WastedRadiance Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
163	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship?	Question For Men	WastedRadiance	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 05:38 PM
3	What do women get out of posting their crabby husbands online?	Question For Women	WastedRadiance	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Using a “facade” is definitely a legitimate strategy for attracting women if who you really are is undesirable. Anyone can lie and fake their way into someone’s pants if they have weak enough morals. But if you want a long term partner, you’ll never get that by being disingenuous	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 05:42 AM
7	Do you agree with these ways to increase relationship satisfaction? People really underestimate the power of #3. It’s so important to have your own hobbies, friendships and goals, even your own space. Little things like your own nightstand or bathroom drawer. Maintaining an independent existence is healthy for all of us and it’s easy to lose that in relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 09:02 AM
-2	If you're an average or below average man, don't waste your time with dating apps. I don’t really recommend dating apps in general. But if you consider yourself to be of average or below average looking, here’s my advice: Learn how to take good pictures: Angles, lighting, and posing go a long way. Hinge: I think Hinge js the best because it gives you the chance to start conversations based on prompts. Try to be original, interested, and genuine. Be quick: quick to respond. Quick to make plans. Don’t leave someone on read for days or wait weeks to meet in person. At the end of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 10:51 AM
2	Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployed No grown adult with bills to pay should prioritize romantic relationships if they are unemployed. There’s nothing desirable about a partner who can’t maintain basic responsibilities, male or female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 05:23 AM
1	Q4W: would you like being apporached in a bar when you are with your girl friends for a night out? If so, how? I don’t mind being approached at the bar if men aren’t rude, crass or pushy. If I’m not interested I’ll avoid eye contact, turn or walk away, or not make much effort to engage in conversation; if you take the hint and back off, then everything’s peachy. But if you catch me checking you out and let me make a little flirty eye contact first, you can be pretty confident that I want you to approach	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 06:24 PM
25	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? And in this next stage, tank tops and instagram posts are banned?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 05:54 PM
22	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? Using social media or wearing trendy clothes has nothing to do with the “single” lifestyle. I never said anything about not spending time together I asked why our time together suddenly has a dress code	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 05:52 PM
29	Why do women expect men to use protect them? Because men are constantly reminding us that we need them to take care of us. That they’re stronger, braver. Not to mention anytime a woman is a victim in a crime the first question she’s asked is “did you scream for help? why were there alone?” So here’s this woman, clearly feeling unsafe, and she simply asked you to be NEAR her- she didn’t ask you to take a bullet or anything- she just knew she would be safer if she was not alone; she assumed you give a damn about other people. Her mistake I g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 01:06 PM
1	Question for the ladies If they are in an open relationship it’s not morally wrong. If I knew for sure that his wife was completely okay with it I might do it just once. But i’m not really the type who can have sex with someone repeatedly that I’m not attached to. If they are not in an open relationship though no I could never willingly be the other woman to a cheating man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 05:42 AM
7	As far as dress sense and outfits go, what is your favourite type of clothes on your man or on men in general? Honestly anything that fits well, is clean and ironed, and shows some personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:20 PM
–	There is nothing wrong with not being selected by women no but they can choose to be kind, educated, productive members of society with decent hygiene and enough self confidence to put themselves out there. they may be rejected more often than other men, but those factors are not going to certainly condemn them to a life without at least some success in dating/sex/love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 05:41 PM
–	There is nothing wrong with not being selected by women What’s unnatural about the thought processes, expectations and preferences of women evolving as a result of their environment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 04:08 PM
–	There is nothing wrong with not being selected by women I don’t think the majority of men who “don’t get picked” are just victims of natural selection though. There’s a significant portion of them that are undesirable to women because of their own choices, behaviors and character traits. And in those scenarios, yeah it is shameful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 03:59 PM
1	Women are poor communicators If you can receive this response without being defensive it will serve you very well: if your interactions with women usually or always result in them being upset with you, it is your attitude/ delivery that is the issue, not women in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 10:05 AM
-4	Women are poor communicators I’m not usually one to completely disregard the context of an original post while replying to comments but I hope you enjoy yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 10:02 AM
1	Women are poor communicators Men who can’t pick up on social cues or know how to ask for clarification before assuming how someone feels ARE antisocial creepy losers	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 09:42 AM
6	Why do cheaters beg to keep the relationship? They’re mentally ill	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 02:26 AM
14	Married couples should share all social security contributions If we set aside the fact that the entire social security system is fucked and that men generally never see a stay at home mothers contributions as equal to their own, it is definitely part of why prenups should be standard. That’s exactly the sort of thing that two people should consider before marriage that is really hard to work out in divorce court	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:56 AM
7	Debate : Without legal intervention or social shaming, older men would usually choose very, very young women; older women would be largely ignored. this is only true for men who objectify women. which i wouldn’t say is “most” of them. if a woman’s main role in your life is sexual fulfillment and household maintenance that makes total sense. but men like that will never know the joy and comfort of a true, loving partnership.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 05:02 AM