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| 0 | Who here is generally happy with their life? | Discussion | WatIsThis52 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 11:38 PM |
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| 6 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.They need to be held accountable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:58 PM |
| 29 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.I wonder if his parents can be charged with anything. Maybe not, since he’s technically a “person of interest” at this point. But they sheltered him and helped him get away … ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:06 PM |
| 103 | I…am speechlessI love how he adds he didn’t want to “make her self-conscious and upset.” Whatever, dude. Don’t try to say you did this for HER. You only refused to see her in the bath bc you think periods are gross. Grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:28 AM |
| 120 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyI was narc supply to one of my exes. I had inklings before, but now I’m sure of it. It hurt to read this but I’m glad I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 45 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileOh my fucking god ... Danny is 31, dating a 21-year-old (who is gorgeous) and gave her literal dog shit on her birthday (link here but I don't suggest you watch it). This cretin is the epitome of low-value-male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 13 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileJust reported them on YouTube. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 19 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileAnyone know if these asshats have sponsors? Are part of a podcast network? How anyone would associate with these two douches is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 9 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!I had an NVM ex who valued his cats over me. If I was sitting on the couch and got up, and a cat had taken my seat, he’d tell me to sit somewhere else bc that was the cat’s seat now. Or if I got up and the cat started eating/licking my food, he’d see it but wouldn’t do anything and then tell me it was my fault for “not being more vigilant” with my food. Fuck that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:08 AM |
| 2 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!Omg … there but for the grace of god go I, if I had stayed with some NVMs I dated. She needs to dump him yesterday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 8 | Being in a good relationship has made me realize how women are being gaslit on a mass scale to ask for lessONE HUNDRED PERCENT. I’m also currently in a healthy relationship after being in a few hella toxic ones. I’ve been worried about being “clingy” and reaching out to my BF too much. I told him this, and he looked confused and said “I don’t think you’re too clingy!” He’s never ONCE expressed any negative feelings about our contact level or how often we see each other. It’s been an adjustment for me and I find that kind of sad … we’ve been together over a year, and I still get nervous sometimes when… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:37 PM |
| 28 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsOh my god … are we the same person? I thank my lucky stars every day that I started having sex later than most of my friends (ONLY because the guys I was interested in while I was celibate were losers, so I’m glad I never encountered a chance to be impregnated by them) and that I stayed on contraception with the guy I first had sex with even though he pressured me to go off it. That guy was arrested a few years ago for assaulting a woman. I’m currently dating an awesome guy and I’m SO THANKFUL t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 07:13 PM |
| 70 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?This might seem obvious, but excessive compliments — AKA love bombing. Compliments are good. I’m not talking about “you look nice,” “I enjoyed our date,” “I enjoyed talking to you,” etc. I’m talking about a guy immediately saying that you’re PERFECT for him, he can’t believe he met you, you’re “so different” from other women he’s dated, etc. There’s no way, after one or two dates, that a guy would be SO CERTAIN you’re the woman of his dreams and would want to tell you so. I dated a guy who did t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:15 PM |
| 41 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierThank you. Men on this sub see women as these cunning, calculating fembots who, in this case, peruse dating apps for the next man they're going to exploit for sex and money. Not as people with lives - thoughts, feelings, preferences, friends, family, careers, hobbies, goals, etc. Believe it or not, we're capable of prioritizing any or all of these things above romance and sex. It's almost as if ... they're ... projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 09:56 PM |
| 17 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierThe more I read here, the more apparent it is to me that men are grossly misunderstood re. what makes women happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 09:52 PM |
| 0 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.So you lack empathy. Cool cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 0 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.Or she underwent major hormonal, bodily and lifestyle changes and can’t easily make time to work out anymore … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.Some people are into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?Jeeze … So does every single case of “settling” result in the person who “settled” feeling contempt for the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?Stupid tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 05:37 PM |
| 24 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSMDoesn’t he also, like, stalk Anastasia and not let her go do things on her own? NOT ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: what does the 9/10 and 10/10 face of the opposite gender look like? What are the defining characteristics?The “rating systems” are shit because they’re entirely subjective. Also I wouldn’t put it past RP assholes to rate women down in order to make themselves feel better. My ex called Megan Fox a 6. Riiiiight … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying MotherhoodRight. Obviously it’s a struggle, but it’s a struggle you choose and the payoff is worth it. It’s not for everyone but it is something I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 5 | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Based on his posting history it sounds like red pill stuff is his “thing.” He posts/comments about literally nothing else. Dude, pick up a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Roosh and other bros said women lie so you gotta multiply the n-count! Duh! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Declines in drinking, increased computer gaming and growing percentage who live with parents all contribute significantly to the decline in casual sex, for menThanks for posting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:40 PM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?You went from being skeptical of whether this actually happens to being like “hey women lie about everything so therefore it’s justified!” Ok. If one or two women lied to you before, that doesn’t mean you get to do the same to other, completely unrelated women, dude. If you want to believe in your head that all women are the same bc it helps justify your shittiness, makes you the blameless victim etc. then fine- but it’s incredibly naive and won’t get you happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:55 AM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?aren’t you so intuitive that you can tell when a man wants this? There is an entire industry based on teaching men how to fuck women no matter what it takes to get there & no matter what he intends to do after he fucks her. A lot of men are good liars. It’s disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:49 AM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Listen up, men. Take notes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:46 AM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Came to see if there are men replying to women’s comments like “ACKCHUALLY” and damn are there plenty! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?💯 💯 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadRecognizing something for what it is ≠ over-analyzing. Always taking something at face value = naïveté. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAlso you should be aware of what a back-handed compliment is in case someone ever tries to pull that shit with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 12:12 AM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI mean it’s OK if you have trouble decoding tone/body language/social cues but you should at least make an attempt to understand IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIt depends on what words are used, tone, etc. Based on OP’s description it sounds like these men were being condescending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIt is if the “compliment” is condescending, & it sounds like these were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareOk that was mean. I take that back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareGetcho strawman out of here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 11 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareHAHA that would make a lot more sense! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareOh gotcha. Idk I’ve been trying to find a life partner since I was 20 and it seems the overwhelming number of guys I talked to just wanted sex ¯\(ツ)/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareI’m a woman, not sure if you’ve gathered that. & it sounds like you and I have had vastly different dating experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?Idk man if I had to choose between dying alone but having fucked like 100 guys, or dying with a family … I’m picking the latter. One is expedient. One is meaningful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?It’s a principle that applies to many things. Eating junk food, sitting on the couch and being a fat ass is expedient, but I don’t pursue it. Exercising and being healthy is harder but meaningful. Hooking up is expedient. Marriage, and building a life together, is meaningful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?lol ok. I want a man who values respect and commitment, and who will provide for his family. I don’t want a boy insecure about his manliness who wants to LARP James Bond. The pick-mes can have him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareAre you just looking to fuck? Or are you looking for a long-term relationship? If you want a harem or something and don’t care about being a provider, a husband, a father etc. then sure, I guess it’s only “Chads” who get to LARP James Bond. If you want an actual relationship then your most important qualities are respect and commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?I’m talking about a situation where you want a relationship. Not a fuck buddy. You can wait for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?Why is waiting such an insane concept? And, a couple years ago I dated a guy who started cheating on me. It’s easier to discover than you think. He thought he was “smart.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:45 PM |
| 3 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?If your dick is so in control of your life that you can’t go a couple months without fucking then I don’t want to be with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?Proof = “trust me bro” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?They want respect. It’s not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?It’s simple: it shows the guy respects the woman, and that he’s not just with her for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareThey could be “aware” thanks to the internet. Doesn’t mean they’ll buy into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareI’m not looking for the kind of man who sees me as disposable and easily replaceable with some random woman, though. And most women aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill aware“Will it?” I’ve noticed men trying to “neg” me & other PUA techniques. It doesn’t make y’all look smooth or desirable. It makes you look like an insecure asshole just trying to get his dick wet. If this is what you have to resort to to get close to a woman, then what does that say about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareIf only 10 percent of guys are the ones who are being dated (which I don’t agree with), that’s a reflection on the guys, not the woman. A man has to be respectful (don’t play any of that red pill mind game shit - “negging” or w/e), treat their SO with kindness, help with the house/finances/child-rearing, and take care of personal hygiene. That’s a good start. You’d be amazed at how many men complain that these standards - showering every day or not expecting the woman to do all the housework or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill aware“True nature of women” lol ok. As if most men are virtuous and victims of evil women. Right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 37 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill aware“Bidet building”? Like, having an actual bidet, or is that a euphemism for something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseLove these based rabbis 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Who here is generally happy with their life?What does being a “666 male” mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The future of dating is casual and direct pay/sugarGod I hope not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Who here is generally happy with their life?Happy for you! 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismOP didn't make any kind of specifications re. what part of the population he was referring to. Evangelicals are influential enough that they and their influence on parts of society is worth mentioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?You are more resilient than you think. And yes, these situations were upsetting, but they were also learning experiences. My best advice is this: Just try to be upfront with someone and let the other person know that you're hoping for something long-term. If they say something like "I don't like labels; I don't know what I want; let's just hang out and 'see what happens';" etc. etc. then you don't want to be with that person. Best of luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?>Low key makes me mad then when some men waste a woman's time with infidelity and false hopes. It made ME mad when I lived it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?... What if one of the women his age just hadn't met him before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:58 AM |
| 8 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind."Tons of options" -- If I want a guy who'll just have sex with me but won't commit in a meaningful way, sure. "A good man is hard to find" is a famous Flannery O'Conor quote for a reason. If I want a man who will prioritize commitment and respect, I have much fewer options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind.True, but I wonder how many of those friendships are genuine. If they lost everything Schitts Creek Rose-family style, who would stick by them? I'm an anxious person so if I were that wealthy, I'd have that concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:49 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismTHANK YOU. I’m assuming these guys haven’t lived in rural America, middle America, etc. etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismWell, the way OP phrased the post title I assumed he was talking about “society” in general & not just the people on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:02 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismLol wat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 04:58 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismThe last time I attended the shit megachurch that taught these beliefs was 8 years ago. The church is still around and I guess they could have changed in that time, but if they have I doubt they’ve changed much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 04:34 PM |
| 46 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismI think you may be talking about American (?) society as a whole. However, there are areas/cultures where this isn't the case. I grew up in a southern, religious, evangelical culture. Women are absolutely *not* encouraged to pursue hedonism. We're taught God "made us to be mothers, submit to men, meek, subservient," etc. etc. & in my experience, if a man in this culture slips up and parties, sleeps around, etc. it's not that his actions are completely dismissed, but he'll be given a lot more gra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placeboI’m less well versed on the nuances of what separates TRP/PUA, but I think you’re right at least about PUA. So many of the guys with YouTube channels, the people like Tom Cruise’s character in Magnolia realize that there is a demographic of lonely men who want to get laid and resent women ... So they decide to make money on that, capitalism babyyyyy 🤑🤑🤑 The bottom line isn’t to “help men” or reveal any “truths.” It’s to get rich. Idk being a con artist is probably considered “alpha” in those cir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Most of the stereotypes created by the red pill community don't even exist outside the internet and affect men more than women.💯 💯 💯 Pick up tactics = astrology for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Do some men prefer more average looking women because they're low maintainance?LOL you’re really offering up Emma Watson as an “average looking” woman? Ok ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.If women want commitment they usually have to settle because the pool of men willing to sleep with them is always larger than the pool of men willing to commit to them and this is true for women of ALL ages. THANK YOU. Whenever I see this “red pill” “bUt I’m SuCh A gOoD gUy” discourse, I never see men acknowledging that so many men will literally just tell a woman whatever she wants to hear, including feigning commitment, in order to get laid. This happened to me in my 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 07:13 AM |
| 129 | And they aren’t treated well either!Came on here to say this. I feel like King of Queens is the perfect example of this trope, along with many of the women who date George Costanza in Seinfeld, + pretty much any woman paired up with Adam Sandler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secI’d love to read this essay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secYou described one of my exes to a T. I can remember trying to bring up issues with him so we could hopefully have a constructive conversation about it, and him being so dismissive and saying “I feel like you’re just trying to start a fight right now.” Another time, he said “I’m not falling for this attempt to manipulate me.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 5 | We have a list of demands. 1. Clean sheets.There but for the grace of god go I ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:45 AM |
| 17 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedThey always come slithering back, in my experience. Even the ones who called me “crazy.” Every. Single. One. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | The audacity is astronomical .. Can you say toxic?Ugh this is one of my exes to a T. Some days I feel like calling/texting/emailing him about how I’ve figured him out, but I won’t give him the satisfaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Are they capable of anything?Came to ask this, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020I discovered this sub yesterday and I'm SO glad I did. I'm 28 and newly single after several failed, very frustrating relationships. I've spent the past 10 years being a pick-me girl. Not every man I've dated has been completely bad, but I spent too much time with guys who definitely saw me as a glorified housekeeper who they also had sex with. Time to turn things around ✊ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:26 PM |
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