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| 156 | When did women gain so much leverage?Not even. For most of our history, the majority of the population lived in villages or towns of under 1000 people. You pretty much got to pick between all of 10-50 women around your age. It's part of why we're so hardcoded to be afraid of rejection, if only 10 women rejected you, that could mean you're doomed to forever be single. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Most of you have way too much shit to work on before you can even think about pursuing "seduction"For most people who hear this sort of thing it doesn’t give a feeling of “Oh wow I must be lucky.” Their issues are real, even if it is purely mental, so instead of being thankful for the fact that 95% of people have it worse, the natural reaction is instead, “Damn, life is so terrible for me... and 95% of people have it even worse than me? What’s the point?” | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Why is flirting with girls so hard?This is actually a spectacular summary. Thanks for putting this out there. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I’m a straight up 21yo virgin with no female friends and even I am socially adjusted enough to know that wasn’t some deep psychological thing she did. Super obvious she’s just diffusing tension or, depending on her personality, maybe just finding it funny that she’s admitting to something like that. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionInterestingly his English is vastly worse than yours, while yours is fantastic. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Some thoughts after getting my first girlfriendDoubling the other guy’s question, what’s co-sign sales? | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do you have to introduce yourself with achievements?Never expected to see an EU4 reference here of all places. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Core tenants for successful gameI mean doesn’t that mean that someone who hasn’t already gotten girls and plenty of them before is just kind of screwed? Obviously that’s not true because men do lose their virginity all the time but this advice does imply that things should’ve been impossible for them because they’ll always come off as a douche. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How to impress a guy on first date?Personally, my interest starts with whether or not a girl is attractive so that’s basically the lowest level bar to clear, but if he’s on a date with you chances are you cleared it. Secondly I really need someone who’s intelligent and shows it... but that’s very much a me thing so your mileage may vary. Try to be truly interested in anything he properly enjoys, like if he loves working on cars (and for the example let’s assume you don’t even if you do) then try to get him into a zone where he fe… | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | You will creep (some) people out if you cold approachThat’s interesting, I wouldn’t be too surprised if this is one of the times where showing vulnerability does pay off despite the stereotypes of women not liking a man like that. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | You will creep (some) people out if you cold approachIn my mind another thing is that if you’re just starting out and legitimately are uncomfortable or nervous, just straight up own it and say it out loud. Sure, you might not increase your chances of getting a date or getting laid but I’m willing to bet that the girl will suddenly dial the “creep meter” way back since now she knows exactly why you’re nervous and you just removed the unknown factor that often creeps girls out so much. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach counterproductive?I’m curious if that’s common for every college or just the small ones? I’m currently going to a reasonably sized state college and don’t exactly want to ruin my reputation before I even start getting anywhere with approach. | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Are you a depressed horny lonely guy fucking girls to get by each day?As an absolute beginner #4 is pretty helpful. I’m constantly making excuses like “She’s busy” or “She just doesn’t look approachable” or “There’re too many people around”. I really need to just kill those excuses and just start approaching. Thanks for the advice man. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Experience is Key!My biggest problem for me is getting over the first hurdle of approaching for the very first time. After that I know that it’ll become 10x easier and I’ll start enjoying it, but doing it that first time has been a nightmare. This is exactly where getting an initial line or rough direction to go in with the conversation would be insanely helpful. As I learn I know I’ll start to become a natural with it but... this first time man. | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 08:21 AM |
| 0 | "Girls won't make you happy" and other ideasCurrently 20 and in my sophomore year of college so a pretty good time to be starting this. Otherwise I’m mostly just planning on exposure. Start out talking to/approaching random people, become comfortable with that, escalate to girls I find cute, then once I’m decent there go for anyone I find really hot. In terms of trying for a relationship and/or something physical I’m frankly not sure yet, I’m focusing on just being comfortable with women period at first. I 100% feel you on the whole wanti… | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | "Girls won't make you happy" and other ideasAs a disclaimer, I’ve never been with a woman before. Despite this though I totally agree and I think it’s just a simple fact that some people need intimacy way more than others. For me I’ve needed it enough that I’m going to try to dedicate most of my focus this year just to trying to get to the point socially that I can pick up a girl if I really want to. On the other hand I have friends who find it weird that you’d dedicate much time at all to girls and just don’t really pay much attention to… | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 3 | How to properly "fake it till you make it" to success with womenI’m curious, as a virgin myself how would you suggest going about it for one’s first time? Should you let her know beforehand or just try to go through it the best you can? | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 12:59 AM |
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