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DiscussionWarchief_Ripnugget/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:30 AM
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Fine. A line cook. Eating and cooking is present in every relationship, but most women would never go for a cook at say a McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:37 PM
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What do you prefer to sew?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:53 PM
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The dream
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:12 PM
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Republicans make less than Democrats on average, so it would probably tilt even more in their favor then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:13 PM
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Imagine if you had a kid with someone like that. This is one of the reasons I'm wary of promiscuous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:25 PM
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I have never even heard of men doing that to women unless it was at the behest of another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:15 AM
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When the rest of that demographic never disavows it, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:51 AM
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Those studies are 30 years old. You and I both know the political landscape then and now share almost nothing in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:47 AM
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The product is bad, but the person buying the product is dumb, especially when there are other more stable or healthy products out there that are cheaper to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:41 PM
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How does this add to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:25 AM
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With the exception of China, every single country on the planet has less than half of the United State's GDP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:05 AM
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John Krasinski is very fit. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:15 PM
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Sorry, it's a slang thing. In this context, I used it to point out something that is seemingly obvious, but apparently not to you. Admittedly, it was a bit rude, and looking back, I would word it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:52 PM
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I mean that girl you posted is competing in a beauty contest, aka a competition to determine the most attractive girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:01 PM
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I don't know about it just being about getting laid. If that's all they cared about, they could just get a prostitute. These guys are looking for an actual relationship, or more succinctly, to be genuinely wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:23 PM
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This means men are more than 3 times more likely to be the breadwinner than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:00 AM
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I just want to find love and start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:23 AM
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This is why I stated, "That would be ideal." I don't think anyone should be forced to do anything. I will, however, voice my opinion on what I think would be better for everyone as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:30 AM
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Not OP, but I think that would be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:22 AM
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It says 49% of women that work are the main breadwinner, not 49% of relationships have women as the main breadwinner. There is a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:21 AM
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You don't need to sign the birth certificate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:15 AM
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The abortion debate is not one of bodily autonomy but of when life begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:52 AM
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So a human in a coma is not a person. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:48 PM
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Coercion is a non argument. The analogy implies rape. If we make an exception for rape and medically necessary abortions are you in favor of banning the rest? If not, there is no reason to bring that up. Once the operation starts (after conception), you should not be able to back out as that is directly killing the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:31 PM
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But that is intellectually inconsistent. If a newborn doesn't have personhood, there is literally no difference between killing the newborn before or after birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:26 AM
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That legally isn't considered an abortion, bad argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:51 AM
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But in this situation, it's not the government telling you to give up a kidney. You volunteered the kidney, and then after the operation began, you backed out, and the person who was supposed to receive it dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:48 AM
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Just because you commit a crime due to negligence, it doesn't mean you get off the hook
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:36 PM
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Sounds a whole lot like nobody should ever be on birth control and start to take responsibility for their actions (if you don't want kids, don't have sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:33 PM
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This is off-topic, but may I ask if you are for or against trans women in women's sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:16 AM
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How big was this woman that she didn't notice a bulg at 9 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:43 PM
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Not when you account for the actual job and experience. The 'evidence' typically showing women receiving lesser compensation is just aggregate of all women vs all men. It doesn't take anything but sex into account (not job type, exprlerience, hours per week, danger, length of tenure, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:13 PM
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If you're constantly bored, doesn't that say something about you more than your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:24 AM
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So, conservatives were right when they said banning abortion would reduce hookup culture? Seems like a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:45 PM
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I don't have a dog in this fight. All I did was google "did the suffragettes kill anybody" and took the first link. This is my first comment on the thread, but I did find the suffregettes killed someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:17 PM
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"In one of the more serious suffragette attacks, a fire was purposely started at Portsmouth dockyard on 20 December 1913, in which 2 men were killed after it spread through the industrial area." Taken from the Suffragette bombing and arson campaign page on wikipedia https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffragette_bombing_and_arson_campaign#:~:text=In%20one%20of%20the%20more,spread%20through%20the%20industrial%20area.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:10 PM
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I'm with you 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:06 PM
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They almost do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:37 PM
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I'm a DnD player and Math teacher myself, but acting like sports aren't or can't be intellectually challenging is ignorance. Understanding, creating and properly calling plays is quite literally battlefield tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:04 AM
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Sounds a lot like why women aren't in STEM or take more leadership positions like CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:58 AM
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The whole point of me making money is to provide for my future family, no dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:18 AM
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You were fucking up when everyone was. If you didn't have those relationships in your teen years, you'll fuck up when nobody else is and this is a huge negative for your growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:29 PM
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Eh, I'm pretty sure the vast majority of guys would feel a certain way if they found out the girl they are trying to take seriously is out fucking who knows what.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:26 PM
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Not from everybody, but I would like my partner to share my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:22 PM
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To not be two-faced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:11 PM
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Yes, I would and have refrained on multiple occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:10 PM
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It may not make these women bad as people, but it most definitely makes them bad as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:06 PM
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This is why traditional courting needs to be brought back as well as incorporating family members in the vetting process. Having a second or third set of eyes always help to spot red flags that one may miss. Don't have sex until you get commitment and it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:29 PM
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Does your boyfriend know this about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:05 AM
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And here lies the core problem with your thought process. Cheating is normal for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:57 AM
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You are taking youth=beauty way to extreme and positing that op doesn't believes in exceptions at all. Person x at 20 is almost always more attractive than person x at 40. Comparing person y at 20 and person z at 40 is the definition of apples to oranges comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:52 PM
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Way to throw up a wall of bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:15 PM
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People can afford homes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:48 AM
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The stats aren't additive, to find the total number of fat people, you add the overweight and obese stat. This means that less than 30% of the US adult population are not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:27 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:44 AM
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You just restated the same thing 4 times
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:35 PM
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10 or 20 is a huge jump and both quite large
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:47 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:09 AM
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Feminism has nothing to do with being a leftist. It is a progressive ideology, but progressivism could entail a right-wing or left-wing economy. They are two separate distinctions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:20 PM
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No, but there is a correlation so making decisions along those lines makes for a safer, better bet regardless of the cause. This is simply because that is just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:18 PM
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He has always stated that enforced monogamy isn't forcing women to be with men they don't want, but to have a societal structure where men and women are expected to pair up and marry (not have hoe phases).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:31 AM
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They are obsessed because they are desperately looking for any reason, no matter how small, to appear noble or moral in their selfish desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:33 PM
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I always took the "run through" and "used up" to be referencing her mental and/or emotional state over the physical condition of the woman. I think, women tend to take it as the physical meaning which may be part of the big disconnect between the male and female pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:04 PM
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Hate to break it to ya, but the government is already deeply involved in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:59 AM
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Not that I know of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:51 AM
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Who has $100,000 lying around at the beginning of their career?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:53 AM
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Which means men out earn women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:52 AM
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Most of my friends are disgusted by the women who do that. Just like how women don't like men who send dick pics. There is a small difference though, we aren't disgusted by the visual, but by the woman herself and the type of person she evidently is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:49 PM
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With anal being more sinful than the rest by quite a large margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:37 PM
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Riley Reid is an admitted rapist though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:40 AM
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He means latest, but wrote last for some reason. You are in agreement. Buying a new phone every year is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:14 AM
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I'm right there with you buddy, with the exception of me being more agnostic than actually atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:26 AM
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Who said it was our of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:02 AM
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There are many men willing to do that, sadly, there are not many women with the same values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:05 AM
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Tons of people that aren't religious at all wear cross necklaces. Prime example: that onlyfans girl that Adam Levine had an affair with wears a cross necklace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:51 PM
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Isn't that the point of dating? To get to know the person before marriage/sex. It's a recent invention where people skip the dating phase and go straight to the fucking phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:32 PM
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The man and woman are equally responsible for the pregnancy, but the woman is solely responsible for the birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:35 PM
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The right is the party of the working class people, has been for some time. Before the inevitable push back: why is it that the richest people all vote Democrat? Why do the corporations back the left?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:48 AM
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The vast majority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:46 AM
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In technical fields, degrees are becoming less and less relevant. Experience, certifications, and proofs of knowledge are all a lot of recruiters care about anymore, much to HR's dismay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:44 AM
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Edit: meant to reply to the post after yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:44 AM
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Have you been to china?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:32 AM
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She isn't forced to do anything. She chose to become pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:29 AM
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That last point is big. There are probably countless men that are never in a situation to be asked for a survey. I know that I have never participated in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:17 PM
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One of the most cited reasons for divorce is financial. Women leave men that lose their job through no fault of their own. Essentially the same as getting seriously ill. Edit to add: I think people leaving their spouses for the reasons you suggested as well as this one is an absolutely horrible thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:52 AM
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I misspoke, it's just their drummer after looking further into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:01 PM
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You check them out recently? Edit: sorry, that's just their drummer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:59 PM
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Idk, I think there are a lot of metal themes that mesh with conservative values, just not the hail Satan variety (which is much smaller than people think). Look into A7X, SoaD, or FFDP for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:21 AM
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SS will no longer exist by the time millennial retire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:16 PM
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Aren't you doing what you hate though? You have a high n count, read slutty, and then you reject men for being slutty... seems pretty hypocritical to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:28 AM
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Typically. Hence turning to red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:48 PM
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You do realize that even after roe v wade being overturned, a lot of Europe still has more conservative policies regarding abortion than much of the US right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:30 PM
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I wouldn't consider them 'good people' if they were relieved that an abortion happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:51 PM
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Just don't have sex unless you are willing to accept responsibility then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:49 PM
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See that is an act being forcefully placed on men. Pregnancy is a direct result of the woman's willing actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:48 PM
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Sentience is irrelevant otherwise all comatose patients should be killed because they cost money. What matters is if they are human or not and whether they are alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:45 PM
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Clearly you have only been around shit men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:41 PM
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Catholic and pro-abortion is oxy moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:36 PM
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Way to not address his point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:14 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:56 AM
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Sure, but we aren't talking about forced pregnancies. Those only happen due to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:50 AM
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Idk why women look to Kim K as being the hottest of the hot. She is not only more plastic than flesh, she is also horrible as a LTR option...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:24 AM
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So men shouldn't have to pay child support if they didn't consent to the birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:40 PM
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Same exact argument against abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:26 PM
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I would hope that you are honest and open with the person you choose to be amongst the most important people on the planet to you. If you start the relationship on false pretenses, I can only imagine it will come back to bite you in the ass later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:41 PM
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There's a difference between defending and making sure the argument is properly represented. Same train of thought for a lawyer to defend a criminal in trial
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:41 PM
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Who said anything about not valuing companionship or taking interest in their interests? Also, I am explaining the position of the one that was being incorrectly interpreted, I never said I prescribed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:35 PM
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It really isn't though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:36 PM
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From what I've seen, they aren't saying women are only good for sex. They are saying modern women only bring sex to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:04 PM
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I manage an Italian restaurant, a lot of women work here (front of house).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:17 AM
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If I had a link to see all of the stats, that would be great. It's hard to know the totality of the picture if I keep getting trickle down stats. It was logical to assume my earlier stance because of the numbers you presented. If women were 15% more likely to cheat with a serious affair, and men were 12% more likely to cheat via sex worker, it only makes sense to know 15 is bigger than 12. We can both agree that, generally, everyone is a shallow ass hole that likes to hide behind rationalization…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:22 AM
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That is a different statistic than what you presented. Adding the context explains it more, but how your initial post was laid out, it came off very disingenuous. That being said, does this not show that women cheat more than men? That isn't a good look for the "less shallow sex" either...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:24 PM
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I'm not speaking one way or the other on who's more interested, but that is an extremely disingenuous take. Women don't approach period, so you can't determine who's more attracted based on how much said sex approaches the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:20 PM
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Keyword here is approach
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:01 PM
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Pro tip, people who claim to be harmless usually aren't. People who actually are harmless wouldn't even think to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:21 AM
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Men want relationships more than women at younger ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:56 PM
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That is such a stupid take, if our birth rates halved, the economy would disappear, we'd have to start leaving elderly out to die, or even forcefully execute them if we wanted any social programs whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:59 AM
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Haha, people have no self-awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:24 AM
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No one said anything about worth. There are plenty of people that have issues or "damages" that are better people than you or I. There's a difference between one's worth as a person, and whether or not I would date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:39 AM
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You a leftist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:42 AM
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I don't like hook ups, nor would I consider anyone who ever participated, or wanted to participate, in hook up culture. I can't pretend that I do, because it's like pretending your favorite food is feces to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:39 AM
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Just don't get divorced. Ez pz
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:46 AM
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But the women are compensated though, by their husband's salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:25 AM
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That is such a stupid take. I would have different intentions with women if they frequently committed crimes in the past, the past matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:43 AM
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Men want to know, but it is in the woman's best interest to not tell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:24 AM
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I mean, alcohol is objectively bad for you in every way though...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:52 PM
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But they have their kids, so they aren't alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:55 PM
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Notice that I specified after the woman acknowledges the abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:56 PM
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Trauma bonding is an explanation, but it isn't an excuse. People who run back to their abusive exes, especially after they acknowledge the abuse lose sympathy from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:14 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:34 AM
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I'm confused, men don't want women who have sex with many men indiscriminately means they don't want women to have fun? Is having sex the only thing on this planet that is fun? Speaking for myself, I don't want a partner who can only have fun when doing one specific act that also entails many life-changing risks. I would like a well-rounded partner that has self-control, minimizes self-destructive acts, and is all around just nice to be with. Essentially I want a woman that would bring peace int…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:18 AM
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Straight is considered "normal" because that is how humans propogate and continue to exist. Nothing wrong with being gay, but if everyone was, the human species would go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:17 AM
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But your previous salary has everything to do with your next salary... why would you go to another job if it wasn't an improvement to your life? You show prospective employers your salary so they can offer you a vetter deal to entice the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:33 PM
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There are many cases where abortion is agreed upon until a pregnancy happens then the woman changes her mind with no recourse from the man. The reverse is also true. Also, using your logic: it's the woman's responsibility to determine that the man will pay for the child and be a father rather than say "he should step up" as an excuse to not take responsibility for her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:44 PM
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Just using the exact words women use when they put men on the hook for an unwanted pregnancy. In all honesty, I think the men should step up and take responsibility, but that only works when abortion is either illegal or requires consent from both parents, without that, it's responsibility without authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:09 PM
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If she isn't able to or willing to abort, maybe she should have thought of that before she had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:43 PM
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Way to take one of a multitude of reasons (also the least relevant] and give it all the importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:57 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:16 AM
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Why are you on this debate sub if you don't want to to debate? It's honestly baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:11 AM
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The argument for keeping birth control off medicaid is the same as keeping elective cosmetic surgery off it: why should the government pay for something that a person chooses to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:24 AM
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False SA accusations are uncommon when related to SA accusations, but that is the wrong statistic to look at. You should look at the rate of false accusations relative to false accusations of other crimes. Hint, there is no contest, false SA accusations occur much more frequently than any other false crime accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:22 AM
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Just want to point out that the war on drugs and crime were bipartisan efforts (Biden wrote the big war on crime bill)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:19 AM
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Have you ever been to China? They have noce trains, but that us where it stops
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:10 AM
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I think every non felon adult should own a firearm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:21 AM
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I have never had debt, other than my month to month credit card bill (that I pay in full every time), am 27 and have a credit score of 811.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:56 PM
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So it should be illegal for women to have sex while drunk then, both parties should be charged. By your logic, this checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:45 AM
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Or driving a car while drunk, but we still hold you accountable for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:33 AM
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So flirting means consent to sex now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:31 AM
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I have workplace relationships and every now and then hangout with them in a group, but I don't really ever hang out with girls one on one platonically Not sure if I could classify them as friends at that point, if that makes sense. Edit: phrasing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:55 AM
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He did clarify a 6 or above.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:31 AM
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Thousands of men amongst billions... doesn't seem too common imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:38 AM
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You fail to understand me, I'm not looking to "score" I'm looking for a relationship. I absolutely despise hook-up culture. If I were to meet a woman that participates/d in hook-up culture, I would not wait for her, because I'd move on to a woman that deserves it. Like with everything else, decisions you make may qualify or disqualify you from certain things.. Just because you are a woman, it doesn't mean you are entitled to a relationship. In many men's eyes, being a promiscuous woman is a majo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:12 PM
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Perfectly acceptable in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:00 PM
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You are missing the bigger picture. At the beginning of human history, men and women were on equal footing. The men took the power because they could. At any point in time, if the women were able to take power they probably did, but it never lasted because men took it back. It doesn't matter what you are "allowed" to do, if you want to lead, you set the rules and force others to obey. Going by what is "allowed" will never result in becoming a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:15 PM
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Women have had the exact same chances as men, they just always fail to gain power. It's not like women didn't exist through the entirety of human history amd just popped up during the suffrage movement. Women existed and had the opportunity to gain power if they were able to, they just didn't or couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:55 AM
12

The best answer to that is to not have casual sex... if there was no casual sex, men couldn't get "golden penis syndrome."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:22 AM
3

/s You dropped this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:08 AM
8

Everything about your post is correct, too bad most women refuse to acknowledge these points.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:31 AM
1

Bouncing from relationship to relationship is serial monogamy, which is much less healthy (especially for the kids) than traditional monogamy (just one partner period).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:43 AM
1

I agree, I was probably being a but too hyperbolic and understand that it doesn't apply to all cases. There are always exceptions and people can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:39 PM
2

If only that were the case, sadly our society has gone the complete opposite direction and has completely screwed over real relationships as a whole in order to replace them with disposable acquaintances that are only good for one-night-stands. There is no longevity in intimacy anymore, dating and marriage is expected to be temporary, much to the detriment of everyone involved, but in my opinion, it mostly effects the children (and quite devastatingly so).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:58 PM
1

I feel sorry for the man you are engaged to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:54 PM
7

Well that's pretty damn rude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:10 AM
6

That seems like a very doable list, but I'm a little concerned about the whole not wanting kids and no sex before marriage. I don't think that there is a whole lot of overlap between those values. For example, I am perfectly willing to wait till marriage, but kids in the future are a must for me to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:05 AM
3

It's pretty fucking stupid to judge people based on their preferences alone, you can't help what you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:24 PM
2

The vast majority of men are nowhere near 15-18% body fat. I'm pretty sure the average range in the US is 28%-40%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:42 AM
4

Most of his audience is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:08 AM
8

Wasn't your entire point of op that average women had normal standards but men ignored them? You are contradicting yourself here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:54 AM
1

Both women seem like terrible prospects for an LTR. 1 is probably going to cheat on you, and 2 is married to her career not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:53 PM
1

I'm not one to attribute malice to people I don't know. I was just explaining the process of men that I know went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:43 AM
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That is the vast majority of TRP guys. They all would love (or have loved) to find a good woman and settle down, but due to the hedonistic society we live in, are no longer able to do so. This jaded them and they become what you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:05 AM
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Which may be valid for you, but a raw deal for the man you like most. No man wants a woman that sets different rules for the men she had in her life unless they were broken for him and not for the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:14 AM
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Many men lust after porn stars, but would never take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:16 PM
2

I think that you are highly overestimating the price of houses unless you are talking about a close suburb of LA or SF... most decent sized houses can hold a family of 4 for around $300k-$500k. And those are in great locations too. If you wanted to go a little further from a metropolitan area, you could easily find some for $200k.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:06 PM
3

I feel you on the pandemic part. I am 27 as well. I was keeping my head down, focusing on work and progressing till I was 25 and finally ready to start looking for a partner, but bam Covid and I'm now 27... really annoying haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:08 AM
2

Most men wouldn't fuck Lisa Ann...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:46 AM
1

Their biggest fear is the divorce, because of how much they value the building and relationships that begin young.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:10 PM
4

Seeking healthy relationships, but consistently self-sabotaging until it's too late.* Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:58 AM
4

The crime isn't for slut shaming though, it's an invasion of privacy... spreading private information and pictures has nothing to do with slut shaming. Learn words and their definititions. The meaning of words matter, stop trying to change what they are to fit your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:35 AM
2

It would be a breath of fresh air for people to start having standards again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:59 PM
2

You shut your whore mouth talking shit about deep dish like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:53 AM
1

Here's a great video about promiscuous women and why men wouldn't want to date or marry one: ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9nAiklwQrFM&ab\_channel=AlexanderGrace
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:46 AM
3

Uhh... he's obviously just in it for the sex. Idk what else to tell you. You played yourself with this one girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:57 PM
2

Being overweight is worse for you long term than smoking, excessive drinking, or most drug use. You see 100 year Olds that constantly drink whiskey and smoke, but you never see one that was fat in their younger and middle years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:56 AM
3

They don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:21 AM
4

Well poor men become homeless, die, or are able to successfully change in order to fix their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:31 PM
6

You also had therapy or productive hobby as well... you just chose an abundance of casual sex, which would only serve to push you further down a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:03 PM
2

Never open a relationship that started closed, it just doesn't work. Cut your losses and break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:44 AM
2

Stats also show that children that grow up in single parent households are much more likely to end up in crime, as highschool dropouts, participate in sex work, etc. Being a single parent is a raw deal for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:56 PM
2

Fine, I cede my use of mistake being a poor choice. I guess to rephrase, the man and woman initially both made a blunder, but then the woman doubles down and reinforces her poor decision with another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:31 AM
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I mean, the scenario we are talking about is man and woman have sex. Woman gets pregnant. Woman wants to keep it, man doesn't. Woman keeps it anyway and has the state force man to pay child support. She knows that he doesn't want the kid and thus won't be present in their life. Just because people intentionally make a decision and wanted to do so, it doesn't mean that it isn't a mistake. I could decide to eat an entire cake and like it, still a mistake. Yes, it is possible that they didn't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:13 AM
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She made the first mistake of sleeping with a shit man that doesn't want kids and doesn't care about her, then made the second mistake of bringing a child to term in a single parent household. The man made the mistake of sleeping with a shit woman that doesn't think things through and wants to destroy a child's life by raising him in a single parent household.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:54 AM
7

The man made one poor decision, the woman made two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:51 AM
2

instate, there were multiple causes for their problems initially, but they were slowly but surely improving over time. After welfare was instated, the community took a nose dive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:50 AM
2

Irresponsible people should face the consequences of their actions. The single worst thing that happened to the US (and especially the black community) was establishing the welfare state we are currently experiencing. If people knew their actions would have consequences, they would be more careful about them. The black community has gotten poorer, less educated, more unruly, more hedonistic, since welfare was instated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:28 AM
2

Pensions are a drain on society and are going to lead to economic collapse, same with social security.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:18 AM
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No, I get that the state has their own views, but if a woman gets pregnant and the man wants nothing to do with the child, she would be making a mistake if she kept it. This is true whether or not she has the proper funds to care for the child, because both parents are necessary to ensure that the child is brought up to be a well-rounded and capable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:09 AM
5

I mean, there's nothing wrong with teaching abstinence as long as they teach everything else as well. The issues arise when all that is said on the matter is just "don't have sex." Saying "don't have sex because it can lead to x, y, and z as well as here is what sex is..." is perfectly acceptable and I believe the best thing to tell children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:06 AM
11

It's the woman's poor choice, not the man's
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:02 AM
2

Well if their is a contract, verbal or written, definition Ally and by law you are entitled to whatever is agreed upon (providing there is nothing illegal incolved). It's not just prostitutes, it's onlyfans creators, sugar babies, casual hookup participants, etc. I wish it weren't the case and that people attributed sex the importance it deserves, but that is just not the case in our current society. I do blame women for cheapening sex and essentially giving it a price tag, or sometimes not one …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:59 PM
2

Well I guess you can blame all of the women selling their bodies for money for equalizing one's body to the other's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:59 PM
4

Do you understand metaphors?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:54 PM
1

Do Sandy Hook deniers still exist? I mean even Alex Jones admitted his mistake on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:36 AM
2

I think she means self employed as an artist/musician
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:32 AM
1

That's pretty harsh, shows low empathy and a prime example of 'dark' humor. Also, they would be highly educated...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:25 AM
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If they knew you were a virgin, nearly all men would have zero issue waiting. The problem is that a lot of women have 'hot girl summers' or 'hoe phases.' Which means that they are hoes and if they want any shot of a real relationship, they can't make the husband material guy wait longer than those during their more wild years. You need to treat the so called love of your life the same if not better than your past relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:26 PM
1

That is what a lot of women think, but if the guy ever finds out about her strategy, he would feel extremely disrespected. He would think that she IS easy, just not with him. What women fail to understand, is if they don't want to appear as sluts or easy, don't be a slut or be easy... if the men they want to settle down with don't approve of casual sex, participating in casual sex disqualifies the women from the relationship. Also, starting a relationship by lying is a great way to start an unhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:21 AM
1

I don't see how that is relevant to my comment. All I have stated is that it is in the child's best interest to only have them when both parents are present and to not do so would be for purely selfish (and imo immoral) reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:21 AM
3

You could say adopting children is "less selfish" I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:01 AM
3

There's a difference in these scenarios though. One is not lifting another up (not adopting), the other is purposely keeping them down (having children as a single parent).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:53 AM
2

Leaving anomalous exceptions out, why would you knowingly disadvantage your kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:38 AM
2

Why would you have a child with a shit parent? That sounds like more selfish (or severely naive/misguided) behaviour...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:25 AM
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Having children without a present father is one of the most selfish things imaginable. It essentially shows lack of care for anyone but yourself. Children need both parents, without them they will grow up damaged through no fault of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:22 AM
1

Transgender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:35 PM
0

He means biological female, "woman" doesn't mean that anymore apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:23 PM
1

I didn't know that Demi identified as nonbinary. I don't really keep up with celebrities. Last I heard about Demi, was that there was going to be a Disney Channel movie called Camp Rock coming out and that the Jonas Brothers were in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:56 PM
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She was a former Disney child star that crumbled under the pressure of stardom and resorted to a multitude of hard drugs and other generally degenerate behaviour. However, she is somehow still seen as a role model and positive celebrity today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:37 AM
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I think that people tend to conflate being promiscuous and "slutty" with being sexual. One can have a very positive outlook on sex and not be with a different person every week. Also, I think that shame needs to be reintroduced into our society. Not necessarily in the same puritan way as before, but too many people are living life as dregs and not contributing. They are hiding under the shield of "don't judge me" and not working to improve themselves while simultaneously expecting everything to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:35 AM
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I agree, it's the same thing with Cardi B. She advocates all this degenerate behaviour that just so happened to work out for her, but if your average girl tried a quarter of what she did, the poor girl would end up in prison for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:30 AM
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As I said, she reposted it. I believe that she later took down the repost, but the original is still up, hence me posting that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:28 AM
1

People are discriminated based on age all of the time when it comes to hiring. Managers would much rather hire a younger person that is open to conforming to their ways of doing things than an old bat who thinks that their way is the 'correct way.' Also, if tech is involved at all, people will be less inclined to hire an older person due to a preconceived notion of ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:16 PM
5

Using vibrators is a great way to desensitize one's self and make it near impossible to climax without the use of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:40 AM
6

Men care, they are just shamed for voicing their displeasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:39 AM
1

It's only not a guarantee because of women though, they are the ones initiating the divorce the vast majority of the time, as well as the ones that changed the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:19 AM
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Imo, an education or career has no negative impact on the relationship, its when they think said education or career makes them better or more valuable than others. Edit to add: although, it is a problem if they are too invested or involved in their career (meaning no time to develop the relationship or spend with children down the road).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:45 PM
1

Hey, I know this is late, but I stumbled on the source so I felt that I should let you know. https://youtu.be/VNjoc1aOGK4
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:45 PM
3

Social media boom happened then. Also, mental illness skyrocketed in that time period as well. It's almost like everything that is wrong with our society is because of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:55 AM
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We've all been there man, I feel you. Nowadays I would just end it as soon as I found out she was entertaining that shit. At that point she is disrespecting the relationship more than the 'friend.' Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:58 AM
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His post is about self control, not controlling your partner, but policing yourself to mitigate the chance of infidelity. If you are in a committed relationship, why leave a potential door to infidelity open? Why open it in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:41 AM
1

I think that women needing an emotional connection overtime is false. If it were true, hookup culture wouldn't be what it is today. Also, whenever a woman wants to cheat indiscriminately, she travels. I will never seriously entertain a woman that loves to travel alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:37 AM
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As with everything, it is never black and white, but shades of grey. Let's just hope that your significant other doesn't have 50 of those shades... But in all honesty, I agree with you for the most part. Casual friendships are perfectly fine to have, but if your partner begins to develop intimate friendships, or still entertain someone who openly, or covertly, disrespects the relationship we got problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:48 AM
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That is fair, I have seen countless stories on r/relationshipadvice and r/survivinginfidelity regarding a wife cheating with the husband's "best friend" or brother. But, I would just recommend everyone to police themselves in general to help preserve the relationship, why put yourself in a situation that leaves the door open for cheating? Just don't open the door. Edit: just realized that I misunderstood your comment. Sure, women may need to be aware of their partner's friends, but that still do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:30 AM
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https://www.colorado.edu/asmagazine/2018/04/04/extramarital-sex-partners-likely-be-close-friends-and-men-are-more-apt-cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:23 AM
1

I don't think anybody in this day and age takes accountability anymore. Men are not who they once were, but women aren't either. It may seem like a gendered thing because of your frame, but just like how you think it's skewed towards men, a lot of men think it's skewed towards women. When it comes down to it, we just avoid taking responsibility in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:08 PM
2

She seems to think men have a distinct lack of accountability, but in my experience, it is modern people in general are allergic to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:17 PM
1

I'm trying to find it. I saw it on a YouTube video talking about sexual regret awhile back. I know they listed their source, just having some trouble finding the exact video. I believe it was an Alexander Grace video.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:39 AM
3

Fair, but studies have showed that women are much more likely to repeat a mistake they regret than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:40 PM
3

Yet, they partake in said negative constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:35 PM
2

It really is annoying. It is the exact same concept of women not wanting to date garbage men. Women enjoy their contributions, but wouldn't be caught dead with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:12 PM
1

Yeah, there is only one friend I know that would be OK with it, but that's because he hasn't had a real relationship his entire life and is currently 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:11 PM
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I agree, they are truly the biggest pieces of shit, at least three Courics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:08 PM
1

If you looked, the vast majority of comments are telling her she is right to wait, but also explain why the dude may have thought otherwise. The only thing she did wrong was consider breaking her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:07 AM
14

I'm pretty sure I read a study recently that showed women search out "rough" or "rape" porn much more frequently than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:09 PM
7

I agree, I don't think anybody should be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:33 AM
5

Maybe I just haven't seen that, but if it happens then I guess I happens. I don't agree with them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:31 AM
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From what I've seen the red pulled guys only clown on guys waiting for sex if the woman is not a virgin. Imo that is fair, the only time waiting for sex is actually fair is if she hasn't participated in hookup culture, once that happened, it is no longer in the man's best interest to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:02 AM
11

In the post, he stated that promiscuous women are twice as likely to cheat as promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:25 AM
1

I would say yes to some of those and no to some of those. I am in favor of getting rid of current feminism, hookup culture and dating without a purpose, any laws that discriminate against any gender, and bringing back the stigma against adult content for both creators and consumers. I would also like for marriage to have more permanence and for divorce, while still being available, truly treated like the last resort it was meant to be. I am not in favor of taking women out of the work force, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:47 PM
2

What do you mean by this? That only women fat shame others or that only women are fat shamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:20 AM
5

I am more red pill adjacent, but in the community they definitely believe in love as a concept, but don't typically refer to it as "love." They refer to it as pair bonding, which for all intents and purposes is love. Pair binding is the ability for a couple to form a deep attachment to another person that will inspire commitment and loyalty for each other. They acknowledge its existence, but say that a women's ability to pair bond greatly diminishes with the number of relationships she has (incl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:54 AM
2

Those are fair points. It's my turn to admit some bias because I am largely ignorant of reasons to get tattoos outside of the clichés and not interacting with people that have tattoos on a regular basis, so the attribution of an impulsive behaviour may be unwarranted. However, I still find them unappealing to the eye generally speaking. This is the most subjective trait on my list though, and I know that my view is not the only one. Thinking on it more, I think I should have listed it as no/mini…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:43 PM
1

Don't listen to them, you do you. My point of view isn't the only one, but there are definitely a large number of men that don't like tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:19 PM
5

Impulsive behaviour and lower physical appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:11 PM
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This is my personal opinion as I stated initially. As to why? First and foremost, I just don't find them attractive. But past that, in my experience, people generally don't put a whole lot of thought into them and it screams impulsive behavior. Important ones with a story or meaning behind them I can understand, like a tattoo of your platoon or a lyric that your deceased mother always sang to you, but again I just don't find them appealing physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:06 PM
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http://marripedia.org/effects_of_fatherless_families_on_crime_rates https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/single-parent-families-cause-juvenile-crime-juvenile-crime-opposing https://www.heritage.org/crime-and-justice/report/the-real-root-causes-violent-crime-the-breakdown-marriage-family-and#:~:text=State%2Dby%2Dstate%20analysis%20by,of%20families%20abandoned%20by%20fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:30 PM
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Hypergamy is a woman's desire to always look for a better mate, it is sometimes referred to as monkey branching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:54 AM
0

Damn, it sucks how rare it is in women today to just try to make the relationship work. It's so sad that it has to be listed and isn't just expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:43 AM
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For me personally, this is what I look for: -Loyal -Does not participate, and has not participated, in hook up culture -Able and wants to be a mother -Only looks for serious LTRs that have potential for marriage -Intelligent (couldn't care less about schooling more about coherent thought processes) -Friendly and respectful to all walks of life unless given reason otherwise -Not horribly out of shape -Cute face -No tattoos -Doesn't smoke anything, consume illicit substances, or drink to the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:24 AM
4

But the stats don't lie, and the overwhelming majority of people who commit crimes, do what society deems undesirable come from single parent households. Specifically single mother households (single father households don't have the increased likelihood of delinquency or degeneracy).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:49 AM
2

I could get behind this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:30 AM
1

It's because of hookup culture, city girls getting "flewed out," sugar culture, etc. Real relationships where the couple build with each other are ceasing to exist, and the ones that do participate in good faith are nearly always taken off the dating market early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:57 AM
1

That's true, but there are hardly any women like that and part of the reason is society tells them to not be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:33 PM
1

It was a response to the OP... the claim was that men have fallen below their original expectations. My rebuttal was that not only men, but everyone has fallen below that and demonstrated it by showing men and women from when the expectations were met wouldn't pick the available modern choices. Overall the culture has shifted quite a bit, but what men are expected to bring to the table hasn't really changed all that much. The major change in the expectations of society is that women are no longe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:48 PM
0

No need for personal attacks. We were doing a thought experiment where we plucked a typical male and a typical female from the 50s and see how they would react to the dating market of today. And the truth of the matter is both parties would be absolutely disgusted with their options. Men and women just aren't offering their partner what they did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:06 PM
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I'm not trying to say people with mental health issues aren't datable or worthy of LTRs, just that it is a red flag. Red flags aren't inherently bad and aren't deal breakers, they are indicators that one has to dig a little more to see if the person is actually worth it. I.e. someone staying out late every night is a red flag, but it could have an innocent explanation (work) once you figure out the reason, or it could be a bad thing (cheating).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:34 PM
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That's fair, I moreso used that statistic because it is a concrete data point showing that there are a lot of mentally unstable women out there. Them treating the problem is a good thing, but mental illness itself is a red flag when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:22 PM
3

Sure, half of the marriages occur by 30, but marriage rates overall are down precipitously. Women are increasingly actively looking to not settle down and want to "explore" or "find themselves." Read fuck a ton of guys, hot girl summer, hoe phase, and all that. Then when they get older and their options begin to dwindle, all of a sudden they turn around and start demanding LTRs. The thing that sucks is by this point, most of the men that would have gladly given them marriage and loyalty in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:11 PM
13

It really depends on the degree. The problem is kids are only told college is important, and don't research which fields are overinflated and which never had any jobs to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:42 PM
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Sorry, I meant to write men these days only want "these"women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:36 PM
2

But are they trying to get married? Or are they just pursuing surface level relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:35 PM
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Haha, sure hope not. Always been more of an Al Qaeda kinda guy myself. Edit: /s if it wasn't obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:21 PM
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Sure they are not identically equal, but they have both fallen to the point where repair is near impossible. Soft times created soft men and all that nonsense. It honestly seems like nothing short of a massive catastrophe or shift in society will be able to correct this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:13 PM
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Men are more educated than before, but women vastly outnumber men in universities in America today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:08 PM
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Again, I'm not disputing your claim that men in general are trash today, my argument is that both genders have fallen equally. Also, the 1950s man would not only be turned off by the sexual liberation of every woman, but would refuse to tolerate a woman that didn't cook or clean, was very argumentative and abrasive, and had the mouth of a sailor. Everything about modern women would repulse the man, just like everything about the typical modern man would repulse the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:00 PM
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This... this is part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:47 AM
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I would argue that the man wouldn't find a single woman worth marrying unless she was a rare highschooler that hadn't had sex yet. In the 50s, men, in general, did not marry woman that they knew wasn't a virgin unless it was because of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:31 AM
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What you are saying does have truth to it, but there is one major flaw in your argument about TRP and men still wanting women. The men in this day and age only want the women for sex nowadays. They are increasingly refusing LTRs and marriage rates are dropping precipitously because of it. The truth of the matter is both men and women in our society are less valuable. Men for the reasons you stated and women for similar: Rise in overweight and obese women Women are more masculine than ever before…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:18 AM
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There isn't enough shame going on in the world today. There are many things to be ashamed of and to shame others ofz and I'm tired of pretending there aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:12 PM
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Ok, my bad. Our conversation was of a similar nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:29 AM
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First of all, you are grossly misrepresented our conversation. Secondly, randomly accusing someone of rape without any evidence is lessening the validity of rape accusations. I am a virgin. I am a virgin because I do not want a partner that participates or has participated in hookup culture so it is only fair that I not participate either. Edit to add: in case this isn't obvious. I wasn't speaking about myself, but was dictating a possible explanation of why men don't always understand "no means…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:09 AM
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Just looked it up. You are correct with bisexual people suffering domestic violence most frequently, but lesbian relationships have more domestic violence than heterosexual relationships, with gay male relationships being by far the lowest rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:47 AM
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The highest rates of domestic abuse are between lesbian couples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:52 AM
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The only way to ingrain "no means no" is by getting most women on board and following through with it. The reason why a lot of guys don't understand the concept is because the vast majority of women say no when they actually want to have sex. Some call it playing hard to get. Men are taught that no means no in a lecture setting, but when they date in the real world, they learn that it is not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:56 PM
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I mean, it isn't right and is terrible that you were pressured into sex, but from what you said earlier it sounded like it went like this: M: can I have sex? W: no. M: can I have sex? W: no. M: can I have sex? W: ok. To many men, this sounds like consent (not saying it is). Also, from your second comment, you implied that you never attempted to withdraw yourself from the situation. Usually, when I determine that a person that I am around is scum, I leave right there and then, not give in to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:42 PM
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That leads me to believe that high n count is a good predictor of mental issues. Do all promiscuous women have mental issues l, no, but a lot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:09 PM
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I think the best course of action would be to leave. To the men that you did have sex with after the pressure, they feel that their tactics were validated and correct. Not saying it's right, but the concept is the same as giving a crying child ice cream. They learn that when they cry, they get ice cream, which means that crying is a positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:59 PM
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Most babies at 35 are healthy, but the odds of defects increase astronomically at 30. "Risk of birth defects At age 20, 1 in 1,441. At age 25, 1 in 1,383. At age 30, 1 in 959. At age 35, 1 in 338. At age 40, 1 in 84. At age 45, 1 in 32." https://www.uptodate.com/contents/effects-of-advanced-maternal-age-on-pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:56 AM
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Like another commenter said, OLD has globalized the dating marketplace. There is also social media involved and people only see the good times of relationships not the bad. These two components cause people to be much less patient, accepting or willing to work with their partner. They assume the grass is greener because of Instagram and they think that the dating pool is endless because of the internet. Tldr: social media fucked up dating, especially locally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:33 AM
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I'm not trying to say AMALT or AWALT, I know that everybody is different as well as not every woman past 30 is automatically damaged goods. However, I know that women are able to get into relationships easier than men so if one is over 30 and single, there is more likely to be an unresolved issue than a man who is over 30 and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:02 AM
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I don't have any stats, just lived experience and observation (obviously not the most reliable, but I haven't seen any stats proving otherwise, if I see them I am more than happy to accept it, will help me out haha). Are there a lot of men that are a mess? Yes. Saying that there are more messed up men than women is probably true, but those men aren't a viable partner though. Women tend to be better at reading people and social situations than men and can spot the troubled man more easily than vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:17 AM
1

Basically, someone that compliments me. Covers my shortcomings with their strengths. Also, I would like my woman to be one of integrity and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:58 PM
1

The difference is, usually, mem need to confront and surpass their trauma before women start to take them seriously (hence less baggage due to two reasons: fixing themselves so child trauma is no longer relevant and less relationships due to the time needed to correct aforementioned trauma). Conversely, women tend to suppress their trauma by hiding in dysfunctional relationships or sleeping around to get hollow validation, compounding their trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:14 PM
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Fair, even more of a reason to avoid older single women, they are more likely to have serious issues that haven't been addressed in the 20+ years they had them. There are plenty of men that have issues as well, but those issues usually act as a barrier to relationships so they are forced to face and overcome them before beginning the trek to find a partner (meaning less baggage).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:02 PM
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While one's childhood is part of it, there is still a lot of baggage to be gained from failed relationships, long and short. Also, if there is childhood trauma/baggage, unless they go through a lot of therapy to fix themselves, they are already a lost cause with regards to healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:54 PM
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Well that's because most men have nowhere near the number of relationships to draw said baggage from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:01 PM
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She said that she wasn't thinking about it with her head though...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:27 AM
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https://youtu.be/vlSyjNG546U This video references a study that shows women, when looking for a mate, place a much higher importance on looks than they claim as well as the vice versa of a much lower importance on intelligence in actuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:23 AM
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Trust me, not believing these statistics or, more realistically, actively discounting them is squarely mainstream in the west as a whole. You are constantly battered by the media that n count doesn't matter. Sometimes you even get the opposite advice of telling men to pursue a "mature and experienced" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:24 AM
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It's sad,, but this post is going to get an extremely small amount if traction because the half that know this already know it and those that don't believe the statistics are just going to dismiss it. There is a distinct lack of good faith effort from the sexual liberation side of society in admitting fault or accountability (read feminists).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:08 AM
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So... the life of every single man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:57 AM
1

I agree with you 100% both genders genuinely have a lot to work on. As a society, we have been running from what we are supposed to do because it requires work and sacrifice, but in the end people are going to die alone or raise dysfunctional children. I honestly believe that this is one of the more dire issues that we are currently facing as a country and we need to start correcting these shitty trends as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:18 AM
1

I never said that the bar wasn't low for men. But I think there is a big distinction to make, there are really two bars for men, the one that is low is the bar for commitment. The other bar that the other commenter alluded to is the surface level, materialistic bar, which has gotten astronomically high in the past couple years due to the globalization of the dating market. Women are by and large no longer working to build up with a man and instead are just fooling around until they find a man th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:21 AM
1

Well in men's defense, that is because people in general have pushed everyone to not 'shame' anymore. Feeling shame for one's bad action is very important in order to have everyone coexist, without it we get the society of cheating, lying, and overall degradation of morals we have today. Edit to add: I'm not saying this to excuse men's actions only explain them. We don't shame me enough when they walk out on a woman, but on the flip side, we don't shame women enough for smashing every man they '…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:59 AM
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A lot of the time the people "changing" never did, it was just brushed under the rug or ignored because of the initial attraction or lust one person had for the other. This is why involving your family in your partner selection is so important. Your family is not glamoured by the honeymoon phase and will help you decide what's best for you wholistically. This trend of excluding families from having any input or say in who you date has lead to a lot of problem relationships. Another major factor …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:23 AM
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If women really don't want to have kids, it's very easy. Also, yes, there are shit men out there, but these women choose those shit men. There are countless good men that are left perpetually in the friend zone because they respect the woman, but those women ignore them and get knocked up by the loser fuckbois that bail. Women need to have some accountability in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:46 AM
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The premise of the nuclear family is both partners being selfless towards each other and their children, just in different ways. The woman does need to be willing to give herself to her man, but the man is tasked with the responsibility of caring for, providing for and physically protecting her. One of the main problems today is that women still want their man to maintain that traditional role, but don't want to be traditional themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:31 AM
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I agree with you completely, everything that I have seen gone wrong or exacerbated in the past decade can almost universally be traced back to social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:06 AM
1

You are correct, but there is an increasingly large number if men that are both relationshipless and sexless. People do drastic things when they get desperate. When you are a 30 year old man that is not only a virgin, but never even been on a date before, it really fucks up your worldview. Just for the record, I don't blame women for the rise in the number of male virgins/incels (by the actual definition, not colloquial). I believe that it can be almost purely attributed to social media and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:28 PM
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I get that, I really do. It is the same concept of the awkward kid that was bullied to the point of becoming a school shooter. It's not an excuse and their choice is not the correct one, but there is an explanation and reason why they became the way they are. All I ask is just a little more awareness of men's issues so we get less of the good men to degenerate into becoming a leech on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:44 PM
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No, I agree with you 100%. That is life. There are winners and losers in this world no matter how you slice it. I was just trying to explain why some men feel cheated or betrayed when they are brought up believing one thing, only to realize, after countless failures that they experience or witness, that the story they were told was just that, a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:23 PM
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I'm not rying to be harsh or say that you yourself are single. There is honestly no animosity pointed towards you, or anyone that matters, from me. My statement previously was just pointing out that, on a balance of probabilities, there are generally two types of men: the fuckbois and the ones that desire a relationship with little to no overlap. So if one were to discount both groups, finding a connection with someone would be much more difficult. Honestly I think there was just a miscommunicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:20 PM
2

Essentially what you just stated is that there are no men on the planet that can satisfy your requirements. Either they are fuckbois that only have one night stands with you, or the are trash that you wouldn't consider for that even though you would like to have a relationship with them. If you have casual sex (especially for women) you lose a large portion if your ability to have a healthy relationship. It goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:01 AM
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In my experience, most men that prescribe to TRP wish with all there might that the blue pill ideology was the real or correct one, but aren't able to because there aren't any women that would fulfill their part of the blue pill world. RP is the reality that men face, not the ideal picture that they want. The vast majority of men that are RP would love a relationship, but it is not possible due to the vastly overwhelming majority of women that have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:58 AM
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The problem with your statement is that you are conflating two different groups of men: the men that have casual sex who you don't value, and the men that want relationships. There is negligible overlap. The men that want relationships hardly ever have casual sex. These same men determine women that have had casual sex to not be worthy of a relationship. If your goal or desire in life is to get married to a man that has value and morals, participating in the hookup culture only hurts you in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:33 AM
2

"The age-adjusted prevalence of severe obesity in adults was 9.2% and was higher in women than in men."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:33 AM
2

Are they still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:30 PM
6

Sounds like a great way to find nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:32 AM
1

Men and women have equal power until pregnancy, to say anything else is completely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:52 PM
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I mean personally, I am pro life, but with the advent and acceptance of abortion, men lose all agency when it comes to fathering children. Don't try to use the abstinence argument because you and I both know that won't work. If the man wants the woman to abort but she doesn't, why should he be punished for her choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:35 AM
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That is a bad faith argument. I understand that there are things in life that are unfair and can't be fixed, but does that mean we shouldn't try to fix the things that are fixable? Especially a problem created by humans themselves (unjust legislation).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:10 AM
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Yes, ideally the parents should both look after the child, but if abortion is a thing that exists and is allowed, the woman has all of the power in her hands. If she wants to keep the child, the man has no say. If she wants to abort, the man has no say. This is unfair and inequitable in favor of women. Allowing the man to walk away would make it fair. If men aren't allowed to walk, then women shouldn't be allowed to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:53 AM
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The difference is, once the woman is pregnant, the man has no rights with the child. If she wants an abortion, the man has no say. If she doesn't want an abortion, the man has no say. The power is squarely in the hands of the woman. If she wants to have the child, either wait till marriage to have sex or understand that you will be raising the child without stealing from the sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:50 AM
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The thing that changed was OLD, social media, and globalization in general. Girls and young women are no longer limited to the men in their vicinity. In the past a small town girl from Iowa settled down with boy from the same town, now that girl is getting hit up by men from quite literally across the country. Why settle for the average/below average boy next door when you can get "flewed out."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:34 AM
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