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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:57 PM

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:56 PM
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Marry someone you're physically attracted to yall, or everyone suffers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:56 PM
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Yes. OF is much more personal and allows you to directly communicate with the creators and even get personalized content. OF is basically Facebook buy for porn. I could never be in a monogamous relationship with a man who subscribes to OF
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:34 PM
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Depends what galaxy they are from
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:53 PM
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I choose not to date, or at least choose not to commit to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:21 PM
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Some women find it easier to communicate with men, especially if they're autsitc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:20 AM
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Yep, after my 1st ex I was like nah I'm done with commitment. And I would make this known to any man i was getting involved, told them I just wanted to be FWBs with them, yet they still wanted commitment from me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:08 PM
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Many of them are inconsistent with what they want. They're poly one day, monogamous the next day, swinger the day after and so on and so on. A lot of them go back and forth and I don't want to be led on just to get let down. I've been in situations where I was planning to meet someone, just for them to turn around and get into a monogamous relationship. A lot of them also have political beliefs that are too "far left" for my liking. I'm not extremely conservative, but I'm also not extremely libe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:06 PM
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Be warned that it might change. I told my last ex from the beginning that I didn't want to live together and he was okay with it and then randomly started bringing up getting our own place together and saying "I hope I can wake up next to you everyday" He also said he was okay with me having male friends irl and online until about a year in because his jealous ass thought I was going to cheat on him with a younger man (we had a 17 year age difference) Even when I was with men my age, I still ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:23 AM
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I don't think I can find someone who meets all my requirements, those being We never get legally married We don't live together (or we at LEAST need our own bedrooms and kitchens and good luck affording a house with 2 separate living units in this economy) We aren't 100% sexually exclusive. This doesn't necessarily mean having multiple romantic partners, it could also just mean having the occasional threesome for me, but I don't think I could be 100% monogamous with the same person for the rest …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:56 AM
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For me, it is. But even before that relationship I had these tendencies towards unconventional relationships that I felt like I had to suppress So it's a combination of trauma and my own natural behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:22 AM
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It's just too much work for me. I don't like the idea of a traditional relationship where we are exclusive, live together and share all the same space I would rather be alone than subject someone to my BPD-like symptoms and my fearful-avoidant attachment. It'd be hard finding someone who I share an intellectual connection with who will also respect my space and not have a bunch of expectations from both him and his family placed on me My idea of a relationship is too out there, most typical peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:29 PM
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Heaven on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:06 AM

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:02 AM
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SAME!!! You'll catch me dead before you'll catch me being married or living full-time with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:46 PM
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No, I technically never got divorced, since i was never legally married, but we were "common law" which is basically being unofficially married. Im glad I ended that relationship, he was way too possessive and controlling and wanted me to be his 2nd mother. My relationship with him also made me never want to live with a bf/husband ever again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:45 PM
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Women who regularly go to bars and clubs aren't frequenting this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:42 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:57 PM
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I wouldn't want to live with a man even if i was in a relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:05 PM
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Finding out they cheated. Do not dwell on the past
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:27 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:57 PM
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And then they wonder why women opt out of relationships altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:36 PM
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Exactly, romance and sex are a natural desire for basically all of humanity, and someone isnt a bad person for wanting to experience such an inate part of what makes us human. I'm almost 25 and i have friends who are concerned they'll never find anyone and idek what to say to them because it's hard out there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:01 AM
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Ikr?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:58 PM
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Same here. I refuse to even live with a boyfriend, id rather die than ever get married too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:57 PM
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I was in that type of relationship and yes I was terrified of that, and I eventually left. That relationship makes me reluctant to fully commit to someone ever again Ive been in a few relationships since that one (but never lived together like i did with the other guy) and i became very self-sabotaging. The relationship would usually start as a FWBs situation and the guy would want to take it to the next level and id refuse until they'd threaten to abandon me so id eventually cave in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:53 PM
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No problem. I can understand why people say to stop prioritizing romantic relationships, but it's difficult if you don't have many close friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:46 PM
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Thank you for saying this. As a woman, I've been told by people to just be celibate and focus on female friendships. And while i do value my friends, it just isn't comparable to a sexual relationship. Also, friends are nice, but ultimately they will prioritize their own family and spouse over you, and not everyone wants to be 2nd or 3rd place, and with a romantic relationship you'd most likely be their top priority. Im open to the idea of unconventional relationships, but not everyone is, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:32 PM
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Im not bothered by it, as long as they still love and respect me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:50 PM
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Why date at all? Dating is basically the same as a job interview. I don't want to date for the sake of dating, I prefer starting off as friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:06 PM
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Because college is a scam more often than not, and also fuck being around college educated people, they have a superiority complex and often look down on us uneducated peasants. I know not all of them are like that, but i find people who are "educated" and especially if they come from a family of educated individuals, this tends to be the case. Edit: im braindead and read your post wrong. I'm a woman and idgaf about a man's level of education, and this is why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:45 PM
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Over 70% of second marriages fail, just a heads up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:41 PM
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Yes, there's really no point in getting married these days. Its just another financial and emotional burden. Also, why do I need the government involved in my love life??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:18 PM
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Idk i just dated a couple older guys because they lived nearby and fucked me good for a while ion care about whatever else you said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:15 PM
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