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i'm sure she doesn't know I re-read our short msg real quick and like when I asked them, “were you going?” Cause they sent me a photo of the Mercedes wheel (on purpose) of them literally driving for me to take notice, they responded with, “out with my girlfriend.” I’m guessing then she does know? Cause they’re out with her? Yeah, that’s what I’m doing, I’m too afraid to block-delete they still watch so I’m trying to grey rock now, but I’m not initiating contact anymore at all. It’s actually real…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:07 PM
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Yeah been trying that now I just gotta keep reminding myself go upkeep with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:02 PM
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Yeah that is very true, and narcs love their endless supply. You know what’s such a mind twister? I think there’s a girlfriend too, like I’m positive (but part of me thinks there is no one atm, but narcs always have someone) but it’s really weird, like they hide the new GF. They won’t post the new girl. There is ONE individual that I think COULD be the new girlfriend, and if it is, she resembles me, like strongly, it’s trippy if it is indeed the new girlfriend. I am unsure though, I try not to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:43 PM
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I’m a little clown 😭 I have had numerous occasions of bad encounters with hospitals, constantly getting brushed off cause I’m a young woman and they don’t know how to diagnose me. They make me feel awful that it’s all in my head because they don’t want to admit they are clueless. I’d wait in the hospital for 7 hours too, and then brushed aside. They don’t take it seriously or care to. Which led me to giving up. I think one appointment I had with a urinologist, I ended up cancelling it out of fea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:36 PM
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Haven’t looked into physio just yet, I think I would have to be referred it’s such a frustrating medical system, but physio is like over $90-$100 per session too, I can’t tell if it’s a nerve issue or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:31 PM
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They are very hot and cold with me. I don’t like diagnosing people, but I grew up with a strong leaning on narcissistic lines mother, that seems to be riddled with bi-polar so like this person gives me NPD vibes, my money is on it but like narcissism is such a blind spot for me because I’m so use to it and patient with it that I can’t even tell how to get out properly. I’m rambling, but that is slight context but yeah. They went from day one literally hating me, to quickly love bombing me and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:30 PM
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Curious what people have to say about this. I’m so young and I developed incontinence issues at like 19. Doctors snub me and it’s ruining my life. I want to fix it so bad but it’s another factor that puts me off from dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:22 PM
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Gonna repost this here because last time the thread died cause I got to it to late: What the fuck do you even do in this scenario? There’s this person I know, and we both “like” each other, and one point there was a mild thing. Then drama, and whatever. Anyways, their demeanour switched up, but my intuition says they’ve been watching me on Snapchat. They always watch my Snap stories bear with me. Now most people will say “that means nothing” and normally that’s fair, but my intuition says it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:19 PM
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Because some people can be homophobic on subs and be nasty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:25 AM
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Yeah she’s wanted to meet up with me many times, and is even willing to wait, despite the new girlfriend. I’m still unsure if I’m gonna go through with that, but I did say I would. Just when she plays all these games it’s really icky, and makes me want to avoid her. You’re so right too about when they’re in front of you, I’m very good most of the time when it comes to reading body language. All the texting, social media, is so shitty because I can’t read them. You’re right I’m just gonna focus o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:45 AM
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😭 what a shitshow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:44 AM
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But would you refer someone as a girlfriend then if it’s open idk how it works… Ugh such narcissistic behaviour I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:38 AM
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Yeah very weird. I left a comment to her and was like “you should tell me next time you have a GF so I don’t flirt, that’s awkward.” The only thing she responded with was “LOL” I just left it to that and will go back to staying away, and ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:34 AM
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Funny enough it’s a chick. Most of the guys I talk to don’t ever engage in this behaviour and are really sweet!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:13 AM
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Yeah my guy friends have told me they’ve done something like that. In this case scenario. It’s not a guy, but a girl. I can’t tell if it’s a lie, because I lurked her profiles (as limited as I could), usually I don’t pry, or ever stalk, but my intuition has been going off lately, so I did… Why I think though it may not be fabricated (but part of me wonders, that it could be?) is because; Her Snapchat score has barely been going up, time to time there is a big increase, so I assume that’s why. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:10 AM
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I so would but the problem is I don’t know who the girlfriend is, that’s what throws me off too, she hasn’t shown her, I don’t really lurk, but the past few days I did lurk to see because my gut instinct but I haven’t found much luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:57 AM
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Funny enough this is a chick. Boys (in my experience) have been always really respectful and no game playing. I can’t tell if it’s a case of narcissism, and definitely an attention thing but they went off on me so hard and quoting me, then trying to proclaim I’m confusing them. I feel so bad for the girlfriend too, cause like if I was her and (man or woman) was doing that to me, I’d flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:24 AM
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Ugh, like, isn’t that a red flag for the girlfriend too like … I cannot comprehend the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:09 AM
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What the fuck do you even do in this scenario? There’s this person I know, and we both “like” each other, and one point there was a mild thing. Then drama, and whatever. Anyways, their demeanour switched up, but my intuition says they’ve been watching me on Snapchat. They always watch my Snap stories bear with me. Now most people will say “that means nothing” and normally that’s fair, but my intuition says it does (I personally do not watch people’s stories ever, who I don’t care for, imo). But …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:37 AM
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Mila Kunis isn't an 18 year old anymore bud. Skin changes as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:37 AM
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This is why you haven't been touched by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:36 AM
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You're stupid, because as a girl, I'm pretty fucking lonely. People in my city are heavily flakey, and stick to their cliques. Guys never approach me or ask me out. It's both genders, and Gen Z is having less sex by pref.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:27 AM
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Social media has a lot to do with it, people are glued to their devices. Then you have Covid and these lockdowns they were forcing on everyone, which absolutely destroyed the economy. Inflation is disgusting, people are struggling to put food on the table, so why go out and party when you don't have the money to spend, work is slow, etc? And because of Covid and people staying inside for ~2 years, it put a mental shift on a lot of people. Lack of socialising, etc and people not caring. Also as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:25 AM
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They really don't because of these stupid apps. Back then people were so much more social, atypically you were meeting via mutual friends and going out together. So if you fucked someone over and or treated them badly, the whole friend group would hear about it and shame you. Now everyone has matches in their pockets dinging, people you know nothing about besides their looks and a tiny picture on a screen. You can hookup with them, or do whatever you want. None of your friends will know, no repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:23 AM
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Not all of us are fat. I go to the gym for 3 hours a day now (am a girl), the guys make me work out with them that long. I'm pretty fit, not stick skinny but I'm trying to get my abs to show, etc. I'm really polite. Yet, never been on a date in my life, never been asked out, never kissed. Both genders are suffering doesn't matter who has it worst. It really fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:21 AM
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You know why? Because social media has fucked absolutely everything. Everything on social media is fake too, the standards are unrealistic and you have these garbage dating apps that are curated to absolutely fuck you (preferring you pay for their services). Now you got two problems; The unrealistic standards, therefore people constantly wanting someone top tier, when most of the population is atypically average which there is nothing wrong with. People replacing you by swiping. Why settle and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:20 AM
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No it's not. If I can witness a sapphic chick, who is super butch and significantly overweight can pull tons of girls, and having sex constantly, therefore anybody can if they really put themselves out there and that is the lifestyle they chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:30 AM
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Depends, for me it's a nope, because from 18-22, people still have that High School menality, and their faces (and bodies) are signifcantly changing. At 25, you're already peaked, you're probably not interested in clubbing, and have a different menality, etc. So it's a no for me. But it's not "weird" cause they're an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:30 AM
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But you're basically fuelling my point than, they said they have no problems pulling a GF, or whatnot -- the comments themselves also explain getting a girlfriend is easy, as long as you put yourself out there. I'm refuting the point that you do not need to be a 10/10 "chad" and or, ridiculously beautiful person to be able to pull "hot chicks" and have a crazy sex life. Literally anyone can, as long as they put themselves out there, thus butch friend story, and even FA proving my point. The FA W…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:21 AM
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It's actually my mid face ratio, gonial angle, wrist size, and modern western female degeneracy. If a gay chick who is super overweight, can pull skinny girls, and or very pretty girls; so can you. Because society shames people overweight (man, and woman) and has nasty fatphobia. Yet, still they pull whomever they want to, have women whipped over them, and having tons of sex. That same chick, even had guys making comments saying, "if she was into guys, they'd date her" so, again, personality, co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:18 AM
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Gay guys don't have problems dating, what point are you trying to make here? What's your point of your comment, no shade, I'm trying to figure out how to correctly answer it cause it's not really a strong debate suit. My point is, if someone signicantly overweight, and is Butch (woman) can pull pretty girls, that means it's not an appearance issue like people presume. People are FA simply because they either do the following: don't put themselves out there. fear of rejection. too afraid to be ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:16 AM
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No a lot of FA people are pretty upfront about the fact that their issues hasn't much to do with appearance. Not really, when I peep the subs, it's flooded with posts being, "I'm so ugly, that is why I can't get x, y and z" same on even women subs that are FA and FA people saying that their looks are the reason why they are single, or rejected by society (but really, that is their own negative thinking) instead of getting out of their comfort zone. The commons issues FA people admit they have ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:13 AM
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I wrote a post about this, and I am not sure if it’ll get approved since I’m hardly on Reddit and don’t have the karma power. That said this is more blunt (but truly honest, and no malicious intent behind it), but I don’t understand “it’s hard for men to date, and find somebody” mentality struggle. Incel forums will push this, or other subs like r/foreveralone while people pull apart their appearances, but reality is; it has nothing to do with their appearance. And I’ll explain an eye opening ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:22 AM
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