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| 33 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon? | CMV | WarfarinMD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:13 PM |
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| 2 | What do you think constitutes a “creep” or “pervert” or “fuckboy” and how do you deal with them?Creep = Not being a white guy; being brown and showing attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?Correct you are... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about thisSo there's not been an increase in Women in Medicine, Law, Engineering, or teaching at the University level? Was this the same in 1960? Your mom was a CEO so you know what you're talking about? You sound grandiose with a little bit of delusion mixed in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about thisThis still does not help your conclusion that women lost big. Women are earning more money than they ever have. Women are in positions that they have not attained in the past. Women can be more selective with who they want to be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 7 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?That's not what autism is...Just cause someone lacks confidence, does not mean they're autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about thisMen are still providing for women. What rock are you sleeping under? It's 50-50 depending on where you go; even different parts of one single country has differing statistics.. I know plenty of women that stay-at-home while her husband brings home the money. So your argument is flawed in that regard. Where do you live? Second, women don't need marriage but generally want marriage as one of the many forms of commitment. Again, this is not all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about thisHow have women lost betabuxx? You think betas just stopped trying to get with women? Do you think women need guaranteed marriage? A good looking woman can find marriage VERY EASILY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?Right. Chads are superior. Thank you. That doesn't mean always... What the hell is a high tier beta? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?Average men usually have to wine and dine a woman, be charming, be funny, and have all the attributes that attracts a woman and she may sleep with him. Upfront is very unlikely. Ugly men either are called creeps or told to f*** off. If the woman is feeling it though, she may make him wine and dine her, but 99% give him nothing in return. Chads will not always get what they want up front, but have the best chance of getting what they want upfront. Sometimes they have to work just a little bit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What I love about being a man in the dating worldAt what age though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 04:54 AM |
| 8 | Cold-approaching vs OLD: Which has greater success for men?Doesn't matter what the approach is as long as you're a good looking tall white man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Modern women need to be humbledAccording to them, we're just "scrotes." | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple PillI wouldn't feel distressed, but would feel very annoyed especially if they just showed up. I would tell them that I'm busy and to let me know ahead of time next time, and then would adjust my times for the day accordingly before proceeding and finishing my day. I enjoy being a Medical student because I find it to be fascinating and have found a specialty that I want to go into that agrees with my INTJ-A personality (Radiology). It definitely will get better when I'm done with the grueling proces… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple PillIf I break the structure of now scheduling each minute of my life, I feel like it's harder to gauge how much work I have to do, and I don't get as much done as I would like. It also makes me feel a bit uneasy about how much time I have to do things. If it is all planned, I know I have time for it because it is on paper (my phone, technically). If I mess up one a time or something takes longer than expected, I have buffer times within my schedule that helps me gain +10 minutes or +20 minutes, dep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple PillI am very structured and go by a daily schedule (by the hour) that I spend constructing myself. For example, I have the next five days planned out by the hour from waking up time to brushing my teeth time to weightlifting, eating and studying. Everything is PLANNED. I don't have OCD, but I may be on the Autism spectrum (low on the scale), but never got a formal diagnosis. If I was OCD, I would have compulsions that would not go away unless I did whatever I needed to do to get rid of them, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple Pill25-year old Male INTJ-A Blue Pill to Red Pill to Black Pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | So where exactly are all these single women?Oh okay. Gotcha! That makes sense. Have a good weekend 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | So where exactly are all these single women?No. You specifically referred to penis as if it's a bad thing. Newsflash! Your hormones are not only linked to sex organs. You really don't know all guys, so stop putting us in a basket. Clothing/earrings (if interesting enough) WILL catch my attention. Just the other day, the colour of a girl's shirt (matching her highlights) got my attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | So where exactly are all these single women?Who said anything about dropping everything? Stop using logical fallacies to make your point. Not everything is about our penises neither. If I see an attractive woman, don't think my penis is always going crazy. Enough with the genital shaming. If I see attractive, I acknowledge attractive. Also, if these interactions never happened, humanity wouldn't make it very far. If you want men to stop completely, why don't you women start making the moves, then? Oh, not so easy eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 06:13 PM |
| – | So where exactly are all these single women?That's what I'm doing. I know my limitations and will continue working on improving myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 12:55 PM |
| – | So where exactly are all these single women?Yeah cause you can hide that for long... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | So where exactly are all these single women?I love Russia btw. I went to Moscow, St. Petersburg, and Sevastopol and was overwhelmed by the amount of gorgeous women I saw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | So where exactly are all these single women?Is it like that in Russia too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | So where exactly are all these single women?Why do they have to be rich? Are material possessions the most important thing? I'm curious to know what country you're from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 02:19 PM |
| – | So where exactly are all these single women?I highly doubt that. I'm too ugly for it to get that far. Plus at that point, I can just buy a prostitute's time at my discretion when I'm in the mood. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 02:15 PM |
| – | So where exactly are all these single women?So much for female "independence." I'm no billionaire and nor will I be in the future, but as a soon-to-be high income earner, I will fear women "attacking" me for my resources in the next few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 02:11 PM |
| – | So where exactly are all these single women?That's pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 01:52 PM |
| – | So where exactly are all these single women?Physical beauty only lasts for a limited time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 4 | So where exactly are all these single women?Thank you...and I choose burrito | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | So where exactly are all these single women?I'll try not to be 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 12:21 PM |
| 3 | So where exactly are all these single women?Why though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 03:56 AM |
| 25 | So where exactly are all these single women?All this sub does is discourage an average/below average male like me from trying to engage any women. Is this what they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markI agree 100%. I will look up income before marrying someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menAlmost a Medical student | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on the phrase “rejection is better than regret?”So I might be known around this community now because of my recent posts, but believe it or not, I still try. A few months ago, I was doing a clinical rotation and was very attracted to a girl that worked in the clinic. Even as a student, she was technically three levels "below" me in the work ranks as I was working with her boss. I did not want to ask her out because I did not want to get in trouble. I started thinking about all the times I wanted to ask women out (even ones I became friends wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I wasn't aware that I was expressing those traits. I can be pretty negative, but in my head I'm being realistic and logical when I'm being negative. I overthink a LOT Should I try to be very positive around people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I'm not saying I disagree. I was mocking them 🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Does that work well for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I'm currently climbing high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Can you elaborate on the last part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?"I need alcohol to be receptive to human interaction" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Gotcha 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?You're dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Hell no 🤣 Plus, I'm not looking to marry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:36 AM |
| 4 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Understood. Thank you for your help 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:07 AM |
| 8 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I can't let it defeat me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Well you're obviously better with your time. I overstressed during school/boards so I became a hermit during the pandemic. I just don't think the cost of Plastic Surgery is worth the benefit. I can't be THAT ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Nice! What year? What specialty intrigues you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Not worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Tell that to USMLE 🤣 I wanna do Interventional Radiology Are you also a Med student? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Stylist is something I have never tried, but am open to. Working out (lifting weights) made me look my best. I was getting very nicely toned and strong which brought my confidence up, and then the gyms closed and I lost motivation cause I lost all I worked for. Plastic surgery = HELL NO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I'm currently rotating in Psychiatry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?You may be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?No I'm not. You don't need a therapist for that. I'm the one who diagnoses these things (under supervision at the moment). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?No it's not on me. Maybe a typical job you can get away with, but one where you are specifically told not to do so....yeah, what dumbass is going to throw away a Medical career for a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:40 AM |
| 14 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?This is exactly what always stops me. Then they say not to approach by numbers either, because that's "creepy" too. Then WTH do you do? Just wait and settle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Is Porn a Cause of, or a Symptom of, the Rising Number of Virgin/Sexless Men?Fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Ah okay. That makes more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 8 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Hm okay. I'll try to be clear: I am not opposed to a relationship, especially if we connect really well and we are compatible. I am NOT ACTIVELY seeking a relationship. Since I am not very attractive and apparently am not doing enough, I don't have very much sex. Therefore, I feel like I am not fulfilled in this area, and this is what I'm aiming to obtain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I really, really like your analogy. I had not thought about it that way. I was always wondering why trying to not be creepy always got me labeled me as a creepy guy, even though I am trying to avoid being one. It seems that I am confident in almost every aspect, unless I am interested in a woman. At that point, I don't get shy or scared but much more cautious cause I don't want to get "me too'd" or given a negative label. In my eyes it may be caution, and their eyes I'm coming off as creepy. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Woooooot! NYC, here I come! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I always found the last part hard to believe, but that is probably my own self trying to keep me from doing things I find "dangerous." I have to start talking to people more... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?You're probably right. I'm actually going to Vegas in a few days, so perfect place to try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I know. It's just really difficult. I tell myself that I don't care, and it works for almost 99% of things. With women, it's a different story for some reason. I have to practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:52 PM |
| 7 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?If that's the conclusion you drew, then you're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Those friends are guys.... The female friends I have from HS are all in LTRs now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Maybe it's different in law school? The school specifically told us not to, and it said not to when we agreed to do our clinical rotations. Maybe they're afraid that if we get distracted, we might kill someone by accident? I honestly don't know the true reason. Did you date anyone in Law school? Did you feel like you were too similar? (Just a curious thought) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I've met people through apps, and they honestly bored me to death. Did it a couple of times, and then stopped. Local clubs? No, I'm not a drinker or club person. I usually feel uncomfortable in these environments. Don't women like focusing on the hobby itself? I have not tried reddit meetups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Okay, people change. If I'm a prospective MD, I'm not going to be hanging around high school dropouts who have children... Especially if they don't understand me anymore. Do you keep all your friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?But if one's intentions are sex, is it justifiable to pretend that you want to commit, knowing that you're of low value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Thanks for the laughs, friend lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 9 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Work = Everyone says not to, and then some people say yes. I don't get it. This is so split between people. People tell me not to "shit where I eat." School = I'm in a Professional school, so I can't do it. Friends = My friends suck at this Hobbies = Maybe. Maybe. I've been trying, but maybe I have to try harder? I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Don't people usually go to concerts with their friends? I have not heard of a person going to a concert by themselves, but what do I know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I hope not. That would be embarrassing on my part lol You're not the guy that smokes weed every morning in their backyard for breakfast and then coughs for ten minutes, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Send me the money and I'll do it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?A lot of them are in relationships already or date outside the school/clinic/hospital, in my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?It's so weird. You are literally producing speech that resonates with the exact same thoughts lurking in my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Haha no. It's much less effort/time, and you're more likely to succeed if you're attractive. Also we are discouraged from sleeping around/messing around in the hospital/clinic environment. It goes against professionalism requirements and we can get in a lot of trouble if we do. People have told me to not go for co-workers/colleagues many times before. I didn't listen, and it didn't work out very well. So I just refrain from it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?That's what I was afraid of. Thank you for your reply! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?The UK doesn't pay as well as the US/Canada for someone like me (Medical doctor in 1.5 years). It's just not worth it. Medical education here is about $50,000 per year ($300,000+ debt after graduation). and the salary I will have as a person going into my specialty is about $530,000 per year (average). In the UK, I think it pays around $300,000 per year (average). Otherwise, I loved the UK. I felt like I belonged there more than I do here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:20 PM |
| 11 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?My friends are Medical students and the environment is professional. That's one area I'm not messing with. Other friends that are not Medical students I have sort of dropped along the way because of changing interests/social class/etc. Family----haha, Indians....I'm good. They're very, very conservative. They'll try to marry me off, and I refuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.Thank you for the advice, wise one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.The funny thing is that I have built the confidence to not deal with BS in other aspects of my life. This is the last battle lol. I would say college did a good job because I purposely tried to interact with people to build up my social skills (which were nonexistent in high school) and then medical school really made me confident since it forces me to become a "leader" in my field. Also, I'm around Attending Physicians that rip me apart all the time. I've learned to not take it to heart, and bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that! I got called creepy (I heard it as I walked away) when I was trying to get something from an aisle at a grocery store, and a woman was on her phone, in my way, along with her friends. I hear you though. I'll try again, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 8 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.I've had this happen to me. I get called a "creep" or "creepy" all the time when I approach women. Honestly discourages me from even trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.So don't compliment women? Since it's creepy, I guess. Wow getting a date is impossible, it seems. Why would one waste so much time for such little reward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.Same here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.I wish it was a fantasy. Then I could actually approach women without feeling like I'm creepy because of my level of attractiveness (low). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.Would you think a guy is creepy if they're trying not to be creepy because they are cautious? I seem to "creep" women out by trying not be creepy, and that's because of stories I hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.I'm always overly cautious because I don't want to make them uncomfortable. I have heard a lot of stories, so I try my best not to be creepy but I guess the result ends up being paradoxical, and I end up creeping them out even more. I don't know what to do! I feel like I'm screwed if I make any sort of advancement AND if I try to be cautious, I'll just end up with the same result and being labeled creepy. Ends up becoming so exhausting and so much work that I don't have the luxury of time to kee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menAre you a Medical student? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menNo. People probably still think I'm a beta, but with money now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?I felt like I had better chances in the UK and succeeded before. Europe/UK is easier than the Canada/US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?Brown (South Asian diaspora) is very different compared to Puerto Rican. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?I'm Indian but am opposite to what you would expect from an Indian cause of birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?I kept it open for a while to get more "n" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Being white helps a looooot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:40 AM |
| 6 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menIt's my race/ethnicity, skin colour, and height. It's not excuses. I have talked/still talk to women. Again, don't expect you to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?Oh, wow you're right! I should have thought of that. Let me just start my acting career right now! Thanks bro 🤚 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:31 AM |
| 6 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menYou're missing the point, but I don't expect you to understand. I fixed my skin (skin care routine), my teeth are good, my hair is not styled and I'm clean shaved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?I appreciate it, but I've accepted the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menI'm looking at a Model S. Never had a boat interest, but maybe a plane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:55 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?Skin colour. I had bad acne and got rid of it by employing skin care, proper washing, and sunscreen. My skin has substantially improved. I'm a 4 cause I posted my picture on photofeeler and got a 4 out of 10 on attractiveness with 200 voters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:43 PM |
| 6 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menFor a woman? Not a chance... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:38 PM |
| 29 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?4/10 rating Height = 5'10" My race/skin (Indian born in North America) but culturally western. Pretty sure a lot of brown guys feel the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 15 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menWithout looks, you're "creepy" if you show any sign of game. It most likely works for you because of your looks. Talking to women is not hard. I gained all of that confidence through college and med school (especially this one). Looks make all the difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Yeah I barely see women here. Most are taken and others are hard to find. I can't just leave though. It's not that simple. What does your part of the US look demographically (dating-wise)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:08 PM |
| 12 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menYou said that the other person can change his wallet and body. I'm telling you that I fixed those two things and still am dateless. So what can I fix now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:04 PM |
| 14 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menI changed my body and wallet. Is it still something I can fix? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Going to the beach: A metaphor for why women are marrying lessIntroversion is not a disease or anything that needs fixing...worst thing you can say to an introvert. If you meant just getting better at talking in groups, well I've already tried it. Improved in college. Can't improve more than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Go to the SF Bay Area in CA. Also, your apology is not necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Going to the beach: A metaphor for why women are marrying lessI'm too introverted for all that. I can communicate with a partner but groups are too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Going to the beach: A metaphor for why women are marrying lessYup. I am not dating material then 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Going to the beach: A metaphor for why women are marrying lessI bring towels, sunscreen, and food. Is that good enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Not when your own race rejects you for white men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Same. 5'10" and Indian. The Indian really kills it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Best "advice" I've heard. Let me just stop being myself and just magically transform into a Chad. WarfarinMD to Chad (in progress) 100% complete Yup there we go, that was my problem. I should now have women lining up for me. Jeez, I was so dumb for not knowing before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Do women "mellow out" with age or do the younger generations have an exceptionally bad attitude?Estrogen is not Testosterone. Women don't "mellow out" because of lower Estrogen. The only thing that "dies down" is their bone health and ability to lubricate effectively. Additionally, menopause is usually post-50, not 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingYes, cause all Indians are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?You're right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?I really don't care what you like. I'm pointing out your hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?"I hate men, but am married to one." Lady, go do something productive. You have a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?I'm 25. Is VR much more realistic compared to no VR, or is it relatively close enough to not be significant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?I might be you. It explains my split personality 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?Probably not. I just don't know what to improve anymore so kinda just gave up. It's not meant for everyone, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?I feel you. I have the same issue. Women think I'm checking them out when I'm looking at something else, and I get called a creep or they give me a disgusted look. They'll be nice to my friends if I'm with friends, but I'm a creep by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?Haha if only I was made of money. Escorts don't feel "real" either. The few times that I have gotten escorts, it just felt like emptiness/transaction. I don't know how to describe it. What about you? What are your views on porn and how it affects us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:01 AM |
| 11 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?I did. I failed. So I went back to it :( It doesn't help if you're below average in terms of looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 04:58 AM |
| 8 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?At first I couldn't make the connection. I started diving deep into the subject one night, and read somewhere (cannot remember where) that using porn as a way to get away only helps in the moment, but does not help one gain what they truly desire. I thought to myself, "Do I do this?" It then hit me like a train. I realized that I would be upset because I would constantly get rejected, and would constantly watch other guys get what I want, and the only way I could get the same thing was to watch … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 04:54 AM |
| 24 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?I watch Porn from time to time because I know that I'm not an attractive guy (4/10 tops), and I cannot attract women. In the moment it feels great, and I can have whatever I desire. However, I feel like shit afterwards because me "relieving" myself stops me from pursuing women. Decreasing my desire for sex with a real person by watching Porn stops me from going out and embarrassing myself when failing to attract someone/creeping them out or whatever, but in the end I am just more miserable and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Why shouldn't women exploit their own sexuality for gain?Do you ever fear Police stings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 04:42 AM |
| 2 | If women are hypergamous by nature....True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Also. Using two accounts to insult someone doesn't make this any better for you. Why don't you time your responses better than it being a few minutes apart from your other account? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?You aren't very bright. You're using two accounts to make this a 2 on 1 to make this more favourable for yourself. Suddenly two people are using the same insults. I wasn't born yesterday. What do I have to prove to you? Who are you? "I hate men, yet I'm married to one." Get your hypocritical bs out of here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?You're not worth the effort. Go argue with someone who cares. You two have clearly have been hurt by men, and I can't help you. 👋 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?You keep pressing this issue as if it's some interesting debate. That was all sarcasm before I stated that it was sarcasm. I actually had to state it for you, which is sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Who hurt you? I'm sorry you can't see where the sarcasm stops. Oh wow you called me a name. I'm hurt by someone on Reddit. How sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad adviceI'm not the one here inflating my own ego talking about how good I look. Thinking you're hot shit when you're just average, after being told countless times is delusion. You don't need to define "delusional" for me. My USMLE boards did that already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?There is something called sarcasm. I don't know if you've ever heard of it or if you've ever experienced it, but...I guess you're new to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:51 AM |
| 13 | Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad adviceI didn't say she wasn't "adorable." She just has a hyperinflated self-image. People like you only fuel these people who have delusional thoughts. Ask most guys, and they'll tell you the truth... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Ironically, social media warps men's perception of women more than it warps women's perception of men.Great post! Couldn't have said it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?I was agreeing with you without wanting to argue. Are you that hurt over my comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?If I was illiterate, I wouldn't be able to read this. How dumb are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:11 AM |
| 4 | If women are hypergamous by nature....THIS IS THE EXACT REASON I was rejected, and I was baffled. Frustrated me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Yes. We men are evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Yes, we men are terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:53 AM |
| 9 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?They shouldn't. It's just a way to shame men. It's okay for a younger woman to have a crush on an older guy, but if he has a crush on a younger woman (legal age, of course) then it's creepy. But if the guy is hot...then the halo effect is strong, and one can do no wrong! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 13 | Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad adviceYou are not an "8 or 9." lmao. You think you're better than you really are...probably bitter because you know you can't live up to what you want lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad adviceOr find a woman that puts up with it. Giving up something for someone is outrageous unless they're important...not some random person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?You can't compare average people to a Mafia boss. Can you personally compare yourself to Queen Elizabeth II? "Basic bitch." Yeah, I know the level of intelligence I'm dealing with. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Go look at a normal distribution curve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?A. This is not an option for me because I don't have the looks and my race works against me. B. I have improved myself to the point where I don't even know what else to improve. I can't think of anything I can improve on that would get me dates. So that's out of the question. C. I tried this, but it just doesn't work. D. This is what I have done, and this is what I plan to keep on doing in the future when I accumulate more funds. Have gotten rejected by escorts before as well (due to race). But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?I like smart, opinionated, strong, confident women. That is my ultimate weakness. I don't want a woman to submit to me, nor do I wanna submit to them. An independent woman who can hold her own is very attractive, and is someone I can proudly call a partner. I don't want a religious person because I'm not religious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?I disagree. I'm like a 4/10 and women find me atrocious and usually are disgusted when they find out I'm interested, no matter what my personality shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?This is a pointless conversation...but in the end, I'm sorry you have to deal with those extremely obsessed men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Then why are you going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Yes. We think about sex. We are the ones who have to do most of the work. That's called biology and natural selection. If we didn't think about sex, humans would go extinct. No one thinks about sex 24/7. How is that even possible? If that was the case, there is sure some deep Psychiatric issues that need to be tended to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?I don't need one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 05:13 AM |
| 2 | A trend I notice for whose pictures men and women give compliments to on Reddit:Abundance vs scarcity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?It sucks. I don't have the looks (I'm a 4/10). I got the brains, dedication, passion, dreams, and a loooot I'm working on. Got a good amount of monetly through grants and funds and am aiming for a $500K+ salary job (actually based on my interests). + dreams of having a small business, pilot license, a small aircraft) and international real estate on the side along with future military officer retirement pay for life. Doing really well even though I'm not quite there. Got funds to show. Has my at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Wrong. Stop putting every one of us into a basket. I personally hate my time being wasted and would rather have a woman tell me I'm straight up ugly and they are not interested rather than lying about things to let me down gently. At the end of the day, If you're interested in my money, I'd rather know. Would save me time, money, and headache. You pick guys that are shit, and then complain about it. Guys who have things going on are less likely to play this game...until we're met by women who tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 9 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Rich people and warlords are outliers. Basic statistics background is lacking here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Men and women are different. You're not thinking like a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?It's hard to find women in the Bay Area 😪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How do education and income affect modern dating/sex at different stages of life in your culture?I think education level > $ is not a majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 02:28 AM |
| 7 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?Well obviously it bothers me...cause I'm human....I can't just STOP being human. I don't focus on it so much. Here comes the cookie cutter's fortune cookie advice about how I should, again, stop "focusing on it so much" when it is probably the last or second-to-last priority I have. Bro, I've nearly got an MD degree. There's nothing about focusing too much on women or too much on dating that I'm doing. I barely have time to eat food. How long am I supposed to keep this up for? Until I've gotten … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 02:12 AM |
| 9 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?Yeah, do you know how many times I've heard that? I went out and stopped putting women on a pedestal and started putting my goals up. I've gotten through a big chunk of my goals. 've never subscribed to an only fans or paid for pictures of women. I talk to women, and flirt with them when I can. Know what I get back? They get "creeped" out or weirded out even though I'm talking and behaving like a normal person. But too bad I'm not a 6 foot tall blonde hair blue eyes white guy...because I can c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?He's former military | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?He really isn't lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Exactly how much should you bend over backwards sacrificing your hobbies and likes just to appeal to women?Or Indian... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 04:19 AM |
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