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| 21 | Ok guys. It happened. I finally got the full reconciliation request and it’s messed my head up more than I thought.Bro, her backup plan didn’t pan out and she probably hooked up with whoever. She will never respect you if you do and all you will be doing is extending this down the road. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 01:01 AM |
| 8 | Unsolicited rant from exIt’s the stream of angry texts they inevitably send when they realize they are about to really be alone forever. Been there myself and I used to hit her with the K until I just bit her on DnD and left her to have a conversation with herself in the text block. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Filed taxes separately and claimed the kids, STBX is fumingWell if you have been separated even unofficially and have totally separate finances you can file under the special provision of single as well and it really lowered my rate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Dual military divorce in MarylandIf you use your own daycare when you have them register for childcare aware, Google that and you get a pro-rated rate that the government pays for. Sounds like me and my ex in the end pure hatred as she moved on. Wasent the best husband either with all my deployments and long hours as well. You can also go to your CoC and say she is defaming you on multiple platforms and if she is playing dirty get your command involved. If you both have higher level clearances shit online can fuck you over so i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Dual military divorce in MarylandYea man definitely coached. You have more benefits and if you are both in the default is always to max you out but you both have benefits that cancel out the stuff civilians take into account when going through a divorce like medical care etc | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/26 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Dual military divorce in MarylandAre you on post and when you PCS will you be going to a traditional installation with a CDC or off post care. If a non-traditional installation, either or will have subsidized child care which negates a lot of what she wants. Sounds like she talked to a lawyer already and if you are close to a post typical installation lawyers outside of gates swing for the fences. You have a lot more options. Also talk to your command and see if you can’t get stabilized in the interim. Officer or Enlisted as we… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/26 11:09 PM |
| 11 | I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once.It’s always freeing, maddening and sad when after that period of detachment and reflection where you aren’t bombarded by your wife you can sit back and see the signs clear as day. For me it wasn’t coffee it was realizing that there where only 3 moments in 10 years that I actually felt like she loved me while looking at the other “act” she did and seeing them for what they were. Things she did for her acknowledgment and attention and not for love or anything of the sort. Maddening and Sad for sur… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/25 07:14 PM |
| 9 | First Sex Since DivorceMy ex was a thundercunt so when I had sex for the first time with another woman after a decade I loved it. Popped a viagra and had two old fashioned’s I wouldn’t be too quick off the trigger and went to pound town. Tinder with late 20something year olds who like older dudes is a goldmine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/25 04:41 PM |
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