WarpingCat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Man Affections vs Boy Affections You only need to be able to tell him to fuck off, nothing else. If you are dependent on him for something - change it as soon as you can. Can't have friendship built on dependencies. After that is done, continue interactions only on the terms you are comfortable with and tell him to fuck off with anything you aren't. If you have some specific situation in mind, pm me.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/16 09:39 AM
14	The Book Models (Attracted Women Through Honesty) Describes being Alpha as being a Narcissist Being 'vulnerable' is doing things that you want but are afraid to do. Approaching a girl you're attracted to opens you up for rejection - thus making you vulnerable. Speaking your mind and going for your dreams opens you up for criticism of your very core, so it makes you vulnerable. So basically the opposite of being beta - betas do everything to avoid vulnerability. Better stay put (you can't criticize nothing) and do what you're said to do by society and your wife (so you can shift the blame…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/16 09:26 AM
14	Man Affections vs Boy Affections I'd venture further. What you're describing has nothing to do with love. It's just relationships with superior and inferior. With someone superior (stronger, more influential) you: can't hold them to their end of agreement can't go away unless they allow you can't afford to anger them can't demand proof and have to "trust" can't demand respect (and expect, really) You can only try to win their favor by being good and useful little boy and hope for the best. Hence, beta behavior.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 04:41 AM
1	Unconditional Love, no thanks Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems that you think that I advocate to love everyone, which can't be farther from truth. Unconditional love starts with liking someone for who they are as a person. There's nothing wrong with helping good person to lose weight, there's nothing wrong with not liking/loving bad person.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 05:44 PM
0	Unconditional Love, no thanks It's like you didn't read what I wrote. Everybody wants something in a relationship Of course they do. It becomes unconditional when you are not dependent on that relationship for getting that something. In my marriage my 'this' was affection. Let me guess - you didn't get affection from anywhere else. That's the definition of scarcity - the only source of resource - and makes you dependent on marriage for getting affection, thus making it conditional. There's two ways to be independent of someo…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 05:35 PM
2	Unconditional Love, no thanks My current understanding of that verse is "wish them well", while most people seem to understand it as "think of them only good and expect only good from them", which is bull. I'd prefer "love your neighbor like your child", that is you wish him well and strive to make best of your relationship, but you also expect him to misbehave, lie to you and manipulate you, and you're ready to set him straight.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 04:29 PM
1	Unconditional Love, no thanks "Shaping" them comes dangerously close to living vicariously through them, but that aside parental love is most easily understandable example of it, yes. Like previously said, unconditional love means that you value relationship more than any external benefits you get from it (status, money, access to people and resources). That is, there's no dependencies. And parents are usually not dependent on child, so parental love is unconditional. Things get really fucked up when that's not the case - li…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 04:13 PM
5	Unconditional Love, no thanks Yeah, it's mostly semantics problem. Needs a better name. It's supposed to mean that you love them even when you don't gain anything from that (like status, money, access to people and resources) except their company and relationship itself. And when you stop loving them, nothing stops you from leaving. Unconditional doesn't mean eternal.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 03:59 PM
0	Unconditional Love, no thanks It's contingent on wishing the object well. I guess if someone actually wants to be lazy fatass (as per OP's examples) while fully accepting all the drawbacks, unconditional love wouldn't try to change that. It's just not the case with most people.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 02:26 PM
17	Unconditional Love, no thanks It's like you didn't even read the article. what grandmothers feel for fat whiney grandchildren No, that's conditional - makes grandma feel good to pamper the child. Unconditonal love is teaching child manners, nutrition and fitness so that shit never happens again. Conditional is punishing child for mistake, unconditional is punishment AND teaching them the right way. What's called RP parenting around here. Put on a few pounds, she still loves me AND points out your weight gain and helps you to…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 12:12 PM
2	Why do a small percentage of people I've barely met absolutely hate me? (Male & Female) I think /u/Ozymando_ is right, and funnily, him describing himself as very social plays in it even better. If you read Gervais Principle, there is a subset of people who can understand powertalk (double meanings) or at least notice it, but can't use it and usually hate it for being dishonest and manipulative. I think it's more of a spectrum. You need to be manipulator of the same or higher level to catch and counteract another manipulator. For example, that one time a woman conducting job interv…	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/16 07:42 AM
0	Stoicism 101: A Primer on How to Be He/she should instead be happy and not put any value into being raped, right? No, that person should stop being unhappy because it won't change jack shit and will just prolong pain and misery. It comes to what you can change and what you can't. If it already happened, you can't change it and there's no point in being unhappy about it. If you couldn't stop it or prevent it, you did nothing wrong and shouldn't prolong your misery. If you could, though, than being unhappy is your fault, yes. You sh…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/15 09:04 AM