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This post describes Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:42 AM
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If it was 20 years ago, I'd be DMing you right now, but that time in my life has passed. I know a few of these and they are terrific dads. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:30 AM
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As an educated woman who worked in IT, but had blue collar hobbies. I admire people who can make stuff. I'd never be attracted to someone like him. I'd take the garbage man any day of the week. In fact one of the best men I know has spent 30 years as a garbage man. He's not less than me for what he did in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:36 PM
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Yes, this post seemed pointlessly gendered. Many people are just selfish today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:21 PM
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I think this is true of a lot of different kinds of abusers. If they couldn't hide it, they couldn't get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:28 PM
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This is true in my experience. Back early in my career, I was a financial regulator. I'm 5'0, my male coworker was 6'2". He got in trouble for raising his voice and standing up during a confrontation at a meeting- saying he was being threatening. I thought it was BS because he wouldn't hurt a fly. When we were discussing this I said, "Dude, they never get mad at me about that because at my height, they don't even notice when I stand up." I'm the same height either way. The reality is they took m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:07 PM
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I want wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:51 AM
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LOL-Chinos are post-gendered. So are Jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:42 AM
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I think you nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:44 PM
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Thankfully the Dobbs decision triggered menopause in me. If it hadn't, this post would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:25 AM
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It sounds like a gender flip to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:29 AM
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I thought the sub had banned AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:01 AM
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Came here to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:10 PM
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You made a whole post about it. So far no one cares. I join their sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:46 PM
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Sorry to interrupt. I just wanted to add I was born in '75, so I hit the sweet spot. Born with banking and abortion rights, but now we've lost one. That depresses the hell out of me and lets me know the battle is never over. I do think women are driven to do more because they finally can, where men always could- so it's not novel to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:54 PM
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Growing up my mom always reminded me I was fat and men don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:20 PM
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When I read the comments here, I imagine women dragging men to a convenience store or a bank, so they can compare them to the height chart near the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:36 PM
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I do wish this was a spell we could cast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:02 PM
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That sounds normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:59 PM
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LOL- In that case I'd probably let him have a pass for being magic or something to pull that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:38 PM
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LOL- You're correct on the car thing, not so sure about the single mom thing. I just don't know if my achy knee could hold out in the backseat of the car anymore. Flexibility is a gift to the young. Before someone comes at me- yeah, I know I need to do something to improve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:02 PM
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I agree with you and think your girlfriend is nuts. It is highly reasonable for no man to risk his safety on a woman's behalf. Call the police if that's needed, but that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:10 AM
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I'm sorry that you're in that situation. I wish you and your wife the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:57 PM
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I believe you. I was going to guess periods add a lot to it. I also wonder if women's bathrooms are dirtier because more kids use them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:25 AM
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I tend to recommend people listen to Kinky Sex Makes the World Go Round by the Dead Kennedys. It's a fake telephone call between UK and US about making more money for the military industrial complex and getting rid of protesters in one fell swoop. Start another war. It's pretty old, but its good. That's what I always think the elites/government will go to stop people from complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:03 PM
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Somebody has to fix the crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:39 AM
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Totally agree. Some of my friends like that were MEN. Sounds like yours were too. Men, I had never slept with. I'm just anticipating what I expect someone to throw in my face. Friendship rocks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:35 AM
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Wow. You must be Wonder Woman. At least I was a vaginal birth, plus school was almost out. Take my upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:44 AM
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I'm happy for you. You seem to get it and you got a friend too!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:04 AM
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Yep. My mom had me on Friday night and was back in the classroom Monday to give exams. I'm not advocating for that, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:01 AM
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I was going to say I'm gonna stick to Taco Tuesdays, but then I'll get called a Lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:10 AM
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That's most teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:51 PM
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That's why I think it's funny when the financial abortion thing is brought up here. It seems to be the same guys that are still virgins bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:46 PM
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I actually agree too and have been in the situation before. The guy ghosted while I needed to make the decision. That left the decision, cost and everything on me. I chose abortion because I could/would not raise a kid without help. I just don't usually comment when that topic comes up because I know I would never have had a baby without the man being for it. I just don't feel like I can make other peoples decisions for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:41 PM
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"I wonder why people ALWAYS try to pretend the sperm is a tiny baby that grows and ignore the egg" Because before they understood how pregnancy happened, they assumed the man carried the ingredient and the woman just carried it. That is because they thought men were the pinnacle of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:28 PM
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In the US, the Hyde amendment prevents using Federal funds for abortion, so this does not happen on the Federal level and sure as hell not on the red state level where women can't even get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:08 PM
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I partially agree with you in that the men who made them should pick up the tab. But as a childless person, I don't like dumb people much- so I'm happy to pay to educate the next generation and try to set them up for success. If we get to pick what our taxes to, I want to block contracts for billionaires and the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:05 PM
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I won't know you're a virgin unless you tell me. I don't judge people by relationship status. A lot of luck is involved in outcomes. I've lived my life without getting married and provided for myself. I didn't particularly want to get married and have commitment issues myself. The basic issue is you believe a lot of myths. Plus not all women want the same thing or think the same way. Just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:31 PM
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I agree we really need to do more to knock down strict gender roles for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:31 PM
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And not all women have wombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:07 PM
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The story of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:09 PM
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I would try the psychedelics first. I had a traumatic experience and in the years after did shrooms with my friends. I swear that's the reason I'm still alive and the trauma didn't eat me alive. I imagine done in a clinical setting, it would be more effective that getting F'ued up in the woods like I did. Good luck to you though. Brain chemistry is a helluva thing and a problem to a lot of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:49 AM
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Personally, I'm a sucker for those two things together. I get a little embarrassed of myself when my hands are rougher than the guys. No hate on guys that don't fix stuff, but I have little in common with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:38 AM
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Yeah, I never claimed to have any kind of detector. I don't even have working gay-dar, since most of the men I am attracted to turn out to be gay. I don't ever assume unless they tell me or I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:12 AM
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I have a decent attention span, but there is no way I was making it through that novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:45 PM
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I think I must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:14 PM
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I don't see the crazy tik-tok women because I'm not on TT, but also that's not my algorithm. I do not doubt they exist and I condemn them. I think the crazy people on both sides of the gender wars have done a lot of damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:18 PM
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This. I'm all for a right of passage into adulthood, but it shouldn't be tied to puberty since that happens at different times for everyone and is creepy ASF. I think it would further stigmatize late bloomers to tie it to actual puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:07 PM
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I think you want it more than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:01 AM
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What I wanted too. Handsome wasn't required.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:58 AM
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I'm a Gen X woman who used to have social skills, but COVID killed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:40 PM
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House of the Dragon had the princess basically rape a Kingsguard or at least that's how many feel about it. Also this season on Law & Order SVU, they had a lot more female perpetrators. I think maybe media is catching up. My sister watched that Anora movie and told me about it. It was so gross, I wasn't watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:31 PM
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I wore it because I had a professional job and it was seen as a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:40 AM
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A lot of the cause is mental or at least for me it was. Guy couldn't help that. I had to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:33 AM
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Yep- my parents were teachers. They wouldn't let me not take school seriously and since we only had one high school, they were always there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:17 AM
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That made me laugh, but damn, you think I'm Black Widow? All it takes is the ability to over power. I'll give you an upvote because the laugh was worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:15 PM
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They've got a long way to go. My southern accent is what I call voice encryption, since VR can't seem to understand me. I find myself screaming human! at the voice prompts after it's sent me to the wrong place again. Your comment has me imaging people screaming Chatbot! any time a live human approached them. Like I do to the AI. It was a funny thought. We will probably get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:20 PM
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I'm with OP, except the sci-fi fantasy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:15 PM
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Since that was almost always with a friend (not just some stranger), yep. My friends were nerds too. I would have been too self conscientious with a jock. Wouldn't have been fun for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:50 PM
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I would have always picked a nerd over a jock. Still do if I was picking. That's probably because I am a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:09 PM
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So that's why Bezo's new wife is only 6 years younger than him? Or is he not a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:07 PM
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Old is relative. In the real world, I'm not old- but in PPD- I'm ancient. She shot Warhol many years before I was born. Gloria Steinem is still around and has been my whole life. I also do not claim to be a feminist scholar. I just believe in women's rights. I really haven't done the reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:55 PM
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My grandma met my grandpa in the 30's. She didn't get her families approval. She didn't even tell them she was getting married. My parents in the 60's the same- except my grandparents hosted the wedding. Me in the 90's- I never asked for their approval. When I was a teenager, I'd probably go out of my way to pick someone they didn't approve of. My dad would have never thought anyone was good enough, he definitely didn't think my brother in law was. He was wrong and a horrible judge of character.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:45 PM
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Yep- as soon as I went through puberty and got boobs, I was a "slut" didn't matter what I actually did or that I was 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:58 PM
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Cat door. Then you both can relax. Until you have to catch the non-cat critter that came in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:52 PM
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He isn't conservative and never was. Now his whole cabinet licks his ass and is Fox News.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:16 PM
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I had never heard of her until American Horror Story used her in an episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:13 PM
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The gun can easily be taken away from you and used against you. Personally, when I had chosen the bear- I had just had an edible and I was thinking of Ted or Yogi.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:05 PM
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I think it's the same way he seems to think men are just thrown in jail for someone making a rape accusation. Like no trial exists. No one should be unchallenged, men or women- but that is what the court system exists for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:26 PM
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Thank you for bringing up the testosterone thing. As a woman who had PMDD before menopause, the only emotion that I had when I was having an "episode" was rage. I wanted to knock the shit out of someone. But like many men do, I contained it. It would last about 10 seconds and pass. Never acted on it. It's gone now with menopause. As for the rest of the OP- If women had been believed, we wouldn't have had to have MeToo. The whole post is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:06 PM
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I learned what it meant a couple of weeks ago when I kept seeing it on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:32 AM
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Same. Also desperation isn't a good look on anyone regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:39 PM
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Same. Being dependent on someone else scares the hell out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:40 PM
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And now we have the ability to get a female driver. Wonder why that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:32 PM
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Sounds like my mom, except she hadn't come around- just passed away young freeing me from that mindset. My grandma was always fully behind me doing whatever I wanted. I do think men (a lot, not all) are stuck in tradition more than they think about what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:50 PM
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To me this should apply to all people regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:31 AM
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The outcome is similar. Is there a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:54 PM
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I think you put this perfectly. Thank you for the insight. That makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:45 PM
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To me this is the biggest problem we have. We need to help men find a new purpose beyond that. I'm not sure what we can do to help that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:39 PM
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Legal changes are one thing. Society takes a lot longer. I'm 51 and I've had experiences personally with some of the old school crap, so it's really not that long ago. The law had changed to give me opportunities, but society wasn't so sure about that yet. So it was still very hard. I always think it's funny how we relate history to our own history. I felt like you somewhat about the Civil Rights movement that took place a decade before I was born. when I was your age, it seemed like it was anci…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:36 PM
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Good for your mom. We did put my dad in a home where he eventually died. Yep, my sister and I did that too when he insisted on firing his caretaker and his girlfriend left because she noped out of. Good plan. I know with my mom it was that she felt like having a family was what she was supposed to do, no matter what it took to get it. She tried imposing that on me, so while I missed her terribly when she passed- I was so relieved to be released from that burden. It improved my life greatly. Turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:31 PM
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Yes, my dad was turd and I learned a lot from that. I learned I wasn't going to put up with it and if she would have lived, she would have divorced. People in my family don't divorce and I'm sure that is what was going on in my mom's head. His girlfriend had picked an even worse man before who was abusive, so the fact that he wasn't that- she thought he was a catch. She eventually realized he wasn't. This is how things used to be and I'm glad they changed. I don't deny that people make bad choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:17 PM
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"You weren’t there so assumptions can be made. And I think a lot of men were fathers. Did some cheat on their spouse? Absolutely. These were the same men that paid all the bills and provided though." This is what you said in another comment. I was responding to this. Since I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:07 PM
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That is BS. I watched my dad do all of the things the OP said, never help, cheat, etc. My mom worked full time too and still got stuck with EVERYTHING else. When she died, he immediately moved his girlfriend in so SHE could do all the work with no help or compensation. Even as a kid, I had more responsibility than him. He relied on me to fix his F ups, even as a teenager. He always had way less responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:25 PM
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Don't forget Helen of Troy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:48 PM
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The fact that they will put so much time and effort into that rather than 1/2 the housework and being a decent person is hilarious to me. Even in this fantasy, Rosie the robot raises the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:04 PM
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I made plenty of money. If I could have found a guy willing to be the stay at home parent, I would have more likely tried it. I was not working myself to death like my mom did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:01 PM
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You guys have me all so terrified of the apps, I've been waiting to join the old folks app- hoping it would be better. I'm old enough for that now- but still terrified. Maybe I'll keep waiting for the old folks home. Lots of sex there LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:53 PM
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Totally agree. Which is one of the reasons I quit looking. If I stumble across someone great, but I'm good by myself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:51 PM
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There not free, you got paid for them just like women with jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:13 PM
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I've enjoyed reading your convo and I think you are both right. I'm older and have been SHOCKED that younger men seemed interested in me, so they are interested- or some are. I do think all of the hateful rhetoric we all read turns us ALL off, for a very good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:02 AM
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You're talking out of both sides of your mouth. Less women give birth now and more men talk paternity leave. There is no guarantee based on sex who will take more leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:01 AM
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Now that's what I call useful! That is what I would appreciate far more than money. On the OP- Before I retired, I was a high earning woman. I knew more stay at home dads than moms and none of the women I knew from work had a mate that out earned them. Among my guy friends it was about 50/50 of who earned more in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:31 PM
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When this subject comes up over at the natalism sub, I recommended building a robot for changing diapers instead. That way it can take care of the elderly and babies, since there is always so much hand wringing about future elder care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:28 PM
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LOL- The men on this sub seem divided into the ones that want to be able to abandon their kid vs. ones that want robots to raise them. It's very confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:22 PM
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And if the robot is doing chores, cooking, cleaning, etc, just as many women would get those. Who doesn't want a maid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:51 PM
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I am straight and have never had any sexual contact with a woman. After reading this post and the mens responses, I am finally considering lesbiansm after 50 years!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:19 AM
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If you just read the first part, its easy to agree. Then he adds that bombshell that flips the meaning entirely. If it hadn't been bolded when I read it, might have missed it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:48 PM
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Just an analogy I know, but most of the blue collar men I know are in relationships. I get that because they work with other men mostly they wouldn't be dating them- but they find women somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:39 PM
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I worked in a government job for almost 30 years. Half the people were dating the other half or were married to them. Wasn't really an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:37 PM
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I think people use the phone as a shield to keep people away. I'm old, didn't grow up with a phone and I find MYSELF doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:16 PM
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Where I worked for almost 30 years, probably half the people were involved with the other half. The only time we had a problem was when two people got together in an affair that ended up breaking up their marriage. The spouse of one of the people was related to a subordinate of the other person. All that happened there was that person got assigned to a different supervisor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:41 PM
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That's a MRA I could absolutely support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:41 PM
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I agree. I don't claim to understand any of this pill nonsense (I'm old), but I do see people arguing about what is red pill and what isn't on these threads all the time. Something about a side bar, new red pill, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:54 PM
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Makes me glad I always paid for myself since I guess we're vending machines now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:41 AM
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And that questioning in itself can lead to someone dumping you for being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:35 AM
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I didn't say it was good. I said it wasn't a biological necessity. And there have always been women who couldn't breastfeed for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:42 PM
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I don't feel like it's a good deal for anyone. Women have the financial risks everyone talks about, but I think putting all your eggs in one basket is RISKY. I think the stress of the situation on the man is higher than people think about. That is a lot of pressure to put on someone, especially in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:23 PM
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Formula exists. Women die in childbirth. While it is probably best for the woman to stay with the child, it's not a biological necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:54 PM
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LOL- are you my sister? My dad didn't have friends either and it was probably his narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:11 PM
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When I chose the bear, I was thinking about an animated bear- like Yogi or Ted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:25 PM
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I'm Gen X and as a teenager most of my friends were guys because I had trust issues with girls. Those guy groups had great, intimate friendships. I learned how to have better relationships with other women from those men and eventually improved on both. This seems to be a newer issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:12 PM
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At least you're honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:00 PM
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Anything but human really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:59 PM
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Yeah, but existential threats can really speed that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:02 PM
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Well they're invisible to him, so probably why he ignores it. I do absolutely agree with you that there is more to life and not having someone as either sex doesn't make you a loser. Being a loser makes you a loser, that also is regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:14 AM
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There are hormonal differences between women/women. When I was younger I had PCOS/high androgens and a high sex drive. After menopause- I'm pretty sure I'm asexual now. Anyway most women are turned on in different ways than visually, or at least I never was very visual about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:42 PM
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I know I'm something, but never diagnosed and too old to care now. I've just always been called "weird". Mental illness and neurodivergence were just called "That kid ain't right" when I was growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:07 PM
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Couldn't you argue Maury Povich was helping men by proclaiming "You are not the father!". Really, even at the time Trash TV was just Trash TV- it wasn't some high brow thing. They have whole documentaries about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:57 PM
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Don't forget Springer! I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:54 PM
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Equal credit rights, they couldn't deny women credit cards for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:52 PM
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Your algorithm sucks. I never see that stuff. If I went by what I saw I would just think all men hate women, but luckily I'm old and I know that's not true. I can understand how if they don't know better and they see this stuff and if they've had bad personal experiences, it can color your view. Baseline is I think men have a right to feel how they do, just as anyone does. I just wish they realized what is rage bait a little more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:37 PM
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You only need that much ammo if your a bad shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:46 PM
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Existing, passively gets attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:20 AM
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When I was 16 I would go with friends to night clubs that served alcohol to see bands. I couldn't buy alcohol, but they let underage people in. People also went to the non-alcohol "underage" clubs to dance and hang out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:12 AM
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I've never been asked my body count in my life. I am old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:45 PM
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2 things can be true at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:19 PM
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Nailed it!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:55 PM
2

That is what the comments on this thread read like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:56 AM
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There is just always that one person who acts crazy or ruins the thing for everyone, but I try to remember they don't really represent the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:31 AM
1

I did enjoy reading your exchange. I admit he is entertaining and I really hope is playing a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:30 PM
1

I had made a deal like that years ago with my male best friend. He found someone though. Being bi- he had twice the options. I'm happy for him. I'm going to go looking for more friends because that's what I need. I've already chosen the "don't date" option 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:52 PM
1

I keep forgetting about my own birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:52 PM
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It applies to ALL punch bowls and has nothing to do with gender or skin color. Point is there are terrible people of all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:20 PM
-7

One turd ruins the whole punch bowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:42 AM
1

You mean like he couldn't just say the first part about men, without adding the part about women? I agree with the first part. Sometimes it can be something wrong with a person- more often it's just a matter of luck. The second part seems unnecessary except to point out everything is a competition, which is par for the course in online discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:40 AM
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Exactly. Even if I was in bed with Chris Hemsworth/Henry Cavill and he suggested anal. I'd still leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:31 PM
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And yet that person that insists that women are the homosexual ones is posting daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:35 PM
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It does seem like they like to cuck themselves using their imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:21 PM
1

Which is why he needs an AI girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:55 AM
2

Do you not know him from here? He doesn't like consent as a function of partnership. He talks about it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:20 AM
1

Sadly that is when the tide seemed to turn- when they cost more to raise then you could earn from them. I can't really support that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:07 AM
1

Wow you waited until 7? I had an older sister, so I think it was about 5 for me. I was supposed to be with her. Wasn't all the time. I agree though. Bring back Free Range Parenting!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:55 AM
5

I'm American and I think the younger generations do better too. My Millennial neighbor had custody of his two girls and his ex wife owed him child support. My male cowokers are very involved dads. Compared to my upbringing, my parents were married, lived in the same house and my dad didn't travel. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for days. He sat in his room if he was home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:49 AM
5

I've said this in this sub many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:50 AM
4

I live in Florida, so I especially love the HVAC people!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:39 PM
9

Exactly. I LOVE tradesmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:35 PM
1

I just try to restrain myself, nod, ask relative questions. I probably start "Charlie Brown teachering" at some point and am just pretending to listen. I know I'm terrible. I find changing the subject is the best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:34 PM
14

Exactly. People hate whining for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:29 PM
6

Genuinely nice people don't do it to get anything out of it. If you have a tantrum for it not working for you, you're not really nice. Also anyone who thinks life is fair has been sold a huge pile of lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:15 PM
1

I would have had kids if I could have been the dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:09 PM
3

To prove this isn't a sex thing- my sister was like your brother. I always learned by example, so I didn't get smacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:41 PM
5

Well if you don't pay for them to eat, your killing them slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:48 AM
4

Tell that to the guys who want a financial abortion all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:58 AM
12

Really don't base your life off TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:34 AM
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Old Gen X woman, I know I'm not what your asking for. As someone who had some horrible experiences, I still love men (because I know it's not all men or even a large amount of them)- the ones I know and experience in real life. I think everyone is reading horrible crap about the opposite gender and it's really tainting your views. Add that to bad experiences and we wind up here. We need more real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:20 AM
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Every time someone disagrees with you, you say this. Put it bluntly. Women do not tend to approach relationships as who can get one up on the other. That is an immature approach to a relationship. Are there immature men and women? Yes. Us doing that or being upset that your not approaching is YOUR fantasy. If men stop approaching us, we tend to be relieved- not upset. If we want one, we'll go get him. Now I'm ready for you to say this somehow misrepresents what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:00 PM
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He only wants to hear his opinion parroted back to him. He's said this to anyone who doesn't agree. For OP- I don't care. If I wanted a man, I'd pursue him. Is that short and sweet enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:50 PM
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I wish I had an award for you. Loved your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:41 AM
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Wow. Then menopause hits and the old women agree with the men, problem solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:33 PM
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I totally agree that men have still been held hostage by past gender roles and we need to stop that. The world is changing and there is definitely no one formula for success and maybe will never be. I think society is still working this out. But men should be able to be who they are (standard disclaimer of I'm not saying be Bundy or Dalmer)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:23 PM
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I prefer a third world country cosplaying as a 1st world one. But yours fits too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:59 AM
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Those who idolize this idiot are pathetic. I hope they grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:09 PM
1

The mainstream coverage I saw was more of a warning for parents that their kids are watching this crap. I haven't seen anyone highlighting it and agreeing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:08 PM
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You mean like Henry the VIII who kept choosing bad wives and had to split from the Catholic church and execute many of his wives, just because he didn't "choose better" the first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:47 PM
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Don't worry. Most of the guys I know in that situation got alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:55 AM
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Since the only people I know who get child support and alimony are men, they are going to be pissed. Well not the child support, since she's (ex wife) a deadbeat already. I know antidotal and doesn't represent the world, but it is my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:48 AM
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Yep. I don't know the real answer, but I know the government and regulation aren't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:41 AM
0

Sadly those that can't distinguish a sex toy from a partner are detailing why they need a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:20 AM
2

And dildos are so much cheaper, don't crash, require a subscription and I don't have to talk to it later. Now if it could clean the house or cook me dinner, that could be worth it. Loved your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:00 AM
1

That could crash in some real compromising positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:54 AM
8

Yep- I had a high travel job before I retired. Kept me from having a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:14 PM
11

Same, but I love the kitties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:39 PM
2

I'm super short and I did used to have kind of a fetish for really tall guys. My theory was it was to give my kids a chance of not being a hobbit since height is usually an average of the parents. Luckily- I never had kids. I also dated a lot of shorter guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 PM
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Birds always really liked me. I guess that's proof I'm really a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:24 AM
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The venom of the Gila is the basis for GLP-1's. They didn't experiment on them, just took their venom. It slows the digestive system.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:21 AM
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I'm wondering if they ever had it without paying for it? It doesn't describe any encounter I ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:18 PM
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Absolutely agree. Men you matter on your own, as people. You are born with worth. This is my opinion. I'm not trying to start an argument with anyone. I just wanted you to hear it from someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:17 AM
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Nailed it. I cannot upvote you enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:31 AM
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I think it's because even girls don't want to be girl scouts. I know I didn't. They don't do neat things like the boy scouts did. It was more like a cookie selling mafia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:35 PM
3

I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:10 AM
5

Yes- it's because your explaining why your crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:10 AM
1

Everyone does this to everyone on this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:19 PM
3

Exactly, I don't care. Good luck with the passport endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:10 PM
3

I want to upvote you because I agreed until that last paragraph. As a woman, I also value being useful myself over looks. Maybe it's because I'm average at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:07 AM
10

You mean like all the guys that take credit for blue collar work when they don't do it and never have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:16 AM
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They think we're not told to improve or change because we're told so early in life, they don't know about it. That's my theory anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:05 AM
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We had a fire fighters credit union here that would have them get their coworkers as cosigners. It's because they knew that if the original person didn't pay and his buddies got garnished they'd beat the hell of of them at the next shift. I'm really hoping they got merged or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:58 PM
5

I have a higher opinion of men than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:14 PM
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I've heard him talk about it before. I don't think you really want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:12 PM
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Insecurity like this is incompatible with any healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:27 PM
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I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:21 PM
3

I totally get rehearsing conversations. I used to do that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:20 PM
3

Nah- unfortunately the Waymo's will drive the sex bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:43 PM
0

That sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:42 PM
2

I do. I doubt it will last past life's challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:41 AM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:57 PM
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So many people bitching at each other, reminds me I don't have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:19 PM
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I mainly lurk. I quit posting any advice because, yep- OP is correct I don't have any advice that's relevant because I'm old and single. I think I enjoy the arguing. Plus if I ever do feel lonely, this sub cures that real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:57 PM
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Yep, my single uncle left his house to his caretaker. I see no problem with that and it is partially my plan too. Ironically- this was almost the same outcome as my dad's mother. She had kids and was widowed. She had an invalid kid she still took care of into her 70's. Her house was still sold and she was put in a home. Having a family didn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:54 PM
3

But your OK making a woman have an abortion? What kind of procedure do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:14 PM
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I had really bad PMDD and PCOS. They wouldn't even entertain it before I was in my 40's. Thankfully menopause took care of it, since DR's wouldn't. Birth control pills helped keep me single because they turned me into a raging harpy and caused weight gain each time I switched pills. I guess that's how they controlled birth :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:45 AM
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The average American woman is a 14, so you never even got up to that size and you saw the treatment. If we interpolate like guys do about the 80/20 crap- men aren't interested in even average women, they'd be too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:40 PM
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I like to go on the bald thread and praise the guys who finally shaved the comb over off. I always hear on here how men never get compliments, so I go give some. Costs me nothing, but hopefully they get a smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:26 PM
2

Totally agree with you and I can't upvote enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:26 AM
6

I am and I'm still breathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:59 PM
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And safety nets...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:51 AM
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Don't forget, he says he's married too. Wonder how his wife feels about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:12 PM
5

I've never been serenaded either- on any date and I'm thankful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:02 PM
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In some ways yes, others no. I was primarily thinking about economically. I do think they are economically worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:45 PM
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I think it is because I think the gender wars are a psyop pushed by social media algorithms. Those algorithms are created by the rich to keep us arguing with each other and to ignore who the real enemy is- the uber rich. We are being Baron Zemo'd into fighting against each other. Young people today face a helluva world in general. If just surviving takes all of your energy, when do you have time or energy for anything else? You don't- signed an old person who feels very sorry for all younger peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:38 PM
2

When I was a teenager, I got some into some spats with other girls that led me not to trust them, so most of my friends in high school were guys. It took me a long time to generally trust women again, but I'm glad I did. I got some great deep friendships with women after that and my friend group became more balanced. My guy friends are still important and I'm probably closer to a lot of them then the women I'm friends with. I think this is also because I like to design and build things and more …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:29 PM
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Right now with the jobs situation, I think any young people who go into the trades are smart. I agree more people should be encouraged to. I'm single, childless and the genetic dead end of my family. I don't regret that, but it does leave me wondering where to leave any assets I have when my sister and I are gone. One of the ideas I had was to fund a scholarship. I wanted to name it for my mom who was a teacher and who really liked helping at risk kids and for my brother in law who was an at ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:46 PM
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Only if they are willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:29 PM
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I think you have the question of the day!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:16 AM
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With Kegsbreath wanting to kick out all of the women who volunteered for the military, I don't support drafting women too. If they won't let you volunteer to serve they have no business forcing it. Overall I'm for eliminating the draft or making it gender neutral, but not with this dumbass dude leading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:44 PM
2

Yep- I'd rather rip the sink out than clean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:37 PM
1

Yep, My great-great grandpa left his family to start a new one. It PO'd my great grandpa (his son) so badly he changed his last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:26 PM
4

I haven't had sex with another person for 13 years. Doesn't bother me. I even had to think about how long it's been. My sister has been longer- since her husband died. I get that I maybe asexual at this point, but I don't think we both are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:17 PM
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Yeah, I don't get why anyone would be with someone they looked down on. I also think looking up is normal on both sides too. Shouldn't your partner have something you admire about them? If they don't, are you sure you really like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:45 PM
2

I've enjoyed a passionate disagreement many times before. Sometimes I even change my mind and admit I was wrong. I'd don't like arguing. I try not to do it. It's not the same thing, but it can turn into it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:58 AM
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I think you may have just answered your own question with that last paragraph there. Remember, even women can be misogynist. Other than that- sorry about your experience at the DMV. That would have sucked regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:07 AM
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This is an excellent point. I also can't help the OP because I've never heard that. I think anyone is free to argue with anyone- though I agree with you that it's pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:00 AM
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Feminism gave me those choices. Women didn't have them before. On "Believe Women" here is a snip from Wikipedia- "Believe all women" is a controversial alternative phrasing of the expression. Monica Hesse writing for The Washington Post argues that the slogan has always been "believe women", and that the "believe all women" variant is "a bit of grammatical gaslighting", a straw man invented by critics so that it could be attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:36 PM
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OK, so should the cops believe her? I think we may not be as far apart as it seems. I don't think anyone should be considered guilty unless it was done in court because of damage to reputation. I think that is what you are saying here too. My problem is the police often won't even investigate to even let it get to a court. That's the point I seem to be failing at making.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:47 PM
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I will. Bury those women under the prison along with all other rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:42 PM
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So if you know who raped you and you name them that is a reason not to believe them? As the other commentors pointed out, evidence is the hard part and that is why the conviction rate is so low. That said, I'm not for lowering the standard of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:35 PM
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No, feminism empowered me to choose how I want to live my life. I can get any job I'm capable or and I wasn't forced to get married and have kids. It didn't make me fear or hate men, because I don't. Amber and Johnny were mutually combative and deserved each other. I won't defend her or hate on Sydney. I must be off the hive mind meeting list, because I don't get the updates. Believe women doesn't mean blindly believe them and throw a dude in jail. It means take the accusation seriously and inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:30 PM
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I'm so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:50 PM
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Exactly. Women like to pretend like it's effortless. It's not. Most really good looking women put a lot of effort into it even if they don't acknowledge it. But for men, I didn't used to like beards. I have gotten over that and have become very impressed with how a well groomed beard can enhance a man's face. Men are coming along with the self care, or at least some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:53 AM
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I think this is a young man's problem. I'm Gen X and had male friends I loved and who loved me. They loved each other too. We were all genuinely interested in each others well being. The way this has become is just sad. I guess it could also just be the world today, but it's a lost art we need to regain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:42 AM
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They are and they also put a lot of work into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:34 AM
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Based on your example in your OP- do you think they inject boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:32 AM
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I saw this thread on Ask Feminism and I skipped it. Why? This is as ridiculous as all the idiots that claim Jenny is the villain in Forest Gump. There wasn't a villain in Forest Gump. In the first Shrek, Fiona has a very traditional view of getting the typical prince charming to the point of planning to marry Lord Farquat- who was no catch except for a title. Why aren't you bringing up his height? But during the journey she learns a lot about accepting herself and falls for Shrek. Turning into a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:09 PM
4

Now that is funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:55 PM
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You're remembering incorrectly. Fiona as the leader who freed herself from the tower and led the resistance was very feminist. Shrek in the end says Fiona rescued him, not the other way around. That is my favorite Shrek movie. I relate to that Fiona because realizing that waiting for someone to "rescue me" was pointless. You want something done, do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:55 PM
2

I'm also happy Brendan Fraser is coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:49 AM
3

The thing I learned that made me happier than anything else was there will always be someone richer, smarter and prettier than me. It doesn't diminish who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:48 AM
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I had to quit guitar at 14 because my mid 30's teacher kept trying to date me. At 13 I had a 30 year old try to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:36 PM
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I think it's called "Negging" and it's meant to knock women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:29 PM
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When you have to put that much effort in pretending to be someone else like OP, it is a lot of labor. It's also not sustainable and will always fail. Having confidence isn't taxing, pretending you do is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:29 AM
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What you described is meat market shopping. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:01 AM
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That's what I come here for. Reliable craziness. I just honestly hope most of it is rage bait and people aren't really like a lot of these posts- and that is both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:20 PM
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I'm too old for you, but I feel the same way and would like a relationship like that. I think a lot of people do. I even had a shrink who lived like that. I'm too old and set in my ways to change and I didn't want to either. Best of luck my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:12 PM
2

That means women get to pay for the deadbeats twice, both as a mother stuck with the bill and the taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:19 PM
3

This is just antidotal, but I had PCOS which caused high androgen levels most of my life. I had a pretty high sex drive back then. Maybe it was the androgens, maybe it was my age. Since menopause has kicked in, I think I'm asexual now. I won't swear I know which hormones caused what things, but I definitely feel a lack of hormones now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:56 PM
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Don't do that. My dad would never fart in front of anyone. He died pretty early of abdominal cancer. I'm not really being funny here. Let it rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:46 AM
3

That obsession and sense of worth is completely self-dictated. You are making a slave of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:16 PM
4

So that is why the King left the Kingdom to the Queen right? Why the lords property went to his wife if they had no heirs instead of the next oldest male heir? Yep, that didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:18 PM
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I am your twin. Me being alone is proof- I love men. It's not because they suck, it's because I do and I'm happy just acknowledging that and have no desire to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:54 PM
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Just to add, a guy I knew (great guy) just past away and they didn't find him for a few days either. He had a wife, kids and grandkids. It just happened when his wife was in the hospital. The reality is death is something we all face alone in the end, regardless of your previous circumstances in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:49 PM
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I called them a turd. I'm not sure what else I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:24 PM
0

So they are Leonard or Howard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:41 PM
0

So how do men get raped? Before you jump on me, I believe men can be raped and sometimes the PP does things you don't agree with and that's how male rape happens. It's attraction to the idea of sex, not the person your with. That's my theory anyway. But since I don't have a dick- it's not a well informed opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:39 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen this. If you have, it's probably somebody making up fake crap to sell something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:21 PM
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My college roommate did, but that is the ONLY person who I know did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:14 PM
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We wanted a "Chicken in Every Pot". We wound up with a "Turd in Every Punchbowl". Women who say that are the Turd in our punchbowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:39 PM
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Yep- I know a lot of men whose company I greatly enjoy also.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:13 PM
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^This. I don't find women sexually alluring to me because I'm straight, but I think the female form is better looking than the male one. When I see a woman with a nice figure, I mostly think I wish mine looked that good. It doesn't make me a lesbian. I have also never watched lesbian porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:21 PM
9

Ya'll forgot to invite me again!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:13 PM
2

It wasn't in public or a stranger, but here it is. I was hanging out with my friends and one of them who have a fiancé in England was coming on to me. I mentioned her. His response was "My heart may be in England, but unfortunately the rest of me is here.". I give him points for honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:38 AM
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I own more tools than most men. If you need hours tinkering- google it, you tube! I doubt you've ever done anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:04 AM
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Hi- signed your 50 year old co-lurker here. Thanks for explaining the Chad. I spend a lot of time here confused because I don't feel like I've ever actually met a "Chad". I think you explained why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:52 PM
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Remarrying doesn't count as moving on? Way to yeet those goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:32 AM
3

It's comments like this that make me think "womb envy" might be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:11 PM
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One of my best relationships was like this. We just hung out every day and enjoyed each other. A couple of times we did hook up- we were usually drunk when that happened. I didn't even realize it was a relationship until circumstances tore it apart. He moved. I graduated college and got a job. When we spoke again- we realized we were in love with each other and really wanted to get back to each other. Life unfortunately didn't work out that way. He was a terrific guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:03 PM
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So we're supposed to appreciate that you are basically calling us children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:31 PM
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I couldn't respect a married man who cheated on his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:47 PM
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Yes. Even now that I'm retired.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:09 AM
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Yep and don't forget makeup (ancient Egypt) and dresses/skirts (kilts, tunics).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:52 AM
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Exactly. Often they come across as more masculine because they lack the insecurity that someone who bases their self-worth on romantic success tends to have. I don't judge a man's masculinity by his relationship status. I probably don't even know it most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:46 AM
6

They are just very loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:08 PM
15

I'm sorry that happened to you. What an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:34 PM
2

I think that is excellent advice for anyone guy or girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:12 AM
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Same and when I joke to my guy friends that "damn, I need to find me a man- I'm tired of doing yard work". He'd say, "What makes you think they are going to do it". Realized he was right and kept my tools to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:05 PM
4

I've asked before too and never gotten an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:55 PM
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That is exactly why I have decided to quit trying to empathize with them. I get shat on every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:36 PM
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Exactly. Sounds somewhat like my dad was. I know it impacted how I saw relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:02 AM
2

That's SO COOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:44 PM
0

I love ancient history. The tech stuff is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:41 PM
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I absolutely agree. It can also help rejection hurt less because you can think of it as her loss, not dwell and move on. Insecurity breeds all kinds of bad feelings but it increases desperation. Desperation isn't a good look regardless of gender. Humans have value. They need to see it in themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:23 PM
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This is something I could never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:00 PM
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Southern woman here and you're right. It is genderless on the receiving end though- we're that way to men too. If your afraid of being rude, just smile and change the subject. You know the old saying, if you can't say anything good, don't say anything at all. I'm old and maybe this is dying out- probably should. We do have the saying "Bless your heart" for a reason and it's not religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:56 PM
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I have always struggled with my weight. When I was smaller, guys would regularly pick me up and kind of man handle me. Every day in 11th grade this big tall dude would pick me up when I came to class and refuse to put me down. When the teacher demanded, he put me on her desk. Later, when I'd try to say I wasn't interested- I had guys literally try to cave man me back to their room. Luckily I'm pretty squirmy and got away when they couldn't get in the door with me kicking while thrown over their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:07 PM
7

I always find it amazing that almost nothing in your head is covered- eyes, ears and teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:11 PM
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Especially if they don't know their bra size.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:00 PM
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I'd always said I would have had kids if I could be the dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:50 PM
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With his porn brain, yes- he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:57 PM
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Freaknomics made this correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:52 PM
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Fellow 5'0" and feel the same way. Even the couple of guys I can think of shorter than me are Warwick Davis and Peter Dinklage. They can do WAY better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:13 PM
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I've been surprised how mine did too. I now find middle age bald men ADORABLE. Young guys seem like kids to me now. I'm too old for that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:11 PM
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I think you nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:06 PM
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LOL- typo. I meant romanticized. I really need to clean this keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:25 PM
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I guess you have never seen a racist refuse care from a nurse or DR who is a POC.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:23 PM
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Didn't say it was. It's romanization of Vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:12 PM
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They act like women romanticizing vampires is new. Twilight was a thing. Before that, Ann Rice books were a thing. Probably goes all the way back to Bram Stoker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:23 PM
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Maybe he's that congressman who thought women could swallow a small camera to look at the fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:19 PM
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Maybe for you. I would be the one talking to the crew if he wasn't comfortable. We're not a monolith, I like shy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:11 AM
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Let them bitch. If it upsets them, they should step up their game- like we tell guys to do. I firmly believe men should decenter women to improve their happiness and yes, it would increase their power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:32 PM
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Even though I'm not a man, I think this is a great thing and hope it comes soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:13 PM
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Well since we're swapping anecdotes, I paid for the two house I own through my own earnings. All of my neighbors are also single women with one exception. They worked to own their houses also. I also know more single women homeowners than men, that also did it alone. I'm not saying my experience is any more relevant than yours. I'm just saying we all can have different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:58 PM
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Don't forget about medication interactions. Maybe you should ask if she's had antibiotics lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:13 AM
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Even as a straight woman, if it cooks and cleans- I'm getting one. I don't care about sex, maybe I can buy a lower level model.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:29 PM
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I think you need to watch the Lucy Liu bot episode of Futurama. It sounds exactly like your comment. It also explains the problem with your theory. Hint- people's likeness being used without their permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:27 PM
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And they want someone to agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:24 PM
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Damn, you ladies left me out of the meeting!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:14 PM
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You my friend have the patience of a saint. Take my upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:03 PM
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Same, my sister's like- why do you do that? I'm not telling anyone else. I'm weird enough, don't need to add to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:38 PM
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To add to this- also the men here who pedestalize women through benevolent sexism also do it because they think we're incompetent. That can make some of us really dislike it, cause one usually comes with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:41 PM
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You seriously have never seen someone give up a seat for an old or handicapped man? I'm a woman and have given up my seat for anyone who looked like they needed it more than me. I regularly hold doors for other people and I think everyone should refrain from hitting each other, but defending yourself is fine. My neighbors got into a serious argument one night that I was afraid was going to escalate. I invited the wife to my house for a little while to get them to cool down. I know the husband th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:36 PM
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I think part of the problem is men are kind of stuck in the past, especially as much as guys in here bring up the "protector and provider" thing here. Since women now have a choice and don't need those things as much anymore, they want someone who is an equal and complements their lifestyle. Many guys don't seem to get this message and are stuck with the old narrative. I do think society is partially responsible for this. The message was very focused on women moving forward, but there wasn't muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:34 PM
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Not going to argue with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:27 PM
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I was going to say this is pointlessly gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:22 PM
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Leave it to immigrants to do the job American's won't. Except Marla of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:22 PM
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Head to the r/Natalism sub. They cover that there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:58 AM
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Guess that makes it a double edged sword. Might make some women find some men unattractive, but I bet they'd be unwilling to have sex with some without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:33 PM
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Don't forget the promise to replace us with sex bots. I find it amazing the amount of effort guys will exert or put into just try to see us as equal humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:28 PM
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Police/Fire etc provide protection equally to men and women- families too. I don't know where you think single women get more from it. I've never had to interact with the police for anything except maybe a minor traffic accident/violation. They don't guard my house. Snake in my house- I have to get it out. Vicious dog in my yard, my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:38 PM
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Wait- I want food and laundry service too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:31 PM
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Now get it done in the same sentence and you'll have something :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:11 PM
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Absolutely agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:09 PM
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Yeah- no contraception, higher religious values, shaming and lack of showers leads me to think you are correct. I doubt there was more sex back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:29 PM
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I don't know, but it does nothing to help gender relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:00 PM
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Your comment reminds me of the line from Game of Thrones- A man who says he's king is no king.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:11 PM
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Absolutely. This exactly what I think has happened also.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:24 PM
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Exactly. His plan actually probably hurts men more than women. Investing this much rage into something destroys yourself more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:32 PM
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I know it's off topic, but give me Bucky Barnes over both of the any day of the week. Love him because he's not a hero, but more real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:36 PM
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Loved your last paragraph there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:30 PM
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Thanks for typing that out. I'm feeling lazy today. When I read this post I thought, Damn, I guess I always aspired to BE Chad. Maybe that's why I don't think I've ever met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:18 PM
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And our current "Secretary of War" would love to kick all the women volunteers out. So why would you add them to the draft when the volunteers are being kicked?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:12 PM
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Do any of you wonder why women choose to be single? If you do- read this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:31 AM
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I agree. Seems to me men can too and just have been able to for longer. I had a great to the 3rd grandpa who just left his family and started a new one in another state. Made his son so made he changed his last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:46 PM
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Yeah- I mentioned all the stay at home dad's I know and women who paid alimony to him in another comment. I'm sure what we see isn't reality or for some other reason he comes up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:43 PM
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Is a video game where they got this fictious world they live in? I have to admit, I have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:31 PM
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Naturally defaulting to gender roles does not happen generally. I know women who work and have their husbands stay home. Actually I know more stay at home dads than I know stay at home moms. I also know more women that had to pay alimony then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:28 PM
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I seem to live on the same planet with you because I've never seen one of these women either. I've also not seen the hypermasculine protector/providers doing dangerous jobs they are all talking about. My male coworker has the same risk of injury getting out of his chair and walking to the coffee pot that I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:44 PM
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You don't have to be very promiscuous to be exposed to HPV, which is why that vaccine has been a great thing. It also can cause throat cancer in men. You are being unnecessarily sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:43 PM
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I've noticed the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:35 PM
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Property taxes are mostly local and go to fund police, fire, schools and roads. Which one of those is a woman? Also there are more single women homeowners than men, 58% to 42% according to Pew, so which gender probably pays more property taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:27 PM
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Depends on the subject area and the person. Bottom line is there is no reason a job should be for a man or a woman. Someone who has the skills and abilities to do it- yes that is what matters. Gender shouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:12 PM
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If someone else does part of the work and you don't have to it benefits you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:08 PM
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Neither am I, I guess. So why are these boobs here? They don't mop or load the dishwasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:58 PM
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It makes us sound like we were born a Roomba instead of human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:53 PM
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As long as women get to pick which ones who get married. Then we'll use the "servants" to fund the government assistance for unmarried women that CelicnisGhost here was proposing to another commenter here to force women out of the workforce. Yes, it is as ridiculous as it sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:36 PM
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Women have been in the workforce forever. They were just limited in what jobs they could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:27 PM
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By doing work and providing skills and expertise- like all humans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:19 PM
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Good points. I too think we need to go back to free range kids. It does a lot for their confidence. It's a bubble wrapped world. We live in our own bubbles, with our own reality wrapped in bubble wrap to avoid any possible harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:16 PM
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I was indoctrinated to bat my eyelashes and act stupid too. I'm not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:50 PM
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Yes, look at how romantic people are about the 80's and 90's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:44 PM
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I've noticed that younger men seem more effected by this than like Gen X or Millennials. Is it because those guys knew actual people from the idealized era and Gen Z and lower don't or know less? I think younger women were feeling the same way about being a feminist too because they had never experienced the past, but the Roe rollback probably helped fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:34 PM
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I too am here for my rage bait rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:36 PM
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You are correct to avoid Shit Tests. No one who administers them should date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:21 PM
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Same. I've had dogs and other women help me, but never a man. Even with snakes in my house, the cats helped. Not a dude in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:53 PM
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And conservatives are more likely to be war hawks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:06 PM
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That is the internet way! I wouldn't expect anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:32 PM
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If they are like me they don't care. It's not likely to happen, so why anticipate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:39 PM
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Then that is her problem, she can be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:09 PM
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I agree with the guys above- must be some good drugs. Or if your mind goes here- maybe bad ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:09 PM
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I was wondering what it was. Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:08 PM
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I know I'm just one person, but I'm a feminist and I don't think most men would go for this either. Men are better than that. Ya'll have women you care about- family, friends, maybe a significant other or one you may want to be that. This post is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:07 PM
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Agreed. Especially on your last point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:59 PM
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You're exactly right. Those women are invisible. I used to be one. I do think we accept men have hardships. I keep the news on in the background way too much. My only saving grace is it isn't Fox. Nicolle Wallace regular brings it up and she's the only reason I know who Scott Galloway is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:17 PM
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Yeah you know medical- where you have to make split second decisions that hold a persons life in balance vs. a military grunt taking orders. I'm not sure this person knows what autonomy is. I have also not seen a lawyer wearing a body cam to make sure they follow procedures. But you know, I was just a little woman who made decisions that impacted an entire industry. So what do I know? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:56 AM
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At least yours was shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:46 AM
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Yeah I didn't make it through the whole thing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:09 AM
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How do you think trades have more autonomy? Also men and women do a lot of the same jobs now. What kind of jobs specifically for women are you talking about? Every job I ever had in my life had significant autonomy. Most of the time I was the one running the show, even as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:07 AM
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I really wish I knew the answer to this question also. I can say personally, I haven't had anyone ask when I was getting married or make cat lady jokes since around 2010. It seems to have drastically declined since the turn of the century. This of course is just my experience and maybe it was my age. I'm curious what others have observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:16 PM
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I didn't read it for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:59 PM
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No one should be in a relationship that doesn't benefit them in some way- regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:55 PM
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I am. The fact that I'd probably be a crappy partner weighs heavily into my singleness decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:53 PM
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I agree with you. As a woman, you know what I expect of my men friends I don't expect of my women friends- NOT A DAMN THING! If they are just my friends, their gender doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:43 PM
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That's fine. Do the crime, do the time. I don't care what your gender is. Ya'll are always saying women won't do the dirty jobs. I can't think of a dirtier job than crime. So maybe they're just achieving equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:56 PM
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This^ I had a lot of friends just drop dead right after retirement. It's like if they didn't have to work everyday, I'll just drop dead. She's guarding her peace seriously, but she probably cares about him too. I just retired unexpectedly also and I'm still working out what to do with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:32 PM
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Wait until you see what menopause does to it. I know it doesn't hit everyone the same, but it was the final nail in the coffin for any drive I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:44 PM
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I think I may just be an older version of you. I have the same view of relationships and not really giving a crap about FOMO. The ribbing sucks, but it does seem to be less than it used to be. I was never diagnosed with Autism, just called a weird girl which is how they did it in my day. I do probably have it. It sounds like you are doing great. I'm glad to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:25 PM
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I'm that 50 year old already and yes, it's wild what they think young women do. Maybe they do now, but they said the same thing about us when we were younger too- wasn't true then either. I did go a lot of places when I was younger and yes, dated a lot more than I have in the last 20 years. Funny thing is I remember spelunking and other places I went and had fun with. I don't even remember the relationships much. Friendships yes. I'm still happy with my choice. I don't leave the house much these…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:50 PM
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Yes, but I do think women have better toys than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:42 PM
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And they tried marketing Lysol as a douche, which is horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:56 PM
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The careers available to them were not the same as their moms and grandmas. They were limited in education opportunities and what work they could do. Things have changed significantly in the past 50 years. Societal changes take generations to start to take hold. I'm Gen X and I was discouraged from fields that young women are now just really getting into today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:44 PM
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I also get a rash from band aids on my skin, they aren't even latex, so maybe it's more involved than a pure latex allergy- I admit IDK. But I wouldn't expect someone who has never experienced this to understand....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:39 PM
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It does dictate your lifestyle, so it's kind of important. It dictates what you earn, where you live, how much free time you have- among many other things. I also think women are different here because to us this is still very new and it helped us gain independence, so we are still in an appreciation phase. Men always had it available, so it's not novel to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:36 PM
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Yeah, not even a stripper. I had a high travel job for the first 10 years of my career. Never could find a man that didn't get insecure when I was out of town.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:48 PM
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I am allergic to latex, not deathly so- so I still used them, but damn they were irritating. That really will make you asexual pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:33 PM
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Nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:05 PM
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Yep- if you see a Polar bear, you have wandered way too far. I agree with your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:54 PM
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First of all, your assuming you're on a trail. Bad assumption. I actually had this happen, almost. When I was a teenager- before cell phones, I was hanging out with my friends at the river. I decided I was going to stay and camp, but I needed to call my mom and tell her. My friend dropped me off on the other side of the river so I could go back to my car. Long story shorter- I never found the trail, I got lost for hours and the sun was starting to set. I could hear something following me, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:38 PM
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Yes to the PPD for Gen X. It would probably help my mental health a lot. The nihilism around here is deep. Self hatred probably wasn't the right term I guess, but I'm not sure what it really would be. I matured early, had adults trying to pick me up at 12, SA'd at 13, but guys my own age treated me like I was a pariah. I was chubby (about 20 lbs over), so of course I was fat and gross back then. Hilarious part is that size is now considered normal or just "Thicc" not fat. But of course it meant …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:24 PM
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I think this is really true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:22 PM
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I have similar experiences to Moonrise. The pressure was mostly parents and society. My pressure ended when my mom died in '98. I wanted to add about your first comment about why your here. I'm mainly here for the same reasons and I'm also Gen X. I probably comment more than I should, but I'm coming from having been pretty unsuccessful when I was younger. I of course felt all the self hatred many on here express, but I have the benefit of hindsight. I know what happened after. I realize the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:13 PM
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I have nothing to prove to you. Good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:12 AM
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I'm not sad or lonely, so why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:59 AM
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Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:57 AM
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I already did. I'm not the one making posts- just commenting on yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:53 AM
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If a woman hold blue collar against you, she's an idiot. Personally, I prefer it because it's probably more my interest. My brother in law was similar and I've posted this here before, so I apologize for anyone who has heard this. He had an education degree and couldn't get a job, so he became a plumber. His dad was so rude to him over that it made me dislike his dad for it. He made more money as a plumber than he would have as a teacher by far. It sounds cool. You should be proud for finding an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:40 AM
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LOL- no I'm a beer girl, oops man. But I will not deny that was the cause of my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:28 AM
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Spoken as someone who has never obviously been murdered or raped. Could you be more hyperbolic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:22 AM
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You're reminding me of a song. Don't go away mad, Just go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:10 AM
3

I look forward to your sacrifice. Go your own way. I doubt anyone will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:01 AM
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Then what is the point of this sub and at least half the posts on it? I'm as confused as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:47 AM
1

Damit I must be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:36 AM
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I'm curious, do you actually go out with them and it's like this or is it just online convo?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:34 AM
2

Thank you for your thoughtful reply. To start, I'm with a lot of the other posters around here in that I don't think Feminism and Egalitarianism are the same thing and I don't think they should be. I wouldn't expect an MRA to be an Egalitarian either. I think it would be great if everyone is egalitarian and like any Venn diagram, there should be a lot of overlap- but Feminism and MRA exist to advocate for their own sexes. And yes, I think MRA's have the right and duty to advocate for men. I wish…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:45 PM
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Could you give me an example of how they should be treated as more than an ally?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:31 PM
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I think it's related to some kind of OCD, definitely a mental thing. I doubt there is a gene for it. Too bad I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:57 PM
0

I've done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:55 PM
6

I wish I had more than 1 upvote to give!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:20 PM
2

Not sure about the rest of your argument, but Thank You! I think you actually understand attraction better than most around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:16 PM
24

And this is why I would try to pay for myself on dates. I'm not going to beholden to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:11 PM
4

I have to admit, that's what I come here for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:12 AM
8

This^ And I thought there were no women on dating apps? Wasn't that the complaint? It's all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:07 AM
1

You also just described my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:34 AM
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Some are, some aren't. My mom died at 54, partially because I think she worked herself to death because my dad would handle nothing. His health went to hell right after that, but he held on quite a while. He couldn't handle taking care of himself, so he moved a girlfriend ASAP. I think he only lived as long as he did because his girlfriend took over. Flip side, my grandma was mad a my grandpa for leaving her when he died. I was noticing couples death dates were close together, so I ask her if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:38 PM
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I find this men paying crap funny. Granted I'm old, and I'm sure things change. I never wanted a man to pay for me because I was afraid he'd try to hold it over my head, so I always tried to pay for myself or the whole thing to avoid that. Men of my age would fight you over that, but I did it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:11 PM
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A. I do care, I regularly defend men in here and elsewhere B. Yes they can do them, yes I do, is it likely on a wide scale-no. C. Right after I hit post, I realized I left out the qualifier- in line with gender norms. Which by that I mean, yes men commit more crime, but I don't think their immigration status matters as much. I just want you to admit your motivation. Do it your way, I don't care. After all they'll assimilate into the Western women you vilify and we'll have new sisters. It's a pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:18 PM
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I wonder if he realizes that when they get here, they may start acting "like us"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:01 PM
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You are just looking for a lazy version of Passport Bro'ing aren't you? Bring them here so I don't have to get off my couch. I don't agree with using sex as a criteria. A. It is sexist. B. Many of the jobs we have a shortage in are in traditional male fields, so you wouldn't be filling in the employee gaps you have or choosing based on what you actually want or need. C. I don't think men or women assimilate better or create more crime. This list is not exhaustive, but it's what I got right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:52 PM
2

I also worked in a STEM field my whole career without a STEM degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:52 PM
2

They do not have the same meaning. After all what happens when you say "All lives matter" to a BLM activist. It's not pretty. Just like almost everything posted around here has the obligatory "Not all X" that is why they added "All" to undermine it. If someone comes out with something so outlandish it can't be believed- no one should believe them of course. Every group has nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:27 PM
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I never hired the guy again. The poor helpers are abused so much or they used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:01 PM
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The phrase was not "Believe all women" it was "Believe women". It was the detractors of the movement that pushed that other phrase. The point was to not just dismiss a women when she had made a compliant about SA. That had been pretty normal up until then. It doesn't mean just take it at face value, don't investigate or anything like that. It also doesn't mean innocent until proven guilty doesn't apply. Rape is an incredibly hard crime to prove. All social movements have bad actors. Besides call…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:59 PM
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TL:DR This assumes most things are zero sum. That is not true. There are solutions to most things that don’t require someone to leave the table for someone else to sit down. 1. Courts- Most courts strive for 50/50 custody with no child support. That should be the goal everywhere. 2. Alimony is very rare and has been discontinued or greatly reduced in many cases with only about 10% receiving it at all and it is usually time limited now. It is also not gender based. I know more women who had to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:51 PM
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This is what women did. I agree men would be happier if they did too. Obsessing on something, no matter what it is can make you miserable AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:30 AM
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This is done a lot by men. The whole "you lucky dog" crap. I absolutely agree particularly male children have a much higher level of sexual assault committed against them than is acknowledged. Male victims have even less ability to speak out and less help to recover from it. This is still due to gender role and societal expectations. That doesn't make it bullshit. For the record the female teachers abusing their male student should be buried under the jail with all pedofiles of either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:21 AM
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Great response. Thank you. I saw this article on another sub and this is a horrible case. He was mad because he thought "she looked at him funny" BTW a while ago. He held onto that crap for so long and did this! Also man or woman, a sledgehammer to the head when your not expecting it- your done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:09 AM
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Why not dad's being more involved? How is the government "involved" in the economy that is impacting dating? I agree we're in a transition period, but I think you are incorrect about how this is going to turn out or how to deal with it. The more successful men in dating seem to be the ones willing to give up on men being the "Masters of the Universe" and being more egalitarian. Women can provide for themselves and a lot of us do way more than TP reports. The reason it is more about what a man ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:58 AM
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Correction- they love to pay EVERYONE the least they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:48 AM
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When I was young I thought that once. I quickly learned I was a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:36 AM
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I am this woman. Still perfectly happy and all signs point to that continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:05 AM
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I always found kids scary too. I don't hate them, but I'm afraid of breaking them or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:32 PM
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Oh yes, I had SEVERAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:55 PM
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Even when laws change, it takes a while for society to catch up. When I became an adult in the 90's, it was still very much expected that I should put a lot of time into finding a husband and having kids. Doesn't help that I live in the South. Things did start changing then pretty rapidly and it became much more accepted for women to find happiness alone. With everyone else here I'd say the rise of smart phones, social media and algorithms are mostly to blame. Gen X was already established in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:55 PM
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I absolutely think more should be done to help men out of their gender roles also.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:50 PM
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You sound wonderful. I'm too old or fat for you, but if I wasn't- I'd be DMing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:40 PM
5

Sounds like immature women to me. I also don't know any women like that, that aren't teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:54 PM
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Watch All Her Fault. Pretty much portrays most women's fears these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:46 PM
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Even MSNBC covers the manosphere. It's a lot more main stream then you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:42 PM
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Yes, the reality is the people with the power will be the ones at the top of the pyramid and in most cases- that will be the rich. Not male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:07 AM
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I think you nailed it. Power will always be the peak of the power. OK- so you subjugate women. Who is next? weaker men and anyone else who can be "othered" that's power for you. And they will then fight each other for power. Makes everything really messy and not really a world fit for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:59 AM
5

In my vision- the house cleaner bot doesn't really have a sex. Kind of like a Roomba.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:52 PM
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I am a woman who also wants a robot maid :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:28 AM
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I'm with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:25 AM
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And we take care of our own snakes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:12 AM
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I never said they were buying it with their own money. I said the fact that they bought more proves they were doing most of the grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:47 PM
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You obviously didn't work at my office.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:43 PM
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You got lucky. The dynamic you have is what I wanted, but I could never find a guy willing to go along with it either. I thought about it and I know more women who support men than the other way around. The only 2 stay at home moms I know of even have 5 kids each.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:38 PM
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You yourself just gave some proof. A women spends 80% of the income buying groceries and other home needs. If men were pulling their weight equally, why aren't they spending more? They would be grocery shopping too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:21 PM
3

Hodor would like a word, but otherwise I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:59 PM
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Well good for you. I'm a woman who built data collection systems and requirements that ran an entire segment of government supervision. That involved technical requirements, political ones and I had to cover an industry. I guess I'll let my sisters claim credit for that too. Point is men and women both have a lot to offer if given the opportunity. Women for a long time didn't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:48 PM
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Same. My dad's mother asked me would I rather be the leader in the relationship or the man. I said neither, I want a partnership. She said that's not a choice and that I should pick man as a leader- because he only thinks he is the leader. The woman really is. I felt like that was one of the most manipulative things I had heard. That's why I don't call her my grandma, along with many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:07 PM
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Nope- Reddit is the only social media I use. I think all of it is toxic, but Reddit is like weed and Tik Tok is like Fentanyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:38 PM
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OK- You do U. I personally really like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:18 PM
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I think you make a good point. Girls tend to direct it inwards. Then they get eating disorders, suicidal ideation and all other kinds of good internal problems. Boys tend to take it out on the world. I also can confirm that one of the most vicious creatures on earth can be a teenage girl and their prey is mostly other girls. Source- was a teenage girl a very long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:14 PM
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I think all teenagers have a rebellious streak, not just boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:01 PM
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AI will just parrot what you want to hear. It will make you spiral more because it will reinforce your short comings rather than challenge you on them. It's just talking to yourself with more delusion, power use and water use.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:39 PM
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LOL- Who would be left in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:37 PM
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The 7/11 manager is cool when you were younger because it made it easier to get beer. How many 18 year olds ever even think about a CEO? Rich music artist or sports star maybe, but CEO?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:59 PM
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You know they'll kill their customers with the subscription fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:20 PM
1

This isn't directly related, but I saw a funny thing the other day. I walked outside and my big gopher tortoise I call Junior had a smaller tortoise flailing at what I figured out was "her". Mating dance. Junior wasn't interested and she turned to leave. He tried to mount her and she flipped him on his back. Then she stood there and watched him flail. It wasn't until he was about to get flipped over that she ran in her hole to get away from him. That was brutal. I kept watching because I was goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:49 PM
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That is my utopia. Sounds terrific!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:59 PM
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I totally agree. Also a beautiful, well written response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:57 PM
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Hopefully I did this further down in this thread. I am coming from experience. I have enjoyed many of your comments and think you nailed it in most of them. I'm going to look at the sun while it's out. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:32 PM
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As a teenager, so was I. It was a completely different time, but I didn't have people wanting to get with me much either and that's all I wanted. Just thought I was a fat hideous monster. As soon as I got distracted by life, I quit beating the hell out of myself about it and things improved a lot. It had to start with me though. People told me all the things I say on here all the time and many of them turned out to be true. I of course, like a lot of the posters on here- wouldn't hear it or beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:53 PM
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And there is a secret knock that we keep from them...Don't forget that part :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:44 PM
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I think both of these standards suck and think we should change that. I don't judge men for how much sex they have, because how would I know? Women either, but I don't swing that way. I know I'm old and have been out of the game a long time, but how do you know how much sex someone has had if they don't tell you? Even back when I was active, I don't remember it ever coming up until WAY later in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:40 PM
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I think the OP is correct. I agree with you too. Every time I come on here and say that men's value shouldn't be based on who they have or haven't slept with, but who they are- I get downvoted and argued with. When I say that spending time ruminating on an area of failure rather than find something else to do because it only hurts them and can make the problem worse, I'm told I don't understand and I'm downvoted. When I bring up they will never be happy when they get the girl, because she can ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:35 PM
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LOL- They might when they get stuck under it. Remember the episode of the Big Bang Theory where the robot hand got stuck on Howard and he had to go to the ER?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:31 PM
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Yeah I think the top comment nailed it. This describes self-centered/selfish people, not autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:37 PM
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I'm still wondering what's going to happen with the sex bots when the AWS goes down again. What if the freeze like those beds that got stuck up and started overheating? What if you are in the middle of the act and the internet freezes. I would hate for my sex life to depend on Comcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:27 PM
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I just wanted to say I hate people like this. I love trades people and they are just as important if not more important than any other job. My brother in law got an education degree and then became a plumber. His dad was always so gross to him over this. But the reality is he made far more as a plumber than he ever would have as a teacher. That always made me mad as hell. I know it's not directly related to the issue, but its one my biggest pet peeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:28 PM
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Your stating the actual problem with all your replies- deadbeat fathers! That's who your paying for- other irresponsible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:02 AM
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I am a high income female net tax payer that probably pays more than most. I also voted for social programs because I don't like to starve children. Why should I have to pay? I'm not gay, I wouldn't have a relationship with a woman. If I did and got her pregnant, we'd have one hell of a scientific finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:55 AM
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When I read your title, I thought this was going to be a throwback to the Man/Bear debate. I was wondering what the Bear Minimum was- Mauling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:50 AM
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That's fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:28 PM
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I understand that. I'm usually pretty guarded too. Having friends doesn't mean you start with your deepest darkest secrets. Some people you will never get to that level with and it's OK. But a few you might and it can be fun to be around people who share commonality anyway. I did the opposite at work one time. I accepted the outing thinking it was friendly, not dating. The guy almost twice my age I went out with thought it was a date. It was REALLY awkward situation, so I can understand the peri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:22 PM
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Thank you for your restraint. I realized what I said afterwards. It was from wiring my house- climbing through my attic I swear!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:10 PM
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It super came for my knees, but it didn't change how I feel about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:29 PM
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You might should point out- she's had kids also and still played WW.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:25 PM
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Yeah, they just don't hear themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:23 PM
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Larry Flynt's ghost would like a word. Porn is covered by the 1st amendment. Haven't you ever watched the People vs. Larry Flynt. It's a great movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:24 AM
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Someone else has probably answered by now, but CC is Cock Carousel. Like we're all Bonnie Blue or something. I find the thought of it gross and never knew a woman who did it. Women can handle it better because we have better toys. Edited to try to fix spelling. Probably still screwed it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:43 PM
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And for me I consider social media like hard drugs, so I'm only on reddit which is like weed. Tik Tok is like fentanyl. I'm not messing with that. I know when Reddit's messing with me. I'd fall head first in a Tik Tok hole. :).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:25 PM
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You know, now that you mention it- those men did say the same to me. I never dated one that much older, just was very fond of them. Thank god they had better sense. You've got a good point that I never thought about it that way. Thanks! I think I try hard not to judge to where I miss stuff because when I think back to some of the stupid things I did when I was younger, I just cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:19 PM
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I think everyone has. I think it thinks most people who like A, also like B- so I'll give them some B too. Maybe you get somethings really click baity for B and click on it once. The algorithm now thinks you like B, or if it keeps showing you B, you'll bite. Even tech tries to stereotype people LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:47 PM
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I'm just curious, what would those societal changes be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:01 PM
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No one is obligated to date anyone. And about the post, thank goodness I thought I just didn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:59 PM
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I said in another comment on this thread, I don't agree with any of them. They are gross. If there was 1 I might would agree with- "Any guy in his late 30s pursuing girls below 25 is a pedophile and you can't change my opinion" But I always liked older men, so I really don't agree with it either. I have had young guys hit on me and I just couldn't see someone young enough to be my son in a sexual manner. I feel like their mother, so it's gross to me. The rest of these phrases are just a deluded …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:55 PM
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I don't see them debate. When we say they're wrong and give an example, their response is Nah, Uh. That's not a debate. That's being so dug into your view you refuse to acknowledge anything against it. My source on this is I get downvoted a lot around here for trying to provide evidence that they are wrong. I have never seen an actual woman not on the internet say the things in your example. I'd call her out if I did. I see men say horrible stuff about women all the time. That is because my algo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:14 PM
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It sounds like the algorithm is feeding you the rage bait you crave. I never see these things because I'm getting rage bait targeted at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:58 PM
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I had a dad, but he was not my primary role model (my parents were always married- he just hung out at his office a lot)- my grandpa and uncles were. Granted I'm a woman, but my point is you can have a partner and it still be left up to chance. Personally, I would have never had kids without being married, but I probably wouldn't have anyway because I didn't want them. If a woman has the means and the community to have a kid by herself, more power to them. Same with men and surrogates. Not my bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:50 PM
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Some of the women I used to work with, who made it to a high level in their career and I also am not sure they were really kid people- had kids. Their husbands took on a majority of the childcare and primarily stayed home. They all seem pretty happy and my good friend who did this has a wonderful husband. He was older than her, kind of a late bloomer who was very close to his parents and a cop. She basically just joined his family and he retired shortly after they had kids. They moved to further…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:07 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:21 AM
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How is removing a stigma shitting on men? Value should not be based on sex or lack there of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:08 AM
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I agree- no to George Clooney. He seems like a decent guy, but I'm not attracted to him. I will say as someone who saw him age in real time. He is one case that got better with age. BTW- there is no one guy women lust over. Chad is more of a myth than Zeus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:00 AM
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This happens to less attractive women too. You know the chubby ones. Source- chubby woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:53 AM
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And women who aren't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:52 AM
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Will you guys ever get that most women don't want a hookup? So the ability to get one means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:38 AM
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When I think of Bill Gates, Nikolai Tesla, Jeff Bezos, hell even Vladmir Putin, sex and sexual access is not what comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:46 PM
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Amen on your comments. When you focus so solely on one thing it's easy to set yourself up for a fall and create a doom spiral. If the guy who finally achieved what he thought he wanted he usually is either jaded and doesn't believe it or is angry, thus torpedoing it or it doesn't live up to the hype he built in his mind. Either way- disappointment. It's easy to focus on what you can't achieve or have, normal even. That's a good time to find a distraction or another goal to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:41 PM
1

Never been a fan of jocks, so nerd it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:24 PM
0

Yep, self-sabotage is a helluva thing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:25 PM
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I don't think I ever maintained a physical attraction to anyone I thought was hot, but couldn't hold an enjoyable conversation with. I have developed a physical attraction to way more people after getting to know them and enjoying their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:54 PM
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Due to past trauma, I have a startle response. One time early in my career (late 90's) I walked into a mixer for where I worked and someone grabbed my arm. My hand was immediately at their face. It was just a reaction. When I looked before I swatted, it was the head of where I worked I was about to accidently cold cock. Just a long way of saying- I get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:43 PM
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Or they are so jaded they think they're being played and just want to give hurt back. I'm not sure if that's true, just basing it on posts I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:38 PM
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Me again- from what you've said, I don't think it fits most peoples definition of passport bro. From your responses and what your looking for, you don't seem like you'd just go to a country and sleep with the first willing woman you meet or slut around. Maybe I'm wrong. It just sounds like you think you'd have an easier time somewhere else, but that you are looking for something very specific, not just anything. I don't see that as Passport Bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:01 PM
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I really don't care if you travel to find a person. I think you have a better reason for wanting a virgin than most (not hypocritical). I don't think you interpreted the study correctly and I doubt that Turkish women are that terrible, but never been there. As long as you're honest and respectful in your searches, I could care less where you do it. I'll even wish you luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:55 PM
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Well if all the women aren't virgins now- could this dude be blamed? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:51 PM
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Maybe it is, but most of the guys that passport/rant like this would have their ass kicked in seconds if the tried to Viking/Barbarian. Maybe I'm wrong, but they don't come across as warriors, unless it's the keyboard/ gravy seals kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:44 PM
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Calculations were never a part of attraction for me. I like what I like. I also was never seeing someone and looking around for who would be better. Doing that many calculations sounds miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:48 PM
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No, I think it was just an unfortunate side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:01 AM
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Thank you. I would disagree that the war was fought for access to women though. I think it was just what is done after a people are conquered as a side effect. It's more of a rip a culture out of existence root and stem kind of thing. I think more wars are fought over riches and ideologies, but I also think that is a matter of opinion (maybe it's just my own)- so I won't try to change yours or say you're incorrect. I do appreciate the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:58 PM
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Could you provide an example of a war for access to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:41 PM
0

I really think men need better toys. I'm all for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:11 PM
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Yep and that's why us harlots had to be controlled by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:08 PM
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I think you're giving people too much credit. I admit I never had gaydar at all. Someone would have to almost tell me point blank that they were gay. I mean if I meet their husband, of course I knew. I can honestly say that I have never just assumed anyone was a virgin or they weren't. I never just assumed or actually really went around thinking about other peoples sex life at all. I am aware I'm weird. But I don't think any humans have much of a sixth sense about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:59 PM
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Good post. I agree with OP that there should have been more emphasis on changing men's roles while feminism was changing women's. I think that has been one of the biggest mistakes there was. I pretty much agree with all of his post. I also agree with you about the role of smart phones. I'm old. Grew up when we had to talk to people. My social skills have tanked since the pandemic and I get weird anxiety I didn't used to get that more reflects how younger people feel now. I know better, but it st…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:27 PM
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I like to chose what I do and when I do it. I can't imagine living with someone else. I like only answering to myself. Most of the activities I enjoy are solidary. Sex isn't important to me and if I feel frisky, there are toys for that. Many would say that this is selfishness. I wouldn't disagree totally, so why would I subject some poor man to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:42 PM
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I have answered you on many of your threads- so here I go again: I'm happy by myself. I have never met or dated a man that changed that enough to give it up. It has nothing to do with the quality of men. I know and have had relationships with a bunch of great ones. It wasn't them or anything the did or didn't do. It just wasn't what I wanted. I don't know a Chad and I don't think I ever have. Definitely never been burned by one. You never acknowledge this answer or you always try to say I'm lyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:35 PM
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Also- 80/20 is the percentage all data people use when they don't know the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:57 PM
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Not every place implemented DEI. I worked at a small food distributorship in college as an accounting intern. Literally paid about minimum wage. Since I was very capable I kept getting new duties and of course, I just took them. Then when I quit right before I graduated, I saw that company had listed my job in the career center. It outlined all my characteristics, education and abilities. The title for that job- Vice President of Operations. That was a small family owned company that had no wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:43 PM
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And I agree these days- that is a smart thought!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:34 PM
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Education can lead to providership and did before having a degree became basically a commodity like it is right now. In many cases, education is the only way women can make enough to provide since heavy lifting is probably not in the cards and the trades are still very sexist. I have actually known a lot of men that are better parents than women. Most men would have been better than me at it. That's why it was better that I work. We do need to make more strides for men in caring roles and the fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:05 PM
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You can also say that some places never implemented DEI for the same reason. Men can file lawsuits for discrimination and they do. They win sometimes too. The fact that even if it isn't a law now and you believe it will still be enforced is part of the problem that caused it's existence in the first place. It's more about a belief that minorities and women got there without merit and can't be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:49 PM
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OK, I see where I may have misinterpreted you and I apologize. What do you mean freedom of choice is not positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:42 PM
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I think one thing that men don't get about women education and working is- it is still fairly new to us. This makes it more novel and women know they have to work harder to prove themselves in these newer circumstances- so they tend to perform better than men who have had this throughout all of history- because they have to. I do think that the biggest problem is men need more freedom to get away from gender roles to settle into this new world. I never dated up financially when I dated. I wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:39 PM
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Well they have in the US now. I admit I have mixed feelings about this, but if it removes that perception- I'm probably OK with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:28 PM
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I get to chose to be alone and support myself. I would have been a horrible mother, but at work I was able to create things that had real value and helped people. Without that choice, I would have been forced to be the crappy wife/mother society forced me to be. I'm talking about how I would have been in that role- not disparaging the role. I don't get why only men get to make the choice about how to live their life and women just have to go a long with it. Can you explain why removing choice fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:23 PM
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The way they assume every minority or woman is a DEI hire is my biggest complaint against DEI at all. It can't be because we're competent or the best person for the job. To me that is very telling about how they really feel. When I first started working out of college, Affirmative Action was the thing. As a young woman I was pissed that people thought I got my job just because I was a woman. It makes you have to work even harder to be taken seriously. It didn't take long for the people I worked …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:03 PM
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Positive, like the freedom of women to chose?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:51 PM
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I inherited a few houses. Didn't live with them either. Depending on your inheritance is counting your chickens before they hatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:05 PM
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This^.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:56 PM
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I absolutely agree with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:55 PM
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You are correct. Women like competent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:05 PM
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It's also a game/role play in the bedroom. It can be fun in the bed, but if you tried to treat me like that outside of it- you're likely to get your head knocked off. In other words, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:51 PM
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As an American, I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:38 PM
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You need validation from yourself. We are always our own worst critic. That is gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:33 AM
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My best peace came from understanding there will always be someone better than me. Doesn't make them or me bad, just different. As my flair says- I'm old and lucky to not have been raised in social media. With the exception of Reddit, I abstain. That keeps me mostly sane. I have been fortunate to be accomplished- so I have a lot to be proud of, but just like everyone- I fail at things too. Everyone does. Just pick yourself back up and try again or move on to something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:29 AM
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I'm all for it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:33 AM
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You just described what male ballet dancers wear. Nobody yells about that. Maybe your lifting at the wrong gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:41 PM
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To start, I support men wearing sports bras if they need them- more probably should. I say slap on your speedo and go do squats. I guarantee you'll hear more from dudes about it than women. Is it male want to be nudist day or what? Do what you want fellas. I must have missed the email.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:37 PM
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That is a great movie!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:13 PM
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I was just thinking if they could see your vagina, they must have x-ray vision since that is internal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:42 PM
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*Neighbor cut and stole my sisters cable. When I went outside to fix it and take it back his buddy said, "A woman fix this? I'd love to see that" So then he witnessed it. *Trips to Home Depot- "oh there's a lucky man getting those tools" "Ma'am you can't cut plywood with a miter saw" When I had a 2X2 of plywood and a miter saw in my cart. My response- "No duh, I'm mounting it to it for portable use." * At work- the CEO of an financial institution I was at as a regulator none the less ask me "how…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:41 PM
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But we do still face it. My sister's idiot neighbor cut her cable and stole it. I went to fix it back and his buddy laughed and said "A woman is going to fix this? I have to see this." For the record, I fixed it. That's just one example of MANY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:25 PM
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Something tells me it would only be dudes that show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:07 PM
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As another person who told you on the other thread that I am happy without a man, it is not because I was burned (actually by anyone, but especially not the fictional Chad). It's because it's what makes me happy and if a Genie showed up the perfect man wouldn't even be in my top 5 requests. There was nothing in the results of that thread that would lead to any of these "Chad" conclusions. You just have your belief so baked in, nobody can talk you out of it. I like most women have had some bad ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:34 PM
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Not to mention the steel walkers who built the NY skyscrapers in the 20's really don't exist like that anymore. They weld don't just throw hot rivets at each other 1,000's of feet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:24 PM
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Some people are just evil and hateful. They come in all sizes, shapes and genders. I was one of those outcast people in college since I commuted 150 miles a day. It was South Georgia in the early 90's so I always joined the black peoples group for projects since the others treated us (the black people and me) like we just needed to go away. Our group always won. I've never understood tribalism so much. I like people who are different than me. They're more interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:55 PM
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Yes, I would be fine with it. Can't speak for all women. And to answer your Genie question, if I had a chance to get something from one, a man would probably not be in my top 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:25 PM
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I try not to use the word "Never" because without fail that's the next thing I do. It's just a matter of focus on it. My plan is to NOT have one, so I'm not looking for it or expecting it. Should somehow the perfect person magically show up- it would be a pleasant unexpected surprise and I wouldn't run it off. I don't sit around expecting or hoping for anything. I just think if you spend too much time dwelling in your own misery, ruminating thoughts your only hurting yourself. The only person we…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:40 PM
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Exactly right again! You're making too much sense, are you lost? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:32 PM
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I think you just can't fathom that "Mr. Perfect" or a relationship in general isn't the guiding force in every woman's life. Not everyone is the same, men, women, kids, etc. We all think differently and value different things, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:27 PM
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I agree. What can we do to fix this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:19 PM
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I absolutely plan NOT to have a partner again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:16 PM
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No, I'm not holding out for a better man. Back when I had relationships them failing wasn't because I was looking for someone better. They were pretty great guys, we just weren't compatible. They found someone more compatible and I kept a good friend. I just like doing my own thing and being in control of my own world. I doubt the best man on earth could pull me out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:54 PM
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Then why do they use the words foid and toilet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:38 PM
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I think you guys nailed it. When I was younger, I had a very hard time getting along with other women. Luckily age changed that and I have wonderful female friends now. I think it's funny when they talk about us all sticking together and hive mind, because women can be even more evil to each other than they are to men. Of course the obligatory- Not All Women. I'm not sure if I'm autistic, I sure check a lot of the boxes- but in my day they just said "she's a weirdo" it wasn't a diagnosis. Hangin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:29 PM
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So you want to pay child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:52 AM
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Yet they spend so much time seeking them LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:34 PM
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Right after it starts with the programming jobs. It will be there eventually for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:56 PM
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I didn't vote for them and I'm on SSRI's too. I was joking but I do think our generation being more into drugs and alcohol helped with inhibition A LOT. Definitely isn't the healthiest way, but it does work sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:29 PM
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I have been thinking maybe the younger generation is just too sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:00 PM
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Yes, I'm confused by this. Does a woman choosing a man mean he has to go? Like being dragged off to the cave. Noping out is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:23 PM
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There is the just "no" option. If it was between an abusive dude and being alone- I'll take alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:21 PM
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No kidding. The phrase herding cats exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:00 PM
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My cats would back my decision not to have kids. They can go get their own food if I'm screwing off, a baby not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:51 PM
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More are because abusive behavior is rooted in insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:36 AM
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Maybe in a BDSM relationship, but not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:35 AM
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I just comment on another thread here- Old wisdom, don't stick your dick in crazy. The response- well you don't know their crazy yet. All I can think is pot meet kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:32 AM
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Same here my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:24 AM
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The point is, yes, women are picky but not for the same men like the ones who claim we're all dating the same guys claim. We all have our own weird preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:24 AM
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Why? If I can support myself, why do I want to negotiate terms? Should people just find people they are happy with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:19 AM
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And you are the same guys who blame women for abusive relationships? You see the equivalent right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:03 AM
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Same crap they always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:55 AM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:51 AM
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Well then who is that on? I'm not going to claim there aren't crappy women, but how important is dick wet? Back in my day they said, don't put your dick in crazy. I think that was good advice. Really you won't lose if you don't use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:46 AM
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You're right. I can't relate to the crap here even though I have participated. Our generation was dysfunctional, but damn they take it to a new level. Thankfully when I do feel frisky, I only like guys my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:39 AM
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I really don't get that either. I wasn't half as unhappy as they bitch about being when I gave up. I also will not swear, but am pretty sure I didn't spend any valuable time whinging about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:32 AM
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Why is it Ok that men can cheat but not women? Provide and protect in this era? Where are U living?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:30 AM
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Then find something better to do. I need a job to live, I don't need to put up with an exhausting person to live. Why bother than?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:16 AM
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Damn if it's that taxing get out of the relationship. Many people have told you that sex alone cannot sustain a relationship without other common ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:13 AM
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B. Already did it. I may have actually been cursed like in the scenario. When I was in college, I stumbled into a shrine to Voodoo Queen Marie Laveau on Bourbon street. I had 7 years of bad luck afterwards, quit dating too- LOL Also, the guys I dated back then I kept as friends for a very long time. Luckily life if not usually an OR statement, you can have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:49 PM
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Thanks for the info. I only use Reddit, so I just start searching kittens or home improvement when I started getting bummed. Tik Tok scares me- I'm old :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:41 PM
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My dad. My mom did EVERYTHING and worked too. When I was a kid- he'd break something run to me and tell me to fix it before mom got home. After she died (probably worked herself to death)- I had to go pick up his bills and make sure they were paid. I loved him, but that man couldn't survive without a woman taking care of him. I became his parent when my mom died.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:07 PM
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I know when I've fallen in a rabbit hole, but changing it is hard. We need regulation for this crap, but the US right now definitely won't do it. On another debate I suggested there should be a button that clears your algorithm to make it easier to get out of a spiral. I know this wasn't what your post was about, but I do feel strongly about the algorithmic hell we find ourselves in. I'm an old lady who knows better, but I fell for it. At work I was volunteering to help on another project. The s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:05 PM
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You still don't get the point that it will lead to less sex in committed relationships too. That's not promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:46 PM
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A true partner who carries the load equally. Mutual respect. I'm sure someone else will have a better answer, but I'm here at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:20 PM
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I think a lot of this has to do with economic reality right now. It's really hard for young people starting out now and who wants to bring their hookup to their parents house?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:18 PM
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Same. When I was 12, I was sitting in the packed lunch room and the principal stopped by to make a big deal about my "sexualized" clothes and wanted to send me home. That sexualized outfit, my big boobs in a TURTLENECK. My science teacher came by and started arguing with him in front of the whole school basically telling him he was a creep and what did he want me to take my boobs off? He backed down and left, but I've lived with that incident and many others like them for my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:30 PM
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Death by Blue Balls. Yeah- I've never seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:00 PM
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Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:12 PM
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Exactly. You just described the rage bait on my feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:38 PM
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If it's showing up on your feed, that's proof it's out there. Proof of existence isn't proof of truth or widespread adoption. Search for kittens or football or something nice, your algorithm has trapped you in a rabbit hole. It's not widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:10 PM
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I think you may have answered why I never liked romance novels or boy bands. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:16 PM
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Ya'll are going to have to recall me to the hive. I think my software is malfunctioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:48 PM
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Me neither but if I did- I'd stay far away from them and tell men to also.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:47 PM
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Male prostitutes exist primarily for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:02 PM
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Thanks for describing it so I can understand it. I think you just aren't aware of how many women show accountability. We don't advertise it most of the time. For example, I am a single old cat lady because I realized I wasn't a good partner and I was too lazy to change. So I decided rather than subject someone to that, I'd just stay by myself and do my own thing. I'm perfectly happy that way and didn't go around telling everyone that's why I did what I did. Instead I knew of guys who thought I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:19 PM
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Excellent. A person who remembers what reality is. I have hope :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:02 PM
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In general, people who play games aren't worth it. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:50 PM
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Thanks. The answer I usually see is "They refuse to be accountable" which is a very circular definition that gets me no where toward understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:44 PM
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I keep wondering why all of these problems require women to give something up. Why is it never what men need to give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:39 PM
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I'm dying to know if you get an answer- because I have never seen it answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:33 PM
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A lot of us are single and have been for years and we still preach it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:16 PM
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We could bond over music and Kung Fu Panda. I have no idea what I'd talk to Thor about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:41 AM
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I agree- I'm watching the American Greed on Mike "The Situation" right now. Abs kinda scare me, because I know how much effort that takes. I'm not interested. If I had the chance to hang out with Chris Hemsworth or Jack Black, I'd pick Jack no matter how much I love Thor. I've met attractive men that are boring as hell. But the point is I agree, I think men (some) have a magic mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:44 AM
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It can bite them. My dad's girlfriend's ex-husband transferred a large amount of property to his kids to avoid including it in their divorce. After the divorce the kids wouldn't give it back and he had to try to sue to get it back. I don't think the court sided with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:02 PM
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I agree with your thought. I just watched a Web of Lies episode about a guy that swatted people/called bomb threats until an innocent man wound up dead. I was thinking about how similar that is to all the crazy shooter people we have. They are like the Heath Ledger Joker that just want chaos. I guess the difference is the shooters are do it yourself types. I think the root of this problem is there are several people who just see other people as NPCs, not as actual humans. They want fame or atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:50 PM
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Good for you. I'm Gen X, my dad was another kid and a roommate I saw occasionally. Most of the men I know my own age or younger are great dads. Some even have primary custody if they are split from the mother. I think you're right and it is getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:55 PM
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Yeah I'm confused. I was thinking isn't this what these people are already doing? Do they just want us to notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:39 PM
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That I don't really have an answer for. Maybe they're in a different rabbit hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:40 PM
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I think that's a good point, but I'd encourage you to look at who is saying that. I don't see a single guy as less than for being single and have known many unhappily married men. We all make our own happiness primarily and guys should be able to be happy by themselves too without judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:00 AM
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Thanks. I need to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:27 PM
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I'm interested in what they think we should do and what that program would look like. I'm actually being serious. But every time I've asked in the past- it's usually paper abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:42 AM
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Smart man! Women who play games deserve to be alone. It's immature. Reading the comments on this thread has opened my eyes a little on understanding some of the problems here. I too have a tendency to say things that can upset or offend overly politically correct people. I don't do it to offend, I probably just didn't know better and am actually sorry if I really offended them. I think everyone has gotten way too sensitive about stuff. That is one thing I hate about the left, even though I am le…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:10 PM
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Just want to jump in here and say anyone who does those "tests", plays games deserves to be left alone. Maybe they'll eventually grow up. And I agree with your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:03 PM
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I do think the reasons are many of the same ones we discuss in all these posts at PPD. Internet rabbit holes, lack of connections, distorted versions of reality and general nihilism are to blame. People who feel like they have less to lose tend to be more willing to take a desperate action. I think there is also an element of fame seeking behavior here too. A generation of people raised on social media fame and all wanting to be famous may see this as their chance at fame. Men bring up mental he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:06 PM
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As a short women, I think that's why I liked really tall men back when I gave a crap. But being 5' ft tall any man was tall to me, so it didn't impact who I picked often. But I do wonder if there is a genetic thing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:02 PM
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So kids to single parents don't get healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:21 AM
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I love kittens, so what sympathy do you think you need? I'm being serious. I'm not unsympathetic. Thank goodness I've known men all my life in the real world so most of them I love. A few have been real bastards, but not enough to make me hate men. You guys online make me doubt humanity. BTW- Guys is a gender neutral phrase to me- don't mean just men- plenty of online women do too. To quote a famous person- You wouldn't like me when I'm angry- LOL. Hon- I am honestly sorry for your pain. I hope …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:10 AM
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I think that is disingenuous. The way it is always phrased is directed at women and their rights. I definitely believe men have more to fear from men, but you're not aiming it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:01 AM
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Yeah you're not alone in your reaction to violence coming up. I always wonder- why do you have to go there? Seems like a desperate move. Doesn't make me afraid, angry but not afraid. Kills sympathy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:45 PM
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Most Women aren't trying to defeat men. Just live their life with or without them. Why does one side have to win? Edited to add "Most" I can't defend crazy minorities that exist one BOTH sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:32 AM
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We do and I'd jump in more here, but your saying everything I would. So thanks! Thank goodness I'm old and I don't have to live to see the world they think they want should it happen. But I agree if we have to become the taliban to beat the taliban- let it burn!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:16 AM
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They don't build families more than anyone else. The creepy ones like Elon just procreate a lot. They don't raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:26 AM
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Damn- are you my sister? Sound just like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:22 AM
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Thanks. I'll add it to my queue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:39 PM
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30 years ago I described myself as a homosexual man trapped in a women's body because I am very obviously a girl, but I have far more male hobbies and traits than female. I am not nurturing, can lack empathy, hate clothes and makeup, etc. I'd rather demo the kitchen than clean it. I quit saying that though because I was afraid of insulting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:30 PM
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Do you know what season that was? Sounds interesting, may have to check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:16 PM
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Sadly the overlords would rather have decraniated humans than super soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:07 PM
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I'm Ok with that. I think we should allow assisted suicide to help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:38 AM
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This reminds me of a discussion I had with an ex 30 years ago while walking around in the mall. He said that obviously male humans were the more naturally adorned of the species and the proof was that the department store only had one corner for men and the rest of the store for women. Men didn't need the adornment. That cracked me up then and still does. I don't know this for a fact, but it makes sense that the female birds are less colorful. After all bright colors call attention and make hidi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:34 PM
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It can, but it can also prevent a relationship altogether. This is the primary reason I'm the old cat lady you guys talk about a lot. I had a career with frequent travel. I could never find a guy who was secure with me being gone all the time. I eventually just gave up and found peace, as did most of my single female colleagues. Many that were married ended up divorced eventually more than the men. Now on the flip side, one of my good friend male colleagues wife got annoyed with him if he travel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:08 PM
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Agreed. I usually try to stay out of these frays, but I had been thinking a lot about what you said recently and I was glad someone else was thinking what I thought. Thank you for the reply and your original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:46 PM
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Power tool loving old lady here. I do think technology paid a huge role in leveling the world out, but so did feminism. I don't know which would be higher, but I agree tech played a huge role.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:39 PM
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Chat board user in the 90's- I can confirm your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:11 PM
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Elliot Roger and Gamergate 2014. That didn't come out of no where. Maybe you just don't remember because it didn't impact you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:53 AM
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Florida eliminated permanent alimony in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:24 PM
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Back then it was still expected and you were more held to it socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:58 AM
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