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DiscussionWaschbar-krahe/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:33 PM
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having no control over owns body Outside of circumcision I'm not sure I understand what you're referring to. Being discriminated in education is also male issue Do you have any examples? I'm sorry you're bringing up issues I've never come into contact with. cultural. Being discriminated in healthcare is easier to prove I think this might be something specific to your area as American studies all point to women receiving poorer quality care and having less research for women specifically, which l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:55 PM
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is quite recent (I want to say around 1950 forward? but thats opinion). I'm fully willing to accept that it's likely generational and regional. I grew up in rural ohio and I was raised with the expectation of being a borderline tradwife. I do hold opinion that man should provide and let woman stay home if possible and she wants to. I have done that when children were small. I think it'd be nice but at least in my current situation it's just not feasible. We can't survive off one income even if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:12 PM
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It's really only people like my dad and grandparents who I've known to hold the opinion that men should provide and women should stay home. Everyone I know who's my age has a job regardless of gender and believes it's impossible to run a household without two working members. As for autonomy coming before tradition and religion, I agree wholeheartedly. I personally don't agree with conversations on misandry simply because the effects are so different from misogyny. I don't think they're close en…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:05 PM
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... your source is a tabloid site. I also didn't see any actual sources for the data but it might've been under all the ads. If all the data is telling you that you might be wrong, please just try to ask yourself why that is rather than looking towards fringe publications.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:13 PM
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I'm not strawmanning nor am I debating you. I think your opinion isn't worth any true effort. Sorry you can't have female friends without being a weirdo about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:03 PM
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"I'm so above looking at women who I think are ugly" well regardless of where they sit in your little rating system, they're all above talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:28 PM
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Sorry you can't look at someone without thinking about them in a sexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:05 AM
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I can send you the screenshots
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:26 AM
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Then the boundaries were respected by not fucking up the friendship and making it complicated. Because bisexuality is a spectrum and mostly involves people lying to themselves I'd love to hear what lies you think are involved in it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:55 PM
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Yeah it's nuts. I think I managed to freak him out enough to not do it to anyone else since I listed how what he did was technically a crime and would not tell him if I was going to report him (which is impossible, but let him believe I can do that lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:45 PM
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Bisexual people don't count in this Why? Because they disprove your entire point? Wanting to have sex with somebody doesn't mean you he no respect for them It does when it ignores the thoughts and feelings of the person you're interacting with. My friends from then are still my friends now because they respected me as an equal and not as a potential sexual conquest and I viewed them in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:43 PM
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"well if you like your buddies, how come you haven't fucked them" Are you like, okay? Do you not understand the difference between platonic and romantic relationships? Also, I'm also into women. So are a lot of my girl friends. None of us have tried to get into each other's pants. It's entirely about respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:36 PM
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Basically some dude messaged me after I gave someone else advice, I said "sure man I can try to help" he starts with normal stuff about how to talk to women and handle insecurities and then he's like "oh btw can I show you my ween, rock hard? Y'know so you can rate it" and he proceeded to send two unsolicited dick pics after being told not to do that. This is not the first time something like that has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:30 PM
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I think he messaged me after I gave someone advice on the virgin subreddit and I live in rural hell, so unfortunately there aren't a ton of in person options for that kinda thing. Most interactions I end up having happen after I offer some kind of advice. I do my best to mention I'm married beforehand because I don't want anyone to feel led on so it's not like they think I'm open to that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:24 PM
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Should I just spawn someone out of the ether who's known me for 15 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:21 PM
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I have irl friends, but y'know how adulthood is. Everyone is busy and I enjoy talking to people. I also don't think it's a chronically online problem when I'm really not on here that often and it happens at least 50% of the time I get any kind of DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:20 PM
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They're the jewels of the American Midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:17 PM
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She's fat. Not particularly unattractive. He looks like a Cuban Lurch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:43 PM
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I didn't approach him. He messaged me looking for advice and I was like "yeah I can do my best" and it spiraled within a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:41 PM
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No he definitely wanted me to say it looked nice. Thankfully I have the nsfw filter so it didn't show me anything beyond an unfortunate blob
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:39 PM
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My thing is I told him I was uncomfortable with that since I considered it to be nudes and I don't care to be involved with that mess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:38 PM
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My best friends from highschool were mostly guys and they've never interacted with me like that. If they have those kinds of thoughts about me, they at least have the common sense to be quiet about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:35 PM
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Ew?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:34 PM
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He's got the iron dome and if he's average, so is Lindy or whatever her name is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:34 PM
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And I'd say, if we're doing the numbers game, he's probably a 4. Tops. Being tall doesn't get rid of what looks like a lot of bad decisions and the fact that he'd be 6 inches shorter without all that dome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:20 PM
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Trying to be friends with the majority of men is nightmarish. You'll be like "Hello! I like to bake and have a husband!" And their immediate response is "would you, perhaps, rate my peen? No? I will be sending it regardless:)"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:12 PM
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"he's tall and has status" okay but he looks like he has shell shock, I've never heard of him, and he's what every manosphere guy says a single mom is so are those two things really doing that much heavy lifting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:10 PM
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It's like brother it was already over, go get yourself a Blizzard and a catering quantity of cheese curds and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:13 PM
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Is that not how the scenario in this post starts? You're ghosted and trying to get the person to come back to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:46 PM
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For sure. I'm married so I have a slightly different mindset towards ghosting but yeah, ultimately in the realm of dating, don't spend forever trying to manifest a connection. It's not worth the stress
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:47 PM
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If a woman ghosts you, move on. It's unhealthy to spend so much time trying to do psychic manipulation to get her to want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:43 PM
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I don't think I'd ever get over it. I'd probably stay single for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:04 PM
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This is how every relationship I've ever been in has gone. I believe that attraction comes from time spent together. You could put me into a room with whatever super model dude and if he's boring or mean, I'm not gonna like him. I've always valued personality before looks. Does being attractive to me specifically need to happen? Yeah, eventually. It's just on the back burner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:42 AM
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I personally think so, but this is also the man who watched me get some mystery illness, took me to get a slushy, and then watched helplessly as I barfed all over the side of his bright red truck and he's also the man who got absurdly drunk after prom and forced me to tie a trash can to him. I scrubbed vomit and potato gnocchi out of a couch for hours. Both of these happened before we were dating. We did not go out of our way to be attractive to each other, the attraction just grew as we grew to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:18 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean by "moves the needle".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:59 AM
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Yeah? Pretty sure that's how my husband operates. He's never had to specifically go out of his way to look good. He just looks like himself. Same goes for me. Our match was entirely used on personality and attraction built on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:58 AM
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Why do you think women not wanting to go out of their way to be attractive to men makes them not good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:01 AM
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Then I have no clue. It might be a cultural difference tbh. I live in a very laid back place where people take a lot of chances in dating. Like, historically if someone asked me on a date id just be like "worth a shot, okay!". As I've gotten older, I've realized it's not like that everywhere. You very well might just be surrounded by women with unusually high standards. I recommend going to more rural areas for dates if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:52 AM
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I personally feel as though our advice isn't taken seriously or at all. I have a hard time feeling bad when guys are happy to ignore my attempts to connect and offer help. I'm okay with being told my advice doesn't suit someone or if it's just wrong, but being wholly ignored based on my sex alone is a little aggravating. That and men, especially in subreddits like this, aren't exactly empathetic to womens problems either. I see it largely as a "get what you give" situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:08 PM
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How did you spell "throwing" wrong twice? It was an open book test
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:08 AM
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If I'm this irrelevant to you, why are you throwing this much of a fit over something you never had to interact with? You wanna live a miserable life where love is an illusion and we're all out for our own gain? Go for it. I'm not stopping you from hating your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:41 PM
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I don't care about doing homework for you. I shared an opinion. You don't need a contract, but I personally think it's nice and a way to show commitment. I have my marriage certificate on my wall like a trophy because I'm proud to be married to my husband. Men benefit more from marriage and there are statistics on that. I'll leave that scavenger hunt up to you. Marriage, in my experience within my little American micro culture, is beneficial to both parties. I'm also a big fan of the non-legal, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:05 PM
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You don't have to agree with me, me and my husband have separate bank accounts and split the bills, if you see human connection as a "liability" and a "symbol of decadent society", that's your own problem dude. Pretty sure most societies and economic backgrounds like marriage. It might be decadent if you have a crazy wedding, but that's not inherent to the concept of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:42 PM
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I personally wouldn't even care if they're a virgin. Everyone starts as one, don't see why it's such a big deal to remain one for longer than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:44 PM
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Marriage is just a contract, but for a lot of people, that contract means something. It's a symbol of genuine commitment. Yeah, things might change one day and it might not work out, but it won't end without effort being put in to make it work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:21 PM
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I'm not 400lbs. The only guy I've ever turned down on a date was. I'm about 170, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:22 PM
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I'll be real. I've never cared about someone's weight until they got to the point of being noticeably unhealthy and intimidating size wise. Like, the only man I've ever turned down was probably close to 400 pounds and couldn't go my walking speed, and I'm 5'1 with stubby legs. Anything under that has always been okay with me. The thing that's put me off most men my age has been the insecurity they have with themselves and their gravitation towards violence to make up for it. Guys who say stuff l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:16 PM
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I'm not saying I don't care about the topic. I'm saying I don't care for argumentative semantics. I'm not looking for a debate. Just a discussion. I'm not going to be digging through the Internet for sources to prove my points because I don't really have a point to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:01 PM
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I'm not listening to people who want me to be unhappy, I'm just stating anecdotes from my personal life to give some reasoning to the mindset a lot of women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:54 PM
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Ok man, whatever you gotta do to feel right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:53 PM
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I'm not here to argue with people. If that's what studies are telling you, go with it. I'm just stating my lived experience and reasoning for why women might be choosing the things they're choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:47 PM
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I literally just told you I agree that women should have higher standards. I'm not blaming all men, but we can both acknowledge that it's a global mindset that a woman needs to be the keeper of the home and that modern economic necessities are making that a harder and harder role to fill. It's not a me problem, fortunately. I have a fantastic marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:46 PM
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Not everyone can afford a dishwasher and you still have to sort, fold, and put away that laundry. You also have to sweep, mop, scrub the bathroom, scrub the kitchen, meal plan, do yardwork, clean windows, organize, dust, clean up after pets, make meals, and manage almost every social event and plan accordingly. While I'm willing to agree that women need to have higher standards and stop dating men who're unwilling to help out, most women have been trained from birth that their role is to just ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:38 PM
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In my experience, single women aren't even looking for anything sexual or romantic. I'm recently married and I'm incredibly lucky to be with someone who helps out, but it's not common. It might be because I'm fairly rural though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:34 PM
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Women are very aware men lack developed social circles. It's why the main advice they receive is to create and maintain a diverse friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:30 PM
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Married women are often taking care of the domestic aspect of the home entirely alone and in our modern economy they're also working on top of that. What was once an important role that came with a lot of social connections is now incredibly taxing and isolating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:28 PM
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What the shrimp want is shrimply beyond us all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:17 PM
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Thank you! It took forever since it's hard to see the white thread through the waste canvas I used
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:15 PM
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AI could never compare to my artistry <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:12 PM
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I grew up in a crack den. People who buy drugs will buy them regardless. If a dealer stops selling, an addict doesn't stop buying, they just go somewhere else. Should anyone be either buying or selling? No. Will they anyway? Absolutely. Both have fault in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:14 PM
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I don't have issues with dating advice as a content style. My main issue is taking advantage of insecurity. The kind of content that basically says "you're gonna die alone because you make less than 6 figures and have a chin that doesn't hit 90°" is what I have the biggest issue with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:02 PM
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I'll be honest, it's not the pornstars fault that guys pay them, especially when there are free alternatives. As for tradwives, I think they're playing to a fantasy based in a non-existent "good ol' days" that takes advantage of anyone who feels burnt out and overstimulated in the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:05 PM
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Absolutely, it's just that I see male ones trying to target their insecurities whereas women kinda just fill the niche of a sexual partner. I think both are bad, but one feels more purposeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:03 PM
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I just wish they realized that people like Andrew Tate don't actually want them to get better, they want them to be pay pigs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:37 PM
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Red pill/alpha male content creators are just taking advantage of insecure men and I don't understand how that's not obvious to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:31 PM
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Tldr chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:02 AM
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Picking a subject, lighting, angle, and doing editing is a lot more involved than giving a robot a sentence prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:51 PM
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I think the act of human creation is irreplaceable. I don't care if someone draws like garbage, if their crochet blanket looks like a fishing net, or their whittling project looks like something I'd use as tinder. The fact they're making something is special in my opinion. I don't want people to lose their connection to that act.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:00 PM
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Photography still has a learning curve and involves human input
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:56 PM
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I'm not talking about careers. I am talking about hobbies. AI is also being used to scam people specifically in the textile arts sector of hobbies. Again, you should be concerned by the decrease in people being able to get through the initial learning curve of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:04 PM
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A man told me he thought artists were special because they make art. People are being convinced that they don't have the ability to create, something we were doing before language, because he's either seeing the finished art of developed artists or AI. People are losing the ability to get through the "I'm not good at this I suck" part of learning a skill. I can't understand being okay with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:54 PM
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AI is destroying people's capacity for creative and emotional fulfillment and it's making a mockery of the crafts themselves. I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:29 PM
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Id probably be pissed, yeah. Getting laid off is outside anyone's control and if there are layoffs, I imagine the job market isn't great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:33 AM
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My guy that is a post from 3 months ago that I didn't even remember making. Either stick to the current conversation at hand or admit you've got nothing useful to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:58 PM
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Where'd I say men? I simply think doomers are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:53 PM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:58 PM
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I don't remember saying anything about attractiveness. My apologies if this is coming across as an issue in the realm of dating rather than an issue with specifically the blackpill/doomer mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:44 PM
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I personally think it's not weakness. Everyone can have mental health struggles, that's nothing to shame. It's just the weird... Smugness they have about being miserable. It's like doomers feel like they're better than others for being so misanthropic and "anti-hope".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:38 PM
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A lot of them don't want help. Which I can understand, it's a co-morbidity to a lot of different mental health issues but that doesn't make it less obnoxious and it does stop it from being genuinely exhausting to both see and deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:41 PM
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Honestly you're right. It just seems childish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:06 PM
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Bro, you don't have to be a dude to be an aggravating nihilist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:06 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:05 PM
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It's just exhausting to see so much hollow nihilism. I personally consider it to be a show of being complacent in ones depression/apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:05 PM
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At this point I think doomerism is just straight up cringe. Like yeah, the world struggles and life isn't always great but goddamn it's annoying to hear someone say shit like "it doesn't even matter bro like it's already over why even try bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:24 PM
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I'm a feminist, and I don't want revenge. I want acknowledgement of the past and present issues stemming from sexism that plague both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:10 PM
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My current hyper fixation has become 14th century nuns and I'm now planning on building a scriptorium in my future house. wish me luck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:36 PM
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Empathetic, intelligent, hardworking and playful are my main things. I want someone who can sit down and play videogames with me one day and help me with a project the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:12 PM
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Yeah you need to seek actual help dude. That is not a normal or healthy thing to say whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:02 PM
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I'll be honest, this conversation, if you could call it that, isn't worth having. I wish you the best, please have as nice as a day as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:16 PM
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I have been in this sub for months trying my best to understand and help in the ways I know how and have been doing my best to be better for years now. if you wanna call me sadistic for not having the energy to be someone's therapist on the spot, that's on you. not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:07 PM
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It's concerning to me because I feel as though no one should be so comfortable with being miserable that they refuse to acknowledge positivity in any regard. But y'know what? Yeah, the idea that some of them might snap and hurt women is concerning to me too. If it's not concerning to you as well then I have no issue in saying that you need to seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:54 PM
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I'll be honest man, that's a can of worms I don't have the energy to get into. Please seek some form of mental health help and or resources to do with education on the topic of mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:07 PM
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Do you have any advice on how to discuss mental health wth men? I've tried and to be honest I've had a hard time with talking to the guys who seem to need it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:06 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:05 PM
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Y'know what? You're not worth talking to. If you wanna sit and smugly know nothing about anything, be my guest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:04 PM
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Go for it man. You're not going to get many women who want that. I'm not going to say there are none. There's always a few, but it's absolutely the minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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It's not about "product". Honestly it's baffling that basic knowledge on anatomy is somehow some weird political issue to some people. Your mindset is why some grown adults still think that babies happen when a guy pees in a girl. Basic knowledge isn't an ideology "feminism" is trying to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:38 PM
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I'm not sure, but it's something I've noticed a lot recently in different spaces. Another example is how men will tell each other that they're on their own in terms of mental health struggles, especially on posts specifically for men's mental health. It's just bizarre to me that some men are so hellbent on being miserable and intent on spreading those emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:35 PM
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It's r/truevirgin I think and it was one specific post. If you don't want to believe me, that your problem rather than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:28 PM
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The post in question was about how a man isn't a real man unless he's touching the cervix. Most women don't really seem to genuinely care that much about size in a long term relationship. I can't speak for hookups, I've never done any of that so I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:26 PM
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I've never been asked that in my life and it's not "size doesn't matter". It's "women don't want their cervix being hole punched by a dick". Ask almost any woman and they'll tell you that it's not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:25 PM
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Basic human reproductive anatomy isn't engine oil. They could be celibate monks and id still say that an understanding of both male and female anatomy is important. It's also super concerning to see what I consider to be a genuine mental health crisis happening in a comment section. The idea that they'll eventually get better when they "get some" is at best a bandaid on the metaphorical amputation that is the current men's mental health crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:23 PM
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It's not partly true. Women largely don't want anything near their cervix and most say that girth is more important than length. I can understand being upset about the small dick energy comment. It's unfair to comment on peoples bodies, especially when it's not something they can change. Porn is definitely something I'm starting to blame more and more for the misconceptions I see people have about intimacy. At the end of the day, it's just hard to see people so upset and having no way to help th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:19 PM
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I guess, I guess it's just hard to understand why they make themselves upset on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 PM
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I just felt horrible reading all the comments on the post because those guys seem so genuinely miserable and embarrassed. It's just hard to know that people feel like that without knowing how to help, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:15 PM
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I fully understand being depressed and anxious. No one was telling them to be happy. They were being told that the specific issue of "women only want a guy who can hit their cervix" isn't real. Most women do not want that. They were down voting the comments who were trying to explain that while simultaneously telling each other that "the dickpill is brutal" and "it's over". It was just incredibly concerning to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:13 PM
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I don't think there was any pressure applied... They're free to live their lives in whatever way they'd like, but I'm honestly just baffled as to why they'd insist on being upset about an issue that doesn't actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:11 PM
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Sounds alright then, Im fine with all that. If he's financially stable and a good person I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:00 PM
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I think it depends on where that income comes from. One of the most attractive things to me is work ethic. I could probably handle dating a trust fund kid if they use their time in a way that could be deemed valuable. For me that'd be mainly stuff like volunteering but other people have different ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:50 PM
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Honestly any radical feminist/terf related groups are full of crazy shit. I say that as a feminist myself. They're just a different kind of yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:11 PM
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If I'm wrong my apologies but you're making broad statement about women that don't apply to any woman I know, so I think the assumption that you're pulling info from a small sample size is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:05 PM
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Thank you, I try my best to be nice when I can. I hope the people in your life are kinder to you in the future and I hope you can find kindness around you. I think it was Mr Rodgers that said something to the effect of "no matter how terrible things are, look for helpers. There will always be people who strive to help" I think it's a great mindset, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:55 PM
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I can admit that I was lucky in finding my partner as he was my highschool best friend. While I can only speak for my own circle, all the women I know have very similar relationships. None of us have looked for super well off or super model level guys. I get that some women online live very different lives but as far as I know, people like me are the majority. I understand that "change your personality" is incredibly vague and kinda insulting, but it's essentially just watered down, decent advic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:16 PM
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I'm not sure where the comment came from but I can agree that yeah, the trust fund baby superiority complex is super annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:04 PM
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I don't know how id give you that notion given that you know positively nothing about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:54 AM
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If I'm being honest that just sounds like you have a very small sample pool for what the average woman seeks out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:11 AM
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Like men, we're able to see why conventionally attractive features are a standard, but we also have specific aspects we like in terms of looks and personality. I don't see what's so upsetting about that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:16 PM
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She's so pretty, I wish I knew her routine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:16 PM
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As a woman, I personally don't know how id feel if a guy approached me with an emotional support lady. I give guys the best advice I can when it's applicable but there's only so much women can do to help you with finding a partner. Having a partner is an incredible responsibility that takes a lot of maturity. I just cannot imagine that anyone is ready for that level of commission if they need their hand held by someone else to find that connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:49 PM
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I just got the recipe for beds so I'm excited. I've been grinding to fill up my museum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:11 PM
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Yikes- I'm not super surprised. Homeless people are often homeless due to either unchecked substance abuse issues or unchecked mental health issues. That tracks for both options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:10 PM
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Why did no one tell me that getting new villagers in animal crossing was such a hassle? These little bastards want whole houses and real beds, My little dude doesn't even have a real bed yet! 😔🥲😤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:47 PM
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Sorry but giving the homeless guy money and letting him fuck me are two entirely different things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:43 PM
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Glad to hear it man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 PM
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I'm so happy to live in the legit middle of nowhere because the most expensive tickets I've ever bought were like, $15 each. Usually I pay like $7 each.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 PM
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Hell yeah! I hope it goes well!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:41 PM
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In my head I know they don't have faces but I can't help but mentally give them silly little sock puppet faces. Like this: •<• 🪱 this emoji has a tiny face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:24 AM
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I mean same but that's because I love worms. They're just little dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:12 AM
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Insults aren't feedback. All they do is make people feel bad. Someones worth is not based on their looks. If I notice that a friend is living in a way that's detriment to their health, I'll say something. I don't call my friends out on their weight unless I'm asked for an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:56 PM
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It's just our sense of humor, we're not very high brow...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:52 PM
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I personally think I'd be one of those little green inch worms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:49 PM
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NOOOOO NOT ANT LOVE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:48 PM
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I asked my fiancee the worm question and he said he'd just eat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:46 PM
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I have drinks and candy. That's all I offer unless we have lunch or dinner plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:41 PM
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Do you see how some people talk about them? Yeah, you can say it's their fault they're fat or whatever, but there's zero reason to insult and belittle people for the simple fact they don't meet your personal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:39 PM
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This is the original point of alimony! "Trad women" are left with no savings, job history (or any experiences in some examples), and at least one kid to care for. An alimony is supposed to give her the same lifestyle she had beforehand as she can't live without a husband. That's honestly a main reason divorce rates used to be so low. Women were terrified of being left without anything and any way to fix their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:38 PM
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The best my guests get are my living room candy dish. If I know I'm having a group over, then I'll probably cook. Maybe I'm tyrannical but I don't let people just ... Cook in my house. That seems rude of them. Like, you came to hang out and now you're dirtying my dishes and using my ingredients? Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:34 PM
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Depends on the woman, but I also love seeing the girlies get BUFF. They're so pretty and strong!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:30 PM
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A lot of companies are starting to use consumer guilt to get more money. That tip goes straight to the owner. Not any employees that are actually working. If it's automated, I don't tip. If I'm interacting with a real person, I tip in cash so they get more of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:29 PM
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They said some pretty valid stuff man, you don't have to insult people for having different ideas than you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:27 PM
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I actually got a hanataka tengu mask from an antique shop and it looks lonely on my wall 😓 I'm trying to learn what mask would go well with him but I need to find a place to buy them first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:14 AM
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That's so much soup! What kinds of soup are you making?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:10 AM
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If you really want to argue with me, just DM me so we don't mess up what I thought were good vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:09 AM
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I wish you the best of luck then!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:58 PM
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You don't know her and you can't comment on her experiences based off of a single comment. It's a holiday, let us just enjoy the night without making it into some kind of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:58 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:15 PM
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That's sweet! I hope everyone has fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:12 PM
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Oof, could be worse though I guess. Maybe you'll find a buddy of your own at the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:10 PM
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Nice! I hope they're good ones! We had these ones shaped like tanks when I was younger. They "drove" for a few seconds and had firecrackers on the back. I recommend finding those if you can, kids always like them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:09 PM
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Hell yeah man, don't mess up your sleep schedule! I hope whatever noise that happens tonight doesn't wake you up!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:43 PM
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Y'all I have an important question: Does anyone know where I can buy a cheap, but not plastic, Japanese theater mask? I can't find anything online 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:40 PM
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Happy new Year's Eve guys!!! How's everyone spending their new years? Personally, I'm cleaning my house and making fancy little sandwiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:38 PM
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Yeeeaahh. I hate the idea that being a wife is supposed to be like being a maid in your own house. It's a super pervasive idea in conservative and "traditional" groups. It's just not a healthy way to live at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:36 PM
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From personal experience (I can't speak for everyone) a lot of them aren't. They're usually really mean and lash out a lot at people around them and seem kinda like they're coping with something 24/7. Again, I'm not speaking fr everyone but that's what I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:32 PM
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I think rather than becoming overall less valued, western society has splintered into sects that value different things. personally? I think intelligence is one of the most important things someone can have, especially emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:51 PM
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I personally spend most of my time alone at the gym and am admittedly unobservant. I also use my local YMCA, which has mostly old people and small children at it. I might have a bigger issue if I went somewhere like planet fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:20 AM
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the aforementioned was my and my fiancees experience as well as the experience of pretty much any of our friends. I follow the idea that being ones authentic self is the best way to go about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:17 PM
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I couldn't figure out how to do the fancy personalized tags so I just did the usual description of myself. I like making things easier for people anyways. Why make people guess on where I stand, y'know? (I'm also still largely confused on the red vs blue differences so there's a good chance I don't adhere to everything that's blue, if that makes sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:57 PM
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I've never had any issues in a mixed gym, but I can see why people would want split ones. I approve of it, personally. I think we should have both mixed and split gyms so there's somewhere for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:51 PM
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Don't pretend your hyper negative and biased worldview are facts and I'd have no reason to even interact with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:38 PM
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No it's not. This is a slice of your worldview. Not a reflection of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:33 PM
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Jeez dude this is a deranged opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:04 PM
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By who? I think anyone who would shame another for just being happy isn't someone worth being around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:37 PM
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That's just sad. I think if something isn't hurting anyone, finding joy in it should be celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:07 PM
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I'm not asking anyone to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:06 PM
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It's not faking, I noticed women romanticize being alive whereas men just... Don't? It's a hard concept to put into words. I was just wondering why tht might be. I don't know why everyone seems mad at me for just trying to understand something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:05 PM
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I didn't say smile more. Just was wondering why guys don't seem to have the same "romanticization" of life that women have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:03 PM
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I mean I've dealt with similar issues so I definitely get it. It's just like, a society wide thing. I see women trying to uphold a sense of romanticization for life itself and I was just curious why men don't seem to do anything similar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:02 PM
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I'm just saying I don't see guys getting excited about things and they seem generally more pessimistic. I don't want anyone to do anything, I just wondered why men don't have a very strong sense of things like whimsy and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:01 PM
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Why do I see so many men denying themselves basic joy all the time? It's like a ton of dudes would rather be miserable than show an ounce of whimsy or joy. Do you guys consider outward shows of happiness as effeminate or something? I just am not getting it Edit: I wrote this at work and was thinking about it. I think my actual question is why don't men seem to romanticize life at all? I see women talking about how living is a gift because there's all sorts of little joys to it but I don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:49 PM
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It's a genre of horror that draws inspiration from nostalgia and "vintage" aesthetics. Some of the more well known examples are the Mandela catalog, skinamarink, and the backrooms (it's a YouTube series but I've forgotten the name of the creator. I think his name is Trevor or something). Some popular inspirations for the genre are found footage, public access TV, lost media and older creepypastas like Ted the caver and candle cove.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:29 AM
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It kinda looks like if a baguette was cut in half and hollowed out into slippers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:30 AM
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Do y'all think analog horror is dying out or do you think the good stuff is just more underground?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:19 AM
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Do y'all think analog horror is dying out or do you think the good stuff is just more underground?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:19 AM
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Plenty of housewives have side jobs and have historically had side jobs. Who do you think used to sell stuff like Avon, Tupperware and Mary Kay? Who do you think runs Etsy and does side shifts on weekends? Also, most people cannot afford to stay at home full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:44 PM
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For work? 20 is the max amount of time he spends at work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:42 PM
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I'm so excited for Christmas, I bought my boyfriend slippers that look like bread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:41 PM
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He's as close as it gets in the modern economy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:38 PM
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Which is why I used the term house husband. Not stay at home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:28 PM
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Pretty sure the above post refers to either housework or childcare. It doesn't have to be both to count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:12 PM
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Do I have to have kids to be engaged or married? Also how would he not be somewhat of a house husband? I'm the breadwinner and he handles a lot of th daily house chores. That sounds like a house husband to me. Him having a part time job doesn't negate that dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:05 PM
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I can't speak for others but I love my house husband/fiance. We both work, but I work more so he's usually keeping most of the chores under control
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:27 PM
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I've never seen a long haired cat with coloring like that I wonder what that coat pattern is called? EDIT; The coat pattern is called piebald. (Specifically orange piebald)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:15 PM
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If that's comedy then I thank God that I'm not funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:59 PM
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Yeeeaahh it's really bad. It's kinda funny sometimes though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:24 PM
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I just have a hard time understanding why people are mean to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:10 PM
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I think it's funny because he's huge. When we got him he was like 15 pounds
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:09 PM
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I'm just amazed people can be so mean just because I'm a lady with a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:57 PM
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Yeah he's my little buddy. His name is peanut!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:56 PM
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He's a very polite little guy. His name is peanut!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:55 PM
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I mean yeah that's a super personal subject that could be related to emotional or health issues. My boyfriend definitely deserves to vent about stuff like that, but Id prefer if it wasn't with some random coworker, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:53 PM
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It's werewolf erotica
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:50 PM
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Why do so many guys try to make fun of my cat when I comment something they disagree with? Like, I'll just say something and all of a sudden I've got comments saying "THATS WHY YOU'RE A CAT LADY" or just talking about how I'll die alone? I figured you guys would have some insight. (Cat tax for anyone who can see the image:) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:48 PM
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Being big is a good thing in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:31 PM
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While he's a cartoon, Maui is considered to have theoretically very attractive features and is built to look strong. I'm pretty sure his design is directly inspired by the Rocks grandfather. I personally would take it as a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:05 PM
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I would but evangelical (for lack of a better term) extremism has essentially seeped Into every church in my area. I don't feel comfortable in any of them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:53 PM
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It's a bit of both, I'm trying to figure it out but I also really just want to get into more community service stuff and I know churches are good for that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:50 PM
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Quakerism is pretty close to that, and universalism doesn't really exist in rural Ohio, sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:25 PM
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The specifics are important. I was raised Baptist and hated it. The way they lead services and their more specific beliefs just were not for me. Quakerism sounds perfect, but I cannot find a church that isn't nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:19 PM
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Y'know I kinda hate evangelical Christianity. Like, it's ruining any church it touches. Like, I wanna look into quakerism but the one singular friends church we have is evangelical and everyone seems bonkers. Like, dinosaurs are made up bonkers. It's just so frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:15 PM
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Id just take it as a normal compliment for now. For some reason most women really like eyes and some will compliment people on it whenever they notice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:07 PM
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I keep seeing stuff about guys wanting girls with low iron, anyone know what that's about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:05 PM
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Haiku bot is a good bot, this is slander
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:07 PM
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Thank you haiku bot, very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:51 AM
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It's simply just not a big deal to most people. They mean the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:47 AM
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Why would I, some stranger you've never met, lie to you? Or any of you? I fully believe that ones personality is much more important in a long lasting relationship than anything else. Also, I don't know why you'd neglect your health and appearance just because you were told looks aren't that important. Your appearance (in terms of your cleanliness and such) and health are massively important in terms of dating.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:34 PM
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My advice comes from that fact that I'm a woman who knows other women and I know that none of them talk to people who talk like you guys do.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:41 PM
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If your entire life is based on getting a girlfriend, how are you going to be prepared to make it last? How will you be prepared for anything after that? Looks fade and they do so fast. If you're only finding people who are interested in looks, your looking in the wrong places for any long lasting love.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:37 PM
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Ways to better yourselves as people, to better your emotional and physical health, ways to become the best that you can be. You don't need a mirror to reach those goals as the best people aren't usually the most beautiful people.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:28 PM
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You don't know me nor my struggles. Take my opinions and advice whatever way you'd like, but to assume that I don't know struggle or hardship is laughable.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:25 PM
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I think the greatest failing of groups like this is thinking that looks are the most important part.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 05:24 PM
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I'm mainly just making a general statement that the focus on looks on this sub isn't healthy. It's not helping you guys either, at least from what I've seen on other parts of the Internet.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:29 PM
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I didn't say anything other than it's probably not a good idea to use terminology that most people have a negative association with and that treating your basic physical attributes as something to change rather than to accept and work with is probably not good for you. I don't why you assumed that I'm here just to mock you or something when I gave the advice I'd give anyone, male or female. I didn't call you a basement dweller and I know I don't know anything about you besides this post. Most wo…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:27 PM
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I genuinely think you guys would have better chances if you stopped talking like this and treating your personal appearances like some kind of game customization.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:13 PM
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Just because of the current stress of my job, I'd go with work life. Everyone is happier if the work life is better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:38 AM
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Where did I say they weren't? People are valuable. Their experiences and lives mean something. It does matter who you are or what your gender is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:55 PM
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It's been such a good day, I got to go to a museum for the first time in years! I got to see some goobers <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:34 PM
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Fuck yeah, don't let anyone tell you different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:32 PM
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Yeeeaahhh... If I remember correctly, there were a lot of men involved in Metoo. I remember a lot of guys coming out with their stories too. I personally always thought it was a positive thing for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:00 PM
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I actually watched the entirety of the Heard v. Depp trial when it came out. I really think both of them are less than great people, but Heard is definitely the worse of the two. I personally haven't seen anyone get in trouble for false allegations IRL. I really don't think I've seen much online either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:58 PM
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The way they talk to and about women is disgusting, the way they trivialize mental health is harmful to struggling men and they sell shitty advice "classes" at an ungodly price to desperate men. They don't actually help anyone, they're leeches who built their wealth on the backs of their fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:56 PM
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If that's what they're coming in, good for them. The examples kinda just remind me of men's fashion in the 60s/70s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:54 PM
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Half of them look like Pitbull but from Wish. I also don't care about how they look, they're awful people which negates any positive aspects of their looks in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:26 PM
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The yoga pants/leggings are just comfortable. No one is trying to be sexy in them. I personally love them because some of them feel like compression socks but for my legs. (leggings should go with a long shirt though imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:23 PM
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Wasn't metoo just about destigmatizing reporting sexual assault? I was kinda young when it started so I'm not 100% sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:21 PM
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I don't think I've sat inside a McDonald's in about two years, so I can't really speak on free refills. Again, I just kinda drink one throughout the day if I go to McDonald's rather than trying to fit it into a single meal. I think it helps that I drink exclusively diet. It's not as sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:18 PM
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I don't think I've ever met a woman who likes guys like them. Most think their personalities/the way they talk to others is repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:14 PM
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Most people I know only order medium drinks and even then it takes a few hours to actually drink all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:13 PM
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I spend tons of time on here just talking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:57 PM
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I just wish I did more, but that's not very productive. Meh I'll just continue to share the things that make me happy in hopes it makes it easier for others to forget how difficult life is sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:44 PM
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Good for you then, I hope you spread the positivity you must have to others. Sharing those little bits of joy is what makes life worth it in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:42 PM
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There's a ton of good ones, I'm a big fan of the historical ones, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:41 PM
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It's just unfortunate that so many people seem so angry and sad. I try my best to be nice to offset it but I'm just some goober on Reddit, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:40 PM
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That's understandable. I try to follow the super important stuff but focus on news coming from my hobbies so it's not too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:39 PM
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Y'all ever think we focus way too much on negativity and it's consuming the little happiness we have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:36 PM
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I think there's a good amount of actually really good anime. Asia in general just puts out a lot of high quality entertainment, like K-drama and C-drama. I personally think that thriller/horror tends to be a hit more often than a miss though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:32 PM
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Why would it? It's just entertainment. It's no different than watching a movie imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:13 PM
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It'd be at the center of a wide, low table and the cat is obese and elderly so I don't think he'll be knocking things around too much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:09 PM
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I would but he's already just so fat. Dude is like, 15 pounds EDIT: I thought you said "put peanuts in him". I probably should've done a double take but we're on Reddit and that's honestly a normal thing to say on here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:59 PM
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I'm considering it but the little dish I use now was a gift and is vintage Chinese porcelain so I like having it out to look at-
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:54 PM
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Y'all I need advice. I'm adopting this cat. His name is peanut. He eats plastic. I need some non-plastic covered candy ideas for my candy dish, all I've got in mind now is salt water Taffy because it comes wrapped in wax paper
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:51 PM
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I use it for testing for hydrocarbons in rock
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:55 PM
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This one is for concrete etching
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:33 PM
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Technically it's concrete etcher but I use it for geology stuff (still figuring that part out)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:31 PM
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I love receiving romantic gifts from my boyfriend, he brought me home hydrochloric acid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:28 PM
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I put a dollar tree berry energy shot into my diet 7up and I think I'm feeling joy again for the first time in years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:51 PM
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I mean, some subs aren't the nicest, but most of them are full of Wonderful people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:56 PM
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Exactly, so many smart people just wanting to help each other. It's the best
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:59 PM
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Nah man, I have so many good experiences on here. It outweighs whatever bad comes with it. Like, I get all my dumb questions answered and people are usually really nice and give good explanations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:57 PM
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I love reddit so much, so many people here are so nice and helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:50 PM
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I don't know her or what she wants? Maybe she wants people to look, maybe she's just comfortable like that. Not my place to assume or judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:55 AM
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I don't know what kind of women you know, but the ones I know hate strange men staring at them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:25 AM
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More like "stop staring at strangers it's creepy and rude".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:44 AM
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Whatever happened to teaching our kids to not stare at people because it's rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:58 AM
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Obviously, but it's almost never as simple as people make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:01 PM
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I think we ignore the psychology behind abuse like that and I find it a bit unfair, especially since that psychology is not gendered. Both men and women are abused in domestic settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:25 PM
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A lot of trades are male dominated and women don't get taken seriously in them. I'm speaking from experience as someone who's worked manual labor jobs my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:20 PM
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I think everyone thinks he was a weirdo, but everyone is split between "he was a pedo" and "he was an incredibly mentally ill man who didn't technically do anything wrong, but I could see how you'd think that"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:17 PM
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They've evolved like most babies do. Big eyes, big heads, ECT. It's just so predators think twice before eating them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:30 AM
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I think this is the video I watched that went over it the best: https://youtu.be/XLkKqExUq58?si=GQOn5rBwzAJfCp51
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:16 AM
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I didn't like him from the start, but after the Chad Chad situation I utterly loathe the dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:07 AM
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I see. So it's basically just pharmaceutical company adjacent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:09 PM
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Why is anything educational so expensive???? Like, a simple Mohs hardness scale test kit just cost me 20 dollars. And don't get me started on good studies. Why are almost all of them behind a paywall? I can read smut all day for free but I can't learn about tectonic plates without a $15 monthly subscription to some Publisher? That's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:39 AM
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You can be a feminist and a housewife. Or a career woman. You can be absolutely anything you want and deserve nothing but good things. Feminism is supposed to be about giving everyone equal opportunities and a right to have choices in life. Make the choices that make you happy. Be bold and outlandish. Don't box yourself in to fit into a movement that's long moved on from the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:09 AM
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If you remember what it was called, let me know! I love used/surplus lab equipment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:51 AM
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Anyone know any good lab equipment surplus sites? I want a good microscope that won't bankrupt me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:13 AM
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We literally have elected actors/billionaires with zero political background to handle our entire society. Our country doesn't exactly seem like it's been well managed in awhile, despite all our leaders being men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:52 AM
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I wanna buy a microscope and continue with my geology/paleontology hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:59 AM
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I do my best, every state deserves to have it's natural beauty advertised. America is lucky to have one of the most geographically diverse countries on the planet. We've got a little bit of everything here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:18 AM
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I mean, we are like, one of the cheapest states in the country, but the political climate is not worth the price tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:08 AM
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It's okay, we suck for the most part, but it really is beautiful and really interesting from a natural history viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:04 AM
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It was a blast! They have so many amazing natural wonders there, if you're ever in Ohio I recommend it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:46 AM
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They sell absolutely beautiful crystals in the gift shop, both raw and tumbled. If you're looking to make a day of being in Ohio, I also highly recommend our fossil beach in Tipp City. It's a small beach full of incredibly detailed and compact marine fossils, although it's mainly just shells and corals. It's a bit tricky to get to though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:16 AM
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No problem! Here's the website, it Has tour Info and prices https://ohiocaverns.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:11 AM
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You can walk through them, but some of the passageways are kind narrow, especially at the feet. The ceilings get pretty low, but not low enough for me to duck (I'm 5'1).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:10 AM
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West Liberty is about 2 hours from Pennsylvania, but I think it's worth the trip. We have people come in from Cali just to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:08 AM
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Ohio caverns in West Liberty, Ohio. It's nestled next to the Mingo valley and is absolutely beautiful above and below ground
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:05 AM
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Today has been such a great day, I got to go on two different cave tours (I went about 113ft underground!!) And I saw a ton of natural calcite stalactites, stalagmites and columns. I also got to go to their gift shop and buy crystals and an orthoceras fossil <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:02 AM
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Prickly pear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:09 PM
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I actually live in Ohio. The German thing is from the fact that I live in Amish country and wanted to learn whatever German I could
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:25 PM
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I can eat peanut butter on its own just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:31 AM
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My thing is celery. I love it. I put peanut butter on it. It always makes my mouth numb. I believe in suffering for my passions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:51 AM
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The ones I get have like, microscopic spines that I'm usually good at avoiding but I dropped one and now I have a bunch stuck in my hand. I also just swallow the seeds ┐⁠(⁠‘⁠～⁠`⁠;⁠)⁠┌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:45 AM
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I think I just habitually pick the WORST favorite things. Like, I'm pretty sure I'm mildly allergic to my favorite vegetable and my favorite fruit is just actually a cactus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:27 AM
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Man, you don't have to say stuff like this to guys in relationships. Let them have a wholesome relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:04 AM
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7, they're pretty, but the make-up they're wearing is dated and kinda caked on. It's also like, weirdly orange. They also look tired and a little miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:57 AM
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Sometimes I burst into tears when I laugh so at this point I've given up on being embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:19 AM
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Hell yeah! Do things at your own pace and work back up to where you were, your body will thank you, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:18 AM
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He looks like the kind of guy who'd let his dog bark/growl at trick or treaters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:16 AM
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I'll be honest, feminism is full of infighting. I don't agree with half the stuff that's attributed to us. I consider myself a feminist solely due to international women's fight for rights and gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:10 PM
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There's not a war though? I'm a feminist, at least, I consider myself one. I'm really on here to understand the problems that you guys deal with so that I can try to offer whatever help I can. The idea that we want to fight isn't going to solve anything, I personally just want to make communication between men and women overall easier. I'm open to any questions about pretty much anything, so if you'd like to talk about anything, you can. Edit: I'd also like to apologize for any late responses, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:06 PM
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I'm pretty sure this scenario doesn't actually happen IRL. Like, I've only ever heard the most chronically online people say that kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:56 PM
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I mean, at a certain point, you can't blame single moms completely for that. A lot of them try their hardest to make things work despite being dealt a shitty hand. Of course, I'll always judge the ones that repeatedly make the same mistakes over and over again because at a certain point, I see that as neglectful to their kid(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:49 PM
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Can you give me an example of a male space? This isn't like, a gotcha moment I just usually can't tell when groups are for a certain demographic like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:44 PM
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If I'm being real with you, online dating is just a shitty way to date. Almost everyone you'll meet on there is either lying about something easily proven false irl, or are just straight up picky. If you can, I'd look into any groups or clubs you might be able to meet people in irl. I've found that in person interaction leads to much better results in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:39 PM
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Honestly a lot of the general negativity I see online comes from men, even when it's towards themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:02 AM
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I didn't say anything about unreasonable? All I said was that desperation usually means being willing to take drastic, often negative actions to achieve a goal or some sort. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:32 AM
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Nah, most people do. Although, I recommend a long shirt. Lots of leggings can look fine, but be a little see through when you're wearing them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:28 AM
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The Midwest is pretty nice. Cheap living, nice enough people, the politics get insane though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:26 AM
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Wanting something to the point of being willing to hurt yourself or others to get it is desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:25 AM
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Sounds like the dream tbh. Although, children are still up in the air for me, so for the time being I'd replace them with livestock. I wanna live on a farm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:44 AM
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I really do think that misandry gets the feminism label slapped on to it way more often than it should. I think the best course of action would to be to open up communication more between feminists and people such as yourself (I don't want to assume an ideology or anything in regards to you and like-minded people). If we stop insulting each other and try to talk to each other, I think we'd fix a lot more problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:42 AM
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All that matters to me is personality, goals and interests. Looks don't usually matter too much to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:56 PM
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Neither sound particularly attractive or unattractive. I think they're equal, personally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:15 PM
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Depends on the work, I think the main thing is just the long hours and the relatively low wages. Like, the buying power of the us dollar has plummeted so much in such little time, it's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:52 AM
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Y'all I wanna dress up for Ren faire but I am drawing a blank on any ideas that'd actually look good. All I've come up with is a Victorian inspired paleontologist (was gonna go for paleomancer but I couldn't figure out how I'd make that work)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:56 AM
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Honestly that'd be closer to my preferred height. I hate it when I'm like, absurdly small in comparison to a partner. It just makes uncomfortable for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:53 AM
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I don't think single mothers are the sole cause of the economy collapsing my guy -
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:12 AM
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If that's winning I want to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:08 AM
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All worms deserve love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:07 AM
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I don't think that'd work very well in practice. I think you'd just end up ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:24 PM
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I think there's a lot of factors in abusive relationships that people don't think about when judging people who go back to their abuser. There's often a lot of manipulation involved, such as an abuser telling their partner that they'll die alone without them, never financially support themselves (this often is coupled with financial abuse), that what theyre doing is out of love, ECT. Abusers often isolate their partners from support, like friends and family. This is so their partner feels they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:23 PM
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Anyone can be a worm if they try hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:17 PM
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Men cause more accidents than women and are more likely to to be fined for reckless driving. https://www.victimslawyer.com/blog/do-men-or-women-cause-more-accidents/#:~:text=Men%20caused%20264%2C078%20accidents%20during,2019%20while%20women%20caused%2015%2C527.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:16 PM
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A lot of the stuff he says is misinformation though... I can't get behind lying to people for an ideology or whatever reason Matt Walsh does what he does
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:07 PM
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I just like talking to people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:55 AM
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How does it matter in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:22 AM
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Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:20 AM
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Nah, I think it's a great way to remove an awful person from your life. If someone treated me badly for being upset over anything, I'd contemplate leaving them hardcore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:13 PM
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That's just the issue with the Internet. It enforces insane standards. That's why I don't have tiktok at all. It just lowers my self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:10 PM
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Have you tried asking to drive a hotwheels over her tiddies? That usually works
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:08 PM
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I see a man rip ass so hard it leaves an indent in the couch and I shake with awe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:15 PM
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I mean, foreplay is an incredibly important part of sex regardless of how someone masturbates. Also, you could just implement toys in sex too. I've heard that helps a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:14 PM
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I always like the idea of stuff like science projects. You find a question you enjoy and then you deep dive into it. You decorate something without much of a deadline and it's based on something you like. I wish I had gotten to do that instead of a book report
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:12 PM
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I have to put my hair in a clip when I'm driving or I run the risk of crashing the car because the hair getting in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:09 PM
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Fuck yeah, gay commie obama
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:06 PM
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I wish I could do makeup like some of those girls, it's a talent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:05 PM
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Sorry it didn't work out, but it's refreshing to see someone so chill and supportive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:27 PM
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I mean, if it's working for him, I don't see an issue. Sex doesn't actually change ones anatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:25 PM
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I don't lose my wallet, but I have lost my glasses twice this week
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:24 PM
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A lot of school districts don't offer it anymore. Mine didn't really do anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:23 PM
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The one I work for specifically produces paper for electrical insulation. We work really hard to keep any of waste we produce to ourselves and recycle basically everything so there's not really any smell outside of the building
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:28 AM
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Usually it doesn't smell like anything, but it can smell like mildew or even fabric softener sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:23 AM
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It's not too hard. Some heavy lifting, some touchy machinery. Lots of paper cuts. The worst bits are the finger smashing rollers and spinning blades
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:42 AM
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Paper mill worker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:13 AM
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Urology is just a really important part of bottom surgery, so it'd make sense that the best urologists work there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:05 PM
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My biggest issue is the infantilzation of autistic people. Like, I hate that people treat autism like some disease that makes you some creep or worse, an "uwu soft bby"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:58 PM
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Unironically everything is correct but the "needs to be buzzed or high to want sex" thing, at least for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:20 PM
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Yeah that just sounds like empathy to me. Most genuinely empathetic people strive to make things peaceful and overall just calm. People with a lot of empathy often make good mediators
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:16 PM
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Nah, you just gotta find your niche. Tons of women love that stuff. The issue is weeb/otaku culture is often kinda creepy (?) To most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:49 PM
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Being agreeable is not the same as being submissive or a doormat. Being agreeable is being considerate of other people's feelings, and seeking to find a compromise and resolve conflicts, instead of picking fights for the sake of drama or being needlessly harsh. I think a better word for that would just be empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:46 PM
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I look for friends nowadays, but I've always had a good time meeting people in like, actually clubs. Like book clubs and stuff. It's getting harder to find stuff like that though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:44 PM
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Honestly I think feminism is kinda becoming a lost cause, at least the name. I believe in intersectional feminism but the community it awful. I think I'm just going to stop using labels 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:54 PM
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Every time I notice people putting men down, I think it's almost always men being the majority, especially on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:19 AM
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I think a good man is kind, charitable, hardworking, and funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:24 PM
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Dude I'm sorry that's been your life, I think your mom might just be unhinged because I've never met anyone who who's that awful
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:14 PM
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Think about it this way. Most adult women do not want to be your source of self worth or your emotional regulation. Obviously, a good partner will support you during hard times and uplift you, but they're not a therapist. You have to be able to have a personal sense of self worth. Not to mention that self love isn't narcissistic. Narcissists can't love themselves, that's why they seek attention and love from others. They base their happiness off of outside factors entirely. I agree that you shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:18 PM
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Man don't put that on all of us, it takes some peak stupidity with a dash of victim complex to say some shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:02 AM
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Best Take I've seen today tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:01 AM
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Any of y'all have any 3d print file things like this?: https://m.yeggi.com/q/massospondylus/ I'm trying to get more scientifically accurate fossil prints
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:19 AM
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I'll be honest, your views on what's necessary to uphold a good sense of self esteem are concerning if that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:08 PM
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...this is a joke right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:58 PM
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What's wrong with self love? Caring for yourself and appreciation of your own abilities and personal struggles is an important part of improving your mental health and leading a happier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:44 PM
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Just so we're on the same page, what age/phase of life do you consider to be "youthful" in this way? I'm just trying to gauge where the average person believes where that line is drawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:56 AM
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If I'm being honest I haven't noticed much of that since graduating highschool. There's definitely women who sexualize the features of east Asian men though. Won't argue against that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:07 PM
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Honestly I think the whole "women hit a wall" thing is baffling. Why are "childlike" features so sexualized?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:42 PM
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Is being friends with a woman some kind of punishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:39 PM
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Score: 117 (Stacey) I would've gotten normal but being a girl was a 6 point boost, even though I'm not conventionally attractive and mentally ill
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:16 PM
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Women usually already have a set type. they don't want to go for every man who might be interested in them. I'll be honest, I've deleted every romantic/sexual dm I've ever gotten from a stranger and have never positively reacted to guys checking me out. I'm not a rarity in that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:55 AM
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I see. I hope I'll get a chance to visit one day. Have you ever been to India? I'd love to visit any part of it, although I'm concerned about not being able to communicate there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:23 AM
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More options doesn't always mean more selection, if that makes sense? Like, I could probably flirt with a bunch of guys and get somewhere, but I really have no inclination to do so. I consider my approach to dating as "laissez-faire". Whatever happens, happens. Of course, I haven't thought about dating since I met my current boyfriend, so maybe the dating game has suddenly changed in the last year and a half and I'd have to up my game all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:20 AM
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I'm glad to hear it's good. I was interested in seeing it, but now I know I am. It's not often I get to see my views in a movie, so that's neat too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:01 AM
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Insecurity isn't an abnormal thing for anyone, but I think the standards you have set for yourself are a bit... Unhealthy? I also think that the way you look at dating might be less than optimal. You seem to assume every woman you see is playing 4D chess when if I'm being 100% honest it's just not like that. Most of us are normal people leading normal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:56 AM
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I wish I could travel, what's Asia like? I've wanted to travel towards that side of the world for years
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:50 AM
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I think you're being unfair to yourself. Even if they've been with other guys, it doesn't mean they're comparing you and it's most definitely doesn't mean that their comparisons would be negative. Have you been with these women more than once?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:43 AM
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Have they said those things to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:37 AM
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Ive heard Ireland and Germany are lovely and have a decently mild climate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:37 AM
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Forming lasting relationships takes a lot of time. I personally try to find ways to relate different subjects to the original business subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:36 AM
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I was expecting a good old fashioned bridezilla post, but that's just awful. Usually I'd say that a wedding could be stressful and sometimes the newlyweds act out of character, but that was just actual preplanned ableism with a heavy dose of narcissism. I hope that lady feels Bad for the rest of her life over this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:59 AM
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Im gonna be real with you man, you can't expect to get anywhere if you call girl cum "nectar"- it's just gonna make most women uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:46 AM
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I see. Sometimes this community is a little confusing because a lot of the time I notice that behaviors are placed on to women as though we're a monolith. It's weirdly othering sometimes because I just don't relate to about 90% of the things I'm told I'm supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:08 AM
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I feel as though the same work that the wife would do is being kinda downplayed while the husband is being put on a pedestal. If he doesn't have kids, he might be able to go beyond what a sahm does. I don't know, I just think it's unfair to treat the work mom's do as lesser. My apologies if I misinterpreted anything you said. I'm trying to respond to a bunch of comments at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:56 AM
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Maybe. I tried my best to not interact with people who I knew acted like that, so I don't really have any first hand experience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:52 AM
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That makes sense, although I'm really starting to think that despite the original comment saying it applies to everyone, it might not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:51 AM
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I guess. How would being a sahd make a man look like his wife's chore slave? Sorry, I have to stick with the original argument or I'll forget about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:50 AM
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Weird. I've never personally felt like that. It makes sense, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:45 AM
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Yikes. It sounds like you dodged a bullet. I've never seen people act like that outside of the "popular" kids in highschool. Of course, I expect to be able to vent with friends, but they obviously deserve that same energy from me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:41 AM
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I mean no offense by this, but have you had a female friend?... If you have, my condolences because the person you were friends with must've been awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:32 AM
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If that's how you feel, but that's the only way I've ever wielded results in dating, personally. I'm actually set to marry my highschool best friend in the next year or two, after he finishes school
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:28 AM
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What's wrong with make-up? It takes a lot of talent to use that stuff. I just bought a bunch recently and realized I have no idea how to use it, so I wish I were like the girls who know. Also, you could use make-up too if you want? My personal favorite at the moment is the Jurassic Park 30th anniversary set.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:25 AM
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Why not be her friend first? That's honestly the best way to find a partner in my opinion. Also, wouldn't she also give you attention? If it's one sided, then yeah, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:21 AM
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I mean, there's a reason there's a common beauty standard. Most women have a type, and would likely share a "crush" that embodies their type. Like Pedro Pascal and... The Rock? Are women still attracted to the Rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:17 AM
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I guess cooking can be something you put a lot into, but chores are chores. You can't exactly half ass most of them. The only one that comes to mind is sweeping and mopping tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:14 AM
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I got average looks and a fucked up childhood, although I think it ended up being a personality boost since I've ended up with good humor and a strong moral compass to equal out the big nose and chubby face
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:12 AM
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I'll be honest, being a stay at home parent is hard, but it isn't rocket science. I'm not sure how he could do anything super proficiently that his wife couldn't or wouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:10 AM
1

What's preselection? I've never heard that term.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:08 AM
2

Unfortunately no, my apologies. However, I'm always open to give advice or listen if you need someone to talk to. My main goal on this site is to help others and be a decent example of what I want to see in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:55 AM
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While I 100% agree that you should be allowed to be yourself no matter what, I think it's important to try and keep yourself somewhat within social norms. I got bullied in highschool whenever I tried to be comfortable as myself. Personally, I kinda treat interacting with others as a science experiment. I test what does and doesn't work depending on the person I'm talking to. I feel bad saying this, but i kinda list people in my head like researchers list test subject behavior. It's helped me a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:43 AM
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It really depends on the person. I'm pretty sure I, myself am autistic in some capacity so that doesn't really matter. I also don't care about money all that much since I make pretty decent money myself. It really depends on the interests, humor and overall personality of the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:31 AM
1

Even within the LGBT community, queer women get kinda ignored. Just look at lesbian representation.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:37 AM
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I'm pretty sure sexual attraction isn't a choice... If they like someone they like someone. That's just how it goes
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:34 AM
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It happens a lot on here. I try to add to the debate but I usually just get downvoted for disagreeing
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:55 PM
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I mean, I'm not sure what that has to do with me thinking both the comments in the image are kinda for lack of a better word, cringe. I can imagine there's plenty of people who disagree with me on the matter
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 03:03 AM
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I personally believe both of these people are stupid.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:55 AM
1

The term manlet sounds pretty degrading to anyone who doesn't know what it means
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:20 PM
1

If you need someone to talk to, my DMs are always open. I don't know if I can fit all your criteria, but I'm empathetic and try my best to listen to and understand others.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:18 AM
1

Women are also usually shorter than men. I am 5'1. I've just asked, and my boyfriend is apparently 5'10. He's the average height for my area. Maybe I'm an outlier or something, but I've never considered height in any of my relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:15 AM
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I mean not really. They're all average height. I know my experience is my own, but I personally have never really seen that kind of thing outside of highschool.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:38 AM
1

I don't think I actually know my boyfriends height, now that I think of it. He's definitely taller than me, but so is everyone else.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:52 AM
1

I don't think being short makes anyone less of a man?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:51 AM
1

I can agree that it's a common want, but I rarely see it being something that makes a guy a hard pass irl.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 11:54 PM
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I think it's just one group tbh. Most women I know don't care about height. I've seen the ones who do. It's just shallow people who seem to actually care
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 10:16 PM
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Are you trying to say that other races were desirable, but aren't anymore? My apologies again, I'm currently at work so my mind is a bit all over the place
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 09:04 PM
2

Im sorry, but I'm not sure I'm understanding your comment. Could you please clarify?
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 09:02 PM
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I don't think that's true at all. I think eurocentric beauty standards are imposed on people who simply don't fit them, which is unfair. Height shouldn't be the issue it is either, but I know that anything I say on that matter probably won't be received well.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 07:43 PM
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I don't think that would help. I think that would simply just isolate a lot of people from online friends and hobby/interest groups they can't have where they live. For example, if reddit or Instagram were suddenly banned, I would have to give up some of my hobbies because they simply don't exist where I live. I wouldn't be able to ask questions or learn about the hobby like I can currently. I think what we should do is urge people to admit it when they photo shop their pictures or have cosmetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:07 AM
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They're still people with real lives and experiences. Again, no one has to agree with what I personally enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:52 PM
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I mean, if they're not worth it to you, that's fine. I personally just enjoy meeting new people and consuming media I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:31 PM
1

They still exist to an extent, but they're either super expensive or for people much older than me. Like, I haven't seen a book club for anyone under 45 and I can't afford to join any sports because the price is just insane, at least in my area
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:09 PM
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I honestly have stopped seeing group events that existed when I was younger. It's like everything has been replaced by an app or game. I used to do some larp thing at my local park in elementary school and as far as I'm aware, my group has disbanded. I wish there was a way to revitalize that sort of thing, but people in my age group just don't come to those events.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:06 PM
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I mean, it's allowed for me to meet a lot of wonderful people and interact with a lot of views and cultures I would otherwise never learn about living in rural America. I think the biggest issue is just people being shallow and hateful and using their platform to spread that message.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:51 AM
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Honestly yeah. I'm intensely grateful I couldn't access the internet in it's entirety until I was about 14. I genuinely think it helped me retain a lot of social skills and a sense of personal worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:02 AM
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I imagine there's plenty of them around.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 10:32 AM
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I fully believe that the invention and use of the internet and social media has made us more materialistic and isolated from each other. My mom used to tell me about the clubs and stuff she'd join before I was born and those things don't exist like they do. It's so hard to meet people irl and the materialism and Beauty standards of the photoshopped models online have just made us all believe we're ugly when we all look fine. We're just normal people. I've come to the realization that socializing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:25 AM
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Maybe in your area, but where I live and grew up, most of us were simultaneously taught that approaching a man first was "whorish" and also we'd get attacked if we did. It was a weird message tbh
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 01:13 PM
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I actively make sure the effort in my relationship is equal.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 01:10 PM
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I don't think that's true at all. I can't speak for everyone, but most women are taught specifically to not approach men. It's usually taught as manners or for safety reasons
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 12:01 PM
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...I'm a girl.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:50 AM
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How is being social "indoctrination"??
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:48 AM
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I don't think that's true ... Just because women don't swarm a guy doesn't mean that guy is lesser or ugly. I also don't think interacting with a woman is "feeding their ego".
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:45 AM
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Would if I could. I don't have any issues with approaching other people.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:41 AM
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if you have to constantly approach as sub 7 What does that even mean
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:21 AM
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Do you just like, angrily glare at women rather than talk to them?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 05:59 AM
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...what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:33 PM
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I mean, most of them are. I think it's unfair to judge people wholly on appearances anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:44 PM
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I personally am the breadwinner of my relationship, pay half the bills and my partner is currently going to school. That's a normal occurrence where I live. I think as long as someone has a good work ethic and is willing to help out to whatever extent they can, that's good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:44 PM
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Firstly, my apologies for my late responses, I'm currently at work, but I know it's bad debate etiquette. Secondly, I feel as though the term "incel" as used by a majority of people is a very specific set of negative traits that hinge on blaming either women or society for their lack of success in dating, which turns into somewhat aggressive comments on both women and society. Of course, "nice guy" would also fit, but I felt like I should use the terminology op did for clarity. I think rather th…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:58 AM
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In the context, incel refers to misogynists. I know that technically, incels are simply people who cannot find a partner. I think it depends on the context how this term is used given how varied the use is across social media. Also, Andrew Tate and fresh and fit are horrible role models and are well known for being demeaning towards women and glamorizing the mistreatment of women as well as materialism, although materialism is a bit of a grey area to be honest. I personally think they cause more…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:12 AM
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Honestly I think the best way for someone dealing with the struggle of inceldom is to remove oneself from that community. Radicalization often comes from people around the aforementioned individual giving them more rage bait and affirming their often toxic, misinformed and hopeless worldview. My main example of this are fans of creators like Andrew Tate and the fresh and fit (I think that's their name?) podcast bros. Content creators like that often spread negative generalizations on women, LGBT…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 04:13 AM
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It's advice. I give it freely and if it works for someone, it works. Most of it is just empathetic suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:57 PM
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Do you know anything about my ideals and experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:47 PM
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I figure it's good for most arguments to have another point of view rather than just being a bunch of people agreeing with each other. That and i like trying to offer up advice based on personal experience sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:09 PM
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I hate how some of you guys see relationships as almost purely transactional instead of like, a chance to have a loving bond. It's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:07 AM
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No one should be forced into a war they don't believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:51 AM
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The last man drafted for war in the US entered service on June 30th, 1973. I can't speak for other countries, but i know that i personally have much more urgent issues than trying to repeal a system that hasn't been utilized in 50 years. If it ever becomes a possibility again, you'll hear complaints about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:01 AM
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I'm starting from gen z because that's my generation and I'm not a child. The law was not put into place to allow women unrestricted access to a bank until '74. That falls into GenX territory. Also, even if it were 5 generations ago, it doesn't matter because there are still women alive who remember those restrictions. That's an era too close for comfort in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:56 AM
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Did you ignore the first half of my comment? I've already stated that i don't agree with a draft for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:53 AM
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Boomers span from 1946-1964. That is an entire decade before the official Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed. That's also only three generations, unless your family has kids young or you're gen Alpha. Also, while i couldn't find any gendered voting statistics going as far back as 1920, this implies that women didn't begin to outvote men until 1980. 60 years is a long time. As for Ukraine, as i have previously stated, i don't believe in a draft for either genders. There's also 60,000 women on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:09 PM
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I think we're just here, no one is inherently better than anyone else. I'm not inferior to anyone due to my looks or financial situation. I think having an outlook that forces you to think you're inferior is ultimately detrimental to ones mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:49 PM
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I think your outlook on life and the people around you is sad. I hope one day you can see that life isn't inherently awful and that women aren't some race of succubi looking for money and dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:32 PM
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They were given much more opportunity and much more freedom. Women have also historically done the dirty work in a household. I haven't even said that men don't offer important skills or advancements to society. All I've said is that it's unfair to say women are lesser when women have had less of an opportunity to prove themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:24 PM
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The average woman was not a queen, or a nobleman's wife. She was a farmers daughter, a working woman, a housewife. It took a higher socioeconomic status than most women usually had to become a scholar or artist. Thankfully, things have slowly gotten better for the average working woman since 1900. Women weren't weak for not being able to make a stand, they were focused on self preservation, which i personally find to be a testament to the strength of historical women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:12 PM
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Do you have any reliable sources for any of the statistics you're seemingly pulling out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:41 PM
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My mom was born only 6 years after the Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed. It wasn't 4 generations ago. Also, how is a government draft women's fault? We didn't want war either. It's also not our fault we weren't considered fit for a draft by that same government. Women offered whatever they could to the war effort, from being nurses and seeing combat despite not being able to participate, to buying war bonds and planting victory gardens. There's also multiple women fighting in Ukraine. Any fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:41 PM
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So educated women who have better access to a way out from an unhealthy relationship are an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:25 PM
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Even without looking up statistics we can infer men have been more intellectual, artistic, entrepreneurial throughout history and continue to be up to this day just from a gut feeling. While men have helped advance humanity in many fields, it's unfair to say men have just been more. Women have historically lacked ways to express themselves artistically or help further our knowledge in science. The notable women of the past who had the opportunity to be known for their work were often mocked thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:24 PM
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Just because you have some kind of trust issues and greatly underestimate your partners intelligence doesn't mean my relationship is lesser for doing the opposite. I don't need to spend every waking moment hanging off my partners arm. I can handle myself just as well as he handles himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:23 AM
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Yes, I'd rather not subject myself to pregnancy more than once given what usually happens to the women of my family when pregnant. I might be open to adoption though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:56 PM
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We've been best friends for the last 6 years and together for two. If you need to keep your partners money so they can leave, that's not a partner, it's a prisoner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:54 PM
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I think sharing the burden of a simple life is an very personal and intimate thing, not to mention the physical aspects of a relationship. I don't need a partner to live, i don't need sex or anything like that. However, life would be so much more boring without my partner. He's my ultimate confidant and best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:43 PM
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Especially, we just try to keep our efforts equal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:27 PM
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A child isn't out of the question though? We'd both like one when it's more feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:05 PM
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How so? Just because we share responsibilities doesn't mean we can't have a loving romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:09 AM
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Nah, I'm a bit too young and while we're financially stable, we definitely don't make enough to support a child. Maybe one day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:07 AM
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Those are possible, but unlikely. I'm not going to waste my time on what ifs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:56 AM
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Making up unrealistic hypotheticals to try and make me either emasculate my boyfriend or make me look stupid is kinda pathetic dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:53 AM
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I've had that happen to me before actually. Usually you just ignore them and walk to your car or walk back into the gas station and tell the clerk what's going on. Gas stations usually have a lot of people, especially in cities where that kind of crime is more common. You don't really need to fight in those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:39 AM
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Why would I go out somewhere dangerous at night? I know it might not seem like it but most people have enough common sense not to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:33 AM
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Im talking about how my father treats his partners. Also, you don't know anything about my father or how i was raised, so kindly keep those opinions to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:44 PM
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I don't think any of that applies to me. I work in a factory and my partner works retail part-time while going to school. We're both average in looks, i think, and we've been best friends since 9th grade so I've seen all his awkward phases. He's also technically disabled by having type 1 diabetes. I personally do not believe that hypergamy is the rule to dating but rather it's the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:34 PM
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No? Is it like polygamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:26 PM
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I don't feel the need for a protector and sex doesn't have to be about domination. I have zero "feminine need" in that sense. I have more feminine interests while he has more masculine ones, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:22 PM
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I'm a fully grown adult. I think i can confidently say that your idea of masculinity is absurdly unhealthy for yourself and those around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:18 PM
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We both pay our own bills, split home bills, take turns on groceries, work separate jobs, attend to each other emotionally and do everything in our power to help each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:16 PM
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I'm sorry, but if you think that masculinity is based on how much you can hurt something or someone, you have no business calling yourself a man. Learn some chivalry, learn some peace. Do not base your worth as a man on how much needless violence you can inflict on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:13 PM
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Being equal in a relationship isn't emasculating because masculinity is not about control to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:52 PM
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As someone in a relationship with a "modern" man, the main difference i see in him compared to people like my dad, is that he greatly values my opinion and allows me to have complete independence. I have my own bank account, a job, a car, hobbies and my own friends and he has the same. We're completely equal whereas "traditional" men seem to treat their partners like something they own and can fit into a box to meet their aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:10 PM
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I do? I'm in a long term relationship. My fiancee does whatever he wants when he wants and spends what he wants, although we both talk to each other before big purchases. We both invest time, effort and money into each other. I don't see how any other way would even work because if someone treated me like you've described, I'd move back in with my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:34 AM
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Allowing your partner to have autonomy and treat them as their own independent person, especially as they are, in fact, their own person. It's immoral to own a person in any way shape or form and considered abusive by most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:22 AM
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That is an utterly unhinged perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:13 AM
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I live in rural Ohio and I don't ask how much money people have, it's rude. However, they lived a very middle class lifestyle. School can start at 4, but many jobs require overtime and again, childcare is expensive and from personal experience, I'd rather leave a kid with a pack of feral cats rather than leave them with some of the daycare services in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:12 AM
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What's wrong with controlling your wife? Bro?? What??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:09 AM
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It might be a regional thing, but any man I've ever met in real life who wants a "trad wife" usually just wants a wife that will take care of him like a second mom. Traditional patriarchal marriages place a lot of stress on the man and take a lot of hard work. You can't really raise kids and work part time, at least in the first 5-10 years of a child's life, if you dont have access to reliable childcare. At least in the US, daycare is expensive and not all of them are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:10 AM
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Have you considered that trps characterization of women is incorrect? Or that people who crave a "trad wife" just fantasize about having a wife they basically control in almost all aspects? They don't want the responsibilities of being a trad husband and it's also basically impossible to fund a household with a singular income. They just want a wife who babies them and lacks any real opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:08 AM
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I've never met anyone who acts in that way either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:45 AM
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I haven't seen anyone act that way either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:13 PM
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I feel bad honestly. I think everyone deserves a fair shot at happiness, but there's nothing i can do for people who refuse to stop blaming others for their issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:54 PM
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That seems to be a common issue, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:48 PM
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I don't think i know any real people who say any of the things you've jotted down for women. Have you ever heard someone say that stuff irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:19 PM
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I'll be honest i don't even know how I could go about bringing that up in a comment. Genuinely it is too much for me to unpack
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:47 AM
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Have you considered that women do not want to be hurt/constantly disrespected? Like, nothing about your looks in particular sounds bad, but your behavior is abhorrent and you know it. Please find better outlets for the negative feelings you have described.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:24 AM
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Yeah, I'm not taking obvious bait lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:44 AM
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This is the worst bait I've seen in months
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:12 AM
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So why continue to contribute to the problem?
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 10:09 PM
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Because what 16 year old deserves to be murdered? I'd have said the same if a guy had been murdered as well. Senseless violence like this is atrocious regardless of gender, sexuality, race and ethnicity. I also would rather not refer to Indian people as "curry", i feel as though it aids in dehumanizing these people.
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 02:02 PM
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That poor girl... She deserved so much better than this.
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 01:25 PM
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I've lived in both. I guess I've just never had a chance to meet those people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:21 AM
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May I ask where you interact with these people? I almost feel like you'd have to seek them out to find an actual example of someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:05 AM
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I don't think I've ever met one of those people in person. I've met hateful, awful people, but never like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:13 AM
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Well, I'm unfamiliar with it then. I have a hard time keeping up with all the terminology in these communities. What does it mean, if you don't mind explaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:22 AM
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So having standards is bad? And why is it an issue to be attractive? If you find a woman attractive that's not her fault. They'll use all betas AND alphas. No fucks given. They'll invent a reason so that he has a "weakness" in their mind. Kinda confused about what this means?? Also, just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean they've "hit the wall".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:19 AM
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Well, i imagine there could be some emotional manipulation that could happen, but it's also very case by case. People aren't a monolith.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 08:52 PM
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I'm from rural Ohio so again, cant dispute anything about cities since I've never really been in one. Although I feel as though the "blue haired feminist" stereotype has been dying off steadily since 2018. I'll agree there are extremists though.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 03:06 AM
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I personally have never met anyone who's said anything like that, so i can't dispute there are people who think that. I've heard the "it means you don't trust me" argument, but never anything about the patriarchy. I personally would get a prenup so that i know everyone gets to keep their own possessions and money. Of course, my partner and i both work and have separate bank accounts so it's not a big deal at the moment.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 02:49 AM
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...what
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 02:39 AM
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I mean, this is just common in a lot of divorce proceedings, although it's a little ridiculous for a girlfriend to think she's entitled to anything. This is why I'm a big believer in prenups. In the off chance something goes wrong, there's not as much confusion on who gets what
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 05:03 AM
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I mean, I'm 19 and i think they're weird depending on what stage of life the individuals in the relationship are in. Like, if one person is technically legal but has no experience being an adult with responsibilities and they're dating someone who's got a lot more experience and security in life, im going to be concerned about possible abuse that could happen in that relationship. Power dynamics are super important in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 01:40 PM
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Am i currently showing any hatred. Also, i don't think Nazis and genocide compare to annoying misandrists complaining about everything on whatever social media they use. I've personally had to interact with people who consider themselves Nazis and i feel as though they're not comparable
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 06:02 PM
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Oh well, suit yourself. Have a lovely day
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 05:57 PM
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Again, feminists aren't "man hating". Misandrists are. I consider feminism distinctly different from misandry due to the simple fact that feminism wants the best for both men and women. I'm deeply sorry if anyone gave you the impression that we don't want men to be happy. I'd like to continue this discussion, but i don't want to fill up OPs notifications with it. If you'd like to dm me to continue talking, feel free to!
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 05:52 PM
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I've spent a lot of time looking into the history of feminism. I understand that some aspects of it are flawed, but i don't see any issues from intersectional feminism. As long as I believe that everyone should be treated equally and with respect, why should the label i choose for myself matter?
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 05:45 PM
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I consider myself a feminist. Feminists don't hate men or want them to be women. I'm not quite sure where the idea that we want to make men feminine came from?
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 05:19 PM
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I wouldn't call that feminism, personally. I view feminism as a movement to ensure all people have equal opportunities and a path to achieving what they want in life, wether that's a housewife, CEO, or something in-between. I think anything that condemns someone solely for their sex is Misandry/misogyny.
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 05:10 PM
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Personally, i think the people who say things like that are either just trying to make people mad, or so unbelievably chronically online that they cannot comprehend a normal activity. Candice Owens probably isn't going to get very great comments (not defending the misogyny) because she has a very recent past of being pretty discriminatory and gross to people. I wouldn't look to controversial figures to see what is an isn't taboo.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 11:02 AM
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I don't think I've ever heard anyone say anything rude to or about people who work out or provide for people domestically. I used to really enjoy weightlifting and baking for my boyfriend and friends and no one ever said anything. I think you might just be focusing on how those things could be shamed rather than how often it actually happens
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 10:52 AM
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It's not gaslighting to not call someone ugly to their face. There's a million polite ways to comment on appearance. The bullies who make fun of others for their appearance are always people who care way too much about looks, which i feel just proves my point. In my personal opinion, i think everyone looks great in their own way, even if its not my tastes. Things that are unchangeable without surgery, like height, face shape, genitals, ECT, should not be commented on. Things like hygiene and som…
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 01:46 AM
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Telling someone they're ugly is useless. What would it help? Also, how is not being conventionally attractive a problem? It's not an issue to exist outside of beauty standards. People worrying about it so much are what make it seem like such a big deal.
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 01:25 AM
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I guess, but you never know who that response will reach. That person or someone who looks similar could hear it. It's also just rude to say mean things about ones appearance behind their back.
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 04:12 PM
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I think telling someone their a -2/10 or something is unconstructive and cruel. It doesn't help anyone. It doesn't offer advice. It just puts someone down
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 03:40 PM
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That's just my personal experience. These kinds of ratings games are just trying to make fun of people and it was usually fat girls. I don't like any part of this video. No one should be told they're ugly. It does nothing but make people feel awful.
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 03:06 PM
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People have asked me to rate others and it's usually pictures of girls who weren't conventionally attractive. I always hated when it happened because they were looking for mean answers. Of course this was in high school and it did happen with both genders, but this video feels like it's just trying to get a negative reaction. If i were the girl in this video i probably would've refused to answer
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 02:29 PM
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I think most women see this as an attempt to make fun of women so they try not to say anything bad about them in these scenarios. I don't agree with saying anyone is a negative or anything though. The first guy looked happy, I'm glad for him. And the other ones looked like they were trying really hard to stay in shape, and that's not easy. I also think the women were beautiful. They obviously put work into their appearance by making sure they're dressed nicely an have nice hair and makeup. I thi…
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 02:08 PM
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Can someone please explain what this means?... I'm mildly autistic but this makes no sense
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 11:47 AM
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I have no idea, i just want new episodes of hoarders. I don't know who owns the rights anymore, but i want new content. At least that show was mostly unproblematic.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 09:02 PM
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My female friends look down on it too, we just don't see it as much (most outrage-media is on Facebook, it seems) I call it out when I see it
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 08:49 PM
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I, a woman, am here right now, upset that they're probably using a young man's financial insecurity or something similar to seduce him into a relationship. I'm not going to go look for people upset to prove a point.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 08:40 PM
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I've never actually heard of that show before and i imagine most people haven't, given that TLC stopped being enjoyable after they took away hoarders and my strange addiction. Leonardo DiCaprio is a household name, so i guess you see more outrage because everyone knows of him .
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 08:24 PM
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I mean, most women i know think it's just as predatory. I honestly think it's more predatory with older women because most young boys aren't taught the warning signs for things like grooming like girls.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 08:14 PM
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I think it's a little unfair to write off any female and any of your hypothetical daughters just because they happen to be women... Not all women are the same.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 02:14 PM
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I'd love to see it if you could find the study. I think in some cases, divorce becomes more likely with a higher amount of partners because we're better able to see how the marriage might not be great. My great grandmother didn't know that her first husband keeping all of their money hidden away and not letting her have much of a social life was bad because she didn't know anything else. Of course, there are a bunch of reasons that'd make sense, including some people just being picky and shallow…
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:35 AM
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A past sexual history isn't the same as a history of cheating.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:16 AM
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This is the study i found: https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness#:~:text=Survey%20respondents%20who%20tied%20the,just%20a%20few%20does%20so. It claims that yes, virgins who marry each other are the happiest marriages, however men born in 1980 (my parents generation) have double the sexual partners of women (6 compared to a woman's average 3) and that women actually become happier in marriage after so many encounters whereas mens happiness seems to decrease gradu…
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:15 AM
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I like seeing the ones the people I'm talking to have seen so we both have the same level of information on the subject available, but i can go see if I can find anything reputable
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:00 AM
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Do you have any sources?
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:58 AM
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Cheating is a much different issue than sexual history. Cheating is an awful breach of trust that only ever hurts people.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:51 AM
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A high body count doesn't impact a person's personality. If you can say you like someone and they show themselves to be a good person, does it matter who they've slept with? Not wanting someone who is in and out of relationships is understandable, but that's an issue of personality, not their sex drive. Unless of course, the issue was them cheating. Cheating is an entirely different subject.
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 12:47 AM
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A sexual history isn't usually an indication of cheating. A history of cheating is. Sexual history doesn't immediately mean a woman is unable to commit or is immoral. It's understandable to not want to get into a relationship with someone who's in and out of relationships constantly, but i don't think sex is the issue. I think the issue stems more from their personality. Also, I'm not really sure what you're trying to say with the second part of your comment.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:44 AM
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That doesn't really seem comparable.
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 12:34 AM
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I don't see that as a sexual issue and seems to be more of a personality/ commitment issue. I had a discussion with another person on here that you could look at if you'd like to see my views on the subject and we could debate from there. It's a bit tiring to repeat myself, y'know?
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 12:26 AM
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I consider those things pretty different from being a bit careless with sex... As someone who was raised by addicts, i can't see the two as comparable.
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 12:22 AM
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Do you have any sources for that?
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:18 AM
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Personally, I think people change all the time in that aspect. It's understandable not to want to date someone constantly in and out of relationships. I agree with you but what you're saying doesn't actually involve sex. My point was that a sexual body count doesn't actually matter. Everything you've mentioned so far seems to be related to personality rather than sexual encounters.
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 11:58 PM
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Sorry, got this comment confused for a different one. If you like someone, why not give them the benefit of the doubt? That's why I always advise people to be friends before dating. You learn a lot about someone before starting a relationship
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 11:49 PM
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Well, that's not really a matter of sexual body count and more of an issue with incompatibly/ personality. If you have no issues in the relationship before knowing the body count, what's the difference between low and high?
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 11:43 PM
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I see how that could be an issue
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 11:41 PM
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How would it cost anything or affect a marriage? Lying about it might be an issue because that's just a thing of trust but i don't see how it'd be a big deal
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 11:39 PM
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I mean, unless there's something going on medically, does it really matter? Things happen in life to some people, and I'll agree, i don't personally like the "hoe phase" stuff, but at the end of the day, it doesn't change the person in front of you.
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 11:06 PM
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I mean, unless there's something going on medically, does it really matter? Things happen in life to some people, and I'll agree, i don't personally like the "hoe phase" stuff, but at the end of the day, it doesn't change the person in front of you.
/r/AllPillDebate02/01/23 11:05 PM
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I think it's just gender norms. Most straight men are told to not worry about looking nice/dressing up.
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 03:58 PM
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As someone born to a young mother, I wish she had grown up more before having children. There's no joy in it if your children are miserable and neglected due to your own childish vices. Also, we're very complex creatures, a lot of people genuinely just don't care to have sex in any way, and many women are repulsed by pregnancy entirely. Some people also can't get help. If I were to get pregnant right now, I'd have no family to fall back on and I don't want anything to do with government help. Th…
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 07:47 AM
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I think a mix of both therapy and finding people to talk to about the issues you may have is the most effective way to live a happier life. Hell, just a diagnosis can help a lot of people feel better and help them to find things that help them lead a more "normal" life. I think it's important to remember that the people who think lowly of you for these issues aren't actually a majority. I personally just ignore them and move on with my day because they're just not worth the time. Sorry if that s…
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 02:54 PM
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I personally believe that with our current levels of technology, and the issues we've seen with overpopulation (not to exclude the absolutely trash economy), it'd be best to have a low number of children and also, women aren't really ready to have children until they're done maturing physically and mentally around 24-25~. Although I'd like to hear your side of things about sexuality and being content with a large family. It's not something I hear about often.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 02:47 PM
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She's very pretty. I wonder if she's nice. She looks kinda serious and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:47 PM
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