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| 1 | I'm fucking things up with a girl i like and likes me, any help appreciatedSpoiler alert: Wasn't a text message. IG message. | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 07:11 PM |
| – | I'm fucking things up with a girl i like and likes me, any help appreciatedWhy not? I think it's lack of confidence and fear of rejection that have you paralyzed. She gave you her number, right? It's just words my man. You say some, she says some. Sometimes the words are the outcome you want, sometimes they're not. | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 03:35 PM |
| – | I'm fucking things up with a girl i like and likes me, any help appreciatedWhen you're making a post about ONE girl you missed the boat on... it can be considered to go in that category. | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 03:28 PM |
| – | I'm fucking things up with a girl i like and likes me, any help appreciatedWhat about that text exchange do you think was direct? She side stepped you entirely. When she texted "why not" did that seem like a "yes" to you? | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 03:20 PM |
| – | I'm fucking things up with a girl i like and likes me, any help appreciated"We should go get some drinks... Don't ya think?" That line. That's where you fucked up. Girls like a guy who has a plan. You could have gone with "I know this great place that has... meet me there at 8." Don't leave anything to chance. You make your own destiny. Get the answer you want. But now the ball is in her court. I don't think she is posting on Reddit with "I think this guy asked me out, but his message was vague. What should I do?" She is out living life. Which is exactly what you shoul… | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | You've been seeing someone for a short period of time. They end up saying they are not attracted to you, you go on separate ways and never talk again. Is it possible, after a considerable period of time (few months at least), to try again, and this time, making them be attracted to you?Go and live an amazing and fun filled life. In doing so, you will either find someone who is into you or she ("ex") will see your awesome life and may reconsider. But for the most part you have to live for you and not be pathetic and pine over someone who has rejected you for whatever reason. Been there, done that. Living an amazing life while she files restraining orders against her latest ex. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 06:57 PM |
| 0 | 6th night out, feeling like I got the life sucked right out of me..Stop going to clubs. You can approach. Great. That's half the battle! Now use it in everyday life. The gym, grocery store, dog park, etc. Are they actually places you enjoy going to or feel comfortable in? Do things that you like doing and you'll meet women who enjoy the same things and start from there. It's not all about the game sometimes. Little secret, cardio kickboxing and yoga. | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 01:21 PM |
| – | How do you respond to flirty snapchats?Ask the other 10 guys who she also sent the snap to. And no. No dick pics. I watched two girls eviscerate some guys texts sitting at the bar the other night. | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls if you are a 9-5?Get a rescue dog. A dog that may not get adopted because it's not the pick of the litter but had personality. Now get that dog a neckerchief of your alma mater. Go to the dog park. It's hard not to talk to people! | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Where to meet girls if you are a 9-5?Why do you have zero interest in yoga? Have you tried it? If you're having back problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but yoga ain't one. But for reals. Give it a try and enjoy the benefits. That really can be said about any activity. Bar trivia is fun. I was always envious of the 9-5 set. Happy hours. Weekends to go to beer and music fests. College and pro football games. The best thing to do is to get rid of the apps and throw yourself into life. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 05:27 PM |
| 0 | My(f20) girlfriend(f20) won't have sex with me anymore. How do I seduce her?She's either trying to break up with you or is cheating. Sorry man. | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you get back your game after a break-up?Best way to get over, is to get under. Yes, sounds like a simple, easier said than done plan, but at this point you have nothing to lose. Get out there. Talk to people. Sure, you may not hit a home run every time, but at least you're going to the game and not sitting on the sidelines. You may not find Ms. Right, but you may find Ms. Right-now. There have been many times where I thought "yeah this is the one" and then nothing. Resiliency is an amazing thing. | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 11:56 AM |
| 2 | If you could sum up everything you have learned here in one sentence what would it be?Actually close. This was similar to the quote of the death row inmate, Gary Gilmore, that Weiden and Kennedy used for an ad campaign for Nike. It was either Let's just do it or something similar. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Condom Life HackOr you can just keep a few in the pocket of your jacket. No shame in that. And don't say "What if you're not wearing a jacket?" You should always be wearing one. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Eye contactI use it everyday in my job. I learned it from my mentor who learned it from hers. Not sure where exactly it came from but it works like a charm. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Zumba class at a Uni.... how do I open sets there?After you convince her you're not gay... I'd leave that target rich environment where it is. Admire from a distance and escalate at the smoothie bar. "Awesome workout today huh?" | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Eye contactThere are two different approaches to eye contact. The business and the personal. Picture a triangle. For the business triangle: The points being from the center of each eye to the middle of the forehead. You want to look towards the center of the triangle. For the more personal triangle. Eye to eye once again and make the bottom point of the triangle at the tip of the nose. Look into the center of the triangle. You will appear to be making eye contact without the thousand yard stare. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a life or start approaching women or both?Ahh, I see that you have recently lost a huge amount of weight. Congrats! Even though you had a warning for it, you are most likely dealing with body image issues still. It can be tough to overcome. You are basically just getting used to your new body. Try browsing r/malefashionadvice and get a good haircut, maybe some waxing and a facials. Tapered sides that will elongate your face a little bit more. I am 6'/250/35yo. I am in the "very poor" category of fat%/BMI. But, I am working on it at the … | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I talk to just ignores me and walks away. My confidence is at an all time low.Eight girls in five minutes? Slow it down my man. A girl will see you talking to another girl. By the time you make your way around to them, you're just "that guy." Talk to everyone. Guys too. Just be cool and aloof. A girl turns her back. Fuck it. Pretend not to care. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps flaking.Just had this happen to me. Don't dwell on her. Make her think that just because she broke plans with you that you're going to be sitting home. Are you friends on Facebook? Go out. Check in to places. Make it look like you are having a good time whether she is with your or not. Next time she cancels via text, just reply with a "Cool." | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:14 AM |
| 12 | Girl says she'll "see what she can do" when I ask her out by textNope. You say NOTHING in return. Don't be desperate. A girl will smell your desperation with two texts in a row. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Should I get a life or start approaching women or both?The greatest advice I have ever heard, from a female friend of mine, was to "be the person that you would want to date." Have hobbies. You'll meet women through those. Have goals. So you will appear to have your shit together. Read. Have interesting things to say. Chin up, chest out. Be proud of what you have accomplished thus far. Women can smell desperation and low self esteem. Always focus on the positive. Self deprecation is not attractive. Do women want Woody Allen? Fuuuuck no. You'll proba… | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 02:02 AM |
| 9 | Girl says she'll "see what she can do" when I ask her out by textShe is playing a game with you and you fell for it hook, line, and sinker. She now has control. Why? Because you are not only thinking about it, but also asking for advice about it. Your response. "Cool." It's simple and to the point. You sounded too eager in your last text with the "Great..." Texting should be kept simple and to the point. Then you can dazzle her with bullshit and game when you meet up. You have to make her think that even if she doesn't meet up with you, that you always have s… | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 01:55 AM |
| 43 | [FR] 26/m awkward introvert, first date f-closeRight place, right time. Don't think of yourself as a rebound, but her as a slump-buster. It'll start raining. Enjoy the flood. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 02:59 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Spanish Girl and "But I Have to Go Home With My Friends..."Sometimes I think we forget that sometimes a girl wants a little romance from time to time. She loves the attention. And your banter and company may be a bit better than most. But from what I have learned with Italian and Mediterranean gals, it takes a bit more. I am not talking about the sluts on Jersey Shore. Off the boat. A bit different. And of course everyone will say there is always a way to conquer, but putting some time and a little care in is just as important. Perhaps maybe even turnin… | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Ok. I'm new, I'm above average looks wise, and I want to get better at picking up girls... but I DO NOT want to learn anything scripted. Where do I start?Not having a script is like watching the first presidential debate. One candidate had weeks to prepare and was very rehearsed. The other, not so much. Certain topics will always come up. It's how you talk about them that makes her interested. Passion. Drive. A woman can pick up on these things. But you should be interesting as well. Keep on top of books, music, pop culture and current events. Go to concerts and museums. Broaden your base other than Woo girls at a club. Good luck and good hunting… | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 07:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: OKC first date, k-close. All rules are not written in stone.It's OKC. Most end with a K-close if not an empty F-close. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Help with escalating above kissing/making outIt can sometimes be a slow process. Think of it from the girls POV too. She could be entering into new territory just as you are. (And btw, thanks for being honest and not coming here with some "I was fingerbanging a HB12 in church" story.) But it's a subtle dance. You lead and she follows. Make her want you. Maybe brush you hand against her chest while you go to caress the side of her face. Move to the ears and the neck, but do NOT leave marks. At least not yet. Visible hickies are for 14 year … | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 04:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR]- F-closed x2 with divorcee who previously friendzoned meYeah! Way to bang it out without bagging it up! | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 10:08 AM |
| 20 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a Date"Do you like it in the butt?" If she says no, on to the next. If she says yes, you are good to go. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 06:27 AM |
| 5 | Eye contact as a listener; is it natural to look at mouth and lips?I've talked about this before in this forum before, but I'll gladly go over it again. It's part of rule of etiquette. In a formal/business situation make a triangle from eye to eye and the middle of the forehead. And you look at the center of that triangle. In a social/dating situation flip the triangle downward. So from eye to eye to the tip of the nose. It's eye contact without it feeling like you're burning a hole through someone's face. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Kissed one of my female friend, what do?You'll still have fun with her. I have a similar ongoing situation. At first it was a mind fuck. A bit of cockblocking on her part and jealousy on my part when we were with others. But know where you are and where and where you don't want things to go. She has become one of my best friends that every once in a while I get a great session with. Win-win. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Should I start a text conversation with a good morning or go straight to the point?Girls like it better when you actually call them. Start with that. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 09:29 AM |
| 1 | I suck at talkingAsk open ended questions to get them talking. The more they talk, the more comfortable you will feel and will want to talk. Don't ask questions that can be answered with a "Yes" or "No." | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 07:34 AM |
| 2 | I just had my first one night stand in college/ever.First off. Let's break the situation down. You did not have a one night stand. You messed around with a girl who for the most part probably faked her orgasm. You ain't hitting it out of the park your second time up at bat. Especially when her self esteem is already lowered because you couldn't get hard. The last thing on her mind was an orgasm. She was probably thinking, "Am I not attractive enough to get this guy hard? Is this guy gay? What the fuck is he doing with his finger?" You sound like … | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 07:32 AM |
| 4 | [FR] HB 9.5, successes and failuresI think "seduction" is a good way to open up the door. But it seems a lot of guys focus more on their game than the actual girl. It's a rouse for nice guys to show that they're bad boys. What works for me is to actually be engaging, have an opinion and show passion about your interests. "What's your major?" was your open door. You stood in the threshold instead of walking through. She would have responded well, no matter your major. I'm sure she had a friend who is in the same major that you pro… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Got AMOG'ed, last night. Looking for a good retort.She's not landing aircraft. Maybe you misread the "I'm embarassed because this guy is hitting on me in front of you (another guy), and I actually kinda like it." Girls have these things worked among each other and their male friends even before they leave the house. Basically, you were a marked man without knowing it, but you survived to open more sets another day. Basically, there really was no snappy retort. If they wanted you around, you wouldn't have been asked to leave. Know when to hold em… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Got AMOG'ed, last night. Looking for a good retort.The thing is, you won't see the look. And the "I kinda like it" thing is the same mentality of "no means yes." | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Got AMOG'ed, last night. Looking for a good retort.I wouldn't say the guy was being a douche necessarily. I've been in the boat several times, where a simple flash of the eyes from a girl friend of mine is a distress signal saying "get this creepy fuck away from me." Girls usually are a bit nicer and put up with a bit more bullshit from the opposite sex depending on how much they have drank. Bartenders do put weight in their customers feelings, because those feelings translate into dollars. I've kicked people out for being habitual creepers. Why… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 05:48 PM |
| 7 | Got AMOG'ed, last night. Looking for a good retort.I've worked in bars before and have seen everything. If you got shut out, let it go. Don't be the creepy guy by sticking around, when it was already told you were not wanted in their group. Move on but be careful. People know what you're doing, especially the bartenders. Don't be "that fucking guy." | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 06:36 AM |
| 3 | My first attempt at Daygame - Awesome day!Glad to help. Let me know of it works for you. I have been told I look intimidating, so this has been a nice way to soften things up. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Why do I suddenly become a shy person when talking to hot women?As they say "You're putting the pussy on a pedestal." Once you crack the facade of a pretty face, what else is there? Yeah, you can go out and fuck 10 hot girls and never talk to them again, but those girls that you make a mental connection with... That's the good shit right there. Quality over quantity. Yes, of course we'd all like to take a girl home for a ONS and blow her mind away with the best sex ever, but let's face it, it's a drunken good time for the moment and in the morning light, mos… | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 03:24 PM |
| 59 | My first attempt at Daygame - Awesome day!A note on eye contact. I've learned this not from day game but from business etiquette classes and it works like a champ. When talking to someone in an everyday kind of way, like when the boyfriend of the girl pops into the picture, imagine a triangle on the guys face. This triangle should go eye to eye to the middle of the forehead. And you look at the center of the triangle. This shows interest without staring into his eyes and looking like you were feeling out a threesome. Now with the girls,… | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 02:41 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all)This story is about as believable as the guy who claimed to have banged "2 or 3 chicks" in his Ford Fiesta. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 01:16 AM |
| 11 | [FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all)Let me tell you a story of something that never happened... | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 12:55 AM |
| 3 | [FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all)So which do you do first tomorrow, get the HIV test or hire a lawyer when you are arrested for rape? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 12:55 AM |
| 5 | If I don't have a place to bring girls back to,what do I do?Guys admit on here that they have banged girls in a Ford Fiesta. Nothing is as embarrassing as owning a Fiesta. Whatever the case maybe perhaps this could be a good catalyst for you. Some self esteem. Much like the r/malefashionadvice starts out with little things. Like "you want your clothes to fit better, work out.". Want to take a girl home, have a great place to go home to. Whatever your case may be, confidence goes far. Perhaps the first step will take you around the block a few times. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 02:40 AM |
| 2 | If I don't have a place to bring girls back to,what do I do?Well, I have to ask... Why don't you have a place to brings girls back to? | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 02:16 AM |
| 6 | If I don't have a place to bring girls back to,what do I do?Lies. No one who owns a Fiesta ever got laid. Period. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 02:15 AM |
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