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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Yeah because I totally said being single is equivalent to being homeless	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:51 AM
0	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. It’s been pretty clearly explained in this thread. Don’t be willfully ignorant	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:50 AM
1	Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7 You would really emphasize with a dude who feels shitty because he has no money, but does absolutely nothing to change it? I just wouldn’t to be honest, and I think that’s where men and women differ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 01:49 PM
1	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem Fair enough, best of luck to you in life man	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 12:26 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. If you were stuck on an island with only your least favorite food, you would eat it	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 12:16 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. You can be homeless and jobless and still survive it just really really sucks. Kinda like being single forever 🤯	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 12:14 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. What’s the excuse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 12:11 PM
1	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem That’s fair, my situation was a bit different since the girl was actually attracted to me, and I was born with the privilege of being a so called “chad” (wasn’t in highschool but had a glowup and got tall) so I can understand not wanting to resort to a prostitute. I guess I would say just try to go for an ugly girl and get a one night stand? I guess the other question is, is the shame of being a virgin worse then losing it to a prostitute?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:55 AM
4	Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single? Exception to the norm	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:47 AM
0	There’s a relationship drought for dating age people but half of us are in denial about it and don’t think there’s a problem That why you should lowkey just get a hooker to overcome that mental block. When I was 18 going to college for the first time I lost my V card in a one night stand because I had the same mental block as you then after that I was confident because I didn’t have this insecure feeling about being a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:43 AM
1	Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7 That’s just proving his point, you don’t deserve empathy if there’s an easy solution. That’s the definition of being coddled. If a man is unemployed by choice and has no money, would you feel bad for him? No because he could easily apply for a job	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:23 AM
6	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Ok whether you are or not the point still stands. Society doesn’t take men’s problems seriously	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:19 AM
8	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". You, a Democrat just told a young man “Boho, your problems don’t matter” you just said the left don’t treat men badly and then immediately invalidated a man’s feelings by saying boho. The irony omg 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:16 AM
1	The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder? Same with my friends case, girl was completely insane. You know why it happened in the first place too? Because she cheated on him and emotionally abused him but tried to get him back so I told her to “leave him alone” and then she attempted it. Then my friend got mad at me like it was my fault. Imagine if she did die by the off chance? My life would be fucked. Bitch was a fucking psycho. Luckily me and my bro are cool now and she’s long gone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:40 AM
1	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating Just literally not true lol. Just look up woman reaction to chad on YouTube	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:32 AM
1	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating Oh yeah having infinite access to have sex with people wayyy out of your league poor you 😢. Below average men get actually nothing. Would you rather have nothing or the first option, be honest	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:27 AM
1	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating Hookups don’t make you broke tho, you lose nothing except self respect	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:22 AM
1	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating Lol ur spitting, professional victim over here. This is like if I keep kicking a metal pole over and over again and complaining how much it hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:20 AM
1	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating Then maybe don’t have meaningless hookups if it’s invalidating? 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:18 AM
1	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating Agree, they act like their personal experiences (which are clouded by bias) somehow are more accurate then actual statistics lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:13 AM
-3	If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laid Lol I’d like to meet these men	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:06 AM
–	The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder? This is facts I knew a girl who swallowed a whole bottle of aspirin to try to get sympathy from her boyfriend. Aspirin overdose has like a 95% survival rate or something she knew she would survive	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 07:03 AM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Yeah ur right I suppose	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 06:37 AM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Gotcha	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:12 AM
2	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Yeah I agree I was confused by the post because he said “what you cannot change” but he should have specified “from birth” but that’s on me I’m really tired lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:05 AM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Nah I agree, I think I just misworded was I was tryna say	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:04 AM
–	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. What does n-# mean tbh? I’m newish to this sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:04 AM
1	Many women use sex as a reward and most men fall for it. Yeah you can’t suppress your sex drive but you can have discipline fs	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 03:26 AM
–	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Dude u know what I meant don’t be a smartass lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 03:23 AM
–	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Well you should’ve put “cannot change since birth” cuz I was kinda confused	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 03:22 AM
–	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Yeah you’re correct, but I just had an issue with the fact bro acted like men had zero superficialness whatsoever lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 03:21 AM
–	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Dude I know women can be virgins lol but if you’re already not a virgin you can’t become a virgin again 😭. Also the video you sent was a sample size of two girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 03:15 AM
–	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. I mean while I do agree with you for the most part I gotta play devils advocate to be fair. Not a male feminist but I can’t stand being a hypocrite. Men judge body count, which cannot be changed, women judge money and muscle, which can be changed. Men also judge baggage, which cannot be changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 03:06 AM
2	Society’s okay with people insulting women…as long as its not misogyny. They’re literally the comedic relief of shows, they’re essentially casted to be laughed at because they’re short and ugly. I mean not Kevin hart but he’s also a comedian	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 01:34 AM
–	Society’s okay with people insulting women…as long as its not misogyny. Difference is all of those celebrities have incredible achievements or are ridiculously attractive to make up for their singular flaw. Just because .00000000000000000000000001% of dudes don’t get as much criticism for these flaws doesn’t mean it’s not true. Also Kanye literally gets completely clowned and made fun of for his mental illness all the time, barely anyone is empathetic with his incredibly concerning behavior besides his biggest fans. Most short celebrities who are praised are excepti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:58 AM
–	Society’s okay with people insulting women…as long as its not misogyny. Yeah but men still have to suffer because of said blue hair feminists. You’re obviously a rational and intelligent person, but you underestimate how stupid and irrational the average person is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:44 AM
–	Society’s okay with people insulting women…as long as its not misogyny. yeah I can see being fat, but being fat as a woman is just objectively 10x better than being fat as a man. Fat girls will post on instagram and still get 100 comments from people calling them beautiful and whatnot which is unlike men. Being fat is pretty much the only think women get insulted for because it’s basically the one standard that society holds them too and even then their is a lot fat girls. I feel like girls get hit with more viscous names for being fat because they get really defens…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:32 AM
1	Sometimes it's Okay to blame the Victim How is that gonna help the male and female relationship issue? Causing constant fear and paranoia? No you just need to take precautions when meeting up with guys. Like you said, don’t be alone with them if you don’t know them, go on a few dates first, but saying all cold approachers are rapists is preposterous	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 11:18 PM
–	Society’s okay with people insulting women…as long as its not misogyny. Being short, being poor, being skinny, being fat, being socially inept, crying, being emotional, having bad mental health, making basically any mistake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 11:14 PM
1	How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be? This is the right move, good for you 😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 11:07 PM
2	Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things? Simply false lol. Women have the possibly of not working, doing chores is easier than a 9-5 and if want out they get half of the dudes stuff. They basically have permanent life security and can still leave and walk away with more then what she started with, while the dude has stay loyal, work, and will lose everything if the girl becomes dissatisfied. Of course both genders can work but modern women seemingly take money into account the most when deciding to marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 11:06 PM
2	It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too high No the main issue is women sleeping around with 9s and 10s while those 9s and 10s aren’t interested and relationship with them. Just get in a relationship with someone more on your level and don’t sleep around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 10:52 PM
1	Porn is not cheating Oh yeah destroying your dopamine and grey matter systems by watching 4k videos of 10/10 girls with double Ds getting cum shot on their face in a dark room by yourself, so sensible 😂💀. I will enjoy my 50 year old way of thinking and my healthy brain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 07:03 PM
–	Porn is not cheating Cope	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 08:26 PM
3	Porn is not cheating As long as it works for u my dude 😄	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 10:50 AM
3	Porn is not cheating Gone thru this thought process more times than I can count while high lmao 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 10:49 AM
4	Porn is not cheating A porn addiction problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 09:49 AM
6	Porn is not cheating Dude if you weren’t fantasizing about fucking other women then why are u watching porn in the first place, just jerk off to your gfs nudes lol. I’m basing it off the most common kink? Some fetishes don’t involve sex? Idk what ur talking about tbh dude but this seems like some mental gymnastics to justify watching porn. I mean I get it I’ve been there dude I used to be addicted to the shit, but bro, do you genuinely think porn isn’t just objectively bad for you? I mean it’s been scientifically pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 09:48 AM
3	Porn is not cheating Lol sounds like you just have a problem and are coping about it but u do u bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 09:43 AM
7	Porn is not cheating It would be considered cheating because you’re fantasizing about fucking other women besides your gf or wife while jerking off to videos of them getting fucked lol. If it was the inverse and girls watched all the porn guys would be pissed	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 07:06 AM
11	Porn is not cheating Nah I disagree, society has normalized porn to an unhealthy degree. In the 1970s if you were jerking off to naked women that weren’t your wife it’d be cheating	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 06:32 AM