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| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childBecause we're committing to the most important thing we will ever do with our lives. Far more important than you. You get to have certainty, you demand that he has faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childBecause the possibility exists. You can stick your head in the sand all you want, but we know it happens, we know it happens to completely unsuspecting guys with wives they never even considered would cheat. I am saying I am not better than those men. I know I'm not; no other man is either. There is inherent uncertainty that you do not have. You demand that men live with that uncertainty for your pride, that's selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childAnd only he has to keep the faith in this scenario. You get to have certainty that your child is yours, but it is somehow unethical for him to get that same certainty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childBeing certain about parenthood is about far more than whether she cheated. "I trust my wife, but I recognize my own fallibility, so I am trusting the most important thing I do in my life to something less fallible than myself". The only thing taking that certainty away from the father is the mother's pride. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childThis makes no sense. A woman has no control over if her partner abuses her and is not at fault for entering a relationship with him (I think we will both agree here). A man has no control over the actions of his partner, but your solution is to find better partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childWe can acknowledge there is general trust, but when committing to raising a child a little piece of mind hurts nobody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childWhen you give birth you're totally okay with the hospital just giving you a random baby? Right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childCan men acknowledge that their faith is fallible? We know men get it wrong all the time, why are we expected to be better than the average person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childAre you committing right now to spend the rest of your life raising and educating my drugs, to provide house and home, to be a loving parental figure? It's about the child, not you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childI think it's wrong to hold that certainty from a man with the threat of blowing up his family. You can never be 100% certain your kid is yours because of her pride? That's a good result? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childA small percentage of woman do a thing that is devastating to their partners. We know it happens, but it is offensive to do anything to protect yourself from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childDon't get why men are getting with women they think would need a paternity test in the first place, if you do this you're part of the problem. Stop hitting up bops lol People have consistently proven to be shit judges of character. Why do you believe men should be better than the average person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childYour argument is that people genuinely don't care if their child is actually theirs? This isn't a difficult concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childYou are unique among us lowly humans in that you are a perfect judge of character? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childWhy should something as important as parenthood be left to faith (which we as humans are consistently wrong about), when certainty is cheap and easy? I can have faith in my partner and still accept my own fallibility. I could be 99.99% certain, but I can be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childWe have proven, both men and woman, for 200,000 years that we are not very good at that. Do you say that to abused women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childOr the husband wants to be 100% sure that the child is his. That is a possibility now with a simple cheap test. Why demand faith when certainty is cheap and easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:51 PM |
| -1 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childJust devils advocate here. If the rate of paternity fraud is around 2%, that means there are about 76,000 cases per year. Assuming the fathers in this scenario are covering half the cost of raising these kids that makes paternal fraud a 14.8 billion dollar per year fraud industry. That is larger than most other fraud industries combined yet it is considered offensive to do anything about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:49 PM |
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