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I’m more for blaming the DNC.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:33 PM
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There’s a lot of young maga guys who seem to think the girls will have to show them some kind of respect now. lol. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:32 PM
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lol. Been hearing that since the industrial revolution. We’re not going back to the 1950s, but the number of people employed in manufacturing is going to remain pretty stable for the foreseeable future. I’d be much more concerned if I’d gone tens of thousands into debt for some sort of useless STEM degree, or had some kind of make-work email job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:44 AM
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That, or Bidens abject failure to sell his policy agenda. I swear some of you are saying “The Democrats cannot fail. They can only be failed”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:09 AM
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What does that have to do with anything? I’m talking about the Dems winning back the working class here. The republicans don’t have them. They just didn’t turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:47 AM
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I’m not saying you’re ever going to convert the MAGA people. You won’t. But the beaten-down people who didn’t turn out? Give them something and they’ll turn out. This is what the DNC is resolutely refusing to do. You can purity-test all you like, but you guarantee victory to your enemies. It’s why the left always fucken loses and I’m sick to the fucken back teeth of it. I’m in a union. If I want bargaining power in my workplace, I need people to join. I can decide to only Marshall the support of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:43 AM
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All of them are. No exceptions. It’s all your system allows. That doesn’t mean you get to ignore them till they stop being corrupt. That’s just abandoning the field to the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:27 AM
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Dude - you keep saying this; but you can’t hector people into supporting your political positions. You come across a saying that you are a beacon of righteousness, and all who fail to live up to your example are damned. It’s snotty and privileged to tell someone unable to pay rent on a minimum wage job that they’re essentially a rape apologist if they don’t agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:14 AM
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Biden won on the back of Covid and promising things he never delivered on. People weren’t excited by Biden, they were mad at Trump. Biden’s approval rating is now sitting below Bush post-Katrina, and Harris did exactly fuck-all to distance herself from him. If Harris promised such wonderful things why did they get exactly *zero cut-through? Why did so many people sit this one out? Why are the youth (including the women) breaking for Trump? I know you want to make this all about sexism or racism …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:08 AM
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Dude - you have to win votes. You can’t rely on your opponent being repugnant. It’s why Hillary lost, and it’s why Harris lost. You can’t boogeyman people into voting forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:54 AM
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Cater to them how? I think you can safely ignore the clowns saying that the girls need to sit down and shut up and be nicer to the menz; but you have to offer something. If you’re a downwardly mobile young person with a mountain of debt you’ll never pay off, a job with limited means of advancement, you’re struggling to make rent, and you’re totally alienated from your fellow people by late capitalism - why should you care? The world is full of shit people with power and privilege they don’t dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:51 AM
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That might be true; but can’t only offer “we’re not the other guy” and expect to get the vote out. They got away with it with Biden due largely to Covid. They weren’t going to get away with it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:22 AM
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Trump didn’t pick up any votes. It’s just the people who went to Biden last time gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:19 AM
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Sure champ. It’s all your own work and you’re a very special and clever boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:36 AM
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No I’m not debating. I’m making fun of you for trying to be Ben Shabibo. Much like people will continue doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:23 AM
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Ad hominem AAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Oh my God it's 2013 and I'm debating on a forum. Everything old is new again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:09 AM
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Don't get me wrong - I think ignoring men was a factor, just not in the way people here are saying. There's people here basically saying that the Dems need to be nicer to the boys. I think that's kinda bullshit. While I think that talking about men's mental health or the loneliness epidemic wouldn't hurt, I'm not sure it's a way to get the vote out. But when you've got a huge number of men disengaged from voting because you're not offering anything that they could see might improve their lives, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:05 AM
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Lol. He thinks people will respect him if Trump's in the white house. I've got some bad news mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:57 AM
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Dude - the Dems haven't given a shit about the working class since the days before Clinton. Clinton introduced NAFTA - which gutted the US manufacturing economy and offshored what decent manufacturing jobs were left after Reagan. Hell - you could convincingly argue that LBJ was the last time you had a pro-worker Democrat in the white house. For all their talk of being "for the working class" they've utterly failed to implement any policies that would actually improve the lot of working people. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:55 AM
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The Dems have pretty much abandoned the working class. The DNC is convinced that by moving to the right, they can peel off more "moderate" GOP voters. But why vote for soy Republicans when the real thing is right there on the shelf?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:47 AM
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The Dems ate shit for a bunch of reasons. I'm not convinced that "failing to cater to men" was one of them. The Dems were - again - promising to maintain the status quo, during the tenure of a historically unpopular president. Harris presented no breaks with Biden on anything. There's a general sense among Americans that the country is going backwards and everything sucks. People wanted change. If you can't offer anything more than "We're not Trump", you deserve to eat shit. Of course, the DNC w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:45 AM
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Why would I argue with chatGPT?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:37 AM
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Again - there are benefits to being strong and fit other than getting pussy. I go to the gym 3 days a week and run 3 days a week. I’m not doing it to catch some strange - I’ve been with my missus for over 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:59 PM
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Are you being intentionally obtuse? Those things will drastically improve your life even if you never get any pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:58 PM
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Jesus fucken Christ. You self-improve because it’ll make your life better Why do some of you dipsticks fail to understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:44 PM
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Did you miss the part where I said “it’s a figure of speech”? But sure. 3%. I’d tip a lot less than that for swearing off men for very long, but let’s start with that as an ambit claim. What I mean (as I’ve said before - a number of times) is that it won’t be a big enough number for long enough to cause any kind of significant change. If any women have had it with men and want to avoid them, it’s not for me to gainsay. And I don’t even disagree that some have their reasons. But there’s precedent…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:50 AM
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It’s a deeply strange world that some of you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:39 AM
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You’re asking for a percentage as if that’s meaningful and not just not-picking my statement. I mean - I can make some shit up if you like. I’m obliging like that. My point is thus: some women will probably do the 4B thing; but you’re not going to see some kind of Lysistrata any more than I’m going to see the workers seize the means of production. It might gain some overwrought clickbait-y reporting here and there; but if you think you’re going to see a feminist revolt, you stand to be very disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:34 AM
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I’m not a social researcher mate. I fix airconditioners. Any statistic I give would be meaningless - as would any stat of yours or that of any prognosticator. This isn’t a quantitative statement. Regardless- no one is holding a gun to your head and making you date men. I endorse your single status. Go with God. You’re not any more representative of women at large than MGTOW weirdos are of men. I know you’re entertaining all manner of revenge fantasies, but they’re just not going to be borne out …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:39 AM
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That’s a figure of speech dude. Take my answer as “not a big enough percentage to move the needle”. I don’t doubt we’ll see a temporary increase in women avoiding men. Note - temporary. There’s a very human need for companionship and connection. There’s only so long most of us can handwave that away. The genders seem to have been in a constant state of disappointing each other since the time immemorial. I think it’s a little vain to think that this historical moment will be the great turning tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:35 AM
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If by that you mean the birth rate will continue to decline and the percentage of single-person households will continue to increase - then, yeah. Probably. Will some women choose to take on a 4B-style shift? Also - yeah, probably. What I think is very unlikely is that we’ll see a broad shift amongst single women to avoiding men for ideological reasons in numbers that are much more than a rounding error.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:07 AM
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"I don't *actually* care. I'm rich, and I'll throw the other women under the bus if it means I get to laugh at the mens." Nice one guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:28 AM
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You really seem determined to fumble the bag here dude. I say this with love. I spent years certain that my wife was not telling me what she actually meant. That ended one day when - with tears of frustration in her eyes - she said “why won’t you just believe me!” That hit me like a bucket of cold water in the face. What’s more likely - the husband who promised to esteem you above all others and loves you finds you sexy and wants to please you; or a bunch of perpetual malcontent porn-addicts who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:19 AM
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Getting unfulfilling sex with people you don’t care about is a fucking terrible long-term strategy for a happy life. The vast majority of people want connection - which requires an element of reciprocity. Being a fuckboy is the opposite of that. Talk to most functional guys who’ve had any kind of a hoe phase, and they’ll tell you that it got old pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:49 AM
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Clearly a decent amount are, otherwise they wouldn’t be able to fuk around as much as they do. Oh for sure. But a lot of women have finely-tuned enough bullshit detectors to pass on most fuckboys. The overwhelming majority of women who get taken in by fuckboys learn their lesson pretty quickly and don’t go back to that well. The ones that do have bigger problems. And most guys just can’t muster up that ability to be wilfully dismissive of other’s feelings. Cool, but what does that have to with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:03 AM
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Bro. Log off. I beg you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:03 PM
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K? What makes a fuckboy? Good looks, being socially adept and casual disregard for the feelings of others? Most chicks aren’t that into fuckboys. Any reasonably mentally healthy woman won’t tolerate much shitty behaviour. And most guys just can’t muster up that ability to be wilfully dismissive of other’s feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:01 PM
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Buy some clothes that fit and get a haircut. If you really want to stand out, develop an interest in fashion and a personal style. Most dudes dress like sacks of shit. It is very easy to dress well. No plastic surgery required.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:45 PM
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Problem is, a lot of terps aren’t interested in improving things for men; they just want women knocked down a peg. The guys who help men just go ahead and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:50 PM
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Dude - it’s not fucking mind-reading to see that your girl is upset, or having some kind of empathy for others. Are you one of those guys who says they’re “brutally honest” like it’s a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:48 PM
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Y’all MFs spend way too much time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:37 AM
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Meanwhile, a cursory glance outside will put the lie to that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:35 AM
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Girl - log off. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:31 AM
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Dude - that’s some incel shit. Hot people get more interest. Tant pis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:10 PM
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I too have read Nietzsche and not understood it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:35 PM
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redpill influencer Bachelor Joker AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Oh my god you terps are such massive fucken dorks. I don’t know shit about this dude and I’ll lay money on the barrelhead that he owns at least one katana.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:30 AM
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Spot on dude. So many guys are on here skipping half-a-dozen steps when approaching women. Just have a nice little chat. If you’re feeling the vibe, gently ratchet up the flirting. Dudes gotta calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:52 PM
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Lotta “what if” going on here as justification for cutting up baby’s’ dicks mate. If it’s an actual issue later in life, fine. But at the moment you’re arguing for invasive surgery because something might go wrong later. How’s about we do tonsils, gall bladders and appendixes as well. They might cause problems later too. Just remember not to use any anaesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:49 PM
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No. A man should be nice because it’s good to be nice. I know you’re desperate to turn everything human relationship into a double entry ledger; but I say fuck that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:42 PM
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Nah. We’re taking shots at the dudes here. There’s an intensely naive view from the dudes who demand “modest women” that somehow they’ll be shy anime virgins until they meet you; then suddenly turn into cock-hungry fuck-monsters for your dick. lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:36 PM
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Media doesn’t need to be good to be relevant. People still froth over Dickens - talking about how it captures something of the human spirit, and is timeless blah blah blah. I think it’s basically 19th century soap opera.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:03 AM
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Sex and the City isn’t supposed to be cinema verite. They’re cyphers for womens’ experiences. Women might not be “lovestruck, starry eyed teenagers nor horny cougars on the prowl”, but they might act that way on occasion. It’s the craft of storytelling, innit. And those stories obviously had some kind of cultural valence, because we’re still talking about the show over 25 years after it premiered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:33 AM
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Nah. Women in their mid 20s to early 30s. You gotta remember that it premiered back in the late 90s, and there being significant numbers of single women in that demographic was a pretty new phenomenon. Those women aged along with the show. Women who are now in middle age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:14 PM
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Nah man - the original book was written by a woman and the writers room was mostly women. They brought in Greg Behrendt (the Hes Just Not That Into You guy) as the token straight man. You’re right though - it’s a show pretty explicitly for women. I dont get why some dudes get frothing mad about it 25 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:52 PM
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On the apps, I’m not sure it does. Indiscriminate swiping - few matches - drop down the algorithm. Careful swiping - still few matches… Unless you’re an unusually good-looking guy, the apps are going to be a pretty soul-crushing grind. I agree that men - on the whole - make absolutely dogshit OLD profiles, but it’s still survival of the hottest out there on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:40 PM
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Bro had better be real patient if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:03 PM
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There’s a tendency for people to deride any media where they’re not the target audience. Sex and the City was an interesting cultural phenomenon, because it was probably the first really successful show unabashedly conceived for and aimed at young women. I think some guys are just suspicious of any media that women are really enthusiastic about that they just don’t “get”. They feel like they’re being purposefully excluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:01 PM
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I think there’s a lot of guys who can’t imagine what respect feels like; and deference is the closest thing they can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:41 AM
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That we want “submissive” partners. Makes my fucken skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:42 AM
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Try asking some of the terps and blackpillers on here what they think of womens’ hobbies mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:36 PM
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Hey, reality is more consistent with the redpill. Well, your confirmation bias is telling you that anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:31 PM
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Men and women have their own bell curves, but the bumpy bits overlap a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:28 PM
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I too like to poorly understand statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:58 AM
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Oh - 100%. And that’s exactly the advice I’d give to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:23 AM
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I don’t want women to do anything. This is advice for the boys. And at its core, it’s advice on the need to accept “failure” with grace. The biggest problem with the terp PUA shit is that it presumes to tell men that women are a problem to be solved; rather than people with their own desires, motives and lives. They will say rejection occurs because you failed to implement “the system”, rather than because of things completely out of your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:04 AM
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And I don’t condone that kind of behaviour. It’s real bad. I tell guys to approach women in full knowledge that the overwhelming majority of these approaches will end with nothing happening, and that they need to be okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:57 AM
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I think a lot of us get that. If we're paying attention, we get that just cold-approaching you in the street is probably a no-no, never to bother you when you're wearing headphones, hassling you in the grocer is bad form, talking to you in the gym is off-limits, etc. But a lot of guys - particularly guys who aren't super-well socially conditioned - look at the laundry list of places and think "I don't know where that leaves." I know it's not for women to be responsible for these mens' happiness;…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:52 AM
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My conclusion is thus: Your post is unsupported by any kind of evidence. The evidence you *think* supports your premise doesn't. Your argument is bullshit and I laugh at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:48 AM
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Why are some of you women so horrified by the idea that a man would want to have sex with you? When I met my wife, and girlfriends previous to her, did I want to have sex with them? Uhh - yeah dude. They cute as hell. After talking to them, did I also think they were cool or interesting or funny? Also yes. There's a horde of young dudes out there who are interested in meeting women, but the process of how to even approach them - let alone have any kind of relationship with them - feels like bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:44 AM
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which is funny because we know we’re right. But you're not. You take the most absolutely bleeding obvious facts like "Hot guys get more girls" or "Women like guys with cool careers", and turn it into some grand conspiracy - like teh wammen have decided to throw their hive mind together to ensure that *you personally* will never get laid. It's solipsistic, self-pitying gibberish. You're upset either because you're not getting the female attention you think you deserve, or guys you don't like seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:22 AM
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Yes - but *why* is that happening? The credible stats show that, if anything, we're having less casual sex than we used to. They're also showing that rates of people practicing safe sex (i.e. condom use) is well down. I'd argue that's the reason we're seeing an increase in the spread of STIs. You're arguing something something slutty women. And you're not providing a single fucking shred of evidence as to why this is the case, other than "Trust me bro". More gallingly - when people point this ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:11 AM
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“I want to live 100 years ago”. Lol. Have fun with that TB mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:46 AM
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I’m not mad, I’m not calling for change Then why do you terps post some variation on this shit multiple times a day? What do you want? For teh wammen to come out as one and say “we only want Chad, and we will never fuck you sub-9 bridge trolls” so you can feel vindicated in your weird inceldom? I know you terps all have these weird cuck fantasies of every woman on the planet getting constantly dicked down by Chad in ways you’ll never measure up to; but it’s just not real mate. Just because Hinge…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:40 AM
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I swear to Christ you terps are only just noticing that hot guys get more attention from women, and think that it’s some kind of grand conspiracy. Meanwhile - do you honestly think that hot women receive exactly the same amount of attention as every other woman. What rock have you been living under?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:22 AM
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Dude - literally two seconds on google gives you this: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41564-022-01177-x “A woman’s urogenital anatomy is more exposed and vulnerable to STIs compared with the male urogenital anatomy, particularly because the vaginal mucosa is thin, delicate and easily penetrated by infectious agents” Note that this is from an actual fucking scientific journal Meanwhile, you’re saying “I have zero evidence, but it feels true. Checkmate, feminazis!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:15 AM
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“There’s only one study that can track what women do…” “I got graphs and more articles.” Which one is it mate? You’ve picked one article (that’s not even a primary source) that doesn’t remotely support your premise, and the promise of others. You’ve come to a conclusion, and you’re trying to hammer the square pegs of supporting info into round holes. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:45 PM
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I’ll take a punt and say it’s mostly because people are less likely to use protection than previous generations. I came up in the era where AIDS was still very much a death sentence. The cavalier attitude towards STIs I hear from younger coworkers makes my blood freeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:31 PM
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“I’m not actual smart, I’m street smart” 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:28 PM
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How in gods name did you draw those conclusions from that article? Dude - I am begging you to log off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:25 PM
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Some of you boys really do go into a full-blown panic at the thought of a dude being nice to his wife, doncha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:21 PM
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Get his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:51 AM
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Also “darl”, “luv” or “Minister for War”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:37 AM
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Your missus is the most important person in your life; so it stands to reason that if she’s happy, you will be too. The corollary of this is that you are the most important person in her life, so your actions will have an outsized effect on her happiness. So…be nice to your missus, and do your best to make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:24 AM
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This was the point I was trying to make before I got distracted by hangover talk. You might find certain qualities attractive in a mate in the abstract because they’re fun and exciting; but in the cold, hard light of a relationship, they’re a terrible idea. I’ll use myself as an example. While I was younger, I had a real thing for aloof, cool, artsy women. My love life was a fucking disaster. What I needed was an enthusiastic, heart-on-sleeve girl who’s a massive dork. Thankfully I found her and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:24 AM
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If it’s a proper hangover, hair of the dog is the way to go. No it isn’t. Trust me. I’m currently on day 2 of a hangover and I’m too old for this shit. I am not mentally ready to face your friend’s excruciating prattling about her on-again off-again situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:58 PM
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If it’s a proper hangover, the mere thought of more booze will make you retch. Also - that’s assuming we’re talking about a booze hangover here…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:34 PM
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Wh…why is my missus in a fistfight? I tend to stay the fuck away from people who punch on. I say this as someone who used to punch on a bit, but swore off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:05 PM
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Yeah it’s kinda dumb. But this isn’t a gendered thing. Many’s the woman that fell for the rowdy, hard-partying boy who then got pissy that he was always too hungover to go to brunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:59 PM
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Well…yeah. Hot people get more attention. That’s not a gendered thing. That doesn’t mean that women other than the “top 20-30%” aren’t attractive or don’t receive any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:29 AM
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I dunno dude. When all you've got to work from is looks, and most guys find most women attractive, it stands to reason that most guys will swipe right on most women. Given most guys miserable strike rate, there's no point investing too much time in carefully going through profiles before swiping right. It makes far more sense to bang out your daily swipes quickly and get on with your day - and then investing time in the matches that actually happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:28 PM
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"I was friends with women and they didn't fuck me." Christ some of you people are dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:55 PM
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Dude - just because you feel personally victimised by girls on tiktok posting ragebait, it doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:24 AM
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Look it’s the women who were claiming double standards. Not the men. Wat? Where? Are these women you’ve invented in the room with us now? Nobody is even listening to men’s preferences anyways. Woe is us! Oh gynocracy cruel! When shall we see our wholesome days again? It’s the woman who says blue pilled stuff but is red pilled in reality. No, it’s the people without end-stage internet brainworms who are saying blue-pilled stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:26 AM
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Or maybe the approval of strange women is not a good thing to build you life around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:27 AM
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Dude - all the self improvement I’ve ever done with the objective of getting laid absolutely didn’t get me laid. It did measurably improve my life and helped me discover things I enjoy and/or am good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:15 AM
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Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:28 AM
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Then why are you dudes all acting so *shocked and appalled* that chicks wanna bang hot guys. It's not like us dudes aren't out here making wild excuses for chicks who are shallow, narcissistic, mean or just crashingly dull because they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:10 AM
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The unnattractive women still gets lots of sex but not relationships from attractive men Big if true; but let's break that down. She gets the "privilege" of being used as a human fleshlight by some guy using her as a slump buster. Geeze. That sounds rad. Sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:05 AM
14

Dude - did you just discover that hot dudes have an easier time getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:01 AM
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Lotta dudes out here are shocked and dismayed that women have their own dreams and desires, and aren’t just there as NPCs in their personal hero’s journey narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:43 AM
8

We haven’t had an Andrew Tate larper in a hot minute. Welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:50 PM
8

My wife hates the title ‘boss’, when I use it in jest. I prefer “Minister for War”. Which my missus also hates 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:49 PM
4

Or enculturated people-pleasing. Nature or nurture? Pick your poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:51 PM
1

The Red Pill-er
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:50 PM
1

You terps would be easier to take seriously if you didn’t say hysterical bullshit like this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:42 PM
2

Dude - the reason it’s championed by the left is for reasons of bodily autonomy. If the forced-birth people really had the courage of their convictions, they’d enforce mandatory vasectomy and sperm-freezing on all men. That would ensure that every baby would come into the world to parents wholeheartedly committed to parenthood. You gonna go wave the flag for that? Or is bodily autonomy only for boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:49 AM
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Oh my fucking god you people and height. I’ve only got one friend who’s even mentioned it - and she’s 5’10” and says shorter guys just don’t seem to be interested. I dunno - maybe Australian girls just aren’t as bent out of shape about this shit. What I mean is - every dude who’s in their league seems to have absolutely dogshit pics (fucks sake guys - get a friend to take a couple of photos. Bathroom selfies everywhere), they’re absolutely fuming with resentment (SWIPE LEFT IF…), can’t string to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:32 AM
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Dude - I fucken love to do olde-worlde chivalric shit for my missus. Open doors, pull out chairs, take her on nice dates, etc. Can she do that shit herself? Absolutely - she’s a grown up lady with a job. But does she enjoy the gesture? Also yes. You can embrace that stuff - because it’s a nice thing to do, and it’s nice to feel cared for - and not be a weirdo about it. Why have a Battle of the Sexes when you could simply not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:21 AM
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Dude - Marxism is just a critique of capitalist modes of production. It’s failure in Eastern Europe after 50+ years of economic warfare, and it’s embrace by some very annoying people online doesn’t make it wrong any more than inevitable plutocracy, assorted colonial genocides, planned famines and enforced poverty make capitalism wrong. Wanting a more equitable distribution of production isn’t wrong-headed. It’s a profoundly human desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:16 AM
3

TIL ever doing anything nice for a woman is simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:07 AM
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Oh come the fuck on dude. You don’t think Planned Parenthood’s agenda might have altered in over 100 years? It’s the same moonbat argument that gets trotted out about “Democrats are the real racists because Republicans freed the slaves”. The only people whining about these “damned poors and darkies outbreeding us” are the reactionary right dipshits. All the hand-wringing about low birth rates (where it’s actually about birth rates and not sulking about “single women destroying society”) is about…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:03 AM
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Don’t get me wrong here dude - I’d be flat out wrong if I said the provider role of traditional masculinity didn’t loom large over expectations of mens’ careers. Hell - I’ve been looked at askance as a plumber when I’ve said I don’t want to be a foreman or a project manager - preferring to avoid the Peter Principle and stick with what I’m good at and enjoy (apprentice wrangling, plant and site layout). But by the same token, my missus - a lawyer - has been hassled for years to take the step up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:47 AM
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You really do have a bug up your arse about blokes being nice to shielas, don’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:07 PM
1

Oh the existential horror of (checks notes) caring for another person…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:42 PM
1

I’ve had casual sex. It was okay. Relationship sex FTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:41 PM
7

You forced-birth people are deeply fucking weird, y’know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:40 PM
5

SMV/RMV is a shorthand way of referring to compatibility. In an oblique sense, maybe. If you insist on analysing everything as a market because your brain has been broken by late capitalism. How “SMV/RMV” is most commonly used is as a way of squaring the circle of “modern women” failing to play the mating game as terps consider it ought to be played.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:33 PM
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I have lots of single gal friends; and they complain about the lack of available men out there. As a friend, freshly divorced and ready to start dating said “Watehfok - as a spokesman for your people - where are the men?” Now, I can tell you individuallywhy my friends are single (and no, it’s not because they have unrealistic expectations), but they’ve shown me what’s on Hinge, and the goods are odd. Given the choice between remaining single and boo-ing up some weird little troglodyte, I know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:02 PM
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Or maybe relationships are more about compatibility than this autistic SMV/RMV mathematics that you terps seem so obsessed with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:13 PM
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You’re just describing two different sets of social skills dude. “Social skills” are context-dependent. If we’re talking about social skills in the context of meeting women, it’s pretty fucken obvious what we’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:11 PM
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The ridiculousness of this post aside; there’s a conversation to be had about benevolent sexism. To me, benevolent sexism comes down to intent. Are you opening the door and standing on the kerb side of the footpath because you both enjoy the theatre of old-school manners; or is it because you’re big tough man she tiny weak lady? A lot of women like benevolent sexism because it’s nice to have your dinners bought, be given gifts and to feel cared for. What they don’t like is the paternalism, assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:07 PM
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Have you ever spoken to a single woman or is this just what you’ve surmised from terp screeds and sprinkle sprinkle TikToks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:52 PM
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That was the scenario provided by OP, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:45 PM
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Sure are a lot of wild assumptions about how easy getting a boyfriend or girlfriend is. Try asking any single woman how easy finding a boyfriend is sometime. Whether people forgive and move past a cheating partner is context-dependent. Are they a couple that’s been together for an extended period, and she made a single bad mistake - maybe? There’s too much to consider here. Did she have a long term affair with a work colleague? Fuck no. That bitch for the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:55 PM
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I'm inclined to think that women get enough "lose weight/looksmax" advice in the general cultural background.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:08 AM
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I dunno. I feel like economically we've more or less foreclosed on the idea of either parent being able to take really significant periods of time off all paid work for parenting. It's just not a reality for most people - at least in my country (Australia). Best most people can manage is a year or two total each - and that's pushing it. I know more than a few mums who've had to get back to full-time work as soon as their maternity leave ran out because they'd literally have been kicked out of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:19 AM
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I dunno man. I worked hospitality back in the day. It was usually women working the floor. They would inevitably be asked “what do you really want to do?" Fine if she was a student working her way through uni. Pretty condescending if she was a hospo professional. Strangely, my underpaid arse on the grill never got the same questions. We can talk about outmoded expectations on men to be breadwinners; or the only metric of a job’s value being measured in money - but that’s a different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:11 AM
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I…what..? Dude - I was agreeing with you. There’s a lot of dads out there receiving effusive praise for doing the bare minimum. I’m saying that there’s a lot of those dads who think that attitude is incredibly cringe and wish people would stop. Like - if someone says they’re “babysitting” the kids, you see their faces drop. None of this takes away from acknowledging the thankless shit mums do everyday and get zero recognition for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:58 AM
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No - but why is that the standard. I know a lot of dads who took extended periods (6-24 months) away from work when their kids were little. I know quite a few dads with higher-earning wives/partners who are the primary caregivers. These aren’t dudes looking for a cookie. They find praise for basic parenting either embarrassing or condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:19 AM
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The dads I know aren’t exactly wild about it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:45 AM
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Oh for sure. I’m not about telling you how your bits work. But for men, penetrative sex feels drastically different to wanking - even if the end result is the same. I assume that a fleshlight is attempting to replicate the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:34 AM
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I mean - in my experience, most women can get off without anything dick-shaped being involved; so I’m not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:25 AM
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The rules are the same. The context is different. That’s why it’s context dude. We praise a single mum from a poor background for taking care of her kids well - cos that shit’s hard in her context. Hell - in some cases, it’s borderline heroic. We’d consider an average single dude who can pay his rent on time a functional adult. Context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:23 AM
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I find young dudes are better at performatively self-flagellating, spiralling and sulking for their failings more than the girls; if that’s what you mean. What tends to make them act better is feeding them on praise. Everyone thinks young guys respond best to a “stern father”-figure whose praise is rare and precious. I think that’s bullshit, and only encourages guys who are naturally gifted and bloody-minded. I think an “encouraging big brother”-figure who is patient, corrects gently and praises…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:36 AM
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I mean - I’ve never used a fleshlight, but I assume it’s a different sensation to just batting off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:30 AM
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Tell me you’ve never had to train young men without telling me you’ve never had to train young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:51 AM
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I love how you clowns consider that every piece of poor judgement, misfortune or just bad luck must come with donning a hair shirt and resigning oneself to a lifetime of shame and apologising for one’s existence. And if you do take steps to improve your life, you’d better expect to be hectored for it the whole time - reminding you that you’re actually a piece of shit who’s only allowed to show your face under sufferance, and to be grateful for whatever scraps fall from your betters’ tables. I fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:50 AM
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Dude - all of these examples (bar the sex toy one - we’re still weird about male sex toys) are hyperbolic bullshit. I’ve lost jobs before. I had to go out and find work that was a comedown (going from installing $40M HVAC systems to hanging blinds and building fences is quite a step back); but not fucken once did anyone express anything but support and sympathy. Some even expressed praise for not giving in to despair. Ditto friends who’ve had to go do menial labour, drive Uber or Deliveroo after…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:41 AM
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Some of you people really think you personally lose something by telling someone else they’re doing a good job, doncha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:11 AM
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You can track the state of the economy by the number of times a woman tries to sell you popcorn as you walk to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:09 AM
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Alright. Take the “strong independent woman” trope. That comes from women - usually single mothers from poor backgrounds, frequently of colour and with poor educations - working hard to support their family, improving their circumstances, or even just surviving, without the assistance of a man. That’s tough man. It deserves a shout out. Some single guy has a job and can pay rent on time? Yep - functional adult. Same goes for the Shielas. Put the same single guy in the situation of our “strong in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:06 AM
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Nah. I’m on keto.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:59 AM
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Dude - sounds like you’re watching a very specific type of women’s dating advice. It’s out there alright - but it doesn’t reflect the desire of your average chick looking for a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:50 AM
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Another post where a terp invents scenarios in his head and gets very mad at them. The scenarios you’ve listed have context to them; which you terps inevitably fail to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:48 AM
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From the outside looking in - being hot, usually. That’s not a swipe at the gals. We all do it. I have a couple of very good-looking male and female friends. It’s nuts how many random people will find an excuse to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:43 AM
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Everyone's gotta drop a pinger before entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:35 AM
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Some women do too. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:26 AM
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I have friends in their 20s. I have friends in their 50s. But what makes a good friend doesn’t necessarily make a good partner. Ideally, there’s a level of intimacy there that you don’t get anywhere else. And that intimacy takes time and effort to build It’s easier to build deep intimacy with someone who has similar cultural and social cues to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:54 AM
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I'm mid 40s. The age gap in my relationship is about 3 months. If I were to become single again (God fucken forbid), I wouldn't really give a toss about age if the compatibility was there. But it's a hell of a lot easier to find things in common with people your own age. I just don't know what I'd have in common with someone in their 20s. And I'm guessing that a lot of women in their 30s are looking to start a family and that ain't me. And women in their late 50s are starting to eyeball retireme…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:15 AM
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You’re a team now. There’s no reason you can’t have your own accounts for your own expenses (in fact, that’s usually a good idea - it saves resentment around buying things that your partner might see as frivolous). But this is a group effort. If you are the main earner, that’s what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:23 PM
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It’s not really paternity leave. It’s unpaid (or taken a long service leave) for a start. Some of the boys quit their jobs if they were taking a year or more off. Regardless, taking time away from work for child rearing is a privilege. There’s very few women who can afford to take periods greater than six months off for maternity leave. Most can’t afford to take any time off at all. A year off is about as close to being a full time SAHM/D as most people get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:19 PM
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It’s only going to be a problem if one of you decides to make it one. My missus is a lawyer. She has always outearned me. Sometimes by a lot. That’s never been an issue. I’m very proud of her accomplishments - but she’s always been glad to have a practical husband who can fix things and keep up to the housework because she works long hours. OTOH, I have friends who split because she earned big money, and he was a lowly blue-collar guy. He did most of the housework and childcare, but she wanted a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:24 AM
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Pretty much all my mates with kids have taken at least one extended (6 month+) period off work to be stay at home Dads. Opinion was split on whether they couldn’t wait to get back to work, or wished they’d been able to take more time. But all of them said it was an incredibly positive experience and they’re all glad they took the career hit to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:14 AM
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I am begging you to talk to some real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:40 PM
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Why do you even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:51 AM
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I dunno. I think it’d be way easier for you terps to stop acting like miserable little bridge trolls convinced that some Illuminati-like cult of blue-haired feminazis are preventing you from taking your rightful place as masters of the universe. Baby steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:49 AM
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Every fucken time. No men can’t get taller, but only a tiny percentage of people who attempt to lose weight keep it off. Regardless - just because it’s possible to lose weight, it’s not an excuse to treat fat people like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:40 AM
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Girlboss or Tradwife. The two genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:09 AM
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Yes. Was anyone arguing that we shouldn't? (NB - actual people. Not the feminazis you've invented in your head to get mad at.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:06 AM
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Then one would think that "below average, short, small peen" men would show some kind of solidarity with the fat girls out there - even if they didn't want to date them - for being fellow travellers. But lol no. Getting treated badly in dating for an aspect of yourself that you can't really change sucks. Maybe show a little compassion to others instead of whining that ackshully you've got it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:03 AM
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My man telling on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:58 AM
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You do have to suck up the fact that while you might be a worthy dude, most chicks aren’t going to be into you (and that’s for a huge variety of reasons). Exactly, and ask yourself why this is so normalized and acceptable for women to be this entitled and delusional? Because women are people; with tastes and preferences? Chicks aren’t walking around with Terminator-vision, analysing every guy’s match for a series of quantifiable stats. You’re in the fickle world of emotions, my man. Regardless -…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:13 PM
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lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:07 PM
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Dude - you’re not a collection of stats. You’re a person. You might be an incredible boyfriend on paper, but if there’s not that mysterious alchemy that makes attraction, it’s not gonna happen. Now - we can talk about what online dating has done to some peoples brains; but it’s just kinda the background radiation of dating now - and I would argue not as different from how things were before as you might think. You do have to suck up the fact that while you might be a worthy dude, most chicks are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:19 PM
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I find it’s mostly that dudes won’t shoot their shot because they’re convinced that she’d never consider a shorter-than-her guy. Strangely, it’s the tall gals who seem to be way less fussy on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:30 AM
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I dunno dude. All the tall women I know have no shortage of admirers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:10 AM
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I'm not sure it's that simple. I think they're either considering things they like about their friends without considering whether that'd be a desirable quality in a man. For example - I reckon a lot of women *think* a dude with a similar emotional vocabulary to a woman would be excellent at communicating; without considering that communication goes in both directions. As in - that *might* be good. It can also be *fucking exhausting*. I know a couple of bi women who've said that sometimes what d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:04 AM
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I have a bunch of single girl friends. Most of them are very accomplished, well put-together and successful. They're nice people. They have their shit together. They have a range of interests, are close to friends and family and are cool to hang out with. But I can tell you *exactly* why each one is single. What makes you a good friend doesn't make you a good partner. Lotta chicks don't seem to grasp that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:02 AM
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Nah. Tate's message isn't "try hard". It's "The only way to have any self-respect is to demean others". It's a fucken miserable way to live. As for womens' life advice? There's a hell of a lot less "use men" than there is "get into a financial position where you don't need a man". Don't get me wrong - there's some execrable advice out there if you care to look for it; but I don't think Sprinkle Sprinkle is anything but a curiosity for the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:54 AM
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Dude, the "feminine energy" stuff is just telling women to be more passive in dating. Supposedly men won't wife up a gal who takes the initiative now and then. The actual advice varies from the sane (don't chase men who don't chase you back), to the questionable (never pay for anything, expect him do all the work), to the demented (sprinkle sprinkle).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:01 AM
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The Fematrix Christ you terps say some absolutely hysterical bullshit sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:53 AM
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Because our tastes differ. I like nerdy twinks? Like sign me up for it. Some other people may not be into that. Some women like gym guys. I would pass on a gym guy. Like different folks different strokes. Silly woman. You are incorrect. There is only one type of attractive man. I heard it on a podcast, so it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:50 AM
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I've enjoyed watching the percentage of men that women find attractive shrink from 20% to 1%. Whatever you boys need to tell yourselves to stop feeling bad that Tinder isn't Doordash for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:47 AM
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Warbrides is very informative. How so? They're looking for a ticket out of a wrecked and poor place with few prospects? Can't imagine why a man from a wealthy foreign country would look like a pretty fucken good option...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:44 AM
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"If these godamned whores would stop being so picky and just start breeding"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:40 AM
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*Bangs head on desk* Yes. FFS yes. Why are any of you shocked by this? On the flipside, any of you boys out there who've had the experience of dating a hot chick will know that most of them are crashing bores.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:44 AM
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You know what I just said about hysterical bullshit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:24 AM
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I dunno about you folks, but I need stage makeup, a lighting rig and a full camera crew before I’ll even think about seeing if the missus wants to do some bed-wrestling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:10 AM
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Wat? Pretty sure we’re still 50% of the population mate. That’s quite the constituency. People would take you terps more seriously if you stopped saying hysterical bullshit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:08 AM
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Dude - why are you expecting women to mom us out of our problems? Lift up your brother. As men, we’ve been pitted against each other for the gain of a bunch of people at the top who would feed any of us into a furnace without even thinking about it. The girls don’t have their boot on your neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:48 PM
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Dude - the problem with online dating advice is that there’s no frame of reference for your life. Actually helpful dating advice needs knowledge of your specific situation. The majority of online bluepill dating advice is frustrating because it’s true without being useful. You mentioned the old saw “be confident”. It’s so non-specific you’re left trying to decode what “confident” means in your context. Worse still, confidence has to be developed; an we want solutions now. It’s no wonder the PUA …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:35 PM
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There's a secret third option where you get a girlfriend you love and respect for who they are, and ignore the weird terp bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:24 AM
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Because human attraction is more complicated that who has the best stats. This isn't an RPG. This isn't a meritocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:22 AM
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I seriously don't get why you mfs are so het up about being nice. You should be nice. People like it when you're nice. Hell - being nice is a desirable quality. Women won't tolerate you being a prick for very long - even if you're otherwise attractive to them. But being nice alone won't make you attractive. Why is this so fucking hard for you guys to wrap your brains around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:19 AM
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"I was a weenie with no discernable personality traits apart from 'agreeable'. I got no play. This is womens' fault". How many fucken times do we have to read this whining. If you're charismatic, good looking and rich, you're dating on easy mode. If you're awkward, plain and broke, it's gonna be tough. My god some of you seem shocked by the bleeding obvious. If you get frustrated by women making shitty romantic choices and then whining about it you can just stop listening to other peoples' drama…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:53 AM
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Dude - the overwhelming majority of our history didn’t involve police, and we formed functional and flourishing societies. People don’t behave pro-socially solely for fear of being dragged away by the jacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:19 PM
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Dude - come the fuck on. They're bellowing it from the rooftops. Do you engage with any media produced by women - or do you only read terp cry-wanking? How much confessional verbiage have women spewed onto the internet bemoaning their shitty choices in men based largely on them being hot. My God - try to fucking stop them. The word "fuckboy" exists for a reason. Bad Idea, Right by Olivia Rodrigo charted for a reason. Hell - they've been writing songs about this exact fucking thing for decades. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:36 AM
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Well...yeah. Would you be happy to date a woman you're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:21 AM
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Dude - if you wanna stay single, no-one will stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:02 AM
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Counter examples aren’t hard to find. https://www.newsweek.com/real-lord-flies-true-story-boys-island-william-golding-humankind-human-nature-rutger-bregman-1503204 Hell - it’s been studied: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8653327/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:11 PM
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Dump a bunch of people on a desert island with no cops or tech, and they'll tend to co-operate. This is borne out in real-life examples of strandings and emergencies. Co-operation tends to lead to the best outcomes. We're not two seconds away from The Purge at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:34 AM
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Is it the ones who are choking their girlfriends during sex without consent? Is it the ones making deepfake porn of their female peers? Because I hope they're deeply ashamed of their sexuality. They could do with a hefty dose of shame and self-disgust. I honestly think that's part of the same complex that leads a lot of young guys to be totally unable to approach women. These guys are so utterly alienated from a sexuality that's in any way authentic or connected to their actual desires, that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:05 AM
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The kids do be chronically online, tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:59 AM
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Dude - you're going to have to find a way to get past this kind of thinking. There's a very real possibility that you're going to make a woman momentarily uncomfortable if you talk to her and she's not down to clown. That's okay. We don't get to go through life frictionlessly moving by one another. That's not an excuse to be a huge creep, not take no for an answer, or be aggressive when she tries to politely demur; but you're allowed to say hi to that cute chick at the bar. You just have to be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:58 AM
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I think there’s merit both for and against Veneer Theory; though my background is more in molecular biology than psych or evolutionary biology - so I’m not particularly well-qualified to comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:33 AM
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I’m inclined to think that the greater part of “human nature” is our inclination to form societies. The reductive view of human nature is that we’re greedy, grasping, selfish and amoral. I think that’s extremely myopic. If it were true, we’d be bad at forming stable societies. We seem to be geared towards living in groups and getting along with each other pretty well on the whole. IMO, hyper individualism is an aberration
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:45 PM
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As I alluded to - dopamine and oxytocin are specific chemicals with very non-specific functions. They are associated with the emotions and behaviours you’ve described; but that doesn’t in any way mean they’re causal. You’ve read some pop science bullhonky about the magical powers of two common hormones, poorly understood it, come up with a frankly baffling argument, and now you’re getting butthurt when people (with some modicum of scientific knowledge) tell you that it’s just not how hormones wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:39 AM
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And my point is that endocrinology is a fuckload more complicated than oxytocin=bonding. If it were that simple we’d just give people hormone therapy to fix relationship issues. Hormones are extremely blunt instruments that perform many different functions. You can’t map them to emotions. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:24 AM
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The endocrinology understander has logged on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:26 PM
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That being the case, she just needs another hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:02 AM
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Unclear how a bit of casual trolling makes you a sociopath, but sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:58 AM
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That’s not rhetoric - just observation. I’m 100% sincere in my praise and enjoying the russled jimmies in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:02 PM
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This is some top-notch bait. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:00 PM
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Dude - the feminists I know personally and thus hold any kind of influence over are uniformly reasonable people. What “man haters” am I supposed to “hold accountable”? Rage-baiting tiktokkers saying things that make you sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:05 PM
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Porque no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:31 AM
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So presumably the entire second wave of feminism was just hurt feelings and unrealistic expectations, then? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:30 AM
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You are such a white knight bro. Modern society favors women in almost every single way. Domestic violence, gender quotas aka discrimination against men, conscription targeting men only, the list goes on. Did you have chatGPT write this, or is it all your own work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:29 AM
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Can you give some examples of these things that were ok in the 1960’s. I am begging you to read one book; but off the top of my head: Marital rape, marriage bars to employment, no legislation of equal wages, no right for women to own property without male approval, no Title IX, no employment protections from sexual harassment or retaliation, no common law protection of abortion rights (cough). That list isnt even remotely exhaustive; and these are rights that have been won since.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:06 PM
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I am begging you to log off the femcel forums and go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:01 PM
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Dude - if your entire exposure to feminism is Ben Shapiro owns crazy feminist with logic and reason videos…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:00 PM
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Well…yeah. That’s just another facet of the feminist view of patriarchy. Society is structured in a way that benefits men over women, and assumes male dominion over women. Obviously that’s been breaking down thanks to the efforts of feminists - shit that flew in the 1960s doesn’t fly now - but it’s still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:58 PM
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I dunno man. I don’t consume OF, and I’m not agin it. If that’s what a gals gotta do to secure the bag, that’s what she’s gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:47 PM
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Dude - this is pretty much the middle-of-the-road feminist view of patriarchy. Feminism says that patriarchy benefits men, but not uniformly and in all areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:41 AM
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Why not? I’m a man. I like men. Some of my best friends are men. I’m also inclined to believe that if you go looking for reasons to believe men are dogs, you’re going to find them; for the exact same reason that dudes looking for evidence that women are gold-digging whores will too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:26 AM
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Most men are dogs 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:35 PM
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Where are these women just blindly accepting the fact that they’re only desired for sex? Men might be aware of the fact that part of our desirability is tied up in our wealth - and hell, we can even use that to our advantage in dating - but we don’t need to be thrilled about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:32 PM
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Or you could go to the pub that plays music you like and just talk to some people without making a big deal of it. A lot of dudes struggle because they get waaay too invested in the outcome of approaching a woman. You get better at talking to girls by talking to girls. You can just have a low-stakes chat without being all sweaty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:11 PM
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“She must like rings”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:05 AM
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You can say this to an individual. When the problem is on a societal scale, it shows societal failure. Well, yeah. But I don’t feel like most guys are wandering around crippled by dick anxiety. It’s just an ambient feature of mens’ general insecurity and affects us all to some extent; though I’d hardly call it a “societal failure”. Better sex education would already do a lot, and public sensibilisation to body image problems for both guys and girls would do even more. I think we’re in agreement …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:04 PM
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And I'm saying that dick insecurity is mostly a product of your mind. If you go looking for reasons to be insecure, you'll undoubtedly find them - particularly in an age of social media, ragebait and endless porn. At a certain point, it's on you to get past your insecurities, not for the rest of the world to tiptoe around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:26 AM
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I do so enjoy terp fart-sniffing about their encyclopedic knowledge of human nature. Particularly feeeeeeemale nature. I wanna know more about what makes women tick; I'll hang around with women, rather than reading terp brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:19 AM
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the morally bankrupt ones don't hesitate to use guys' tendency to complex on the subject against them How so, and to what end? If you're referring to the occasional dickhead on TikTok doing rage bait - ignore it and stop feeding the trolls. If the girls wanna do the corollary of incel roastie memes, feel free to laugh at them and their sour grapes. If you're referring to an ex slandering your shitty bedroom game, that isn't anything even remotely new.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:16 AM
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They were derided - for the most part - for being either grifty, grotesquely sexist, or both. A few of them actually gave some reasonable advice; but so much of it was buried in the nascent wave of online misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:10 AM
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The occasional size queen aside, dudes are a million time more pressed about the size of their dicks than women will ever be. Your dick is an ensemble player, not the star.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:04 AM
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“I’ve read hundreds of thousands of words of terp brainrot, and I know the nature of the modern woman…”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:13 PM
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All the damn time. I’m at a gig and I see a guy alone, I’ll go say hi in the breaks between bands. I’ve met friends and started bands that way. I’ll have a yarn with the other guys at the plumbing supplier. I’ll chat with the other tradies on-site. I’ll talk to people in line at the grocer. Socialising is a muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:21 PM
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This sounds like bdsm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:17 PM
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Log off, go outside, talk to some people who aren’t chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:16 PM
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Dude - saying hi to someone and having a slightly awkward conversation isn’t going to get you in any sort of trouble. Being a sleaze might (but almost certainly won’t). If you’re even remotely socially competent, it’s easy to tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:29 AM
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Yeah - dudes should think twice before just marching up to a chick and trying to spit game. But saying hi to a girl at the bar, or who you see on campus, or somewhere public - why not say hello? You’re just trying to have a low-stakes human interaction - not get into her pants. The print guys make with approaching women is getting too het up about the outcome. If you start talking and it gets a little flirty, then ask for her number. This is basic social calibration. You learn through experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:58 AM
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A lot of men (particularly on this sub) bought the breathless whining that saying hi to a cute girl would get you bundled into the back of an unmarked van by the feminazi Stasi. You can go say hi to a girl. Just try to have a normal human interaction and leave if you get the feeling she’d rather be somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:17 AM
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Quite frankly, a lot of dudes needed the Riot Act read. The biggest consequence of MeToo was a bunch of boomer men having to learn to watch their mouths outside the locker room. No bad thing, IMO. I can live without Kevin’s opinions on “modern women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:36 AM
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Mate - most dudes are really bad at being stoic. Lotta drywall needs patching as a result. We’re given a terrible education in emotional literacy, can’t even name our feelings, and cram everything negative emotion we feel into the anger bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:13 PM
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Dude - this is a story I keep hearing; but it’s just not the truth across the board. It’s absolutely true for some women - they uphold patriarchal norms as much as men; but talk to guys in relationships, and they’ll admit that their biggest source of emotional succour is their partner. That becomes a problem when she’s the only source. She ends up carrying two loads. It’s also a problem when guys are so starved of emotional outlets, that they vomit their unprocessed emotions on a new partner bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:05 PM
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Maybe figure out what your girl like and do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:49 PM
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Well yeah - but maybe don’t vomit your unprocessed emotions all over her at the first available opportunity then act confused when she’s overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:45 PM
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“Why would a woman expect me to have anything in common with her before she lets me tough her boobs?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:42 PM
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They were. I was there. Dudes here are acting like the attractive guys didn’t get most of the play back in the day. Most of us struggled. It’s nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:53 PM
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Autistic freaks on Reddit think about SMV. Normal people just want someone who’s nice to them and they like hanging with. Just have boundaries and go talk to some boys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:43 PM
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The most autistic answer you could have come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:33 PM
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If it walks like a duck…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:44 AM
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Most dating questions from terps boil down to “why isn’t Tinder just Doordash for pussy?” And come to the conclusion that it must be a conspiracy of feminists to keep their sexual goodies locked away from you specifically. Bluepillers are offering advice on how to pursue a relationship with someone you like and respect. Terps want advice on how to hack womens’ brains so they can be used as a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:13 AM
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Nah. We mostly view them as sad little freaks who need to go outside more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:06 AM
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No you don’t. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:55 PM
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Not 100% sure what proposition we’re supposed to be debating here…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:55 PM
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They like to say there aren’t any leaders, because every terp “influencer” is on a countdown to when they get found out as a pathetic little sad-act, criminal, grifter or (more often) some combination of the three. You need to be able to disavow these weirdoes on a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:52 PM
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Dude - where bluepillers provide actual advice, terps and blackpillers just start hooting about their unfuckable skull shape and muh hYpErGaMy. Why wouldn’t we troll you occasionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:48 PM
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I lived with a couple of French chicks many years ago. There was nothing “effortless” about it. They seemed to live entirely on cigarettes and boiled potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:18 AM
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Where dudes talk about women refusing to acknowledge the existence of all but the top x% of guys, they’re finding a comforting justification for their miserable strike rate on Tinder. Where dating apps aren’t Doordash for pussy, they act like the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. Of course, they’d never try anything different to meet women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:55 PM
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These mfs are scared of girls. They're about half a second from having a meltdown if they ever work up the guts to talk to a woman, so of course they come across as deeply off-putting. As for the chicks in here writing "never talk to me in public" - they really need to stop listening to so many true crime podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:06 AM
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"Trolls don't bother me." Proceeds to write 1000 words on how trolls bother him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:00 AM
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Another very normal take from the terps on PPD...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:03 AM
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There’s a difference between a pastime that’s genuinely attractive and one that’s considered healthy. For instance, I like hand tool woodworking. That’s definitely considered healthy, but it’s a bit hipster dad for chicks to think it’s attractive. I like ultra running, but that’s a bit hardcore for your average parkrunner. Ive also done volunteer work with Food Not Bombs - that was definitely something that got women interested. But - for fucks sake - get into hobbies because you’re interested i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:50 PM
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Am I doing something wrong? I never see this shit on my feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:09 AM
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There’s a world of difference between a bloke who earns a bit more than her, and a bloke who can plunge her back into developing-country poverty if she doesn’t have citizenship, a solid social network and enough money to afford a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:09 AM
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Christ some of you chicks are weird. This isn’t the 2014 manosphere. The wall isn’t a thing. People get into relationships at every age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:37 PM
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Pearl isn’t unattractive. She’s no stunner, just a pretty normal looking chick. What’s holding her back is being extremely off-putting and awkward outside her canned lines. If she was even vaguely normal, she’d have a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:32 PM
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I am begging you to read anything that’s not misogynist agitprop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:28 PM
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Yeah - cause 99% of the time, it’s some weird guy looking for a place where he’s got leverage over women. You almost never see these expats going out of their way to learn the local customs or language. It’s just some creepy dude. FWIW - I know a guy with a Thai wife. They met while he was working in Thailand. They’re bilingual at home, as are their kids. They’re constantly jetting over there to visit family. No-one is calling him a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:23 PM
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Choice feminism? We haven’t been doing that since the girlboss era mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:03 PM
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It’s funny. The women I know with genuinely high-flying careers (senior diplomats, surgeons, c-suite corpos) all have husbands they adore who have less traditionally “successful” careers. They never had big problems dating. They are - to a woman - funny, empathetic, considerate and an all-round blast to hang out with. The “boss babes” I’ve met are inevitably painfully insecure, monomaniacal weirdoes who can’t step outside their work persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:07 PM
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Almost as if the feminists might have a point when they say “Patriarchy harms men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:58 PM
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Dudes who are in absolutely no danger of getting laid say it. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:57 PM
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Yeah. They’re teaching Herland in high school. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:27 AM
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Maureen Dowd wrote a book. Andrew Tate is a grifter and (allegedly) a rapist and sex trafficker. These are not remotely equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:26 AM
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Dude - this isn’t “The World”. It’s a couple of women writing provocative books. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:54 AM
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A couple of obscure books written 60 years apart isn’t exactly a trend, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:07 AM
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There’s the thing - beyond the obvious (kids, dogs, etc) - I just don’t think the pre-filtering stuff works. It’s pretty easy to see if a guy meets some really obvious criteria; but there’s no accounting for deception. A guy can hide his anti-social tendencies for quite a while if he’s suitably determined. A guy can call you his girlfriend and ghost you the next day. By the same token, you might have an ironclad “standard” that suddenly seems a hell of a lot less important when measured across a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:24 PM
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Reviews are a horrible idea. Guys who are generally nice and respectful, but not your type won’t get a review. Guys who actually check your boxes and you start a relationship (short or long) won’t get a review. Guys who get nervous and say or do something weird will get branded with the “creepy” scarlet letter - even if they’re otherwise pretty normal guys. Genuinely bad dudes will have an absolute ball with libel laws. No. Fucks sake no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:08 PM
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You’re supposed to have deal-breakers. That’s being practical. But can you really compartmentalise your feelings until you’ve checked every box on your list? And how do you assess that list? You might as well have people fill out a questionnaire before they’re allowed to see your Hinge profile. The search for love is filled with disappointment, hurt and humiliation. We don’t get to turn ourselves into Teflon-coated individuals sliding frictionlessly past one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:56 PM
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Not at all. But trying to logic yourself through a realm where feelings rule the day seems kinda sad to me. I’m not saying don’t have your guard up a bit - but love is a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:06 PM
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Fuck me thats grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:12 AM
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WW: “I know what women want based on never leaving my bedroom and never meeting a single woman”. Women “wat?” WW: “women are lying to you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:06 AM
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I’m Australian. Obviously there are cultural differences; but we’re not a billion miles apart vis-a-vis dating. If surveys are anything to go by, we’re having slightly more casual sex than Americans. This doesn’t seem to be a huge problem. And as I’ve said before on this sub - if anyone could come up with a workable definition of what the fuck constitutes “simping”, we could discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:14 AM
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I live in a country with legal prostitution. It hasn’t “balanced” the dating market (whatever the fuck that means). People are still lonely and frustrated and seeking genuine connection. Almost as if sex isn’t what we’re actually seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:13 PM
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Wheat waffles. A notably normal guy not at all regurgitating blackpill talking points and studies he hasn’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:49 PM
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Okay. Sure. Dudes should have a little self respect. But I got told that taking a woman on a date you put any kind of thought into was simping on this very sub. It seems like some guys think that all interactions with women have to be governed by a double entry ledger with painfully short terms. Sometimes you gotta put yourself out there a bit. Sure, it can be kinda humiliating when it doesn’t pay off, but that’s the game we’re playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:09 PM
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If anyone here had a satisfactory definition of simping, I’d probably agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:43 PM
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Girls who are “sharing” bail on that situation the second they cotton on to the fact. You mentioned “are we dating the same guy” groups. There’s your fucken proof. Where it happens, It’s not a desirable or even consensual arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:06 AM
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Dude - a simple drink is pretty much all I’m talking about. You can extend it to food if the date is going well. There’s no need to push the boat out on a first date; but you’ll have a better strike rate if you can convince the girl you’re at least slightly excited to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:31 PM
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Dude - we’ve all got a bunny-boiler story. You can’t avoid the occasional unhinged freak; but acting like that’s the rule is just tripping over your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:50 AM
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I literally invented a scenario as an illustration of the sort of thing you’d find on a woman’s dating profile. But fine. Sushi, tacos or pizza. Notably food that associated with white tablecloths, Michelin Stars and four-figure bills. You can turn that prompt into a dog and pony show if you want to trip over your own dick - or you can just be normal about it. Bro - go to the taco truck, bring a cooler with a couple of beers and some lime wedges and have a nice chat. Buy that cute girl a goddamn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:41 AM
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Well - yeah. Do you like any computer game, or do you like a specific computer game? If you like Fromsoft games, and someone says “candy crush is a game. Close enough.” You’re probably gonna feel a bit cheated. But if someone says “hey - there’s this weird indie souls-like I think is cool as hell. Wanna try it? You’re gonna think - “fuck yes. Let’s do that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:22 AM
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Why are there so many dudes here horrified by the idea that they might be required to put a modicum of effort into dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:36 AM
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Bro you can put in as little effort as you like. You have my blessing. Go with God.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:53 AM
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OMFG dude there is a third way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:51 AM
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There’s always the option of swiping left dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:04 AM
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I don’t believe all women. Some of you bitches are very dumb. I’m writing about TikTok women because there’s a major strain of dudes on this subreddit who seem to think that’s what women in real life are like; mostly because they badly need to log off and go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:16 AM
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No it doesn’t. TikTok isn’t real. It’s people bloviating. I will lay money on the barrelhead that these hooting TikTok Sheilas would cheerfully grab a glass of wine with a nice dude they’re interested in and call it a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:00 AM
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Presumably you’ve had some kind of text chat on the app. As a guy - are you really going on so many dates that you don’t have the energy to put a tiny bit of thought into a date? If you are, I’d suggest you can afford to be a little fussier in who you’re going on dates with. Like - she made some kind of reference to almond croissants in her profile. You say “hey - I know a great bakery down by the river. Wanna get an almond croissant and go for a walk?” It’s low-stakes and she feels seen. Easy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:57 PM
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Yeah; but chicks want to feel a bit special on a date. That’s doesn’t mean the dude has to go completely nuts; but she’d at least like to feel like he’s interested in her rather than some interchangeable woman-unit. It’s seriously not that hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:38 PM
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I think the beef with coffee dates is that they’re seen as low-effort and unimaginative. I know women who like them for the reasons you suggested - they’re low pressure and a good way to get a first impression of a guy in the flesh. But I’ve got a friend who fucking hates them. She says it feels like a business meeting. Notably - no-one wants a big fancy dinner date as a first date. Far too-high stakes and long. There are women on TikTok demanding fancy dinners as first dates - but they’re no mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:21 PM
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I thought pornsick was more a reference to mens unrealistic sexual expectations of women and nascent ED, rather than physical expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:48 PM
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The single mums I know are up against it to get a date with any guy; let alone one who’ll cater to a laundry list of financial demands. That said, any guy who’s in a hurry to meet the kids - sus as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:41 PM
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Dude - you’re not the only greybeard here. Life is significantly better with friends you can share your feelings with and a partner you want to be good to and who is good to you. You’re selling Divorced Dad as a desirable lifestyle. Every guy I know who buys into this manly man stuff is a miserable wreck of a human. If it genuinely works for you, go with God. But I’ve seen very little evidence of it doing anything but leaving a trail of misery and dead blokes our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:59 AM
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Or you could be normal. Being vulnerable with your friends or nice to your girlfriend won’t make you gay, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:34 AM
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So lean into the loneliness and alienation that’s killing men because manliness. <slow clap>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:22 AM
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Dude - it’s Reddit. He can make up any cock-and-bull story he likes. The stakes are absolutely fucking zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:19 AM
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You think men can’t be attracted to you till they’ve got to know you first? Like - I get that you don’t want every horny dude who takes a fancy to you coming up and creeping on you, or getting harassed every time you step outside; but the occasional guy making an effort to talk to you hardly seems like the worst thing that could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:50 PM
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If you’re going to mention Calvinism, at least do it correctly. If you must relate Calvinism to romance, it’s a blackpill view - i.e. your “salvation” is predestined (if you’re not Chad, you’re fucked).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:25 PM
0

If you told her upfront you only wanted something casual, and she ignored it, that’s on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:11 PM
1

If you’ve got options, maybe you’re less “not hot” than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:36 PM
1

Eye of the beholder, dude. Anyway - we all start as strangers. A guy trying to get your number is, in effect, saying “I think you’re cute. I’d like to know if you’re cool too”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:25 AM
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My missus would definitely call herself a feminist - so nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:20 AM
10

Dry up. The UK is hilariously far from becoming a Muslim country, no matter how much hooting the Sun does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:05 AM
-1

Well - presumably you believe all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:07 AM
-2

This definitely happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:05 AM
-1

Dude - if you said hi to a random chick at a bar, you absolutely did not get bailed up by the Jacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:07 AM
2

almost got arrested Sure you did champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:22 PM
8

God no - that’s even worse! I mean - you won’t have a bad time, but you’re gonna have a hell of a time “getting there”…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:47 PM
12

I know some. They make good couples. But as a dating strategy “friends first” is a horrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:04 AM
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You should be on a watchlist mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:01 AM
2

Sorry ladies. None of you can afford me 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:23 PM
1

Self improvement is to improve one’s life. Being more attractive to women is a second order benefit. And as a mid 40s man - why would I be interested in a woman in her 20s? She might look good, but we are at completely different stages of our life. Sounds fucken awful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:36 AM
2

You guys sure are mad that chicks have inner lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:25 AM
1

JFC. Dudes aren’t just not grasping the point, they’re wilfully refusing to grasp it. If a chick says they’d rather be alone with a wild animal than some strange man; maybe it behooves you to pause for a moment and wonder why that is; instead of bloviating on why ackshully - you would statistically be better to trust a man You don’t get to skate through life having things gently explained to you like you’re a precious toddler with a mum and dad committed to gentle parenting. You fucking terps lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:05 PM
0

Blue haired they/them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:51 AM
3

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:50 AM
5

Yo - Ali sounds hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:49 AM
13

If this is the dating pool, I get why you gals wanna stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:33 PM
28

These MFs have internalised the idea of the only boss being a “my way or the highway” dickhead. An actually good boss is a consensus builder who lifts people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:30 PM
1

Like it or not mate, we’re bigger, stronger and more aggro. We are scary. We’re Schrödinger’s rapist to women. I don’t like it any more than you. Whining about misandry won’t make it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:24 PM
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If your mates are spineless, that's on you. Thankfully, my divorced mates have busted up for reasons other than infidelity. Standing on the outside looking in when your mates split is a hard place to be - especially if you've become friendly with their ex. I'll 100% listen to my mates vent about their frustrations and anger with their ex; but it's quite frankly unhealthy to indulge that anger for too long - it's a barrier to healing and moving on. We've all seen the Divorced Guy who just can't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:00 AM
1

"Men are scary". "No we're not. You're making shit up." Can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:53 AM
1

Race, class and income are signifiers of cultural similarities. These all intermix to some extent, but people tend to stick to what’s familiar. As a middle-class white kid, I definitely wasn’t averse to dating outside my race, class and income (and I did) - but I settled with a girl from a similar background. I was definitely not an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:28 AM
1

I seriously don’t get how so many dudes can’t grasp this. It’s not about a bear. It was never about a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:50 PM
1

dating almost always starts as an exchange of resources for sex. This is so terminally economics-brained. Dating starts as seeing whether you like each other if you’re normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:43 PM
1

VR is a cute toy. Not remotely a replacement for human contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:37 AM
6

lol no. We’re stuck talking to each other for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:35 AM
31

the price of vagina has sky rocketed Some of you guys are really struggling with being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:34 AM
9

Do I live in some parallel universe? I’ve never had a woman bat an eyelid at splitting a bill, buying me a present or drinks. Sounds like a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:00 AM
0

Not an option for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:07 AM
1

If that’s true, they’ll work it out soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:23 PM
1

That you think you deserve hotter girls than you’re getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:55 PM
1

Then what do you have to whine about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:51 PM
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Am old. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:25 AM
3

Having boundaries and self respect doesn’t make you a bitch dude. It makes you a functional adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:24 AM
1

Has Madonna/Whore complex been trending on TikTok recently? Lotta people posting shit misunderstanding it in the last couple of weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:23 AM
5

Stop watching hoe math videos and talk to some girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:17 AM
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He’s just another red pill dickhead telling women they’re nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:23 AM
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“We know” is doing a lot of heavy lifting here mate. Average women don’t have a plethora of options. What they do tend to have is less difficulty getting casual sex than most men. Most of them just aren’t that interested - at least most of the time. The average woman doesn’t have a huge sea of eligible dudes waiting to wife them up. Just ask any average girl - they’re probably not looking for some mythical Chad. All the single girls I know just want a guy who does what he says he’s going to do, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:21 AM
1

I am begging you to be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:30 AM
0

I can differentiate. It's not hard. The major problem I have with people trying to define redpill beliefs as some kind of cogent philosophy is that it's all either: a) the sort of mild self-improvement prescriptions that you'll find in the self-help section of any bookshop on the planet (have boundaries, have some self-respect, be mindful of how you react to circumstances) b) virulent misogyny (paternalistic one-size-fits-all attitudes to women, viewing women as objects or an enemy to be outsmar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:53 PM
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It’s not Disney - it’s just not being weird because your life doesn’t look like some weird pornified fantasy, and women have needs of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:13 PM
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Oh my god this shit again. Women said “men are scary”, dudes were very normal about it and the discourse devolved into the usual brain rot. Pls stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:55 PM
4

Yep. I read so many posts here and think “have you ever talked to a woman, like - ever?”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:54 PM
1

Women aren’t for sale; but men still get to feel leery about women trying to scam them. If I take a gal out to dinner, I’d like her to be there because she’s there in good faith and wants to get to know me - not for free food. No one needs to react to getting scammed with equanimity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:32 PM
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How do you deal with the fact that you will always be ugly to a good chunk of women (or men) no matter what you change? Mostly by not expecting this shit to be fair and thus to stop comparing my life to other peoples'. I've got a friend I came up with. We shared a house for a couple of years. Dude was just a straight-up pants bandit. He loved women and they loved him. I dread to think what his body count is (though he's been married for 12 years of so, which probably put a crimp on things). I us…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:12 AM
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That's a real grim view for someone so young. I was your age when I met my wife. We've been together more than half our lives. Am I still attracted to her? Of course I am. What kind of question is that? But it's not because of how she looks in a bikini. We have over 20 years of building a life together. It's a different kind of attraction. It's a depth of knowing that only time and deep love will give you. There is no person in the world I esteem higher. That's an attraction that transcends any …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:48 AM
4

Spot on. Back in the day, I was part of my small city’s Drum and Bass scene. There was always this grey-haired dude with glasses who must have been in his 60s who showed up to events. Loved to bop around, was always friendly, never tried to scab drugs, was never inappropriate with any of the women, and was just a good hang. He was married, and not looking to pick up. He just liked the music. We called him Master Roshi. Everyone loved him. His vibes were immaculate, no matter how out of place he …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:38 AM
2

IKR - I love TTRPGs, and I was down to clown when I got invited to a Vampire larp. The energy was so off-putting that I noped out as early as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:29 AM
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Lol. no u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:56 AM
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It's just the Vampire ones that are... unique >_> Horny. Just not the good kind of horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:55 AM
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If a chubby single mum can find a dude of that description who wants boo her up - why not? She can be as hopeful as she likes. She's a grown-up lady. Let the girl live. Strangely enough the "you go girl" will be drowned out by the hooting about her delusional standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:53 AM
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And you can reply without tossing your toys out of the cot too. Fine. Just to humour you. "Joe" can date whoever he likes. With my blessing. Go gettem, you cypher for OP, you. If "Joe" is an average guy, and almost all women in his cohort aren't fat single mums, he'll be fine. In fact, I gather that fat single mums are extremely rare in his cohort. I mean, if the Feminazis Stasi that police his every move will allow him to, I suppose. Presumably he'll be dragged off to Gulag for Man Crime and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:47 AM
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Dude - you can date whoever you like. With my blessing. Go with God. Assuming your "minimum standards" are so ubiquitous, you shouldn't have any problems attracting a baddie - given that you are, presumably, quite the catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:25 AM
6

Yeah...but WoD chicks...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:52 AM
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Dude enjoys dancing and music. Let him enjoy dancing and music. He doesn't have to pick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:51 AM
2

It feels weirdly definitive to say “never”. In person, it might be a different story - I don’t know. The idea of changing her personality to some kind of ideal doesn’t make sense, because I don’t believe such a thing exists; and even if it did - would I even know what it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:41 AM
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This is such a weird question. So I can change her personality to anything - but not the way she looks, and then I have to date her? But I don’t t find her particularly physically attractive in this photo. Why would I date her if I’m not physically attracted to her? Why are you asking this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:12 AM
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What’s “natural” is a very slippery concept. We live in a social context that has far more influence on our behaviour than some vague notions of what’s “natural” (which we can’t agree on anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:05 AM
3

Fuck me that sounds like just further compounding your misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:25 AM
2

Meanwhile, dudes out here calling gaming a hobby…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:17 PM
2

… woke 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:33 PM
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Is it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:31 PM
2

Plenty of non-model gals out there aping the look. Power to em, but I’ll make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:31 PM
2

That was supposed to be sarcasm, but I guess people missed it. Chicks have hobbies, back in your box.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:29 PM
2

The full kardashian look will make me assume we won’t have much in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:42 PM
2

I love how terps twist themselves into rhetorical pretzels trying to define what alpha and beta mean, inventing a billion sub-taxonomies along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:59 AM
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Sometimes women fall for their male friends. Sometimes this is reciprocated. It’s nice to see when it happens. But it’s definitely not a dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:55 AM
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Girl hobbies are Instagram and make up. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:53 AM
8

I love when a terp makes a “checkmate, feminazis!” post, and everyone says “well…yeah dude…”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:50 AM
16

Dude - women are painfully aware of their closing window of fertility. You think chicks are out here furiously dating every eligible man and freezing their eggs for no good goddamn reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:27 AM
2

Insofar as “alpha” guys even exist (and I’m taking a broad interpretation meaning guys who command the respect of their peers and are natural leaders); they want actual deep connection as much as anyone. Your “alpha-ness” has nothing to do with your need for attachment. If anything being “alpha” requires the self-assuredness born of a stable and healthy upbringing. That lends itself to a secure attachment style. Guys who sleep around a lot tend to be avoidant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:00 AM
3

…and skincare, better diets, more regular exercise, less drinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:06 AM
2

lol. I’m in my 40s. The girls are ageing better. Have you seen 40 year old men? We are not ageing like wine, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:05 AM
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I’ve done desk jobs, and I’ve done very taxing physical jobs. I’m honestly not sure which one left me more tired at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:45 AM
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“Worked” as a landowner. lol. Lmao. You’re rent-seeker and a parasite on people who actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:28 AM
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“Don’t stress bro. Just nerd your way out of it.” 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:41 AM
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That's cool - but that approach can be super triggering for a lot of guys. For one - it takes a deft hand to deliver that statement in a way that doesn't make him feel like a fucking toddler. That's not a good frame for a fruitful conversation. The absolute worst (in my experience) is when you're aware of the fact that you're being an asshole - but you just can't seem to stop. Why am I like this? I know you mean well by trying to get a man to share what the problem is; but as often as not, guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:36 AM
2

Yeah - but what if I thought Titanic was an overwrought, melodramatic piece of crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:13 AM
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Yeah - but a lot of us *do* know guys who don't fit the terp mold of archetypal pussy magnets who seem to get alarming amounts of strange. I know a few. Short dudes, skinny dudes, chubby dudes, weird-looking dudes; who - inexplicably to your average terp - seem to have lengthy and elaborate sexual histories. They're inevitably some mix of fun, charismatic, interested and interesting; and they all love womens' company. I know women who'll talk about those guys like they're Brad Pitt. I look at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:07 AM
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Sure dude. As we all know, short Indian dudes are just massive pussy slayers surrounded by lingerie models at all times. That’s what bluepillers are saying all the time 🙄 No bluepiller is saying that dating is fair, or that what’s inside is the only thing that counts. We’re not fucken retards. What we are saying is that different people have different challenges, you have to play the cards you’re dealt, and that just because dating is hard for you, you don’t get to act like a sociopathic little …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:22 AM
2

But it’s not a cop-out. It’s the exact opposite of a cop-out. It’s being vulnerable, and explaining why you’re not being more vulnerable. What do you want? Do you even know what you want? What do you even mean by “vulnerability”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:15 AM
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The “experiment” which revealed that a cute 27 year old woman won’t have too much trouble getting an average-looking dude to ask her on a Tinder date? I mean - that shit just blew us all the fuck away. I love how you terps build the straw-iest of straw men and then refuse to stop hooting when you knock them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:11 AM
3

Viewing your romantic partner as two seconds from knifing you in the back at all times seems like a super healthy way to live your life…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:07 AM
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Also - unclear how this is a non-answer. To me it seems like a pretty fucken thoughtful answer - even if it’s not necessarily the one she hoped for or expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:04 AM
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To be clear - men should absolutely practice vulnerability with their romantic partners. I don’t buy for a second that the second a woman hears a man express an emotion her vagina audibly slams shut. It’s just something that needs to be introduced slowly and practiced mindfully. There’s an equal tendency for some guys out there to just vomit every unprocessed emotion they have onto their partner, and then look confused when the poor woman recoils in panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:01 AM
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Oh exactly - but I think there’s an increasing tendency to view vulnerability as a switch in mens’ brains that we flick to “on” when we’re serious about a relationship; when that’s not how this works at all. Like the old curmudgeon I am, I blame social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:57 AM
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I dunno. A bit more seems to work fine. Me, and a lot of my mates have higher earnings spouses - usually somewhere from 20-80% more. This doesn’t seem to cause any friction. But when the woman earns a lot more - particularly from the start of a relationship - it’s a little different. I know couples where the guy earns blue-collar money, and the gal is far more successful. It seems to really grate when the gal is left with no choice but to pick up the tab whenever they do something nice. I’ve see…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:54 AM
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Men have an equal and opposite tendency to say “you can get laid any time. What are you bitching about?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:43 AM
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I’m a big proponent of vulnerability in relationships; but I think the vast majority of women drastically overestimate their emotional intelligence - particularly where men are concerned. Your average woman is not fucking ready for the men in their lives to hit them with actual vulnerability; and tends to react in the exact same way a dude does when faced with a crying woman - fight, flight, freeze or fawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:41 AM
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“Vulnerability” as commonly constituted is podcast language. It’s supposed to be the sine qua non of good relationships; but actual vulnerability is something that takes many years to develop with one another. It’s not something that’s just switched on. You need to ask her - honestly and kindly - what she means by “vulnerability”. You’re not interrogating her - you’re being genuinely curious. Tell her - as your opening effort in being vulnerable - that you’re worried that being vulnerable will m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:54 AM
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Nothing works for everyone. Talk therapy seems to be marginally less effective in men - but it's still pretty much the best therapeutic intervention there is. Don't go pretending you're better than dumb motherfuckers like me who don't have your magical self-healing brain. Self-reflection can be a valuable skill; but it tends to turn into "self reflection" - very quick way to spiral into dark places. I fucken hate your attitude. It has a bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:24 AM
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Dude - it's just an easy signifier of having done some kind of work on yourself. I have zero interest in spending years and thousands of dollars navel gazing; but it's worth gaining some kind of insight as to why you're such a fucking mess so you don't take in out on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:26 AM
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Dude - all of these “women only date Chad, and it’s to be the death of Western Civilisation” posts sheet back to two end points: The girls won’t date me and it’s not faaaaaaiiirrr!; or It makes me sad to think about these poor women all lonely and surrounded by cats. If they dated me I’d make them so fucking happy. It’s not explicit here - but I’m being charitable and assuming option 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:58 AM
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Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:54 AM
-1

…and I took a position. What do you expect? “Yes, and…”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:51 AM
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I've heard similarly water-headed shit spouted by chicks for decades - along the lines of "If these hoes didn't go round just giving it up willy-nilly, men would be forced to wife us up and treat us nice". Lol. Lmao. And half you oblivious clowns wouldn't know if a chick was wearing makeup or not most of the time. Looking "natural" is a fucken art.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:06 AM
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It's certainly not a good reflection on her self-esteem. Like - I'll cheerfully pump up your tyres, but I'm not your therapist. If she said "I went through a period where dudes didn't treat me great, so I worked on myself" that's a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:00 AM
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Dude - the girls can date whoever they want. If it's unrealistic, they'll work it out. Just let them be adults and don't concern-troll them for not dating who you want them to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:56 AM
12

It's some stuff he read that he half remembers. That should be good enough for you. Don't be mean and make him do some cursory googling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:54 AM
5

Bluepill. I’d like you all to be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:16 AM
2

Because it’s gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:11 PM
4

Not in the way she talks about it, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:55 PM
17

Dude - it’s easier to date while you’re wealthy; but I still managed to pull as a bones-of-my-arse apprentice chef. These terp dudes are always trying to turn vague trends into ironclad rules to stoke your resentment so they can sell you shit. Don’t fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:29 AM
3

Look - I just find this woo-woo shit hysterical. I showed it to my wife. Her response was “what’s this ditzy bitch on about?” Being conversant in woo shit is great if you’re into woo chicks; but I’m not. I don’t wanna have faux-deep conversations about “energy”. I wanna have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:17 AM
1

I’ve been with my missus for 22 years mate. I have no need to sneak around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:50 AM
1

“Genuinely pontificate” Seriously? You could just say “give”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:49 AM
1

Porque no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:35 AM
6

Those clips are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:14 PM
11

Thank you. Well summarised.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:15 PM
2

Dude - “don’t text back too fast” is just The Rules; which is also dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:56 AM
4

No kids, but yours are cool. Active, financially independent and gainfully employed. I’ve done enough therapy that my baggage fits in the overhead locker. Seeks similar. (The rest is entirely down to whether they like my pics).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:47 AM
25

This post meanders around so much that I’m unclear what the actual point we’re supposed to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:30 AM
20

I find women very occasionally want casual sex; and when they do, don’t have a particularly hard time finding it. But most casual sex is pretty shit - doubly so for women. Plus it’s risky. Why bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:27 AM
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OMFG. Yes women tend to be attracted to good-looking, rich, high-status, socially adroit men. If you think we’re arguing against that, you’re making shit up in your head. But assuming it’s true - what do you do with that information? The current terp boilerplate seems to be that women are only attracted to the top 20% (or 10 or 5 or whatever) of men. Blackpillers will say if you’re not in that cohort, it’s game over. Redpillers will say you need to trick women into thinking you’re one or more of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:13 PM
4

“According to nature” According to the just-so stories terps tell themselves to justify their misogyny, you mean. And don’t talk about evo-psych. It’s pseudoscientific hokum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:46 PM
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Why is everyone here so shocked by the idea that people find hot people hot. It doesn’t make them a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:44 PM
11

Terp shit is just self help + misogyny. If you throw away the misogyny, I don’t have a problem. The self help will help you develop a little self confidence, some self-esteem, and a richer life. Working on yourself is working on your love life. You can build yourself up without developing deranged conspiracy theories about women. They’re just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:20 PM
3

That was a joke mate. Did you miss the emoji?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:35 PM
-1

Yes. The vast majority of women have banged at least one guy who’s done a stretch. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:17 AM
-2

Girls have friends. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:09 AM
2

Pretty sure no one’s holding a gun to your head mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:28 AM
6

Probably. But he’s also syphoning the excess value of you labour into his pocket. For doing nothing. I’d also like to talk about your landlord.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:26 AM
10

Then I have some terrible news about your boss, my man…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:41 AM
4

Lol. I’m not a liberal. I’m a hardened socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:36 AM
6

Have you ever met a single woman, like ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:30 AM
12

No. A small number of selfish dickheads say cheating is natural. It happens a lot, but most dudes aren’t going to hand-wave it away as something that’s inevitable. Bad, selfish, regrettable and sometimes understandable - but not natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:28 AM
7

I know there were at least 5 people at my wedding that my missus or me had made out with or hooked up with at one point or another. NBD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:48 AM
4

Or you could just have a mate who’s a lesbian and not be a fucken weirdo about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:38 AM
5

The main pleasure of sex is cumming multiple times. Something which most people haven't mastered and are unwilling to even try, even though it's good for them. r/gooning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:47 PM
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How do I human?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:45 PM
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Yes. We were stone cold sober. She was cute. We kissed. We were also flatmates and she was the ex of another dude in the house (it was a very big house). I could see the situation spiraling rapidly into more drama than I was willing to deal with, so I turned her down as tactfully as I could. She was kinda flabbergasted, and was pretty frosty to me afterwards. I still occasionally wonder what if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:40 PM
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Any man who gets upset about his woman calling him her partner is a whining toddler whose opinion is dumb and I laugh at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:33 PM
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Hooters never took in Australia, because we already had Schnitz ‘n tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:21 AM
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Seems like a discussion for you and your partner to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:19 AM
1

Why would I want to be promiscuous outside my marriage? There aren’t exactly a troupe of impatient lingerie models standing around outside my marriage waiting for it to open up. Any woman I could pull outside my marriage is going to be a serious disappointment. In the words of Frank Sinatra - “why go out for hamburger when there’s steak at home”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:52 PM
2

By the same token, it’s okay for married people to crush on people outside their marriage. You just dont act on it. You people are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:47 PM
1

If we could agree what simping was, this might be a question. Having any opinion about women other than derision seems to be thought of a simping in these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:45 PM
1

Dude - you’ve written hundreds of words of gibberish based on shit out of your head or vomited up by ChatGPT and you want it taken seriously. It’s like flat earthers demanding to be heard at a geology conference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:26 AM
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Mate - you’re posting waffle from ChatGPT. Why would anyone read this gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:56 AM
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Unclear why any of the stuff you mentioned makes you “low value” as a 39 year old - particularly one who wants to stay single. Given what you’ve put in your post, dating should be shooting fish in a barrel. You should pretty much have your pick of available men. If you were 39, broke, overweight, plain, chronically ill, with kids and an absent baby daddy; then you’d struggle to find any suitable guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:26 AM
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You guys really struggle with brevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:11 AM
2

I think you can take it as read that a “respectful approach” isn’t going to involve getting all up in your grille right from the get-go; so I took a generous reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:14 AM
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I dunno. Sitting at the other end of a park bench doesn’t really feel like “getting in a random person’s space” to me. It’s hella easy to start a casual conversation with a stranger without being a sweaty creep about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:27 AM
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I dunno man - I’ve got single women friends who really struggle to find anyone worthwhile. And when I say “worthwhile”, the bar is not that high. These are all cute, fun chicks with their shit together looking for average dudes (I’ve seen the men they date - it’s not a shower of Chads). Flaky dudes who can’t plan a date. Dudes who get sexual straight away. Dudes who are just fucken weird. They could probably land a relationship quickly with someone who made them miserable; but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:24 AM
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Dude - you’re not a slave. This is the kind of hysteria that makes terp shit so hard to take seriously. Say you were getting dates; but they’re disappointing affairs - foodie calls, no-shows or just very annoying. Is your life any better? You’re talking about materialism without grasping the material realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:04 AM
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Terrible comparison. It all redounds to the same end - I want a partner, but I can’t find one. You could equally argue that dudes who aren’t getting dates have it better because they’re not riding the roller coaster of hope and disappointment. I mean - it’d be a dumb argument, but all of them are. All of this “men/women have it worse” is people looking to feel victimised. What do you do with the certain knowledge that dating is harder for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:53 PM
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Arguing over who has it harder is dumb as hell. Our challenges are our own and relative. Even if you could prove dating is harder for men - what does that mean? What should be done? Or are you just looking for excuses to play the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:27 PM
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K. What’s this got to do with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:22 PM
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Dude - getting a first date if you’re a cute 27yo chick (like the one in the post you mentioned) is like shooting fish in a barrel. None of the bluepillers are arguing against that. This is the typical straw-manning bullshit terps engage in. The chicks aren’t saying “I can’t ever get a date”. What they are saying the problem is is finding a guy to actually take dating you seriously, not be wishy-washy, make plans and stick to them, and not immediately try to get in your pants. Men and women (by …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:18 PM
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I love how everyone on here that talks like a basement goblin is - apparently - a multi-millionaire chad with a private jet and bevvy of lingerie models lining up to suck their dick. Whatever gets you through the day, lads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:00 AM
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“In my head, women were never oppressed”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:22 AM
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I don’t think that’s any great secret mate. Nor do I think chicks are going out of their way to say they don’t want men with cool jobs. What they will say is that having a high status job won’t make up for you being a fuckwit. Well - not for long, anyway. On the dude side - my missus is a lawyer. I’m proud of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:21 AM
1

enjoy the decline. lol. Get off the internet and go outside. You’ve got brain poisoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:58 PM
3

It’s not difficult. It’s just relentless. Unlike DIY work, which is one and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:44 PM
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Dude - men have problems. They’re just not the ones you’ve outlined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:05 PM
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OMFG dude - how much time do you spend moving heavy items and how many loads of washing need doing? Dumbest argument going.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:24 AM
3

Or we could just talk to each other and not be fucken weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:17 AM
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Given that I’m mid-40s, no kids and had the snip…nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:13 AM
2

“Therapy causes suicide” <slow clap>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:26 PM
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Cool. How many friends are you prepared to bury then? At least they didn’t waste any time or money on therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:46 AM
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Mate - I volunteer in men’s mental health support in the construction industry. I’m not a therapist or counsellor - more of a mental health first aider. Lemme tell you - men decidedly do not know what their actual problems are. I’ve seen a lot of blokes go through it. They damn near destroy themselves before someone like me finally manages to get them to see a counsellor or therapist. And that’s in an industry where those services are free and readily available. Not once have I heard someone say…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:45 AM
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We’re not talking about cars mate - but I’ll indulge you. If you’re throwing tools all over your garage and kicking the dog because your engine’s fucked - your car isn’t your biggest problem. Sometimes you happen on solutions by talking about problems - particularly when your problems are emotional or psychological. But the vast majority of men have such a stunted emotional vocabulary, they can’t even describe their problems. Sometimes you need a professional to facilitate that discussion so you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:26 AM
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And if you cant fix it yourself? I guess you failed life. Time to step out. Don’t be an arsehole. This attitude has a bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:13 AM
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Talk therapy doesn’t work as well for men. It’s still one of the best interventions for mental health we’ve got. Don’t write it off because you think it’s gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:10 AM
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Look - therapy isn’t the panacea that some people make it out to be; but some of you MFs could really stand to do some. Having a professional interrogate why you’ve become convinced that the Radfem Stasi are lurking around every corner ready to drag you off to the Gulag for Man Crime if you talk to a girl would make your lives measurably better. If a therapist could help you to stop catastrophising every interaction and to not turn every rejection into your personal 9/11, it’d probably help too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:07 AM
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What other country do you think is more based off of merit? Literally every country with a functioning social safety net. Social mobility is barely a thing in the US. If you're born rich, you stay rich. If you're born poor, you stay poor. Movement between income quintiles is pretty minimal. It's much better in the rest of the G20. It's significantly better in the Nordic bloc. It's a lot easier to take the sort of risks you need to take in life to get ahead if there's a place to land when you fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:18 AM
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Dude - you’re doing Divine Right of Kings, but make it Liberal. If you seriously think America is meritocratic, you are breathtakingly naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:08 AM
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hierarchy of competence Lolololololol. My brother in Christ - stop watching Jorpo videos and take a look around. The ruling class is not, and has never been, the ruling class by dint of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:55 PM
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More like: “If you’re not over 6’, women will spit at you in the street. You will be tased if you think about a woman”. “That’s not true” “Stop gaslighting me!”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:12 PM
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Also - what’s so awful about hot, tatted-up chicks who do drugs? That’s like half my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:48 AM
3

“If you marry for money, you’ll earn every penny”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:43 AM
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Dude - your list is getting more demented by the day. Never stop being you, you magnificent bastard!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:39 AM
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Lotta wild assumptions being made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:37 AM
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I love when you dudes invent a chick to get mad at. Imagine the typical, fully tatted up, hot, 60 bodycount, no father figure, believes in feminism 22 year old women that takes drugs and does onlyfans. More baggage than a Plane. Have you ever met a woman, ever? I am begging you to log off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:34 AM
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Redpill was only ever about support insofar as it involved manipulating women. Wonder why they’d take exception to that. If redpill was actually what it thought it was, chicks would love it. I prefer the men’s support where I help guys dealing with anxiety and depression, substance issues, financial problems, loneliness, family breakdown and suicidal ideation. Y’know - actually supporting men, rather than just ginning up their anger with the women who have the temerity to not want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:30 AM
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lol @ Elks Lodge. Get rekd dorks. Funny how when we say “men’s support group”, there aren’t a bunch of angry blue haired women telling us it’s bad. They tend to say “good onya boys - keep it up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:33 AM
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I dunno man - I feel like I’m very much benefiting from not having to follow the same social script as my grandfather. I like having my wife as an equal partner. I like not having the entire burden of material provision rest on my shoulders. I like working with women in a previously all-male trade. I like being able to express the odd emotion without it being seen as an aberration. I like being able to have women as friends without people thinking we’re fucking. Hell - I’ve even had women as bos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:03 AM
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If they’re not hobbies, then gaming and whining on reddit definitely aren’t hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:51 AM
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Wat? Why would feminism - a movement specifically for the equality and liberation of women - want to disadvantage women in favour of men? Why would any ideological or philosophical movement do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:54 AM
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Brazilian white guys 👀 “My family emigrated here in 1945. My name is Juan Mengele”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:50 AM
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Most people are inherently not qualified to be educated, free citizens pursuing their own happiness and society is better off when these responsibilities are outsourced to an exceptionally capable ruling elite. Good luck finding an elite who aren’t blinded by privilege, venal, cruel and painfully stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:55 PM
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Assuming that’s true - what you gonna do? Cry about it? Play the hand you’re dealt. It’s the bluepill way!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:51 PM
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Blackpillers inventing progressively more demented stats and theories why it’s impossible for average dudes to get laid. Meanwhile, a cursory glance outside reveals…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:49 PM
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lol. Inventing women to be mad at. I do men’s mental health support in the construction industry. The women I’ve spoken to about it think it’s brilliant. You MFs so convinced that teh feminists are keeping you down. It’s an invention of your own internet brainworm-addled minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:46 PM
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Again a terp dude makes a couple of tangentially accurate observations and draws the most demented possible conclusions from them. This is what I come to this sub for!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:41 PM
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Are you telling me he doesn’t own a Lambo either? Say it ain’t so!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:38 PM
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Milf is a class signifier. A genuine milf needs to have a husband who can support her in an idle life of going to Pilates and getting cosmetic treatments; and who “goes away on business” a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:04 PM
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I can list several other people you’re giving significantly more support with your taxes. Number seven will shock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:02 PM
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As I said…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:43 AM
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Not one of you bitches said "vast tracts of land". I am disappoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:58 AM
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*Fist bump* Finally - a good fucken answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:57 AM
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Why are you people so fucking weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:56 AM
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Ever heard of confirmation bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:54 AM
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MFs are all about lOgIc aNd ReAsoN, till you present them with it. Then it's all feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:54 AM
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You're really not drawing the threads together. What is it about your mates watching porn and honking off that got them girlfriends? The corollary of that is - how has you not watching as much porn stopped you from getting a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:15 AM
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"If he wanted to, he would" seems like a real quick way to push away perfectly compatible guys who lack mind-reading capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:08 AM
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You're really going to have to elaborate for this to make a blind bit of sense mate. How are your friends more desperate? What are they doing that's desperate and how did that get them a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:04 AM
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So was I. Lotta women out there have no idea what they like and seem utterly unwilling to find out, just expecting the guy to “know”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:57 PM
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I guess I didn’t take ace people into account - though they’re pretty thin on the ground. Demi people though - not really a thing. “Ooh I don’t wanna bang a dude before getting to know him! I’m so unusual! Do I get a stripe on the progress flag now?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:52 PM
2

But mostly manifested in being rly mad at girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:58 PM
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And those MFs are self snitching about their shitty bedroom game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:50 PM
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Dude - there’s already women doing those jobs. I’ve worked with some of them on roofs in the Australian summer, or cleaning shit out of blocked drains. They do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:15 PM
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I wouldn’t want it to happen, because it’d make her really uncomfortable to have some guy blatantly hitting on her. As for worrying about her cheating - nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:05 PM
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No. Dumb. Women actually like men for the most part when we’re not being selfish pricks. And if you wanna create a situation where men act really poorly, give them a situation where they are hugely outnumbered by their dating options. Hooboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:02 PM
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I swear some of you slap “narcissist” on everything like an 8 year old that someone gave a label maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:22 PM
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<Bangs head on desk>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:49 PM
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“Muh stats”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:36 PM
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Dudes are trying to bring stats to a vibes party and wondering why the chicks are looking pissed at them. Stop. The girls are saying “men are scary.” The dudes are saying “I have a graph…” Shut up and reflect for a second, you fucking clowns. That’s all. Just shut up and have a spell. You don’t have to fix anything. You don’t have to personally take the blame. This is just one of those situations where you just need to listen. Take a breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:29 PM
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After 6 years it looks like wilful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:23 PM
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Nah. Taxicab theory has an element of male interchangeability. “I’m ready. Why aren’t you?” Women aren’t any more mature or discerning than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:22 PM
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You know how the chicks on TikTok keep talking about “decentering men”? They’ve got a point. I’d say young men need to decenter women. At least until they figure out what women they’d actually benefit from worrying about. There’s so many young guys who would do very well to stop worrying so much about “getting women”, and start thinking about what makes them happy. I’m not talking about empty hedonism here. Thats a trap. And I’m not talking about disappearing into a career or studies. That’s eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:18 PM
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The obvious weenieness of this post aside - babies, mostly. They’d like a little extra assurance you’re going to hang around to bring up your sprog. But never discount the romance of a nice wedding. Who doesn’t love a big fancy party where you’re the centre of attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:28 AM
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You nerds inventing fantasies where you refuse to assist a woman asking for help. As if you leave your houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:22 AM
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I came here for moonbat takes, and you're being sensible? GTFO with your nuance and passing knowledge of Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:27 AM
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"So - which one of you is the girl and which one of you is the boy?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:20 AM
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Where? Quotes or GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:24 PM
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Anywhere I said they did? People still meet from cold approaches; and it’s still a perfectly viable way to meet people - particularly if you’re not much of a looker and you lean on your personality to be charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:25 PM
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No. 🤦‍♂️ We love our gender essentialism, dont we folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:31 AM
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You have a painfully black-and-white view of the male emotional experience. It’s not that I mean all-female spaces are more positive while all-male spaces are more toxic, but that women are socialized to form tight-knit emotional support groups (even if that sometimes means unfairly excluding others they don’t see as part of the in-group, and becoming cliquey) while men are socialized to be more individualistic in how they involve themselves with each other. As opposed to being more openly “symb…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:25 AM
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women in general, unlike men, are socialized to cooperate with each other rather than form hierarchies in order to subjugate and humiliate each other…Which is what tends to happen almost every time in all-male environments. Imma stop you right there. What absolute essentialist claptrap. Ever seen teenage girls form cliques, form hierarchies and bully each other into self-harm? It ain’t fucken sugar and spice. By the same token, I’ve lived and worked in all-male and majority male environments mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:22 AM
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Yep. My stinky blue collar arse is happily married. Pretty much all my coworkers are married, in LTRs, or getting terrifying amounts of strange on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:10 AM
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Yeah - and comparing the slaughter of WW2 in Europe and Africa to a couple of Hollywood dudes having career setbacks is a fucken Galaxy Brained take dude JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:41 AM
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It doesn’t excuse the false accusations where they occurred; but women had been complaining about being assaulted and harassed for decades. Mens’ failure to address the problem contributed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:39 AM
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The trashing of men didn’t come from a clear blue sky. I’m not excusing the witch hunts for innocent guys - but we were pretty much bound to catch strays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:29 AM
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A hunt for men who’d done shitty things. It was a - frankly overdue - boil-over of anger. Did it turn into jumping at shadows or pile ons sometimes? Yep. Did the anger come from a real place of hurt? Also yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:38 PM
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That comment was so powerful it deserves an entry in the sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:32 PM
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Masculine guys are more the Don Draper type of pseudo nihilist “yeah, those people over there are assholes, but we’re all assholes anyway” types. Not really - they're mostly kinda enthusiastic and cheerful. They're pretty unaffected dudes - they're just authentic. There's no artifice to their masculinity - it just is. I agree that Bill Burr is pretty close to what I mean, though I'd hesitate to call him apolitical - just not party political.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:59 AM
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I'm Australian. Don't much care about your weird seppo shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:45 AM
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I'm assuming that you're referring to the "masculine" markers that the Guns 'n Jeebus crowd are into, which is artifice. All the dudes driving big trucks, weirdly enthusiastic about guns and loud about wanting a "submissive" woman. They make me laugh. It's so painfully fucking obvious that they're overcompensating. The genuinely masculine guys I know are largely apolitical. If they have any kind of ideology, it's "live and let live". They might not understand trans people, but they're not freaki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:38 AM
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Absolute galaxy brained take dude. Bravo. Pretty sure the other gangs in my city aren't calling for the establishment of a white ethnostate and the "voluntary emigration" of all non-white people. Worst the other gangs are gonna do is break into my car or sell me shitty pingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:26 AM
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I usually just think they are being nice and realize they were flirting days later. I think that’s the human condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:30 AM
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To be fair, there’s a crossover. My favourite recent example in my city was when the local neo-Nazis decided they were going to disrupt a fundraiser for trans youth; thinking they’d get to pick on a room full of blue-haired tenderqueers. What they got was the Melbourne chapter of SHARP (SkinHeads Against Racial Prejudice). Cue hilarious video of panicking Nazi dorks fleeing down the street and hiding in bins 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:26 AM
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That’s funny. Most of the punks I hang with wear battle jackets and like picking up heavy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:21 AM
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Amen. Most people (thank God) are not terminally online freaks like everyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:12 AM
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Occasionally. I will get compliments on my tattoos or a band Tshirt That’s a dude opening the door. You gotta flirt back, or (if he’s remotely socially calibrated) he’s gonna assume you don’t wanna play and bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:11 AM
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Oh lord. If you’re giving off sad girl energy, dudes will pick up on that and avoid you. We’re not the complete social retards everyone likes to pretend we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:06 AM
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It can be both. This isn’t a binary or a zero sum game. You don’t have to be weird or make major rationalisations about it. I like to wear nice clothes when I go out. Back when I was single it made me feel good and put me in the mood to socialise. Did I do it for me? Yes. Did I do it because I’d look better for the girls I would awkwardly hit on. Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:02 AM
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The context is obviously different; but the core remains. People - despite how much Match group would like to monetise all dating - still manage to meet strangers and start relationships. It’s rarer, sure; but it absolutely still happens. How much whining do we hear online from women about how awful online dating is, and longing for a meet-cute with a nice man? While there’s a percentage of chicks who have listened to way too much true crime and shake like whippets if a guy at the bus stop asks …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:26 AM
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I’m mid 40s. The dudes asking “why do women” seem to me to be pretty young and still figuring shit out. There’s not many 40+ redpill guys (and they’re all divorced dads angry at their ex wives). At a certain point, the weight of evidence that women are individual people and not mysterious, sexy robots stacks up so much they have to start being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:22 AM
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How is it that people here keep managing to make at least semi-accurate observations of people’s behaviour, then draw the most moonbat possible conclusions from it? Women tend not to like inflexible, stick-in-the-mud guys. A little spontaneity and excitement is fun. But unless they’re very inexperienced or there’s some childhood shit that they need therapy for, they don’t like “confusion”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:05 AM
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Dude - are you drunk posting? You’ve come back at three of my comments back to back and made no sense in any of them. Go sleep it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:01 AM
2

Y…yes? Women aren’t NPCs with a quest bubble hanging over their heads mate. You can tell a fair bit about people’s attitude from their body language; but you don’t really know if they wanna chat till you go talk to them. If they look like they’d rather be somewhere else, you dip. This isn’t fucken rocket surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:12 PM
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This is so painfully defeatist. I know women in their early 20s. They’d be fucking overjoyed if a cute boy came up and talked to them at the pub. No everyone is a self-diagnosed autist with a Reddit addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:36 PM
1

I don’t wear a ring, and my missus like different music.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:24 AM
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Because I like to talk to random people at pubs and gigs. Some of them are women. The first part of any cold approach is just going up and saying hi. If you get a vibe they’d rather not talk, you just excuse yourself and walk away. Nbd. If you get a good vibe, you have a chat. Obviously, I stop at chatting; but you can pretty easily ratchet up the flirting if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:03 AM
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lol. Never stopped working. You kids are just soy weenies afraid of your own shadows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:52 AM
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Dude - I’ve seen these guys. They’re just regular Joes. That’s fine - my mates want regular guys. The major problem seems to be that these guys are indecisive, low-effort weenies. Getting them to leave their house is like pulling teeth. Seriously - how fucken hard is it to ask a chick out for a drink and suggest a date and time? You’d think you were expecting these MFs to negotiate the treaty of Ghent. Doesn’t exactly moisten the gusset. I swear these guys are going out of their way to avoid get…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:46 AM
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Every few days there’s a post here that’s just (chefs kiss)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:40 AM
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This comment is far more coherent than OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:38 AM
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We are all public property. <Soviet Anthem Intensifies>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:37 AM
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This is definitely a real text exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:28 AM
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It’s not an interesting parallel. It’s a very dumb one. And his “women own the means of reproduction” paragraph is fucking unhinged - utterly divorced from the reality of dating for the vast majority of women. If dating was this Big Rock Candy Mountain of male supplicants that this dingbat seems to think it is why are women so pessimistic about dating? I mean - I’m sure it’s only a matter of seconds till some blackpiller starts hooting about Chad; but the single gals I know all seem to have simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:26 AM
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That’s what we call it at my place when we nut together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:42 AM
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“Women don’t want to touch my dick. Therefore socialism is bad. QED.” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:20 AM
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Dude - aren’t you a swole rich dude with a fancy car? How’s that working out for ya? Might it be that your metrics of what women want in a dude are a little off?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:17 AM
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I agree that it’s not just a matter of maternity leave provision; but the US really seems to go out of its way to make life difficult for new parents. A lot of lip service gets paid to the importance of birthing and raising kids; but people get real fucken quiet when we suggest ways to actually facilitate that - beyond forcing women to give birth, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:34 AM
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Dude - we all code switch a bit in different social environments. It’s called living in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:17 AM
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Dating has always been hard. I honestly think it’s mainly hard at the moment because of the illusion of limitless options and treating each other like NPCs in the world’s shittest RPG.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:13 AM
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No. Got bored of the waffle and wanted to rant. It’s that kinda day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:50 AM
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Fuck me. Everyone’s interactions have become so heavily mediated by the internet that you’ve all forgotten how to talk to each other like fucken human beings. Some dudes here think that they’re going to be descended on by the Radfem Stasi and sent to the Gulag for man-crime because you said hi to the cute chick at the bar. Meanwhile, some of you women are out here acting like the occasional brief, mildly awkward interaction with a dude you’re not attracted to is the absolute worst thing you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:46 AM
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I dunno. I cold-approached my missus. We’ve been together for 22 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:36 AM
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Dude - team sport is good, but it’s not a panacea. And not every boy has an aptitude for sports. I always did team sports growing up. It taught me a lot of good lessons; but not one damn thing about how to be normal around women. Then I was cast in a school play - that did waaaay more for my confidence and socialisation with girls than the thousands of hours of sport I’d played beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:34 AM
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“Why is no one having children? Must be the damned feminisms!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:29 AM
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All standards I meet are reasonable. All standards I dont are madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:48 AM
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Dude - we know you're doing "IF A MAN DID IT YOU'D HATE IT! CHECKMATE FEMINISTS!!!" It's as subtle as a turd on a wedding cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:38 AM
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God forbid men have hobbies…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:24 AM
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Ange - this is starting to look like digital self-harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:15 AM
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Don’t be a nerd You can redistribute money. It’s kinda its purpose. You gonna start demanding women be forcibly redistributed for reasons? And if your next urge is to get all “taxation is theft”, you are a deeply unserious person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:04 AM
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Again with the money analogies. Say it with me: pussy isn’t a commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:57 AM
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I’m assuming that you’re referring to dating app stats here. Swipes on dating apps don’t really equate to attention. So many of the single girls I know seem to get matches, but almost none of them result in dates. It’s mostly low-effort text conversations followed by a Hail Mary attempt to get them to come over for a hookup. I mean - strictly speaking, that’s attention I guess; but it’s pretty thin gruel. The only bright side of being ignored is that you aren’t wasting time being a pen pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:56 AM
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We’re talking about the same Marcus Aurelius right? The author of Meditations or How fucken rad is that Marcus Aurelius guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:25 AM
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Dude - people wanna fuck. We’re not going to stop that with happy thoughts. That said, finding things to fixate on other than how much sex you’re not getting is probably a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:23 AM
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Average women can easily and do have sex with hot men Average men CANNOT easily have sex with hot women So what? Again - how is this helpful? How will this improve your life? What do you do with this info - assuming it’s even true for most people? This is just whining. You terps are all acting like toddlers because you don’t have a line of lingerie models outside your bedroom door waiting to suck your dicks. And you’re calling bluepillers narcissistic. Fucken lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:50 PM
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lol no. The girls still like having us around for the most part if we’re not selfish pricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:44 PM
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This revenge fantasy always makes me laugh. I’ll lay money on the barrelhead that most of the alpha dudes on this sub couldn’t change a tap washer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:43 PM
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Dude - we have eyes. We know good-looking dudes get the lion’s share of women’s’ attention; in the exact same way good-looking women get the lions share of mens’ attention. But how is that information useful to me if I’m not a good-looking guy? Dating advice that actually helpful focusses on working on becoming the best version of yourself. Everything else is whining that “ITS NOT FAAAAAAIIIIR!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:38 PM
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Bingo. The surface-level terp stuff is just self-help boilerplate. Everything beneath is a howling void of virulent misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:33 PM
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Dude - the world is lousy with normal-looking dudes who have girlfriends who show every sign of being attracted to them. I am begging you to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:51 AM
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It’s less what’s on the list, and more the fact you’ve painfully compiled it. I hate to do the “if a man did this”; but seriously - if a man did this, I’d roast him for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:42 PM
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I guess you hadn’t heard that saying anything positive, or even neutral about women is misandry now. I gather it’s also simping and white-knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:36 PM
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Full marks for commitment to the bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:37 AM
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Did a 10 year old write this? “Boys rule. Girls drool.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:54 AM
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Sure pal. Cause married guys never watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:06 AM
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Incredible bait. No notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:56 AM
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I think we’re about the same age. Dating has always been a shitshow; but I agree that Tinder seems to have just made everything worse - turning people into commodities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:42 AM
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Well yes. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:35 AM
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Yeah - like I said, it’s bunk. These clowns thing the Pareto principle is some kind of iron-clad law, rather than a general observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:15 AM
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The "bad dick" comment is a glib way of saying that - on average - women get a lot more matches than men; but most of these don't amount to much more than creepy comments, low-effort texts or other disappointment. The "bar is in hell" thing is more a matter of recognising that the golden boys who have a lot of options realise that they don't have to make much effort. The second you stop tolerating their low-effort bullshit, they can move on to another woman who will. But if you're a regular guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:09 AM
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Dude - the 80/20 thing is bunk; but good-looking guys have *always* received the lion's share of womens' attention. This was true before dating apps even existed. I remember - I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:22 AM
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There's a great failure by a lot of dudes here to recognise that women's tastes aren't monolithic. There may be a significant crossover, but there's more room than a lot of dudes here will acknowledge. But I think there's an equal lack of acknowledgement by a lot of women posting here that most guys are kinda invisible to them; and that's hard on the soul. Given how heavily dating is moderated by apps at the moment, if you're not a particularly photogenic guy, you're probably getting almost no m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:18 AM
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Pretty much. People in relationships aren’t the ones bitching about how hard dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:17 AM
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To be fair, the Venn diagram of people’s “top 20%” crosses over a lot. That’s why we say “conventionally attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:15 AM
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My man leading with his bank balance and whining that chicks are boring 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:00 AM
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I dunno. I meet cool chicks with interesting hobbies and full lives all the time. I’m gonna hang with a couple of em tonight. Sounds like a skill issue to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:51 AM
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Godspeed, and be nice to any tradesmen you work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:38 AM
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My man thinks a bank balance is a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:35 AM
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Not a dad, but the missus and I have been together for over 20 years. For the most part, no - traditional gender roles aren’t really a thing for us. We just do what works for us. We’ve never been big believers in traditional roles - despite the fact we both grew up in pretty traditional households. She’s always been smarter and more career oriented than me. I work hard; but I just want a job. I’ve never wanted a heap of money or a fancy job title. She works longer hours than me, so the greater b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:17 AM
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“Can’t go out”? Or don’t wanna hang out with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:05 AM
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I find being informed, but not being a dick about it usually helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:02 AM
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If I ever wanna witness some Olympic-level self-congratulatory fart-sniffing, I spend time with any freshly-graduated male engineer. They’re all fucking insufferable for at least five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:37 AM
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Anyone convinced that their intellect intimidates potential partners are invariably: Nowhere near as smart as they think they are. Crashing bores with terrible social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:26 AM
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lol. The smartest man I know fucken loves MAFS - and his intellect is terrifying. It’s half-smart midwits who think the ability to code Javascript makes them a fucking genius or who’ve read enough Nietzsche to be really annoying that get all sniffy about other peoples’ tastes in trash culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:46 PM
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Autistic men should stop building their identity around being autistic. We just called those guys and gals weird nerds back in the day. One of my oldest friends is 100% a sperg (his words, not mine); and he’s fucken killing it. He took a minute to find his gal, and they’re the best couple ever. If I was a teenager today, they would 100% have medicalised my fidgety weirdness and filled me with Adderal. Some folks genuinely need intervention. A lot more just need a little space to be themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:24 AM
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OMFG you can be nice; but also any combination of funny, fun to hang with, kind, thoughtful, sweet and/or smart. “Nice” isn’t a character trait to build your whole personality around. It’s a baseline for being a decent human being. You should fucken absolutely be nice. It’s a very good thing. But be other things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:13 AM
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Aiming for an equal relationship and doing some give and take is very good. Keeping track of shit like it’s a double entry ledger is an awful way to run things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:48 AM
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Someone just worked out that women uphold patriarchy almost as much as men, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:45 AM
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So beauty trends and subjective taste are utterly meaningless, I guess. The grand traditions of art and philosophy are just artifice. It’s just beep boop hip-to-waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:36 PM
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Kim Kardashian. A famously normal woman 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:34 PM
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This is true. But my capacity to influence other men’s behaviour is limited to my personal influence, and the only person whose behaviour I can actually control is me. It is to the good that as men we lift each other up, and encourage each other to leave situations we are poorly treated in - between they our romantic relationships, or any other. If I could wave a magic wand and give all men a sense of self worth and self respect, I would. But I don’t, so I can’t. What I can do is respect myself,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:30 PM
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You guys sure do prefer vibes to observable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:30 PM
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Raise your standards bro. Literally no one will stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:33 AM
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I dunno - most of the guys I did my science degree with were pretty normal. But “STEM Guys” are a very particular type of dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:28 AM
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Lotta people out there seem to manage both pretty effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:25 AM
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Every. Fucken. Time. “Symmetry”. What doesn’t that mean? Symmetry is such an all-encompassing quality that it’s pretty much meaningless when talking about beauty. It’s like a canvas to paint on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:17 AM
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All this paper says is “we like symmetrical faces” over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:09 AM
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I'm not arguing against the existence of drives - they're there alright; nor am I arguing against a preference for outward signs of health being generally attractive. It's just when some of these dipshits show up claiming: There's some single, unchanging ideal of beauty that's absolutely linked to genetic health; Outward signs of beauty are a reliable indicator of genetic or reproductive health; or We are entirely a product of our genes; then I start to crack the shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:10 AM
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I'll start by requiring them to be given a mild electric shock whenever they refer to what they fart out as "science".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:04 AM
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Oh yes they fucken do, my man. Spare me banal statements about symmetry - we like symmetry in most things. Ask a man in Nairobi what he thinks is beautiful. Then ask a Russian. Then an Ecuadorian. Come to it - ask a 14th century Frenchman - guarantee the ideal of beauty from that era looks a little different to what you think is a hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:01 AM
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We’re looking at aesthetics, filtered through the lens of culture. Beauty ideals change constantly. I am begging you to read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:50 AM
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Dude - the early 00’s, mid 1960’s, 1940’s, and 1920’s with their feminine beauty ideal of narrow hips and boyish figures would like a word. Let’s not even get into “consumption chic” from the 19th century. Christ you evo-psych people love to think up a just so story and utterly refuse to deviate from it in the face of all evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:48 AM
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You MFs really think we’re all walking around with Terminator Vision for “superior genetics”, dontcha. We need to round up evolutionary psychologists and have some sort of Nuremberg trial for what they’ve done to the discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:45 AM
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Making the bold assumption that every gal wants to be in a poly relationship with a rich guy. Those gals are out there, but they’re a weird minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:17 AM
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I’m not sure you understand what a zero-sum game is, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:15 AM
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Seems fair to me. Though - what’s with the noisy wanking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:13 AM
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And this, folks, is what we call confirmation bias…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:12 AM
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Primates don’t pair bond (well - gibbons kinda sorta not really). You terps sure do love an appeal to nature. You’ll just dip into your bag of half-remembered animal behaviours for whatever’s convenient in supporting your evo-psych just-so story justifications of why your cultish bullshit is the correct way of explaining the world while sniffing your own farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:00 AM
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pair bonding We’re not penguins mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:17 PM
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In theory, yes. In practice - sounds like waaay too much admin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:59 PM
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Which way, western man? Do you give up on women, or stomp around like a toddler wailing “ITS NOT FAAAAAAIIIIR!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:57 PM
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Best case scenario. Regardless - the shit is still expensive, in limited supply and we’re not clear on the longer term effects. I am skeptical about it turning every woman into a lingerie model, regardless of whatever convenient fantasies are being entertained by OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:42 PM
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As I said - it ain’t nothing. But going from 300lbs to 270lbs still means you’re obese. Also - it’s too early to tell if people will just rebound to their old weight the second they go off the stuff. Given that it’s an appetite suppressant, the odds are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:40 PM
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Musta been someone else champ. I just work up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:35 PM
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Average gals certainly got more options on dating apps; but most of them aren’t good. That’s more a fault of dating app culture than the dudes themselves, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:34 PM
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And I didn’t voluntarily decide to not have my every desire fulfilled by a harem of lingerie models, dude. But here I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:29 PM
2

That noise was the point going past you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:24 PM
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Ozempic leads to an average body weight loss of around 10% total body weight, 15% in the best case scenario. While this is nothing to sniff at, it’s not the panacea that’s gonna make us all thin and hot. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:30 AM
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And I am begging you to ask an average single gal how she feels about her dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:08 AM
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Oh the horror of women being attracted to attractive men! No - you’re missing the point. Most average chicks know - or work out pretty quickly - that the dude who’s tall, good-looking, rich and has lotsa girls after him probably isn’t a good relationship prospect. Now, if she just wants to bang someone, she might go there - but a hell of a lot of women just aren’t interested in ONSs or situationships; or get over them pretty quick. The overwhelming majority of women have a lifetime bodycount bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:40 AM
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Yeah - the would go for a 6,6,6 guy if he was a good partner. If I woke up tomorrow and my missus suddenly looked like a supermodel, I can’t say I’d complain; but I’m not about to leave my missus for any hot chick who shows interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:29 AM
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So you’re saying conventionally attractive men tend to be considered attractive. You terps sure do have everything figured out 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:23 AM
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Yep. Tant pis, man. Whatcha gonna do about it? Stomp around like a toddler wailing that “It’s not faaaaaaaaiiiiir!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:18 AM
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Again…can I point out the skinny dudes with girlfriends… It’s like you guys are saying “I’m not getting laid, therefore no-one’s getting laid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:08 AM
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Oh…so it’s not just physical then…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:36 AM
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If tall, tattooed and muscular was the sine qua non of attraction, I would have got a lot more dates back when I was single, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:31 AM
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Awful lotta weird, scrawny dudes with noodle arms and no tatts got girlfriends who show every sign of being attracted to them out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:22 AM
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Dude - most Western women aren’t that big on the whole 6,6,6 thing either. That seems to be a dumb meme started by brain worm-addled TikTokkers; that the blackpill dipshits used as a reason why they’d never get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:10 AM
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Sex can be great, and we want to have it with women we’re attracted to. Sex is a pretty reliable indicator that the gal is attracted to us. But your dude whining for sex? GTFO. I swear some guys go out of their way to avoid getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:49 AM
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It’s because you clowns think that this is a fucking RPG. You don’t grind XP till ding. Going to the gym will improve your odds - not just because you’ll look better, but you’ll feel better and have the self-confidence that goes with doing something hard consistently. Being financially stable will improve your odds because not only will your life likely be better organised, you’ll likely have developed people skills in your career and a network of contacts; not to mention you’ll probably be bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:45 AM
4

I am begging you to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:32 AM
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It’s not that we don’t care about your career. It’s that we make the (frequently correct) assumption that a woman who’s very successful in her career is going to want a guy with a similar or greater level of success. I say this as a fella with a far more successful-in-her-career wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:31 AM
2

Dude - dating has always been frustrating, tedious and often humiliating. The difference now is that thanks to dating apps, options for new dates come up more frequently. To me, it sounds like you're having a pretty run-of-the mill experience - and it sucks ass. Keep your chin up, my man. Trite as it might be, this is a matter of patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:53 AM
1

Pretty much, yeah. Listen to your gut. If a dude is skeeving you out, that’s the deeper processes of your mind keeping you safe. You don’t owe any guy your presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:24 AM
1

Are you normally this obtuse, or just on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:30 AM
2

Dude - I might be a blue collar dipshit, but I know what a shibboleth is. What do you mean by “left wing shibboleth”. “SING THE INTERNATIONALE! NOW!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:31 AM
4

Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:26 AM
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Either this is creative writing or you live in Mogadishu.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:09 AM
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Did you read my comments dude, or just skip ahead to getting mad? I’m not a big fan of the whole “why do men/women” thing - generalising kinda sucks; but it’s not evidence of some grand conspiracy against men (or you, specifically). Try re-reading the second post. She’s not freaked out by this guy because he’s horny - she’s freaking out because he wont leave her the fuck alone after she said she’s not interested. As for the third - I see dudes I know slutting it about and no one bats an eyelid. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:01 AM
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I dunno man - I get validation and compliments all the time; but it’s always for stuff I do, rather than anything I am. I get told I’m great at my job, or that I’m really kind for helping out somewhere, or that I’m generous for helping out friends who are struggling, or that I’m really determined for running ultras. Men just get different compliments. They’re the sort of compliments that women want, but don’t get as much. We just dont get a lot of physical compliments. I mean, I remember the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:54 AM
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The examples you’ve cited don’t really back up your argument. The first has a lot of comments that go deeper into the topic. The second is nothing to do with being dumb and horny - it’s all about a dude who won’t take no for an answer. The third is just about being out of an LTR and wanting a bit of a hoe phase. I was talking with a mate about his post breakup hoe phase yesterday. The only thing I chastised him for was not tarping up. Literally no one who’s taken seriously is telling men they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:45 AM
10

You’re not being irrational. Men can be scary. Most guys are fine. But from a woman’s perspective every single one of us is Schrödinger’s Rapist. You don’t know if a guy means you harm till he’s harming you. I really wish it were otherwise; but you’ve gotta live in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:36 AM
5

leftist shibboleths Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:32 AM
3

Pretty sure you all hate men too…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:03 PM
2

I’ve played in bands on and off for years. I’ve seen it get other dudes laid; but it never worked for me when I was single. Most people forget who you are 10 minutes after you walk off stage. You should play music live because there’s something inside you that’s gotta come out; not because you think it’s gonna get you girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:56 PM
1

A long term, committed but not married male partner. No need to overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:55 PM
1

Depends what you mean by passive. If you’re a cute chick, you’re gonna get hit on - potentially by guys who’d love to be your boyfriend. But you can’t just sit there like a bump on a log providing no reciprocity and expect a dude to not get frustrated and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:30 PM
9

Dude - I’m a straight guy and they make me laugh. These MFs are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:20 PM
1

That was debate. You’ve turned up with your ridiculous premise; and I’ve called it ridiculous. Feminism is a movement calling for equality and liberation with a long and storied history. You’ve decided that ackshully it’s about making your peepee sad. It’s solipsistic gibberish and you deserve derision and scorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:03 PM
12

Lololololol I work in construction mate. I’d call you significantly worse things on the street. My god some of you alpha males are thin-skinned weenies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:30 PM
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Live it to one of you dipshits to decide that a 100+ year old philosophical and ideological movement was created to stop you getting matches on Tinder. Fuck me some of you cunts are pathetic specimens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:38 AM
7

Nothing more reddit than arguing about who got mad 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:03 AM
8

And I’ve got a small patch of grass you can touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:23 PM
2

r/iamverysmart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:12 PM
3

Bro - you take so many fucken words to get to the damn point I’m forced to summarise. That was debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:53 PM
8

a decently attractive woman nearing 30…slept with 5 guys Not unusual at all. A high school boyfriend, a college boyfriend, a long-term boyfriend and a couple of hookups? Pretty fucken run-of-the mill. Most chicks aren’t on an endless hoe phase in their 20s y’know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:52 PM
2

Most of them. I’m pretty sure the guys not getting laid aren’t actually putting much effort in, beyond making a bad Tinder profile that gets no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:41 PM
9

That sure is a lot of words to say “I’m hazy on consent and I can only think of it as a power dynamic that I can’t broach not being at the top of”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:38 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:18 AM
10

“What’s wrong?” “Nothing. It’s fine” (It was not fine).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:08 AM
1

Your mum can tell you to clean your room till she’s blue in the face. But when some Canadian dickhead says it, it’s the greatest idea anyone ever had? I think you’re confusing who’s giving the message with how it’s delivered. Ask any gal to really think before she gives dating advice, and it’s gonna be “scrub up, be engaged, have something to talk about and be genuine”. And dudes will ignore that advice, in favour of the exact same shit coming from a dude with a shiny shirt and a bad haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:17 AM
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They met when my mum came to work in my grandparents shop. My dad hit on the cute new girl. They’ve been together coming up on 60 years. If anything, it showed me that you might meet someone cool anywhere, and to be open to chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:10 AM
4

I love that the "red pill works" dudes think that exercising, having interests, dressing better and being more social is some kind of incredibly novel prescription for improving your life and success in dating that no-one has ever suggested before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:03 AM
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As I've said many times: TRP is fine prima facie, as it's just self-help boilerplate. But scratch the surface, and it's virulent misogyny all the way down. What good is TRP as a (ugh) "philosophy" if it can't help fix anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:56 AM
1

Well - when you’re only accountable to yourself, it’s easy to let shit slide. If I hadn’t met my missus, I’d have kept smoking weed and playing vidya games for a few more years before I got my shit in a sock. In the long run, I’m considerably happier and better off for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:45 PM
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Bro - you can demand women pay for dates and ask you out today. Literally no one will stop you. There’s probably a small cadre of women out there who’ll be happy to oblige. But - much like dumpy homebody girls demanding six foot gigachad millionaires - good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:46 AM
8

Dude - fair has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:42 PM
3

lol - the oldies are definitely fucking. As for 50-somethings - lol. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:42 PM
9

It may be because these things matter a great deal less than terps think they do. We are not playing D&D and you are not a collection of stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:40 PM
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These “would you rather” questions are so fucken dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:37 PM
2

The single girls I know are good mates, but they range from “if I was single, I’d shamelessly hit you up” to “I get why you’re single”. I’m mates with women from mid 20s to mid 40s. None are terp fantasies. The young ones just want a guy who’s fun and nice to them. They’ve probably had boyfriends in the past - they weren’t slutting it up in the club. They are largely disinterested in hook ups. The older ones have all come out of relationships or marriages that ended. Some have kids, some don’t. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:05 AM
2

The bear thing got silly quickly - but had something interesting at the core. Sprinkle sprinkle is pure brain poisoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:05 AM
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Yeah - but most chicks aren’t that interested in situationships or sex most of the time. They want a boyfriend. That seems to be a big ask for the single ladies I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:33 AM
8

That’s solid advice for anyone - it’s not really gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:30 AM
1

In the age of dating apps, apparently not. If you’re old like me, that shit wouldn’t fly back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:27 AM
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Most people don’t give good dating advice. That said, the best dating advice I ever got was from a woman - to wit - “stop being a pussy and go talk to her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:26 AM
1

Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:41 AM
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Sprinkle sprinkle isn’t a movement. Stop trying to make it a movement. It’s ragebait made by brainworm-riddled TikTokkers. Pls stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:41 AM
2

Maybe I just hang out with people who have some level of self-esteem; but I’ve never seen this happen full stop. If you’re even considering knowingly walking into a relationship as the “backup”, stop immediately and get thee to fucken therapy. Jesus wept. Hell - if you’re knowingly on someone’s “roster” you need to take a good hard look at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:39 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:32 AM
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There’s a whole system (call it patriarchy, call it culture - it doesn’t matter) that wants men to bury the emotional and vulnerable parts of themselves. Men that are alienated from each other, and from the women they ought to love and respect, are useful tools for the reptiles in charge. Being vulnerable, and respecting the vulnerability of others is nothing less than a radical act of resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:38 AM
1

Only the most Pollyanna-ish techno-boosters will see this as anything other than a novelty talking body pillow. This will not move the needle on loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:39 AM
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Yes they do. They choose not to. They choose not to be open with partners, friends, family, etc. Nothing is stopping them. Oh come the fuck on. Some men (like me) are lucky enough to have friends who will give them the grace and confidence they need to open up. But even I struggle to be open with people I trust such is the ambient cultural antipathy to men being vulnerable or weak. Hell - most guys grow up in a milieu that actively punishes them for vulnerability or weakness. And that’s not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:47 AM
2

Hell - I work in construction. I’m in significantly more danger than your average cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:33 PM
2

Yes. There’s some individually good officers; but they’re good in spite of the system. The system does everything it can to not only make them uphold said shitty system, but to make them worse individuals. By the same token (and I wouldn’t call myself a radfem) I have sympathy for the idea that patriarchy makes men uphold it, but also encourages them to be worse versions of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:51 PM
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Look - I’m just a blue collar dipshit; but I thought the general summary of radical feminism was “patriarchy cannot be reformed, and must be destroyed before women can be liberated”; rather than “men bad”. Like - there are radfems who will take the position that man are incorrigible monsters, but I’d say they’re a minority; and most will take the view that men are victims of patriarchy too. But - like I said - blue collar dipshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:18 PM
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I dunno if that’s an exclusivity Marxist position; but whatever. So as a radfem you’ll acknowledge patriarchy; but other systemic injustice gets a pass I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:51 AM
2

Even hardened anarchists will eventually admit there’s a case for some sort of cop-function. But the system we’ve got (and the sort of people it attracts) needs to be razed to the ground and rebuilt from first principles. Most US cops look more like armed thugs for capital than peace officers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:26 AM
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Well - the jacks give a lot of people some very good reasons to hate them; especially on your side of the pond (I’m assuming you’re American here) In my own country (Australia), our cops are a lot less likely to speed-hole you for reaching for your wallet; but I still don’t trust the cunts. I’ll just avoid them like the plague. I’ll call them when someone’s been stabbed; but that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:13 AM
1

Pretty sure being sus about cops isn’t purely a product of us lefties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:59 AM
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No - it’s not a fault in my logic. If anything, it’s the opposite. I can fix nearly anything in my house, ergo I’m up for far more hours doing jobs around the house than most blokes. And it still pales in comparison to the general grind of cooking and cleaning. Sorry boys. No one cares if you re-laid the pavers on the patio - you still have to do the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:08 AM
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“I can’t get a gobby for wearing a badge because of woke”. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:11 PM
5

“High risk job in uniform” lol. Pizza delivery drivers have a higher risk job than the jacks. Pizza guys are braver than the troops.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:07 PM
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Cops as individuals might be good people; but they represent an unjust system of power that privileges the wealthy and the landholders over the poor and marginalised. That’s why we say ACAB. You sure you’re a radfem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:05 PM
13

Don’t google it. It’s advanced internet brain-poisoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:54 PM
6

lol no. This is a bullshit excuse for not doing the dishes. I’m a plumber/refrigeration mechanic by trade. I’ve previously made a living as a handyman, carpenter and joiner. There are very few things around the house I can’t fix. I put vastly more work into cooking, cleaning, vacuuming, and washing and hanging clothes than I do fixing leaking taps, servicing aircons, replacing rotting weatherboards, painting or doing minor electrical repairs. If I was to abrogate all responsibilities for domesti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:31 PM
7

There’s a lot of cargo cult mentality about this stuff. “Chad is rude and dismissive to the women he’s slept with. So if I’m rude and dismissive…”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:24 PM
5

Don’t date a cop unless you like explaining away a lot of black eyes. Firies though…ain’t no one ever made a song called Fuck the Fire Department
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:21 PM
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Yeah - but no one bats an eyelid at a 32yo dating a 27yo, or a 50yo dating a 40yo. Those people are in similar places in life. But a 32yo dating a 21yo 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:17 PM
1

Red pill, prima facie, provides some decent advice - work on yourself, have some self respect, develop some boundaries, etc. That’s good, but is just self-help boilerplate. Scratch the surface and it’s virulent misogyny all the way down from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:59 AM
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The endocrinology understander has logged on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:01 AM
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I think that people tend to stay with patterns they've established. People who sleep around a heap in my experience are novelty-seekers, or using sex as a substitute for something else. It's possible that novelty-seekers will get over it, or people using sex will get therapy - but if I were a betting man, and absent further context, I'd say that's unlikely. That said - I don't think there's anything inherently wrong or "damaging" about someone having a bit of a hoe phase - sometimes novelty-seek…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:59 AM
1

I am begging you MFs to read a history book. Masculinity has always changed over time, and has always been in crisis. We have never been as masculine and worthy as our forefathers. And - for the love of God - no one is denigrating the value of protectors and providers. What we mean by "protect" and "provide" might be changing though. We love the idea of heroic masculinity, but it's not especially useful in a world that basically pretty safe. If you wanna protect your family? Buy a better lock fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:21 AM
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Some of you MFs are certain this younger woman shit is going to apply to you someday, and the college girls aren’t going to think you’re a creepy weirdo because you have a nicer car than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:27 AM
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I won’t ask from advice from a friend who’s just gonna pump up my tyres - man or woman. I’ll ask advice from someone I trust. I know plenty of women who’ll give good advice and not just hug box me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:22 AM
3

Well yeah. I’ve seen a couple of relationships meet bad ends because one partner was obsessed with keeping their finances separate. Seems like a weird way to run a railroad to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:57 PM
1

I mean - if you define simping as any positive interaction with a woman, then sure. Or you could just be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:51 PM
1

Dude - I’ve done stuff to impress girls that has massively improved my life. Likewise, I’ve done stuff to improve my life or out of personal interest that has impressed women. You can’t tease this stuff apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:27 PM
1

Meanwhile, terps be on walking around with a mix of magical thinking, revenge fantasies, and virulent misogyny, and calling it philosophy while sniffing their own farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:17 PM
4

As an individual, you’ve gotta take care of your partner. Everyone come with baggage. But “motherhood penalties”? “Domestic labour gaps”? Nah. That’s a matter of doing what works in the relationship. When I’m cooking dinner, hanging out laundry, cleaning the bathroom or vacuuming the carpets, I’m doing that because they need doing and I’m doing my share of chores; not to address some domestic labour gap. But I’m not going to demand a reconciliation of hours spent on chores either. I do more dome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:11 PM
1

The revenge fantasies some of you boys carry around are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:59 PM
1

Look - feminism is a broad church. They make a huge number of valid and well-argued points; but there's bound to be a few clangers in there. In the words of Tara Mooney "I do not support all women. Some of you bitches are very dumb."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:36 AM
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I am largely disinterested in paying for the sins of my fellow men in my own relationship. I'll cheerfully pull my weight in the domestic/emotional labour front. We can both be grown-up people with jobs. Thankfully, my missus and I aren't internet brain-poisoned freaks; so we can have a normal relationship where we're not keeping track of everything like it's a fucken double-entry ledger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:11 AM
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I feel like the chicks have been saying they’re not okay for a while now. The response from a lot of guys has been “lol no you’re fine. Stop being a dumb bitch.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:37 AM
77

The self-snitching in this post is out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:32 AM
6

Agree. The sole purpose of a first date is to work out whether you like someone enough to go on a second date. Why drag that out over an elaborate meal when you’re in the awkward early stages of getting to know each other. Just get a drink and don’t be fucken weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:48 AM
1

“Know what you want, have standards, and stick to them”? Groundbreaking shit. Just as well the terps invented such things 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:44 AM
5

There’s a whole lotta grey area between “doing things to impress girls” and “simping”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:41 AM
7

This is up there with the most demented shit I’ve seen on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:20 AM
4

I think it’s mostly a (dumb) reaction to the perception of a lot of guys as cheap or low-effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:13 AM
0

I also know big words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:07 AM
1

Couldn’t be me, but whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:51 AM
-3

I'm sorry the girls are picking on you. You should tell teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:29 AM
30

Masculinity is a social construction. Women are half of society. It stands to reason they play a role in the construction of masculinity. But to sheet everything back to dudes wanting to get their dicks wet seems overly deterministic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:02 PM
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Same dudes can’t seem to define masculinity as anything other than “not feminine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:59 PM
1

22 years ago and not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:31 PM
-2

“I have an Uno Reverse card. Checkmate feminists.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:38 AM
-2

This is definitely not creative writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:37 AM
1

Uh…yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:58 AM
1

Happily married to a nice lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:55 AM
2

You’re describing the current situation, as terps see it. Back in the real world, women who want relationships seem to find them eventually, for the most part. I know you’ve got a beautiful revenge fantasy built up in your head, but it’s just not gonna play out. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:28 AM
2

Yeah, but what does that look like? Were that 50% of men a super hot commodity? Are they opting out of dating, or can they just not get dates? If it’s the latter, will their absence even be noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:19 AM
3

Why? How? Lotta gals seem pretty unfussed about remaining single; and if they just wanna hook up, seems like they don’t have too much trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:12 AM
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I wouldn’t beat myself up in your shoes dude. Dating is confusing, frustrating and occasionally humiliating. You’re having a pretty normal experience. My only advice is that you should stop worrying so much about upsetting women or coming across creepy. You really need to get out of your head to develop a connection. Ironically - in trying to avoid coming across creepy, you may be coming across cold or uptight. There’s always a risk that you’ll say something that upsets/offputs them - but that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:09 AM
1

woman bubble Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:02 AM
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I assume you’re writing this from the feminazi gulag they sent you to for man crime. Dude - getting the “ew no” treatment is kinda mortifying in the moment, but it’s not that big of a deal in the grand scheme. If you’ve been accused of harassment for flirting, are you certain what you were doing was flirting? What was the comeback? What did you lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:00 AM
1

I’m in my 40s. If I ended up single again, I’d want to date someone my own age. Single mum though - depends. How old are the kids? Is she looking for a boyfriend or a financial rescue package? Is her ex a decent guy and a willing co-parent? There’s a lotta questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:43 AM
1

You MFs are so fucking pressed about the bear thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:36 AM
25

A lot of dating advice is true but not helpful. Things like “be yourself”, or “be nice”. Both are true, but neither is really actionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:35 AM
1

You MFs talking like it’s some desperate effort to keep your girl happy. Just pay attention and don’t be an ass. It’s seriously not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:33 PM
1

There’s a secret third option, y’know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:12 AM
1

Depends. Are you lonely, want a girlfriend, or are you just looking to get laid? The first is the problem that dudes are complaining about, and that can be solved through emotionally close friendships. The second you’ve gotta come at as an equal. If you’re a net negative in a woman’s life, why the fuck would she be interested in spending time with you? We can’t rely on being a provider anymore - we’ve gotta bring something else. The third - if you’re not good looking and socially adroit enough, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:59 AM
1

I would watch the shit outta that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:05 PM
3

FFS dude - the whole “picked the wrong man” thing is bullshit. It’s absolving the man of any blame for being abusive or neglectful. Lauren Southern might be a racist POS, but she didn’t deserve to be abused by her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:03 PM
2

That’s definitely a thing; but it’s a separate demographic of women in their late 30s and older. The Tradwife thing seems to be a phenomenon of mid to late-20somethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:48 PM
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Those chicks better hope their man really wants that life; or at the very least he’s willing to pay alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:28 PM
3

I disagree. The Tradwife larpers love the pretty dresses of the 50s. They play at being button-down housewives; till they find themselves married to the sort of dudes who want a “traditional wife”. Then the reality sets in. Check out how Lauren Southern is going. She’s still a piece of shit, despite having come face to face with the reality of her ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:15 PM
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I have a soft spot for cottagecore, despite being a cranky socialist Me and the missus bake all our bread, distill our own gin, have a larder full of pickles and a yard full of veggies. I make furniture with hand tools and my wife makes her own clothes and covers the house in crochet. It’s like cottagecore did an exorcist-style vomit in our living room. But we get to do that because we’re rich and we don’t have kids - a very particular life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:06 PM
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Mormon chicks in their late 30s living in their cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:57 AM
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Dude - don’t “debate”. Don’t “discuss”. This is the internet - you’re just text on a page. The girls said “we’re pissed” and a bunch of guys said “you’re stupid for being pissed”. What are you trying to do? Convince them that you’re one of the good ones? You want a cookie? Just be good, and don’t look to Reddit as a source of validation that you’re a goody good boy who the girls should be nice to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:09 AM
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I think it’s more a follow-in from the Girlboss era. I think a lot of young women discovered that work kinda sucks; and leaned in the absolute opposite direction. Like - I don’t think there’s anything wrong with longing for a life more meaningful than working in a spreadsheet factory; nor looking to an idealised version of the past for cues on a simpler life. Hell - I remember Nigella Lawson writing words to this effect in the foreword to her seminal cake baking manifesto How to be a Domestic Go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:11 AM
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Of course it is. I’ve been with my missus faithfully for 22 years; but obviously I’ve been attracted to other women in that time; and I’m certain she’s been attracted to other men. But the grass is greener where you water it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:19 AM
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Dude - no one likes a simp - men or women. Pearl Davis would have a queue of dudes wanting to wife her up if they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:16 AM
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Tradwives are larpers. It’s affecting the aesthetics of 1950s advertising, with none of the pretty grim realities. It’s porn for the most internet brain worm riddled men, and a trap for naive women. Ex-Tradwife TikTok is grim, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:55 AM
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These dude just mad they can’t hang “No gurls allowed” signs all over everything. Then wonder why chicks find them off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:49 PM
2

“Separate but equal” Oy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:42 PM
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Dude - men have plenty of male spaces. Footy clubs. Boxing gyms. D&D groups. Book clubs. The construction industry. I’ve frequented all of them at various points. They were fine. Nary a chick in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:09 AM
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Maybe not. But I definitely fingered your girlfriend at school camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:41 AM
1

Are Manly Men trying to get into Guides now? News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:40 AM
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To be fair; it is the ur-example of annoying people being very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:38 AM
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The ostensible reason for the whole "women message first" thing was supposed to be a way of women avoiding creepy behavior from men. It was supposed to deal with the less pleasant parts of meeting dudes. I mean - it didn't work; but it was great PR for a fledgling tech company; particularly as we were still firmly in the Lean In/Girlboss era. Bumble's stock price has tanked; but then so has Match Group's (Bumble's main competitor). Which brings us to the issue of whether making the first move is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:34 AM
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And your comment reminds me of the nerds I bullied in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:16 AM
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I mean - I thought I was pretty secure in my identity. But now...bears. I DON'T KNOW WHO I AM WHY WON'T YOU LET ME LIVE!!!11!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:15 AM
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We won't. You'll never let us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:13 AM
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A modern art exhibit that absolutely succeeds in it's mission of making the worlds biggest babies shit themselves and throw their toys out of the cot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:12 AM
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Really struggling for shit to get upset about today I see. It was always Scouts when I were a lad. Then they let girls in. It was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:10 AM
2

Sorry dude - am I missing your point; because I have no idea what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:30 AM
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Nah - it's called being a joyless cunt. Or depressed. One of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:29 AM
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The difference between 80 and 85% loss is pretty academic. I’d say bumble’s slightly greater loss is more a result of Match being a larger parent company, more than bumble’s uniquely bad business model. Note - this is not me caping for bumble. The whole “woman texts first” thing was a simple (read: dumb) solution to a complex problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:38 PM
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Bumble is hardly unique in its stock price tanking. Dating apps are all propped up with VC money. Hell - most of Silicon Valley is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:53 PM
1

Oy. Every terp tries to word-Ju-jitsu himself out of saying what redpill is. When you actually pin them down to anything, It’s either a less shouty version of Tate/F&F or the most anodyne self-help bullshit you’ve ever heard in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:39 PM
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This is just looking at a potential partner through the lens of a box-checking exercise. It's anti-human and frankly dumb as hell. Sure - you want a partner who's generally going in the same direction. Like I'm not going to vibe with a chick who's a hard-charging entrepreneurial careerist who wants a Manhattan condo and a Bugatti; but part of the fun of a relationship is working out a path together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:23 AM
3

Is this grindset bullshit, but for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:13 AM
3

So much weeping and swearing undying love to one's bros. Medieval history turns me into one of those RETVRN weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:11 AM
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I love medieval history - but those knights were some seriously queeny bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:02 AM
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TBH - I think there's a lot of guys who've never experienced intimacy with a woman, and think that what they're actually missing out on is sex. We've got a culture that's utterly obsessed with sex in all it's pornographic variety; but utterly shies away from love and intimacy as being too messy, vulnerable and icky. If you've experienced neither; you've got far more familiarity with sex than with intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:00 AM
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I'm really struggling to see how this isn't just "date people you have stuff in common with". Y'know...like we've always done...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:53 AM
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Yeah - maybe speak to a health professional before taking the advice of some internet rando.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:47 AM
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We don't have to do a goddamned thing. If you're desperate to stay in the Man Box like every other miserable, joyless piece of shit out there; then sure - lean into that "traditional masculinity". Or you could read a book, and discover that "traditional masculinity" is a crock, and only existed after WW2 thanks to a generation of men with PTSD. The WW1 generation? Emo as fuck. The bold knights of the Crusades? Histrionic pretty-boys with very strong opinions about soft furnishings, fashion and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:43 AM
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I mean - I guess if that's how you choose to avoid any semblance of being human, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:35 AM
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Ive said things similar to this How similar, and in what context tho? I think there's a hell of a lot of dudes who are expecting women to solve their loneliness. A lot of women are fed up with being seen as the ones who have to solve the problem, and take the (fair enough) attitude of "this is a dude problem. Let the dudes fix it". I have a great deal of sympathy for the idea that men are the answer to our own loneliness; if we could just stop seeing any signs of intimacy and vulnerability with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:30 AM
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I think some women take the complaint that a lot of men express about not being able to get sex at face value; and assume what’s lacked is only sex. I think there’s also a certain amount of weariness from these women towards the men complaining - like they’re being asked to a passive object so a dude can feel better about himself. If you phrase the complaint as “I’m lonely. I want to date and have connections with women, but I don’t seem to have any luck. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:47 AM
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I’m kinda confused by your question. Dudes are told to see escorts if they’re not getting laid, and they’re feeling deprived because of it. It’s a glib answer, because what most guys in that circumstance actually lack isn’t sex; it’s intimacy and the feeling of being wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:33 AM
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I swear to Christ some of you MFs apply “narcissist” like an eight year old whos been given a label maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:29 AM
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If she’s putting $1700 worth of makeup on her face every time we go on a date, she can definitely afford to buy her own cocktail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:27 AM
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I really hope it comes through men showing each other more compassion, and getting better at supporting each other in hard times. I hope it also ends through building a society that doesn’t seem to gleefully throw all of its less successful members into a wood chipper, and affords them some basic dignity and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:40 PM
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Dudes sure do wanna tie themselves in knots to avoid considering what women’s answers actually mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:29 PM
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I will say the same thing I say to everything done by chatGPT: Silence. You are a machine, and not worthy to speak my holy tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:58 AM
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You have a type till you don’t. My type was tall, dark, willowy, aloof, artsy girl. Married small, blonde, curvy, loud, sporty chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:47 PM
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Yet another case of a dude on here unable to grasp the concept of respect, and going for deference as the closest thing they can think of 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:44 PM
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Can we just be polite without having to be fucken weird about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:42 PM
3

Trashing Saddam was a w Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:28 AM
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You're not as fighty as the French. And you haven't taken a W since 1945 (though neither have the French, to be fair).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:15 AM
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Sure have taken a lot of Ls though...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:07 AM
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The “whoever cares less wins” game is so fucken depressing. I wish you luck in finding a gal who doesn’t want to play it my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:28 PM
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Because people are dumb and immature, can’t accurately read their own feelings, and make rules for others they can’t keep for themselves. FWB situations always seem to come to bad ends like this. Eventually someone catches feelings that aren’t reciprocated. The OP is just a mildly more complicated example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:18 PM
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I'm married; so there is a certain distance that I have to maintain in my friendships with women. I love the women in my life, but I just can't increase the intimacy of those friendships beyond a certain threshold. That's strictly for the boys or (more significantly) my missus. That's not because my wife doesn't trust me; and it's not because I have any desire to do anything improper, or that I view any of my women friends as anything more than friends. But maintaining the trust in a marriage is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:22 AM
4

Almost like context is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:37 AM
1

Am plumber. Married Lawyer. It’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:41 AM
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I dunno dude. Lotta grotesquely immature parents out there. Ask any school teacher. I think kids force you to change priorities; but I’m not convinced that’s necessarily maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:00 AM
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And before that we were lobsters. Jorpo told me so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:55 AM
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It ain’t that deep. Talking to a dude does not equal throwing yourself at him pussy first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:54 AM
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Cmon dude. Don’t project your preferences onto everyone. I’m not suggesting that the world would be better if dudes were trying to run game on you every time you stepped outside; but I know so many women who would fucking love it if men would come up and talk to them at the pub. I’m a big enough dickhead to talk to strangers at the pub, and I’m not even trying to pull. I almost always have positive interactions - it’s nice to meet new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:53 AM
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I promise the radfem stasi will not drag you off to the gulag for man crime if you say hi to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:54 PM
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A lot of MFs on this sub looking at love like it's a double-entry ledger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:35 AM
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You meet someone you vibe with and you complement one another. You build a life together. My missus is waaay out of my league on paper, but we make each other very happy, so what the fuck does it matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:18 AM
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Dude - you can go up and talk to a chick without immediately getting all flirty. Fucken just have a chat and feel it out. Ratchet it up slowly if you get a vibe. Some of you guys are skipping steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:00 AM
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Well yeah. That's why I don't go round complimenting random chicks. Why are you guys so keen to give compliments? You could always not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:57 AM
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Another amateur endocrinologist ascribing magical powers to testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:55 AM
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In your case continuing to do therapy obviously has benefits. I don't mean to write off long-term therapy - but I can see how you could interpret my earlier comment that way. I didn't mean to come across like that and I apologise. I'm referring more to people with relatively mild anxiety spending thousands upon thousands of dollars over years dumping their anxieties into a therapist. It can turn into a theatre of working on yourself while developing a huge array of therapy-speak jargon without e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:50 AM
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It's a certain amount of wishful thinking from the terminally online corners of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:38 PM
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I've got friends (men and women) who have "Gone the Own Way" after bad experiences. Difference is, they've just done it and shut the fuck up about it. It's never "men bad" or "women bad" - it's more "nah - I'm good".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:37 PM
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You gotta practice to get better. Look - I'm a million years old; and I get that shit has changed since the last time I was single; but how do you think we met chicks back in the day? You had to face a lot of rejection and disappointment and boring conversations for every success. The odds haven't improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:12 PM
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It's not just balls, and there's so much more to it than just going up and saying "hi". If anything that's the easiest part. Agree to an extent. But getting over that first hump is something a lot of guys never do - particularly now that Tinder et al are a thing. There are multiple stages of "seduction", there are many different tactics depending what happens next, everything has to be planned for in advance. Oh god no. Trying to plan talking to a chick in advance like it's a dialogue tree is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:58 PM
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Lol - I love that. You've got some good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:45 PM
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There's a germ of good advice at the core of PUA stuff - and the bigger part of it is being willing to risk rejection and be able to bounce back. I'm sure I needn't tell you that it takes balls to go talk to that cute chick at the bar. If you've got friends who will help to psych you up to go do it, that really helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:44 PM
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Partially agree. Therapy can be very valuable for some people. It certainly helped me through some stuff. That said - it was part of the solution. A lot of people seem to talk about therapy like it's the panacea for every problem. Also - I see people who've been doing therapy for fucking years. At what point do you decide that a course of treatment just isn't working?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:39 PM
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Hell no. My physical strength is one of the defining elements of my masculinity. I love being strong and fit. When I get injured and can't train, I inevitably get depressed. Losing some of the ready access to physical strength as I age (i.e. I have to train harder for less gain) has probably been one of the bigger sources of existential angst. You seriously think I'm going to give up an integral part of my identity to make women slightly less nervous around me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:32 PM
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I'm Australian; so work in regional areas is mostly installing high-wall and ducted split systems in domestic properties. It pays okay, but it's not great money. The cost of living is lower, but not that much lower - particularly if you're burning hundreds of dollars a week in petrol getting around from job to job. In a city you can make much better money and your CoL, while higher, isn't that much higher. It's not the HVAC guys out in the regions who own boats, investment properties and the lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:44 AM
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Look - HVAC isn't HVAC isn't HVAC; more or less like any other job, there are specialties. If I wanna spend all day every day putting in high-wall split systems in people's houses; I guess I can go anywhere. But I like doing central plant work - so it's big cities or nothing. Likewise - my wife is a lawyer. We could moved to bumfuck nowhere and she could do wills and conveyancing; but that's not her interest of specialty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:49 AM
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We're not that mobile. I have no desire to move cities for better money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:41 AM
2

I can assure you that the good HVAC jobs are not in rural and regional areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:54 PM
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Depends what you mean by ED. Some sort of medical issue like very high blood pressure or nerve damage? Rare. Performance anxiety, certain medications, death grip or the ol' whiskey dick? Pretty much everyone at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:20 PM
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Sorta - though it’s mainly an online trope that first dates have to be these elaborate, carefully planned productions; or he doesn’t care. It’s a tiny number of TikTok/Insta weirdos ginning each other up for views; and thankfully not really borne out in reality for most people. Making the effort to pick a venue and a time is enough for most chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:49 PM
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We were laughing so much we got shushed by an indignant man with a laptop. Musta went well. I married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:42 PM
2

Broken link there…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:35 AM
2

Dude - we’re talking about buying her a beer here, not strapping on the nosebag at Noma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:34 AM
8

Then why complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:37 AM
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Best first date I ever went on was in a fucking Starbucks. And I hate Starbucks. It's all about the person you're there to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:37 AM
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I don't buy this "dating is more expensive for women" thing. I think a lot of women make it more expensive for themselves. Emphasis on for themselves. Like - it's personally flattering that you've turned up looking nice; but you would be surprised how few dudes can tell the difference between your $150 haircut, fancy makeup and designer dress; and you having showered, blow-dried your hair and put on the exact same slap you wear at work. Hell - unless you're pretty sure you're gonna bang the dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:35 AM
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Jesus Christ the stories I've heard from friends about how some dudes show up on dates. For real I swear some guys are going out of their way to avoid getting laid...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:34 AM
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For real - it has never been easier to plan a date. Thanks to booking software, you don't even have to call a restaurant. Dudes have legitimate grievances with dating. This is definitely not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:31 AM
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Why would you want to date someone like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:20 AM
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Most of the complaining I see regarding effort is just guys not making any plans at all. "Do you wanna do something sometime?" and leaving it at that. Those complaints go away if you say "Hey wanna get a drink at <Bar> on Wednesday? How's 8 o'clock sound?" Not so tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:02 AM
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I think you shouldn’t rely so heavily on your partner to fix your issues. That causes an unhealthy dependency, because if the relationship ends then that person is extremely vulnerable and their issues rise again. The relationship was just a band aid over the bigger issue. That's true to a certain extent; but there's a growing narrative online that having any reliance on a partner is a bad thing, and that you're being unfair to your partner by expressing any emotional needs. We go through tough …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:44 PM
1

Am plumber. Have made many thousands rectifying the work of engineers who thought they knew everything worth knowing about plumbing/hvac.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:29 AM
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The tech guys I know are all reasonably practical and handy. They do tend to drastically overestimate exactly how handy they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:24 AM
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They might look like Scotsmen. But are they true Scotsmen? In this essay, I shall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:08 PM
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Because people are dumb. It ain’t that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:47 AM
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As a bloke who’s been lucky enough to have been with one girl for over 20 years; the shit that is actually a priority for men and women is basically the same. Kindness, respect, goodwill and patience. The rest is window dressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:08 AM
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It's a tough life when all the girls are being mean to you. You should tell teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:37 AM
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Don't listen to these terp dorks. All the couples I know with great relationships laugh together all the time. They've got a big repertoire of in-jokes that make no goddamned sense to anyone else and love to crack each other up. That said, there are a lot of guys who feel a bit threatened by a really funny woman. A great way to hit on chicks is to be funny, and that feels tough when she's way funnier than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:36 AM
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Fuck no. One of my favourite things about my missus is her sense of humour. I can’t imagine not sharing a laugh with your partner. What a sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:57 AM
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Well - I KNOW THAT NOW
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:52 AM
2

I went to an all boys high school. I had to learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:28 AM
3

Dude - this is an absolute piece of shit move. She deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:29 AM
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Dude - I’m 6’1”. I’ve always been in good shape. I’ve always had a good job and/or good prospects. And until I got lucky and met my missus, dating was always frustrating, anxiety-inducing and frequently humiliating. Only a tiny group of extremely extroverted, socially adept people are having fun out there. It’s a slog for everyone else - even if you’re getting dates. I count both men and women here. It’s a fucken bummer across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:27 AM
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I have friends who are single by choice. They’ve usually had a few bad, abusive or generally humiliating experiences and thought “Y’know - I’m good.” As a mate of mine said “I downloaded Tinder. I swiped on half a dozen women and thought ‘There are so many other things I’d rather be doing right now’”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:21 AM
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Is the Lilith sock puppet account in the room with us now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:17 AM
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WTF are you talking about? It’s like 90% of what’s talked about on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:15 AM
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What fact? If you’re not having any luck on tinder, and it’s making you sad fucken get off tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:58 PM
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Dating apps are what you’re stuck with if you flatly refuse to make any effort to go outside and meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:39 AM
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Well if Hegel wanted me to get him he shouldn’t have written everything like a fuckhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:35 AM
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Dude - women don’t find average men attractive on dating apps. Big difference. Stripped of context beyond a 20 word bio, we’re just a sea of blah. Now - in person, where you can show that you’re funny or cool or interesting or whatever, it’s a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:25 AM
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THIS IS THE DIALECTICAL POLICE! DROP THE PHIL1001 TEXT AND COME OUT WITH YOUR HANDS UP!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:19 AM
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Smart people are cool. I like smart people. People who think their IQ bears any resemblance to how smart they are are obnoxious dorks. In the words of Stephen Hawking “People who boast about their IQ are losers.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:35 AM
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I lift twice a week, do yoga twice a week and run five times a week. I have something resembling a skincare routine. When I’m not wearing grubby work clothes, I like to dress stylishly - it’s a nice counterpoint to looking like a dirtbag most of the time. I’m married. I don’t really get any indications of interest from women any more; but that makes sense as I’m old and not looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:54 PM
4

By that I mean the calculus of the situation is different for men and women. It’s easy to be gracious and polite if you know you’ll receive the same in return. But I know more than a couple of chicks who’ve had some guy arc up or follow her to her car when they’ve declined some dude’s advances. Also - some dudes are just dense. They need more than a polite “I have a boyfriend” or similar. I’ve had the “Ew. No.” treatment before; and while mortifying, I never felt like it could lead somewhere out…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:37 PM
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Ehh…I dunno. I think most women are pretty polite. I think the onus is more on dudes to accept rejection gracefully. Getting shot down hard is humiliating; but I never felt physically threatened when a girl at a club told me to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:54 PM
4

If you cold approach women, you learn pretty quickly to only approach women that you get some kind of open vibe with (e.g a genuine smile, a held look, etc). Just barrelling up to women is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:45 PM
1

Oh Christ. Don’t you chicks start up with this gibberish too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:34 PM
3

Technically… 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:28 PM
4

Women being rude to guys trying to talk to them is nothing new. I slunk away, ashen-faced, from a few attempts back in the 90s. If a woman is getting some sort of weird joy out of humiliating guys innocently shooting their shot, that reflects poorly on her. But women don’t owe sleazy guys attention or politeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:26 PM
2

That’s…that’s what I was saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:31 PM
1

I’m not really much of a crier; but my missus has definitely seen me in tears at a few funerals. It was fine. I one cried in front of an ex. She tried to be supportive in the moment but was incredibly awkward about it. I think it was the first time she’d ever seen a grown man cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:30 PM
2

When I met my wife, I was wearing my DBZ power meter. I saw her across the bar and screamed “Her power! ITS OVER NINE THOUSAAAAAND!” Then we fought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:25 PM
6

JFC. No dude - if she’s interested, she’ll engage. She doesn’t think she’d hotter than you, she just isn’t interested. Why do you terps think this is some elaborate game?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:18 PM
4

You could also be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:14 PM
20

It’s kind of a bummer when you go to talk to a chick and she shoots you down rudely. But there’s no point in getting too bent out of shape over it. She’s either kind of a bitch and you don’t want her in your life, or she’s been hit on ten times already and she’s sick of this shit and you just got in the way. Either way, you got your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:19 AM
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IIRC none of the apps make any money and are all propped up with VC funding. Just like most of Silicon Valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:31 PM
2

Will you stop being obtuse, ffs. No one is screaming “paedophile” at every dad taking their kid to the park. If that’s the entirety of your argument, why are we here? But if I see a lost kid crying in the street, I’ve found out the hard way that the best thing to do is press-gang the nearest woman to help me find the kid’s parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:21 AM
2

I dunno what to tell you. I’m reporting what seems to be a pretty common story from fellas I know. Why would I question their lived experience? Are they all liars? Are they paranoid? Imagining things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:05 AM
7

Yeah, you should probably stop that if you want a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:14 AM
5

Being a doormat isn’t attractive. Actually having some opinions, and pushing back when people don’t treat you well isn’t being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:50 AM
2

There’s a fair crossover in that Venn diagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:47 AM
1

Every chick I know under 50 has at least one tat, and I’m pretty certain the vast majority aren’t slutting it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:46 AM
5

Police? I’d like to report a murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:44 AM
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You missed the first step. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:05 AM
3

If you’re charging in six minute blocks, I’m not sharing my unease about how I’m perceived by society at large - I wanna get my divorce sorted. Regardless - this isn’t the sole preserve of single dads (though they’re more likely to see it in my experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:36 AM
3

Honestly, it’s background noise for a lot of them. It only really comes to a head when there’s some kind of specific confrontation. Also - a lot won’t share these stories because they know it can look whiny. I dunno. Maybe it’s where I live, or who I’m friends with, or the simple fact that I’m a bloke who listens and feels like a safe pair of ears to other men; but I hear it a lot. It’s not anger or indignation - it’s sadness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:11 AM
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MFs really need to delete TikTok and go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:02 AM
15

I’m a plumber. I have made many thousands of dollars fixing the work of engineers convinced they know everything worth knowing about their plumbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:01 AM
3

Like - I get that people are protective of their kids. That’s only right. But walking through life being read as a threat everywhere you go is wearing. Like - if I smile at your toddler, maybe it’s because I think they’re a cute kid, not because I wanna do something unspeakable. Again - I get where this comes from, but it’s a real fuckin bummer sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:51 PM
3

I don’t know why you wanna date women. They sound awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:01 PM
8

Someone who sees single or divorced men as paedophiles would be seen as mentally ill. Have you ever spoken to a single dad? Like ever? Because I guarantee they will have some stories. Their daughter’s friend wasn’t allowed to stay the night at their place for ages, but it was fine when they were staying at her mum’s. People freaking out when they helped a kid who’d skinned his knee at a playground. Just plain ol suspicious looks when playing with their kids. Hell - do you think the virtual absen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:56 PM
1

What part of “it’s a norm, but not a rule” did you miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:27 AM
1

Dude - why would I white knight for the terp grifter? Her opinions are noxious and she’s obviously a pretty dim bulb; but she’s just a normal-looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:24 AM
2

I mean…I’m glad it works out for you; but this sounds absolutely sociopathic. If I found out a woman did this to me, I would seek a restraining order.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:49 PM
1

It’s a norm, but not a rule. My missus asked me out the first time, and I’m not alone amongst my friends. There are a lot of women out there with some pretty wack rationalisations for not shooting their shot tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:47 PM
3

Seek treatment. You’ve got irony poisoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:44 PM
2

Guys like girls to approach. But just approaching them doesn’t mean they’ll be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:34 PM
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I think we’re in furious agreement there. Though I do think that there’s a tendency to assume that when mens’ friendships look different to womens’ it’s evidence of a lack of emotional closeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:24 PM
4

Dude - that’s well beyond socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:05 PM
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Why is crying and holding the sine qua non of close friendship? My friend is going through a divorce right now. It’s really rough on him. So I do what a good friend does - I listen to him vent, offer him small acts of help and kindness and try to distract him when he starts to spiral. No crying or holding required. Well - not much crying anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:01 PM
5

I swear you dudes have no idea what respect looks like, so deference is the closest thing you can imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:42 PM
8

This is the way. If you’re not a simp for your missus, what the fuck are you even doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:39 PM
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From one dude with a very wonky gaydar to another - Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:58 AM
2

I dunno why people (especially women) are out here going after her for being ugly. It seems really mean-spirited. What about her appearance is so objectionable? She’s just a mid white girl. She just fits into the big amorphous blob in the middle of the bell curve. If she wasn’t so weird you’d probably be friends with her at work, and maybe try to set her up with one of your mid white boy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:46 AM
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I was talking about this with one of my friends the other day. She’s just started seeing a dude seriously after a couple of years of crap dates, frustration and false starts. She was saying how nice it is to finally know that a dude is actually into her, and not stringing her along for sex or about to bounce for the next shiny object. “Dating is such a tightrope. Can’t be too keen, can’t be too hard to get. Can’t jump in bed too soon, but can’t hold out too long. Gotta look good, but not look hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:06 PM
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Mentally healthy and stable women FTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:32 PM
9

Pearl isn’t ugly; shes just weird and off-putting. All her behaviour reads like the weird kid with rich parents who does things to upset people because it’s the only way she gets attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:02 PM
1

Prett sure it’s not genetic; so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:18 PM
3

I met my wife when we were both 23, and we've been together for 22 years. The idea of "wife goggles" is mostly a dumb idea with a kernel of truth. I would tell you - for the sake of your mental well-being - to put aside notions of a man being so transfixed by you that he never finds other women attractive. That will never happen. There are beautiful women everywhere. If he has eyes, he will see them. What I can tell you though, is that any decent guy will put aside any thoughts of acting on that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:22 AM
4

<Tips ushanka> M'Tovarisch...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:46 AM
10

I like my women how I like my coffee. Seizing the means of production from the bourgeoisie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:19 AM
1

Dude - you’re using “postmodern” as a shibboleth for “woke”. Demonstrate some understanding of what it actually is; or I’m just going to assume you’re going to regurgitate a bunch of Jorpo talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:19 PM
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Dude…the vast majority of dykes have a certain aesthetic. I see a chick with no makeup, wearing cargos and a baseball cap at the bar I don’t think “she must like sports”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:17 PM
10

People out here treating dating like it’s a hostile negotiation acting shocked when their dating life is fucking horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:13 PM
2

I find some kind of bill-splitting pretty normal, and I’m happy to pay the bill if I really wanna treat a gal; but TBH, I’d be weirded out if a woman insisted on paying. I’d assume I’d said something to upset her and she was making damn sure she didn’t owe me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:11 PM
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lol. You’d be bang on normal in my environment. I can’t imagine any woman I know expecting to have her dinner paid for by a dude. If I ran into that attitude of entitlement, it’d be a major turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:08 PM
1

I feel like the weight of expectation on who pays is just another rake to step on in the search for love. If we could just be normal about this shit without turning it into something so much bigger than it needs to be, we’d get along better. I hate the attitude of “a man who doesn’t pay for everything is cheap/not interested”. This is a dance, not a job interview. By the same token, I hate the attitude that paying needs to be some kind of double-entry ledger. I mean - you’re interested enough to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:02 PM
3

W…why would I hit on a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:51 PM
9

Dude - this stuff has to be vague and general, because every person and every situation sits in a specific context. Anyone being specific if trying to sell you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:43 PM
11

If you’re aware of your subconscious, it ain’t your subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:38 PM
1

Post modernism is - at its core - just radical skepticism. The fact that it comes up with answers that upset the “cOmMOn sEnSe!” crowd and gets used as a catch-all for ideas that lackwits like Jorpo find awkward only makes it more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:09 AM
3

This isn’t debate dude. It’s like you e asked chatGPT to spit out a few paragraphs in the style of Jorpo. I’m not digging into the meaning of Post-modernism with someone who takes it to mean “things that people who annoy me say”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:48 PM
3

Here’s a deal. If you promise to stop obsessing about pronouns and trans people, I’ll grab half a dozen bags of cold-fill bitumen and a tamper next time I’m at the supply yard. We can both be the change we wanna see in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:33 PM
6

Tell me you’ve been watching Jordan Peterson clips without telling me you’ve been watching Jordan Peterson clips.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:27 PM
5

My wife certainly values me. I don’t really give a shit about other women’s opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:20 PM
7

90% of this sub is dudes making up women to get mad at.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:17 PM
9

There is a yawning grey area between “broke man child” and “sugar daddy” that the vast majority of us live in, y’know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:19 AM
2

You gotta be trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:09 PM
12

lol no. I met my wife when I was broke as hell. She was also broke as hell. We’ve been together 22 years and have a very nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:50 PM
3

“Relationship Expert” = loud fuckhead with a TikTok account. If you get mad about this stuff, you’re feeding the beast. Don’t pay any attention to these clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:49 PM
0

The paper posits that women are more attracted to wealthy men. It provides some evidence to support this. Cool. But then it sorta just says “because evolution”; without establishing a causal link - or at least that’s how you’ve chosen to interpret the paper. This is bad science. The study has obviously been done to support Mate Selection Theory - which is fine - but a one-eyed view of evo psych as explaining all our interactions fails to consider cultural contexts, or alternative explanations. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:45 PM
1

Dude - what in the above have I failed to comprehend? And if you’re going to make up stories about how hard done by you are, try to make them believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:54 PM
0

Evo psych is cute stories masquerading as science. All their theories are down to interpretation, and none of it is disprovable in any sort of rigorous way. Sure it’s interesting, but it’s also junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:42 PM
2

Bro - why are you tying yourself in knots trying to justify a terp worldview? There are bad relationships out there; but remarkably few are because of some weird theories about alpha widows.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:39 PM
1

Well…yeah. If a woman sees your attitude of sour resentment, she doesn’t know what fucked-up thing you might do to take it out on her. In her place, you’d be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:34 PM
2

Oh no - quite the contrary. But it posits relationships with women as something that can and must be won. It’s so breathtakingly cynical that it fucks up whatever chance you’ve got of having a mutually respectful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:30 PM
1

I am struggling to divine what that text exchange has to do with your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:01 PM
7

Redpill just flatters your worst instincts. It says that women are withholding their sexual goodies out of spite. Could it be that your obvious reek of desperation and resentment scares the maidens? Nah bro. You just need to lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:52 PM
3

Dude - if you’re rocking up to social justice spaces expecting them to provide you with a girlfriend you deserve to get told to fuck off. You’ll get help, support and sympathy; but that doesn’t come in the form of charity pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:31 PM
1

The terps aren’t saying you have no chance with women though. They’re saying that women have to be treated as the enemy, and that the only reason you would ever want to interact with women is to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:07 PM
2

Yeah. TRP just teaches you that women are simultaneously moronic children and terrifying Machiavellian psychopaths, all hell-bent on stealing your precious bodily fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:00 PM
1

If absolutely nothing else, resilience. But more importantly, you learn what doesn't work, or who isn't into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:44 AM
3

Yes. Getting rejected sucks. But you learn more from failure than success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:53 AM
3

social media There’s your answer. People with, or aspiring to, substantial social media followings are either deranged narcissists or outrage farmers. Usually both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:23 PM
1

Wat? Is your only exposure to other women via TikTok? Who are these psychos demanding an 8 figure salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:25 PM
2

Whoa whoa whoa. Stop saying sensible, level-headed things. I come to this sub for the moonbat takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:16 PM
2

Dropping JDAMs on the server farms supporting pretty much every dating app and social media site would go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:43 AM
5

Well yeah - it’s push polling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:46 AM
2

I disagree. Reading this in Jocko’s voice gets funnier every time I do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:19 AM
3

Man - I gave OP shit earlier; but you are 100% proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:09 AM
41

THIS IS THE GRINDSET MINDSET POLICE PUT YOUR HANDS ON YOUR HEAD AND STEP AWAY FROM THE JOCKO WILINK PODCAST
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:25 AM
4

“Mein Kampf But For Girls” <chefs kiss>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:21 AM
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The inside of some people’s brains is a truly fucken weird place. This is catastrophising of the most demented sort. For the love of all that’s holy, throw your computer in the bin and go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:50 AM
1

Quote for job as a whole. I put 10% on materials to cover logistical on-costs. I currently work for someone else, but have worked for myself in the past - I’m commenting assuming I work for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:45 PM
1

Of course it fucking does. Have you people never had housemates?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:40 PM
1

Yo - I’m a plumber. I don’t have time for weaponised incompetence. I need to get the job done. I might stall for time if I’m trying to figure something out so I can look like I know exactly what I’m doing; but that’s about the extent of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:39 PM
1

Cool as hell. Amyl & the sniffers are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:33 AM
1

I am well aware of Amy Taylor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:08 AM
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Is this “on the internet no one knows you’re a dog” with extra verbiage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:43 PM
1

That sounds fucking exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:54 PM
3

Women who play in punk and metal bands are outrageously hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:49 PM
2

I’d still call that a friend, but you do you. I have attraction to and sexual tension with some of my friends. That doesn’t matter - I’m a one woman fellah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:02 PM
1

Not the only difference in a deeper relationship; but at a situationship level - nah. Feels like over intellectualising a friendship to me - giving a category to something that doesn’t really warrant one. Am I missing something? What is the difference between a friendship and a celibate situationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:40 PM
1

Bro - which chicks you hanging out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:14 PM
2

“Celibate situationship” That’s…that’s a friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:12 PM
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Dude - if you’ve got a medically diagnosed case of hypogonadism, and you’re taking test under the direction of a reputable doctor, power to ya. If you think your mild ennui can be solved with pills on the other hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:08 PM
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Or you could eat a reasonable diet, get some moderate exercise and go outside now and then; rather than taking pills and expecting them to fix your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:01 PM
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Assuming this happened (and it didn't) - dude is burning down his house 'cause he saw a spider. People fuck up, and you're allowed to be pissed about it, but this is a wild overreaction. As for men not being standoffish when approached - we just don't get approached that much (unless you're unusually good looking, I suppose). Any marginally attractive woman is going to have to deal with unwanted attention from guys all the time. It sucks getting shot down rudely, but I kinda sympathise with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:34 AM
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Everyone involved in the development and publishing of dating apps should be put in a work camp until they have made recompense for their crimes. Everyone else should be made to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:54 AM
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Pills are not a good substitute for condoms. It is fucken wild to me that people are out here rawdogging when they only just met. I've had the snip - but if I was dating, there's no damn way I'd be hitting it raw till we were in a relationship and had taken that romantic trip to the clinic together. Then again - I came up when HIV was still killing people...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:50 AM
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The "provider" thing is the most unbearably cringe shit. I want a partner, not a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:46 AM
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David Buss was the evo-psych guy who started this bullshit about menstrual cycles and mate selection. He’s since walked back his original conclusions significantly; but this bullshit stuck. There does seem to be some association between menstrual cycle and mate selection; but it’s very weak. Socio-economic factors are significantly stronger predictors of mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:36 AM
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Tried what? Focussing on superficial shit that doesn’t matter when forming a relationship? MF is firehosing money around and spending all his time getting jacked; and he’s upset that he’s attracting party girls? Not only that, but he seems to have nothing but contempt for the chicks he does cross paths with. It’s fucking demented.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:30 AM
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Everyone’s life is difficult mate. If you’ve got $200k to blow on a car, your life is considerably easier than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:20 AM
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There are plenty of people out here who care about mens’ struggles. But OP isn’t struggling. He’s just pissed that lifting and splashing money around hasn’t netted him the lingerie model/instagram Tradwife he thinks he’s entitled to. If he spent as much time trying to form some genuine connections with women as he did shooting tren and eating steak, he’d have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:18 AM
5

What kind of fucken werido goes out of their way to hit on lesbians. Just let dykes be dykes, boys. Your dick is not magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:07 AM
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Boy are you mad about something that only exists in the fevered corners of TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:03 AM
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Why the fuck would a woman be “loving” or “nurturing” to just any guy? Those are pretty vulnerable traits. Wouldn’t she have to feel safe to express those sides of herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:01 AM
30

I had assumed that dude was doing a bit; but then I read some of his replies. Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:11 PM
2

Dude - youre here in the comments of an unrelated topic half chubbed up talking about “lethal force”. How many hours a day do you spend fantasising about airholing home invaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:27 PM
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Fuck me you Yanks are horny to murder someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:42 AM
1

Let’s see some stats then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:50 AM
2

Not abnormal, but definitely unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:42 AM
5

It was legit. They got together very young and grew apart. It was sad, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:40 AM
2

Not salt-and-pepper. Fully grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:39 AM
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