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And ends up getting blown by the other 25.
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:24 PM
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Being direct and outspoken. You are the leader of your destiny. Not caring what other people think. Not playing games. "You are cute. Let's go on a date." - No bull shit, just right to the point. Say your intentions, be open and honest.
/r/seduction07/09/15 02:57 PM
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Just looks like you are not. As people have said. You aren't suffering in the looks depart. A book that helped me was "What every body is saying" by ex FBI agent Joe November. It's good because it taught me how to see certain behaviours and what they could mean. Not only in other people but myself.
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:42 PM
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Are you getting enough sleep?
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:15 AM
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How is that dull? It is what you like. Know why you like it and articulate it if needed.
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:45 PM
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Anything else? Movies, music, travel, writing, meditation, reading....
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:30 PM
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What are your hobbies?
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:14 PM
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Always be talking. Talk to everyone you can. Doesn't matter who, how or why. Just keep talking. Will take some time. If you are observant and reflective you will grow.
/r/seduction30/08/15 11:46 AM
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Of course. But you must work at it. The thing is the change will happen an you'll probably miss it. You'll notice a year later when your whole life has changed. Hit the gym, read the books, focus on yourself. You'll know when you are ready.
/r/seduction29/08/15 02:42 PM
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In your original post you talked about deep issues. The hardest hit I have been from seduction is from reading "No more Mr Nice Guy". That book opened my eyes and changed the way I see the world. By hardest hit I mean turned into a mute and shutting down my personality for three days. The only other times that has happened is when I was in therapy. Sounds like you may have similar issues to me. I highly recommend the book. Your comment shows that you are focused a lot on other people's perceptio…
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:39 PM
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Sounds like you are becoming more needy and turning girls off. Take a break and just focus on you and your needs. Go to the gym, get an expensive haircut, treat yourself to a massage. Take yourself out of the game and come back when you feel ready. I'm on a 3 month dry spell. How do I remember? Because 3 months ago I moved to Japan. Going on a date tomorrow night so I may break the spell but I don't care if I do or not. It's just sex, you aren't any less of a man if you aren't getting laid.
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:18 PM
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You are on the right track. Keep talking to people. All the time! Be friendly and approachable. If you talk a lot then you will get good at talking. Silence is good sometimes too. I used to stress at silence but now I just chill. If there is something to say I'll say it. You may also have your conversation filter set to high. What I mean by that is that there are many thoughts that go though your head that you don't say to the other person. This can be down to fear or rejection. Whatever the rea…
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:07 PM
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Trying to change all these at once will likely result in failure.
/r/seduction27/08/15 03:49 PM
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site: YouTube.com Put that into the search box.
/r/seduction25/08/15 11:15 PM
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Where are your hobbies at? Follow them and just have fun. I'm three months into my new life in Japan. Yeah it started slow but now it's snowballing. My secret? Getting out the house and talking to people. My hobbies are music, coffee and learning Japanese (I can say simple sentences but that's it). So what do I do? Grab my bass and find a jam and head to bars and cafes making sure to talk to the staff and owners. Also been hitting the gym and free Japanese lessons. Through this I've been invited…
/r/seduction23/08/15 06:16 PM
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Do you have access to a frog costume and a bowl of chilli?
/r/seduction23/08/15 06:04 PM
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How does this gold go nine hours without a single comment. Thank you for sharing this. How did you find this clip?
/r/seduction23/08/15 05:47 PM
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She's just shy. If you can break her auto pilot mode then do it. Mix it up, shock her a little and escalate. As said, be clear in your intentions.
/r/seduction23/08/15 05:43 PM
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It's different for everyone. I was just telling my story. There's a reason I'm not doing no fap anymore. After going so long shorter times are very easy to do.
/r/seduction23/08/15 08:51 AM
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Yes I highly recommend doing some no fap or as in Mr. Nice guy, no porn. I did over 100 days last year. To start my libido went down so be prepared if that happens. Also it's a challenge so really put your mind to it. In response to your main post, I'm glad you found many truths in Models. Currently I'm about a year into my life after Models and feel totally different. Living and working in a different country, able to state my intentions and willing to give my views on any subject. Keep going a…
/r/seduction23/08/15 02:28 AM
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Hit some bars you like. I take lifting as weights. The gym is good but dig deeper. Personally I love dance. Never used to but now I do. I play bass, study Japanese, used to play poker, love all kinds of music and watch gaming YouTube channels in my down time. That's me. I found my likes and dislikes by trying everything. I would sit down with a piece of paper and spend 30 mins writing down everything you have even the slightest interest in. Then sort that list from best to least best and try eve…
/r/seduction21/08/15 09:28 PM
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Get ready to have a blast. Study hard but also party hard when you can. Meeting people is quite easy. Don't be overly eager but not too aloof. Just confidently saying hi to people gets great results. Show interest in them and if you get a good vibe get their contact details (I like Facebook but here in Japan everyone uses line). Hobbies are key. If you don't have any then try things til you find something you like. Put yourself in a position to meet people. Get out and about even when you don't …
/r/seduction21/08/15 09:12 PM
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Do it! Be honest, "I'm on business, let's be best friends tonight". I like going out alone more than with people. Being alone forces you to start talking to people. It also makes you more open to be approached. What hobbies do you have?
/r/seduction21/08/15 08:57 PM
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I think there is something deeper that you are not telling us. Don't go to a hooker. You'll regret that. Are you going to the gym? What hobbies do you have? Put yourself where women are. New city yeah I get that. Me too, just moved to a city where I can't speak the native language. Been tough but by putting myself out there I've been able to go on dates. Fuck it's lonely yeah. Keep putting yourself out there. Go to places you love to be in. Say hi to everyone. My local bartender introduces me to…
/r/seduction21/08/15 06:00 PM
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Not op but fucking love to dance. True dancing takes a bit of fuck you to the world. You have to let go and move your body not caring what anyone thinks. No matter how far you go you can always go more. Dance a lot and you see all movement as dance. Try this game with your friends. 5 or more people is best. Stand in a circle. One person does a dance move and every one copies, next person clockwise does a move and everyone copies, next person and so on. Just doing this can invite people to join i…
/r/seduction21/08/15 05:53 PM
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By society you are expected to lead. Though if you are getting lots of resistance then take it as a sign and move on.
/r/seduction18/08/15 03:56 PM
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Say hi - be normal.
/r/seduction14/08/15 02:43 PM
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Wait what? I'm not worried and will continue to be. Stop posting click bait titles that prove little insight or discussion.
/r/seduction11/08/15 01:32 AM
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Thank you for the summary. I want to print out and put on my wall. Loved reading models and it has changed my life and sounds like it has affected yours too. If you were to add 3 points of your own. What would they be?
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:24 PM
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Great input but as to why you feel this way?
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:20 PM
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Not sure why I got downvoted so much. Meh just karma. Just moved to Japan and can only say basic words in Japanese. Thought you may of had some advice.
/r/seduction09/08/15 01:39 AM
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And if you can't speak the same language?
/r/seduction08/08/15 02:43 PM
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Start a gaming channel, critique TV shows. Or Spend one week in the mountains away from your vices. See where your brain gravitated.
/r/seduction07/08/15 11:48 AM
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Start a gaming channel, critique TV shows. Or Spend one week in the mountains away from your vices. See where your brain gravitated.
/r/seduction07/08/15 11:48 AM
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Dude what? Pen, paper and sit. Think about what you want to do. Don't leave til you have a list of potential hobbies. If you do it for the ladies then you'll always lose.
/r/seduction07/08/15 10:27 AM
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Cheers mate, yeah I didn't forsee the car ride either. I was a little concerned before but it was fine. Yes she is making my life difficult. Low self esteem, no one standing up to her, acting innocent and bullying are all factors here. I can't get in trouble for doing nothing. That's all I've done. The company can't force my to talk with her outside of work. Hopefully you are right and other people can see who is acting poorly. The girl has issues with another Japanese teacher too. In other news…
/r/seduction28/07/15 04:23 PM
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Hey dude just wanted to give you another update. Barely seen the rude girl apart from a few meetings. She loves talking to me directly in front of the group in those meetings. I usually answer and move on. Today was interesting. Had a summer camp about an hours drive away. Plan was to be picked up from a train station by a company representative and driven to the camp. I had arrived at the station early and was chilling on my phone. Said girl arrives and walks right up and confronts me. I can't …
/r/seduction28/07/15 01:51 PM
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Number close? WHY? You already have a way of contacting her! You don't need another one! What are your hobbies? What are you creating? Where have you explored recently? What makes you interesting? I like to comment on the situation I'm currently in. Me: I'm on a train! Her: Where to? Or Me: I'm in an izakaya surrounded by Japanese men. Where are you? Her: I'm doing to same after work. I have my life that I invite her into.
/r/seduction26/07/15 12:07 PM
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Definitely the correct response is: "I'm like potato and need the aliens to be like not here" Hope this helps!
/r/seduction25/07/15 02:55 PM
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What year is it? I only answer the phone if it's work or a friend has asked if they can call. If she likes you then she will respond. By calling she may feel pressured and go out when she doesn't want to. Costing you money and time when she flakes later on.
/r/seduction21/07/15 10:16 PM
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Thank you for the advice. Just to update, she messaged me three times yesterday and once this morning. The last one was "why are you ignoring me". I have not responded at all. This morning she confronted me about it in front of a group of other ALT's. I said nothing and looked away. She was met with silence from the group. I'm understanding how she thinks a lot better now. She has a victim mentality and likes to bring me down. Thanks again for your help. It won't be east but it's for the best. S…
/r/seduction20/07/15 03:20 AM
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Tinder is not as popular here. Pairs is the most popular but all in Japanese.
/r/seduction19/07/15 03:09 AM
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Breaking all contact may be difficult but being more select with the time I am with her is an option. I will have another talk with her about her actions. Let her know that it is definitely not okay and if it continues I will have no choice but to cut all ties. That said I am still worried that escalating the situation in this way may hurt me socially and professionally. I could see her going all out crazy, making herself look like the victim and crying herself free. By not engaging do you mean …
/r/seduction18/07/15 04:33 PM
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Why? We broke it off when I left. We decided that that would happen before we entered a relationship.
/r/seduction18/07/15 12:01 PM
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I would prefer not to lie but brushing it off seems like a good idea. Limit the defensiveness and not respond. I think she maybe be jealous. She has shown some low self esteem issues. Don't know about the feelings but I wouldn't be surprised. Even though she has big tits and a pretty face I would never go there. I decided that before even meeting her.
/r/seduction18/07/15 10:50 AM
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Yup I know turtle mode very well. Be careful and watch the signs. Don't force anything and try to encourage her to express herself on her own terms. My ex's Mum has mental issues that have rubbed off on her children. Coupled with the fact she is Japanese, making my ex half Japanese, she has a lot of trouble being true to herself. She really needs life experience and maybe some counseling. After I broke up with my ex she went on a 6 week round the world trip for work. She was caring for someone i…
/r/seduction13/07/15 03:17 AM
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Everyone is saying it's okay and I mostly agree. I dated a nice girl for four years. She exhibited the traits you are talking about. Nice to everyone, always willing to help and would bend over backwards for anyone. For the most part things were great. Where it broke down was communication. She was never honest about her feelings to me. This caused major problems when instead of saying "Yeah I don't like that", she would curl up into a ball and shut off the world. It took me a long time to work …
/r/seduction12/07/15 10:22 PM
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Own it.
/r/seduction12/07/15 09:51 AM
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I think it's creepy. Let it go. If you see her again then say hi but don't force it. Make an extra effort to learn from this and take that knowledge to your next encounter.
/r/seduction08/07/15 08:02 AM
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Make 10 approaches for every pound you gain.
/r/seduction07/07/15 02:01 PM
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I'm on the flip side of this, I never ask for numbers. Why? Because I already have a direct link with her phone. Why do you need another one? To call? Why talk in a way that provides zero escalation? My method is to get to know them first before meeting them. What makes them tick and are they compatible. Dates can add up so I want to go on more quality dates than quantity. If the conversation dies or I don't get a good vibe I don't care. She doesn't fit to my standards.
/r/seduction07/07/15 01:57 PM
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I'm white and all my students say I look like Messi. Not concerned with my chances, more about the best way to approach.
/r/seduction29/06/15 04:21 AM
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Don't escalate or if you have already then stop immediately.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:14 PM
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Dude this is not nice or good advice. If a girl doesn't share the same values as me then of course I will friend zone her. Means we can stay on good terms and she may introduce me to her friends.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:12 PM
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I've done the around the same number of tinder dates. Met a ton of people and some long term friends. Just moved to rural Japan where tinder is not as popular though. After going on a lot of dates your mindset changes. At the moment mine is to talk to everyone, continue conversations with a good feel but have high standards when it comes to meeting. It's best to do most of the leg work online. This saves time, money and prevents poor matches that don't share your values.
/r/seduction25/06/15 06:58 PM
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