WearWorking Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do so many men make BPDs out to sound like they're love is "special"?		WearWorking	/r/askTRP	28/10/20 09:38 AM

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4	Does not finishing during sex have any impact on the perception of you as a man? her going the extra mile to please you thinking she's the problem Are you trying to tell me that black men can solve obesity by withholding orgasms?	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 05:55 AM
1	Looking for a life coach YouTube & a library (not just for the books!)	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 05:48 AM
4	Manager a BP white knight to every female. Have you ever questioned why you're such a little bitch?	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 05:47 AM
1	Ex is talking shit and tarnishing my reputation, what do I do? Anybody who would lose a connection to you over drama being spread is objectively low value, and was never going to help you progress in life anyway. Anyone with their ballsack would stop them in their tracks. Used to be at time I was afraid to admit anything to anyone. These days I couldn't care less if the entire world knew every embarrassing detail about me and my past. Gotta be accountable for your own thoughts and feelings.	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 05:44 AM
7	Does physical attraction become less important as you get older? No, you just start to value your own likes and dislikes more. For example, settling to be in a relationship with a girl who doesn't inject a great amount of fun into the relationship is insanity. Women are awful comedians, but they can be incredibly funny, goofy, playful, which will provide a massive amount of long-term value. Women are awful leaders, but plenty of them are very intelligent and quick and those are great assets to help us on our own mission. Point being, when it comes to long-ter…	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 05:21 AM
6	Does physical attraction become less important as you get older? We don't have a dual mating strategy, we just get tired of this bullshit.	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 04:59 AM
1	First time, couldn't get hard moaning my name etc. You!!!	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 12:37 PM
6	anyone who’s been the “stole ur bitch” guy Scared the shit out of myself and put my guns away for awhile. Got into therapy.	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 09:48 AM
11	anyone who’s been the “stole ur bitch” guy Not at all. I might have saved two guys lives, at least in some sense. My own wakeup call 8 years ago was getting cheated on. Xanax, alcohol, and a glock to my palate to escape the pain of some whore doing whore things. Really dumb. One thing I love about RP is the non-stop nagging about vetting women. Easy to take such wisdom for granted. In every case a woman has ever fucked me over, they were begging me to see the red flags.	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 08:37 AM
6	Can you all give me feedback on 3some tinder profile? Dudes got more bone mass in his cheeks than any 10 incels combined. lol	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 07:57 AM
2	I feel rejected by my LTR. She says that's her style and that she doesn't actually reject me. More details within. You complete me, VZ.	/r/askTRP	08/11/20 12:15 AM
11	A friend of mine had a monitoring device on his girlfriends phone for almost 3 months. Good analogy. Everyone needs to consistently remind themselves that most men that end up here are incredibly low self-esteem, lower than you'd guess, and usually 1 of 2 things are happening- either they were absolutely stomped by a NPD or BPD woman, or their incessant nagging and neediness turned a normal girl away and they lack accountability for the outcome. Real life isn't as brutal as Red Pill life.	/r/askTRP	07/11/20 11:50 AM
1	I feel rejected by my LTR. She says that's her style and that she doesn't actually reject me. More details within. Definitely not. Most guys here are 1 or 2 girls from being a virgin. It's all about leads, and most men are too terrified to get enough to do that consistently. In theory? Sure.	/r/askTRP	07/11/20 11:35 AM
3	I feel rejected by my LTR. She says that's her style and that she doesn't actually reject me. More details within. If everyone could maintain sexual relationships with multiple women Red Pill wouldn't exist.	/r/askTRP	07/11/20 03:56 AM
1	Cold approach, what's the right way? There's no right way. Girls want a masculine enough guy to approach them when they're available. That's it. Calling them cute isn't swinging this imaginary attraction pendulum around like you think it is. Words don't change that much, unless the words infer weakness (too nervous, too awkward).	/r/seduction	07/11/20 03:32 AM
3	80% of you aren't going to get anywhere because of this This entire sub changed years back. It's a complete dump at this point, and only hurts guys trying to succeed. The OP and top comment believe you should be concerning yourself with how to add value to a woman's life and changing your behavior based on that concern(s), which is shocking because it's the exact opposite of what makes a man attractive in that particular way.	/r/seduction	07/11/20 02:50 AM
4	Is it true as a man that you will have to do all the work? You only have a small window with each woman to get from the initial approach to the second meetup before she loses desire. Always strike while the iron is hot. Call for logistics/txt if you can't get her on the phone. Move on quickly if it's not going anywhere.	/r/seduction	05/11/20 09:14 AM
1	Embarrassed myself with flatmates. How do I recover? Doesn't matter if it was on purpose or not.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 08:29 AM
2	Approaching girls at mall? Day game is all the same. Just make small talk for a little bit (<60 seconds) and ask for drinks. Cement the date in person if you can. Everybody can write their own personal book on how to over-analyze cold approach and it won't change a fucking thing because 90% of it's based on physical attraction. The other 9% is based on how much you try, and 1% is based on not saying stupid ass shit that makes you seem "off."	/r/seduction	05/11/20 05:23 AM
1	Is it true as a man that you will have to do all the work? They're not attracted or you missed your timing. Approach more. Of course you got to "do the work." PN wasn't a pickup artist at all. He was just red pilled about women's behavior. Knowing women are dumb whores doesn't make a dude fuck a lot. 99% of RPers are blogging virgins.	/r/seduction	05/11/20 05:20 AM
4	Building comfort with women of lower smv Find common ground on shared struggles. Since you're just gaming anyway, use qualification around family- "Did you have good parents?" And dig deeper. Find the issues. Then relate and make up a story about how you have the same issues.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 05:11 AM
2	Embarrassed myself with flatmates. How do I recover? You can't talk shit about a girl's insecurity in regards to her appearance unless it's totally superficial. Will always backfire.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 05:07 AM
1	Physically attractive, but socially isolated by hyper-religious parents all of high school, weak social skills You just go up and say hi, introduce yourself, tell her she's cute, ask her if she's from around here, share a little about yourself (if she asks or not), ask her to get drinks. Cold approach is not more difficult than the above sentence. Guys who think it is fall into 3 categories... 1. they're selling something, 2. they're LARPing, 3. they're legitimate incels. Game is about quantity + forwardness. The rest is over-optimization.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 04:33 AM
1	My girlfriend voted differently than me and I want to break up with her Don't put up with anything you dislike because of pussy.	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 04:31 AM
0	Best friend owns exotic cars, lending me one while out of town, how to capitalize? 100k+ can be spent on an endless amount of things that'll help you get pussy much more often than a car (which is close to none anyway). My gold M4 has probably gotten me laid once. Maybe knowing I have money has kept girls around longer, I don't know. That's a test I'm not running.	/r/askTRP	03/11/20 11:14 PM
0	How to overcome the imposter syndrome NMMNG, WISNIFG, and in my opinion any CBT book (Feeling Good Handbook is a good one).	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 04:04 PM
2	TRP After Dark - One hour alert How do I get girls to touch my penis and love me like my Mother never did?	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 02:34 AM
25	Mutual friend insulted me in front of the group, how can i handle this in the future? TREAT EVERYTHING AS A COMPLIMENT, and kill people with kindness. For example, reading this had me smiling. She's obviously trying to over-caretake everyone. It's really sweet. You're making it out to be something it's not, because of your internal beliefs. I would have hugged her and said, "thanks Mom.. I love you." And just kept teasing her further and further. "Guys, meet my Mom. Mom, my friends." Have fun with it. Again, treat it as a compliment, be kind, have fun. Girls aren't going to fuck …	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 01:03 AM
1	Is this low value or am I overthinking 100%. Lying and faking absolutely works in some situations, but in some ways it degrades you. It's not worth ever compromising yourself for a woman, ever.	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 12:50 AM
2	Is this low value or am I overthinking No it's fine. Never overthink small shit like this. In the future, cement what you'll both be doing in-person. Much more effective. Stick with asking if she wants to get drinks, and then cement if it's going to happen tonight or tomorrow night. If she's flakey, literally ask her that- "are you flakey usually?" By being honest and saying what you think, you'll also be challenging, and high value.	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 12:49 AM
3	How to overcome the imposter syndrome Cognitive dissonance related to low self-esteem. Read the classics 3x, write down what stands out to cement it, put yourself out there in life. Been through this with everything in my life... nice clothes, jewelry, tattoos, expensive cars, hot girls.. felt like a fake with all of it at one time or another.	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 12:46 AM
1	Cheating... What are your likes and dislikes? That's all it is. In business, the only person I don't fuck over is my partner. Everyone else is fair game to be scammed. It's a dog eat dog world. In romance, I'm dead honest. If I want to sleep with other women, I'll tell my girl that, and let her know she can stay while I do it, or leave. Lying to someone I care for doesn't make me feel good, so I don't do it, even if that means I lose something I like. You can certainly make the argument it's just about pros…	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 12:24 AM
3	How do I get laid in the age of Zoom calls and lockdown 2.0? Tinder is pretty difficult. Try Bumble, Hinge, Match, OKC, whatever, first. As far as photos go, either put real effort in, or stop worrying about it and don't do it. You have to have good pics. Bathroom selfies won't work for you. Healthy women avoid red flags.. which a bathroom selfie is. First step is to get a stand for your phone. The illusion that someone else is taking the pics is 100% necessary. One of my pics is me laying back on my couch with my barbell across my lap, a bible, and an AR…	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 12:18 AM
2	Being "out of the moment" during sexual acts Porn is a pandemic at this point, and should be banned. It's undermining our entire society. So, stop that. Take ZMA (try a very high dose of zinc separately), get test levels checked, start stretching/jelqing (helps erection quality significantly in some cases- improved blood flow, if nothing else), be critical of yourself if it's anxiety. You keep mentioning attraction though. Let's stick with Occam's razor here... find a new girl.	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 12:04 AM
29	Broke up with ltr, found out later that she hooked up with friends wife while we were together. Don't read shit about women. Women don't matter. Men matter. You matter. Red Pill is 90% masturbatory nonsense, worrying about what women do. Fuck what women do. NMMNG is an incredible read. Some of it won't apply to you, but some of it will based on what you're writing here. The Feeling Good Handbook. There's simply no way to be incredibly successful in life without having a high self-esteem... and for most of us knowing CBT can help in crazy fucking ways to that end. Some parts of Mode One are…	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 11:40 PM
2	Anyone here been successful with gaming women in Italy? English is not my first language.... maybe. lol	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 09:53 PM
1	What to do when bringing a girl home from tinder Hug her and then pick her up and spin while holding her. Your only concern is you, your fun, your needs, and your wants. Whatever anyone else thinks about it, is irrelevant.	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 09:36 AM
1	Anyone here been successful with gaming women in Italy? Italy is not harder to game in. I've lived in Sicily for years. Girls are girls.	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 09:31 AM