| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Tips for casual dating/ hookups for a guy who doesn’t drink?No, autoimmune disorder | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Tips for casual dating/ hookups for a guy who doesn’t drink?Doesn't prevent it, but my libido has reduced a bit and when my body has lots of inflammation going on, its difficult to think clearly or be in a good mood. Not insurmountable, I just have to manage my illness on top of managing my mood and energy/enthusiasm for meeting girls. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Women I attract reflect on the type of man I am?I appreciate you bringing all of this up. I don't have social media, do you happen to have any recommendations on books about Attachment Theory? There's a lot of them out there, wondering if you've read any and liked them. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on sober datingSee my response here: https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tgbo4o/tips_for_casual_dating_hookups_for_a_guy_who/i14qm3y/ and the other responses in that thread as well. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Tips for casual dating/ hookups for a guy who doesn’t drink?You're welcome. Sounds to me like your main remaining question here is how to ask them out on a date without saying "lets grab a drink." Definitely a valid concern, and a bit difficult. You gotta get a little creative with the date ideas. If you search this subreddit, there are definitely several different threads listing date ideas that you could check out. "Do you want to grab a bite on Tuesday?" "I'm pretty busy tomorrow but let's meet up to go for a walk around ____ park" "Let's go to the aq… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 03:27 AM |
| 6 | Failure with women hurting my mental healthI can’t open a single app or piece of social media without getting absolutely blasted So get rid of them. I became so much happier when I deleted all social media. So much more free time, also, to improve myself or to go out and approach women. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Tips for casual dating/ hookups for a guy who doesn’t drink?I don't play video games, but I could see saying to a girl that is already interested, (as /u/hunterpua has alluded to) "Hey, you want to come over and play some Mario Kart?" Heck, when I was younger I would say "Oh you're hungry?? Me too! I have some amazing buffalo chicken dip at my place we can eat the rest of it!" Then when we got to my house, I would open my fridge, then start cursing my roommates for "eating my dip". Then give the girl a drink and go from there. edit: If a girl is already … | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Tips for casual dating/ hookups for a guy who doesn’t drink?Food/cooking, [board/video/card] games, TV, watch the sunset from the balcony/back porch, etc. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Tips for casual dating/ hookups for a guy who doesn’t drink?You're totally right on that second paragraph. As I said in my response above, if a girl is more than medium drunk she will be too annoying to talk to. But if I meet a girl and we hit it off, because there's not that crazy drunk horniness going on, we'll usually talk and get to know each other for a long enough time that even if we do hook up that night, she's mostly (if not entirely) sober by that time. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Tips for casual dating/ hookups for a guy who doesn’t drink?I was a hard partier for 10 years before I stopped drinking due to having a chronic illness/condition. I'm assuming that you're coming from a background somewhat similar to mine -- used to drink a moderate or more amount and that helped to get laid, now trying to figure it out without it. The single biggest obstacle for me was being okay with me not drinking. As in, once I stopped worrying that my sobriety would be a showstopper, it stopped being one. I'm still an outgoing, funny guy... A lot of… | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 08:57 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter