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I don't look down on them but can understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:00 AM
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Yeah exactly, it ain't that deep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:34 AM
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It’s like taking your life because you think things won’t get better Already tried that, didn't go well. Looking back on it, it was fucking cringe too lol. if you ever meet someone who does care It didn't happen in my 20s, dunno how it's possible in my 30s tbh. I don't side with redpill on this one. It describes the world well enough but the solutions it offers don't work, at least not anymore. Maybe 15 years ago they did. Do what you want, it’s your conscience you have to live with Yeah I get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:35 AM
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ffs If I could find a woman like that why would I even be considering prostitutes? She doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:21 AM
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So what? Get into spirituality? Become a monk? Get chemically castrated? Yeah, great. I have actually thought about it as my other option. It's definitely getting harder to be a single guy when all of my friends are either married or engaged. At least I they would stop asking about it. I have given myself around 2 years. Working on getting a better job that will pay 5X my current income. If nothing else I will have more money to spend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:21 PM
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Literally just imagine having this conversation one day with a person who actually wants you. I don't see that happening tbh, or at least the odds of that happening are abysmally low. So either I become a monk or something, which I have actually thought about, or say fuck it - no point in waiting. I don't want to regret thinking about it 10 years from now. I already did that, should have given up hope long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:11 PM
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ugh, I am not coercing or assaulting anyone, I am just paying for a service. Actually, I haven't even done it yet. But wasting all your younger years when you can have the best sex doesn't sound better to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:51 PM
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huh, do you mean if I wait till I am 40 or 50 I will eventually find someone? Yeah, that's not depressing at all lol. What's the point of losing your best years? Hell, I already lost my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:44 PM
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As long as the bottom 80% women reproduce, this will not work. Also, good luck keeping the world stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:38 PM
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Lol my dad's 6' and mom's 5', I am 5'7". I never understood why she married him cos he was never around, barely cared about the family and is emotionally stunted. I sometimes used to wish she either married a better man or he married someone taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:31 PM
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I have no 'desire to degrade and use others'. I simply have no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:23 PM
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So guys should accept that they are locked out of one of the fundamental aspects of being human cos of factors out of their control? And they should just die without ever experiencing intimacy of any kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:12 PM
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Yeah for sure but why would you even share that with others? It's not like women share all the details about their sexual history. Don't ask, don't tell. That's just me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:57 PM
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Well, it's easy to be a saint in paradise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:50 PM
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But I am not forcing anyone though. Me not paying for prostitution doesn't mean it will go away. I am definitely empathetic, just not on this particular thing. I simply can't afford to. Edit: Also, you talk about empathy and yet you can't show even bit of it for undesirable men whose only source of intimacy is through paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:47 PM
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I agree with you on the consent part. It's just that when we account for gender differences, the end result is the same. Also, there's still consent - in form of financial incentive instead of the sexual kind. It's obvious that to get the same kind of sexual experiences as a woman, the guy has to be ridiculously attractive. So direct comparisons wouldn't make sense. It's the difference between tossing a ball with a contented 11 year old kid in the park, or forcing the 11 year old kid to toil 60 …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:31 PM
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huh, then are you able to get it easily? The self respect thing doesn't bother me much cos I feel when you are undesirable, you are already at the bottom. There's not much you can do that will make it worse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:19 PM
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Well yeah, we can't make direct comparisons cos they aren't the same thing. The aren't comparable but the end result is the same, both of them slept with someone. But if we account for gender differences, they could be compared - kind of. No matter how ugly/fat/old a woman is, she can easily get sex or even relationships. Vast majority of guys can't get sex that easily simply cos women are only attracted to a small percentage of men. The only way for any guy who isn't super attractive to get any…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:13 PM
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Yeah, I don't understand why try so hard to make it seem like the worst thing ever. Her sleeping with multiple men or him paying for it have the same results in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:53 PM
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He would want 'enthusiastic consent' if he could get it. Isn't he paying cos he can't achieve that, at least with that particular woman? Why can't we treat it like she's just doing her job? Few people love their job, doesn't mean they would stop working. Bills gotta be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:38 PM
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Men are either desirous of enthusiastic partners who are genuinely attracted to them or they are happy to pay women to pretend to be attracted. Isn't the assumption that they can't get the first so they settle for the second? At least that's how I feel. I haven't paid for something like that but probably have to at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:32 PM
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Huh, but if you are not getting it, aren't you already a loser? Unless you are asexual, it would probably be hard to live your whole life as a virgin. I do wish I was asexual and a psychopath so I wouldn't have this need for intimacy/connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:24 PM
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Eh, the way I see it, promiscuity mostly matters if she acts all puritan virgin towards you while she was sleeping around freely in the past. If she needs more time to feel comfortable with you while she didn't with others then there's no point in continuing. Sleeping on the first date would be a green flag. So as long as she doesn't care about if I paid for it in past or not then her body count wouldn't matter to me. Don't ask, don't tell kinda deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:39 PM
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Any specific reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:03 AM
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Yeah, I guess some part of my brain still wants/hopes for the 'real love' that other guys seem to have. I have only recently looked up all the pill stuff and ig according to that I was blue pill in the past. Red/black pill explains the rejections I faced and am still trying to accept my reality. Just that it's hard to overcome that I am 'defective' or a reject. Only positive thing is that, just like you, I never had trouble being alone but have spiraled into depression cos of all the fomo. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:55 AM
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Well, technically she is getting something out of it - usually lot more money than most people make for the time. So you could say she is 'satisfied' just in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:28 AM
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Do you still feel the need for intimacy/being desired? I am starting to accept that I will always be single but am afraid that the loneliness will get harder to overcome. Is there any way to deal with it? Also, whatever friends I make are already married or in relationships so it's getting hard to even be social. Do you face the same problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:13 AM
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Yeah I guess, don't see how STD testing is a bad thing. Both partners should get tested tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:02 AM
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Hmm but how would anyone know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:57 PM
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Lol all women are hypergamous, doesn't matter what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:29 PM
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I already don't do this anymore, hell, I don't even chase women. I have hobbies and passions and all that. But sometimes when I see other guys being desired, it fucking stings that I am locked out of one of the fundamental human experiences cos of factors out of my control. Is there any way to deal with it? I fear that it will get even harder as I get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:19 PM
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Hmm the way I see it, when she was "at her best" she had the best options and choose someone she desired the most. So if she didn't choose me/someone like me then how would I even know that she genuinely desires me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:14 PM
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That ain't happening dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:57 PM
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Looksmaxing only works if you have an above average base to work with. You can't looksmax your way out of being 5'7" or not having great jawline/eyes. Hitting the gym only works if you are on the extreme end of the scale - too fat or too skinny. Women in general don't really care about muscles. Good haircut or better clothes don't do enough to move the needle. Good skin care definitely helps but it's a neutral thing cos you are already supposed to have it. Having said that, you should already be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:12 PM
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What to do if you are not asexual? Is there any way to get around the need for intimacy/validation? Edit: I have also turned 30 now and am a kissless virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:55 PM
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A woman can hate you for the same reason she loves another guy for Damn that is so fucking true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:34 PM
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