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It's not worth it. I was involved with someone who was openly toxic and was already finding tons of random faults about me before meeting in person but was nonetheless very interested in hooking up. I went with it and she came over and we did it. Afterwards, it got worse and she would non-stop text me every second of the day saying horrible things about me before I just blocked her, but she knew where I lived and was really close by to me also. I was nervous for a little while but it's been year…
/r/seduction17/12/25 08:12 PM
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I wouldn't say the majority of women are "men hating" these days, but the amount of independent women especially in America has without a doubt risen with less women having kids, getting married, starting families etc. They care more about their career and supporting themselves, which is a good thing really. However, in order for them to want to date men, they won't just settle for anyone. I think they are looking for more established partners than anything else. Even the "men hating" women whic…
/r/seduction17/12/25 06:11 AM
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This sub is so loaded with simps which is so ironic considering it's named seduction.
/r/seduction10/06/25 10:49 AM
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Learned the hard way throughout my 20s. Go on a dinner date, we talk and the conversation doesn't flow, and in my mind I cannot wait for this date to end because I am genuinely not interested in her period. As time went on, I learned that going out for coffee is a safe bet.
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:34 PM
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I had this happen before. I hooked up with someone while traveling and we connected very well. We stayed in touch a bit afterwards but the distance and trying to maintain that connection after just a night together; it just couldn't really mature and grow into something. It just led to both of us losing interest. I'm sure it happens where people can build something from it but it wasn't for us.
/r/seduction15/05/25 05:49 AM
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Yeah, because things are less complicated and older women are more privy to what they want. A girl in their 20s is still learning and is more influenced by the world around them. I have found to have more insightful interactions with women older than me (I'm 29). However, I have much less tolerance for women in their 20s due to what they deem as important and prioritize.
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:40 PM
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OP please don't say this bullshit.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:17 AM
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If women are disrespectful from the start, I am not going to work to get their respect. It is a testament in my opinion of how they typically treat most men initially, being more prevalent nowadays given the truckloads of attention women get from hundreds of men on social media. Inflated egos and arrogant personalities are much more common now than I would say 10 years ago. Naturally, my attraction to them bottoms out as soon as I get any sort of unwarranted blatant disrespect.
/r/seduction02/05/25 05:20 AM
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Oh yes.. for sure. Some of my best casual interactions were with women older than me. They are laidback, know what they want, are usually great at having conversations, open minded, and are extremely down to earth.
/r/seduction02/05/25 03:15 AM
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Nothing turns me off more than a dead convo even if I find the girl physically attractive otherwise. I will ask some questions to engage conversation but if it's not reciprocated, I just stop replying.
/r/seduction25/04/25 09:02 AM
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Yeah they are. It's not uncommon for people to date for the wrong reason, whether it's for some sort of benefit or something else. Telling their partner what they want to hear with ulterior motives underneath. I say the right person, because a lot of times dates expect more from me when I tell them that I am not looking for something more. So their defense is something like "you lied! you said you wanted a relationship!" but somehow they think that applies to them being that person. I clarify an…
/r/seduction01/12/24 02:49 AM
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Half this post isn't in English.
/r/seduction30/11/24 11:56 PM
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I am honest from the start. I remember on my dating profile before, I would write "looking for a relationship with the right person". Just because we matched, doesn't mean I would want to date you if I didn't catch that vibe. I would be honest and sincere about it, and they would sometimes still pursue hanging out. Sometimes that would eventually lead to us hooking up, and the expectation from them that we should date. When I turned them down, sometimes they would get angry. What else can I do t…
/r/seduction30/11/24 02:49 AM
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Happens a lot to all of us whether or not we should break the ice. Unfortunately, you never know the outcome unless you try. I have always been a take the shot kind of guy. If it is obvious she isn't interested, I just say a have a good day and move on.
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:41 AM
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Deff just a rebound. She is not invested in you. Still hit though. Take that and move on.
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:43 AM
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There is no best opener in my opinion. I am always just myself and ask them about something I found interesting on their profile. If they are dry, I just move on. I can pull interest with someone else who can have a conversation. The dry ones are more likely to pull some bullshit like flaking on plans. I will plant my seeds in more than one basket and a couple typically work out.
/r/seduction28/11/24 05:43 AM
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Wasn't much else to it. Funny enough, I never saw her as anything more than that, but I think she liked me enough to be in a relationship. I wasn't engaging in text and barely tried to be honest. I think maybe that is why I didn't even pursue a hook up. She wasn't really attractive to me either.
/r/seduction28/11/24 01:17 AM
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We were friends but we sort of knew we liked each other from the start in an FWB way.
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:37 AM
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I think partially to skill as a majority of my lays were from dating apps and when we met, I wasn't awkward and talked smoothly, led the conversation, asked them questions and let them talk. However, some lays took more dates than what I wanted to achieve, and some women I met never led to a hook up period even if I was good at having a conversation with them. I don't really believe in luck, but I do think opportunities are always presented to us randomly, and we need to take charge of those opp…
/r/seduction26/11/24 07:54 AM
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I disagree, though not entirely. Everyone knows that one guy who is a total zero with no life that somehow bagged a 10. At the same time, yes women as a whole have become more independent financially and I personally don't have a problem with it. What I do have a problem with is women who can support themselves, but arrogantly flaunt it as if they are better than every man to exist. We see it all the time on social media saying how they don't need a lousy man and can support themselves. What's w…
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:11 AM
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I don't fake into things like that just to get some. What I will do is actively listen to what they have to say about it out of curiosity. If they ever ask me my interest in it, I would just say I never really read into it.
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:34 AM
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Lol clearly not true in some cases based on my comment here. But you do you bud!
/r/seduction16/11/24 03:36 PM
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Yeah I don't know what guys think the outcome is with multiple texts. If she doesn't get back to you in a reasonable amount of time, just forget it. Texting her more isn't just going to make her want you out of nowhere. I have been left on read for upwards of a week or more and sometimes they just randomly reach out and it led to a hook up because I wasn't desperate bombarding her with more texts. I have played the long game before and it worked out well.
/r/seduction16/11/24 01:08 AM
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With this kind of physical touch already there, I simply ask in a similar situation if she would like to come back to my place. If yes, great. If no, I don't put any pressure, and respect her decision. Women will value you more with this approach and you don't come off as a creep or an asshole either.
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:28 PM
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I didn't think it got worse than I saw your post history.
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:25 AM
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First, the woman is married to your uncle and here you are talking about intimacy within your family. This has to be some weird fiction you wrote here to get yourself off because if it's legitimate you got serious problems and need help.
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:24 AM
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I disagree. While there may be some truth to it, I will elude to my previous comment of game being the prominent skill to generate interest. If you are sending a DM with a girl who "feels like" being approached but you sound like an ass clown, it isn't going to lead to anything successful. That's even worse. You are already dating them then asking them to show you the DMs they have received? I just think that expresses further insecurity. Yeah if messaging that many women, 100 in a single week w…
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:37 PM
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Well I didn't read your other reply, just left my comment. I don't think girls are interested in being approached at a certain time. I think to a significant degree it comes down to your own personal skill in how you can cultivate someone's interest. I don't think they ever "feel" like being approached, especially when receiving multiple DMs daily is commonplace. Also, asking for them to send a list of their DMs and asking why they answered yours? To be honest, I think that would come off as sor…
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:14 PM
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I never really did social media DMing, but my mindset was that so many guys do it, that you just kind of get lost in the inordinate amount of messages the girl gets. I feel like you really need to have text game down to a T to yield promising results. I am not bad by any means, but don't think I could stay interested long enough to make something out of it. I am happy to hear that it has worked out for you though.
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:51 PM
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I personally don't think so. I noticed with most older women, once they make up their mind, they tend to stick with what ever conclusion they draw. Going forward, there is nothing to be intimidated by. If anything, women who are older are much easier to talk to typically and are great to get along with. With that said, some can be completely rude and condescending given a previous past of shitty men in their life.
/r/seduction28/08/24 12:27 PM
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Lived in Japan over four years, currently in a relationship with a Japanese girl. However, when I was single... Japanese women (and pretty much all Japanese people in general) are out during the day doing their own thing whether it is on their way to work, university, stopping for a quick lunch, on their phone, what ever. Japanese women will be kind if you approach them during the day, and may exchange numbers, but a lot of the time, it is out of them just being polite. With myself and my friend…
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:37 PM
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While true, in person approaching is the best in terms of meeting the most women in the shortest amount of time. OLD and social is great, but most women don't want to meet with you at least after talking a bit when in person the conversation and the person is right in front of you. As long as you don't dwell and get spun up on rejection you will receive on approaches, you are sure to land some dates from it. It is also a great way to determine if there is a connection there. I have met girls on …
/r/seduction08/05/23 11:56 PM
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To add, social media has inflated egos to the point where women feel like it is a privilege to have the opportunity to even speak with them. Softer men (millions upon millions of them) give them the tireless attention and pedestal though 99.9% won't get any sort of feedback from them anyway. There is plenty of videos out there of women saying they feel empowered by all this attention, when in reality, it is just a bunch of thirsty online perverts who don't see them in any other way other than th…
/r/seduction08/05/23 11:53 PM
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Where are you getting this "small percentage" from? I frequented Eastern Asia for 3 years and seen tons of WM/AF couples.
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:57 AM
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