend half of it keeping people out of gaol?. Tough …
/r/MensRights13/06/23 07:15 AM
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Yeah, pretty much what I said.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 05:58 AM
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Quite right, I should have said keep 'most' people out. There some who can not be saved, but I say let's try. While they're kids. More sport, more teachers (smaller classes), more coaches, better trained coaches, more drug skills, more aggression skills, more homeless assistance.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 12:24 AM
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Better spending the money keeping men and women out of prison.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 05:26 AM
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That's fair enough. A young man would be better investing or paying off debt, or travelling or something than paying women to keep him company.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 04:39 AM
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I thought we had?
/r/MensRights10/06/23 04:37 AM
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Take some comfort from the fact you're finding out about this before it's too late.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 09:16 AM
1

How us this men's rights related?
/r/MensRights04/06/23 11:27 PM
1

Both terms are really broad. Use higher resolution words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:35 PM
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Lots of people, mem and women, are crap judges of character
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:02 PM
2

We're you either friends? Maybe ask them to start recording video.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 07:43 PM
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Maybe the recipients of extravagant dates passed the 'genuinely interested' screening test by enjoying some frugal dates first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:02 AM
2

Buy flowers. Pay for dates. Cater to her every whim. Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:50 PM
5

Is there an equivalent group for men to report women?
/r/MensRights10/05/23 06:33 AM
1

Send three. One all female. One male. And one normal.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 06:31 AM
1

If the age bracket was "20's" then it will miss that that many women in 20's are with men in 30's
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:01 PM
4

Gutted! The 'village ' failed this young man in so many ways. In tears. It sucks.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 03:59 AM
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Because we don't live in a police state, running around censoring everyone who disagrees with us. We leave that bs to the other side.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 10:13 AM
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Exercise. Meditation. Exercise. Friends. Exercise. Hobbies. Exercise. Travel.
/r/MenSupportMen18/04/23 10:52 AM
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Alot of f--d people in that story. The nurse for 1. Gf mum, and your uncle and family are saints!
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:57 AM
1

Not done the extensive study to back this up with science, and speaking generally, I suspect that women aren't interested in men that earn less than themselves, and I suspect that women struggle to respect a man who earns less. Generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:28 AM
7

Some sketchy stat's in that article. "3o% of people believe women exagerate or make up dv to assist court cases" ( I'm paraphrasing). Is the 30% wrong? Is the belief wrong? Does the scenario never happen?
/r/MensRights05/04/23 02:40 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 11:02 AM
1

Yes they are. But we're better than that aren't we?
/r/MensRights04/04/23 04:40 AM
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If they're harassing people that wrong and shouldn't happen. But back to original point, I thought only the feminist subs banned dissenting opinions I thought we were better than that here.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 04:39 AM
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Is it a forum for all to discussed or just people you agree with?
/r/MensRights03/04/23 11:00 PM
0

Yeah fair enough. I know of cliques of guys in some trade courses that are just horrible to new apprentices, and doubly so to females. That's disappointing. And I'm generally an RP kind of guy.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 09:53 PM
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Well atleast she's honest upfront, I suppose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/23 09:22 PM
1

Agree, as long as there's no pockets of hate subtly keeping women out of some roles.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 07:44 PM
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Brother! That's hectic. She's damaged. Beyond repair. No contact. Go backpacking in Europe. Or Asia. Which ever is further from home. Don't take your phone.
/r/MenSupportMen03/04/23 05:58 AM
4

Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/23 09:12 PM
4

Poor guy. But well handled.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 03:22 AM
1

From one video we deduce that all women abuse all men all the time? Or is it a little, just a little more nuanced? Take a leaf out of jordan petersons approach, drill down to the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:36 AM
1

I would tell him that dates are pretty low on priorities. Travel. Read. Learn. Earn. Meditate. Volunteer. Climb mountains. Hit golf balls. Romance or sex or whatever might follow once he's got his shit together. On his terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:57 AM
3

Things that get rewarded get repeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:21 AM
9

Have your phone ready to voice record. Avoid. Make sure extra people around when your near her. Tell a couple of close friends what's happening and ask if they have your back.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 08:47 AM
4

Okay, maybe have to adapt, 30s for defending the planet, and 40s for a partner.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 08:45 PM
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Your 30s is when you'll shine! 20s are for education, career building, travel, learning how to play golf.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 10:14 AM
3

Exercise most days. Anything ( ride, run, walk, garden, yoga, sports, walk dog, kayak, gym, climb, tai chi, marshal arts, house improvements, step class - anything) Volunteer. ( fire fighting, rescue, meals on wheels, pet rescue, cakes for charity, cook for homeless, anything) Learn ( cake decorating, cooking, welding, chainsaw repairs, bicycle maintenance, paint landscapes anything) Hobbies Meditate or spiritual most days
/r/MenSupportMen07/03/23 10:13 PM
1

Women at +30 have a shorter window to have kids. If your up for a bit of tome pressure, less time to travel, bond, build weath etc, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:33 AM
1

Mixed. I'm left in some area ( inheritance tax, free health, education, and justice system), right in others ( right to self defence, lowest flattest tax possible, stay out of my life and bedroom as much as possible.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 02:07 AM
2

Cycles. It will right itself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 10:08 PM
1

That post had to be a fake one right?
/r/MensRights17/02/23 04:16 AM
2

While generally agreeing with MGTOW direction I think the influencers are going about it all wrong. Instead of being 'over' women, they are obsessed by them. ( I get that it's driven by clicks). Seriously, it's like a bunch of high school girl drama, " I'm never talking to you again!....never....I'm not even thinking about you...still. never talking to you again....look at me, I'm not thinking about you still... are you looking at me not thinking about you?!" MGTOW need to focus on men's health,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:57 PM
1

Facts. See link below. ( I can't figure out pasting links yet lol) Will you read it and acknowledge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:42 PM
1

Yes. Although I think that figure of 38% was not right. More like 15-16%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:16 PM
1

Not much to add except that the $ amount isn't everything. Security, seasonal or other fluctuations, flexibility for child duties come into it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:08 PM
2

Definition clarified? It's not for you to prove it's doesn't exist, it's for others to prove it does exist.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 09:48 AM
2

Our heritage. Sport has taken the place of hunting or war in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:44 AM
3

Because the fang tooth tiger will get us if we stop focusing.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 08:30 AM
4

Zealots of all persuasions do this.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 08:12 AM
1

You're in a place of independent and critical thought. Good place to be.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 12:47 AM
0

I'm guessing he's divorcing you for your emotional insults, rather than his RP beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 08:42 PM
1

Vividly recall a radio ABC interview with Matc Rudov ~ 2007 or 08 that started altering my view of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:18 AM
1

I try to follow several groups and themes that I don't agreed with to keep me bit more balanced and open. I've got to learn to keep my mouth shut, the feminist groups will ban you for disagreeing with them ( not abuse or anything, just disagreeing).
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:14 PM
2

What women say they want in men vs what they demonstrate they want I'm a man are not always same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:52 AM
18

As a man obviously my opinion is irrelevant, but I am so glad there are women calling out other women on this BS. That's the only thing that will change this.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 07:54 AM
1

Being active is the therapy. The therapy is just a bit of icing on the cake.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 01:54 AM
1

I think it's a big assumption that people see those two scenarios as you describe them.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 07:14 AM
0

You can't rely on a one off statement from a women as to her thinking. It's a moving feast, you need data from >20 statements over >10 days, delete the outlying statements, flavour it with her actions rather than statements, THEN you might be close...Ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:02 PM
12

Active, curious, logical, humourous, gentle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:02 AM
7

More fool the guys that enabled this.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 09:54 AM
1

"You maybe right. Might not be too. But what kinda person would want to live in that kind of society?"
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:33 AM
0

57. 40 to 50
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:52 PM

Not many many men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:30 PM
16

So it all works out okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:16 PM
89

Men are no more entitled to sex than women are to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:53 PM
2

Perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:38 AM
1

Because you haven't started one.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 05:36 AM
1

Pareto principles apply
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:47 AM
1

You know exactly what to do.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 03:02 AM
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The feminist sub bans people left, right and centre. Only very narrow section of society left to be members.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:12 AM
2

You got issues mate.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 01:02 PM
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Thinking and facts not your forte is it? Four kids dude. If I receive similar 'treatment' I would have said thanks, and gone about the rest of my day.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 11:54 AM
-4

There were in some people who were present. And they didn't let off fireworks, call swat, ignite flares, unleash attack dogs did they? They confered quietly with each other. Lighten up Francis.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 03:56 AM
3

Where did he talk about race?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:01 PM
-5

I get that the grounds for suspicion were "off". Buy if suspicion exists people should check it out. Thank the people for looking out for your daughter, and you will definitely be shopping there again.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 09:16 PM
1

Collective thinking people tend toward ban/cancel/censorship approach.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 07:09 AM
6

Known each other for 10 months! No where near long enough to see each other at worst and best of situations.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 06:46 AM
3

Red pill, but get no joy out of women's foibles, especially in narky, petulant, and obsessive Red pill videos on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:10 AM
3

I want to see the basises collated, with examples.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:33 PM
2

Everyone should do share of essential jobs. The optional ( one person wants them done) are on the person that wants them done.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 01:33 PM
1

I disagree with the ficus on women. They aren't going to change . Focus instead on men, options, opportunities, self improvement, self responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:09 AM
1

It's one or combination of three causes Lack of screening for red flags by both Settled, then regretted it Consequences for women ending relationship atmrguable less than men ( child access, spousal support, un some places pre relationship assets on the table for splitting)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:07 AM
16

Legal system needs to be nationalised. Take away the wealth aspect and make it fairer.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 02:07 AM
1

Thoughts? From my fairly small sample size ( 6? 7?) all enjoyed being dominated to some degree. From wanting/ letting me decide positions etc, to mild smacking to blackmail/rape concepts and discussion (not for real). Small sample size could well be due to 'filtering' by potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:25 AM
1

Never let a partner be dominant thing on your life. Friends, family, career, hobbies atleast equally important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:39 AM
1

Exercise Sky time Hobbies,(2 or 3 various. Clay target shooting, golf, bush walking, restoring antique tools, cake decorating) Volunteering ( fire fighting, rescue, animal shelter, homeless shelter, type of things) Read Travel Hold the door open for people behind you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/22 11:42 PM
1

BS for males, except for this unicorn exceptional marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:10 PM
1

More personal choice. 👏 ( the zealots will find another way to interfere though).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:45 AM
0

Ideally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:05 AM
2

Half of the wealth created DURING the marriage is fair. Not most. And not the pre marital assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:39 AM
3

Scared? No. If not done with style and grace it leaves me un-enthused.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 05:12 AM
22

See a lawyer. Find ALL your potential litigation options.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 03:49 AM
-1

Other is the key word
/r/MensRights03/12/22 12:26 AM
-2

Not endorsing unequal penalties. In general though, what does gaol achieve here? She ( or he in other examples ) lost a child. Do we plan to beat goodness into them? Community service, give talks on mistakes and how to do better to other young parents would be much more useful. Unless of course they have no remorse.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 12:09 AM
9

Yes, if there was honesty and high connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:26 AM
24

Possibly. But if he doesn't register a mild protest that hampers later negotiations or claims. And some of them might genuinely believe that it's okay, they've never been checked. Hypocrisy is a powerful emotion when it's pointed out.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 10:12 PM
31

Be brave. Just ask "if the positions were reversed, would you feel comfortable with me talking like that?"
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:50 PM
15

Your skills are pretty rare. Look for opportunities to travel and work internationally if you have the chance
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:33 AM
1

There's a heap of graphs if you look up 'male vs female fertility with age'. No getting away from the downsides after ~35 for women, and a kind of decline ~ 40 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:08 AM
1

Where are you getting this top advice from? The advice I'm seeing isn't quite the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:06 PM
3

"Never hit unless you need to defend someone."
/r/MensRights30/11/22 10:07 PM
1

We have to behave way better than extreme feminists, and instead welcome disagreeing politely.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 10:03 PM
22

Speechless mate. In tears though. My sympathy to you both.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 06:25 AM
0

Not 90% decreased though. I'll see if there's some references or studies tomorrow, it's late here now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:55 AM
2

The only tangible issues are that a 30year women has lost ~90% of her eggs. And the pregnancy after ~35 comes with increased risk. So partnering with a ~30 year old increases the 'squeeze' pressure. If you wanna spend 3-4 years building resources, experiences together, travel etc it's better if the women is partnering by ~25. Men on the other hand, brains don't stabilise until ~25, want to grow up a bit more, mature, it's prolly better if they wait til ~30 to partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:17 AM
1

Which subsite is this on?
/r/MensRights28/11/22 11:28 PM
1

Consult your family elders, particularly male elders. If you have a good relationship with dad, grandad, uncles, close neighbours ( basically anyone with some grey in their hair who cares about you). Apply logic and emotion equally. Looking for your heart, head and 'lust' organs to align. Prioritise behaviour, character, dependability over hotness, game, and sex. Don't make excuses for his bad behaviour. If its an orange flag, query it. If it's a red flag walk away. Play wotif games in your head…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:04 PM
1

Thinking of my friends and family. Age range is on average man ~ 3-5 years older. Extremes are My mother and father ( dad 14 years older than mum). And me and my wife ( me ~ 4 years younger). I'm the only one I know where I'm younger. In general I think men take longer to mature ( brain not finished growing until ~ 25). And women have a clearer imperative to have family sorted by 30-35 ON AVERAGE. I'd argue that men's imperative is about +5 years, so that ties in with the average age difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:38 PM
3

Prefer it tbh, if a couple can afford it. But it's got to work for both. The women can't abdicate financially completely, an the man can't abdicate domestic chores completely.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:57 AM
5

Only dangers I can see are Unwell people can go too far, or use its message to justify unacceptable things And, extremists can use the extremer messaged from red pill to attack the sensible parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:42 PM
26

It's a good thing to follow a few groups you don't believe in
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:39 PM
4

Keep conversations as rational and logic focused as possible
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:03 AM
6

Generally wished MRA worried less about women and more about men.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:04 AM
1

Might be able to sue her for vexatious claims or similar if have good lawyer?
/r/MensRights17/11/22 04:42 AM
1

Exclusive so soon seems unreasonable. 3 to 6 months seems more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:48 AM
10

It (the rule) only applies to 80% of the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:50 PM
1

Fair point, I'd be interested in the rates. My father was 40, 42, and 44 with the three of us. And we're fiiiiine!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:36 AM
1

Anything from same age to male +5 to 8 years older is normal in my experience. Female older has downsides (menopause).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:50 AM
3

Share your views. I'm not in favour of zealots and extremists. We should be able to put our case respectfully. Prolly a better chance of winning the day from a purplish red tablet point of view than hard red. There's a rugby term, "play the ball, not the man".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:25 AM
32

Not shun. Put things in perspective, build own lives, careers, resources and happiness first. Be more ready to say 'this isn't working for me, I'm out, call me if it improves again'.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:28 PM
1

And that's all covered with the minimum standard is shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:25 PM
-2

Breaking up would to thec OP's quality of life immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:49 PM
3

Those "higher standards" would be the minimum for the person wanting it. Then the person want it cam do the work to achieve it. It's easy to say " I want pillow cases ironed weekly... you do them" Bit more realistic to think, I'd like them ironed but I have to do it myself, hmmmm, maybe that's a luxury and we can survive with out ironed pillow cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:30 PM
2

Both should do enough to meet minimum standards. Beyond that's its on the person that wants higher standards to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:11 PM
1

Yah, agreement! It will probably become so in 15 to 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:10 AM
1

So I can't post links until I learn more about this phone. Googled women's libido and menopause, not alot of clear data, but consistent qualitative statements, paraprasing "common to have libido decrease". Many decrease, some remain same, a few increase. Those kind of statements. If I were a guy mid 20s, looking for confidence in a sex life mid 40s, I would not expect to find that with a women 10 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:33 PM
1

Leave it with me. It's late here I'll get on it in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:30 PM
2

I'm very happy for you, and your partner (lol) ( assuming you have one). I'm talking about the average or typical case though. To change the subject completely, do you ever visit Australia? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:26 PM
3

"Not completely celibate" and "active sex life" are not the same thing. Not close.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:18 PM
2

And the post I was answering referred to 35year old women and 26 year old men. Which would put the men at 40-45 when their wives start menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:42 PM
5

Those guys will realise that giving up their sex life at ~ 40-45 when partner goes into menopause isn't worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:07 PM
1

Many, because they're not aware of the options.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:25 AM
2

Mate you have too much invested in this issue. Ciao.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 04:41 AM
2

If the initial article was about violence against incels my coment would have been critical of that. It wasn't. You sound as irrational as extreme feminists. Stop tilting at windmills.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 12:13 AM
3

Extremists suck. And they kill off progress toward sensible progress.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/22 11:53 PM
1

If you are infavour of violence you are against human rights ( including men's).
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:52 PM
-1

Found the actual incel who promotes violence against women. Thereby weakening MRA .
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:35 PM
-5

The big argument extreme feminists use against us is, incels who promote violence against women. Let's distance ourselves as rapidly as possible from people who fit that description.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 10:18 PM
1

"Let's see if we can double that number!" That incitement to commit crime. No problem sending that to prison.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 09:03 PM
5

Watch Jordan Peterson being interviewed by Kathy Newman. BBC 4
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:58 AM
7

There's a community in Asia that arrange their village with a men's hut and a women's hut. Babies live with women until 7 years old then boys move into men's hut. Sounds like heaven!
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:49 AM
9

Oh, and spend time clarifying definitions.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 12:31 AM
29

You will prolly get flamed and shamed. If you can achieve a 10% partial "what facts do you have to support your beliefs?" And "we don't believe in censorship here do we?" Thinking I'd call that a win. Be calm and avoid lowering yourself to interrupting or insulting level.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:28 PM
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😇
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:40 AM
-10

🤪😄
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:07 AM
35

Losing a friend is tough. You've got to stick with your core values mate. But leave the door open, if she reaches out in an agreeable way stay in touch.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 03:24 AM
-26

Prolly 10 to 20% of the time they're right. We (men) are not blameless either. Automatically label others as 'feminists' to dismiss arguments.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 03:21 AM
7

Long term implications? A minor change to the balance of sexes. My thing is ' if it was the other way, woukd it seem fair?'. Disgruntled 'karens' seeking meek Asian guys for home duties while she pursues career etc. And yeah, I'd be good with that.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:44 AM
1

SELECTcels
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:13 AM
1

Garbage. Why would someone be a stay at home parent in that arrangement? 50:50 after marriage. Pre marriage assets quarantined and remain yours.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 09:00 PM
8

Ask her who her role models are andcwhy. Be ready to discuss yours.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 08:52 PM
-12

50:50 of post marriage assets is fair.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 02:25 AM
2

She's shallow and entitled. He's young and based on a couple other posts needs to get his house in order anyway. Definitely not a match made in heaven.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 08:47 PM
-1

Your objectivity is refreshing
/r/MensRights20/10/22 03:55 AM
3

False allegations need to be punished as hard as the alleged offence
/r/MensRights20/10/22 01:00 AM
1

Take it in turns to pay unless income significantly different. If first date was a flip, split the costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:00 PM
29

Unless you flat out directly, verbally asked " are you interested in____ with me?" Then it's likely he missed the 'himt' rather than not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:03 AM
5

You gotta have all the stat's, who committed sv, who suffered dv, you gotto be 'neutral ' and objective. And if you're surprised and appalled by any of it, male or female, as you orolly should be, admit it.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:07 AM
7

Some stat's on instances of dv
/r/MensRights17/10/22 08:50 AM
36

Minimise the times the topic comes up. Occasionally let slip some facts. Rarely so you win a debate by 'winning' the battle. It's more about drip feeding info and letting people realise they look stupid persevering, and let them discover for themselves a new angle.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 08:48 AM
3

Hallmark romance is fiction.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 10:32 AM
1

It's getting a bit circular mate.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 01:19 AM
1

The details you're missing are so blatant. Don't know where to start. Hope life treats you well.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 12:39 AM
1

Yes, she attacked. Shouldn't have. Should be prosecuted for that. She did'nt go back for more until she was retreating from his attack. Nearby people didn't restrain aggressor ( her) initially because it was a surprise attack. They did restrain the aggressor later (him) because they were now aware there was a problem. No plots. No conspiracy. No double standards. No communists, feminists, incels, or Bruce Willis/ Clint Eastwood here. Just an unfortunate (illegal) attack, then an equally unfortun…
/r/MensRights14/10/22 12:19 AM
1

If she stops stabbing him and moves away, with neutral parties available to restrain her if she becomes aggressor again, yes. Don't get me wrong, I think she'll get a criminal record too, and she fucking deserves it. So does he.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 12:06 AM
1

Nuances and variable are not your forte are they? IF he had taken the obvious clear, safe, spacious window about 5 second after her attack to move away, into another room, onto a different place, away, she'd be in gaol, he'd be in hospital and then lead witness for her prosecution IF he walked ~5m toward her, from a position of safety, into a position of danger, within reach of her demented hands, then he runs the real risk of going to gaol It's not difficult. It's how grown ups think. I urge yo…
/r/MensRights13/10/22 11:50 PM
2

Anyone who's default response to someone who disagrees with them is an insult isn't worth time responding. And reread my posts. Position is clearly CAN and should defend self WHILE being attacked. CAN NOT retaliate once the danger has passed. She was retreating, there were others able to intervene if she reattacked. There was ample opportunity to retire, get police or security etc. If you want no rule of law, move to Russia or Congo.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 10:37 PM
-1

So go somewhere SAFER and get it fixed!
/r/MensRights13/10/22 03:35 PM
2

If people generally follow the law there's less violence yeah?
/r/MensRights13/10/22 03:18 PM
5

The law maybe an ass, but the alternative cam be found in say The Congo. The key thing is reasonable force. It was completely reasonable to hit or whatever to stop a stabbing. Not afterwards.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 03:05 PM
-10

If he goes to gaol it will be because he retaliated well after he was safe. Should've got out when she was 5m away and let police handle her.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 10:40 AM
-16

She was away from him 5 seconds after stabbing him, he went after her then. No issues with him smashing seven shades of shit out of her or anyone else WHILE being attacked ( during an attack), but he made a decision from about 5m away, safety, to put himself back in her reach. Retaliation . It makes it harder to argue self defence.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 04:57 AM
-23

Nah, once she's disarmed etc it goes beyond self defence and is then retaliation. I agree is easy to be wise in hindsight, but he would have been better getting out of there, getting wounds fixed and hope the justice system takes care of her. She has a case to say needed broken bottle to defend herself late in that clip.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 04:53 AM
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