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| – | Q4W: what modern dating problems do you seem to experience the most personally?I'm still open to cold approaches and have taken some time away from dating apps, overconsumption of those makes things look bleak. I'm treating it more as a +5% love luck chance boost now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.The "exclusivity" talk is insane as an european. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: what modern dating problems do you seem to experience the most personally?It really depends on what kind of woman you want to attract. There's a few women who actually don't like it and would prefer to lead instead, but I think those are few and far between. To me personally it shows social competence. Wish you the best of luck! Go get em tiger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:25 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: what modern dating problems do you seem to experience the most personally?That's depressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 12:57 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: what modern dating problems do you seem to experience the most personally?Not the person you're replying to but personally yes, leadership is a very attractive quality to have when I'm picking out the future father of my children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 12:56 PM |
| 18 | Q4W: what modern dating problems do you seem to experience the most personally?Things that have discouraged me from dating personally was that the whole ritual was uncomfortable and it was difficult to "vet" potential men I might actually be attracted to. Wasted a lot of time and some money on men I thought had potential, only for it to bite me in the ass (gave two "good guys" a chance, they turned out to be very insecure and had issues with women for a reason). Overall I think my experience is what a lot of women have experienced themselves in their younger years, so my c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating and IRL approachesI mean, valid. It takes genuine friendship/enjoying the girls company to not see it as unworthwhile investment but yeah feelings can get in the way. Most of my male friends met their partner through friends of friends OR by being friends with women from the same university first. I think the real issue there's veeeerrrrrrryyyyy few shared spaces between men and women where you can interact organically, and online dating is just trying to pull money from ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?I don't necessarily think that male sexuality is something they should find shameful or something to aims to objectify and degrade me, but based off of life experience a few men have made me feel that way. Things are fun when there's mutual interest and both parties enjoy the game. Even guys who lust after me without it being mutual-- that's ok. I'm neutral on that. What I'm not neutral on is when you treat me badly when I say no. That is where it is dehumanizing and degrading, because you're be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and IRL approachesPlus, SOME men seem to underestimate making connections and focus more on being bitter over being "friendzone"d. Like dude, it might not have worked out between us but who's to say my other female friends won't like you? I'll gladly introduce you to the friend group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating and IRL approachesQ4W: Do you wish you were approached IRL more? Yes, very much so even if the guy ends up not being my type it's nice to have a face to face conversation and to make new friends. Q4A: Do you think social media, dating apps, the fact that we're all in AirPods 24/7, radical feminism, MeToo hysteria and an overlooked porn addiction epidemic have ruined meeting IRL like before? I feel that in my country (europe, Slovakia) men have started using this as an exuse for why they shouldn't even try. It's o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 06:42 PM |
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