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DiscussionWaschbar-krahe/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:33 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:14 PM
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No? You can be part of your community at any point in your life. You don't need to do anything in terms of a relationship to be important to the people around you. I absolutely agree that men should not place their self worth on others, same goes for women. I think we would benefit greatly from more community groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:11 PM
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I'm not saying people shouldn't work to be their best selves, I'm just saying that the idea of this insulated nuclear family bubble that most people seem to strive for isn't realistic and that we often need a village to genuinely thrive. I think the biggest issue modern society has is that we're all convinced we need to be able to do it all alone before we can debut into society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:02 PM
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I believe that no one is supposed to be an island. I think rugged individualism is what's doing so much harm to mens mental health. The lack of dependency is a major reason for the loneliness epidemic. We evolved to be complex social creatures with a web of dependency on each other. People are supposed to depend on you and you depend on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:03 PM
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I think life would be better for everyone if we stopped trying so hard to debate about everything and just tried to be more connected with the people around us without the expectations of sex or reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:35 PM
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Most women are outliers. I think acting like and entire gender has the same mentality and experiences ultimately doesn't nothing to benefit you. I try not to assume most men are a monolith, why assume that of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 09:46 AM
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I might be an outlier, but didn't try to gain that kind of attention from men. I actively disliked it because it kinda fucked up the whole dynamic. I didn't really see relationships as anything more than "friends who hug sometimes" until I met my husband and even then it took a couple years before anything changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:25 PM
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When do the megathreads get updated? I hate trying to join in just as everyone stops talking in the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:11 PM
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Attention from men isn't statistically the best thing on earth and dating in general sucks. I've personally never seen anyone be upset with a man who's understandably fed up with an entitled woman unless you count the absolute bottom of the barrel on Instagram reels, but then again I'm not sure actual people use Instagram anymore, it's all just bots made to upset you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 10:09 PM
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Guys will beg women to be nice to them and then say shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 05:02 PM
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"The crux of "The Ick" discourse is that women have this super advanced instinct to know when something isn't right and it gives them said Ick." ...this is just someone using slang to say they don't like something... No one thinks it's supreme wisdom. It's just individual preference. Do I think the slang is annoying? Yeah. Is it a secret manipulation tactic? No, probably not. "it's essentially a spur of the moment impulse, like the bare beginnings of a first impression of something that the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:59 PM
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You can't see the difference between a normal person and a porn addict?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:26 AM
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I feel like there's a difference between normal dudes who can grow up and realize porn isn't real life and see women as fully fledged individuals and porn addicts who cannot separate fiction from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 10:17 PM
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I've had situations where I've been turned down and my response was "damn, okay. See you tomorrow at lunch I guess" if someone can't handle that, that's fine. I personally just don't purposely associate with people who can't handle rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:10 PM
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Women genuinely want to be friends with men. We want to spend time with you guys and it's incredibly stressful to try and maintain just enough distance to maintain a friendship that isn't moving into a one-sided crush. I think a relationship can grow from a friendship, but I can say from first hand experience that most men are not mature enough or have enough emotional intelligence to handle the potential rejection or continue a friendship afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:11 PM
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It's not about people knowing what I say online, this is a topic I consider private. I wouldn't talk about it in an irl setting, I won't talk about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:46 PM
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I'd rather not talk about my sex life on a public forum. I'm willing to say It's a normal amount. This is a hard lined boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:41 PM
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I'm gonna be so real with you, I didn't watch the video, I just knew what ops was talking about and I figured I'd hear hell for it if I didn't mention the ass beating. I personally think it's normal satire in a post boomer "I hate my wife" comedy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:36 PM
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I'd say decent strength but wouldn't want to be more detailed than that since it's not exclusively my information to share, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:17 PM
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Not in particular. Honestly I'm kinda apathetic towards most women, I don't have much in common with my peers interest wise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:14 PM
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I don't think this is a situation of consent for most women (except for the one who threatened to beat her husband, that was fucked up). I think most women like the facial hair and get upset when it's shaved. I know I grumble about it with my husband. As for the haircut, most women who get upset with their partners remarks (or lack of), do so because they either are getting rude remarks or they feel ignored. If I cut all my hair off and my husband didn't say anything, id be super upset because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:52 PM
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I think men are unfortunately raised with blinders towards attraction while women just... Aren't. I've personally never found any kind of man specifically attractive. To me, it's always been dependent on who they are as people. Sure, sometimes I find a passerby cute, but until I know what he's like I don't think much more than that. I think most women were raised to look at men in terms of compatibility moreso than hard-line attractive averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:55 PM
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having no control over owns body Outside of circumcision I'm not sure I understand what you're referring to. Being discriminated in education is also male issue Do you have any examples? I'm sorry you're bringing up issues I've never come into contact with. cultural. Being discriminated in healthcare is easier to prove I think this might be something specific to your area as American studies all point to women receiving poorer quality care and having less research for women specifically, which l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:55 PM
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is quite recent (I want to say around 1950 forward? but thats opinion). I'm fully willing to accept that it's likely generational and regional. I grew up in rural ohio and I was raised with the expectation of being a borderline tradwife. I do hold opinion that man should provide and let woman stay home if possible and she wants to. I have done that when children were small. I think it'd be nice but at least in my current situation it's just not feasible. We can't survive off one income even if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:12 PM
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It's really only people like my dad and grandparents who I've known to hold the opinion that men should provide and women should stay home. Everyone I know who's my age has a job regardless of gender and believes it's impossible to run a household without two working members. As for autonomy coming before tradition and religion, I agree wholeheartedly. I personally don't agree with conversations on misandry simply because the effects are so different from misogyny. I don't think they're close en…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:05 PM
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... your source is a tabloid site. I also didn't see any actual sources for the data but it might've been under all the ads. If all the data is telling you that you might be wrong, please just try to ask yourself why that is rather than looking towards fringe publications.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:13 PM
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"I'm a pervert, but only to women I personally think are hot. I am totally above everyone else" Again, sorry you're incapable of having female friends and have the same mentality as your average stray dog
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:53 PM
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"I'm sooo special I don't look at women in a sexual way, unlike all these animals who'll fuck anything!" If I were a man I'd be insulted. Going off of how you describe basically every man but yourself, they all have less self control than a dog. Again, this isn't a debate. I'm not going to agree with you and I do not respect your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:37 PM
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Says the guy literally accusing every other dude of being porn brained and incapable of friendship. The entire premise of this conversation is dishonest lmao. Again, I am not here to debate you. You're getting mad because you're trying to hold a debate with someone who isn't interested in trying to play lawyer with you. I'm not a prosecutor my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:48 PM
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You're projecting your beliefs on to the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:33 PM
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I'm not strawmanning nor am I debating you. I think your opinion isn't worth any true effort. Sorry you can't have female friends without being a weirdo about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:03 PM
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"I'm so above looking at women who I think are ugly" well regardless of where they sit in your little rating system, they're all above talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:28 PM
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Sorry you can't look at someone without thinking about them in a sexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:05 AM
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I can send you the screenshots
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:26 AM
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Then the boundaries were respected by not fucking up the friendship and making it complicated. Because bisexuality is a spectrum and mostly involves people lying to themselves I'd love to hear what lies you think are involved in it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:55 PM
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Yeah it's nuts. I think I managed to freak him out enough to not do it to anyone else since I listed how what he did was technically a crime and would not tell him if I was going to report him (which is impossible, but let him believe I can do that lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:45 PM
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Bisexual people don't count in this Why? Because they disprove your entire point? Wanting to have sex with somebody doesn't mean you he no respect for them It does when it ignores the thoughts and feelings of the person you're interacting with. My friends from then are still my friends now because they respected me as an equal and not as a potential sexual conquest and I viewed them in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:43 PM
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"well if you like your buddies, how come you haven't fucked them" Are you like, okay? Do you not understand the difference between platonic and romantic relationships? Also, I'm also into women. So are a lot of my girl friends. None of us have tried to get into each other's pants. It's entirely about respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:36 PM
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Well I'm not your pal, champ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:33 PM
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Basically some dude messaged me after I gave someone else advice, I said "sure man I can try to help" he starts with normal stuff about how to talk to women and handle insecurities and then he's like "oh btw can I show you my ween, rock hard? Y'know so you can rate it" and he proceeded to send two unsolicited dick pics after being told not to do that. This is not the first time something like that has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:30 PM
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Sure bud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:25 PM
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I think he messaged me after I gave someone advice on the virgin subreddit and I live in rural hell, so unfortunately there aren't a ton of in person options for that kinda thing. Most interactions I end up having happen after I offer some kind of advice. I do my best to mention I'm married beforehand because I don't want anyone to feel led on so it's not like they think I'm open to that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:24 PM
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Should I just spawn someone out of the ether who's known me for 15 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:21 PM
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I have irl friends, but y'know how adulthood is. Everyone is busy and I enjoy talking to people. I also don't think it's a chronically online problem when I'm really not on here that often and it happens at least 50% of the time I get any kind of DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:20 PM
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They're the jewels of the American Midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:17 PM
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I don't respect the opinion of people who say "mog" unironically. Mogging is what bananas do in smoothies. Your vocabulary is the vocal stim of an autistic woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:00 PM
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She's fat. Not particularly unattractive. He looks like a Cuban Lurch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:43 PM
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I didn't approach him. He messaged me looking for advice and I was like "yeah I can do my best" and it spiraled within a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:41 PM
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No he definitely wanted me to say it looked nice. Thankfully I have the nsfw filter so it didn't show me anything beyond an unfortunate blob
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:39 PM
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My thing is I told him I was uncomfortable with that since I considered it to be nudes and I don't care to be involved with that mess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:38 PM
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My best friends from highschool were mostly guys and they've never interacted with me like that. If they have those kinds of thoughts about me, they at least have the common sense to be quiet about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:35 PM
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Ew?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:34 PM
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He's got the iron dome and if he's average, so is Lindy or whatever her name is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:34 PM
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And I'd say, if we're doing the numbers game, he's probably a 4. Tops. Being tall doesn't get rid of what looks like a lot of bad decisions and the fact that he'd be 6 inches shorter without all that dome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:20 PM
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Trying to be friends with the majority of men is nightmarish. You'll be like "Hello! I like to bake and have a husband!" And their immediate response is "would you, perhaps, rate my peen? No? I will be sending it regardless:)"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:12 PM
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"he's tall and has status" okay but he looks like he has shell shock, I've never heard of him, and he's what every manosphere guy says a single mom is so are those two things really doing that much heavy lifting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:10 PM
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It's like brother it was already over, go get yourself a Blizzard and a catering quantity of cheese curds and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:13 PM
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Is that not how the scenario in this post starts? You're ghosted and trying to get the person to come back to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:46 PM
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For sure. I'm married so I have a slightly different mindset towards ghosting but yeah, ultimately in the realm of dating, don't spend forever trying to manifest a connection. It's not worth the stress
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:47 PM
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If a woman ghosts you, move on. It's unhealthy to spend so much time trying to do psychic manipulation to get her to want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:43 PM
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I don't think I'd ever get over it. I'd probably stay single for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:04 PM
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This is how every relationship I've ever been in has gone. I believe that attraction comes from time spent together. You could put me into a room with whatever super model dude and if he's boring or mean, I'm not gonna like him. I've always valued personality before looks. Does being attractive to me specifically need to happen? Yeah, eventually. It's just on the back burner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:42 AM
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I personally think so, but this is also the man who watched me get some mystery illness, took me to get a slushy, and then watched helplessly as I barfed all over the side of his bright red truck and he's also the man who got absurdly drunk after prom and forced me to tie a trash can to him. I scrubbed vomit and potato gnocchi out of a couch for hours. Both of these happened before we were dating. We did not go out of our way to be attractive to each other, the attraction just grew as we grew to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:18 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean by "moves the needle".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:59 AM
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Yeah? Pretty sure that's how my husband operates. He's never had to specifically go out of his way to look good. He just looks like himself. Same goes for me. Our match was entirely used on personality and attraction built on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:58 AM
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Why do you think women not wanting to go out of their way to be attractive to men makes them not good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:01 AM
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Then I have no clue. It might be a cultural difference tbh. I live in a very laid back place where people take a lot of chances in dating. Like, historically if someone asked me on a date id just be like "worth a shot, okay!". As I've gotten older, I've realized it's not like that everywhere. You very well might just be surrounded by women with unusually high standards. I recommend going to more rural areas for dates if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:52 AM
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I personally feel as though our advice isn't taken seriously or at all. I have a hard time feeling bad when guys are happy to ignore my attempts to connect and offer help. I'm okay with being told my advice doesn't suit someone or if it's just wrong, but being wholly ignored based on my sex alone is a little aggravating. That and men, especially in subreddits like this, aren't exactly empathetic to womens problems either. I see it largely as a "get what you give" situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:08 PM
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So is bitching at someone who literally just wanted to share their own personal experience with marriage on a post about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:22 AM
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How did you spell "throwing" wrong twice? It was an open book test
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:08 AM
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If I'm this irrelevant to you, why are you throwing this much of a fit over something you never had to interact with? You wanna live a miserable life where love is an illusion and we're all out for our own gain? Go for it. I'm not stopping you from hating your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:41 PM
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I don't care about doing homework for you. I shared an opinion. You don't need a contract, but I personally think it's nice and a way to show commitment. I have my marriage certificate on my wall like a trophy because I'm proud to be married to my husband. Men benefit more from marriage and there are statistics on that. I'll leave that scavenger hunt up to you. Marriage, in my experience within my little American micro culture, is beneficial to both parties. I'm also a big fan of the non-legal, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:05 PM
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You don't have to agree with me, me and my husband have separate bank accounts and split the bills, if you see human connection as a "liability" and a "symbol of decadent society", that's your own problem dude. Pretty sure most societies and economic backgrounds like marriage. It might be decadent if you have a crazy wedding, but that's not inherent to the concept of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:42 PM
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These are all things I learned as a Baptist growing up. Also that last verse is literally just you paraphrasing and I can't imagine you did it right. You're just showing that Abrahamic religion is inherently patriarchal and also old as shit. Of course they're talking about ransom and conquest and a "woman's duty". You're looking at the social norms of a religion founded over a thousand years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:27 PM
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I personally wouldn't even care if they're a virgin. Everyone starts as one, don't see why it's such a big deal to remain one for longer than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:44 PM
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Marriage is just a contract, but for a lot of people, that contract means something. It's a symbol of genuine commitment. Yeah, things might change one day and it might not work out, but it won't end without effort being put in to make it work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:21 PM
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I'm not 400lbs. The only guy I've ever turned down on a date was. I'm about 170, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:22 PM
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I'll be real. I've never cared about someone's weight until they got to the point of being noticeably unhealthy and intimidating size wise. Like, the only man I've ever turned down was probably close to 400 pounds and couldn't go my walking speed, and I'm 5'1 with stubby legs. Anything under that has always been okay with me. The thing that's put me off most men my age has been the insecurity they have with themselves and their gravitation towards violence to make up for it. Guys who say stuff l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:16 PM
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I'm not saying I don't care about the topic. I'm saying I don't care for argumentative semantics. I'm not looking for a debate. Just a discussion. I'm not going to be digging through the Internet for sources to prove my points because I don't really have a point to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:01 PM
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I'm not listening to people who want me to be unhappy, I'm just stating anecdotes from my personal life to give some reasoning to the mindset a lot of women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:54 PM
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Ok man, whatever you gotta do to feel right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:53 PM
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I'm not here to argue with people. If that's what studies are telling you, go with it. I'm just stating my lived experience and reasoning for why women might be choosing the things they're choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:47 PM
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I literally just told you I agree that women should have higher standards. I'm not blaming all men, but we can both acknowledge that it's a global mindset that a woman needs to be the keeper of the home and that modern economic necessities are making that a harder and harder role to fill. It's not a me problem, fortunately. I have a fantastic marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:46 PM
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Not everyone can afford a dishwasher and you still have to sort, fold, and put away that laundry. You also have to sweep, mop, scrub the bathroom, scrub the kitchen, meal plan, do yardwork, clean windows, organize, dust, clean up after pets, make meals, and manage almost every social event and plan accordingly. While I'm willing to agree that women need to have higher standards and stop dating men who're unwilling to help out, most women have been trained from birth that their role is to just ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:38 PM
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In my experience, single women aren't even looking for anything sexual or romantic. I'm recently married and I'm incredibly lucky to be with someone who helps out, but it's not common. It might be because I'm fairly rural though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:34 PM
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Women are very aware men lack developed social circles. It's why the main advice they receive is to create and maintain a diverse friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:30 PM
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Married women are often taking care of the domestic aspect of the home entirely alone and in our modern economy they're also working on top of that. What was once an important role that came with a lot of social connections is now incredibly taxing and isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:28 PM
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What the shrimp want is shrimply beyond us all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:17 PM
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Thank you! It took forever since it's hard to see the white thread through the waste canvas I used
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:15 PM
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AI could never compare to my artistry <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:12 PM
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I grew up in a crack den. People who buy drugs will buy them regardless. If a dealer stops selling, an addict doesn't stop buying, they just go somewhere else. Should anyone be either buying or selling? No. Will they anyway? Absolutely. Both have fault in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:14 PM
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I don't have issues with dating advice as a content style. My main issue is taking advantage of insecurity. The kind of content that basically says "you're gonna die alone because you make less than 6 figures and have a chin that doesn't hit 90°" is what I have the biggest issue with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:02 PM
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I'll be honest, it's not the pornstars fault that guys pay them, especially when there are free alternatives. As for tradwives, I think they're playing to a fantasy based in a non-existent "good ol' days" that takes advantage of anyone who feels burnt out and overstimulated in the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:05 PM
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Absolutely, it's just that I see male ones trying to target their insecurities whereas women kinda just fill the niche of a sexual partner. I think both are bad, but one feels more purposeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:03 PM
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I just wish they realized that people like Andrew Tate don't actually want them to get better, they want them to be pay pigs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:37 PM
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Red pill/alpha male content creators are just taking advantage of insecure men and I don't understand how that's not obvious to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:31 PM
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Tldr chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:02 AM
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Picking a subject, lighting, angle, and doing editing is a lot more involved than giving a robot a sentence prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:51 PM
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This is not an issue with bad print quality. People are buying products that are not possible to be completed to match the image used to sell it. I'll dm you examples since reddit won't let me comment pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:26 PM
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I'm in a lot of embroidery groups and it's super common for people who buy kits to be tricked into buying an AI generated kit that isn't possible to recreate. It uses stitches that can't be replicated, the threads don't lie the way they would in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:13 PM
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I think the act of human creation is irreplaceable. I don't care if someone draws like garbage, if their crochet blanket looks like a fishing net, or their whittling project looks like something I'd use as tinder. The fact they're making something is special in my opinion. I don't want people to lose their connection to that act.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:00 PM
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Photography still has a learning curve and involves human input
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:56 PM
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I'm not talking about careers. I am talking about hobbies. AI is also being used to scam people specifically in the textile arts sector of hobbies. Again, you should be concerned by the decrease in people being able to get through the initial learning curve of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:04 PM
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Which is awful. I've seen it be nothing but a detriment outside of very specific medical settings. It's just the rich attempting to replace the working class
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:55 PM
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A man told me he thought artists were special because they make art. People are being convinced that they don't have the ability to create, something we were doing before language, because he's either seeing the finished art of developed artists or AI. People are losing the ability to get through the "I'm not good at this I suck" part of learning a skill. I can't understand being okay with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:54 PM
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AI is destroying people's capacity for creative and emotional fulfillment and it's making a mockery of the crafts themselves. I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:29 PM
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Id probably be pissed, yeah. Getting laid off is outside anyone's control and if there are layoffs, I imagine the job market isn't great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:33 AM
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Shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:42 PM
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My guy that is a post from 3 months ago that I didn't even remember making. Either stick to the current conversation at hand or admit you've got nothing useful to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:58 PM
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Where'd I say men? I simply think doomers are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:53 PM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:58 PM
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I don't remember saying anything about attractiveness. My apologies if this is coming across as an issue in the realm of dating rather than an issue with specifically the blackpill/doomer mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:44 PM
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I personally think it's not weakness. Everyone can have mental health struggles, that's nothing to shame. It's just the weird... Smugness they have about being miserable. It's like doomers feel like they're better than others for being so misanthropic and "anti-hope".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:38 PM
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A lot of them don't want help. Which I can understand, it's a co-morbidity to a lot of different mental health issues but that doesn't make it less obnoxious and it does stop it from being genuinely exhausting to both see and deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:41 PM
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Honestly you're right. It just seems childish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:06 PM
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Bro, you don't have to be a dude to be an aggravating nihilist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:06 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:05 PM
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It's just exhausting to see so much hollow nihilism. I personally consider it to be a show of being complacent in ones depression/apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:05 PM
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At this point I think doomerism is just straight up cringe. Like yeah, the world struggles and life isn't always great but goddamn it's annoying to hear someone say shit like "it doesn't even matter bro like it's already over why even try bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:24 PM
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I'm a feminist, and I don't want revenge. I want acknowledgement of the past and present issues stemming from sexism that plague both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:10 PM
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My current hyper fixation has become 14th century nuns and I'm now planning on building a scriptorium in my future house. wish me luck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:36 PM
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Empathetic, intelligent, hardworking and playful are my main things. I want someone who can sit down and play videogames with me one day and help me with a project the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:12 PM
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I've seen some of the gameplay and it looks fun, I'll play it eventually. I'm trying to hold myself to the goal of finishing the games I've got lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:09 PM
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I don't know how to pirate games or how to pick an emulator, it was also just on sale on the Nintendo eShop so I bought it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:08 PM
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I knew the story was officially unsalvageable when I entered a secret room that had "RETARD" written on a blackboard with it. No other context or anything, just gamer words. It was honestly kinda hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:28 PM
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Honestly, the story was the biggest issue, I can handle a walking sim. The entire time they prep you for some kind of scare that never comes and they try to make you feel bad for the dad, who cheated on his wife for a sixteen year old. It was just one of the most genuinely bad stories I've ever interacted with and it was super disappointing because you could see the bones of something good in it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:19 AM
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I consider myself an intersectional feminist and a large portion of the ideology is helping men overcome social issues. To say that we are inherently at odds feels more like just hating what you perceive feminism to be than having issues with the ideology itself. I'd also like to mention that women are not united on one front. There are multiple feminist subgroups that dislike eachother as well as anti feminist women who dislike all of us, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:16 AM
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I finally played "the suicide of Rachel Foster" and it was the worst game I've ever played. Thank God I bought it on sale for like, $2
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:09 AM
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Yeah you need to seek actual help dude. That is not a normal or healthy thing to say whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:02 PM
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I'll be honest, this conversation, if you could call it that, isn't worth having. I wish you the best, please have as nice as a day as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:16 PM
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I have been in this sub for months trying my best to understand and help in the ways I know how and have been doing my best to be better for years now. if you wanna call me sadistic for not having the energy to be someone's therapist on the spot, that's on you. not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:07 PM
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Yeah, it's a bit concerning how many guys are trying to tell me that all the women they know love it and that I'm "lying" about it not being a good thing to do. It's a bit strange so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:56 PM
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It's concerning to me because I feel as though no one should be so comfortable with being miserable that they refuse to acknowledge positivity in any regard. But y'know what? Yeah, the idea that some of them might snap and hurt women is concerning to me too. If it's not concerning to you as well then I have no issue in saying that you need to seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:54 PM
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I'll be honest man, that's a can of worms I don't have the energy to get into. Please seek some form of mental health help and or resources to do with education on the topic of mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:07 PM
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Do you have any advice on how to discuss mental health wth men? I've tried and to be honest I've had a hard time with talking to the guys who seem to need it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:06 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:05 PM
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Y'know what? You're not worth talking to. If you wanna sit and smugly know nothing about anything, be my guest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:04 PM
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Go for it man. You're not going to get many women who want that. I'm not going to say there are none. There's always a few, but it's absolutely the minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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It's not about "product". Honestly it's baffling that basic knowledge on anatomy is somehow some weird political issue to some people. Your mindset is why some grown adults still think that babies happen when a guy pees in a girl. Basic knowledge isn't an ideology "feminism" is trying to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:38 PM
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I'm not sure, but it's something I've noticed a lot recently in different spaces. Another example is how men will tell each other that they're on their own in terms of mental health struggles, especially on posts specifically for men's mental health. It's just bizarre to me that some men are so hellbent on being miserable and intent on spreading those emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:35 PM
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It's r/truevirgin I think and it was one specific post. If you don't want to believe me, that your problem rather than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:28 PM
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The post in question was about how a man isn't a real man unless he's touching the cervix. Most women don't really seem to genuinely care that much about size in a long term relationship. I can't speak for hookups, I've never done any of that so I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:26 PM
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I've never been asked that in my life and it's not "size doesn't matter". It's "women don't want their cervix being hole punched by a dick". Ask almost any woman and they'll tell you that it's not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:25 PM
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Basic human reproductive anatomy isn't engine oil. They could be celibate monks and id still say that an understanding of both male and female anatomy is important. It's also super concerning to see what I consider to be a genuine mental health crisis happening in a comment section. The idea that they'll eventually get better when they "get some" is at best a bandaid on the metaphorical amputation that is the current men's mental health crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:23 PM
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It's not partly true. Women largely don't want anything near their cervix and most say that girth is more important than length. I can understand being upset about the small dick energy comment. It's unfair to comment on peoples bodies, especially when it's not something they can change. Porn is definitely something I'm starting to blame more and more for the misconceptions I see people have about intimacy. At the end of the day, it's just hard to see people so upset and having no way to help th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:19 PM
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I guess, I guess it's just hard to understand why they make themselves upset on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 PM
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I just felt horrible reading all the comments on the post because those guys seem so genuinely miserable and embarrassed. It's just hard to know that people feel like that without knowing how to help, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:15 PM
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I fully understand being depressed and anxious. No one was telling them to be happy. They were being told that the specific issue of "women only want a guy who can hit their cervix" isn't real. Most women do not want that. They were down voting the comments who were trying to explain that while simultaneously telling each other that "the dickpill is brutal" and "it's over". It was just incredibly concerning to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:13 PM
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I don't think there was any pressure applied... They're free to live their lives in whatever way they'd like, but I'm honestly just baffled as to why they'd insist on being upset about an issue that doesn't actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:11 PM
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Sounds alright then, Im fine with all that. If he's financially stable and a good person I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:00 PM
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I think it depends on where that income comes from. One of the most attractive things to me is work ethic. I could probably handle dating a trust fund kid if they use their time in a way that could be deemed valuable. For me that'd be mainly stuff like volunteering but other people have different ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:50 PM
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Frankenstein's mistake was very human I think this is a key point. Frankenstein was human. His actions, his fears, his mistakes, are all very relatable. Adam wasn't ever taught what it meant to be human and his actions show his lack of humanity, but he actively craves it. I think it's what makes the book so compelling. No amount of rocks thrown at him for being ugly makes anything Adam did not his own choice. I think the reason the rocks are so important is that it drives home the idea that Adam…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:38 PM
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Oh shit my bad! Yeah, the ballet came out in like 2016 but I guess there was some controversy with the choreographer (that's really sad) and they kinda stopped advertising the ballet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:07 PM
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I think you're right about Adam not being the victim til the end, but I think Frankenstein shares the blame for what happens with Adam. He made a fully grown man in a lab, and immediately ran from him without teaching him anything about the humanity that he was born into and then proceeded to not come forward at all about what he's done when the murders started. I think Frankenstein is a victim of his own hubris and Adam is a victim of mans cruelty. They're equal in their evil imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:05 PM
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Okay so Frankenstein is considered the first sci-fi novel an was written by Mary Shelley in 1818. It's considered one of the most influential books in the west. You could probably find a copy of it online for free in whatever format you'd like. There's also a ton of movies about it. Id recommend reading the book before watching the ballet because it helps to explain a lot of the chaos that happens as there's no dialogue in the ballet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:56 PM
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Honestly yeah, the only complaint I've seen is how the movies timeline is slightly different from the book but I think it's fair given the large timespan the book uses to tell it's story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:30 PM
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Hey guys, I finally found a way to watch the Royal ballets performance of Frankenstein and figured I'd share it with you guys since it's an absolutely breathtaking performance: https://archive.org/details/frankenstein_202310 (Also, let me hear your Frankenstein hot takes, I love seeing other people's options on it)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:24 PM
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It's an absolutely beautiful movie, I hope you enjoy it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:49 PM
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What're your guys opinions on the new dune movie??? Personally I absolutely loved it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:40 PM
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Id say he's handsome but not my type. Personally I like the Michael Cera/will Wheaton kinda guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:17 PM
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You've got a point but do calf stretches if you wear them regularly, they can mess up the muscles in your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:13 PM
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Honestly any radical feminist/terf related groups are full of crazy shit. I say that as a feminist myself. They're just a different kind of yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:11 PM
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If I'm wrong my apologies but you're making broad statement about women that don't apply to any woman I know, so I think the assumption that you're pulling info from a small sample size is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:05 PM
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Thank you, I try my best to be nice when I can. I hope the people in your life are kinder to you in the future and I hope you can find kindness around you. I think it was Mr Rodgers that said something to the effect of "no matter how terrible things are, look for helpers. There will always be people who strive to help" I think it's a great mindset, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:55 PM
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I can admit that I was lucky in finding my partner as he was my highschool best friend. While I can only speak for my own circle, all the women I know have very similar relationships. None of us have looked for super well off or super model level guys. I get that some women online live very different lives but as far as I know, people like me are the majority. I understand that "change your personality" is incredibly vague and kinda insulting, but it's essentially just watered down, decent advic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:16 PM
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I'm not sure where the comment came from but I can agree that yeah, the trust fund baby superiority complex is super annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:04 PM
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I don't know how id give you that notion given that you know positively nothing about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:54 AM
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If I'm being honest that just sounds like you have a very small sample pool for what the average woman seeks out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:11 AM
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Like men, we're able to see why conventionally attractive features are a standard, but we also have specific aspects we like in terms of looks and personality. I don't see what's so upsetting about that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:16 PM
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Happy Valentine's Day y'all, hope it's a nice day for you guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:03 PM
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I personally avoid anything to do with tinder as I don't think it offers a fair representation of people. I think a lot of people on there aren't looking for anything serious and don't care about the personality of their matches
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:08 PM
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It's actually thought that since nutrition is constantly getting better, we're finally starting to grow to our full potential. (Unfortunately my full potential is 5'1)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:59 AM
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I mean, I've seen the kinds of DMs girls like that get and some of them are FOUL. I can understand being disillusioned after awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:57 AM
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If no one thinks of that stuff when you say "status", are you sure you've got the definition right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:48 AM
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I consider education separate from status and personally don't consider college the ultimate achievement. I consider trade work equal to anything that requires a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:47 AM
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I know I'm just one person but both of those things are honest to God meaningless to myself and most of the people I know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:11 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:22 PM
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Most of mine died while I was in highschool so I've had a bit more time to grieve
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:22 PM
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It's alright, it was gonna happen eventually, y'know? I just didn't think I'd be 20 when it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:10 PM
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Shitty job and my mom's funeral (kinda) is next week
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:02 PM
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Thankfully I don't follow sports. I think that'd leave me insane given how bad teams seem to be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:33 PM
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So far, 2024 isn't great. No surprise since 2023 ended horribly. How's everyone else doing? Y'all alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:29 PM
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She's so pretty, I wish I knew her routine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:16 PM
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As a woman, I personally don't know how id feel if a guy approached me with an emotional support lady. I give guys the best advice I can when it's applicable but there's only so much women can do to help you with finding a partner. Having a partner is an incredible responsibility that takes a lot of maturity. I just cannot imagine that anyone is ready for that level of commission if they need their hand held by someone else to find that connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:49 PM
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I just got the recipe for beds so I'm excited. I've been grinding to fill up my museum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:11 PM
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Yikes- I'm not super surprised. Homeless people are often homeless due to either unchecked substance abuse issues or unchecked mental health issues. That tracks for both options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:10 PM
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Why did no one tell me that getting new villagers in animal crossing was such a hassle? These little bastards want whole houses and real beds, My little dude doesn't even have a real bed yet! 😔🥲😤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:47 PM
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Sorry but giving the homeless guy money and letting him fuck me are two entirely different things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:43 PM
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Glad to hear it man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 PM
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I'm so happy to live in the legit middle of nowhere because the most expensive tickets I've ever bought were like, $15 each. Usually I pay like $7 each.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 PM
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Hell yeah! I hope it goes well!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:41 PM
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In my head I know they don't have faces but I can't help but mentally give them silly little sock puppet faces. Like this: •<• 🪱 this emoji has a tiny face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:24 AM
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I mean same but that's because I love worms. They're just little dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:12 AM
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Insults aren't feedback. All they do is make people feel bad. Someones worth is not based on their looks. If I notice that a friend is living in a way that's detriment to their health, I'll say something. I don't call my friends out on their weight unless I'm asked for an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:56 PM
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It's just our sense of humor, we're not very high brow...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:52 PM
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I personally think I'd be one of those little green inch worms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:49 PM
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NOOOOO NOT ANT LOVE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:48 PM
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I asked my fiancee the worm question and he said he'd just eat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:46 PM
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Sounds like you're projecting a biased personal experience onto every woman ever but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:45 PM
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I have drinks and candy. That's all I offer unless we have lunch or dinner plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:41 PM
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Do you see how some people talk about them? Yeah, you can say it's their fault they're fat or whatever, but there's zero reason to insult and belittle people for the simple fact they don't meet your personal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:39 PM
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This is the original point of alimony! "Trad women" are left with no savings, job history (or any experiences in some examples), and at least one kid to care for. An alimony is supposed to give her the same lifestyle she had beforehand as she can't live without a husband. That's honestly a main reason divorce rates used to be so low. Women were terrified of being left without anything and any way to fix their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:38 PM
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The best my guests get are my living room candy dish. If I know I'm having a group over, then I'll probably cook. Maybe I'm tyrannical but I don't let people just ... Cook in my house. That seems rude of them. Like, you came to hang out and now you're dirtying my dishes and using my ingredients? Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:34 PM
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Depends on the woman, but I also love seeing the girlies get BUFF. They're so pretty and strong!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:30 PM
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A lot of companies are starting to use consumer guilt to get more money. That tip goes straight to the owner. Not any employees that are actually working. If it's automated, I don't tip. If I'm interacting with a real person, I tip in cash so they get more of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:29 PM
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They said some pretty valid stuff man, you don't have to insult people for having different ideas than you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:27 PM
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Absolutely fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:33 AM
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I actually got a hanataka tengu mask from an antique shop and it looks lonely on my wall 😓 I'm trying to learn what mask would go well with him but I need to find a place to buy them first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:14 AM
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That's so much soup! What kinds of soup are you making?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:10 AM
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If you really want to argue with me, just DM me so we don't mess up what I thought were good vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:09 AM
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I wish you the best of luck then!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:58 PM
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You don't know her and you can't comment on her experiences based off of a single comment. It's a holiday, let us just enjoy the night without making it into some kind of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:58 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:15 PM
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That's sweet! I hope everyone has fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:12 PM
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Oof, could be worse though I guess. Maybe you'll find a buddy of your own at the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:10 PM
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Nice! I hope they're good ones! We had these ones shaped like tanks when I was younger. They "drove" for a few seconds and had firecrackers on the back. I recommend finding those if you can, kids always like them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:09 PM
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Hell yeah man, don't mess up your sleep schedule! I hope whatever noise that happens tonight doesn't wake you up!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:43 PM
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Y'all I have an important question: Does anyone know where I can buy a cheap, but not plastic, Japanese theater mask? I can't find anything online 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:40 PM
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Happy new Year's Eve guys!!! How's everyone spending their new years? Personally, I'm cleaning my house and making fancy little sandwiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:38 PM
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Yeeeaahh. I hate the idea that being a wife is supposed to be like being a maid in your own house. It's a super pervasive idea in conservative and "traditional" groups. It's just not a healthy way to live at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:36 PM
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From personal experience (I can't speak for everyone) a lot of them aren't. They're usually really mean and lash out a lot at people around them and seem kinda like they're coping with something 24/7. Again, I'm not speaking fr everyone but that's what I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:32 PM
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I think rather than becoming overall less valued, western society has splintered into sects that value different things. personally? I think intelligence is one of the most important things someone can have, especially emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:51 PM
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I personally spend most of my time alone at the gym and am admittedly unobservant. I also use my local YMCA, which has mostly old people and small children at it. I might have a bigger issue if I went somewhere like planet fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:20 AM
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the aforementioned was my and my fiancees experience as well as the experience of pretty much any of our friends. I follow the idea that being ones authentic self is the best way to go about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:17 PM
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I couldn't figure out how to do the fancy personalized tags so I just did the usual description of myself. I like making things easier for people anyways. Why make people guess on where I stand, y'know? (I'm also still largely confused on the red vs blue differences so there's a good chance I don't adhere to everything that's blue, if that makes sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:57 PM
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I've never had any issues in a mixed gym, but I can see why people would want split ones. I approve of it, personally. I think we should have both mixed and split gyms so there's somewhere for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:51 PM
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Don't pretend your hyper negative and biased worldview are facts and I'd have no reason to even interact with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:38 PM
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No it's not. This is a slice of your worldview. Not a reflection of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:33 PM
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Jeez dude this is a deranged opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:04 PM
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Personally I think that's pretty good, although a lot of people enjoy having a partner thy can recreationally drink with. I think if you can stand drunk people, you'll be fine as a "designated driver" kinda person. If someone rejects you because you don't want to do any particular substance with them, they're probably not someone you want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:36 PM
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I got mine a book, some goofy little stuff, candy, and a ring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:30 PM
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By who? I think anyone who would shame another for just being happy isn't someone worth being around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:37 PM
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That's just sad. I think if something isn't hurting anyone, finding joy in it should be celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:07 PM
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I'm not asking anyone to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:06 PM
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It's not faking, I noticed women romanticize being alive whereas men just... Don't? It's a hard concept to put into words. I was just wondering why tht might be. I don't know why everyone seems mad at me for just trying to understand something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:05 PM
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I didn't say smile more. Just was wondering why guys don't seem to have the same "romanticization" of life that women have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:03 PM
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I mean I've dealt with similar issues so I definitely get it. It's just like, a society wide thing. I see women trying to uphold a sense of romanticization for life itself and I was just curious why men don't seem to do anything similar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:02 PM
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I'm just saying I don't see guys getting excited about things and they seem generally more pessimistic. I don't want anyone to do anything, I just wondered why men don't have a very strong sense of things like whimsy and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:01 PM
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Why do I see so many men denying themselves basic joy all the time? It's like a ton of dudes would rather be miserable than show an ounce of whimsy or joy. Do you guys consider outward shows of happiness as effeminate or something? I just am not getting it Edit: I wrote this at work and was thinking about it. I think my actual question is why don't men seem to romanticize life at all? I see women talking about how living is a gift because there's all sorts of little joys to it but I don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:49 PM
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It's a genre of horror that draws inspiration from nostalgia and "vintage" aesthetics. Some of the more well known examples are the Mandela catalog, skinamarink, and the backrooms (it's a YouTube series but I've forgotten the name of the creator. I think his name is Trevor or something). Some popular inspirations for the genre are found footage, public access TV, lost media and older creepypastas like Ted the caver and candle cove.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:29 AM
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It kinda looks like if a baguette was cut in half and hollowed out into slippers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:30 AM
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Do y'all think analog horror is dying out or do you think the good stuff is just more underground?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:19 AM
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Do y'all think analog horror is dying out or do you think the good stuff is just more underground?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:19 AM
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Plenty of housewives have side jobs and have historically had side jobs. Who do you think used to sell stuff like Avon, Tupperware and Mary Kay? Who do you think runs Etsy and does side shifts on weekends? Also, most people cannot afford to stay at home full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:44 PM
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For work? 20 is the max amount of time he spends at work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:42 PM
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I'm so excited for Christmas, I bought my boyfriend slippers that look like bread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:41 PM
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He's as close as it gets in the modern economy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:38 PM
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Which is why I used the term house husband. Not stay at home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:28 PM
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Pretty sure the above post refers to either housework or childcare. It doesn't have to be both to count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:12 PM
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Do I have to have kids to be engaged or married? Also how would he not be somewhat of a house husband? I'm the breadwinner and he handles a lot of th daily house chores. That sounds like a house husband to me. Him having a part time job doesn't negate that dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:05 PM
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I always thought most of them were mean and avoided them. I don't know how anyone could find someone who's mean on purpose attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:22 PM
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For me it was just any boy. I wasn't well liked before highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:20 PM
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It happened to me a lot, the boys who did that stuff always laughed at me because I thought it was sweet before they made it obvious they thought I was ugly. I was... Gullible-
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:29 PM
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I can't speak for others but I love my house husband/fiance. We both work, but I work more so he's usually keeping most of the chores under control
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:27 PM
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I've never seen a long haired cat with coloring like that I wonder what that coat pattern is called? EDIT; The coat pattern is called piebald. (Specifically orange piebald)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:15 PM
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If that's comedy then I thank God that I'm not funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:59 PM
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Yeeeaahh it's really bad. It's kinda funny sometimes though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:24 PM
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I just have a hard time understanding why people are mean to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:10 PM
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I think it's funny because he's huge. When we got him he was like 15 pounds
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:09 PM
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I'm just amazed people can be so mean just because I'm a lady with a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:57 PM
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Yeah he's my little buddy. His name is peanut!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:56 PM
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He's a very polite little guy. His name is peanut!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:55 PM
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I mean yeah that's a super personal subject that could be related to emotional or health issues. My boyfriend definitely deserves to vent about stuff like that, but Id prefer if it wasn't with some random coworker, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:53 PM
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It's werewolf erotica
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:50 PM
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Why do so many guys try to make fun of my cat when I comment something they disagree with? Like, I'll just say something and all of a sudden I've got comments saying "THATS WHY YOU'RE A CAT LADY" or just talking about how I'll die alone? I figured you guys would have some insight. (Cat tax for anyone who can see the image:) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:48 PM
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In my experience both the engagement and wedding rings have stones. Men's are usually pretty plain but there's definitely fancier ones. Most men I know seem to prefer the plain ones though. Given that my boyfriend is REALLY bad at hiding gifts, I'm pretty sure mine is a simple gold band with a topaz
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:58 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:36 PM
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I'm pretty sure guys get engagement rings? Either way I'm getting him a nice ring and a set of silicone ones since he can't wear a solid one to work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:34 PM
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We've talked about it before and both of us would be happy to take the next step. Now it's just come down to the rings. Mine is going to be a birthday presents and I'll have his by Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:30 PM
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Necklaces make a different sound when you shake the box. You can head the chain rattle. They also usually come in longer boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:23 PM
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I think my boyfriend is about to propose, which is exciting. He's got a ring sized wrapped box under our Christmas tree and it has the name of a jewelry company on it.... He's not the best at hiding gifts, but it's sweet regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:18 PM
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You're trying to pick a fight with a person you don't even know on Reddit. I'm enjoying an evening with my fiancee. We are not the same lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:16 AM
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Christ dude. Please find better ways to spend your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:14 AM
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Being big is a good thing in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:31 PM
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While he's a cartoon, Maui is considered to have theoretically very attractive features and is built to look strong. I'm pretty sure his design is directly inspired by the Rocks grandfather. I personally would take it as a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:05 PM
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I would but evangelical (for lack of a better term) extremism has essentially seeped Into every church in my area. I don't feel comfortable in any of them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:53 PM
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Pretty sure he'd have to be a willing participant in the adoption process or they wouldn't let the kid go home with him regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:51 PM
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It's a bit of both, I'm trying to figure it out but I also really just want to get into more community service stuff and I know churches are good for that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:50 PM
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Quakerism is pretty close to that, and universalism doesn't really exist in rural Ohio, sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:25 PM
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If you can resent a kid for being adopted, that's a you problem. Id leave someone over that too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:24 PM
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I think there's a difference in the matter. One is a guy leaving his wife because of she cannot have kids and then refusing surrogacy, adoption, ect. The other is a woman who doesn't want something growing in her that could possibly kill her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:21 PM
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The specifics are important. I was raised Baptist and hated it. The way they lead services and their more specific beliefs just were not for me. Quakerism sounds perfect, but I cannot find a church that isn't nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:19 PM
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I think that he'd be entitled to his own wants, but I'd consider him a lost cause. I'm not going to call anyone a bad person for wanting something that's technically not harmful, but I will say I'm not going to be empathetic to them on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:17 PM
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Y'know I kinda hate evangelical Christianity. Like, it's ruining any church it touches. Like, I wanna look into quakerism but the one singular friends church we have is evangelical and everyone seems bonkers. Like, dinosaurs are made up bonkers. It's just so frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:15 PM
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If he's willing to leave me and refuse any compromise on the situation then I'd walk him out myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:11 PM
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Id just adopt. There's so many kids out there with absolutely no one and there's already too many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:08 PM
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Id just take it as a normal compliment for now. For some reason most women really like eyes and some will compliment people on it whenever they notice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:07 PM
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True, that's why I avoid Twitter in it's entirety. Especially after all the stuff Elon did to ruin any usability it had
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:16 PM
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I thought my current partner was kinda goofy but not bad looking when I met him, I fell in love with him as a person before I really started to notice his looks if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:15 PM
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God, I hope that lady can get help, her entire relationship sounded super emotionally and financially abusive. How can people do that to their partners? I'll never understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:12 PM
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I don't think I've actually seen anyone judge someone for that, the last thing I've heard that's similar is the general misinformation that tampons will take your virginity or something crazy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:09 PM
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The only thing I can think of the relates to the subject is the tuberculosis craze. People in the Victorian/Edwardian era thought that tuberculosis was a "beautiful" disease due to it giving victims of it a pale complexion, blood red lips and a slow death, which was seen as romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:12 PM
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That seems kinda gross imo... Like, I can't imagine using someone's anemia as a tool for manipulation like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:10 PM
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I keep seeing stuff about guys wanting girls with low iron, anyone know what that's about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:05 PM
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No group has homogeneous thoughts and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:03 PM
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People change ina relationship, you can't be blamed when someone manipulates and tricks you. Also, if you're so nervous you need to ask for a paternity test, the woman has probably given you a reason for that anxiety. Of course, it's probably for the best to talk about stuff like that before the baby is born and to not spring on her in or right after labor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:43 PM
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I mean, that's a little absurd, but it still wouldn't change who he is in the moment and if he's with me, his sexuality obviously includes women, so it's not really a big deal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:41 PM
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I really don't think I'd have a problem with my partner having a ton of partners, especially if I had already loved them and built a life with them over two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:37 PM
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Why are there so many people who think paternity tests are a bad thing? If you're in doubt, protect yourself from being legally held accountable for a child that unfortunately isn't yours. The only time I actually see people having issues with it is when guys ask during or directly after the birth of the child (like, within 30 minutes of the kid being born).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:36 PM
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People aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:28 PM
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So you want me to be trans? Also, I'm not the one who's seeking out ancient comments to try and start problems, so am I really the loser ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:12 PM
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It's been 4 months you cretin, get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:05 PM
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Just about every piece of fiction you have ever read has a hand in politics and morality. If social movements are woke, so is just about everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:05 PM
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What makes it "woke"? It's just boring. It uses social movements in a cheap, almost mocking way and people dislike it. Not a super hard concept
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:00 PM
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Haiku bot is a good bot, this is slander
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:07 PM
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I actually have had a lot of guys from subs like this DM me for advice and I try my best. Do they take my advice? Usually not. But I actively listen. Just because you surround yourself with people who apparently don't want to listen to you doesn't mean that's suddenly an issue with women entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:23 PM
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That's what they're there for. The entire point of society is to have community. You should be able to rely of the people around you for help and advice and they should be able to expect the same from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:18 PM
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Your entire account looks like it's dedicated to bitching about women, so what makes you any better than the hypothetical women you just made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:04 PM
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I'd love to go one day, but that's a bit far for a visit. My home museum is in Cincinnati OH and it has a whole ice age section with an indoor cave system that also has water features and live bats (they were in habitats sectioned off with plexiglass). If you're ever in the area, I highly recommend it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:20 PM
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Museum dates are the best, but unfortunately the ones I like are geared towards kids here. Natural history and dinosaurs are apparently for children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:15 PM
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To be honest I think it's dumb luck that I haven't hurt myself while roller skating yet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:13 PM
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My boyfriend dropped his phone on my head the other night when showing me a video. That's about as close to wrestling as we get
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:13 PM
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I think I was just lucky to live in a small town no one ever left or visited, but I never got it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:11 PM
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I'm so bad at bowling but it's so fun. Roller skating dates are where it's at. That is peak romance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:09 PM
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Most of these honestly sound like really cute date ideas. I personally think a hike and meal at like, subway or something is peak
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:06 PM
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That's fair. I do see this as something that has to be learned or taught. It's just that women are unfortunately the only ones taught and men are often never given the resources or space to teach themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:02 PM
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"what do you think a stoic rock is" I think it's like talking to a brick wall. Stoicism isn't meant to be applicable to an intimate conversation. Therapists put their own feelings on the back burner because their entire job is hearing horribly depressing things. You should be able to actively listen to and comfort your partner without pretending to be some kind of emotionless robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:19 PM
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That's not a therapist, that's talking to a brick wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:11 PM
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I'm actually pretty sure that the teen rebellion stage is an actual part of our development. I think it's to help us become more independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:58 AM
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Isn't there a whole statistic about how men often leave their wives if they're sick or injured whereas women stay and care for their husbands in the same scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:56 AM
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I think the issue is that women are kinda used as therapists, but men don't know how to do the same for women. It can make a relationship feel very one sided. Of course, I don't think it's men's fault that they don't know how to do any of that, it's something I've had to learn over a lifetime. It's just another instance where gender stereotypes hurt everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:54 AM
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Thank you haiku bot, very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:51 AM
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It's simply just not a big deal to most people. They mean the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:47 AM
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Why would I, some stranger you've never met, lie to you? Or any of you? I fully believe that ones personality is much more important in a long lasting relationship than anything else. Also, I don't know why you'd neglect your health and appearance just because you were told looks aren't that important. Your appearance (in terms of your cleanliness and such) and health are massively important in terms of dating.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:34 PM
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My advice comes from that fact that I'm a woman who knows other women and I know that none of them talk to people who talk like you guys do.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:41 PM
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If your entire life is based on getting a girlfriend, how are you going to be prepared to make it last? How will you be prepared for anything after that? Looks fade and they do so fast. If you're only finding people who are interested in looks, your looking in the wrong places for any long lasting love.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:37 PM
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Ways to better yourselves as people, to better your emotional and physical health, ways to become the best that you can be. You don't need a mirror to reach those goals as the best people aren't usually the most beautiful people.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:28 PM
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You don't know me nor my struggles. Take my opinions and advice whatever way you'd like, but to assume that I don't know struggle or hardship is laughable.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:25 PM
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I think the greatest failing of groups like this is thinking that looks are the most important part.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:24 PM
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I'm mainly just making a general statement that the focus on looks on this sub isn't healthy. It's not helping you guys either, at least from what I've seen on other parts of the Internet.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:29 PM
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I didn't say anything other than it's probably not a good idea to use terminology that most people have a negative association with and that treating your basic physical attributes as something to change rather than to accept and work with is probably not good for you. I don't why you assumed that I'm here just to mock you or something when I gave the advice I'd give anyone, male or female. I didn't call you a basement dweller and I know I don't know anything about you besides this post. Most wo…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:27 PM
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I genuinely think you guys would have better chances if you stopped talking like this and treating your personal appearances like some kind of game customization.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:13 PM
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Just because of the current stress of my job, I'd go with work life. Everyone is happier if the work life is better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:38 AM
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Tell me what should make the alarms sound then. That all sounds like a great baseline to start at. I also see you guys complaining about most of the issues that are listed. I've seen gender role stress mentioned on here, issues with ones own sense of masculinity, ECT. In this specific group, those ideas and feelings are often reinforced in a negative way by telling each other to man up or to do arbitrary tasks like going to the gym. You guys also do have very certain privileges that I am not all…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:09 AM
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Alright, I read them. We'll, glanced at them since I'm also getting ready for work. What I saw seemed perfectly legitimate. I'm not sure how it's some kind of "woke recruitment".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:57 AM
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How does therapy recruit men for anything? The most I can imagine is a therapist saying "hey maybe your grievances aren't coming from literally everyone else but yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:42 AM
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Have you ever been to therapy? Because it really doesn't sound like you have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:31 AM
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I tell guys to go to therapy because it's something that's helped me immensely. I also try to give resources that I personally know work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:08 PM
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I think ones personality is a reflection of ones experiences and worldview. I think trying to change your lifestyle a little might help?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:06 PM
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I'm so excited to hand out candy for Halloween and then even more excited for Christmas. I'm gonna make my cat his own stocking and everything it's gonna be great
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:46 PM
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You can have your own opinions. I think everyone is inherently valuable and I don't really think anything's going to change my mind on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:03 AM
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Where did I say they weren't? People are valuable. Their experiences and lives mean something. It does matter who you are or what your gender is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:55 PM
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It's been such a good day, I got to go to a museum for the first time in years! I got to see some goobers <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:34 PM
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Fuck yeah, don't let anyone tell you different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:32 PM
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I spend 50 hours a week lifting 50-70 pound rolls of paper. Sorry I don't feel like going to the gym. I have a pretty decent social group that isn't based on a god I don't believe in. I eat as healthy as my shit wages allow and how does the way I talk allow you to guestimate how much water I drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:28 PM
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I don't know if I can afford that, but It sounds like it involves needles. It's childish, but I have a massive phobia of needles so I tend to avoid things that involve them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:05 PM
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My guy I've been getting treatment for my issues for years. I have been doing everything in my power to be happy and y'know what? It doesn't work. Either I'm hopeless or I have some kind of chemical issue. Go ahead and tell me which on I should place my bets on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:53 PM
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I'd love to try, but I don't know if I can afford a prescription and I don't know if my therapist can write prescriptions? I haven't really asked about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:33 PM
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I do my best, but good food is expensive and work has me doing overtime. I'd exercise more but I spend ten hours a night just lifting 50-70 lbs rolls of paper and getting paper cuts. The therapy helps the most though, it's nice to talk about things with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:31 PM
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I'm just sad at the gym lmao. I like swimming though. If something is fun enough, I'll "forget" im depressed untill afterwards, which is nice. It doesn't do much to fix the underlying issue though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:26 PM
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To be honest I probably have more than one type. Cant afford anything past Basic therapy though. All I know is that I'm super resistant to most of the help I've sought, despite trying my best to just... Be happy. I exercise, I dabble in hobbies I enjoy. I try to talk to people and go out and about. It just doesn't help much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:25 PM
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I personally just love the simplicity of the average person's looks. No insane angles or fillers or outfits, just a person you could relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:22 PM
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Thank you!!! I hate how much we aim for perfection on here. Average people get average dates and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. A lasting relationship shouldn't be purely based on looks anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:17 PM
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Anyone else hate it when people say stuff like "seek God", "go to the gym" or "just be normal/happy" whenever you mention you have depression? Like bro the chemicals in my brain aren't doing the alchemy they're supposed to do I can't just bench press that away-
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:15 PM
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If I, a "dumb feminist", can be nice to him, how come he cannot manage the same manners? Curious...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:06 AM
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Maybe just be nice to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:00 AM
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It's not a rip off of Jurassic Park just because there are dinosaurs. I want to write it because I love dinosaurs and I love the idea of interacting with them in the modern era. I'd make something sweet but I'll be honest, I think horror/thrillers are what I enjoy writing the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:52 AM
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Im currently trying to figure out how brutal I want the story to be, I love your ending though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:09 AM
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It's the most realistic way it'd go down. I don't think people would set up a secret dino research center in the middle of Idaho or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:01 PM
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I'm trying to make sure it's notably different, but I won't lie, Michael Crichton is a massive inspiration to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:51 PM
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I'm working off of it being similar to Jurassic Park and being on an island. I'm still working on a reason for bringing them back outside of "we wanted to see if it were possible and now we have to give them a purpose"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:48 PM
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I'm hoping to get like, at least a bit of psychological horror in there. I'm cool with thriller though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:45 PM
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My working reason for them having to shelter in place is that they accidentally killed a smaller dinosaur (like a velociraptor) using a strain of rabies and improperly disposed of it, leading to an outbreak without the research team noticing until the dinosaurs start to attack their caretakers. Most of them would hunker down in their work stations, at least I feel like that'd make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:44 PM
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What's your guy's opinion on a sci-fi horror book about a bunch of researchers working with dinosaurs to make them viable for domestication after bringing them back from extinction, only to accidentally infect their entire islands dinosaur population with rabies* and having to survive until all of them inevitably die of disease so they can escape? I haven't started anything yet but I really like the concept, even if it might be clichè *(Still working on what the actual disease would be and how e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:31 PM
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Then how can you so confidently claim that straight women are dressing for the male gaze and how do you know that lesbians don't wear leggings? I'm mainly confused about your point on lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:09 PM
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The trial happened much later that the initial metoo movement and the major of people were on Depps side though. The Studios he worked with didn't care about metoo. They were preparing for the possibility of him being outed as an abuser because that would've damaged their profits if he was. Depp also still gets a lot of good jobs, at least, he did as of a few months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:07 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:05 PM
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Yeeeaahhh... If I remember correctly, there were a lot of men involved in Metoo. I remember a lot of guys coming out with their stories too. I personally always thought it was a positive thing for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:00 PM
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I actually watched the entirety of the Heard v. Depp trial when it came out. I really think both of them are less than great people, but Heard is definitely the worse of the two. I personally haven't seen anyone get in trouble for false allegations IRL. I really don't think I've seen much online either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:58 PM
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The way they talk to and about women is disgusting, the way they trivialize mental health is harmful to struggling men and they sell shitty advice "classes" at an ungodly price to desperate men. They don't actually help anyone, they're leeches who built their wealth on the backs of their fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:56 PM
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If that's what they're coming in, good for them. The examples kinda just remind me of men's fashion in the 60s/70s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:54 PM
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Half of them look like Pitbull but from Wish. I also don't care about how they look, they're awful people which negates any positive aspects of their looks in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:26 PM
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The yoga pants/leggings are just comfortable. No one is trying to be sexy in them. I personally love them because some of them feel like compression socks but for my legs. (leggings should go with a long shirt though imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:23 PM
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Wasn't metoo just about destigmatizing reporting sexual assault? I was kinda young when it started so I'm not 100% sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:21 PM
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I don't think I've sat inside a McDonald's in about two years, so I can't really speak on free refills. Again, I just kinda drink one throughout the day if I go to McDonald's rather than trying to fit it into a single meal. I think it helps that I drink exclusively diet. It's not as sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:18 PM
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I don't think I've ever met a woman who likes guys like them. Most think their personalities/the way they talk to others is repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:14 PM
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Most people I know only order medium drinks and even then it takes a few hours to actually drink all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:13 PM
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I spend tons of time on here just talking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:57 PM
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I just wish I did more, but that's not very productive. Meh I'll just continue to share the things that make me happy in hopes it makes it easier for others to forget how difficult life is sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:44 PM
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Good for you then, I hope you spread the positivity you must have to others. Sharing those little bits of joy is what makes life worth it in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:42 PM
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There's a ton of good ones, I'm a big fan of the historical ones, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:41 PM
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It's just unfortunate that so many people seem so angry and sad. I try my best to be nice to offset it but I'm just some goober on Reddit, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:40 PM
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That's understandable. I try to follow the super important stuff but focus on news coming from my hobbies so it's not too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:39 PM
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Y'all ever think we focus way too much on negativity and it's consuming the little happiness we have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:36 PM
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I think there's a good amount of actually really good anime. Asia in general just puts out a lot of high quality entertainment, like K-drama and C-drama. I personally think that thriller/horror tends to be a hit more often than a miss though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:32 PM
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Those are fascinating! I live in what used to be a shallow tropical ocean, so we have corals, bivalves and orthoceras everywhere here: https://preview.redd.it/awgg7rs0puob1.jpeg?width=3120&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a8f7c3dead5af9e6406c98559ef6349ae58cbbcf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:27 PM
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Creationists will never understand the joy of finding a 145 million year old fossil and that's just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:28 PM
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Why would it? It's just entertainment. It's no different than watching a movie imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:13 PM
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I genuinely feel bad for the people who believe that stuff. They're limiting themselves so much and they lose out on seeing Wonderful examples of our earths history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:12 PM
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For sure, especially evolutionary science
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:09 PM
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Thank you!! (You're supposed to separate the floss? Was I not supposed to use the whole thing as it comes in the little bag?)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:31 PM
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I bought a Walmart Halloween embroidery set and just used what was in it. I gave up with the needle that came with it though and opted for an upholstery needle. I'll look for thinner thread for the next time I try to make something. Thanks for the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:25 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:03 PM
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Thoughts on my first ever embroidery project? (The lizard thing is supposed to be a diplocaulus) https://preview.redd.it/2nciur7nbtob1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c7be7e062c2d38d4d61791d7eb3128cab698d85c
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:51 PM
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Yeah but then I'll have less time to love on him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:03 AM
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I'm trying to avoid food related comfort since peanut is almost 16 pounds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:56 AM
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That'd be my usual go to but unfortunately peanut is morbidly obese and seems too anxious too eat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:12 AM
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That's been our current approach but every hour or so we check on him and he hasn't moved from his corner, hasn't touched his food and there's nothing in his litterbox, and they fed him right before we took him home so I kinda feel like that's a little concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:55 AM
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I finally brought my cat peanut home from the shelter and the poor thing is terrified and won't leave the bathroom. Y'all got any advice on how to cheer him up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:17 AM
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That's definitely a good one, I'll add it to the roster
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:09 AM
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Y'all I gotta put a name tag on my cat's Carrier and I need some ideas So far all I've got is "peanuts contains unit" but that seems boring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:47 AM
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Bring the Renaissance fair to you, start an outbreak of smallpox
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:44 AM
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It'd be at the center of a wide, low table and the cat is obese and elderly so I don't think he'll be knocking things around too much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:09 PM
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I would but he's already just so fat. Dude is like, 15 pounds EDIT: I thought you said "put peanuts in him". I probably should've done a double take but we're on Reddit and that's honestly a normal thing to say on here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:59 PM
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I'm considering it but the little dish I use now was a gift and is vintage Chinese porcelain so I like having it out to look at-
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:54 PM
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Y'all I need advice. I'm adopting this cat. His name is peanut. He eats plastic. I need some non-plastic covered candy ideas for my candy dish, all I've got in mind now is salt water Taffy because it comes wrapped in wax paper
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:51 PM
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I don't really wear makeup, but hearing "you look better without makeup" just makes me feel ugly when I am wearing makeup. It also kinda undermines the practice and work that goes into makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:49 PM
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Sorry man but I don't think any of those things will make you a more pleasant person to be around, unlike therapy, which can actually change how you see yourself in a more positive way. If you're more confident in yourself on that level, people will want to be around you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:47 PM
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"There is no war in Ba Sing Se"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:11 AM
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Your original comment was about quality of life. You made it a competition over strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:48 AM
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"just be rational lol" You happen to be shitting on something I care very deeply about. I think I'm allowed to be upset when I am pretty much told that my work and achievements are meaningless because a hypothetical man could do it better. Or that I am somehow living in luxury simply because what's between my legs happens to differ from what's between yours. Who cares about soccer? Running and games have almost nothing to do with any "mens" job you've mentioned yourself. Who's running in the coa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:13 AM
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It's really not. Just because they have a slight biological advantage in upper body strength doesn't mean they're suddenly just the only people who can do blue collar work. Mindsets like yours are why women avoid trades and blue collar jobs. It's why we're often not considered for those jobs despite having either the skills or experience to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:40 PM
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Because I apparently come to work to have fun and be bad at my job, according to you. Y'know because women are just inherently weak and unable to do insane man things like opening a pickle jar or swinging a hammer. Y'know, just impossible for women stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:24 PM
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I do 10 hour shifts in a paper mill 5-6 days a week. Do I do it for funsies since I'm a woman? Women work like dogs too. Just because manual labor is a male dominant kind of work doesn't mean we're bad at it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:17 PM
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So having a bad day just makes most people joyful? It causes no negative emotions to the average person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:08 PM
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You act like we got the chance to even try. The idea that work is gendered obviously limits the careers people can choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:07 PM
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I dunno man, I think having a bad day makes most people miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:30 PM
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I mean I guess men had to shoulder the weight of working but in the past that wasn't exactly women's fault. Historically, men had harder lives because they forced it onto themselves. At least, that's my perspective of the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:29 PM
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I think having everyone around you be miserable would make your life much worse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:26 PM
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I think intelligence will lead you down a good path no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:36 PM
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I hate that the cheapest book buying sites take like, a month to ship :((
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:11 PM
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FINALLY SOMEONE SEEMS TO AGREE ON HERE I want a big brained man with a smooth brain approach to life, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:10 PM
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I use it for testing for hydrocarbons in rock
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:55 PM
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This one is for concrete etching
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:33 PM
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Technically it's concrete etcher but I use it for geology stuff (still figuring that part out)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:31 PM
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I love receiving romantic gifts from my boyfriend, he brought me home hydrochloric acid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:28 PM
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I feel like a true, successful adult I bought a big BOX of name brand cereal instead of my usual off brand bag. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:52 AM
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And how is science becoming faith based?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:09 PM
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I think that sounds like a very peaceful way of living
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:54 PM
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I specifically am referring to creationism. I should probably add that to the post. I have zero tolerance for medical science deniers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:47 PM
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Which I just cannot stand tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:44 PM
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I think it offers a lot of people peace, hope, and a sense of purpose. I agree you can find that in other places, but I don't see religion as a bad source of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:39 PM
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I'm an atheist myself. I just think outright mocking someones beliefs is pushing people away from learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:28 PM
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It's definitely unfair, hypocritical, and condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:09 PM
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It's rough for sure, but I hate it when people just insult them because it's making people who're on the fence less likely to educate themselves out of fear of judgement for not knowing any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:08 PM
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I got it because my boyfriend is immunocompromised and if we weren't vaccinating it might've killed him. For the most part I'm referring to creationism. People who believe the world is only 6,000 years old and dinosaurs are made up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:02 PM
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I think those kinds of things should be respected. Of course, I don't believe in zodiac signs, but I respect them as the cultural practice they originally were
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:00 PM
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Mocking such deep rooted beliefs only pushes people away from education.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:53 PM
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I think the only people as bad as science deniers are the people who put down religion as a whole. They're so smug and mean about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:38 PM
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There's a ton of lore and games on the subject, definitely a creative community
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:03 AM
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I think we should co-author an SCP page for the hamburger cat notebook
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:51 AM
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He's my little dude, he helps a lot with motivating me to study. I recommend goofy notebooks like him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:28 AM
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Telling me that an entire group of people are just virtue signaling assholes isn't exactly a discussion. You want people to care about the discrimination that minority women face but then completely write off a comment that tells you what group prioritizes that. If you don't want intersectional feminism, then what do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:35 AM
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He burgs https://preview.redd.it/j12v4zufqxmb1.jpeg?width=3120&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e5acee07efe7c57ca541e373ee8a1053ca394ba9
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:32 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/g8yplv3dqxmb1.jpeg?width=3120&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a55545efbf482d2903ae50f957c1302cd597ea0 Hamburger cat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:32 AM
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My guy I think you're just looking for reasons to be mad at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:10 AM
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Y'all wanna see the notebook I use specifically only for my geology research?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:10 AM
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Intersectional feminism is based entirely off of that but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:06 AM
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I wouldn't touch "1st world Timmy" with a ten foot pole if that how he'd talk about the women he chooses to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:03 AM
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I put a dollar tree berry energy shot into my diet 7up and I think I'm feeling joy again for the first time in years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:51 PM
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I mean, some subs aren't the nicest, but most of them are full of Wonderful people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:56 PM
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Exactly, so many smart people just wanting to help each other. It's the best
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:59 PM
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Nah man, I have so many good experiences on here. It outweighs whatever bad comes with it. Like, I get all my dumb questions answered and people are usually really nice and give good explanations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:57 PM
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I love reddit so much, so many people here are so nice and helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:50 PM
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What do you have to lose? My apartment, car, boyfriend and Material possessions. Trying to just hop from a full time job to (almost) full time student rarely ever works out. I'm stuck with this job for at least another year. Maybe two. I'm just trying to make the present suck at the most minimum amount it can
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:31 AM
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I unfortunately just don't have much in common with my coworkers. (Massive age gaps). I'm working on moving and starting college sometime soon so I'm not too worried about long term at my current job. I just work 10 hour shifts this week and want it to suck less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:05 AM
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The only real available work is food service (never again) and factory work, which is my current occupation. Anything fun either requires college, is seasonal, or pays crumbs. Usually all three at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:02 AM
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You're so right, It's about to be my #PovertyEra 💅❤️✨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:55 PM
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Y'all got any tips for making work less shitty? All I've got going for me right now is mumbling "Hotel, Motel, Holiday inn" to myself on repeat because I don't know the rest of the words
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:45 PM
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Some guys on here really do say some crazy shit Guys: "I have 0 standards and women still won't fuck me! What a bunch of uppity prudes that think they're too good!!" Woman has similar standards Guys: "LOOK EVERYONE! A HARLOT! SHES UNDATABLE NOW"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:16 PM
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Potoricco pigeoncel moment 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:12 PM
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It's more like they're noticing patterns of mistreatment or abuse or something in their own relationships after watching the movie. Barbie isn't telling anyone to dump their boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:10 PM
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I'd rather abort than force a child into a life of uncertainty and rejection, personally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:07 PM
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I'm a big believer in just having friends and being hands off about relationships. It's always worked out for me. Like, my current boyfriend used to be just my best friend, but the more time we spent together, the more I liked him. Of course, this is often a slow burn hit or miss strategy. I've been told that the way I look at dating is a bit different than what this sub likes, so my apologies if my advice wasn't what you were hoping to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:18 PM
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I answer as honestly as possible and unfortunately, due to my recent exorcism, I can no longer speak for all women. I'll be honest, I've stayed away from any Jeffrey Epstein related stuff since I think it takes away from more verifiable issues with the American justice system
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:12 PM
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It really comes down to what's in your area. I've found that places like book clubs are nice places to start but it depends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:09 PM
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Look man I'm made of like, 85% McRib meat and15% that other guys extra rib. I was always gonna come out kinda funky.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:15 AM
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It's the same kind of sexual, crass and inappropriate question. That's why I said "genre". For a more clear explanation, I was hoping for no comments related to personal sexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:09 AM
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I'm counting that as being under the "what color are your panties" genre and I will not be responding to your comment further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:07 AM
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Given all my issues, you must've given me the shitty rib
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:29 AM
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I would if piracy was easier on a TV, but it's a hassle. I'll probably set it all up tomorrow tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:26 AM
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I tried to watch it when I was little but I was just way too young to get it. I've been meaning to try again but every time I try my Netflix is messed up. I hate whatever it is they're doing nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:15 AM
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Have you ever seen Up? What if we did that same thing but instead of balloons on the house, we used like, 4 million swallows?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:10 AM
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This is a kinda hard to answer question because I think my experience and reasoning is probably different from the average woman, but I have a lot of issues with depression and hormonal imbalances and I get upset and frustrated really easily but I really don't have a reason. I don't have the words to explain the feelings and once I get a chance to collect myself I can fully understand that whatever issue I had was kinda stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:03 AM
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Well, for me personally, I have a really hard time with explaining myself. Especially when I'm actually speaking. The way I think is kinda indirect and the way I talk is like that. I tend to use metaphors that make perfect sense to me, but are nonsense to others and I don't realize it until I'm told.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:55 AM
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I'll use swallows in my up and coming postal service. They'll be like worse pigeons (unless you can somehow train a swallow but I feel like you can't)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:53 AM
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I will try my absolute best to remember that for future use
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:47 AM
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Fast, I imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:41 AM
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If you could ask woman almost any question, what would it be? (Please no questions of the "what color are your panties" genre)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:35 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that, I hope things get easier for you with time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:32 AM
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Well, I hope one day we can all work together to make it better. Even if it's baby steps. I know that I get the pain of that kinda thing and I wouldn't wish it on anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:03 AM
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It's just normal occurrences for me. Like hearing about a pet passing or something. I'm glad you managed to get yourself to a good place. I'm excited to do the same one day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:02 AM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:58 AM
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That sounds rough man. I hope everything's alright
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:56 AM
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I try my best but it's usually stuff that relates back to things I hear about at least weekly so I think about it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:56 AM
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Does anyone else think about something that happened years ago and realize that you're still not over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:54 AM
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I can't get behind them either. The big thing that makes me an outcast here is my hatred for pizza rolls and my love of halal desserts/candy (I'm not Muslim and live in rural Ohio, so it's weird around here)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:19 PM
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I have (apparently) really weird tastes for the area I live in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:58 PM
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That sounds pretty good to me. I'm just making garlic bread with my main man and bread maker: Breadward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:41 PM
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Probably, it was a massive international grocery store. My boyfriend bought tinned fish 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:38 PM
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Yet another baller day my guys, I got to go to a fancy grocery store
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:33 PM
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I don't know her or what she wants? Maybe she wants people to look, maybe she's just comfortable like that. Not my place to assume or judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:55 AM
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I don't know what kind of women you know, but the ones I know hate strange men staring at them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:25 AM
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More like "stop staring at strangers it's creepy and rude".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:44 AM
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Whatever happened to teaching our kids to not stare at people because it's rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:58 AM
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So what happened is that scientists discovered a juvenile apatosaurus, but because it's spine was different from an adult one (their bones begin to fuse as they age. Similar to people.), They assumed it was a separate but related species. Turns out it was always just an Apatosaurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:56 AM
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Guys, this is important. What dinosaur would you choose? Triceratops Stegosaurus Tyrannosaurus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:22 PM
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You should have the vent itself looked at. Those things get absolutely packed with lint
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:11 PM
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I personally think it means that being able to enjoy the little things in life despite the hardships is a chad-like mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:41 PM
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I might be a woman, but that doesn't change the fact that I do in fact how it feels to battle depression and many or the things that comes with it. I do my best to give decent advice on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:34 PM
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I've tried to explain that life is more than a relationship and your worth isn't based on wether or not you have a girlfriend and I've had guys like, straight up mock me for that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:57 PM
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It really helps with mine. Whenever I'm having a moment, I just think of three things I like around me and three small things I could do to make myself feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:49 PM
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For sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:48 PM
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A lot of people on here refuse to acknowledge that there's anything good in life whatsoever. That's my main point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:42 PM
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This encapsulates like, half the conversations I have on here: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwpEhthOFk9/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:22 PM
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NOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:17 AM
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Ooo tell your oldest he's a genius, I can absolutely give my little guy a batman related name. Like Bruce or Alfred
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:06 AM
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That's a good one! I'm thinking more towards silly/pop culture related names but shadow is a classic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:02 AM
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GUYS MY BOYFRIEND IS BRINGING HOME A KITTEN!!! I'm so excited, this will be my first cat as an adult. Any name suggestions? It's an all black tomcat (the goober is 4 weeks old {rescued from a dumpster})
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:45 AM
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I mean in this comment section. I honestly don't really look at stand alone posts very often
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:32 PM
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Man, some of the takes I've seen on here are awful today
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:04 PM
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Obviously, but it's almost never as simple as people make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:01 PM
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I mean, my parents definitely fucked my life up astronomically, but at this point my mistakes are my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:09 PM
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I think we ignore the psychology behind abuse like that and I find it a bit unfair, especially since that psychology is not gendered. Both men and women are abused in domestic settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:25 PM
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A lot of trades are male dominated and women don't get taken seriously in them. I'm speaking from experience as someone who's worked manual labor jobs my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:20 PM
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I think everyone thinks he was a weirdo, but everyone is split between "he was a pedo" and "he was an incredibly mentally ill man who didn't technically do anything wrong, but I could see how you'd think that"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:17 PM
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They've evolved like most babies do. Big eyes, big heads, ECT. It's just so predators think twice before eating them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:30 AM
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I think this is the video I watched that went over it the best: https://youtu.be/XLkKqExUq58?si=GQOn5rBwzAJfCp51
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:16 AM
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I didn't like him from the start, but after the Chad Chad situation I utterly loathe the dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:07 AM
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I think a lot of it comes from how different every state is. Like, the Midwestern states are completely different than the southwestern states.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:18 PM
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I see. So it's basically just pharmaceutical company adjacent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:09 PM
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Why is anything educational so expensive???? Like, a simple Mohs hardness scale test kit just cost me 20 dollars. And don't get me started on good studies. Why are almost all of them behind a paywall? I can read smut all day for free but I can't learn about tectonic plates without a $15 monthly subscription to some Publisher? That's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:39 AM
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You can be a feminist and a housewife. Or a career woman. You can be absolutely anything you want and deserve nothing but good things. Feminism is supposed to be about giving everyone equal opportunities and a right to have choices in life. Make the choices that make you happy. Be bold and outlandish. Don't box yourself in to fit into a movement that's long moved on from the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:09 AM
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My go to look is the cake from the max and ruby theme song because it's supposed to look a little dorky so people don't say anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:27 PM
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I just can't ice a cake to save my life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:16 PM
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Its just a strawberry box cake, but I apparently make them really well, at least according to my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:15 PM
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I think baking is such a weirdly hard skill to master. Like, the food I make is good, but I cannot manage to decorate stuff. I just made the ugliest cake lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:03 PM
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If you remember what it was called, let me know! I love used/surplus lab equipment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:51 AM
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Anyone know any good lab equipment surplus sites? I want a good microscope that won't bankrupt me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:13 AM
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Someone who recreates dinosaurs/fossils using art.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:05 PM
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I've been meaning to 3D print some fossils as like, guides/examples, but I've been having a ton of trouble finding too many. I think I really just need to figure out some good ways to find information as I'd like to go down the scientifically accurate path and there's just so much out there, it's a bit overwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:05 PM
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Hell yeah! Do you have any tips for like, a fresh beginner? I want to get into it and don't know where to start. Thank you in advance!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:10 PM
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Do we have any paleoartists in the chat? I have questions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:05 PM
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That looks lovely, although the lighting is a bit dull, but that's just how it is on a cloudy day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:01 PM
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Oh I have zero issues with religion as like, just a general thing. What I hate is using it to change laws and ignore science.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:43 PM
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Exactly! I've been flat out called a liar for stating that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:18 PM
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Of course, I believe in it and try my best to keep up with discovering and advancements
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:17 PM
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Yeah that's why I make fun of those people. I'm not in agreement with them, despite my acceptance of religion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:09 PM
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Science isn't meant to be perfect. It's just looking for answers. We have a solid idea of the natural history of our planet, but we know we don't have it all figured out. Same with every other branch of science
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:08 PM
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I consider the bible a group of folktales inspired by or reconstructed around God. Religion has an important part in humanity, but I cannot stand it when religious nutjobs try to limit our scientific advancements for a book they can't even understand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:27 PM
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Does anyone else get mad when people completely disregard science for religion? Like, I saw a comment by a very sweet lady that was excited to learn something about prehistoric humans and mentioned that we've been around a longer than you'd think and that it was all part of God's plan. I can vibe with that. I love it when people can balance their faith with facts. Unfortunately a ton of people started making fun of her and calling her stupid for thinking the earth wasn't 6,000 years old. It was …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:10 PM
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We literally have elected actors/billionaires with zero political background to handle our entire society. Our country doesn't exactly seem like it's been well managed in awhile, despite all our leaders being men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:52 AM
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I wanna buy a microscope and continue with my geology/paleontology hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:59 AM
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I do my best, every state deserves to have it's natural beauty advertised. America is lucky to have one of the most geographically diverse countries on the planet. We've got a little bit of everything here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:18 AM
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I mean, we are like, one of the cheapest states in the country, but the political climate is not worth the price tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:08 AM
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It's okay, we suck for the most part, but it really is beautiful and really interesting from a natural history viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:04 AM
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It was a blast! They have so many amazing natural wonders there, if you're ever in Ohio I recommend it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:46 AM
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I bought a raw citrine and they have a massive selection. The fossils, mainly the orthoceras, are somewhat tumbled but that's just to give a better view of what's inside of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:21 AM
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They sell absolutely beautiful crystals in the gift shop, both raw and tumbled. If you're looking to make a day of being in Ohio, I also highly recommend our fossil beach in Tipp City. It's a small beach full of incredibly detailed and compact marine fossils, although it's mainly just shells and corals. It's a bit tricky to get to though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:16 AM
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No problem! Here's the website, it Has tour Info and prices https://ohiocaverns.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:11 AM
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You can walk through them, but some of the passageways are kind narrow, especially at the feet. The ceilings get pretty low, but not low enough for me to duck (I'm 5'1).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:10 AM
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West Liberty is about 2 hours from Pennsylvania, but I think it's worth the trip. We have people come in from Cali just to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:08 AM
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Ohio caverns in West Liberty, Ohio. It's nestled next to the Mingo valley and is absolutely beautiful above and below ground
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:05 AM
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Today has been such a great day, I got to go on two different cave tours (I went about 113ft underground!!) And I saw a ton of natural calcite stalactites, stalagmites and columns. I also got to go to their gift shop and buy crystals and an orthoceras fossil <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:02 AM
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I'm on here to gain some perspective on the issues that some men face and, if I can, offer up any advice or answers I can
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:23 PM
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Prickly pear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:09 PM
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I actually live in Ohio. The German thing is from the fact that I live in Amish country and wanted to learn whatever German I could
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:25 PM
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I can eat peanut butter on its own just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:31 AM
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My thing is celery. I love it. I put peanut butter on it. It always makes my mouth numb. I believe in suffering for my passions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:51 AM
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The ones I get have like, microscopic spines that I'm usually good at avoiding but I dropped one and now I have a bunch stuck in my hand. I also just swallow the seeds ┐⁠(⁠‘⁠～⁠`⁠;⁠)⁠┌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:45 AM
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I think I just habitually pick the WORST favorite things. Like, I'm pretty sure I'm mildly allergic to my favorite vegetable and my favorite fruit is just actually a cactus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:27 AM
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Man, you don't have to say stuff like this to guys in relationships. Let them have a wholesome relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:04 AM
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He looks like so much fun to be around. Definitely golden Retriever boyfriend vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:18 AM
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LETS GOOOOOO https://preview.redd.it/jmbqd6jn1ekb1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8be28174c261bf4599f1f5c1863bc05ee6866403
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:11 AM
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I'd share the ones I have but alas, I cannot. Apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:08 AM
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Worst day of my life fr. I can't share seal memes 😞🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:06 AM
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WE CAN SHARE PICTURES??? i hope this works https://preview.redd.it/8yvsvn4hzdkb1.jpeg?width=583&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e9374a785c4269bb04527070c7775855959fb8b0
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:59 AM
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The point of feminism it that anyone can do whatever. Work, raise kids, run away to Utah in search of the most complete utahraptor skeleton ever found. Anything you might want, regular of gender. It that's what those ladies want, good for them. Im glad they had the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:57 AM
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Towards the end of "the taking of Deborah Logan". That shit is insane and free on Tubi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:06 AM
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Unironically both my parents probably would have died if they hadn't split. Breaking up saved the whole family
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:04 AM
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My best advice is to look for clubs with people your age with interests you like. That way you already have a topic to discuss and socialization is expected
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:02 AM
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Absolutely, I'm already in a rural town, but I wanna own land. And ducks. God I want a duck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:01 AM
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Ah yes. I totally want to tell the guy trying to argue with me on a different comment about all of my issues. Thanks, but I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:44 PM
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He's still not a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:07 PM
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I had to miss my appointment with my therapist today this sucks :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:47 PM
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You act like he knew the people he killed. They were monsters, yes. That doesn't mean that an average civilian has the right to be a judge, jury, and executioner. He's scum, just like the people he murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:46 PM
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7, they're pretty, but the make-up they're wearing is dated and kinda caked on. It's also like, weirdly orange. They also look tired and a little miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:57 AM
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Sometimes I burst into tears when I laugh so at this point I've given up on being embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:19 AM
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Hell yeah! Do things at your own pace and work back up to where you were, your body will thank you, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:18 AM
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He looks like the kind of guy who'd let his dog bark/growl at trick or treaters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:16 AM
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I'll be honest, feminism is full of infighting. I don't agree with half the stuff that's attributed to us. I consider myself a feminist solely due to international women's fight for rights and gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:10 PM
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There's not a war though? I'm a feminist, at least, I consider myself one. I'm really on here to understand the problems that you guys deal with so that I can try to offer whatever help I can. The idea that we want to fight isn't going to solve anything, I personally just want to make communication between men and women overall easier. I'm open to any questions about pretty much anything, so if you'd like to talk about anything, you can. Edit: I'd also like to apologize for any late responses, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:06 PM
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Yeah, but I kinda hate going to subs for stuff like that. Lots of "elitists" that don't allow for any fun conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:19 AM
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Do any of y'all like Steven universe? I'm rewatching the show and have no one to talk to about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:06 AM
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You were first!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:05 AM
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Rewatching Steven universe has been such a fun experience so far
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:41 AM
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Sounds like heat lightning to me. I live in Ohio and sometimes we get really bad thunderstorms without any rain if it's hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:42 AM
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Have you ever been in a relationship?... No offense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:05 AM
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Developed back muscles are where it's at
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:22 PM
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I dunno man, there's no tone to convey, you won't answer the question and I've already kinda mentioned I don't pick up on this sort thing. I'm just trying to figure out and understand your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:13 PM
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What? Is it like, an issue that I have a hard time figuring out a groups demographic? I'm just trying to understand what kind of groups you think women should stay out of
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:18 PM
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I'm pretty sure this scenario doesn't actually happen IRL. Like, I've only ever heard the most chronically online people say that kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:56 PM
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I mean, at a certain point, you can't blame single moms completely for that. A lot of them try their hardest to make things work despite being dealt a shitty hand. Of course, I'll always judge the ones that repeatedly make the same mistakes over and over again because at a certain point, I see that as neglectful to their kid(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:49 PM
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Can you give me an example of a male space? This isn't like, a gotcha moment I just usually can't tell when groups are for a certain demographic like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:44 PM
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When I say I think relationships should be based on emotion, I mean like, doing things because you love your partner and want them to be happy. My current partner is my highschool sweetheart, we've been best friends for about 6 years and we're well past the honeymoon phase. While we're not all over each other anymore, everything we do is to make life better for each other. I think it's important to remember that love should be the basis for a long-term relationship. Sorry if this is a jumbled me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:17 PM
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If I'm being real with you, online dating is just a shitty way to date. Almost everyone you'll meet on there is either lying about something easily proven false irl, or are just straight up picky. If you can, I'd look into any groups or clubs you might be able to meet people in irl. I've found that in person interaction leads to much better results in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:39 PM
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I just can't see how anyone gets anywhere in dating with that mentality. It seems so unproductive to finding a partner. Every relationship I've ever been in has worked off the basis of "I do what my partner needs without caring about what he might do for me. It doesn't need to be made even." I feel like constantly keeps tabs on stuff like that would put a lot of strain on a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:35 PM
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My apologies, replied before you wrote it. I wish reddit like, loaded that stuff while I was typing. I think love and emotions should be the biggest deciding factors in a relationship, however I think a relationship takes a very good understanding of ones own emotions overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:31 PM
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A relationship isn't really like a business partnership, at least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:43 PM
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It's not a wolf of wall street fanfic either. I find it so strange how nothing is allowed to be nice for the sake of being nice on here. It's always "if they do something nice for me it's because they want something." Or "they owe me this, this and this if they want anything from me whatsoever". Like, obviously have standards and boundaries, but dating is supposed to be about two people who care about each other and help each other without much thought of how they're going to pay each other back…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:39 PM
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I don't think I'll ever understand why dating is treated like it's banking. Everything is so transactional sounding. It seems like such a cold way of looking at something that's supposed to be sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:32 PM
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Honestly a lot of the general negativity I see online comes from men, even when it's towards themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:02 AM
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I didn't say anything about unreasonable? All I said was that desperation usually means being willing to take drastic, often negative actions to achieve a goal or some sort. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:32 AM
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Nah, most people do. Although, I recommend a long shirt. Lots of leggings can look fine, but be a little see through when you're wearing them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:28 AM
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The Midwest is pretty nice. Cheap living, nice enough people, the politics get insane though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:26 AM
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Wanting something to the point of being willing to hurt yourself or others to get it is desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:25 AM
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Sounds like the dream tbh. Although, children are still up in the air for me, so for the time being I'd replace them with livestock. I wanna live on a farm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:44 AM
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I really do think that misandry gets the feminism label slapped on to it way more often than it should. I think the best course of action would to be to open up communication more between feminists and people such as yourself (I don't want to assume an ideology or anything in regards to you and like-minded people). If we stop insulting each other and try to talk to each other, I think we'd fix a lot more problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:42 AM
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All that matters to me is personality, goals and interests. Looks don't usually matter too much to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:56 PM
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Neither sound particularly attractive or unattractive. I think they're equal, personally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:15 PM
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Probably 75:25 M:F, but as I've gotten older, I've kinda lost my friends completely. I'm actually scheming to find more somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:50 PM
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Seems like people just trying to get their lives together after what I can only assume is a lot of hardship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:48 PM
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Depends on the work, I think the main thing is just the long hours and the relatively low wages. Like, the buying power of the us dollar has plummeted so much in such little time, it's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:52 AM
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Y'all I wanna dress up for Ren faire but I am drawing a blank on any ideas that'd actually look good. All I've come up with is a Victorian inspired paleontologist (was gonna go for paleomancer but I couldn't figure out how I'd make that work)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:56 AM
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Honestly that'd be closer to my preferred height. I hate it when I'm like, absurdly small in comparison to a partner. It just makes uncomfortable for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:53 AM
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I don't think single mothers are the sole cause of the economy collapsing my guy -
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:12 AM
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If that's winning I want to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:08 AM
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All worms deserve love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:07 AM
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I don't think that'd work very well in practice. I think you'd just end up ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:24 PM
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I think there's a lot of factors in abusive relationships that people don't think about when judging people who go back to their abuser. There's often a lot of manipulation involved, such as an abuser telling their partner that they'll die alone without them, never financially support themselves (this often is coupled with financial abuse), that what theyre doing is out of love, ECT. Abusers often isolate their partners from support, like friends and family. This is so their partner feels they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:23 PM
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Anyone can be a worm if they try hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:17 PM
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Men cause more accidents than women and are more likely to to be fined for reckless driving. https://www.victimslawyer.com/blog/do-men-or-women-cause-more-accidents/#:~:text=Men%20caused%20264%2C078%20accidents%20during,2019%20while%20women%20caused%2015%2C527.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:16 PM
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A lot of the stuff he says is misinformation though... I can't get behind lying to people for an ideology or whatever reason Matt Walsh does what he does
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:07 PM
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I just like talking to people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:55 AM
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And? Why are we focusing on 1923 rather than the present?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:31 PM
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Of course we should make it easier for women to have those options, but I still don't think that women having those choices makes anything unequal. Women simply have a greater burden than men in the process of pregnancy. It's not anyones fault and there's not much solution that I personally see for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:28 PM
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You should look into how hard it is for women to have hysterectomies and tubal litigation. A lot of doctors won't perform those surgeries if a woman is single, does not have kids, or only has one. Not to mention how much surgeries like those could cost. Many women would love to have their tubes tied, but it's just not feasible for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:09 PM
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Given the tag under your name is "no pills just horny", I'd advise that you don't show your parents this sub, although I don't think asking them general questions would be too bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:03 PM
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The world just continues to become more and more dangerous for the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:01 PM
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You do you man, I thought the speech was good, you're free to think it's boring or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:15 PM
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Honestly yeah, graduation robes look kinda sketch half the time, I think it's the fabric they use
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:14 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:13 PM
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Gov. Pritzker's speech on empathy I think this is the best speech I've heard in awhile and figured I should share it in case anyone else wanted to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:56 PM
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There are already many songs on the platform with anti-lgbt messages. The same goes for racism, sexism, ECT. While I disagree with their ideals and opinions, I don't think YouTube should be allowed to take down anything artistic in nature, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:42 PM
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I believe it might have something to do with their policies on art, which includes music. A lot of their rules can be bent if done with artistic intent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:32 PM
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I personally think that people should do whatever they'd like. Masculinity and femininity are equal and don't have to correlate to ones gender. I think we'd all be much happier if we just did what made us happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:30 PM
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Yeah, there seems to be a massive difference in the amount of emotional labor a mother has to put into the family compared to a father. It goes pretty unnoticed too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:28 PM
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"I'm mostly being facetious" no one cares. You've been an ass, regardless of your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:01 AM
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It's not that I can't, it's that I don't want to. You've been a dick to multiple people on here today and it's not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:55 AM
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I'll be honest man, I'm not going to debate with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:53 AM
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Definitely over hyped. I remember a random Thursday better than my first tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:32 AM
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Yeah, going to HR was a bit of a dick move, but I mean, choices probably wasn't the best word choice either. I hope you didn't get in any serious trouble and that everyone can come away from this with a different perspective or something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:30 AM
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Oh, I see! Thank you for the clarification. Personally I always feel weird about excluding people from communities like this because it could be the only social interaction they comfortably have. I wish there was a better community for minors than wasn't r/teenagers. That sub is hellish
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:45 AM
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No, but I'd understand if you assumed I was or something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:42 AM
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Sorry, I have a touch of the tism, who are you wanting to deport? Op, the guy I was talking to, or me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:39 AM
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I'm sensitive? You called someone incompetent because they called an advance auto a "masculine" space. That's peak crybaby behavior dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:04 PM
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What's the point of being mean? Sorry you're having a bad day or something but keep your shitty attitude to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:59 PM
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C'mon man that's just uncalled for. She didn't do anything wrong or dumb. Leave her be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:53 PM
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Ask for a water pump gasket from a 1997 Toyota Tacoma
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:43 PM
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Same, I wanna make carbonated jello, I think I could make it work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:55 AM
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I love anything carbonated tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:41 AM
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Corn syrup will kill me long before my aspartame sweetened diet Dr pepper
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:33 AM
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I think they sound make a kahoot mobile game, for my mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:31 AM
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RIGHT?? THE GUY TRIED TO TELL ME IT CAUSES CANCER BUT THE ARTICLE HE GAVE ME LITERALLY CALLED IT SAFE TO CONSUME Want me to link the post because that argument was mind boggling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:28 AM
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School can be fun if your teachers don't suck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:27 AM
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I try not to, but I just caught myself missing the drive to finish a research project or to share my options on academic topics. Last time I got to do something like that was a reddit argument on aspartame lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:24 AM
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I kinda miss school. I miss the fun assignments I got to do sometimes, like reports on topics I liked and opinion pieces. Love the absence of academic stress tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:12 AM
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Online dating brings out the worst in both genders. I'll pass. I should have been more specific. I likely wouldn't find a partner. I could get a date. A life partner is much harder to find than a casual date. I'm 19, average, and you can look at my comment history and decide for yourself if I'm "picky".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:00 AM
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I'm saying that women don't just immature have men lusting for them when they become single. If I were to break up with my partner right now, I probably wouldn't find a date for the next few years at least
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:14 AM
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They had a toxic ass hat remove themselves from their life. You don't want them around to begin with. Women also don't just have a revolving door of guys lined up, regardless of what you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:03 AM
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I am, but I still fail to see how it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:25 AM
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How does it matter in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:22 AM
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Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:20 AM
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Nah, I think it's a great way to remove an awful person from your life. If someone treated me badly for being upset over anything, I'd contemplate leaving them hardcore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:13 PM
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That's just the issue with the Internet. It enforces insane standards. That's why I don't have tiktok at all. It just lowers my self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:10 PM
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Have you tried asking to drive a hotwheels over her tiddies? That usually works
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:08 PM
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I see a man rip ass so hard it leaves an indent in the couch and I shake with awe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:15 PM
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I mean, foreplay is an incredibly important part of sex regardless of how someone masturbates. Also, you could just implement toys in sex too. I've heard that helps a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:14 PM
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I always like the idea of stuff like science projects. You find a question you enjoy and then you deep dive into it. You decorate something without much of a deadline and it's based on something you like. I wish I had gotten to do that instead of a book report
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:12 PM
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I have to put my hair in a clip when I'm driving or I run the risk of crashing the car because the hair getting in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:09 PM
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Fuck yeah, gay commie obama
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:06 PM
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I wish I could do makeup like some of those girls, it's a talent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:05 PM
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Sorry it didn't work out, but it's refreshing to see someone so chill and supportive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:27 PM
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I mean, if it's working for him, I don't see an issue. Sex doesn't actually change ones anatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:25 PM
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I don't lose my wallet, but I have lost my glasses twice this week
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:24 PM
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A lot of school districts don't offer it anymore. Mine didn't really do anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:23 PM
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Sounds about right tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:45 PM
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My guy if you're that paranoid about your partner taking your life savings and car, then sign a prenup. Also, this has been the set up since divorce has been a thing. It's a unfair set of regulations and biases leftover from a time when women needed support because they weren't working and weren't expected to. Of course, I think it's stupid that someone just takes all the other persons stuff, but you can't just solely base that on women being greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:29 PM
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I don't cities give you to breathe. It's so cramped and you don't have space for anything. I think a cute lil house out in the sticks is the best place to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:24 PM
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I finally got to go to fossil beach this has been such a baller day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:06 AM
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As I've said, I'm done arguing. Neither of us are getting anywhere with it and it's completely unproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:15 PM
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Look man, this conversation isn't worth it. You actively have zero idea what you're talking about at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:20 PM
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Dude. Reread the conversation, you're the one who brought up attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:57 PM
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Any. It's like you're completely lost as to what any form of therapy is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:03 AM
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Are you completely unaware of how therapy works?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:32 PM
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Do I need to quote myself? I've stated from the beginning that it's a good starting point. I never said it'd fix your problems. It's supposed to help you learn how to fix some of your problems and how to cope with the ones you can't fix
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:28 PM
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When did I call it a solution? I'm pretty sure I said it was a good starting point. Not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:17 PM
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"it's like directing someone with a toothache to the dentist." How does that metaphor make sense given the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:08 PM
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Therapy is a good starting point. They can look up the different kinds of it and find ones that might work for them. If they don't want to do it, no one is making them. Also, where else is someone with a toothache going to go? The ER? Your metaphor makes zero sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:16 PM
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Therapy is diverse. It's up to the individual to do their own research to decide what works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:00 PM
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Masturbation is an incredibly healthy and normal thing for people, the issue is in moderation and the content some people consume, at least that's my opinion on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:52 PM
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I mean, they're trained professionals. Unless you think I'm the one who doesn't know what I'm talking about, which i guess is fair. All I know is that therapy works for me and I figure it's worth a shot for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:51 PM
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"how long has this Tupperware full of spaghetti been in the back of the fridge?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:49 PM
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Both, but not inherently
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:47 PM
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I mean, it helps a lot of people. I think therapy is a good place to start with self improvement, personally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:44 PM
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I didn't. I told you that i believe caring for people and being empathetic have absolutely nothing to do with attraction. You haven't proven me wrong and I haven't proven you right. You haven't really proven anything as if I'm being honest, you've barely even made an argument to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:40 PM
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May I hear your definition of sympathy vs empathy? We might have differing personal definitions. Also, I haven't said anything about attraction. I'm not talking about dating or relationships, I'm talking about how feminism is perceived by this group and how it is misrepresented by misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:18 PM
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I think a lot of women lack the actual experience I have with groups like this. I try hard to understand where you guys are coming from and how the issues I see actually affect y'all. I think what we need the most is more open and civil conversation between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:14 PM
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Can you please send me a copy of these laws? I'd love to look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:11 PM
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I believe I directly contradict your statement with my own outlook on men, also, why Shouldn't women have empathy towards men? I expect at least respect from men, so the same should be given from women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:10 PM
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I never said anything about mediation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:11 PM
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. Yet all of their solutions achieve nothing other than some traumatized and mentally scarred boys. Can you give me any examples? Because the only real solutions I've seen being pushed are just trying to remind men that self expression and showing emotions are okay. I think toxic masculinity is a poor word choice for a specifically male mental health problem that revolves around issue with low self esteem, social isolation, and absurdly impossible standards that come from both women and men. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:51 PM
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Feminists have no issues with the fact that men have a higher sex drive than the average woman. What we care about is how some of that frustration is handled. For example, sex crimes, using AI to remove clothes from peoples pictures, catcalling. I personally don't have anything against men who watch porn or pay for sex (although I do think that sex work is an incredibly complex and touchy subject, but that's not the point here).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:46 PM
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Yeah, most women know their zodiac sign, and some genuinely believe in it, most of us don't. Most of us only know like the basic "I'm a Taurus" or something. There's a lot more that goes into it that most women don't care to learn because we don't believe in it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:34 PM
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Most women don't believe in astrology, it's just fun. Like BuzzFeed personality tests. I like knowing that I'm a Sagittarius and all the stupid little birthstone things that comes with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:19 PM
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I've seen some misandry for sure, but most feminists aren't man hating trolls. I can say with conviction that most feminists care deeply about men's rights and their mental health. However, I do notice a lack of posts and PSAs directed towards them, but with the current social and political climate, I can see how that might happen. (Not that it's fair, but I get how it could get lost amongst the talk of war and terrorism)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:18 PM
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I never noticed that, but yeah. I'll never understand how so many people convinced themselves that vaccines are just like, public mind control schemes or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:13 PM
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I watched a bunch of Semi-Importamt people get scammed and beg for pictures of monkeys on Twitter in real time. If that's what I risk trying to get Rich off of crypto, I'd rather just work like a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:12 PM
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I love the little characters you get at the end of that one test. I should retake it sometime and see if it's changed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:10 PM
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I can agree with social media, that's ruined pretty much everyone tbh. How has feminism, especially intersectional feminism, ruined women? Because in most of the feminism related groups I'm in, we spend a decent amount of time discussing men's mental health and how by not addressing it, everyone suffers, both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:08 PM
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I think it's just a difference in general interest. Women have astrology, and men have bizzare twitter cryptocurrency scams
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:06 PM
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I can say the same towards men. Most of my friends have been male growing up and I think life would have been a lot worse without them. I have to ask, why is there even a gender war? Why do we have to fight? I feel like it'd be a lot easier to just try and be friends than argue all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:50 PM
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The one I work for specifically produces paper for electrical insulation. We work really hard to keep any of waste we produce to ourselves and recycle basically everything so there's not really any smell outside of the building
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:28 AM
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Usually it doesn't smell like anything, but it can smell like mildew or even fabric softener sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:23 AM
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It's not too hard. Some heavy lifting, some touchy machinery. Lots of paper cuts. The worst bits are the finger smashing rollers and spinning blades
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:42 AM
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Paper mill worker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:13 AM
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No? Most of them seem to have a good grasp on anatomy, there's some outliers for sure. I don't think it's a good idea to make claims like that, even if it's supposed to be a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:15 AM
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I love it when we try to say something nice about literally any man and the guys here try to spin it in a way to make us feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:11 AM
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...you do know that vaginas don't work like that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:09 AM
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Do you just become colorblind without them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:40 PM
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They're in the same spot and almost complete opposites on the color wheel. I don't know how you could confuse the two
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:25 PM
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Mines pink, my boyfriends is green. It's not like we get them confused
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:15 PM
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I'm interested in your thoughts on how the patriarchy is beneficial to us, because I've seen the opposite be true through my own experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:12 PM
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It's like trying to explain why I think the way my boyfriend drives is cute. I have no idea why, it just is. I can't explain what exactly he's doing that's so great, but it is. There's no explanation, just vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:10 PM
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No, I've never shared a toothbrush with my boyfriend, but if it were an emergency and only for a day or two, I could probably do it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:07 PM
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Urology is just a really important part of bottom surgery, so it'd make sense that the best urologists work there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:05 PM
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My biggest issue is the infantilzation of autistic people. Like, I hate that people treat autism like some disease that makes you some creep or worse, an "uwu soft bby"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:58 PM
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Unironically everything is correct but the "needs to be buzzed or high to want sex" thing, at least for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:20 PM
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Im going to be 100% real with you, height honestly is not worth the increased risk of (stress) fractures, possible paralyzation, and the fact that you just won't be proportional anymore. I also don't think that It'd change the way you're perceived by anyone, although I wish things were that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:46 PM
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It seems like it'd seriously degrade the strength of your bones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 AM
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I think the only thing he's ever done is take advantage of vulnerable people, both male and female. He was never a good person, although I can't say every single action he took was negative, I personally just can't bring myself to believe he did anything out of the goodness of his heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:27 AM
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Was the novel good tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:24 AM
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I grew up in a small town with known criminal parents and was noticably poorer. It was definitely the more well off kids who were meaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:23 AM
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I don't think people realize how bad those surgeries are for them. I've met naturally tall guys (like, 6'1+) and they seem to run a much higher risk or breaking their legs and tearing/pulling muscles than someone closer to my height (5'1).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:21 AM
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It's honestly pretty common for either gender, especially during highschool because everyone is dealing with their messed up hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:13 AM
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My guy have you seen the economy? No one can afford consumerism nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:12 AM
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The ones that talk about "first blood" actually make me want to vomit. The hymen huffers just creep me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:10 AM
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Medications can really fuck some people up. Mood stabilizers and birth control are two big ones I know of that'll mess with people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:09 AM
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Yeah that just sounds like empathy to me. Most genuinely empathetic people strive to make things peaceful and overall just calm. People with a lot of empathy often make good mediators
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:16 PM
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Nah, you just gotta find your niche. Tons of women love that stuff. The issue is weeb/otaku culture is often kinda creepy (?) To most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:49 PM
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Being agreeable is not the same as being submissive or a doormat. Being agreeable is being considerate of other people's feelings, and seeking to find a compromise and resolve conflicts, instead of picking fights for the sake of drama or being needlessly harsh. I think a better word for that would just be empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:46 PM
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I look for friends nowadays, but I've always had a good time meeting people in like, actually clubs. Like book clubs and stuff. It's getting harder to find stuff like that though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:44 PM
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I definitely don't think promiscuous people are bad people. I agree, I see sex as the highest form of love I can give so it's not something to be given lightly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:01 AM
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So finding people with matching aesthetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:52 AM
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Honestly at this point, I think you're based for having equal standards. I think it says a lot about someones character if they're just sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:50 AM
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Unfortunately I live in actually buttfuck nowhere. I live in what's considered the downtown area of my town and I have herds of deer in my apartment buildings parking lot some mornings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:41 AM
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Prickly pear, it has to be imported to where I live so it's only here for like, two months of the year. Peaches grow here though and they're like, a close second to prickly pears
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:17 AM
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Prickly pear! It doesn't grow in Ohio, so I have to wait all year for it to be imported and I was starting to think it wasn't coming this year. I bought a ton and I'm gonna make juice and maybe try making a sorbet???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:15 AM
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I think a lot of people forget that money isn't everything, especially in a relationship. However, I could say having ambition and passion for your job is definitely a pull for a lot of women. Especially in a law related field. Very academic and cool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:09 AM
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GUYS MY FAVORITE FRUIT WAS FINALLY AT THE STORE!!! this is the best day of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:07 AM
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I was a monster high kid and I absolutely LOVED Clawdeen. The only one that ever even came close to her was specifically the art class Draculaura. I Loved the barbie accessories but I never really got into Barbie. I liked the special edition dolls though, like barbie from around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:26 AM
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I gotta ask, were you a monster high kid or a Bratz kid? I consider barbie to be neutral because I think everyone had at least one or two if they had dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:06 AM
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So you actively subject yourself to people you don't like, and then call them cringe? Buddy look in a mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:02 AM
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Not all of us. Who the hell is Sean O'Pry??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:00 AM
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I don't see how, they were both established adults when they met,. At least, thats the assumption I have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:53 PM
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Zuckerberg is built more like an athlete, but musk is built like a 1950s fridge. I think Zuckerberg would be faster but musk would have a lot more power in his punches
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:04 PM
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It takes a lot more effort than it's really worth. Plus if you're not on top of it, it can get uncomfortable pretty fast
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:27 PM
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For me, I just really hate prostitution because it's often taking advantage of people who don't have much other choice. It's dangerous, degrading and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:25 PM
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Unbelievably based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:53 AM
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I'll probably be officially engaged by the end of the year, I'm so excited to buy my boyfriend a ring
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:36 AM
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https://starface.world/products/hydro-stars-refill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:18 AM
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It's a little basic but this one has been my favorite for forever https://youtu.be/0krxo46Ifbo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:19 PM
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Have you considered walking to places and painting them? They sell really neat mini watercolor sets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:09 PM
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They're at Walmart and sold online
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:01 PM
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OH FUCK YEAH!!! ANOTHER IRISH PUNK ENJOYER!!! щ⁠(⁠゜⁠ロ⁠゜⁠щ⁠)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:51 PM
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I recommend those little yellow star acne stickers. They're like magical or something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:50 PM
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... okay i guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:44 PM
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Respectable answer. I personally have gotten really into skincare. I love all the weird little products you can find
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:41 PM
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Honestly that just sounds like driving in any big city.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:37 PM
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Question for men: What are your thoughts on self care? What is your favorite form of self care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:36 PM
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I'd just like the intelligence to continue enjoying my more academic hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:01 PM
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Honestly I think feminism is kinda becoming a lost cause, at least the name. I believe in intersectional feminism but the community it awful. I think I'm just going to stop using labels 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:54 PM
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Women have no obligation to do this for their friends socially or otherwise I have never met a woman who would just run away while people they care about are being hurt. I go by what is. What? Yea women don't do that nor does anyone expect them to. And they will not be seen as less of a woman for it. That's just verifiably untrue, especially in cases involving younger people given women are supposed to have a "maternal instinct" which does in fact involve protection. This describes most women an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:52 AM
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If you see your friend being brutalized or harassed, you should help them. You should help strangers in that same situation. I personally don't think that is a downside to friendships with women in particular because a good friend, regardless of gender, should help you whenever possible. I believe that if you leave someone to suffer when you can help, even just a little, you are less of a person overall as that demonstrates a massive lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:40 AM
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I think math is the worst, I just can't visualize it in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:44 AM
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What duties in a friendship would a man have to do that a woman wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:34 AM
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Plenty of women like sports, you just have to find one. I'll admit it's a less common interest in women than men though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:22 AM
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Dude I know what equivocation is and I don't care about your shitty English teacher buddy? Just because she cheated doesn't suddenly mean friendships between men and women are impossible because not everyone is a cheater, but of course, you can't seem to go 15 minutes without comparing the actions of one woman to the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:20 PM
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"A friendship with a woman is shallow and exhausting. You know they never got your back, and you know you can't be as blunt." I don't know man, this seems kinda like you're calling women shallow. I genuinely cannot comprehend why being friends with a woman would be like this? Like, you can't just generalize every woman and then not expect someone to tell you it bs. We're not all the same person. I'll agree, some people are bad friends, women included, but that's not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:04 PM
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No, I'm trying to say to build connections with people and whatever happens, happens. I'm telling guys that an emotional connection is the best thing to find before sexual attraction. I don't know how you think most people find their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:50 PM
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It's not political correctness you're just pretending half the population is shallow and vapid despite that just being verifiably untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:44 PM
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I can't say I appreciate you insanely broad generalization of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:13 PM
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I don't think I've met any woman like that, personally. Everyone I've ever met has had interesting thoughts and interests to share. Maybe try looking in different places for female friends or at least conversation? That's helped me branch out a ton
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:58 PM
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....this is a joke right? (No offense I just can't read tone super well)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:48 PM
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I can understand wanting to distance yourself from something like that, even if I don't share the feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:19 PM
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I'm not going to argue with you about it anymore because if I'm being honest, I really just cannot bring myself to care about your opinion on the matter. Good luck with it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:14 PM
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Well, I'm in a relationship so it's a bit difficult to answer the question. I guess it'd depend on if they're happy? I've always thought that if I care about someone, their happiness comes first, with or without me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:13 PM
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"If you point out a really hot guy to a woman and ask if she want to casually hook up with him she'd probably say yes. If you ask instead "would you be fine only hooking up with him because he doesn't think you're good enough to date" she would probably say no.Functionally she'd just be having a one night stand with the guy either way, but the context of a good thing can change if it becomes an almost insulting consolation prize." I'm am speaking specifically on this quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:11 PM
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I guess I can agree with that statement, especially since I definitely fit into the emotionally responsive bit. I feel bad before I even do something half the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:09 PM
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I'm sorry but this is pretty hard to see in any way other than assuming I'm a dude. ">If you want to be friends with a woman go ahead but don't complain about the friend-zone like l constantly see many guys do online Of course she'd probably reject you, despite what you think, most women don't just sleep with anyone who asks. That's where building up an actual relationship without the pressure of romance is often very important step in a lasting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:07 PM
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See, that comes back to the original statement. I just... Can't comprehend how that happens. I don't understand why it's a bad thing to be cared for in a bon-romantic way. I'm starting to think I'm just an anomaly when it comes to how my brain processes this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:02 PM
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Statistics on like, how women approach men in social settings or something. You made a very generalized claim about most women that doesn't sound based in science or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:01 PM
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Ok now it's the feminine language of we are all individuals with different experiences and there's no such thing as a nature for humans behave according to me Are you trying to argue that we're a monolith? Because we do all have different experiences and are individuals with different thoughts. Obviously psychology and sociology are important, but both recognize that we are not our culture and societies but are products of them. And am talking about guys complaining about being in the friend-zon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:59 PM
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For me personally, i feel as though a lot of guys think women find their male friends ugly when in reality, we simply just see them as brothers for the most part, of course theres always exceptions to that. I can definitely understand not seeking them out and leaving things to fate. That seems like the best way to go about things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:56 PM
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I can understand that, which is why I'm a big believer in a diverse social circle (aka just be buddies with anyone you can). What do you think the biggest differences in the communication styles of men and women? I'm interested in your view on it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:53 PM
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but just how we are That's how you are. We're not all the same. If you want to be friends with a woman go ahead but don't complain about the friend-zone like l constantly see many guys do online I am a woman with a diverse friend group. I don't complain because I don't have any reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:51 PM
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I mean, she'd still care about you, she just wouldn't pursue a romantic relationship, which I personally think isn't negative, it's just how it is sometimes, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:49 PM
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Is any of that based in like, statistics or is that just how you personally think a woman would do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:48 PM
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I'm gonna be honest man, everything you wrote just comes off as self centered. You seem to see human interaction as something that's only supposed to benefit and validate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:44 PM
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Honestly yeah. I hate when people try to convince me that as a woman, I'm secretly always on the lookout for some Chad and and secretly shallow despite the fact that I'm engaged to my highschool best friend. They just ignore any part of my life to justify their preconceived notions of what the average woman is like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:42 PM
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How so? It's a friend. It shouldn't be hard to maintain a friendship and if it is, the. There's likely something wrong, either someone isn't putting in equal effort or the pair just don't click or have clashing personalities. I don't see how being friends with women in particular is some burden whilst being friends with men somehow isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:40 PM
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I personally think it's easier to date a friend than a stranger and I wish the guys on here would just... Make friends with people outside their bubble? It genuinely helps with the social issues I see mentioned on here so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:37 PM
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See that doesn't make any sense to me. I get not wanting to be friends with someone you're sexually attracted to because that can get awkward, but why is friendship and attention seen as transactional? Why is the friend zone a bad thing? Obviously you're still cared for, just not in a romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:35 PM
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Why do so many guys think it's some kind of punishment to be friends with a woman? I mention a platonic relationship with a woman and some guys act like I've just told them to castrate themselves with a chip clip. I just don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:30 PM
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Every time I notice people putting men down, I think it's almost always men being the majority, especially on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:19 AM
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I think a good man is kind, charitable, hardworking, and funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:24 PM
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Dude I'm sorry that's been your life, I think your mom might just be unhinged because I've never met anyone who who's that awful
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:14 PM
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Well, I don't just "sleep" with men. Those are the elements I base my decision on forming a lasting (hopefully) relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:05 PM
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I think the biggest sign that a relationship is good I that it feels like you're having a constant sleepover with your best friend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:04 PM
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Y'know.... Shared interests, views and goals? Personalities that mesh well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:02 PM
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Right? I don't care how someone looks, the first step towards my heart is being able to simply vibe with me and my stupid little gremlin hobbies. I really wish guys on here would understand that most women don't want models, we want a legit life partner that we can enjoy our time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:01 PM
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I gotta ask, what's wrong with red lipstick nails? (Especially nails, I know it takes a certain kind of person to pull of the lipstick)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:25 PM
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A lot of it seems to be broken up into smaller groups instead of one large subreddit. r/girlssurvivalguide is the biggest I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:42 AM
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Honestly the news seems to be spreading really slowly, at least in my circles of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:41 AM
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Think about it this way. Most adult women do not want to be your source of self worth or your emotional regulation. Obviously, a good partner will support you during hard times and uplift you, but they're not a therapist. You have to be able to have a personal sense of self worth. Not to mention that self love isn't narcissistic. Narcissists can't love themselves, that's why they seek attention and love from others. They base their happiness off of outside factors entirely. I agree that you shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:18 PM
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Man don't put that on all of us, it takes some peak stupidity with a dash of victim complex to say some shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:02 AM
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Best Take I've seen today tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:01 AM
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Any of y'all have any 3d print file things like this?: https://m.yeggi.com/q/massospondylus/ I'm trying to get more scientifically accurate fossil prints
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:19 AM
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I'll be honest, your views on what's necessary to uphold a good sense of self esteem are concerning if that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:08 PM
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I am a woman who considers my own gender expression to be androgynous. I don't know what you want me to tell you, I've given you my idea of a masculine woman/tomboy is. It's just a lady who does traditionally dude stuff imo. No harm no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:14 PM
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...this is a joke right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:58 PM
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In modern western society, I'd say a masculine role is being a provider/protector and chivalrous. Traditionally male interests are often related to manual labor, I think of project cars, hunting, contact sports, ECT. As for appearances, it's just a traditionally male wardrobe and maybe a haircut? Of course, this all heavily relies on how someone defines themselves and again, doesn't make anyone lesser in comparison to their peers following gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:54 PM
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A woman who embraces many traditional male roles, interests or appearances. You don't need all of them to be considered masculine, and none of them take anything away from womanhood itself. At least, that's my personal definition
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:48 PM
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What's wrong with self love? Caring for yourself and appreciation of your own abilities and personal struggles is an important part of improving your mental health and leading a happier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:44 PM
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Just so we're on the same page, what age/phase of life do you consider to be "youthful" in this way? I'm just trying to gauge where the average person believes where that line is drawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:56 AM
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He looks like a male version of Ellen DeGeneres tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:12 AM
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If I'm being honest I haven't noticed much of that since graduating highschool. There's definitely women who sexualize the features of east Asian men though. Won't argue against that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:07 PM
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Honestly I think the whole "women hit a wall" thing is baffling. Why are "childlike" features so sexualized?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:42 PM
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Another issue I have is the massive lack of mental health access and spaces to safely and properly socialize with our peers. I remember growing up with book clubs and amateur card game tournaments. Those things just don't really exist anymore. Everything takes place online and I find it to be a huge obstacle in creating lasting relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:08 PM
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I don't think it's fair to treat women as a Monolith in that regard. Our wants and aesthetics are all incredibly varied
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:55 PM
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I've always personally had the philosophy that most people are inherently good, but are greatly impacted by their environment. I think it's better to try and find and fix the root of the problem rather than just giving up, for lack of a better term.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:56 PM
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I think the way dating is seen as a whole, especially in some communities like this, is kinda... transactional? It just seems like people see relationships as a "what can you provide to make this worth it" situation when I don't really think that's how a relationship should be. ( Also, I've realized I've used consumerism incorrectly and have to either replace it or remove it from the post. That's a my bad moment for sure.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:53 PM
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Anyone else think the issue with dating is consumerism and materialism rather than "everyone just sucks more nowadays"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:46 PM
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Okay, I guess I have to be a bit more blunt about what I'm trying to say. You're a loser. You're a loser because you focus all of this time and energy specifically to be mean and rude to people instead of doing actually anything else. If you put a fraction of the energy you have for negativity, into something positive, maybe you would actually contribute to something. Maybe you'd actually help someone. Sadly, all you want to do is spread misery and bitterness because that's all the personality y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:19 PM
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I don't care who you're nice to, but you actively seek out arguments just so you can feel better about whatever sad little life you lead. I mean Christ, who has an account solely made for this kind of shit? Grow up and do something, anything productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:12 PM
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Insulting you? I'm talking to you how you talk to others. If it hurts your feelings maybe you should rethink how you treat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:58 PM
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So you don't have a job or friends? Can't you go take a walk or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:47 PM
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do you not have a job? or real people who want to actually talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:43 PM
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You weren't even mentioned in the comment you responded to. I didn't reply to you with it. You're literally just going through comments looking for someone to argue with. Again, I don't care about your argument whatsoever at this point. I've realized that there's no point in arguing with someone as petty and miserable as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:22 PM
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Congrats or my condolences, I'm not reading all that. I genuinely don't care what you have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:19 PM
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Is being friends with a woman some kind of punishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:39 PM
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Score: 117 (Stacey) I would've gotten normal but being a girl was a 6 point boost, even though I'm not conventionally attractive and mentally ill
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:16 PM
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Sorry! I just got used to a lot of these comments being serious, the idea of a joke didn't even cross my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:45 AM
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maybe the women who attempt to love ordinary men anyway in spite of ordinary men's disrespectful and quite frankly unloving habits You act like women are above men. We're not. We're on an equal playing field. You're just as ordinary as the people you're talking to. Also, if the first thing you think of when you see someone say things like "I crave love but worry I'm not good enough for it" is to insult them, then you can't pretend like you're morally above any of us either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:39 AM
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That's not true. Everyone has a shot at love. You don't have to be perfect to have a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:31 AM
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I'm sorry but that's just rude. Regardless of the issues you might have with someone, they don't deserve to be told they're unlovable. That's completely uncalled for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:30 AM
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Probably. I just can't wrap my head around being on here for so long, and seeing the same pleas for help and posts about guys wanting to better themselves and not knowing how, and then continuing to add to the problem. It's just mind boggling to me how someone could be that cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:27 AM
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Women usually already have a set type. they don't want to go for every man who might be interested in them. I'll be honest, I've deleted every romantic/sexual dm I've ever gotten from a stranger and have never positively reacted to guys checking me out. I'm not a rarity in that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:55 AM
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I see. I hope I'll get a chance to visit one day. Have you ever been to India? I'd love to visit any part of it, although I'm concerned about not being able to communicate there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:23 AM
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More options doesn't always mean more selection, if that makes sense? Like, I could probably flirt with a bunch of guys and get somewhere, but I really have no inclination to do so. I consider my approach to dating as "laissez-faire". Whatever happens, happens. Of course, I haven't thought about dating since I met my current boyfriend, so maybe the dating game has suddenly changed in the last year and a half and I'd have to up my game all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:20 AM
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I'm glad to hear it's good. I was interested in seeing it, but now I know I am. It's not often I get to see my views in a movie, so that's neat too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:01 AM
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Insecurity isn't an abnormal thing for anyone, but I think the standards you have set for yourself are a bit... Unhealthy? I also think that the way you look at dating might be less than optimal. You seem to assume every woman you see is playing 4D chess when if I'm being 100% honest it's just not like that. Most of us are normal people leading normal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:56 AM
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I wish I could travel, what's Asia like? I've wanted to travel towards that side of the world for years
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:50 AM
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I think you're being unfair to yourself. Even if they've been with other guys, it doesn't mean they're comparing you and it's most definitely doesn't mean that their comparisons would be negative. Have you been with these women more than once?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:43 AM
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Have they said those things to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:37 AM
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Ive heard Ireland and Germany are lovely and have a decently mild climate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:37 AM
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Forming lasting relationships takes a lot of time. I personally try to find ways to relate different subjects to the original business subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:36 AM
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I was expecting a good old fashioned bridezilla post, but that's just awful. Usually I'd say that a wedding could be stressful and sometimes the newlyweds act out of character, but that was just actual preplanned ableism with a heavy dose of narcissism. I hope that lady feels Bad for the rest of her life over this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:59 AM
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Im gonna be real with you man, you can't expect to get anywhere if you call girl cum "nectar"- it's just gonna make most women uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:46 AM
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I see. Sometimes this community is a little confusing because a lot of the time I notice that behaviors are placed on to women as though we're a monolith. It's weirdly othering sometimes because I just don't relate to about 90% of the things I'm told I'm supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:08 AM
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I feel as though the same work that the wife would do is being kinda downplayed while the husband is being put on a pedestal. If he doesn't have kids, he might be able to go beyond what a sahm does. I don't know, I just think it's unfair to treat the work mom's do as lesser. My apologies if I misinterpreted anything you said. I'm trying to respond to a bunch of comments at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:56 AM
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Maybe. I tried my best to not interact with people who I knew acted like that, so I don't really have any first hand experience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:52 AM
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That makes sense, although I'm really starting to think that despite the original comment saying it applies to everyone, it might not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:51 AM
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I guess. How would being a sahd make a man look like his wife's chore slave? Sorry, I have to stick with the original argument or I'll forget about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:50 AM
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Weird. I've never personally felt like that. It makes sense, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:45 AM
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Yikes. It sounds like you dodged a bullet. I've never seen people act like that outside of the "popular" kids in highschool. Of course, I expect to be able to vent with friends, but they obviously deserve that same energy from me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:41 AM
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I mean no offense by this, but have you had a female friend?... If you have, my condolences because the person you were friends with must've been awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:32 AM
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If that's how you feel, but that's the only way I've ever wielded results in dating, personally. I'm actually set to marry my highschool best friend in the next year or two, after he finishes school
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:28 AM
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What's wrong with make-up? It takes a lot of talent to use that stuff. I just bought a bunch recently and realized I have no idea how to use it, so I wish I were like the girls who know. Also, you could use make-up too if you want? My personal favorite at the moment is the Jurassic Park 30th anniversary set.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:25 AM
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Why not be her friend first? That's honestly the best way to find a partner in my opinion. Also, wouldn't she also give you attention? If it's one sided, then yeah, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:21 AM
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I mean, there's a reason there's a common beauty standard. Most women have a type, and would likely share a "crush" that embodies their type. Like Pedro Pascal and... The Rock? Are women still attracted to the Rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:17 AM
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I guess cooking can be something you put a lot into, but chores are chores. You can't exactly half ass most of them. The only one that comes to mind is sweeping and mopping tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:14 AM
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I got average looks and a fucked up childhood, although I think it ended up being a personality boost since I've ended up with good humor and a strong moral compass to equal out the big nose and chubby face
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:12 AM
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I'll be honest, being a stay at home parent is hard, but it isn't rocket science. I'm not sure how he could do anything super proficiently that his wife couldn't or wouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:10 AM
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What's preselection? I've never heard that term.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:08 AM
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Oh? What do you consider empathy to be then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:57 PM
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What a surprise /s I've honestly given up trying to talk to her. If she sees this and tries to respond, I'm just going to ignore her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:56 PM
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Y'know what? I'm not going to try and politely argue with you because you're too self centered to think about why these people have the issues they do, or what could be done to help them. You have spent at least a few months on here and what do you have to show for it? A bunch of half assed insults towards a bunch of people who at best don't care what you have to say and at worst are genuinely struggling? If I were as miserable as you, I'd break my phone and lock myself in a room in hopes of not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:20 PM
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Yeah... She's definitely not helping with any stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:29 PM
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Because I have the emotional intelligence to understand that you're not helping. You're not clapping back. You're just being the school yard bully that a lot of the guys see us as and you're doing more harm than good. Of course, you don't care about these people and the people around them, you just like giggling to yourself after you "own the incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:49 PM
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She did? I haven't seen it. I'd like to drop it but every time she comments it just makes me feel bad. I try really hard to try and show people that women aren't judgmental or shallow and she's kinda just undoing any good I might've done. It's just frustrating, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:15 PM
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I read your comment the first time. Again, saying things like "The problem with most losers whining about their dating problems is that they’re mentally ill, shallow, and/or have terrible personalities." Is incredibly insulting. There's no need to say things like that. I get that you disagree with these guys and you want them to know that, but the way you're going about things is just justifying their views on women, which is the opposite of what we should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:13 PM
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I have seen multiple of comments from you just in this thread insulting people when that's just not helping. You know it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:08 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, why are you in this community just to insult people? I get disagreeing, I disagree with most things I see on here, but you're not helping anything. You're just making the people here who dislike women feel justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:38 AM
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I just have to disagree. With the growing lack of empathy and increase of apathy, I've noticed more and more senseless violence. Particularly against homeless and elderly people, at least that's what I've personally observed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:31 AM
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I'm a person. Being alive is an emotional state. I believe the "facts don't care about feelings" approach to things usually leads to people getting defensive and ignoring your message rather than both parties having a real discussion and learning from each other. I think a big issue in the modern era is treating every conversation like it's a debate. I don't think we should treat everything like it's an argument to win, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:58 AM
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Unfortunately no, my apologies. However, I'm always open to give advice or listen if you need someone to talk to. My main goal on this site is to help others and be a decent example of what I want to see in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:55 AM
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While I 100% agree that you should be allowed to be yourself no matter what, I think it's important to try and keep yourself somewhat within social norms. I got bullied in highschool whenever I tried to be comfortable as myself. Personally, I kinda treat interacting with others as a science experiment. I test what does and doesn't work depending on the person I'm talking to. I feel bad saying this, but i kinda list people in my head like researchers list test subject behavior. It's helped me a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:43 AM
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It really depends on the person. I'm pretty sure I, myself am autistic in some capacity so that doesn't really matter. I also don't care about money all that much since I make pretty decent money myself. It really depends on the interests, humor and overall personality of the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:31 AM
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I think I actually have the opposite of demisexuality. I tend to have a hard time differentiating platonic and romantic love among my peers. Of course, I've learned ways to get around this and have no want to cheat or anything crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:05 AM
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I haven't really thought about it before, so my responses might be stupid, given that they're on the spot. I guess my personal tastes is that I don't have many. I've dated men shorter than me (I'm 5'1), taller than me (my current boyfriend is 5'11), different races and body types, ECT. I personally really like a man who's strong, but not necessarily muscular, I guess. I mainly go for personality, but I know that's not usually an accepted answer, so I'm trying to avoid it but I'm really drawing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:44 AM
1

I understand, but even if I am shallow and rejecting it, I can at least say I'm trying to better myself. I try very hard to be fair and kind to the people I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:17 AM
1

I also don't understand that concept. How could anyones worth be based on such ultimately unimportant qualities such as looks and money? Every individual has so much to offer, I'd hate to ignore those things by looking at them with such a bleak and shallow lense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:09 AM
1

I think it depends on how it's said and when it's said. Personally? I don't think I'd be comfortable with someone who has a high body count, but I wouldn't say that outright to someone. I also wouldn't go as far as to say it means they're a bad person. They're just likely not my type. Y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:06 AM
1

I mean, if everyone consents to that, I guess I can't fault it even if I don't personally agree with your way of doing things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:59 AM
1

I have a personal policy of "if they call again after I send them to voicemail, I answer". If they're my friend, they know that if I hang up, I'm busy. If they call after that, I know it's important or an emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:48 AM
1

I think there's a difference in being upset in how modern society has changed dating and socialization with the opposite sex and using the frustration that comes from the aforementioned issues to generalize and insult women. I've noticed that instead of saying things like "I don't like how promiscuity is celebrated" people tend to say things like "life would be better if women weren't all whores". It makes it very difficult to listen to some of the arguments on here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:46 AM
1

Personally, I can't fathom how looks could be anything but subjective. Like, no one has the exact same likes and dislikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:41 AM
1

Of course, but I think people in this sub forget that personal tastes kinda ignore traditional beauty standards. My apologies if I was confusing or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:23 AM
1

I think that looks do matter to most people, but personality and personal tastes in looks trump popular beauty standards every time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:20 AM
1

Even within the LGBT community, queer women get kinda ignored. Just look at lesbian representation.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:37 AM
0

I'm pretty sure sexual attraction isn't a choice... If they like someone they like someone. That's just how it goes
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:34 AM
4

It happens a lot on here. I try to add to the debate but I usually just get downvoted for disagreeing
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:55 PM
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I mean, I'm not sure what that has to do with me thinking both the comments in the image are kinda for lack of a better word, cringe. I can imagine there's plenty of people who disagree with me on the matter
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 03:03 AM
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I personally believe both of these people are stupid.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:55 AM
1

Again, it sounds degrading when you don't know what it means. I have no idea what a manlet is. It sounds like an insult.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:22 PM
1

The term manlet sounds pretty degrading to anyone who doesn't know what it means
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:20 PM
1

If you need someone to talk to, my DMs are always open. I don't know if I can fit all your criteria, but I'm empathetic and try my best to listen to and understand others.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:18 AM
1

Women are also usually shorter than men. I am 5'1. I've just asked, and my boyfriend is apparently 5'10. He's the average height for my area. Maybe I'm an outlier or something, but I've never considered height in any of my relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:15 AM
1

I mean not really. They're all average height. I know my experience is my own, but I personally have never really seen that kind of thing outside of highschool.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:38 AM
1

I don't think I actually know my boyfriends height, now that I think of it. He's definitely taller than me, but so is everyone else.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:52 AM
1

I don't think being short makes anyone less of a man?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:51 AM
1

I can agree that it's a common want, but I rarely see it being something that makes a guy a hard pass irl.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 11:54 PM
1

I think it's just one group tbh. Most women I know don't care about height. I've seen the ones who do. It's just shallow people who seem to actually care
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 10:16 PM
2

Are you trying to say that other races were desirable, but aren't anymore? My apologies again, I'm currently at work so my mind is a bit all over the place
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 09:04 PM
2

Im sorry, but I'm not sure I'm understanding your comment. Could you please clarify?
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 09:02 PM
4

I don't think that's true at all. I think eurocentric beauty standards are imposed on people who simply don't fit them, which is unfair. Height shouldn't be the issue it is either, but I know that anything I say on that matter probably won't be received well.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 07:43 PM
1

I don't think that would help. I think that would simply just isolate a lot of people from online friends and hobby/interest groups they can't have where they live. For example, if reddit or Instagram were suddenly banned, I would have to give up some of my hobbies because they simply don't exist where I live. I wouldn't be able to ask questions or learn about the hobby like I can currently. I think what we should do is urge people to admit it when they photo shop their pictures or have cosmetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:07 AM
3

They're still people with real lives and experiences. Again, no one has to agree with what I personally enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:52 PM
2

I mean, if they're not worth it to you, that's fine. I personally just enjoy meeting new people and consuming media I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:31 PM
1

They still exist to an extent, but they're either super expensive or for people much older than me. Like, I haven't seen a book club for anyone under 45 and I can't afford to join any sports because the price is just insane, at least in my area
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:09 PM
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I honestly have stopped seeing group events that existed when I was younger. It's like everything has been replaced by an app or game. I used to do some larp thing at my local park in elementary school and as far as I'm aware, my group has disbanded. I wish there was a way to revitalize that sort of thing, but people in my age group just don't come to those events.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:06 PM
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I mean, it's allowed for me to meet a lot of wonderful people and interact with a lot of views and cultures I would otherwise never learn about living in rural America. I think the biggest issue is just people being shallow and hateful and using their platform to spread that message.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:51 AM
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Honestly yeah. I'm intensely grateful I couldn't access the internet in it's entirety until I was about 14. I genuinely think it helped me retain a lot of social skills and a sense of personal worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:02 AM
6

I imagine there's plenty of them around.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 10:32 AM
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I fully believe that the invention and use of the internet and social media has made us more materialistic and isolated from each other. My mom used to tell me about the clubs and stuff she'd join before I was born and those things don't exist like they do. It's so hard to meet people irl and the materialism and Beauty standards of the photoshopped models online have just made us all believe we're ugly when we all look fine. We're just normal people. I've come to the realization that socializing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:25 AM
1

Im engaged to my best friend, neither of us made the first move, if I'm being honest
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 09:19 AM
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Maybe in your area, but where I live and grew up, most of us were simultaneously taught that approaching a man first was "whorish" and also we'd get attacked if we did. It was a weird message tbh
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 01:13 PM
1

It was in boot camp and they actually let a fresh out of A school corpsman put it in. The Lt just signed off on it. It was free tho-
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:11 PM
-1

I actively make sure the effort in my relationship is equal.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 01:10 PM
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I don't think that's true at all. I can't speak for everyone, but most women are taught specifically to not approach men. It's usually taught as manners or for safety reasons
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 12:01 PM
1

Oh, it was a naval officer. I think she was a lt commander?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:00 PM
1

Nope. I said "I want birth control, can we go over the types?" Then they stuck a hormonal matchstick in my arm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:51 AM
1

...I'm a girl.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:50 AM
1

How is being social "indoctrination"??
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:48 AM
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I don't think that's true ... Just because women don't swarm a guy doesn't mean that guy is lesser or ugly. I also don't think interacting with a woman is "feeding their ego".
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:45 AM
1

Would if I could. I don't have any issues with approaching other people.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:41 AM
1

You barely need medical clearance for more invasive birth control. You just ask and they give it to you. I had a plastic stick put into my arm on a whim (nexplanon). Since you can't really get abortions in the states, I think otc birth control is the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:38 AM
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if you have to constantly approach as sub 7 What does that even mean
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:21 AM
-16

Do you just like, angrily glare at women rather than talk to them?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 05:59 AM
1

"fellas, is it gay to love your wife?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:49 AM
1

How is having a wife you love beta? I'm really hoping you're trolling or joking or something -
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:48 AM
1

I pay for 80% of the dates I go on because they're usually my idea but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:59 PM
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...what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:33 PM
1

Ah, I see. Honestly I'm kinda surprised I haven't seen a "maybe they shouldn't open their legs" kind of comment yet on it. I see one almost every time birth control is mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:32 PM
1

Honestly I think the consensus is that most women prefer average. Anything too big can hurt, especially if we can't control the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:01 PM
1

That's so sweet, I'm glad you two have such a great relationship with him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:55 PM
1

I think whoever asked should pay. It makes things a lot less complicated and in my opinion, makes the date a little less awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:47 PM
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I mean, most of them are. I think it's unfair to judge people wholly on appearances anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:44 PM
1

I haven't seen anyone upset yet, at least not in the thread. Can I have an example of why someone would be upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:30 PM
2

Oh shit! That's so cool. I wonder how effective it is? Birth control is honestly a really useful medication, even if you don't need it for contraceptive reasons. Also, why would anyone be upset about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:16 PM
2

I personally am the breadwinner of my relationship, pay half the bills and my partner is currently going to school. That's a normal occurrence where I live. I think as long as someone has a good work ethic and is willing to help out to whatever extent they can, that's good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:44 PM
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Firstly, my apologies for my late responses, I'm currently at work, but I know it's bad debate etiquette. Secondly, I feel as though the term "incel" as used by a majority of people is a very specific set of negative traits that hinge on blaming either women or society for their lack of success in dating, which turns into somewhat aggressive comments on both women and society. Of course, "nice guy" would also fit, but I felt like I should use the terminology op did for clarity. I think rather th…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:58 AM
-6

In the context, incel refers to misogynists. I know that technically, incels are simply people who cannot find a partner. I think it depends on the context how this term is used given how varied the use is across social media. Also, Andrew Tate and fresh and fit are horrible role models and are well known for being demeaning towards women and glamorizing the mistreatment of women as well as materialism, although materialism is a bit of a grey area to be honest. I personally think they cause more…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:12 AM
-5

Honestly I think the best way for someone dealing with the struggle of inceldom is to remove oneself from that community. Radicalization often comes from people around the aforementioned individual giving them more rage bait and affirming their often toxic, misinformed and hopeless worldview. My main example of this are fans of creators like Andrew Tate and the fresh and fit (I think that's their name?) podcast bros. Content creators like that often spread negative generalizations on women, LGBT…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 04:13 AM
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It's advice. I give it freely and if it works for someone, it works. Most of it is just empathetic suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:57 PM
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Do you know anything about my ideals and experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:47 PM
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I figure it's good for most arguments to have another point of view rather than just being a bunch of people agreeing with each other. That and i like trying to offer up advice based on personal experience sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:09 PM
2

I hate how some of you guys see relationships as almost purely transactional instead of like, a chance to have a loving bond. It's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:07 AM
1

I'll take that as a "no", then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:09 PM
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No one should be forced into a war they don't believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:51 AM
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The last man drafted for war in the US entered service on June 30th, 1973. I can't speak for other countries, but i know that i personally have much more urgent issues than trying to repeal a system that hasn't been utilized in 50 years. If it ever becomes a possibility again, you'll hear complaints about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:01 AM
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I'm starting from gen z because that's my generation and I'm not a child. The law was not put into place to allow women unrestricted access to a bank until '74. That falls into GenX territory. Also, even if it were 5 generations ago, it doesn't matter because there are still women alive who remember those restrictions. That's an era too close for comfort in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:56 AM
1

Did you ignore the first half of my comment? I've already stated that i don't agree with a draft for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:53 AM
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Boomers span from 1946-1964. That is an entire decade before the official Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed. That's also only three generations, unless your family has kids young or you're gen Alpha. Also, while i couldn't find any gendered voting statistics going as far back as 1920, this implies that women didn't begin to outvote men until 1980. 60 years is a long time. As for Ukraine, as i have previously stated, i don't believe in a draft for either genders. There's also 60,000 women on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:09 PM
1

Meh, it's better to have a simple life than so much excess you drown in it. Of course, i was raised in a rural environment so I'm used to a simple life. I think it's preferable to a luxurious one to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:59 PM
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I think we're just here, no one is inherently better than anyone else. I'm not inferior to anyone due to my looks or financial situation. I think having an outlook that forces you to think you're inferior is ultimately detrimental to ones mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:49 PM
1

I think your outlook on life and the people around you is sad. I hope one day you can see that life isn't inherently awful and that women aren't some race of succubi looking for money and dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:32 PM
3

They were given much more opportunity and much more freedom. Women have also historically done the dirty work in a household. I haven't even said that men don't offer important skills or advancements to society. All I've said is that it's unfair to say women are lesser when women have had less of an opportunity to prove themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:24 PM
3

The average woman was not a queen, or a nobleman's wife. She was a farmers daughter, a working woman, a housewife. It took a higher socioeconomic status than most women usually had to become a scholar or artist. Thankfully, things have slowly gotten better for the average working woman since 1900. Women weren't weak for not being able to make a stand, they were focused on self preservation, which i personally find to be a testament to the strength of historical women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:12 PM
1

Do you have any reliable sources for any of the statistics you're seemingly pulling out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:41 PM
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My mom was born only 6 years after the Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed. It wasn't 4 generations ago. Also, how is a government draft women's fault? We didn't want war either. It's also not our fault we weren't considered fit for a draft by that same government. Women offered whatever they could to the war effort, from being nurses and seeing combat despite not being able to participate, to buying war bonds and planting victory gardens. There's also multiple women fighting in Ukraine. Any fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:41 PM
1

So educated women who have better access to a way out from an unhealthy relationship are an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:25 PM
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Even without looking up statistics we can infer men have been more intellectual, artistic, entrepreneurial throughout history and continue to be up to this day just from a gut feeling. While men have helped advance humanity in many fields, it's unfair to say men have just been more. Women have historically lacked ways to express themselves artistically or help further our knowledge in science. The notable women of the past who had the opportunity to be known for their work were often mocked thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:24 PM
1

Just because you have some kind of trust issues and greatly underestimate your partners intelligence doesn't mean my relationship is lesser for doing the opposite. I don't need to spend every waking moment hanging off my partners arm. I can handle myself just as well as he handles himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:23 AM
2

Yes, I'd rather not subject myself to pregnancy more than once given what usually happens to the women of my family when pregnant. I might be open to adoption though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:56 PM
3

We've been best friends for the last 6 years and together for two. If you need to keep your partners money so they can leave, that's not a partner, it's a prisoner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:54 PM
3

I think sharing the burden of a simple life is an very personal and intimate thing, not to mention the physical aspects of a relationship. I don't need a partner to live, i don't need sex or anything like that. However, life would be so much more boring without my partner. He's my ultimate confidant and best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:43 PM
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Especially, we just try to keep our efforts equal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:27 PM
2

A child isn't out of the question though? We'd both like one when it's more feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:05 PM
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How so? Just because we share responsibilities doesn't mean we can't have a loving romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:09 AM
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Nah, I'm a bit too young and while we're financially stable, we definitely don't make enough to support a child. Maybe one day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:07 AM
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Those are possible, but unlikely. I'm not going to waste my time on what ifs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:56 AM
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Making up unrealistic hypotheticals to try and make me either emasculate my boyfriend or make me look stupid is kinda pathetic dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:53 AM
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I've had that happen to me before actually. Usually you just ignore them and walk to your car or walk back into the gas station and tell the clerk what's going on. Gas stations usually have a lot of people, especially in cities where that kind of crime is more common. You don't really need to fight in those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:39 AM
2

Why would I go out somewhere dangerous at night? I know it might not seem like it but most people have enough common sense not to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:33 AM
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Im talking about how my father treats his partners. Also, you don't know anything about my father or how i was raised, so kindly keep those opinions to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:44 PM
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I don't think any of that applies to me. I work in a factory and my partner works retail part-time while going to school. We're both average in looks, i think, and we've been best friends since 9th grade so I've seen all his awkward phases. He's also technically disabled by having type 1 diabetes. I personally do not believe that hypergamy is the rule to dating but rather it's the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:34 PM
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No? Is it like polygamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:26 PM
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I don't feel the need for a protector and sex doesn't have to be about domination. I have zero "feminine need" in that sense. I have more feminine interests while he has more masculine ones, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:22 PM
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I'm a fully grown adult. I think i can confidently say that your idea of masculinity is absurdly unhealthy for yourself and those around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:18 PM
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We both pay our own bills, split home bills, take turns on groceries, work separate jobs, attend to each other emotionally and do everything in our power to help each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:16 PM
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I'm sorry, but if you think that masculinity is based on how much you can hurt something or someone, you have no business calling yourself a man. Learn some chivalry, learn some peace. Do not base your worth as a man on how much needless violence you can inflict on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:13 PM
15

Being equal in a relationship isn't emasculating because masculinity is not about control to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:52 PM
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As someone in a relationship with a "modern" man, the main difference i see in him compared to people like my dad, is that he greatly values my opinion and allows me to have complete independence. I have my own bank account, a job, a car, hobbies and my own friends and he has the same. We're completely equal whereas "traditional" men seem to treat their partners like something they own and can fit into a box to meet their aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:10 PM
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They're divorced and stressed because it sounds to me like they severely lack communication skills, can't compromise, or just married someone who had different life goals that they didn't discuss, which falls back into the realm of lacking communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:01 AM
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If you cannot figure out comprise, regardless of gender, then your relationship is doomed. Regardless of success or social standing, you do not own your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:37 AM
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I do? I'm in a long term relationship. My fiancee does whatever he wants when he wants and spends what he wants, although we both talk to each other before big purchases. We both invest time, effort and money into each other. I don't see how any other way would even work because if someone treated me like you've described, I'd move back in with my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:34 AM
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Allowing your partner to have autonomy and treat them as their own independent person, especially as they are, in fact, their own person. It's immoral to own a person in any way shape or form and considered abusive by most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:22 AM
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