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DiscussionWaxico/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:30 PM
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lol we hitting too close to home?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:29 AM
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I never said that, but hes not a bad person if he breaks up with you over that. If you think so then that’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:02 AM
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You’re putting two different camps of men together and then saying men as a whole are awful and being inconsistent. If you put out fast, you attract a certain type of guy and offput the other. You’re just upset that the second type of guy doesn’t want to play along with the “change of heart”. Avast, it’s the consequences of your actions!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:55 PM
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“Guys why am I not finding fulfillment in casual hookups when I’m wanting a level of effort that you would want for a serious relationship?” Mods need to be stricter with what posts are allowed to go live.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:20 PM
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Nice strawman, that’s not the mentality behind that screening. The thought process is that if she has a promiscuous past and hasn’t made it apparent she’s reformed from that, but gatekeeps sex from you longer then she did from other men, then it’s an indicator that she’s not actually attracted to you and maybe is using you for security or other reasons. If you opened your legs before but we are in a serious relationship because you supposedly like me beyond sexual attraction, yet you gatekeeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:18 PM
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>is there some corner of the internet where men are fed videos of women crying that men used to be good and now they aren’t?? Bra wants to pretend to be in the know about modern dating but doesn’t know about manosphere fembait content? “Guys I don’t know what fembait is, here’s the exact descriptor though!! I’m so clueless lol derp!” Wonder why the attention-seeking femcel has bad luck with guys? We got told you leave you alone, we got the memo. Now keep your whining to yourself or to your inner…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:06 AM
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Then stop whining about it. Women say they don’t care but never shut up about “all the awful men out there” or “how there’s no good men anymore” on social media. We leave you alone and we still have to hear the crying everywhere we go. Shut up and go away femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:49 AM
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You are so out of the loop if you think the reason guys don’t cold approach is because we are worried about their safety/social concerns or that we’ll be physically assaulted by women (although nowadays who knows…). I don’t expect a 6ft fit military guy to understand the struggles of the average man. That doesn’t mean we are trying to actively make women uncomfortable or don’t care on some level, but we aren’t thinking “I’d better not bother her because I might scare her”. We’re thinking “If she…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:21 PM
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Notice how she wasn’t willing to engage your comment because it’s the only one that got to the meat and potatoes instead of squabbling over minor points as she always does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:54 PM
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Yeah for sure, it’s a partnership and you have to be willing to put effort into the relationship and understand each others needs. It’s going to look different for everyone, that’s just the traditional marriage dynamic so I used that as the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:53 PM
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I’d say this is a scale and not just a “is/isn’t” submissive. Depends on what the man is asking for regarding “deserving submissiveness”. Does a guy that worked his 9-5 deserve to come home to a nice meal after a long day? I’d lean yes, but there are things he could do that would make me say no. Does he deserve to get home and “demand some sucky-sucky because he’s tired from the office and he’s the man and provides for everything”? I’d lean no on the “deserving” part, but in a good relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:17 PM
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Whatever you gotta tell yourself ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:23 PM
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>that’s just the guy being insecure tho Just say you don’t think men should have a respected sexuality and stop wasting everyone’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:20 PM
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I won’t discount this, but I’m calling BS in most cases of a girlfriend gatekeeping intimacy when she was fine with it before. Let’s go with the “turned a new leaf” argument though. It’s not unreasonable in some cases for the guy to think she just doesn’t like/respect him enough to do it and to get upset from this. The reason I used BJs is because “kinky” sex is a strawman of what guys actually have a problem with. It doesn’t matter anyways because kinky is subjective and there are definitely pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:34 PM
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You gonna address the point or you gonna zero in on blowjobs not being kinky so the point somehow doesn’t apply? Where’s this insight I’m apparently missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:04 PM
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Do you even read your oppositions points? It’s never been about the kink acts themselves (maybe there are a few people that argued this, but most people I’ve seen talk about this aren’t) Let’s use a really simple example: new relationship, boyfriend asks for a blowjob, girlfriend acts shy about it and says she doesn’t give blowjobs or do other lewd stuff early in a relationship. Boyfriend finds out she used to suck off guys she just met at parties. Clearly there is something going on to cause he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:52 AM
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“90% of normal everyday people are mouth breathers prattling through social media.” I don’t think it’s that high but it’s the conversation people aren’t ready to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:26 AM
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Sorry but I have to jump in here. You can also choose to have sex with only a long term partner/spouse, choose to use contraception, choose to self pleasure to satisfy yourself of sex makes you that paranoid about unplanned pregnancy. Lots of choices can be made before an abortion has to be considered. If you’re not ready or don’t want to grow a whole human being then make the right choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:16 PM
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Sorry I know it’s irrelevant to the post, but I love that article. “Hey guys, so hypergamy is true and if you want any shot at all you have to get HingeX because you have to keep liking until someone just likes back”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:27 PM
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>Yes, because being wrong is being wrong. Ironically, it was a man that made a phrase popular “facts dont care about your feelings”. Where in the concept of a debate do I have to accommodate someone’s wrongness? OMG we’re on Reddit, get over yourself. This isn’t the halls of debate. If you’re so inundated by men and their problems, I would think you’d pick up on some of their verbiage or how they use words in contexts. >They want to conflate their definition of the word with the actual definitio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:59 AM
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Because back to point one, when they say “disagreeable” they aren’t thinking of it in the same way you are. If your response to them is to get a dictionary then fine, but stop playing dumb at the same time and pretending you don’t know what they are thinking when they say “disagreeable”. >why would these ugly guys want to be with those shallow women? IDK could be a myriad of things. She could be hot, they could see her as easy, not many other options, and who knows what else. A lot of guys think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:25 AM
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I think a certain level of intelligence can be shown when you understand words and definitions but also understand how people on the ground may use them and you’re able to adjust accordingly. I find people unable to do this to not be that intelligent or at the least narcissistic, make of that what you will. > Men often complain that women “lie” about wanting good men because bad boys still get dates, sex, and relationships. They use this as proof that personality cannot be the real issue. Being …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:59 AM
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Agreeable/disagreeable as used here is different to how people in lay conversation use it. Find different nouns that matches better to what people are actually talking about when they say “agreeable/disagreeable” (maybe “compromising/combative”?) and you’ll probably get more people agreeing with your thesis. Now to your other point - maybe the stats speak differently to this, but my experience on the ground is that a lot of women are that shallow and I’d say that explains in part why there is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:39 AM
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Does an adult female have more reason to fear another female or an adult male? That’s the point trying to be made, including fetal people in the equation is fallacious because they don’t have anywhere near the same kind of experience as adults or even children. The most you can say is that pre-birth, women are the biggest risk to other women, but post-birth it’s men that become the bigger risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:18 AM
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Ohhhhh I see now. While I philosophically agree that abortion is murderous in most cases and that we do need to fix the issue, let’s not conflate that for statistics in this case. Women are here very clearly making a distinction between people out of the womb for this topic because a fetal person doesn’t experience the things a person that’s lived a good chunk of a life has. Like you know that what she is saying about males being a threat to females is true for the context we are talking about. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:57 AM
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Dude where tf did you get that stat? How does that even make sense from a reproductive/evolutionary standpoint of mother's killing their own daughters? Obviously we're focusing on the wrong issues affecting the birthrates if the filicide rate is that high!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:37 AM
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Sorry you went through that but I’m assuming you’re ok with it because your two kids are girls? Would you want sons to go through that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:19 AM
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I mean I get where you are coming from and agree with most of your post on a technical lev, but I think you’re not understanding “like me for me” completely. My perspective of it is they’re good enough for me as they are but I’m not good enough for them? My friends and family like me and I would improve for them because I love them. I’d do the same for a LTR but why should I do that for some stranger? Isn’t this the equivalent of a guy not dating a girl for being fat? So it’s not ok for men to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:53 AM
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Broken people try to use each other’s shattered pieces to become whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:51 PM
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Who cares if they think that? You’re letting their opinions matter more than it should. Of course they’re doing it to try and belittle you, don’t give them the satisfaction of it. Don’t go into it trying to making them regret/chase you either, that just shows you secretly still care about their opinions. If they complain about it later (which they have, despite the women here trying to deny it), you can just ignore it. You’re not actually doing MGTOW if you’re trying to get a reaction from women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:07 PM
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Yeah I agree, they’re right about a lot of stuff but I hate the people and spaces. If they actually didn’t care about women’s opinions anymore or truly went MGTOW they wouldn’t be content farming crazy women or consuming the content. They’re really no different from the feminist man-haters on TikTok that “are so over men” but constantly post shorts about how men get on their nerves and whatnot. Kind of like you actually 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:22 PM
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Well as a straight guy I don’t read male homoerotica, so I’ll have to take your word for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:13 PM
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But women supposedly hate having kids, so why would they have sex to reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:00 PM
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Under OP’s framework, I could see how homo erotica could fulfill women’s desires for that male validation he refers to. If men really have that level of homoromanticism and women crave that level of connection, then gay men would be the fantasy of what they want but can’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:57 PM
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I agree with the male part of the post but you’re kind of all over the place with the female part. It makes sense that men would be more interested in bond-ship with each other than their wives. For most of human history, men would be engaging with each other more as equals than in our modern times where women are now part of that equation. Men going out to hunt with each other, building together, learning/mentoring, entering battle. It would have been important for group cohesion for men to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:27 PM
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That’s fine and these are all understandable, just keep any regrets about it to yourself. No one wants to hear your whining about it later in life when everyone already said you might regret not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:40 AM
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OMG you did it, by insulting me you’ve convinced me to think like you! I’m gonna go voot for Kamala right now!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:51 PM
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gives list of grievances “Yeah but what about when women had to deal with the same thing?! How do you like it?!” Yeah you’re totally trying to bring equality, I have no reason to believe this isn’t about getting even. The rest of your comment shows you clearly just have man hate, so I’m not even going to entertain it. “Men are voting for an elitist that covertly doesn’t have their best interests, instead they should be voting for my candidate that overtly doesn’t have their best interest!” Have …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:27 PM
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Translation “we’re getting back at you for how you treated us so fuck you”. Have fun with that, totally won’t backfire like it has been recently with pushing men into extremist Right positions, not the fault of this kind of mentality at all. You go though girl, when an actual handmaids tale comes knocking on your door, at least you’ll be able to think back on the 40 years you got to get back at moids and whitey by implementing DEI and feminist propaganda media. You really showed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:19 PM
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Yes but not at the same rate as we see with men. Women don’t have as strong of a sex drive as men and if we go by RP/BP hypergamy standards, most women wouldn’t be sexually interested in most men. You’d see high intra-female competition for the top 10% males and some SA from frustrated women that didn’t acquire those top tier makes, but it would not be anywhere near to the extent of what the stats look like with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:17 AM
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Bait or Low IQ, call it. (I agree with the post just think some of the language is stupid and think some of it goes too far)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:17 PM
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Refer to the paragraphed sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:17 PM
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Nobody feels this way about the kinds of women you listed. (Also stop expecting things from strangers on the internet) People say that about man-haters that say all/most men are abusers because they’re sick of hearing about a women that should recognize the patters of abuse fall for the same kinds of guys over and over and getting told that it’s somehow their fault for being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:12 AM
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Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:50 PM
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Sorry you’re going through that, I’m sure it’s frustrating. Not to be rude and pry on your personal life but before your 4 year celibacy period, were you sleeping around? Guys might have built up a reputation about you being “easy” if they know your history. Other posters have left good insight and advice, but I wanted to throw this out as a possibility to you if it applies. This is why having a hoe phase is not a good thing unless you are positive you do not want to be in a LTR later in life. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:29 PM
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“They do a great job with other groups. When speaking to women, they address them directly, saying we’re going to improve women’s rights, women’s healthcare, women’s reproductive issues, etc. When speaking to people in the LGBT community, they say we’re going to ensure gay marriage stays legal, we’re going to improve care for transgender individuals, we’re going to attend pride events, etc.. When speaking to black people, they say we’re going to invest more in majority black schools and HBCUs, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:03 PM
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Phone glitches, I’m gonna delete this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:42 PM
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I’m not inconsistent Oh ok so are you racist then? history and disenfranchisement Oh interesting, now that the subject has pivoted to race you seem to be more willing to add nuance to violent behavior 🤔. Almost like one of the critiques of this thought experiment is that it’s PC to villainize men, but women are unwilling to apply the same logic to identities deemed not-PC. When it comes to sex though, blanket statements are fine! This is my point, if this is the logic you’re going with then you …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:36 PM
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lol don’t get mad because I’m calling you out on being inconsistent. “That’s your gripe” is how I believe you put it in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:23 PM
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You didn’t answer it you just deflected, point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:07 PM
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This is the same logic white supremacists use for black/non-white people. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:59 PM
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I think I see what you are getting at. My guess is it has to do with sex, as all things really 😒. Men getting rid of things like DEI and illegal immigrants are things that will ruin their chances with women in the short term, but once women find a new cause to virtue signal about they’ll forget about what the men did. With men’s issue stuff, it’s more in women’s faces and affects their lifestyles. DEI and letting in migrants doesn’t affect these women’s lives, it’s just for feel good points and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:29 PM
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lol, this was the same counterpoint I got last time I spoke against sex work. Have you all actually deluded yourselves into thinking sex work is even on the same level as menial labor? That’s hilarious. The average person does not look down on burger flippers (if they do at all, you’re typically seen as a snob if you do) in the same way they do a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:40 AM
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Isn’t this only an issue for women that have sex very early in relationships? Making a guy wait a little is supposed to be a good filter for who is serious about dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:18 PM
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Damn, a lot of the women here really just skimmed through the post and said 🙈🙉🙊
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:13 PM
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When I said that, I meant as in if a hoard of incels or Muslims come to pillage the village. Men who beat and kill women are not usually the type to pick up arms when it’s time to defend against a threat, they’ve already shown they’re cowardly by how they treat women. The men that usually would are going to stop and think “why am I going to die defending these women when they’ve gone out of their way to say they hate me and blame me for everything?”. And if you feel that way, take advantage of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:13 AM
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While I do agree to an extent, the main rhetorical goal by modern feminists with this argument is “Fuck you but pay taxes so I can live hedonistically. IDGAF about your problems because my grandma was treated badly by like having gender roles o algo.No it’s not our fault when our rhetoric creates the incel army and you still need to die protecting us if you aren’t part of the incel army, but we still hate you and see you as paypigs”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:51 PM
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So findom girls make millions for posting pictures of their socks why does a white collar slacker making that much like why does this bother you so much ? lol, have fun continuing to lose elections. You can complain about us all you want, but end of the day the Tangerine Tyrant is in office.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:41 PM
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No, not when men are younger. They’re all trying to go for the hottest woman. As they get older then yes it is different. I don’t think men see dating at their level as settling, it’s more of a logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:30 AM
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It would be nice if women could do this without telling men to kts. I’m not saying that you’ve done this but it’s a sentiment I’ve seen from women that consider themselves “girlies” or part of 4B and adjacent movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:38 AM
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Average guys, but they are settling. They want guys out of their league but know they aren’t likely to get it, so they settle for someone more their speed. It’s more so the fact that being with someone that is your equal is seen as settling or a downgrade. Examples of this female deluluness can be seen in this very thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:34 AM
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I agree and it’s why I don’t have an account, but you can’t just brush aside that it’s happening there and it can’t all be engagement farming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:21 PM
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Somebody should tell all those women on TikTok then, they aren’t getting the memo for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:06 PM
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Don’t have a TikTok, but go search up “women hitting the wall” on YT and have fun. inb4 le confirmation bias If the multiple clips of different women on various manosphere channels isn’t enough for you then that’s your issue. And before you go there, I don’t watch a single manosphere channel and think they are cringey as well. I’m just saying those guys have to be farming content from somewhere and there seems to be a good supply of TikTok women for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:16 AM
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Before TikTok, these women were still at a stage in life where they weren’t hitting “the wall”, so probably didn’t feel the need to talk about it on social media. Tiktok launched internationally in 2017, that’s enough time for women who started on the app to hit an existential crisis as they get closer to 30. Before social media, I feel like the unsatisfied unmarried woman was isolated and didn’t have a way to vent her frustration out. Also women were pressured into marriage back then and so the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:12 AM
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I didn’t put part of my post because I didn’t want to assume a position you didn’t state, but it’s hilarious how easily I predicted that you’d pull the “TikTok women don’t represent women at large”. Why do the terminally online r*tards represent men but not women? I think you just don’t want to admit this is a bigger concern in women’s spaces than is let on, cause then you can’t leverage shame against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:18 PM
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I don’t disagree but some of this post is such 🐴💩 at the same time. Do we really need to pull up all the TikTok’s of 30+ women saying how they are having existential crises about being single at that age and how they actually do want a husband and family?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:43 PM
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Because all the pretty young girls are liberal and we don’t want to have to wait until they hit 35 for them to mellow out, by then the prospects of having a family are over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:30 AM
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What does me getting laid or not have to do with me not wanting a bunch of Hispanics imported into our country for cheap labor? How exactly is that in my best interests, even as a Hispanic man? Yet another white woman virtue signaling with her luxury beliefs because she doesn’t have to deal with the consequences of the policies she wants. Have fun with the next 4 years, your attitude is definitely going to win men back to your side…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:51 PM
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Wow bro, you provided two anecdotes. Our ideas are totally deboonked now, good job 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:24 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:37 PM
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I wouldn’t want to be with someone who is constantly telling me shit like “you will be replaced by someone better who will do those things”, especially months and years into a relationship. Someone who acts like that deep into a relationship never valued it in the first place. What’s the incentive for men to want a relationship under your dynamic? Your message is “be perfect or I’m leaving you”, and then women complain that men don’t want to talk, date, or even fuck them and get upset that the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:42 AM
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Wish this could simply just be as it is, which itis, but there is a lot of social berating of these men from said women though. Woman say they just want to be left alone by these undesirable men, but go out of their way in places like TikTok or IG to complain about and vilify them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:04 AM
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Based post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:05 AM
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Yes, but it’s a certain type of woman. Those kind of women would make terrible wives and mothers and so you should ignore them anyway. Look for a woman that doesn’t respond positively to power that bullies and subjugates others and if you aren’t attracting those kind of women then reflect and see what you can change about yourself to be more desirable to them. I also see you rebutting to a lot of people saying that women tend to marry up and not down. While that is true, I don’t think that corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:04 AM
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Oh absolutely, it’s why I don’t blame women if I guy is glossed for being a bum. I look at women who date bums as not worth anyone’s time. Issue being that a lot of normal guys are considered bums by women that are more on their level, which I think is being picky. If I had to carry a child for 9 months and then be with someone to raise them for 18 years, there are certain things I’d be pretty strict too about when it came to who I married. That’s why it upsets me when I see women who pick obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:30 PM
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Yes and no. I think women vet on the wrong traits in the modern day and are sometimes too strict with the traits they should vet on. Some guys need to learn that sometimes the way they are truly is not good enough for women and they either need to change or learn to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:43 PM
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I think it’s because the kind of intimacy a woman wants out of a relationship is the kind she can get from a friendship. The kind of intimacy a guy wants, unless he’s gay, is not the same kind he can get from his friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:45 PM
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No, sorry I disagree with you. I think if people were not picky in their standards, everyone would eventually find someone. It’s just how statistics should play out if people dated over equal criteria. The fact we have a bunch of guys that get pushed into the Redpill is in part because women like to date up, not equally. whataboutism about men wanting the 10/10 Yeah yeah, everybody pines for the hot guy/girl, but people check into reality at some point and realize “maybe I’m not cut out for a 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:39 PM
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why not focus on the women that like you as you are Doesn’t the fact the Redpill exists as an ideology disprove this point? If there were women rated as a 6 that were matching about 1:1 with men in the same or close rating, then I don’t think there would even be a Redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:13 PM
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Nice word fallacy “I never used the word blame so no I’m not blame shifting”, like we are too stupid to read between the lines. What the fuck do you think the phrase “self-imposed” implies to people? “You feel shitty about your lot in life? Hm must be self imposed” and then you find a way at the end to shoehorn in “and this is how it negatively affects women, we get blamed for the fallout of their self imposed failures”. Like again, he wasn’t even talking about women but you still have to find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:46 AM
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I have to ask. What is it about the female brain that just makes you go “I have to shift the blame, I have to shift the blame, I have to shift the blame”. His comment isn’t even blaming women, it’s just stating some cold truth about social dynamics and expectations for men, and yet you had to find a way to say that it’s still their fault somehow for how they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:34 AM
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So what’s the solution, we leave each other alone and don’t talk to each other? We’ve tried that and even for that we get crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:07 PM
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I had them growing up. Nowadays I have almost none and I guess it’s because anything I’d want out of a friendship I have with all my current male friends, and those few female friends I have know they are potential romantic options for me. I think it’s because there is a level of intimacy, that as a straight guy, I can have with a female that I’m not interested in having with many male friends. If there was absolutely zero sexual attraction between me and a female then yeah I could be just frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:09 AM
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Statement: there are men that are confident in and value themselves and still loose their partners. Lean yes or lean no in your agreement with the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:04 PM
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I agree, problem is like I mentioned it is not 1:1 for stable people to partner up. Just due to sheer numbers and statistics there will not be enough good men for good women and vice versa. I can use myself as an example. I’m in the 50k income bracket, how many women do you think would be willing to date me, ignoring any other factors? I’m not upset about women that have their shit together going for well-off, successful men, I understand I’m not at a point where I am desirable to them. That lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:58 PM
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I mean I don’t know what to tell you. It’s the same attitude as men getting upset that women get an ick to men that are weak. It’s kind of naive to think that the past shouldn’t matter and that a good guy will ignore her past. Maybe a 10 can because he’s got a lot else going for him, but a 6 guy knows that there is a lot of competition out there and that a woman who hasn’t been around is less likely to go shopping. If acknowledging reality is insecurity then I guess men are insecure (cause it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:01 AM
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This is true for sure and it is a problem, it’s not unreasonable for women to not want to be with a 30 yo man child that still lives with mom. Another part of it is that men see all that and think “I have to do all of that and you have to do nothing? I’m checking out too”. That might not be the right way to look at it but that’s how a lot of guys feel. That’s certainly part of it for me. I don’t feel like pursuing a career where I make 6 figs just so I can have the chance of getting some female …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:32 AM
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This, but the main point they are trying to get across is “hey he’s an asshole too but you slept with him?!” They are saying that Chad is an asshole too but women overlook it because he’s hot. It’s sucks, but that’s pretty privilege for ya and guys need to learn this is just how humans be. They see bar chicks acting stupid on redpill channels and think all women are like that. Bar chicks are vain and stupid, big surprise guys… I don’t think a self-respecting woman would put up with a Chad asshol…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:50 AM
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Yeah but this assumes that it’s 1:1 of those women and good men. For the good men, her past might not matter because he is top tier and is better than all the guys she’s been with in the past, but for the mid guys that didn’t get to score a lot when they were in their prime, it’s perceived as getting sloppy seconds. 10’s end up with other 10’s long term, and the 6’s he slept with are very unlikely to find a 10 to settle down with. No one is upset that a 10 woman has fun in her 20’s and found a 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:32 AM
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Yeah dude, same way guys will go for the alt chick with an unnatural hair color, septum ring, and a million visible red flags. It’s cause they are hot and they think “I’m gonna be the one to fix them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:28 PM
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Translation: “I wasn’t sexually attracted to him enough to warrant rough sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:39 AM
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Didn’t you say you’re in a 4 year long relationship in another thread? Someone should tell your boyfriend that you’ve got a dating profile behind his back… I think you’re just a lying troll, try to be more believable next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:19 AM
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Is that in the same survey you posted? I was talking with another user and I had misread the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:13 AM
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Ah you know what yes you’re right, I did misread it. I thought it was saying that women that consider themselves to be 5-7 wanted a more attractive partner. It seems to be saying that women want a partner that falls between 5-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:30 AM
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Thank you also for that, it was an interesting and informative read. It sure does seem that way, which then seems odd considering the data on pg15 of the YouGov survey. I guess you could explain it by saying that the men were lying when they were fine with their partner not being as or more attractive? I am a little skeptical that it was data from dating sites, as while they are good for quick, raw data, we know that apps also have their own problems and skews. I also think that when you are beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:05 AM
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Well I stand corrected on that specific issue. Thank you for providing that. I went and looked at the rest of it and I did seem to find what I was suspicious of. Women scored higher in wanting their partner to be attractive than men did. Interestingly this trend was in the range of women that rated themselves 5-7. 4-1 and 8-10 were about the same in both sexes, which sounds exactly like what I was describing—most women are being picky and not settling for men in their ranking. It’s on page 15 if…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:28 PM
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below looks match of the average woman No the average woman thinks too highly of herself. She may be a 6 who shoots for 9/10s instead of dating other 6s or people around her rating. If you’re a 6 and blow off 5-7, you’re being too picky. This goes for both sexes, but we see this behavior more commonly in females.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:50 PM
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We don’t know if animals process what happens in the same way that we do. This happens in lions as well where the females will mate with the male that defeated the previous one, the new victorious male will kill all previous offspring. It could be that their hormones simply come back and puts them into a mating frenzy, not really the same as psychologically adapting to being subordinate to a new male. Animals might not be able to process “this male killed my children, I’ll never subordinate to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:30 PM
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I did read the other comments on this post. If you had posted this comment as your OP, your point would have come across better. Your OP is rambling and incoherent and most of the comments were pointing that out, to where you proceeded to get upset that others can’t understand your incoherency. If that is true about the NISVS then you should have made that the main focus of your point. Your OP is about relationship ideals, which most common folk are not going to care about getting into philosoph…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:30 AM
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Is “yes means yes” the idea that every single act of sexual intimacy has to be verbally and enthusiastically consented? Most everyone thinks that’s stupid and only liberal ideologues operate under this framework. I’m not too concerned about this in common folk or being codification into law. What was your point in making this post? Do you think most of the blue pillers are “yes means yes” folk and are trying to spark debate? People need to learn to take personal precautions to avoid women like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:15 PM
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Woman competing for top tier men does not mean that they gain access to them, nor that they share them even when they do. Most men didn’t mate because they were out hunting and those that were better hunters didn’t get eaten by lions/leopards and came back to the tribe and got to find a mate. Even if we work under your scenario of a plethora of males and females all competing for the top male, resources would have been too scarce for him to be able to support multiple females so he would have li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:15 AM
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Because men think with their dicks. The elites think they can handle having multiple wives and then it bites them in the ass, always. Humans rarely learn from their mistakes. Also you’re leaving out a big factor in this—polygyny began to occur more frequently when we started to become more agrarian, polygyny was almost unheard of in hunter-gatherer societies; our natural state. Women only put up with polygyny because males are the larger sex and could force them, as well as men having political …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:42 AM
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Getting really sick of hearing “polygyny is biology” as someone who took primatology, human evolution, and anthropology in university. Humans are mostly monogamous. Our sexual dimorphism is very low compared to other primates, we have extremely reduced canines (canines tend to get larger the more male-male competition there is in a primate species), no bright colorations of any kind; this indicates our evolutionary history moved towards monogamy. We have inherent jealousy systems, go look at a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:13 AM
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Great post, should be pinned to the top honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:21 PM
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Back in the day it would be protection or money, but nowadays that doesn’t have the same leverage as it used to since those are things a woman can now get more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:35 PM
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Sure, but it’s very hard for a lot of men to crawl out of that hole when they’ve been watching things like that since they were young boys. And then when they see/hear about those NTR instances happening in real life it just reinforces what they been exposed to. Because I don’t know how often it happens, but it happens. Actually I do, apparently 20% of the time. Again that’s not most, but a pretty sizeable portion of the female population. TBF, men are just as likely to as well. https://www.psyc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:45 PM
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I think this mentality stems from what guys see on social media as well as pornography. Content farmers like to use very shallow women from social media to reinforce the idea that all women are like those specific women, it’s how they get their views. It doesn’t benefit them to show that most women don’t act like that. Western pornography also likes to push cuckoldry porn and Japan is big into NTR, which a lot of people seem to be into Eastern porn now too. All these things getting shoved into t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:51 PM
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Got any links to studies? Just genuinely interested to read up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:37 PM
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This is a fair observation because let’s be honest, most people are probably not with their “perfect” partner, so there is always that possibility that there’s someone better out there. Guys are just as guilty of having wandering eyes. Is this treatment towards other men while in a relationship? If it’s just about if a women treats other men differently to how she treats you when you weren’t together, then yeah that’s frustrating and maybe it does speak to if she’s really into you or not, but on…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:33 PM
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I think the issue is less that women are just attracted to who they are attracted to and more that men are told “do this, this, and this and you’ll be more attractive and be able to get a girlfriend” from women and the society at large, when the truth is that women are likely thinking “you’re just too ugly/weird for women to like you” and that even if they do “this, this, and this” they still won’t get positive female attention. I know it’s a meme, but that comic of the office lady reacting diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:38 PM
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“Every woman I could potentially marry has had her ‘mistake’, but never have I been a woman’s ‘mistake’. Out of billions that must make me __.” You hit the nail on the head. The thought process from there then follows-> “this means I do not meet the threshold for women to desire me based on sex appeal-> any woman I marry will will not be fully satisfied in the sexual aspect of our relationship because of this->there is a concern that because I do not meet her base sexual desires from my sex appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:58 PM
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sees op is subbed to r/Jung Yeah this makes a lot more sense now. Question for you though OP? How many of these harems are reproductive? I’ll accept your thesis that the top 1% men have their little goon polycule they get off with, but how many of those women is he having children with? If what you’re saying does happen, then the selection process will determine if this is a good reproductive strategy or not. Also this is not new, kings and emperors used to have multiple wives and concubines, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:18 PM
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Learn to paragraph, holyshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:10 PM
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My lean yes/lean no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:25 PM
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I’d still like an answer to my question, but probably things like was his father present in the home, does he have a history of violence or in his family, does he have a history of cheating, criminal record, is he able to keep a job, is he an excessive risk taker, does he tend to be monogamous or promiscuous, etc. Don’t sit here and try to tell me that there is no way to know if a guy is more likely to stick around and be a good dad or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:43 PM
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I can’t see the video because I don’t use TikTok, but nice red herring. Just for the record, no domestic violence is not ok and I can’t say on Reddit the full extent of what I think should be done to men that hit/abuse women. Also don’t think I don’t realize your poisoning of the well in trying to lump domestic violence with single motherhood. Yes, single motherhood can be a result of woman’s bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:37 PM
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Ok so you don’t think women make bad choices in picking partners or that they have any responsibility in who they pick for a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:04 PM
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Lean yes/lean no: it is predictable if a man is more likely to not be a responsible father.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:51 PM
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Sure, but in general, lean yes/lean no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:24 PM
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You don’t think this is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:11 PM
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Lean yes/lean no: a father in the home reduces the likely hood of a child becoming a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:07 PM
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In the exception of rape, women are the ones who control reproduction. If they end up with a bum loser that doesn’t take care of the kids, that’s on them for sleeping with a bum loser and letting him cum inside of them. These same women however will then cry “where are all the good men!?” and then get upset that said good men don’t want to be in relationships with them. Our point is don’t get upset when crime & abandonment are the results of your bad choices. Those kind of women want “good men”,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:56 PM
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If I call out the bad men that pump and dump, can I also call out the women for being stupid enough to let him cum inside of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:38 PM
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Try reading what I said again slowly. I never said it has changed from our hunter days (though this is not true anyways). I said that sexual selection probably didn’t have as big a role in how our species evolved. Do you have any background in biology? Do you know the difference between natural and sexual selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:48 PM
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Considering how low the sexual dimorphism is in our species compared to even other primates, I’d say sexual selection didn’t play as big a role in our evolutionary history that you think. That cross eyed mutant was more likely to be eaten by a leopard before he even got to try his hand at getting a mate. Our dimorphic traits are more likely the result of natural selection. Bigger stronger males get more food/don’t get eaten, rather than females were only mating with bigger stronger males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:29 PM
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The red flag is if they see taste in music as a red/green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:13 PM
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Our species leans monogamous, but the natural thing for us is probably similar to what we see in birds and other monogamous primates like gibbons. Committed to a partner, but potentially having a side piece or a fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:34 PM
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No what it actually is about is sexual competition. A man that decides to start investing in a woman has to compete with all of the past sexual experiences she had. A woman that has been with dozens of men is more likely to have across some stud that rocked her world and most men can’t live up to that standard. They might be decent at sex, but they’ll never be able to live up to that one night or past boyfriend. If they can’t reach that standard, there is a genuine concern that she is going to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:30 PM
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Our evolution trended towards males having to compete with each other for female attention. You can either play the game or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:22 AM
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