Weaponized_Dairy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
109	Was away for a few weeks. Who started a war with 2X?	Weaponized_Dairy	/r/seduction	07/09/10 05:53 PM
14	Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss.	Weaponized_Dairy	/r/seduction	22/07/10 11:48 PM
14	For your consideration, our new seddit theme.	Weaponized_Dairy	/r/seduction	25/03/10 01:30 AM
8	Intermediate level advise for newbs who find initial success.	Weaponized_Dairy	/r/seduction	30/09/10 03:21 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Are there any active moderators here? If not, could we please get some? This post is timely since I'm considering stepping away from moderating seddit and PUA communities altogether. In some ways I am defeated in the sexual market place. I have come to the conclusion that dating and pair bonding is not in my future. In other ways I find it amusing that most of you guys would have a female moderate your seduction board....lesbian or not. LeasbianPUA has good things to say, but I fear your opening the flood gates for more females to make their mark here and then where…	/r/seduction	16/12/10 05:34 PM
5	Redditors really need your help. Too many people are alone, but just seem to lack some confidence and skills. (I'm not endorsing Pickup artistry, but just teaching some people how to have some confidence in themselves) This subreddit is meant to be discovered, not advertised. As you yourself hold some form of contempt for Seddit while not fully realizing what it is. Frankly I'm getting tired of this hashed out theory that we somehow "trick" girls into bed. This cannot be farther from the truth, because if it were true, then PUA would FAR MORE popular. The mental and physical changes the sedditors put themselves through for months and years at a time to get better with women directly proves that "tricks" are no…	/r/seduction	22/11/10 02:33 PM
3	Having trouble with this whole push-pull thing "Push and Pull" from my understanding is not just the neg, or texting game, or frame...its all of those combined for a symphony of seduction. Push and Pull takes on various forms depending on your venue, time allotted, girl's level of interest in you, etc etc. Push and Pull can happen in 1 or 2 hours, or over a course of the entire relationship, even into marriage. It is a constant demonstration of your overall game. Women that are really into you don't require much push, however it should be do…	/r/seduction	18/11/10 12:19 AM
1	Guys, please get in here and help this poor guy out... Unplugging guys from the matrix is a dirty business. I recommend against it. If their at their wits end, they will eventually discover Game.	/r/seduction	28/10/10 05:28 PM
2	10,000 Sedditors Also, lets not provoke other contrasting subreddits (you know who you are), so that we can minimize the haters who visit. I'd rather have a Seddit with a small group of dedicated contributers than a huge group that is half filled with down-voting femi-nazis. Eh? 1st rule of Seddit.....Seddit does not exist. 2nd rule of Seddit...Seddit exists for good friends or family members that need (quote from our sidebar): "Dating, relationships and seduction advice from a male perspective.	/r/seduction	21/10/10 05:11 PM
1	10,000 Sedditors Are you trolling me about trolls? If you have recommendations please, let me know. Otherwise I feel its up to the community to identify and deal with trolls via downvoting or reporting the repeat offender to the mods.	/r/seduction	21/10/10 05:08 PM
2	10,000 Sedditors I should note here. I did not create Seddit. I inherited it from the original creator who has moved on to marriage. Tiaban originally created this sub-reddit, but handed the keys over to me, Afungi and EvolutionTheroy. In no way do I profess to be an expert at seduction, only exposed to its philosophy for quite some time now.	/r/seduction	21/10/10 05:05 PM
5	What are your best tips for getting HER to pick you up? Girl on girl seduction dynamics seem like such an alien concept to me. Because girls don't approach with any consistent regularity in the dating market place. Here at seddit we know this as truth, or at the very least operate as though it is. Because we have so many guys with social issues its a good way for them to understand that waiting for a woman to pick them up is a losing proposition. We offer insight to inner game and demonstrating value. But ultimately every guy that walks into seddit u…	/r/seduction	21/10/10 02:04 PM
1	To all guys who complain about shallowness of women... Send me money and cars and we'll test your theory. I'm poor, in massive debt, have no real assets, no car, no home, no money for activities or travel.....thus no woman. Truth hurts, facts aren't fluffy and sweet, and pretty little lies perpetuate the world. Let me know how much you want to send me and the model of the car your shipping here. I'll send you pics in 4 weeks of the girls I could get with your stuff. In the meantime, drop all your expensive cloths and get a bicycle and become a beach…	/r/seduction	21/10/10 01:52 PM
6	10,000 Sedditors Wow, I was hoping we would make the 10k mark before the year ended but this was faster than expected. Seddit is all grows up now. I'm glad this resource is helpful to as many people. I know when I identified my problems with socializing and females there wasn't much to turn to that was as comprehensive, helpful and full of people who help, not shame others. Even though I am a callous, bitter and cynical man in my elder years I still find hope in seddit's FRs and excellent, insightful comments. L…	/r/seduction	21/10/10 01:41 PM
1	Cancer, gender, and the Pinkification of the NFL I read this submission a few days ago on reddit in another sub. Someone suggested, and I believe, that there is more money involved with breast cancer treatment and prevention than prostrate cancer. For prostrate cancer prevention you drop your pants and get a finger wave. For breast cancer detection you use highly advanced MRI technology, which obviously costs a metric fuck-ton if our medical industry stays true to itself. I forget how many times a year breast cancer check-ups are recommended, …	/r/MensRights	11/10/10 11:10 PM
2	Apparently im "mean". Am i doing it Right? Based on the account's comment history its sarcasm: "I would say a boyfriend who doesn't like you exactly for who you are has failed". ~Kenjimeadu Either that or its a damn good troll. Yes because there is never compromise or expectations in a healthy relationship. To answer your question...if they are still coming back to you and being playful, then yes your doing it right. Just know when its enough and then make a move.	/r/seduction	30/09/10 10:07 PM
3	RooshV paints a bleak picture of the future of Game I don't think I agree with the hammering of Roosh as a moron or idiot. Older guys like us have seen and been through the dating world enough to take the red pill. Sometimes it leads to enlightenment, other times it leads to bitter cynicism. To say Roosh is an absolute in either of those arenas is unfair. If you read his points I find it hard not to agree with the idea of those particular predictions coming true if you witnessed the last decade within the dating marketplace. What I take from his …	/r/seduction	30/09/10 09:56 PM
-1	RooshV paints a bleak picture of the future of Game I don't know if you can compare what a female looks for in a mate versus what a man looks for. Women value a provider with status, men value a feminine and slender female. This goes back to our lizard brain biological urges. If you look at advertising and television around you'll discover many slender females selling you goods or a lifestyle. If you watch any network sitcoms you'll discover the women tend to be empowered, slender and attractive while the man is dopey and fat. Sex sells, and fema…	/r/seduction	30/09/10 09:42 PM
2	Intermediate level advise for newbs who find initial success. How do you flirt without giving her some sort of validation? Keep it light, as the article suggests. Negs, playful kino. But don't ladle it out in heaping portions. Less is more with a woman who knows she has a high value on the market. If her value is high, yours needs to be higher. Flirting with other women while shes present goes a long way to place value on yourself and position her as "one of many options".	/r/seduction	30/09/10 08:46 PM
1	Intermediate level advise for newbs who find initial success. I spelled advice wrong. No editing for titles eh?	/r/seduction	30/09/10 03:26 AM
2	I'm in a solid position, help me not fuck it up. Very true, all of these comments. Don't fall for the oneitis, its a rancid disease. If I may offer some calculated maneuvers to help you with any potential rumination: Keep your texts back to her short, 4 or 5 words, no emoticons. Flirt with other girls, be a man of many options. Understand that if "all the guys at school are jocking for her" then she knows she has a high value....yours needs to be higher. Keep 5 or 6 other things going on in the front of your head daily so your not giving off a…	/r/seduction	30/09/10 02:28 AM
1	I'm trying to short circuit the world. I just introduced a girl I'm trying to seduce to /r/seduction. What do y'all think of them apples? /sigh I'm removing this post. First time in my MOD history of doing so. Lets stay on point here in Seddit.	/r/seduction	17/09/10 03:08 PM
-2	[FR] Talking to random guys at a party I have to add another reply because I'm hearing this too much on seddit: Seduction works both ways... sure, there are certain differences, but a lot of the basics are the same both ways. Yes men and women seduce each other, but OBVIOUSLY we use VERY different tactics in doing so. How does anyone think that what works for men will work for women...in the history of the genders there has NEVER been a one size fits all approach to seduction in the sense of gender relations. This is a forum regardin…	/r/seduction	22/08/10 08:15 PM
0	[FR] Talking to random guys at a party The biggest difference, obviously, is that women have the option to just sit back and wait for guys to approach them. It might or might not be the best strategy for a given woman, but it's almost always a failing strategy for a man. Yes that's the biggest factor for male seduction. Once females begin approaching men with frequency then we can discuss female Game. Because once guys train and learn to approach, things begin to snowball in their favor. And as you can tell AA is what prevents most m…	/r/seduction	22/08/10 08:03 PM
-3	[FR] Talking to random guys at a party I still find it fascinating that women think PUA is interchangeable between the genders. It was created by men for men.	/r/seduction	22/08/10 04:48 PM
2	Six months of going out, still stuck... For some people Game requires months, sometimes years...it took me years. PUA material is not a magic bullet and a variety of obstacles come in various forms. Rejoice however, your approaching women...not many guys can do that. Polish your game and study your habits a bit more.	/r/seduction	21/08/10 09:57 PM
2	J/O before a date? You heard of this from the movie "There's Something about Mary". Its total bullshit. Never look to Hollywood for pick up advice unless you watch a James Bond film. In fact, If your planning on going out on a Friday evening, don't masturbate the week prior. You'll be super charged and will exude a more sexual state. If you don't score that night, rub one out upon returning from the bar and start new on Monday.	/r/seduction	21/08/10 03:10 PM
3	What the hell is wrong with me? I agree with okcspecialist, its either a shit test or the ASD kicking in.. Neil Strauss makes mention of the same situation in the book The Game. He would get the girl worked up and she would stop him, he would then immediately get his laptop out and start working, the girl would initiate again and he would follow, every time she slowed him down in the bed, he would instantly turn on the lights and reach for his laptop....eventually she slept with him. If these girls are gonna play this game the…	/r/seduction	21/08/10 02:46 PM
2	Talking with strangers.. The only antidote to that it's to just learn to not give a fuck about what the people might think of you. Very true, don't let the little things effect your ego. These incidental contacts with people should be passing through your ego, not sticking to it. Once these baby steps are accomplished you press on to slay bigger demons, maybe named Candy :)	/r/seduction	20/08/10 03:50 AM
1	Gym? Funny enough this was a long time argument in early seduction forums. It boils down to personal choice.	/r/seduction	20/08/10 03:39 AM
1	So, how does Seddit dress-up for a clubbing night or bar night ? I still wanna try the gorilla suit!	/r/seduction	20/08/10 03:31 AM
3	How to seduce older women? Use kung fu. Play it off whimsically, change the subject. Do not get defense about a shit test or let it direct the conversation further. If your a kung fu master you can redirect the neg: Her- "You're to young for me" You- "Fascinating, you didn't seem like the shallow type". (apply coy smile) Her- "I need someone with more experience". You- "that's a matter of opinion, and a rush to judgment". (apply coy smile or feigned shock)	/r/seduction	20/08/10 03:16 AM
1	How to seduce older women? "What would Bond do"? -living it :)	/r/seduction	20/08/10 03:13 AM
4	I never go for the girls I want. Need your 2 cents So your not bad with girls or people but you want to improve. You mentioned both HB7s and jocks in your post. You must move among them both with ease. In your daily routines, simply ask a HB7 or higher a mundane question, expecting no results. Move confidently among the "alpha" males (I use the term lightly) with equal ease. Befriend them, don't supplicate to them or demonstrate intimated body language. Escalate your social charm by taking on, seemingly, bigger opponents.	/r/seduction	20/08/10 03:07 AM
1	Seddit: Would you chase a girl with a boyfriend? It starts with fun little things. If she mentions her boyfriend, ask his name. If his name is Lonnie call him Ronnie, if its Tom, call him chip. Any slightly funny or silly name will do. This demonstrates to her that I don't concern myself with her boyfriend. After that dismiss him entirely from the conversation. Anytime after she brings him up use his new nickname. If the girl is into you she might giggle or try to defend him in a playful way. Or then change the conversation abruptly. I would u…	/r/seduction	19/08/10 04:20 AM
0	Seddit: Would you chase a girl with a boyfriend? I found that plenty of females will branch swing. Its more common in my small town, maybe smaller towns altogether. Girls will always be looking for a better deal. Would I? Yes, I make no bones about it either. It has, or will happen to many guys at some point, so no reason to play the chivalrous guy. I even have a few tricks to influence her. :) Just be warned if she does this, cause it means she might do it to you, so don't be surprised, however if your game is tight then there is little to co…	/r/seduction	18/08/10 06:01 PM
0	"Love has become difficult, because sex has become so easy." I'm not sure I believe Love is a real thing. Then again I've grown a bit cynical over the years. Once Santa Claus and god fell, Love was right behind. I believe in mutual investments in a partner. I think that "love" is more of a business contract for married couples. For singles who feel they are in 'love" I suspect they feel lust instead. Love is something the writers and poets used to convey a deep emotional connection to someone. But lets be honest, the only true love there is in the world i…	/r/seduction	17/08/10 02:40 PM
2	Seddit... why the games? Its not like I am a piece of shit, with hygiene issues, no motivation, no ability to talk to women, or crippling anxiety who needs to improve. I am attractive, real job, educated, funny, fun, and i treat women with respect. But thats not enough, and i blame women as much for that as i blame sedditors. Women need to grow up and understand the modern gentleman instead of forcing him to turn to games in order to trick her into sleeping with him You think the world, people, women, owe you something.…	/r/seduction	11/08/10 10:55 PM
1	Seddit... why the games? Its not like I am a piece of shit, with hygiene issues, no motivation, no ability to talk to women, or crippling anxiety who needs to improve. I am attractive, real job, educated, funny, fun, and i treat women with respect. But thats not enough, and i blame women as much for that as i blame sedditors. Women need to grow up and understand the modern gentleman instead of forcing him to turn to games in order to trick her into sleeping with him You think the world, people, women, owe you something.…	/r/seduction	11/08/10 10:55 PM
1	Seddit Wiki: Here it is Its on the side bar. I hate it that you got all alpha in my face and I responded to it. You fucker you :)	/r/seduction	11/08/10 05:06 PM
1	Seddit Wiki: Here it is listen here you bastard, Don't tell me what to do. Take your wiki page and go dangle. :)	/r/seduction	11/08/10 05:00 PM
3	Seddit Wiki: Here it is Is there a consensus for putting this on the sidebar?	/r/seduction	07/08/10 05:52 PM
2	Let's get this straight: nearly nothing by itself is approval-seeking, bad or sexy. It's all about your frame and delivery That's a very distilled and appropriate adage.	/r/seduction	05/08/10 10:31 PM
1	First post: Looking for explanation in a girl's behavior and suggestions on correcting the situation. Ultimately its her loss for a potentially fun evening. In the future if a girl asks: “why me” or requires some justification for your approach keep your answer limited. Without knowing the details of your conversation you essential demonstrated that you knew stuff about her. You gave her value with your answer, now she has no mystery to work on. By saying something less wordy and more aloof you keep her salivating for answers, thus winning the date. Facts_vs_Issue: "Lets get coffee sometime" Fla…	/r/seduction	05/08/10 10:24 PM
2	Book on Inner Game: Intimate Connections When I read David Burns I thought of David Byrns. I'm a big Talking Heads fan.	/r/seduction	05/08/10 09:57 PM
3	Where's a good website to buy affordable fake watches, and other peacocking stuff? I'm now ready to admit that the guys with cheesy jewelry are attracting more girls. Yes, I'm now seriously contemplating adjusting my game for more....gorilla tactics :) I would love to arrange several national seddit meet-ups.....first rule: must have gorilla suit. We'll call it Operation Bananas	/r/seduction	05/08/10 09:47 PM
1	Two Things Every PUA Needs at his House That's funny, I keep several unopened toothbrushes in the apartment for such occasions. It started cause a friend of mine would come home regularly from the military and stay at my place.	/r/seduction	05/08/10 09:34 PM
2	Where's a good website to buy affordable fake watches, and other peacocking stuff? I'm now ready to admit that the guys with cheesy jewelry are attracting more girls. You know the downvote made me think...We do suggest good fashion sense here on Seddit. I guess my only thought would be that you purchase items that are reflective of you. I have never been a fan of opulent living, I always assumed people driving hummers and a wearing Rolex were making up for other deficiencies. I would say, IMHO that if your going to buy a watch, buy the real one, not a knockoff, at the same time understand that "peacocking" doesn't always mean high fashion items, just items th…	/r/seduction	05/08/10 09:25 PM
0	Where's a good website to buy affordable fake watches, and other peacocking stuff? I'm now ready to admit that the guys with cheesy jewelry are attracting more girls. Why stop there, get a sports car, beach house on the Keys, hell maybe even a white bengal tiger....endangered species really attract more girls :) /end sarcasm	/r/seduction	05/08/10 08:56 PM
1	Trend of people forcing outer game when they should be practicing inner game? I enjoy hearing these success stories. Its made better knowing that it was a community of like minded people that influence us all for the better.	/r/seduction	05/08/10 08:49 PM
1	So normally I hate props... But I carry a few of these at all times.. I personally don't vibe on the use of props in pick-up. However you should simply try it a few times and come back and write a field report. Let your fellow Sedditors learn from your actions.	/r/seduction	04/08/10 01:23 PM
1	They often form relationships with men who are emotionally inaccessible. Instead of choosing men who are interested in developing a relationship, these women choose men who make them feel insecure... Interesting paper on the true nature of female sexual desire (PDF) The Men's Rights Movement is adopting Game as a tool. If you drill through the internet and books deep enough you'll find that game/seduction and MRM both identify specific issues, they just go about it differently. Seddit is everything you listed above. But men do need to be aware of some of the more dubious pitfalls out there. I appreciate the article, some may want a less macabre read :) We let our sedditors determine the packaging of their content via votes.	/r/seduction	04/08/10 01:07 AM
1	My new blog, from an ex pickup instructor Goodluck with the blog.	/r/seduction	04/08/10 12:51 AM
1	Seddit, what do you do to your car to make it more attractive to the opposite sex? I don't own a car. Can I still be attractive please? :)	/r/seduction	04/08/10 12:49 AM
2	Two guys who were trained by a PUA bootcamp fail miserably when they try out a speed dating event. I remember being introduced to the concept of bootcamps when I first started reading about PUA around 2005. Sosuave.com had personal bootcamps that guys would put themselves through. At one point in Sosuave's message boards you found as many bootcamp reports of guys mastering their life's plans as field reports. Bootcamp reports are rare these days, we should bring them back. guys making lists of goals to achieve and reporting in on their progress. It was very inspiring to read guy's bootcamp re…	/r/seduction	04/08/10 12:43 AM
8	What props do you use in clubs? Beer in a bottle. Seriously drop the props and magic tricks stuff, just learn to be a man.	/r/seduction	04/08/10 12:10 AM
2	Asked me to see movie with her. Is this a date? The only thing a date is: an opportunity to seduce. You obviously have an opportunity to seduce here. Alone time with a girl that asked you is a good indicator. She has voluntarily separated herself from the herd to be chased. :) So if your no AFC, then you know how to proceed, correct?	/r/seduction	03/08/10 11:53 PM
1	Seddit Wiki? I would be happy to provide more graphics. Thats about all I can provide, not much of a coder, nor do I wish to organize a collaborative effort at this time. You know where to find me when you need me :)	/r/seduction	03/08/10 11:43 PM
1	Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss. Game is not for unattractive people, its for men who have severe issues with their social lives. Because in the dating market a male's looks are considered less. His status and wallet are the measurement females apply to him, men apply the beauty measurement to females. this is natural, irrefutable law. As for the changing times its been 4 decades since feminism and the sexual revolution, yet I'm still expected to buy a woman a drink at the bar. Once again, while you may be the exception, you ar…	/r/seduction	03/08/10 11:32 PM
11	Guys with questions! Please Read: The BEST pick-up advice you will ever read -- covers all of your questions about 'I met a girl, What should I do?' You are a credit to this sub-reddit.	/r/seduction	03/08/10 11:07 PM
3	Killing off the 'nice guy' Don't be nervous about the innuendo, but be careful to know your audience. Its not appropriate at work, but totally acceptable at parties and bars. The same concept applies when initiating kino as does innuendo: You must be confident in your delivery or they will smell insecurity instantly. When your touching the girl, understand in every fiber of your mind that its correct, and casual, but confidently deliberate. Practice your innuendo in your mind, keep the comment to yourself if your unsure o…	/r/seduction	03/08/10 10:37 PM
3	Practising inner game In other words, frame control comes from your inner game. Things like: walking into a bar by yourself, inner thoughts are: "I own this place", " I look good in these cloths", "I look like somebody people want to know", " I'm here for my own enjoyment". Little self affirmations help snowball the inner game in order to have solid frame control regardless of the situation. Other things you can do is to take inventory of your best attributes. If a girl gives you a glance, or someone compliments you,…	/r/seduction	03/08/10 06:37 PM
1	Incelmanlate20s you're an ass, no wonder women don't gravitate towards you at this very moment. I'm not going to delete this post. I will make a comment regarding a few things. Lets not get into shouting matches on who's the biggest beta or player on Seddit, we are here to help each other. We took the red pill and we are brothers with a common goal, teaching others who seek change. In saying that, Incelmanlate20s.....if your just going to reject and be argumentative regarding the things sedditors post here without actually trying and listening then please go away. You need to understand th…	/r/seduction	03/08/10 06:20 PM
3	Killing off the 'nice guy' I would recommend you start sexual escalating females around you. You need to express to women via body language, playfulness and attitude that you see females as sexual creatures, not buddys or friends. If a female considers you sweet, or nice, or friendly it might mean she doesn't see you as a sexual person. kino kino kino, there is no better way to break down physical barriers between to people as well as display some mild sexual energy at first. Light sexual innuendo makes for good conversat…	/r/seduction	03/08/10 03:08 PM
1	Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss. "All the ideas in "The Game" apply to female seduction as well. It is basic human psychology, there is more to seduction than just trying to get a person to sleep with you" Yes but for men getting a woman to sleep with him requires Game, a hot female only need to walk up to me, flash obvious signs for about 4 minutes and I'm ready to go. Seducing a female from a males perspective takes time, and many hoops and shit tests to navigate. Remember, from a females perspective her pussy has a high valu…	/r/seduction	24/07/10 06:07 PM
1	Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss. Clear, concise, and well spoken. All of your points remind me why I took up learning Game in the first place. To accept female opinion on Game is taking a step backwards. I always said there was a gender war going on, your fourth point shines more light on that revelation. Consider me born again :)	/r/seduction	24/07/10 05:48 PM
2	Downvote me to oblivion but I gotta say it.. If its a battle of manipulation between the sexes, I'll be damned if I voluntarily disarm myself because its amoral. Do you think if I drop Game that women will suddenly become less cryptic? Doubtful, Game is a male reaction to female hypergamy. It is what it is, human nature, regardless if its amoral or not, its still a stark reality that's forced upon us	/r/seduction	23/07/10 03:09 PM
9	Downvote me to oblivion but I gotta say it.. Excellent post, in fact some of this is beginning to surface in the PUA communities on other boards. Some are beginning to call Game "girly". This in particular is why I emphasis here on seddit that game is more about personal development, goal achieving and peace within yourself. I come from the old school of natural game, if you read my favorite: "The Book of Pook" game is described as being about yourself first. Pook has a disdain for "fake it till you make it" approach. In fact he instructs …	/r/seduction	23/07/10 01:51 PM
1	Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss. And female game is what? look pretty at the bar and flash your eyes? Female game has very little to do with cold approaches and establishing an interest. Which is the toughest part for most guys entering PUA. Once females begin cold approaching in mass numbers, then we can discuss female game.	/r/seduction	23/07/10 01:19 PM
1	Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss. Did you open up to them in a post on their subreddit? If so I would be interested in reading that. As for the female opinion on game, I'll let the community sort it out. I personally will open up to it more, but just a little bit. :) Shots and Catdogg are more than welcome in Seddit, I hope they bring back stories of peace and love to TwoX. :)	/r/seduction	23/07/10 12:31 AM
4	Do you think Game needs a female opinion?...discuss. I call them Pivots. They provide social proof, a great aphrodisiac.	/r/seduction	23/07/10 12:16 AM
6	[FR] The 52 year old noob PUA's first FR Good work....Old man. (read that in your best Christopher Walkin voice)	/r/seduction	23/07/10 12:00 AM
1	Good Evening Gentlemen! I'm Shots, and I'm here to help you. Fair enough Tarlack, but understand that the noobs of seddit (which i make mention of in my above posts) do not have access to hb8s and 9s, they are sheltered and suffer from approach anxiety. Ever wonder where the "nice guy" came from?...that's right, female's idea of the perfect mate. In the 80s and 90s we males were feminized to emulate what the new age females wanted based on their words. Enter pop culture, where in any sitcom the male is overweight and stupid, and lucky, as he can be so for…	/r/seduction	22/07/10 10:13 PM
1	Good Evening Gentlemen! I'm Shots, and I'm here to help you. No sir, I think you missed the point.... "she is a sounding board giving advice from a angle that most men can never hope to imagine" We get that angle everyday in pop culture, we were instilled that angle in high school and college...that angle is not the one men need, men need to know how to be the rock in which she revolves around. A successful man's angle is the one you need, this, the seduction community....which is only rising in its popularity. "When I talk to girls I am trying to find ou…	/r/seduction	22/07/10 08:52 PM
0	Good Evening Gentlemen! I'm Shots, and I'm here to help you. I actively encourage others not to because that's what this forum is about. Males helping other males learn game. Because in order to learn game the opinions and lessons learned are most valuable coming from other men. Take note of our sidebar..."Dating, relationships and seduction from a male perspective." We have enough female perspective on dating barraging us in popular culture as it is...so its no wonder why so many men are single, confused and frustrated currently and come running for insi…	/r/seduction	22/07/10 06:38 PM
1	Girl has boyfriend but is giving me mad IOIs. How to proceed? Casually linked this awhile back, I think its relevant to you...I'll leave it here. http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/07/20/i-have-a-boyfriend-responses/	/r/seduction	22/07/10 04:38 PM
11	Good Evening Gentlemen! I'm Shots, and I'm here to help you. First rule of seduction, don't take advice about seduction from women. The majority of the men involved with the seduction community are here because they acted upon the advice about dating from women and became even more confused. The majority of the boards concerning seduction on the internet provide this warning in stark terms. While some females do indeed want to genuinely help, it is paramount for seduction noobs to find information, tactics, tricks, and support from other males undertaking…	/r/seduction	22/07/10 04:33 PM
5	No Excuses. (Developing Self-Discipline) This was provided by another redditor a few weeks ago, he claimned it was his PCs wallpaper. I printed out a 12X18 and it now hangs on my freezer door, in my face everyday when I leave for work.	/r/seduction	17/06/10 06:13 PM
1	IOIs from girls with boyfriends? I know this situation all to well in my small town full of "branch swingers". My problem is finding out which ones are looking for validation versus which ones are looking to trade up, then I gotta learn game to be a branch swinging magnet since thats all thats around. I don't want to play that kind of game, but my regional demographics force it. Bah!	/r/seduction	14/06/10 03:12 PM
1	On the subject of women being harassed. Some people are just fragile, some are aloof, some are easily offended. You can't go through life worrying about walking on eggshells with strangers. As usual however its all about the individual personalities involved in the exchange. A woman has PLENTY of ways to protect herself from stalkers and harassment. Hell, the legal system is built around protecting the female in society not to mention the vast amount of "captain save a hoes" out there. To be more specific: if shes being harassed withi…	/r/seduction	10/06/10 02:01 PM
3	Must have books on seduction/psychology/body language/etc.? I'll add the Book of Pook as I always do cause its free and well written for beginners, and it prepares you for more advanced topics. http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The%20Book%20of%20Pook.pdf If The community likes I can begin a sidebar addition with PUA books and materials, but we would need to create a list that's compact with the most pertinent books included. Not that I'm discouraging submissions on questions about books, but we seem to get these once a week :)	/r/seduction	10/06/10 01:44 PM
11	PUA is not about seducing women, per se. It is about seducing life to your advantage. Thoughts? This is the point I try to make here in Seddit. I'm from the school of thought that improvement, attention and dedication to one's self is the beginning and constant part of PUA. PUA that focuses on "be yourself" and canned one liners do not address the overall philosophy. In fact, if you love yourself first and take the time as Karmakaiser layed out in his reply, you'll find less need for fuzzy hats and canned openers. I mentioned this on Seddit before: The woman is not the end result or final …	/r/seduction	10/06/10 01:37 PM
17	Girls find me....adorable? Har har, appropriate user name. I think seddit has all grows up, we have our own novelty account troll. :)	/r/seduction	08/06/10 01:30 PM
4	My friends are terrified of girls and hate going out. What's the best way to find a wing? Learn to run solo. While wings are worthwhile you still, at some point are going to have to rely on yourself at various points in your life. Running solo increases confidence and allows you to maneuver without judgment. It just takes a healthy frame that develops the more you do it. Also: find pubs or lounges that are popular but not always crowded. Get to know the bartenders, the good ones are built in wing-men, its how I use to make super good tips. Good bartenders get different people at the …	/r/seduction	17/05/10 03:17 PM
4	"The Bachelor Life" (thebachelorlifeokc.blogspot.com) steals seddit comments and reposts them without attribution This is unsettling. I never cared for plagiarism in any form. However I suspect the capable, intelligent and revenge minded sedditors will have a solution. :)	/r/seduction	30/04/10 01:09 AM
6	What can a girl do about pickup? With feminism in full swing I expect some females to approach me, being empowered and all. You'll have the same issues however that men have; displaying value while simultaneously displaying interest. If your displaying value it says to the man your approaching that you have your act together and your not desperate, rather, your attracted to him. This is the "push and pull" dance that courting is all about. To much push and your acting aloof, too much pull and your desperate. So you see why sedu…	/r/seduction	28/04/10 05:38 PM
2	My seduction community pet peeve = guys who don't improve their game at all but adopt the language of pickup to explain their failures I think this is the best response to the OPs submission. The PUA community is growing exponentially, even this sub-reddit gathered near 500 additional members since February. With this influx your going to have the ones that find the "low hanging fruit" to be the only thing they need to understand, as opposed to diving in deeper. PUA is not something guys are going to MASTER in a matter of months. Real PUA, the internal game, is an understanding that takes age, wisdom, practice and patience to a…	/r/seduction	20/04/10 10:47 PM
1	My seduction community pet peeve = guys who don't improve their game at all but adopt the language of pickup to explain their failures I've seen this as well. Females are not the end of the PUA journey, the are a part of it, but not by any means the end. I know too many guys that find success right away from PUA only to revert back to AFCs once the relationship gets comfortable. They generally find themselves back here after a few months. This is why PUA must be more about yourself, not the females, they are the reward for a journey well traveled and fully comprehended.	/r/seduction	20/04/10 02:19 PM
2	My seduction community pet peeve = guys who don't improve their game at all but adopt the language of pickup to explain their failures Then your issue is not about attracting females or social dynamics. pick up artistry takes the men with nothing in their lives, the hopeless, the utterly depressed, the ones who are about to give up and takes them through a journey of discovering confidence and self worth they never had before. It puts them in touch with their male sexuality and demonstrates that its ok to express it, regardless of what our culture would have us believe. Your issue sounds more like needing a direction in life. M…	/r/seduction	20/04/10 02:16 PM
12	My seduction community pet peeve = guys who don't improve their game at all but adopt the language of pickup to explain their failures I guess I don't understand what your posting about. Are you upset about the language used in PUA material or posts? Are you criticizing the Seddit community in your submission? Or are you giving advice? If your giving advice I'm sure your 3 sentence paragraph will be a lighting bolt to the head of many of this community who face something bigger than girl problems. They struggle with issues of confidence, integrity, and control of their lives for the better. PUA is seen as guys with playbook sca…	/r/seduction	20/04/10 02:21 AM
1	AMOG basics Going to that site and returning here made my eyes burst.	/r/seduction	14/04/10 10:39 PM
8	PUA's please help an AFC whose 1. just got cheated then dumped by his 4yr (lived together) GF 2. isn't in a very good financial situation 3. has no friends (that're single) 4. doesn't speak fluently in the country now residing 5. is shy by nature (or complex) 6. almost 30 If your truly new to the philosophy then you have some reading ahead of you. You can use this subreddit to find excellent blogs and reading material presented by your fellow Sedditors. Take some time to go through a few, bookmark and refer to liberally when needed. This is a great community with friendly and knowledgeable guys who were in your position at one time, still are, or are working towards their individual goals with females. But I recommend before addressing your questions to the commu…	/r/seduction	14/04/10 10:29 PM
1	Opportunity Is Everywhere Agreed sir and very true to his point of taking action when opportunities exist. I guess my addition to that regarding small town game is the quality of effort put into each approach as the chances of finding quality attractive women are fewer. I would also love more detail on how to game "branch swinging" females. As most of the females in small towns are already spoken for but keep their options open. Branch swingers are really the only thing I run into anymore, and I'm not the type of guy to …	/r/seduction	14/04/10 09:41 PM
1	Opportunity Is Everywhere As much as I enjoy Roissys blog It still seems that most of these guys operate in larger US cities where seeing 38 attractive females in one day is possible. We really need some bloggers to address guys in mid to small cities in the greater USA. I feel that big city game and small town game are going to be 2 very different creatures in execution. I've made some of my own observations but I'm not advanced enough to formulate them into some kind of "small town game".	/r/seduction	14/04/10 08:25 PM
3	Text Book Case of AFC literally crying over Friend-zone Status. Can Seddit help this guy? To be frank, its not like we were born PUAs, we all came from that place of loneliness, and disparate hopelessness. When we look back after taking our journey into seduction philosophy we called ourselves..."average frustrated chumps" because that's how we felt before enlightenment. Its not a term to create divisiveness, its used to describe the feelings felt before entering into the journey. If someone takes offense to the term AFC then they don't know what it was like to be one. As for singlin…	/r/seduction	14/04/10 05:03 PM
6	What do you think about how the average person's reaction to PUA is negative? A lot of people see PUA and think you guys are pathetic. Here's an example from one of our own normal subreddits. What gets me is people think that guys interested in PUA or seduction are these crafty, cunning, plotting, dastardly bastards that are out to fuck and run with as many teenage girls as they can. When in reality the guys I've met and chatted with that are into PUA generally all come from the same background; Nerds, dorks, high school art students or band kids. IT professionals, guys who have been abused mentally by women. Even gentlemen who were instructed to be kind and considerate men who inste…	/r/seduction	14/04/10 03:32 PM
1	An interesting article about women's and men's selectivity when it comes to choosing partners. The conclusion is that women are more selective because they are the ones who are usually approached by men. (crosspost from /r/cogsci) Fascinating article. Essentially demonstrating value via body language. to quote an important paragraph from that article: "What’s more, by asking the participants to rate their self-confidence, the researchers provided further insight into what specifically about the speed-dating setup led both men and women to be more selective when they were seated. The investigators had wondered whether the act of sitting and being approached by a long string of members of the opposite sex made people feel e…	/r/seduction	12/04/10 09:42 PM
1	About to order one of these on Amazon, would like some feedback! This is what I took from that lesson. Not to regress into a neanderthal but to trust your instincts. Over-thinking leads to hesitation during the moment that requires action. Once you embrace your male sexuality and understand how to express it, then moving from your gut instincts becomes natural.	/r/seduction	12/04/10 02:46 PM
3	About to order one of these on Amazon, would like some feedback! upvoting the FREE Book of Pook. Its just as strong a read as anything your about to buy: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The%20Book%20of%20Pook.pdf	/r/seduction	09/04/10 11:31 PM
1	Seddit admins: the seddit logo is slightly off-colour compared to the rest of the top banner. Ok, for some reason Illustrator will not allow that hex value: #cee3f8. Every time I set it up through various windows and go back to confirm it resets back to #cee6f7. At this point I'm dumbfounded. If any of you have a solution please send me an email. Otherwise I'll have to troubleshoot when I find the time. Which is to say maybe never......BWHAHAHAHAAH! consider the post closed :)	/r/seduction	07/04/10 11:21 PM
1	Seddit admins: the seddit logo is slightly off-colour compared to the rest of the top banner. Got it, thanks for the web safe code. I'll apply the changes this week.	/r/seduction	06/04/10 07:18 PM
2	The Most Obnoxious Woman In The World? Now now, we like to promote self improvement and embracing your male sexuality, which of course leads to getting laid, but still. :)	/r/seduction	31/03/10 11:27 PM
2	The Dark Triad. This is much better than being "cocky-funny" I believe that these personality traits are not in and off themselves whats getting the person displaying these attributes laid. I would guess that there is 1 or 2 common traits that these three have in common. I'll wager one is indifference. I do not believe its good to suggest these traits to any PUA or man on the self improvement quest. Your trying to become men, not flaming assholes. :)	/r/seduction	30/03/10 02:55 PM
-1	Women from healthier nations show less preference for macho/alpha males. Your thoughts? This, I agree with it fully.	/r/seduction	28/03/10 05:14 AM
2	The problem with "only learning this to get a girlfriend" I would say what Roissy calls natural game and what I'm describing are different animals. Those natural game instructors (first error as you can't instruct anything natural) are saying things like "be yourself". My self improvement regiment was initiated because I didn't like my current self, my current self was unable to express himself or take action. I had to change and become the pinnacle of what I could achieve with my resources, and when those weren't enough I gathered more resources to su…	/r/seduction	25/03/10 11:41 PM
2	The problem with "only learning this to get a girlfriend" Agreed but we should distinguish this further. Seduction or being a seducer requires a set of "tools" thus game. For guys who have absolutely no clue where to begin it's essential. It truly depends on the guy undertaking this journey. My game was near 80% self improvement, which in turn generated natural confidence. I did require an adjustment on my inner frame, but that was expedited with self improvement. Armed with this concept I progressed towards a natural game, one that focuses on improvin…	/r/seduction	25/03/10 11:12 PM
2	For your consideration, our new seddit theme. I brought the blonde into the frame more as requested. I also increased the size of the theme marginally.	/r/seduction	25/03/10 10:18 PM
6	For your consideration, our new seddit theme. I'll let the theme up over the weekend to generate responses and opinions. I'm writing down recommendations and the theme could well be adjusted. As for peacocking.....our little alien friend is in a suit. He doesn't need swim goggles or fuzzy hats to garner attention. Hes a sophisticated player, a smooth operator. :)	/r/seduction	25/03/10 01:09 PM
1	For your consideration, our new seddit theme. Submissions are still open if you have something better and the community is hip on it.	/r/seduction	25/03/10 01:40 AM
1	The New Dating Game (featuring Mystery, Roissy, Tucker Max, etc.) We'll leave the dupe up since it is worth reading.	/r/seduction	24/03/10 10:01 PM
3	How To Pick Up Girls For Real Indifference is probably a better term to use rather than "not caring". Your indifferent to the results of your approach. Not uncaring about the woman herself.	/r/seduction	24/03/10 08:53 PM
1	A beginner who doesn't really want to get into all the acronyms and deep game (at least not yet), but just an overall view of how to better myself. I have a list of reading material that was recommended to me, please tell me which I should read first/focus on. (Details inside) Absolutely, his "10 things a skinny guy should know" section is a real eye opener. Since I was a skinny guy I took it to heart and have noticed tremendous results garnering attention from women. I believe He says: "The body can attract effortlessly, when effort is put into the body". 100% true.	/r/seduction	24/03/10 08:44 PM
3	A beginner who doesn't really want to get into all the acronyms and deep game (at least not yet), but just an overall view of how to better myself. I have a list of reading material that was recommended to me, please tell me which I should read first/focus on. (Details inside) Be careful with Mystery. While I truly appreciate the man bringing this entire philosophy to light, his game is limited for those of us not living in LA or NYC going to night clubs 4 days a week. I recommend adding this free PDF book to your list. Its reads like a story, its funny but can reflect some harsh truths about some mistakes that a lot of us make/made. http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The%20Book%20of%20Pook.pdf EDIT: I forgot to mention, The Book of Pook does use acronyms, but the…	/r/seduction	23/03/10 11:27 PM
1	I'm a larger man, what are some good tips on fashion and style for a guy like me? Especially as it gets warmer out. I recommend earth tones. Dark blues, greens, tans, creams. Wear khakis that fit right. Polo shirts, solid color t-shirts with texture rather than graphics. I recommend these things cause if your bigger and in summer heat you might perspire more. A thicker, darker t-shirt can hide that better than a thin cotton T. Its good that your working out, its critical to game. Another responder suggested the men's fashion subreddit. I would also recommend visiting the fitness subreddit. both are great anci…	/r/seduction	23/03/10 11:21 PM
1	My goal. As the resident old guy (35) I would agree. Once you realize that most people are only thinking about themselves within a situation your free to relax, thus demonstrating confident body language and "aura" if you will. I can't explain how this transition happened for me as I grew older. I guess you naturally become confident and begin solidifying your personality more, regardless of the opinions of others. "getting set in your ways" perhaps?	/r/seduction	23/03/10 11:10 PM
5	Detailed field report - a set that died abruptly; advice needed The Greek is holding you back, but don't dismiss him, we were all there once and some guys need more time to refine themselves. You have 2 options with him: work with him sparingly or directly teach him. Before I chime in with my observations I would like to disclaimer that without being in the atmosphere at the time and not watching the shifts in body language throughout the sets its difficult to truly provide insight. In any case... Fake French Girl: Simply put I think your on track with your …	/r/seduction	22/03/10 10:44 PM
1	Seddit has gotten big(ger) and needs an active moderator. First person that has an active profile, unlike mine, and demonstrates desire by making us a custom theme not featuring nudity... gets the job! This is another account but I've poster here before providing the Book of Pook to newly found AFCs. I've read most all the PUA material and visit sites about it daily. I've had good luck so far in the dating world, but I enjoy focusing on the self improvement side of the game. I'm also a graphic designer and illustrator :) Is there a deadline for the theme? *edit: Actually I would just be happy submitting a theme for consideration as I'm not really sure how to be a moderator :) Can this mission …	/r/seduction	19/03/10 10:36 PM