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You're not wrong. But I'm not talking about that. He married her. At that point, you have to distinguish whether the sex you're getting is a genuine appraisal of your value, or if they see the prizes on the other side as worth the sacrifice. If he was just banging, then you're absolutely right. I see Paul McCartney's situation from over a decade ago in a similar light. Bags a hot model. Later gets destroyed in divorce. Is Paul at that age really that enticing? Or did she do the status and money …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 06:13 PM
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No, I'm speaking about the context of the discussion. If he was just banging em, then you have a point. But when LTR or marriage comes into the picture, my point about what you're pulling stands. Sure, he's getting the sex, but then it dries up, and then the Piper comes back looking to get paid... a lot. The lesson is that status does get you a boost in the sex department. But I think it's important to consider whether you're getting that sex from a genuine desire or a mostly "Look at the prizes…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 06:06 PM
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But let's be real here. "Pull" is a loaded term in De Niro's case. Sure, he could "pull" a much hotter woman than many of us could ever dream of bagging. But what is he actually "pulling"? They don't look at De Niro and think "I'm banging the Rock!" or "I'm getting me some Khal Drogo tonight!" They're really thinking, "Access. Meal ticket. Status boost." Not sure if that's really a "pull" to be proud of. Yes, Hollywood actors get the opportunity to bang a lot of young hot tail. But it's a devil'…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 07:20 AM
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Your scenario only supports his point. While The Rock is clearly the more experienced lifter, I doubt Kevin Hart would be handing out bad advice. Also, if you're a beginner lifter, there's not much Dwayne Johnson can do for you that Kevin Hart couldn't. The message is more important than the messenger.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 07:57 PM
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This is a very good point. I know very FEW women that are the "oops, I've got two guys in my bed..." who are also 'marriage-material' according to those who have both eyes open. I know AWALT, but even then, my experience is that even women don't one day randomly make the jump from serial monagamy up to "Threesome in my husbands bed" overnight. There's a slew of red flags this guy probably never noticed or just outright ignored.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:15 AM
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Try being dominant with someone new.... A busy alpha male wouldn't ask questions about how to game his ex. He's to busy with other girls.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:53 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/ This mentality has less to do with her and more to do with YOU. TRP says to move on because, even if you "get her back", you are putting yourself beneath her. This isn't dominant, and she's settling for you. Nothing better is happening, and you're a safe bet. All the time. For you, she's so valuable that you don't notice yourself rooting through the trash. It's belittling of yourself. Stop harming your own self-image. It's over. Sto…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 04:56 PM
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Multiple threads on TRP discuss this very thing. Start small. Clean your room. Start lifting and/or exercising. Start small. Nothing tremendous. Take ownership and start a relationship with yourself. There is no quick fix. I'm still a noob, and it's taken me a while to even get this far. But I can tell you that when you "just do it" and make yourself the center point, things change and the "suck" begins to wane. The journey will be painful though. You've gotta accept it. No "tingly-feeling" jour…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 02:34 AM
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Sure, but you're forgetting what's been repeated in this thread now several times. Your problem isn't the girl or whether or not she reciprocates your feelings. It's you. You don't reciprocate your own feelings towards yourself. It has nothing to do with whether you can block her out, or find someone else to fill the void (they won't). You have to accept that void and recognize that the "hole" is you. You've always had yourself. That's not nihilistic. What's nihilistic is rejecting that "void" a…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 01:51 AM
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I see now that I gave the impression that I "chatted" with her back and forth. My total message count was 4. I asked out on the 3rd message. The 1st was a response to her opener and me asking a question. the 2nd was another question because it was after a week of no contact. I gave a time and place on the 4th. I did not ask about her day, nor did we chit-chat about her job. I am a noob... but I didn't do THAT badly. Still, wasting time on dating apps... I agree.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:33 PM
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Absolutely. It's what gets me so mad. I start my usual mourning behavior, but now I can't unsee how bogus the whole process is to begin with. It's like someone burned my security blanket and kicked the ashes in my face. Then laughed.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:34 AM
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Holy shit. A mentor of mine said this to me last month. He's actually said some variation of it to me several times, but last month was the moment it really stuck. Nowadays, I am actually angry because of that. It forces me to not play the victim. If the cup is already broken, then what am I even lamenting?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:14 AM
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There is a huge difference between sharing your feelings and being 'vulnerable' (which really just means dropping your 'mask'). I will talk about what's going on in my life, but I don't discuss my feelings about it because they are burdensome and unnecessary. Something crappy might happen, but I will not complain about it. So I don't think the two are contradictory. Most men share their feelings like they're talking to their mother figure. Don't do that with the person you date. Sharing isn't ve…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:25 AM
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Thanks. I think I already screwed it up. I proposed we meet up, and told her I was free two days of the three she was in town and to get back if she was interested. Quite frankly, I feel like I'm being too passive. I ask a few questions, then ask for the meet up. I think maybe 10% really bite. And lately, I've had 3 flakes after getting those dates, and two that messaged they were going exclusive. I feel like I'm getting the worst best luck at the same time. It's throwing my confidence off. But …
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:15 AM
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Thanks. And that really was the whole point of my venting. I did everything 'right', even getting responses within minutes... but one word and the ENTIRE encounter was dead in the water. Yeah, I apologized and put the nail in the coffin, due to inexperience, but for a noob like myself to finally be getting the hang of this stuff, losing out because I said one word in a casual conversation just seemed unbelievably... well, fickle.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:17 AM
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Agreed. My frustration just comes from how easily everything can go poof due to misunderstanding. I get it. Stranger says "drinks"; trigger. I'm only upset because that was never my intention in the first place, but I had no means of recovering from that.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:19 AM
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I'm not about that life either. I must not have been clear. I'm not mad because she doesn't want to drink. I'm mad because I actually didn't care about drinking EITHER. I said "drinks" because I was merely typing and that's what came out. I could have just as easily said: "get a bite to eat." I'm mad because I was typing carelessly. I hardly ever drink. But sadly, one slip and that's the whole thing lost.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:13 AM
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Thank you for this reply. This is what I needed and wanted to hear. I agree it's my fault, but a lot of times askTRP is only good at telling me I'm wrong... which I already knew. Thanks again, seriously.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:06 AM
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No... I didn't actually care if I went out for drinks. I actually didn't care about getting booze. I simply replied, "let's meet for drinks after work." In short, I had NO real intention of going out specifically for alcohol. I just wanted to confirm a date. Was I careless? Yes. Need booze to talk to women? You're reading into my rant a little bit...
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:03 AM
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I read you on this, but come on. A simple "well, I don't drink, but..." would have been a reasonable response. I'm just fuming because I lost an easy catch, I know, but come on, really? I clearly still think too highly of people.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:44 AM
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Yeah, I was even thinking in my head "don't say sorry". But I guess even saying that is still an apology. What would have worked better, in that case? I figured I'd nuked myself out on that one pretty badly.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:42 AM
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That's what's most frustrating so far. As of this week alone, I've had 3 or 4 yes to dates, and all 3 or 4 canceled for whatever random reason. I would even get their #s, voluntary texts from them apologizing about their busy schedules, etc., and then... POOF. Nothing, gone. I get plenty of interest, but seemingly random success. Which I guess is why it's always called a #'s game, but I didn't realize how random it actually was. It calls into question the other person I'm currently seeing. As of…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:40 AM
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The mind is a tricky thing. There's been a pattern to your suffering: "All the girls I see out there are trolls..." Is it really the relationship or the body that you miss so much? I also have that one ex with whom I have very great memories of. But I also know that those memories are magnified because she was the most attractive one of the bunch of women I've dated. If I compared the sex life between "The One" and other girls I've been with, "The One" wasn't the wildest or even the most satisfy…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:56 PM
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That's what I was thinking. After her reply, I actually lost any motivation to meet at all this weekend. I figured 24 hours was long enough before asking about meeting again. I kept the convo short and to the point. I should have set a place, which I did the first two times, so I was bit too vague on the third. Oh well. Experience is good, win or lose.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 02:33 PM
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I honestly think that's what I'm encountering, and I'm not used to it. Most every girl I've dated in the past it was a simple matter to cone over to hang or for dinner. Any religious girl I dated in the past already had tons of familiarity. This is the first time I dated any without it. Its jarring because I feel they're into me, but there's that wall a d I'm not skilled at leaping over it.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:47 AM
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Good question. I think if I were honest, the humorous part I have down. I don't sit and ask about their job all day. I ask questions, and I can lead a good conversation. But I'm not kino-ing much. That I'm not used to. Especially on a first meet. I'll hug immediately. I'll hug when I leave. I'll touch here and there on a second date. But I can imagine that isn't enough. I don't feel my dates are unsuccessful. I'm not applying a ton of effort to get responses, dates, or messages like I used to. B…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 03:25 AM
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Thanks. You're absolutely right. I think I'm just afraid to pull the trigger on that one for no real reason. To be frank, I'm not even completely smitten with the girl. I'm just irrationally still unused to rejection. It's weird for me. Weird place.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:28 AM
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This is what I suspected, actually. I'll admit; I don't have a clue how to do this and I've been reading for years. Any advice or link to read on that?
/r/askTRP15/12/16 08:46 PM
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It's not slim. This is helping the fraternity. He gains nothing from informing the man. In fact, the man won't suddenly turn Red Pill, smile, shake his hand for fucking his fiance six ways sideways, on camera. It's like the Matrix. You wake Cypher up, and next thing you know, he's pulling the plug on half of his own team. You don't want that.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 09:38 PM
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Pretty much. I read this article wondering how the British plan on telling the Russians to fork over money to a woman currently living on their soil in a fancy, already well paid for house.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:47 PM
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Again. This is angry hyperbole. She didn't do anything more fantastic than most modern day fantasy characters. Kylo Ren had just murdered his own dad in cold blood in a way that was sick but incredibly traumatizing, even for him. He was then shot by chewie, and was bleeding out while chasing down two clearly force sensitive individuals. Luke Skywalker is never shown training lightsaber vs lightsaber combat, but fights the Chosen One. In fact, before this movie, I remember numerous discussions ab…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 02:55 PM
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Eh. Sorry guys. I'm not buying this one and chalking this up to anger phase. Don't get me wrong. There are shows and films that unnecessarily pump up female characters, but Rey really isn't it. She kicks ass. So did Luke "I blew up a moon" Skywalker. Oh, and Anakin was Podracing when it shouldn't be possible, and could identify Jedi. Seriously, if she's Mary Sue, the others are Jesus... Which Anakin pretty much was, immaculate conception and all. Also, other characters do help guide her, and Che…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:08 AM
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You still missed the point. The discussion was of Trump's frame, not his intellect and rationality. This is a common mistake men make. We confuse frame with logic and rationality. Trump doesn't need to make sense to win socially. He just needs to appear like a winner. Which is what he did. Sure. You're not fooled. Neither am I. But we weren't discussing whether he makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 05:44 AM
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I don't know. This pattern of thought seems to be more of a convenient outlet for anger rather than face the real problem. Sure, he is a scumbag brother. But let's face it: putting him in the hospital is an emotional scapegoat. It takes little cultural and social effort to beat up another man. We're disposable. Women are the gatekeepers. Yes, he fucked up. But she was the one that provided the opportunity. He didn't trip into her, but really, a woman would never let you trip accidentally in the …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:09 AM
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What was his advice? Curious now.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:03 AM
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I agree. In the circles I follow, men follow bravado only when skill backs it up. I've met several men in organizations who are confident about themselves to the point of solipsism, but their followers are all weak and just as incapable as their self absorbed leader. The capable ones can't stand them and don't really listen. The weak and incapable hide behind their ego shield deflecting the rocks being thrown.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:03 PM
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No. Actually, you basically said what I just said and/or was thinking. Power is in the relationship. The end. This was a fancy rewrite, though.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 09:39 PM
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Rape can't exist if power dynamics don't exist. You just tanked your entire thought. If there's no need for power, then I can do with her as I wish. Being as we know that's not true, there must be some sort of power exchange. She "gives" me that power. But she will not give it to someone who is weaker.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 08:35 PM
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You inadvertently just explained karma. Karma IS cause and effect. It's not some mystical, deterministic thing. So, in short, karma did resonate, regardless of affiliation.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 04:25 PM
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You missed the point. You're too focused on the wrong action committed instead of seeing the dependant behavior. If he truly had RP frame, he wouldn't have cared that she was showing her tits in a situation where she would be doing exactly that, with him or not. If he wasn't needy, he would have simply shrugged it off. If she leaves, oh well. But instead, he gripped tighter and cared as if she were his daughter. Would you stop your sister or friend? Yes, she cheated. But pointing that out won't …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:29 PM
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I'm a NoFapper that has been going on a year now. I was hardmode for about 280 days, but I haven't fapped or used porn since. Girl only for release. I can say this about it. There are no "super" powers. It doesn't make you a god. I still have issues to work out with how I relate to women and things of that nature, hence why I read here. That being said, I do feel more "normal" if that's helpful. But it's all based on background. Before NoFap, I was obsessed with sitting in the dark, avoiding the…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:05 PM
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