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| 3 | I revealed to my wife I was molested, and she’s no longer attracted to me.You need to go to therapy to deal with the molestation. You have not dealt with it you have buried it. You need to go to therapy for only that issue and how to change the dynamic of your relationship with the abuser. No other issues. Make that clear to the therapist that is what you are trying to solve and only that. Do not try to fix your marriage issues with the therapist. The sidebar will handle that. Never bring it up with anyone else again, especially your wife. When you feel you have some … | /r/askMRP | 27/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 08, 2020OYS # 4: 35, 5’ 8”, 205lbs, 30% BF, Married, two kids 4yrs(m) and 2yrs(f). Lifts: SQ 215 BP 165 BR 115 OHP 100 DL 215 Read: NMMNG, WOTSPM, MMSLP, WISNIFG Reading: NMMNG Physical: I have identified the issue with my lifting that was tweaking an old bulged disc injury. I did some internet research and talked with some other MRP members. After that, I did two paid sessions with a trainer at a local weightlifting gym. One side is weaker than the other side causing my issue. Will be incorporating sin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 17, 2020I have identified that I use over analyzing stuff as a method to avoid having to do something. I will analyze it the different decisions until it passes and use that as a resolution. It is definitely something to change and adopt a new method. Can you point out exactly what I said that made me wishy washy about wanting to fuck her? Is it just that I say I want to but write about reasons why I didn't? Instead of trying to initiate and writing about either rejection or success? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 17, 2020I do want to fuck her. What I was trying to explain was that I wake up and want to fuck her. But by the end of the day I am so sick of her and disgusted by how she acts and treats me I don't want to fuck her. And I definitely am starting to see the whole she is a reflection of what I have been. Because I have been passive aggressive for many years. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 17, 2020OYS # 3: 35, 5’ 8”, 216lbs, 33% BF, Married, two kids 4yrs(m) and 2yrs(f). Lifts: SQ 185 BP 150 BR 110 OHP 80 DL 185 Read: NMMNG, WOTSPM, MMSLP Reading: WISNIFG (re-reading sections instead of finishing) Physical: I followed my program and lifted 3 times this week. There is something very therapeutic about lifting weights. I never felt that at other points in my life when working out. I enjoy it and will continue to make this a priority. Followed my fitness pal this week. Did not exceed any dail… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 10, 2020Just to clarify I am not not trying to imply there is great success with it yet. Just mainly that it has personally been successful in opening up my perception to my own past behavior. I can see I definitely worded it poorly. The rest of what you said I will absolutely implement as it sounds spot on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 10, 2020I have that as my mission for the time being. I have been unable to come up with something broader or more long-term. I have lived in other people's frame my entire life trying to please them. I am still figuring out what I want in life. As to everything else stated, I am going to change all that now. The status quo days are over. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 10, 2020OYS # 2: 35, 5’ 8”, 217lbs, 33% BF, Married, two kids 4yrs(m) and 2yrs(f). Lifts: SQ 165 BP 145 BR 105 OHP 75 DL 165 Read: NMMNG, WOTSPM, MMSLP Reading: WISNIFG Physical: I met my goal of 3 x 5x5 Stronglifts this week. As always, it feels good to lift. The 50% deload was likely excessive. I am going to take the time on the way up to focus on form. I have stayed up later than usual this past week. Multiple reasons(excuses) to explain this, none of them great. Will make a correction on that for th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/11/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 03, 2020How does STFU truly work in these kinds of situations. I have had progress doing it in less severe situations. But I seem to just do the autistic STFU. For now, do I literally just say nothing? Just STFU let her work it out no matter how many days she terrorizes the household? I know that sounds like a stupid question. But I am working on WISNIFG stuff but definitely do not have it down to use on the fly in high emotion interactions. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 03, 2020OYS #1: 35, 5’ 8”, 218lbs, 33% BF, Married(7yrs), two kids 4yrs(m) and 2yrs(f). Lifts: SQ 155 BP 135 BR 95 OHP 65 DL 155 Read: NMMNG, WOTSPM, MMSLP Reading: WISNIFG Physical: I am fat. I have lost weight and gotten to the appropriate BMI and BF two times in my life in the past. I know what it takes and how long it takes to do it. I eat sugar for comfort. I justify taking “breaks” from lifting weights. I need to make this priority number one. It will take many months to reach the goal post. But i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/20 01:32 PM |
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