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Pursuing as young as the law will allow in your 30s screams pedophile to me. Creeps on Reddit love to argue the logistics of it and that also screams pedophile to me 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:12 PM
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This and the reverse! The other day I was scrolling through YouTube and one of the videos recommended to me with millions of views was titled something about “first woman to ever accomplish so and so” … the “woman” they were referring to was a 15 year old girl. Idk why but it really irked me… ? As far as greetings I just stick with “everyone” as well. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:00 AM
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Anger is a powerful and motivating tool when not tied to beings who can’t control it bc of testosterone 🧚🏻. Wish I felt angry more often honestly. It’s the only thing that keeps me from being a doormat. It’s a woman’s super power and a mans kryptonite also why 9/10 violent crimes are committed by the other sex 🥰. But of course we’re the ones shamed for it. I think we’d be too powerful if it were socially acceptable to be angry as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:02 AM
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Right? Most men don’t even like women who initiate. Not to mention men are a perceivable threat, and women are the ones who take on the entire burden of procreating. So yeah I 100% expect to be pursued. Sorry not fucking sorry 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:54 AM
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Yes yes yes yes. I picked my ex nearly entirely for PeRsoNalIty cause I was essentially trained not to value anything else. When he nuked the emotional security I had with him I really thought I was asexual for the longest time even after the breakup. That was until an actually attractive young man around my age who very clearly worked out and took care of himself came into my work. Lol I’m not asexual. Not even close. A lot of men are just ugly on the inside and outside 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:43 AM
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Is this real? This woman has a degree, instead chose sex work, and says she’s not desperate yet let a violent stranger convince her they were soulmates within a few months. No mention of calling the cops or leaving him… I mean… wtf?? At what point do you start making decent life choices if not when you’re about to be 40 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:30 AM
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Idfk majority of men would absolutely NOT tolerate the same from their girlfriends/wives. I just wanna add that studies show that viewing attractive women for straight men DOES indeed lower men’s satisfaction with their current partners. Women don’t experience less satisfaction with our partners when exposed to hot men. So pickmes please keep this in mind when you try to justify men’s porn consumption based on your experiences with it. There’s a reason why so many women initiate divorce due to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 12:23 AM
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I love her 🥺🥺 wish there were more role models for girls/women like this in society. Thanks for posting. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:49 PM
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Ah yes the most vulnerable part of your being should be given away freely to strangers who will not value it. That’ll feed the soul. /s Sounds very depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:37 PM
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I saw this too! Thanks so much for reposting. Men literally tell on themselves. But “nOt aLl meN” just the fucking majority apparently 🙄. I’m getting a cabin and living alone. They don’t even try to hide their toxicity anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:42 AM
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Yup… and imagine if a man cheated and his girlfriend took his life for it… can’t imagine there would be any comments from men saying he deserved it and should’ve seen it coming…????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:10 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I can relate. You deserve much better and I hope you’re healing sis. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:32 AM
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Completely agree. Thank you for sharing some resources 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:05 AM
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I feel like that’s all these pickme women have experienced with these men so they try to justify the disrespect so it doesn’t hurt as bad. It would be sad if it weren’t fucking infuriating that they try to push their lack of self respect onto other women. Respectable men do not ogle with their girlfriend/wife right next to them because it’s rude as fuck unless otherwise stated. They know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:40 AM
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Exactly 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 08:16 PM
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It’s always like this Advice from incel forums: lie to women, manipulate them, lower their self esteem, use them, treat them as subhuman, then retire them for a younger version. Fds advice: Avoid and acknowledge the existence of abusive men by keeping your standards high and your boundaries firm. Better to be single than in a bad relationship. Society: 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 After some deliberation we have decided that these things are equally bad. It’s fucking pathetic. I’m sick of incels and pickmes who h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:15 PM
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I’m actually SO glad men will say this out loud and admit to it. I grew up watching Disney and believing in true love. That is NOT how we are valued by most men in society. We are a status symbol based off of our youth and beauty. Just look at how many pregnant women get cheated on, or old/sick women get traded in for younger versions. It is what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:26 PM
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I legit won’t touch a man who goes to strip clubs with a ten foot pole. Let alone a man who buys sex. The libfems can have them since it’s so empowering. Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:22 PM
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I wonder what changed... it’s like we are regressing as a society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:41 PM
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That is honestly terrifying and disgusting, and yet I’m not surprised. My heart breaks for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:38 PM
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Right! I’m in the same exact boat... I don’t even find myself being attracted to men just two years younger than myself because my brain is still not fully developed and I know damn well theirs isn’t. And yet it’s normalized for grown men to proudly exclaim their attraction to school girls and teens.... 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 how ??? Excuse me??? Fbi?? VILE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:36 PM
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Same, I would rather die than introduce my daughters to a grown ass man who more than likely jerks off to incestuous or barely legal teen porn. 🤢🤢🤢 They’ve managed to convince themselves and society that there’s no overlap between fantasy and reality. That’s a fucking lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:14 PM
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It’s actually quite soul crushing to grow up and realize how prevalent this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:08 PM
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I used to have a major problem with this but now I’m in my early 20s and not to toot my own horn but it is not hard for me to get male attention/validation. With that being said, I’ve had so many “successful/high value” attractive men that have openly tried to get with me whilst being in a relationship, that it put me off of men for good. When men tell us that men will cheat if they have options... I’m starting to think that’s true for majority of men. And there is no fucking way in hell that I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:58 AM
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Why do we hold celebrities up to the expectation of being role models... it’s so weird to me. Especially when the women in this industry get put through soooo much toxicity and manipulation from such a young age, I mean she was a literal child when she was introduced to fame. No shit she’s coped in unhealthy ways. Anyway, I’m glad she’s doing better and learning to value herself as a woman. That amazing. People need to place a whole lot more value on their empathetic, unconditionally loving hear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:46 PM
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Right? They really talk about women like we’re fucking appliances that need a new shiny upgrade. I’m not surprised but it hurts to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:11 PM
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Well said. Since when did feminism and equality become about making men’s lives easier ??? I know men don’t want to understand this but courting women and being gentlemen/ paying for dates is the least they can do. There is no such thing as equality in a patriarchal world so why the fuck are we as women expected to give up anything left that benefits us in the name of EquAlitY. *Men aren’t discriminated in the workplace for possibly wanting to have a family in the future. *Men don’t have to put …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:34 PM
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Hope you’re healing from your trauma & realizing you deserve someone who loves and respects you. I’m sure you’ve unfortunately learned a lot that will help you weed out shit men if you do decide to date. Best of luck on whatever you decide 🧚🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:39 AM
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Yeah not surprised :p Reddit really does hate women lmao. It’s unfortunate because it’s such a big platform with so much influence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:32 AM
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Oh yuck, I’m sick. Having children with men is honestly terrifying... you think incest & pedophilia are uncommon... ok then why are they so promoted in pornography made for men... 🤢? Glad you got creative, and unfortunately I can see how there’s a natural progression from stripping to prostitution. These men really take full advantage of these women who most likely come from a childhood of abuse and have extremely low self esteem & addictions to cope. It is really fucked up. I will NEVER tolerat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:31 AM
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I’m in my early 20s (look even younger) and the amount of old men that are 40+ that linger, flirt, etc at my work is honestly sickening. I’m gonna start being mean as fuck to old men because it is DISGUSTING that they think they even have a slight chance of getting with me. 🤢🤢 LEAVE YOUNG WOMEN ALONE WE DO NOT WANT YOU. YOU DISGUST US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:42 PM
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Yup 🥱 Men’s dating advice subs: lie, lie, lie, manipulate, don’t compliment women, break down their self esteem, then discard because you can always replace women with younger women Fds: Men should court women & be gentlemen, pay for the date they ask you out on, respect you & themselves, and not be porn addicts. Society: ThEsE wOmEn ArE FemCelS!!!!!!!! SCREEEEECHHHHHHHHH !!! HOw dAre ThEy!!!! Lmao. Loser men are obsessed with fds, high value men do not give a fuckkkkkk because they don’t need t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:01 PM
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Ive heard too many stories from friends and family about their seemingly hvm losing interest sexually or pressuring them into plastic surgery after having their children. I had no idea honestly that your body really changes other than weight gain. It’s not taught in schools lol least not where I am. Your boobs get saggier, your areolas get bigger, you have loose skin, stretch marks, more cellulite, it also affects your brain, and your cellular health, shortens telomeres I believe. In a world whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:17 PM
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One of my family members is in her 60’s retired and wealthy, lives in a rich area in an expensive state. Went for a jog in the neighborhood and got knocked out by a man, was unconscious, and then he raped her. So fuck that lady. Fetish for protecting ourselves??? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:21 PM
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Women are constantly shamed for having any physical standards in society, whereas men are allowed to have any physical “preference” they’d like. So yeah it’s important to create a space that allows women to have physical preferences as well. It’s only fair. And I have literally seen multiple men on Reddit tell women to lower their physical standards and then in the next sentence or in their post history say they would never date a fat girl. Like what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:54 PM
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There is a reason why we post hot men on Fridays and call fat ugly men, well fat and ugly. Why should men have the luxury of not being objectified/sexualized or valued only for their looks? That’s what keeps fueling the patriarchy and misogyny in society. I go on the popular page, I see pornographic images of women. I go on the art page, I see pornographic “art” of women. From social media, tv, music, women are constantly dealing with this shit. We are purposely being hypocritical when we target…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:57 PM
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Yes indeed. I was thinking of subtly flipping them off ya know? Like moving my hair out of my face with my middle finger or something along those lines. If you have any other ideas please let me know. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:23 AM
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I wanna add onto this. The amount of UGLY ass men I see staring at me and other women whilst they’re with their pretty girlfriends makes me want to rip my fucking hair out. That is all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:33 PM
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This brings up a good point about foster care and cps. There are multiple studies that show sexual and physical abuse occur at higher rates in foster care than they do in the original hands of the parents the children were removed from. The system is so fucking broken. I bet there are quite a few child traffickers that directly work in foster care and for CPS. Kind of off topic but important and still related. Porn most certainly fuels this industry as shown and harms children worldwide. Men & w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:16 PM
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Worst drug out there 🤪 hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:49 PM
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If he wouldn’t be like that with his son then that’s a red flag imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:46 PM
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In what context ...? Like future, present, is he just protective when he goes out with his two year old ?? As most parents are...Or is he like “I gotta lock my daughter up, make sure she never leaves or dates in the future because men will ruin her” one is projection the other is a cautious good parent lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:26 AM
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It does and research backs this up. Women know this intuitively it’s why we get so uncomfy with it, so it’s really sad that society gaslights us as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:34 AM
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Eggzactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:17 AM
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The kind of men that hate their girlfriends posting sexy pics but will also jerk off to other women’s sexy pics are the absolute most trash lol. Not even worth a second of anyone’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:13 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:51 PM
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Glad you made it out alive & wish you nothing but healing from the trauma you received. You deserve to be safe, loved, and respected. Thanks for keeping it real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:40 PM
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This is why so many divorces/breakups happen. Sexual intimacy is huge, if a man is giving it to other women on a screen in a monogamous relationship and simultaneously seeing these women as unfit to date... you cannot win. You cannot match the pornification of these women to gain the sexual intimacy of a PA without having them lose respect for you simultaneously..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:31 PM
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Yup. They really just tell on themselves ALL the time. Women just need to listen. “I never wanna have a daughter” “my daughter will never be allowed to date/leave the house” Lots of em are pedos/perverts/abusers and projecting. They know other men must be dangerous bc they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:57 PM
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Ty ty. I do try. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:42 PM
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Exactly. The viewers are depraved and do not respect women. In fact many of them hate women. They are drawn to our exploitation and abuse, not our empowerment 🧚🏻🥰😊💗🧚🏻🧚🏻🧚🏻 This is why they will happily watch and get off to a sw, but will never consider dating/respecting one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:38 PM
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Yeah the “good luck finding a guy that doesn’t watch porn hUehUehueh” Or “you’re gonna be single forever if you can’t accept porn HuEhuhuehue” DO YOU THINK I GIVE A FUCK ID RATHER BE ALONE!!!! It’s not normal, they know it, they do not care and they do not respect women in general which is why they’d rather gaslight their girlfriends/wives than respect their feelings and give up porn. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:02 PM
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Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:57 PM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:53 PM
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This is so awesome. I know the monarch butterfly population is really dying out. I haven’t seen one in a long time and it’s a bit depressing so thanks for putting some back out into the world! Really proud of your transformation and your ability to stay positive after going through something that’s quite traumatic both physically and mentally. I admire that strength greatly and I hope you continue to stay positive and enjoy life 💗🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:33 PM
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And the underdog comes out on top. Yes queen we love to hear it!!! 🥂💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:10 PM
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Thank you 🥰 so proud of you too! Really glad you’re in a place that allows you to feel free and at peace. You deserve nothing but love and support from those around you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:08 PM
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Hey I’m also going into a male dominated field. Strong women who beat the odds and fight against the stigma make me proud af to be a woman. Keep doing you, you’re seriously amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:04 PM
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Damn that’s fast ! I’m sure you worked your ass off for it, and I’m glad you received what you deserved 😌💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:03 PM
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Wow talk about a good head on your shoulders. So proud of you!!! You deserve the best and are a total badass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:02 PM
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I always love when women talk about their growing businesses, just a warm fuzzy feeling ya know? Lol. That is really dope ! Glad to hear you’re also working on taking time for your spiritual/mental health as well. Best of luck on the lessons, sounds like fun. 🥂😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:08 AM
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Yay 🥺 glad you’re finally free and living happily & safely. Pretty amazing that you had the courage to isolate yourself from the financial support of your father & make it on your own. You should be extremely proud of that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:59 PM
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Yesss that’s a dope hobby, sounds really therapeutic honestly. Also good on you for being able to tuck away huge chunks of shmoney into investments. Love to hear it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:54 PM
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That’s amazing! Sounds like a blessed life full of accomplishments and hard work! Keep up the great work sis! May your hvm stay a hvm, if not we got you ;) lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:20 PM
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That’s awesome! I love this little community also, it truly is a safe space. Congrats to you & wish you even more success in your future 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:16 PM
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That is badass! Congrats to you, and keep going sis! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:14 PM
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They ban anyone who is an active fds user. Same happened to me lmaoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:10 PM
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Was gonna comment this. The meaner I am, the nicer I’m treated by men. Like they truly see it as a challenge when in reality I just want them to fuck off. WARNING: do not try this at home I am very ballsy and calculated in my meanness. Being mean to men may result in serious bodily harm and/or death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:06 PM
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I wanna add onto this. My ex was seemingly hvm for over two years into our relationship. He was a complete gentleman, did everything for me, very kind, and hardworking. I fell so hard in love with him and I was so naive and young. When he would gaslight me about his weird behaviors that started after two years together , I truly believed something was wrong with me. That I was paranoid, insecure, crazy bc how could this man that loved me so much be hurting me? Snooping confirmed that it was not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:16 PM
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Thanks so much for posting this. I was trying to post about a week ago how women being groomed into sex work is modern day oppression of women. Girls are taught that their only value is looks and their bodies from young ages. So of course they’re gonna spend majority of their time thinking about these things like makeup, diets, skincare, plastic surgery, etc. People always consider the money that goes into looking “perfect” bc we all know their is a standard for beauty but consider the TIME. Tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:45 PM
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Yeah, just no. You shouldn’t have to even explain to scrotes why looking at hot men who take care of themselves is not the same as watching 100 different girls in one day get their assholes painfully destroyed for their viewing pleasure. Don’t like how it feels scrotes ? Awww :( dats so sad. Maybe stop doing it to women constantly and we’ll think about caring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:15 AM
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They get pissed that we post hot men that aren’t even nude let alone doing depraved things on film. I MEAN THEY ARE LIVID THAT WE OBJECTIFY THEM JUST IN THIS SUB ON A MINUSCULE LEVEL TO WHAT WOMEN EXPERIENCE DAILY... . Sorry for all caps I kinda wanna scream at the hypocrisy. They know they would lose their shit and be mentally ruined if women objectified them on the same levels in every day life. And how they’ve managed to make women appear controlling and insane for being uncomfy with porn in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:41 PM
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This is understated. Sex work has been one of the ONLY choices women have had to make income for centuries and now they’re rebranding it as a new empowering choice?? How ? They’ve had way too much of the koolaid if they truly believe there is anything powerful about women’s bodies being bought transactionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:55 PM
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What do you mean? It’s empowering because it’s her CHoiCe she has the choice to objectify and sexualize not only herself but the developing baby in her womb. That is true empowerment for women 😌 /s No but seriously get me the fuck off this planet. This is a new level of disgusting, imagine growing up knowing men jerked off to your live birth. This mom is unfit, CPS needs to intervene. Cannot put into words how disgustingly low of a person you’d have to be to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:39 PM
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WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK I haven’t even gotten further than the children’s dolls that have full blown lingerie on underneath their clothes...... i’ve seen the commercials for them plenty of times whilst babysitting and they’re all over Nickelodeon and even nick jr wtf. This is why it’s not accurate to say the “choice” of sex work is empowering for women. It’s not women’s and teen girls choices when media has literally groomed them for it from the time they were born. I feel sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:58 PM
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This made me nauseous to read ngl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:49 PM
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Yes this!! I built up so much resentment over the course of my last relationship because I had no requirements/standards/boundaries. I was constantly disappointed and when society told me it was ok, I tried to just accept it. (Didn’t make it hurt any less) I’m intelligent, attractive, affectionate, giving, loyal, and have lots of goals in life that I’m constantly working towards. I now require the same for a partner. I won’t settle until I find it, and I’m just fine staying single if I don’t lol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:35 AM
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Aww this is awesome. I’m in my early twenties and I kid you not I’ve never been more confident and outgoing in my life than I am now that I’m single. I don’t know if other ladies experience this but I feel a part of my spirit/independence dies whilst in a relationship. I don’t go out as often, I’m not as confident, I don’t maintain friendships as well, etc. Really enjoying focusing on work and school and taking care of myself rn 🥰 thanks for posting op.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:52 PM
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Why do they have no manners ?? It really blows my mind. I wish I had the balls to bully them into having manners. So thanks for doing it on other women’s behalf lol. My biggest pet peeve is that so many men at my gym leave their weights on the machines and don’t put them back... so I can’t use the machine after them or I can break my back trying to put their mess away. It happens all the timeeeeee it is so frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:05 PM
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Basically liberal feminism is let’s make men’s life’s easier, lets undo any of the negative damage that men have done to THEMSELVES when they created and continued on the patriarchy. And let’s disguise it as empowerment for women 🥰 Libfem rhetoric I heard all the time on social media : Selling your nudes is empowerment Getting a sugar daddy is empowerment Paying for dates as a woman is EqUaliTy Abusive kinks are normal, don’t shame them YoU Are Not JUSt A SexuAl ObJect so feel comfortable basing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:13 PM
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This is beyond annoying. I love how she uses the title of being a therapist as a sort of all knowing being. This woman has no idea what she’s talking about, clearly hasn’t read any actual studies on the effects of pornography usage, and on top of that is trying to victim blame... wtf. This is why therapy can cause more harm than good, too many shitty therapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:58 PM
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I got banned from a popular relationship sub because I said that studies show that porn is bad and it promotes trafficking, ED, lack of intimacy, etc. I know I didn’t get banned for the comment but rather because I’m an fds user lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:04 PM
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This is my thoughts except perfectly expressed which I haven’t been able to do. Thank you for writing this out <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:55 PM
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Aww thank you that’s very sweet, kind of teared up reading that. I hear about relationships with openness and solid foundations for trust but they seem so rare it feels like a fantasy haha. I respected my ex’s privacy for years to the point of never asking to use his phone to make a phone call or google anything and ended up feeling stupid for it lol. Moving forward I’m definitely looking for someone to be an open book as I am. Not so I can snoop lol but so I never feel the need to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:47 PM
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The only way you can “win” is by being healthy for you. Mind , body, spirit, soul. Don’t diet for men, and don’t diet because you hate your current form. Love yourself, appreciate your body and make healthy choices because you want to take care of yourself. As a thin woman I’ve struggled with attracting shallow assholes. They do pursue and put on that gentleman role for quite some time haha. Then they end up being the kind of men incapable of unconditional love and only seeing women as objects f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:13 PM
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Right ? And the fact that is “normalized” to watch porn daily while in a monogamous relationship blows my mind. Let’s call it what it really is, not a need but a depraved addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:46 PM
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Thanks for posting. Just saw on the popular page today a post saying “If sex work is empowering for women then men shouldn’t be shamed for paying!” Sex work is not empowering in the slightest. That’s why men aren’t the ones doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:08 PM
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This is the harsh truth. Give an ugly man a chance and he thinks he’s the catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:48 PM
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With the amount of horrible therapists out there, I’m seriously considering switching career goals in life lol. Anyway read tons of reviews beforehand if you can and be cautious of any therapist who invalidates you or your feelings. They do more harm than good for your mental health. Saying things like “All guys are like this” “you seem like a happy person” “communicate with your abuser” are horribly invalidating things to say to someone. I wouldn’t tolerate it and I’d be switching therapists AS…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:38 AM
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Yup I think it also has a lot to do with our pedo culture. Men have no idea what’s actually healthy, women are biologically built to be fatter than men, period. And yet many women’s healthy body types are considered overweight. Personally I’ve always been underweight and the amount of times I’ve been called “thick” by men is astounding. If I’m thick wtf are other healthy adult women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:29 PM
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Hmm don’t really know the details so googled it and they actually began dating when she was 28. I’m not a die hard Aston Kutcher fan lol but when a lot of elites are legit pedophiles, it’s nice to see a celebrity be outspoken about it and work to change things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:01 PM
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Almost forgot about their relationship, not condoning cheating but on the same side i also think Demi Moore is predatory. There’s a 15 year age gap there. All in all I just believe his humanitarian work is inspiring and should be looked up to by other men and women alike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:52 PM
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Ashton Kutcher. Never really payed much attention to him until I learned he’s a huge advocate who is outspoken about sex trafficking of women and children. He’s saved thousands of children himself. Bless men like him in the world who use their power for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:32 PM
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No yeah many men don’t care at all. I see it on Reddit all the time when women talk about rape or assault or stalking from men. Their first response is “Well women are rapists too” or “Well what about the false rape allegations that women have made?”. They simply deflect to these conversations even though these things are happening on minuscule scales in comparison and are entirely separate. They cannot focus on anything that sheds a negative light on men’s behaviors. They do not care about how …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:15 PM
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Yup and this is why I’m working towards my degree in software engineering. Nothing empowering about your “career” ending because your looks declined as you aged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:58 PM
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Oh my gosh I can hardly keep one plant alive you should be patting yourself on the back. Truly awesome glad you’re building up your self esteem and pursuing things you enjoy now ! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:41 PM
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Ok so yeah I’m not allowed to link lol it’s in a popular sub that starts with relations and ends with advice wink wink. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:25 PM
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Right ? I don’t even want to know the actual statistics of how common it really is because it’s so evil and unthinkable to me. I’m sure many cases go unreported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:11 PM
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Wow I am so sorry to hear that. How absolutely awful to have to go through that in the first place and then have people who are supposed to care about and help you make excuses for his behavior. The world is in denial about how disgusting and vile men can be. Even fathers, no excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:52 PM
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Yeah misogyny is rampant, always has been and is deadly around the world. That’s why I feel absolutely no remorse when men complain about “MISAndRy WAHHHHH”. MISAndRy aka calling men out on their abusive and toxic behaviors and refusing to put up with it. I’m really over playing nice as well. 89% of murderers = males, 92% of sex offenders =male , rapists = 99% male. Etc etc. list goes on. Yet somehow women are the problem. DO BETTER MEN YOU ARE CLEARLY THE PROBLEM IN SOCIETY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:00 AM
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Yeah my dad was 100000x worse but my mom had a few kids, and I’m just now figuring out that it was for power and control over another life. I had 0 privacy growing up and was not allowed to show any emotions other than happiness without severe consequences. So yeah please ffs do not have children if you’re emotionally volatile and take things out on others. Don’t have children if you’re motivation is anything other than loving children and wanting to put good people into the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:43 AM
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Yup. It’s really awkward honestly that so many men will take a statement from women criticizing a specific person or action, personally. It really just goes to show how many men relate to these toxic behaviors or actions. If something has nothing to do with me I never feel the need to insert myself and defend myself by saying “WeLl NoT alL WoMeN” and yet I see it from men all the time. Like jeezus obviously not all men, but definitely you sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:37 PM
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To be fair it looks as though there are both men and women sitting and it’s honestly embarrassing/disappointing that no one got up and offered her a seat. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:01 PM
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Omg.... MEn Are DemoniZed SimPly foR beinG BoRn A Man. What a fucking idiot, ever heard of female infanticide ??? People literally throw away and murder baby girls on large scales and he has the audacity to say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:35 PM
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I started getting brainwashed by the libfem “going dutch” bs too and then I had an epiphany... if I’m expected to doll myself up and be well manicured which all takes quite a bit of time, money, and effort... because men are “ViSuaL CreAturEs” then I most certainly expect a man to play a gentleman role and pay for the date HE asks ME out on. Sorry not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:19 PM
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Shameless literally is porn, that’s why. Acting sucks, plots suck, but there are lots of titties. Just like GOT lol. Made by men for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:28 PM
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Lol right!?? I was mind blown to find out that he won’t even offer certain popular products like textured implants, due to possible health risks CANCER that other plastic surgeons just sweep under the rug...👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:02 PM
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OMG lmao..I already respected him for his dedication to his patients health and quality of life, but my respect just sky rocketed. All hail the true king 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:47 PM
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Exactly. They’re just projecting. They view women as no more than sex objects so they assume all other men do as well. It’s not like healthy relationships can provide financial stability, life partnership, friendship, means to raising a family, etc etc. Nope women are just sex bots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:39 PM
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I see this on Reddit everywhere it’s so pathetic. Redditors shaming women for picking men they were attracted to. Their logic is that these men have multiple options and so of course they only want sex. Their message to women is to pick men we aren’t attracted to because they’re “nice guys”. Same men also commented about how they were repulsed by the idea of dating a fat woman. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. Don’t be brainwashed ladies these ugly men have ugly ass personalities too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:20 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen the same and it makes sense. It is hard work and it is very competitive but the internet makes it seem so glamorous and easy. Wanna make a full time living off of it? Ok well you gotta compete with other women which usually means a lifetime of plastic surgery and keeping up with the trends, an eating disorder, and a decline of clients anyway as you age. You have to talk to disgusting men with disgusting fetishes daily and provide pleasure to many men with girlfriends and wives etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:51 PM
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What’s really sad is all the young women hearing how it’s normalized and glorified are going to get into sex work and then regret it and never be able to take it back after. Once you’ve put your naked body for sale on the internet you can never take that back. You will lose family, friends, potential job opportunities and more. And for what? Because the likelihood of making actual full time income off of it is very rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:29 PM
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Us gen z’s are either one or the other fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:53 PM
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“Once you wife them it’s harder for them to be too upset” wtf... great to know they assume women will lower their already on the floor expectations after marriage. Yeah I’m never getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:21 AM
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That is why I love this sub thank you <3 also 10000000% prefer women over men in friendships lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:19 PM
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Yeah I’m 22 don’t have a daughter yet so speaking hypotheticals, but I struggled during my teen years. Never thought I was good enough and desperately wanted male validation. I was perfect as is and still am but no one ever guided me to love and respect myself. I had to repeatedly learn the hard way unfortunately and I wish other young women didn’t have to learn that way. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:08 PM
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Yeah that’s making more sense. It’s definitely competitive which is why plastic surgery and eating disorders are so rampant. I can’t imagine trying to explain to my daughter why she’s perfect as is and doesn’t need to change for a man whilst getting plastic surgery and making a living off of male validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:56 PM
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Yeah idk most of them exclaim their love for other women whilst simultaneously contributing to a society that views women as sex objects to be bought and bargained with... I’m not saying they should have to police women’s boyfriends, men should respect their relationships enough not to over indulge in porn. However they are contributing to the normalization of porn society which as we all know is made for men at the detriment of women?? They live in a fantasy world of “oh my body shouldn’t be ob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:42 PM
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The libfems are so brainwashed it’s sad. Sugar daddy and only fans culture is so huge for young women it’s disheartening. When I used to have an Instagram and I was having problems with porn in my relationship I asked an only fans girl how she dealt with her boyfriend watching porn. She literally told me he doesn’t watch porn of other people because it’s disrespectful in her relationship...?? Yet she actively produces custom porn for other men... so it’s “liberating” to be the one selling $3 ass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:36 PM
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Men act like many women don’t love to game as well. The difference is women don’t play for hours without acknowledging their partners existence. It’s so easy to have common decency and respect for people you supposedly “love” and most men never figure it out? They are so beyond selfish and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:16 AM
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Lol this whole sub is about making women aware about these very types of men. They’ll do everything to portray that they’re well rounded individuals except actually being a well rounded individual with morals. Lie, lie, lie some more, workout, and lie about everything else. Got it. And love how their porn destroyed minds can’t actually connect to and love another human being so they project that onto all women as well 🤣. Bunch of sociopaths ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:46 PM
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Lol this whole sub is about making women aware about these very types of men. They’ll do everything to portray that they’re well rounded individuals except actually being a well rounded individual with morals. Lie, lie, lie some more, workout, and lie about everything else. Got it. And love how their porn destroyed minds can’t actually connect to and love another human being so they project that onto all women as well 🤣. Bunch of sociopaths ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:46 PM
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Yeah well it’s proven that men are more likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant so I highly doubt most men are capable of actual love. It’s more like “oh I got this shiny object that makes me look and feel better at the moment” then as soon as the shine wears off whether it be pregnancy, weight gain, or just realizing they’re human lol, they cheat or leave. Meanwhile women are like “oh you can’t pay the bills, you have shit stains in your underwear, you gained 50lbs, are addicted to por…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:07 PM
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I wish I could like this post a million times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:39 PM
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Exactly lol thanks for taking me back to foot binding and neck stretching, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:06 PM
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They just have too much audacity I’m over it, honestly it’s comical. As if women haven’t been destroying every part of their being to look more presentable for society for the last idk how many decades. Yet they can’t be bothered to do their hair, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:44 PM
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I don’t think it’s a LVM thing honestly. I’m a young woman in my early 20s nothing predatory looking about me at all right? So I’ve been wanting to make female friends but because of all the trafficking in the world right now even I feel weird asking for another woman’s phone number. I’d be much more comfy giving a girl my number and I assume these men are having similar thought patterns. They just want you to feel comfortable and let you know that they’re not scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:49 PM
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Also just saw a Botox commercial the other day. Not one man to be seen in the entire thing and it was long. A bunch of gorgeous 40 year old women and even younger tho. Really pathetic bc I didn’t know aging and wrinkles only applied if you were a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:24 PM
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This is so accurate. Pointing out other women to your boyfriend so you can both ogle them like they’re shiny objects and not people... yeah that makes it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:40 AM
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Jeezus yeah maybe .00001 % of women look like stick figures with massive titties naturally. I’m sure he’d be livid if you were constantly getting off to videos and pics of 6’4 men with 5% body fat and 8 inch dicks lol. Men can’t take what they dish. In fact they’d be mentally broken if we served them the same. You were right to break with him he will just continue to erode at your self esteem, seems like he’s doing it purposely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:01 PM
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Sorry you’re dealing with that it’s such unnecessary heartbreak. I’m in the same boat, It feels like it would be almost impossible to find a man close to my age who wouldn’t want to excessively indulge in porn whilst in a relationship. All their arguments of it being normal because they’re men go right out the window to me because I have personal experience with porn. When I was a single teenager I used to watch it frequently. As soon as I got into a committed relationship I just didn’t feel rig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:14 PM
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My ex “proposed” to me after going Black Friday shopping and finding a promise ring on sale for $50. That really hurt my feelings lol no time or effort or thought about my tastes just “oh look this is on sale“. I never considered him a fiancé anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:40 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that. But yes, so true. Many women experience similar if not worse kinds of men. It’s really pathetic and heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:40 AM
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Seriously I’ve received the same responses and it’s just like... you do realize you’d be broke right now if men weren’t objectifying and sexualizing your body.. right? Nothing liberating about a society where men can buy most women’s asshole pics for 3.99. I guess cool that you’re not being abused by the porn industry but you’re not helping the epidemic that is the objectification of women so don’t act like you fucking are. Meh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:29 AM
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I just recently ended a relationship with a man just as you described and I know it’s “NoT alL mEn” but fuck it’s scary to find out the ultra sweet charming guy you fell in love with at first was just an asshole like the rest of them. He’s porn addicted, doesn’t take care of his appearance, manipulative, doesn’t make much income, and doesn’t have any plans for getting anywhere in life. I’m the exact opposite and he still took me for granted smh. Society creates these monsters by telling them tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:36 PM
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I also never understood this. The same women who want to free the nipple and create an environment where the woman’s body isn’t sexualized are the ones making porn and profit off of sexualizing their bodies... I’m younger and most of my generation disagrees with me on this but what??? It makes no fucking sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:57 PM
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Thank you so much. I’m in the bath just crying and this comment meant a lot to me. I’m taking your advice and blocking him on everything. My mom is usually the one to sympathize with him unfortunately. Hard to avoid but I have a feeling I finally have the strength to stay committed to not being with this person. :) I finally feel valid and that’s freeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:28 AM
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