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| 0 | How to handle women scared by my approachTbf, it’s not your job to make them feel more comfortable. I mean that more so in a way if you’re not doing anything obviously weird/creepy. If they feel that way just by you trying to casually talk to them, then that’s on them. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:57 AM |
| 56 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.I think even if a woman likes you, she will still act like she doesn’t a lot of the times. Not necessarily on purpose, but still. I’ve had dates where everything she does, if I told everybody here what happened, they would say she wasn’t into me in the slightest, yet the date ended in a score. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Cold Approach will SAVE you.I agree, at least try. It’s a good skill to have just in general social skills. I’ve been having an off game today, keep picking duds. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 08:13 PM |
| 0 | How long do you talk to a girl before you ask for her number?For me, like less than 2 min, sometimes probably even one. Get straight to the point, she knows if she likes you enough pretty much immediately. Do you really think an extra 5-10 minutes of convo is going to make someone like to more? If anything it gives you time to mess up and say something stupid. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 06:52 AM |
| 1 | How good is your game?Gotta get what you can take lol | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Being in shape, body game is the foundation to "seduction"I agree. I’m a fit dude and have been having good results with approaching. I plan to put myself out there even more and see how far I can get. Most women probably have never been with a cool, smooth, muscular dude. I am the man that married women fantasize about and single women are honored to speak with. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Hé Guys I find my self a decent looking man but I only know how to maintain a friendly relationship.Don’t be negative. I’m being serious. Most people who are good at this, probably weren’t were trash in HS. I know it seems super important at moment since you’re actively going through it, but I’m just trying to be encouraging and don’t want you to beat yourself up over things. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Hé Guys I find my self a decent looking man but I only know how to maintain a friendly relationship.You’ve got a long way to go. Tbh you haven’t even gotten started. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Quick Day Game DON’TsI heavily disagree with number 4. I approached recently in a parking lot and the interaction couldn’t have gone better. It’s something I’ll keep doing. Only way I feel it might be iffy is if there is like an open door and they are just getting out or putting something away, I would wait until they are out more in open. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 12:30 AM |
| 16 | How pickup women when with my girlfriend?That’s gonna be all your GF. It’s your job just to not screw it up. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach ; I need guideNumber 1 is a good tip | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Be brief or flesh it out?I like short best. Text and the dates are when you can get to know personality. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to pass a tinder girl anti-slut defense wallWtf man? You already hit and you’re still worried about her? Why tf are you still chatting with her if you don’t wanna date? | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 07:35 AM |
| 10 | Picking Up A Hot Girl In 3 Minutes (infield)Looks like all great points from you. Pickup is actually going back home with the chick or hooking up with her. A large group of people in this sub are easily impressed by simple social skills. “Oh my gosh, he talked with a hot chick, how do I become like him”. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Cold approached a police officer 😂Not necessarily. I’ve noticed here that dudes try to make it seem like there’s only 1 type of chick out there that only responds to 1 “pickup method” when that’s just not the case. You need to have the skill where you can analyze and realize what type of woman she is and adjust your approach accordingly. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached a police officer 😂I think random cold approaching with the intent of getting a number or hooking up is just having poor social skills and an unrealistic view of the world. Can things like that happen, sure, they’ve happened to me, but randomly, when I had to intention of getting their number and we were just having a regular conversation. As far as cold approaching at a bar/club with the intent to get a number or hit, I think that’s okay because that’s expected and why most people go out, male or female. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | [unpopular opinion] I like to talk politics on the first dateWorst idea I’ve ever heard. Join the debate team if you wanna argue. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Putting too much pressure on yourself to be smooth and charmingMaybe it’s because that’s not how you are as a person? At this very point in my life, I feel like being smooth/charming just comes natural to me. So it’s not that I have to tell myself to act that way, I just act like myself. | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Which is harder for you to deal with: rejection or ghosting?Ghosting doesn’t affect me in the slightest. I think it’s a weak trait to feel like someone owes you an explanation on why they don’t want to speak with you anymore. Just move on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 08:06 AM |
| 7 | Is it okay to be a loser and not get any womenOf course it’s okay. Everybody finds their own purpose in life. The people in this sub, prioritize getting women. There’s other people who could careless about getting chicks. Everybody is different. | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 06:02 AM |
| 3 | On Friday, I went on a first date with a bigot and I'm still hurting.Don’t be upset, just move on. Terrible questions to ask in my opinion, sounds like job interview questions. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How to reattract after sending stupid textThink you replied to wrong person | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 02:48 AM |
| 2 | How to reattract after sending stupid textNot stupid in my opinion. You just saved yourself lots of time if she doesn’t respond back positively. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys dress or groom yourselves to attract certain types of women?Not personally, but it would definitely help. I don’t have a certain type of woman I like more than others. I like goth chicks, sporty, nerdy, party girls and lots more. | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 04:02 AM |
| 3 | I'm so angry with myself. I was walking home and I saw a groupset(2girls 1 guys) I wanted to approach. I got approach anxiety and the only thing I could do was say Hi to everyone and I immediately left the set. Any tips to get over approach anxiety? (Still a beginner)I gotta agree with dude. You said hi and that was good enough. No reason to act like a weirdo and try to force yourself into a group of people who want nothing to do with you. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Offering some free ‘Tinder coaching’. You tell me what she said, I’ll tell you how I’d reply. Worth a try, right?If you’ve been with your girl for 5 years that means your 5 years out of experience. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Plz explain why would she unmatched? After this I sent her the definition of tolerate. Then boom she left. Was I to gamey and stirred up her emotions to much or something else. Note I never use tinder I’m just a way from school. Here is my profile: https://imgur.com/a/sPTYBwGOn your end, just seems like someone whose trying to be too cool and play mind games. I think anything would be better. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Plz explain why would she unmatched? After this I sent her the definition of tolerate. Then boom she left. Was I to gamey and stirred up her emotions to much or something else. Note I never use tinder I’m just a way from school. Here is my profile: https://imgur.com/a/sPTYBwGComes across as blatant corny pickup. “You’re kinda interesting.” Sounds like a line someone would use because they think the girl would want to try and win the guy over after he said that. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Why am I jealous of other people's success with girls?Well that’s obvious. You work towards your goals. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Why am I jealous of other people's success with girls?Because you wish you could have their skills. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 03:14 AM |
| 2 | How does one Fix their "Inner Game"?Just treat them like a friend. Ask questions, tell them things. Of course, since you’re on this sub, you’ll want to know how to steer the convo to being flirty/sexual to test the waters. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 07:04 AM |
| 2 | My Life with girls is literally over because I’m not good lookingI usually see attractive women with fat, ugly dudes. In the hookup scene I don’t think these guys can win. But I think they win these women over with their personality over time. So I wouldn’t say over, just a harder road for you. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Got Rejected Today. All worth itGood job approaching though, definitely not an easy thing to do. | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Got Rejected Today. All worth itI’m not hating at all, I know what I said could be taken that way though. | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Got Rejected Today. All worth itDoesn’t even really sound like rejection to me. You didn’t even get a chance to ask her out. For all she knows, you just want to be friends and she didn’t even want that. | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you "Be the Party" when you're aloneI have lots of things to say about this, but I think the most important one is to “know your environment”. You have to know what kind of people you’ll be interacting with so you can choose the best approach. Social interactions are so situational it’s hard to give specific advice. It’s ideal to choose a place where you’ll have some things in common with people so it will be easy to start conversations around those common interests. So my advice would be to know your environment and have an arsen… | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Shit like this makes me sick. Your husband is steph curry. You’ll NEVER have to work for the rest of your life, you can have anything or go anywhere you’d like! So why’re you still creating problems for yourself? Women suck, that’s all. Have a great day brothers.I saw this shit and it completely blew my mind and pissed me off. I knew it would be posted here. I’ve seen this sub around but never really stayed out, but it seems like you guys are onto something. | /r/MGTOW | 08/05/19 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Slightly above-average looking introvert with no friends, attending community college. How can I meet girls?My advice is to "don't hold back". How can anybody/girls know how great you are if you hold back? Say things you normally wouldn't in front of people(within reason of course) they may just surprise you and be interested in the same things you are. I've learned that you can't just wait around for people to initiate contact with you. You need to start the conversation, if they don't respond well, then that's on them and now you know who to not waste your time thinking about. Hope you found my advi… | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Gift idea for a friend [M/40]Is he trying to be an alpha male? Did he tell you this? If not, then I wouldn't do anything that you're thinking about. It's like giving someone deodorant as a gift and then makes them think they smell like shit. This guy is going to think that you think he's a bitch. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I as an adult use social circle game to get hot girls? How do I even become a part of such social circles?You act like the type of person you want to attract. If you want to attract nerds, act like a nerd. If you want to attract athletes, be into athletics. I personally don't care what type of person I attract. I'm well rounded and can have a conversation about many things, it's a blessing and a curse. | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How to move onYou mean in person contact? Because you already have her number, that's a type of contact. | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 06:17 AM |
| 0 | Beards?I would shave the sides, and wear a van dyke. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 02:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you make moves as a guy when watching a movie?Go snuggle up close to her. Put your arm behind her head. Since she invited you over, it seems like this is your chance to ruin. Meaning you don't have to do some elaborate tricks to get her in bed, just play it smooth and move in for a kiss. Depending on the movie you are watching, timing could be everything. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 05:16 AM |
| 2 | I want to approach three women tonight at leastI don't know what you're trying to gain from approaching. Approaching can mean a few words or in depth conversation that ends with you trying to get some digits. Feel free to pm if ya want, maybe I can help you out further. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach three women tonight at leastGo for it, best to practice things like that in a place where you don't ever go. Like if you don't ever go to old navy, go flirt with the hot girls at old navy. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach three women tonight at leastYou're right, I probably should have kept it for myself. But I'm in a helping mood lol | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 01:35 AM |
| 6 | I want to approach three women tonight at leastDepends what you're looking to get out of the conversation. I'm guessing you're at the mall? Regardless, something easy you could do is to find a hot girl that works in a clothing store and ask her what she thinks you would look good in, and carry the conversation from there. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Sliding in the DMs.Thanks. Nice "mindset is key" post. Nice to know others out there share my same thought process. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 05:28 AM |
| 9 | Sliding in the DMs.Just think about this. If a girl messaged you that you found disgusting, would it matter what she said? For most people, the answer would be no, because the way she looks would turn you off. Not sure what your answer is, but I hope you understand my point. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have game, what do you think about Tinder?Easy way to meet people. Obviously easier the more people think you're good looking since that's the number one reason people use it, to hook up with attractive people. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Ignored after first date. Shit test? Or a sign to drop out?She either died, or she's done with you. | /r/seduction | 20/04/17 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Advice on getting my neighbor?I wouldn't recommend hooking up/ wanting a relationship with someone who lives that close to you. Although I would, it's just me being stupid. If things turn sour, there's a chance you'll see her everyday, and that's really awkward. Not to mention the obvious retaliation that she could do to you or a family member. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 06:33 AM |
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