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It’s not rug sweeping to say that one case in 1996 is not worth bunching your panties over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:37 PM
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Roe directly affected millions of people. Your story is about one person, again, from 1996, whose court case made headlines. Why do you seem more concerned about this than the actual ongoing abuse of children we see every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:46 PM
1

underage rape victims One. One person, TWENTY SIX years ago. Not plural victims, one victim. One. One human person. Your entire argument hinges on this being a widespread, common thing. You're lying, and yes, it's absolutely embarrassing. Edit: yes. This happening to one person a generation ago literally does not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:54 PM
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Yeah, one incident from nearly thirty years ago does not a pattern make. Surprised you believe in this pill shit at your age. It's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:36 PM
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No, they can just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:26 PM
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You are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:26 PM
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No I said it’s one article about one case and it’s from 1996. Were you even born at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:26 PM
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That article is dated nearly thirty years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:25 PM
2

There are male rape victims paying child support to their female rapists because if they don't their wages will be garnished, their driver license cancelled etc. Sources or you're lying. Show me where a court decided that a convicted rapist not only got to keep her child but also was awarded child support from her victim, presumably while incarcerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:03 AM
7

No, actually, men can just leave. They do it all the time. Often, if they feel they can't just leave, they abuse the woman until she leaves or dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:00 AM
6

Women have no power regarding pregnancy. We get pregnant, men do not. Men have all the power in the world to just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:52 AM
0

And every anti-choice man who fits those conditions should get one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:51 AM
-1

Those are two different subs, dummy
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/22 01:04 AM
-1

Yes
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 02:08 AM
0

Oh for sure she sucks, but why does that give you the right to ridicule her body?
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 01:00 AM
-4

Yes lol if in context of hetero dating
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 12:59 AM
-18

And how is ridiculing a woman for her weight not blatant misogyny
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 12:21 AM
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Wow how is this not just blatant misogyny
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 12:05 AM
1

Right, and I already said that is a great and valid choice for a person to make! I have no problem with that at all. It’s just that there’s no reason to believe it is the only great and valid choice for a person to make. Unless your views are dis rated by a religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:32 PM
1

Haha you really believe that don’t you? Are you religious? Is that where that belief comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:21 PM
1

Fourth wave radfems tend to be anti-sex work
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 10:48 PM
1

Yeah, there is no evidence that feminists are anti-men. It’s not in the literature, not in the policy proposals, not a focus of marches.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:14 PM
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I know that you think that, but that’s simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:35 PM
1

That’s not true, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:10 PM
1

I’ve never suggested anyone do anything they don’t want to do. There is nothing wrong with having sex be something you only share with one other person, ever. There is also nothing wrong with having sex with different people throughout your life. That’s what I’m saying. There is no universal “correct” lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:56 PM
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I’m not encouraging anything. I’ve been asking questions and adding factual information. So what I get from this is that you have a belief system surrounding human sexuality and that’s fine. But you should also acknowledge that it is a belief and not some sort of biological reality. That’s where my problem is - you’re allowed to believe whatever you want about sex, but you don’t get to pretend those beliefs are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:19 PM
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What I’m hearing is that you think sex gets extra special if you’re both virgins. If you only have sex with one other person, then that sex is better than any sex anyone who has had many parters has? That’s what you’re saying, right? I’m asking why. What specifically makes it so? Why is sex different than other human activities? Also, are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:47 PM
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You believe that feminism exists to oppress men. That’s not even worth discussing as a viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:28 AM
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I understand that you believe that, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:19 AM
1

Lol ok 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:31 AM
1

Fuck you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:18 AM
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Nah, if you read any actual feminist literature instead of just Twitter or whatever, you’d get it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:02 AM
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That woman isn’t a feminist, is what I would say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:58 AM
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You have been indoctrinated, young man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:43 AM
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It is almost all boys in this sub actually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:31 AM
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That’s not true. It’s absolutely anti-feminist to say women are born better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:29 AM
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You’re missing all of the nuance in everything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:28 AM
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It does not. Feminists do not believe that men are one way and women are another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:21 AM
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No. What makes sex more special if you only have it with one person?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:23 PM
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Well you’re doing a real shit job of explaining yourself because I am just trying to fucking understand what you think you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:48 PM
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I’m actually a feminist so I know that’s not true. It doesn’t even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:40 PM
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Like, try posting that question in a feminist sub and see if they agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:26 PM
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Lmfao that is what anti-feminists like to believe. Do you think Biden is a communist based on what Fox says? Do you let fundamentalist Christians define queer people for you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:25 PM
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No, FDS is fundamentally anti-feminist. They believe women are like X and men are like Y and these are the rules of the game. That’s literally the opposite of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:49 PM
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Okay wow dude first I don’t think you should at all ever be poly and that is not at all what I was suggesting. What I said was you don’t seem like you want monogamy, and your reason for wanting it was children. All I did was say that children aren’t an issue because you can have a stable family unit and not be monogamous. Like, just say “I chose to have this marriage because I considered the options and decided this was best for me.” Maybe you can avoid getting so worked up in the future by actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:17 PM
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Oh - so you put sex on a pedestal because you want sex to feel special? Like not allowing yourself to have chocolate except for on Christmas, so it tastes extra good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:50 PM
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You can have a family unit and still have outside relationships lol. We have a kid, I’ve dated women with kids. You just don’t bring partners around too soon, and when you do, you introduce your partner as a friend. Just like any family friend or aunt or uncle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:33 PM
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Like, if you don’t want to be monogamous, why keep trying to force it on yourself? It doesn’t sound like that’s something you want at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:05 PM
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You felt ethically okay sleeping with women you knew were cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:04 PM
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You think women are more likely to cheat than men? And the only reason you didn’t cheat was lack of opportunity??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:49 PM
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There is still a huge stigma against promiscuity. Are you joking? This whole sub is dedicated to slut shaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:29 PM
2

Lol why would I care what any men think? Are they here in my house?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:16 PM
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If you like someone, you should be nice, get to know them or ask them out if it’s online, and don’t play stupid games where you test her or don’t text back. And if she says no, you stop and leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:14 PM
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Wow I wouldn’t want to be married to someone who would even consider cheating on me. I don’t know how you could do that (even think about it) if you truly loved your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:11 PM
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Oh god, no. Feminists hate that book because it’s such an unhealthy representation of a sub/dom relationship, or any romantic relationship. He’s completely manipulative and abusive and she has no personality or will. The women who like that stuff I feel like are the women on FDS and such. Super conservative types.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:10 PM
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Don’t you worry that you having slept with so many people is negatively affecting your capacity for love and commitment in your marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:53 PM
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Did you read this article? Because it’s exactly what I said: based on self reported marital happiness, not peer reviewed or scientific in any way, just some guy’s blog post. “At the same time, Cherlin points out, it’s important to remember that the analysis was done based on retrospective reports by older adults. “If we looked at young adults who are just marrying today, the results could be different,” he said.” “This analysis merely suggests that sleeping with fewer people is correlated with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:37 PM
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Okay, what stats are you referring to specifically? Because either they measure marriage and divorce rates, or they measure self-reported marital happiness, which is so subjective it’s useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:16 PM
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Yeah we had a baby by 30. I suppose waiting that long would lead to lowering your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:03 PM
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But that’s not how stats work. Finding a virgin woman to marry you does not mean she won’t come with a huge amount of baggage from her upbringing, and the absence of a divorce does not mean a marriage is happy. You could also say that being poor or uneducated leads to less happier marriages and that would be the same amount of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:02 PM
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That makes way more sense than a 20 year old claiming that and is a lot more believable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:54 PM
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I guess. I’d be waaaaaay more wary of a lady who was raised religious and told to save her virginity for her husband, because that comes with a whole fucking suitcase of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:45 PM
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Really? Because I struggle to think of anyone I know who has had sex with that many different people, and I’m easily a decade older than most of you in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:43 PM
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And what I’m saying is that you have no idea how many married couples out there are in open relationships. Monogamy just means only having sex with each other. It has nothing to do with love or commitment. So as far as the census goes, the state records, our taxes, our kid’s school - we are just a married couple. So unless those stats you’re using had space for that as an answer, you’ll never know how people are defining “married, monogamous” on a poll like that. That’s usually the best closest …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:40 PM
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Women hate this trope too! Because it tells young men to keep trying and keep bugging her after she clearly says she’s not interested. Romcoms are not real life, guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:32 PM
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That’s just not true. That was my initial question: how? How does having sex affect my ability to love in the future? Explain that to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:27 PM
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What do you think the affects are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:25 PM
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How many people do you know that have slept with more than 25 people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:23 PM
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Ah, gotcha! I guess in my situation, I’m good friends with her girlfriend too, like we go shopping together and stuff. She has a husband, too, so there’s no worry that she’s trying to, like, steal my wife for herself. To me it feels no different from my wife having a hobby or game night or something that she does once or twice a week. We were together for a couple of years before we became “open,” but other than a date here and there nothing changed until a couple of years ago when we learned mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:23 PM
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Well it’s been over ten years so do you want me to post in forty years to prove something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:11 PM
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Where did you get that we are struggling to be happy and content? We’ve been together and committed for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:10 PM
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I’m totally not an evangelist, it just works really well for us. Plus her girlfriend and I can plan things for her together and go in on gifts and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:28 AM
2

I mean, you’re using stats and applying them to individuals, first of all, so right away you’re not being logical
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:25 AM
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Yes, but we are still a married couple. Unless these stats are just based on self-reporting, which is unreliable. It’s not like we tell the state what we do in our free time. I doubt those polls had an option for “happily married primary couple who also have other relationships,” so I’d respond that we’ve just been married for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:40 AM
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She spends one night a week with her girlfriend, and she usually comes over to hang out with us all once a week. So once a week I get a night to myself and get the whole bed. I don’t feel jealous. When I had a girlfriend I saw her the same amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:36 AM
3

Not really when it comes to human procreation, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:09 AM
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According to the stats, we’re a nuclear family with married parents lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:08 AM
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That’s pretending that correlation equals causation, and fails to account for any nuance, like how highly religious couples don’t divorce regardless of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:44 AM
3

Why does it matter how fertile someone is if you still get a baby out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:37 AM
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I’m older than everyone here I think so this is more like studying gorillas in their natural habitat or something. I wonder if they think all their moms, aunts, sisters, and teachers are virginal or whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:31 AM
0

Well she already has a girlfriend and she can sleep with whoever she wants, so that wouldn’t bother me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:28 AM
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I can’t stop thinking about this. So the primary reason men want women to be virgins is because men are too insecure??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:14 AM
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No I think they don’t, and that’s why hooking up is fine. How would having sex affect them if they don’t think it’s a big deal in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:06 AM
1

So? I mean in my case it was mostly men, but how does having sex with one person affect having sex with a different person a decade later?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:05 AM
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That’s my point, yes. Sex doesn’t always involve intense emotions. It can, but it’s certainly not a requirement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:00 AM
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No, I’m not? My wife and I have sex together frequently. I’ve easily had infinitely more sex with her than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:59 PM
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Except for the part where we got married and had a kid and are fantastic partners and are happy? So she was still fertile, still attractive, still fun when we met. Why would someone marry someone they didn’t actually like being around?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:45 PM
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I love sex. That’s why I’ve had so much of it. The sex we have together gets better and better the more we grow together. The comparison was not sex = eating ice cream. The comparison is that me eating ice cream when I was 20 has no bearing on how ice cream tastes to me today. It’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:43 PM
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It’s the opposite of common sense. It makes as much sense as saying running too fast makes you unable to boil water.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:41 PM
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That’s laughably untrue. Who told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:36 PM
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Do you see how it doesn’t make sense to call a woman “used up?” What is used up? Her capacity for love? Her fertility?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:35 PM
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Yes I was operating under the assumption that most people like both sex and ice cream, which is why I used that analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:34 PM
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People who don’t have hoe phases are missing out on love, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:32 PM
1

What I don’t get about that is, isn’t value about dating in the first place? Why would a married man (or woman) need to concern himself with his value to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:19 PM
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Truly, what is the difference for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:18 PM
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Yeah I mean I’m also talking about my wife, except we didn’t have to filter anything bc we, you know, fell in love and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:15 PM
1

Honestly that makes as much sense to me as being sad about my spouse having eaten ice cream before she met me. Like…I’ve had ice cream a lot, I like many flavors, so does she…why would I be upset that I didn’t teach her about ice cream?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:14 PM
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Sources needed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:40 PM
1

Yo I’m literally here to hear what you guys have to say. I legit don’t know what could possibly be sad about what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:37 PM
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What about that is sad??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:09 PM
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Do you think it’s possible that women aren’t easily divided into two opposing groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:05 PM
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Meh my wife and I each slept with probably 15 or 20 people before we met, and that was over a decade ago. Why would our sex lives before our relationship affect our communication and respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:04 PM
2

And actually, menopausal and post menopausal women masturbate more than young women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:21 PM
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No. Something like 91% of men masturbate and for women it’s 78%. It is not that big of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:17 PM
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Um, that maybe true for some women, but the overwhelming majority of women masturbate. It would be extremely difficult to find an old woman who hasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:54 PM
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I mostly get comments while walking on the sidewalk in my neighborhood, or men approaching me while I’m at the park with my kid. I ignore it. When I was younger, I didn’t know how to react, and ended up giving my phone number to a guy who’d been following me in his truck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:54 PM
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No it’s not. Who says women are more emotional than men? Do any studies show this? Is it at all supported by actual evidence? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:23 PM
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They are not. It’s a false assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:17 PM
1

Yeah lol just like someone vaguely calling a sunset attractive. I can also say men are attractive, and I don’t even want to bang them. Women though. Women are amazing
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 06:43 PM
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Damn you guys are just a bunch of fucking romantics aren’t you
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 05:14 PM
1

I don’t mean personality traits. I mean anything at all you like about women. Like even “boobs” would have been an acceptable answer but everyone just keeps saying men and women are the same
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:56 PM
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Do you have literature? I don’t watch YouTube videos
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:52 PM
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It’s not a trick question? Do you love women? If so, then list some things you love about them. If I asked what you love about dogs, I’m sure you’d be able to come up with something. Why is it harder with women?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:51 PM
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Yes? I’m literally asking what anti feminist men like about women. You don’t “like their biological differences.” There must be actual qualities or traits that women have that you find attractive.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:47 PM
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Why? All of those are valid answers
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:45 PM
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What evidence do you have that feminists do that?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:41 PM
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What is confusing about that
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:39 PM
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How much harm to men do you think is necessary?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:38 PM
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So when you think about women, you think, “mmmm yeah biological differences?” You don’t think about their soft skin or good smelling hair or the way their stomachs squish or anything?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:37 PM
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I said, “what do you love about women.” That’s extremely straight forward.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:26 PM
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Empathy you mean?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:18 PM
2

So what do you love about women?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:04 PM
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I didn’t even say the word sexist, what do you mean? I can come up with a thousand things I love about women that don’t involve a uterus. Why can nobody else??
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:47 PM
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You like women because they are human? Why don’t you like men the same way?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:34 PM
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Yes holy shit I am literally asking what you like about women. Why is this difficult?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:32 PM
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OKAY the only thing that makes men and women different is reproductive organs?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:31 PM
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You just said the only noticeable difference between men and women is looks.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:29 PM
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The comments I’ve received regarding what you love about women have all said the only difference is looks and that women can make babies. We are all people first, right? I’m curious what that means for trans people. I would assume people who believe men and women are mostly similar (that gender is a construct) would support transgender identities because gender is a construct.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:24 PM
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Is the anti feminist community trans positive?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:16 PM
2

Do you literally not see a difference between men and women? Do you sleep with men?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:04 PM
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That’s what you love about women? That they come with a uterus? Guys. It should not be difficult to list things you love about the type of people you’re attracted to.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 02:03 PM
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Thanks and for the record, FDS is the opposite of feminist. They’re objectively terrible and wrong.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 01:35 PM
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Is this an anti-FDS sub?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 07:03 AM
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This is a post about a woman. If I go through the post history here, what do you think I’ll find: complaints about men, or complaints about women?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 07:02 AM
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No they just do it instinctively before you think about it
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 02:34 AM
-1

Oh, you guys don’t talk about men here. You talk about women - specifically feminists. It’s in the sub name. Edit: does your comment mean you’re bi or pan?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 01:24 AM
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No, what do you love about women, specifically? I didn’t ask about humans in general.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 12:58 AM
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What do you love about women?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 12:50 AM
1

Seems like most men feel the same and most women disagree
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 10:19 PM
1

Do you think marrying for love is unreasonable? Why would you call it blithe?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 10:09 PM
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There are several that article references, but here’s one they used. https://s2.q4cdn.com/437609071/files/doc_news/research/2018/LGBTQ-and-Straight-Millennials-Survey.pdf Oh, this was a fun statistic: “Over half (56%) of Straight women have married ‘only for love’ compared to 3 in 10 Straight men who say the same. LGBTQ women married ‘only for love’ in the same proportion (55%) and under 2 in 10 LGBTQ men say the same.”
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 08:26 PM
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If you can’t explain something simply and easily, you don’t know that thing well enough to be explaining it
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 08:16 PM
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“Current data is scarce, but it suggests lower levels of marriage among L.G.B.T.Q. millennials when measured against both their straight counterparts and the L.G.B.T.Q. generation before them. An online study funded by TD Ameritrade last year found that 29 percent of L.G.B.T.Q. millennials were married, in contrast to 52 percent of straight millennials.” https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/13/us/lgbtq-millennial-marriage.html 52% of straight millennials were married in the year 2018.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 08:15 PM
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You know there is actual data you can look up regarding this, right?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 08:01 PM
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That is not a global percentage, that is based off of the 2019 American Community Survey published by the US Census Bureau.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:53 PM
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No, lol. The national average for same-sex couple households - that’s both married and unmarried/living in sin - is 1.5%. 98.5% of all cohabitating partnerships are heterosexual.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:50 PM
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You think that 30% of all marriages between people ages 18-34 are homosexual? If 29% of people 18-34 are married, and you divide that the way you did, you’d end up with three in ten marriages being gay. That is not the case.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:44 PM
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Lol sorry having to explain your position offends you. I assumed antifeminists knew that they exist in a tiny slice of the internet and that most people are unaware what they believe.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:41 PM
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Why do you seem so upset about it if you don’t even use it?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:37 PM
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That’s because almost nobody marries at 18. By the time you’re thirty you are just as likely to be married (or have been married) than never married and single. I don’t understand your last paragraph. Are you saying that 10% of the married 18-34 year olds are gay? And that 7% met in school? What do you mean by reasonable and unreasonable?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:36 PM
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I’ve read the accounts of women pretending to be men, and vice versa. Women get inundated with messages and sexual harassment, and men try to swipe as many women as possible in the hopes one will match. Of course that system is not designed to facilitate lasting relationships unless both people are sincere.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:29 PM
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51% of 30 year olds were married in the year 2019.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:20 PM
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I don’t think men all act the same way, and neither do I think women do. I think a lot of people are assholes, and that most people struggle with romantic and sexual relationships. That’s just a part of the human experience. I think dating is difficult for everyone, for a variety of different reasons. I don’t think either men or women “have it easy.” That doesn’t make sense at all.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:18 PM
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Well, men have a 50% probability to be married by 27, 61% by 30, and 81% by 40. Are you also considering the impact that the increasingly high number of Millennial and Gen Z LGBTQ folks have on marriage statistics? If marriages are declining, that would be a very good reason why.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:15 PM
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Because that’s how you have a conversation. First you have to find a common understanding. Why would you read this and assume what you did, instead of assuming that this is how most men act on dating apps?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:08 PM
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That isn’t true. Fewer than one in five people met their spouse at school. Only 2% of marriages are high school relationships.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:07 PM
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Then why wouldn’t you assume she is, herself, attractive and intelligent and wealthy enough to have those high standards?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 07:02 PM
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I’m literally trying to understand how you view men and women. You believe this man must be very attractive because men who are less attractive have fewer options and therefore likely would not turn her down in this way, right?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:58 PM
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Where did you get the idea that 80% of women only find 5% of men attractive? How do most men end up married if this is the case?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:56 PM
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You said only attractive men can afford to do that. You said not all of them do, of course, but that “only they can.”
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:54 PM
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Why do you believe only attractive men behave that way? That’s ridiculous to me. All types of men do things like this.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:52 PM
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Okay so you believe that only attractive men behave this way? Only attractive men are trying to get laid no strings attached?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:48 PM
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You guys are guessing that this man is attractive and she’s not. That’s a complete assumption on your part. Do you think only tall men act like this?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:44 PM
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The only thing we know about this man is that he “seemed alright and into some of the same stuff” as her. She never describes him physically at all. All she asked was to meet in person before going to her house together.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:41 PM
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How is men refusing to form relationships with women her fault? Where did you get the information that he was out of her league? He could just as easily be married or fat or dorky. Where did she describe him at all?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:37 PM
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She didn’t say anything about what he looked like though
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:35 PM
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So if it was his choice, how is the problem her standards?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:26 PM
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No, she liked him and found him attractive. He was her type. Until he refused to meet in public before going to her house.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 05:51 PM
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Okay but this woman simply asked to meet a man in public in person before inviting him to her house. Is that too high a standard for you??
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 05:46 PM
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Oh my god, I just read the rest of the original post. The guy she wanted to go on a date with said her standards were too high because she asked to go on a date before inviting him to her home. That…..that’s not a high standard.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 05:39 PM
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She is saying she hasn’t found any kind and sincere men that she likes. How is that different from not wanting to date a woman with a high body count, or a woman who only wants you for your money? Are people not allowed to choose their partners how they want?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 05:32 PM
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Oh. You don’t think that kind and sincere men exist?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 05:00 PM
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Why can’t they just stay single? A lot of women do that.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 04:49 PM
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That doesn’t show up in the screenshot. It just says she’s tired of meeting guys she doesn’t like. Doesn’t that disprove the theory that women can find relationships whenever they want?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 04:19 PM
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She seems fine being single. Did she say otherwise?
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 03:58 PM
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Crazy how two things can be true at the same time
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 07:59 PM
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Stay gold, ponyboy
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 07:06 PM
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Oh my god you were just name calling me? Lmfao what the fuck is this sub
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 07:02 PM
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You didn’t compare anything. You just said chores were easy.
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 01:09 PM
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Whoa way harsh! Who said anything about your existence? It’s just funny you don’t think keeping house and raising kids counts as work
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 01:01 PM
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I found it hilarious
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 12:57 PM
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This is great satire btw
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 02:41 AM
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Wow, you seem to really want me to yell at you or something. It didn’t make sense when I read it and you used a pronoun every time, so I asked for clarification.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 10:01 PM
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I was referring to your comment. You said a bunch of stuff about “paying them.” Do you mean “women?”
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 08:34 PM
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Who is “them?”
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 06:45 PM
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Someone somewhere may. I’m sure you could look into it if you wanted to.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 06:10 PM
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Because all of society benefits from that work, not just each family. Nuclear families with two parents are generally more secure and stable than single parent families.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 05:41 PM
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You don’t think housekeeping and raising children is work?
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 05:17 PM
1

Yeah, people used to laugh at blackface too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:17 PM
1

In that case, he should be shamed, for thinking that a man wearing a dress is humorous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:04 PM
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You’ve got the right idea. Traits and interests aren’t gendered, which is why all of the gender stereotypes are problematic. Men can wear dresses, too, but they get shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:54 PM
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I’m not saying that’s what I think it should mean. I am telling you that outside of your computer, regular people define it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:17 PM
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Lol words mean what people think they mean. The real world doesn’t give a fuck what 4chan bros decided it meant. It means “idiot man boy who hates women”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:51 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:30 PM
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I am a woman. But why would I expect anyone to interrupt a slap between two other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:26 PM
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Of course you don’t and of course you fucking won’t. If you cared about facts, you would have done the research before fucking spewing your bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:20 PM
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What source could I give you that you would believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:15 PM
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Wow I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that you guys just ignore things that don’t fit your worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:38 PM
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What is biological about girls wearing dresses and boys liking trucks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:30 PM
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You’re fucking wrong, dude. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDocs/comments/p5i1wo/how_do_we_find_a_doctor_who_will_seriously/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This is only one post of hundreds like this Here’s another https://www.reddit.com/r/Portland/comments/mxwwld/need_to_find_a_doctor_willing_to_perform_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Aaaalllll day man https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/p6o2ac/wanna_get_tubal_ligation_cant_because_doctors/?utm_so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:24 PM
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No, I fucking wasn’t. Women have pcos and endometriosis and doctors will still refuse to perform a sterilizing procedure on a premenopausal woman. There are lists of doctors who will sterilize women on other subs to help us find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:13 PM
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You can’t get your balls removed if your balls are producing tumors that make you sick? I’m not talking about healthy uteruses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:50 PM
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Bisexual people can’t have friends ever omg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:37 PM
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What the fuck do family courts have to do with boys believing that women have an easy time dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:32 PM
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I personally don’t, but women with pcos and endometriosis sure do, and even when you’re open after a c section it’s hard to find a doctor who will perform it on a technically fertile woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:30 PM
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Lol yeah the right can meme so good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:28 PM
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I have never seen someone interrupt a man slapping another man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:28 PM
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That’s not what you said at all. Of course men on average have more testosterone and physical strength. That has nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:27 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:26 PM
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It’s not “willy nilly” when there’s medical reason for it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:26 PM
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I have no idea where they all got that idea. It blows my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:39 AM
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Oh you’re one of those who thinks all modern biologists have been corrupted by the liberal media or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:29 AM
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Perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:10 AM
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This sub, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:45 AM
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I’m telling you that none of that matters. The culture is the same: I’m a victim, nobody understands me, don’t they see how amazing I am, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:41 AM
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Already in one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:37 AM
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A guy shot up the massage therapists because they wouldn’t have sex with him. That’s incel culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:34 AM
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Nobody cares what 4chan or whatever defined “incel” as when they made it up. I’m telling you how people in real life use that term. So what if the spa guy had a girlfriend? He went out and shot only women, right? At places only women work? And he planned that out, yes? Yeah, he hates women. Incel. It’s the rhetoric, not whether or not he’s gotten his goddamn sick wet before, Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:25 AM
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Oh my god do you guys fucking think I’m saying they are a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:01 AM
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Nobody fucking cares if he had a girlfriend. “Incel,” in American vernacular, so to normal humans, means “man who hates women because they don’t like him.” Noooooobody gives two fucks if one of them had a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:01 AM
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Not by law but it’s hard to find a doctor who will perform a hysterectomy or tubal without one, or if you’re under 35 in general
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:57 AM
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I can’t even get my uterus removed without my husband’s permission
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:12 AM
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“Everything’s fine ladies it’s only like half a dozen unhinged idiots out there trying to kill you”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:06 AM
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Gender is a social construct :) I can only handle it here a couple weeks at a time though so you’re right there. This sub is nothing like the actual world, though. It’s fascinating learning what fucked up shit you guys have come up with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:00 AM
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Can you be a femcel if you’re married
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:59 PM
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Why do you think that’s true? I’ve never heard of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:56 PM
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Lmfao when has incel content been banned? That’s the point of this whole sub I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:27 PM
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What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:25 PM
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How were women’s preferences more reasonable in 2004?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:19 PM
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Lol no Imma eat the bread and go get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:06 PM
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This is true of people, not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:00 PM
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Or don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:59 PM
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Nobody cares about the “real” definition of incel. They are all part of the same ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:52 PM
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There’s not a relevant difference between men who hate women enough to kill them and men who self-describe as incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:23 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:12 PM
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I’m sorry your standards are so low
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:57 PM
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Yes, and that’s why we keep talking about why it’s important to stop thinking that way Edit wait I read that backwards. Who shamed men for being tall, dark, handsome, strong, and stoic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:49 PM
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Nice I like them too. Too bad you weren’t around for my slutty Reddit phase a couple years back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:46 PM
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Why would you want to see the tits of a mid thirties lesbian mom who breastfed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:44 PM
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Haha yeah weird right? School shootings are also a small percentage of murders, and 95% of cops never fire on duty, so I guess everything is gravy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:43 PM
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Do you think women on the internet imagine you as their target audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:41 PM
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Lmfao based on what??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:27 PM
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Who is overreacting? Nobody with power even reacting at all. The Trump administration made them edit it out of their reports even lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:25 PM
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Why should we be concerned about a sudden appearance of ideologically similar mass murders? Because that is terrorism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:19 PM
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Well, if twenty years ago, nobody was murdering anyone over how delicious cake is, and now we had several mass murders per year because some people really hate cake, that would be concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:16 PM
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Oh okay thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:13 PM
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I mean you could just look at the raw data too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:10 PM
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A woman who hates men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:10 PM
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Okay what is a femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:07 PM
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I never had a relationship longer than a few months until I met my now wife Edit to expand a little, having sex with men felt good in the way winning a trophy after beating your opponent at a game feels good. It made me feel good about myself because I thought that men liking me made me a Good Woman. But I wasn’t experiencing sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:04 PM
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We literally do, per the FBI as well as foreign intelligence agencies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:01 PM
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So a woman who hates men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:00 PM
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Can you tell me what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:57 PM
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No the guy in Colorado last week, and the guy in the UK before that, and the Asian spa guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:57 PM
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So for various reasons, I didn’t consider that being gay myself was a possibility. I viewed lesbians as very Other and thought I was normal, so honestly the thought never seriously even crossed my mind. But I very much wanted to be perfect - I longed to be the most popular, the best athlete, the best singer, the best student, the prettiest girl. Like, unhealthily and obsessively. Having boys want me was extremely important to me, and I did not know that that wasn’t sexual attraction. When I slep…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:44 PM
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I thought that was a white supremacist thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:29 PM
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What is a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:09 PM
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A big YUP to all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:39 PM
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No harm done except for when they decide to make sex tapes with those bots
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:29 PM
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I was the first out of my group of friends to get married, and I married at 29. You’re fine. My best friend is single at 36, and she’s fine too. Half the people I know have already gone through their first divorce, too, so keep that in mind when you see people pairing off in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:28 PM
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How can we prevent someone ordering one of these dolls to look like a real woman they know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:23 PM
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Men already do that, with sex dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:22 PM
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Explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:19 PM
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Sure, but I’m also literally not sexually attracted to men, so if we’re being technical, I didn’t have my “real” first kiss until my mid-thirties Edit and wizards are cool dude lean in!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:09 PM
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Same, but in reverse. I was boy crazy and didn’t get a first kiss until 18, had sex at 23. Turns out I’m a lesbian though so that could explain why I wasn’t giving out sexy vibes to the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:04 PM
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I’d rather be fat and get laid, but everyone’s different!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:01 PM
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Most humans aren’t in shape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:59 PM
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Interesting. You believe the positive attention of women is a need for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:54 PM
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Most humans have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:53 PM
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Some people are asexual, so it’s not a need for everyone. But for allosexuals, then of course sex is part of a well balanced healthy lifestyle. Not necessary, but orgasms are literally beneficial to our health, so we should at least be masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:53 PM
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But if that person is also your walking dildo/fleshlight, then it’s win/win
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:34 PM
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Nothing wrong with trading a warm hole for a good bone once in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:33 PM
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That’s only the work we get paid for, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:22 PM
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No lol it is as ridiculous as it sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:37 PM
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Okay, so all the women are taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:05 PM
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Well that makes actual sense Also most men get married, by far
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:04 PM
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Gay men think the same thing. So do straight people Edit to add: bisexual people have the highest rates of anxiety and depression compared to other orientations, and this is because monosexuals think they’re untrustworthy and hyper sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:03 PM
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Tell Jesus I say what’s up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:13 AM
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That’s because nothing you said made sense. Who says fat women have an easier time finding relationships than fat men? I’ve been a fat woman - that is objectively not true. Almost everyone has a relationship at some point. This post is about why people believe that men fare better than women in relationships, and you keep talking about fat people? Whatever it is your worldview looks like, it is not the world that I live in. None of what you’re saying makes any sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:10 AM
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Okay first of all, in the real world, nobody thinks about this shit at all. These are not obvious logical things that people agree on - these are things you or someone you listen to has made up. So are there too many single women then? Not enough fat, desperate women to go around? How could a man possibly not find a desperate, obese woman to date if he was so desperate for companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:03 AM
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I’m literally just asking you how this math works. Women outnumber men last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:56 AM
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You did not give a statistic, lol. So if all of the fat women are dating men, and I assume you believe all of the thin women are dating men, then how are there men left over that nobody is dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:46 AM
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Okay, so you’re basing your understanding of women on the hit TLC reality tv show “My 600 Pound Life?” Have you tried not doing that? Why don’t the fat men just date the fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:43 AM
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Who is dating these obese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:35 AM
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Haha sure, explain to me exactly what you think women like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:30 AM
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What are you fucking talking about? You don’t get to just make things up and state them as if they’re common sense. You can go Google the studies yourself, and even when you find a reason to dismiss them, the media still reported on it which explains why people fucking think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:26 AM
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Are you measuring attraction or who they end up with? Because straight women generally think bi guys are gay, so it makes sense that they’d feel more comfortable with another queer person. And obviously bi women end up with men all the time - heterosexuality is pushed on us all from birth. I don’t believe they are more attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:52 AM
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Lol do they
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:40 AM
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The question asked was, “why does this belief exist?” Because there were studies that said so, that’s why. You don’t have to believe the studies were accurate in order to accept that they had an impact in how marriages are viewed by each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:38 AM
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And we didn’t believe men could be raped at that time, either. Before the anti-gay movement in the 1950s, which is when the first DSM was written, trans people weren’t really distinguished from gay people: queer was queer. Before that, in the early 20th century, before gay people were called “homosexuals” they were scientifically called “gender inverts.” There are trans people all throughout history who were accepted by their communities. I’m talking western countries in the last several centuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:24 AM
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That’s great for you. It’s just stupid to cherry pick science because you think it’s icky or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:06 AM
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I don’t know what that means. We don’t call hair color binary even though about only 1.7% of humans are redheads; we have a category for it beyond blonde and brunette. Make sure to listen in biology class.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:50 AM
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1.7% actually, if you include ambiguous genitalia
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:45 AM
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Not all humans are XX or XY
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:27 AM
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See when I do that, all the papers I get say that gender and sex aren’t binary and that trans people are totally normal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:25 AM
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Then it will be so easy for you to link a single one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:23 AM
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Can you link a peer reviewed scientific paper that agrees with you? If it’s what science says, that gender and sex are the same and trans people are mentally ill, then it should be an easy find for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:20 AM
3

Is that the same science that affirms transgender people and says climate change is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:16 AM
4

You don’t think the IQs of women are as varied as those of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:11 AM
8

Oh, I see. You think women are all alike?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:48 AM
10

No? When did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:45 AM
8

I didn’t tell you any assumptions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:43 AM
8

That’s not remotely close to what I said. Married men live longer and are happier than bachelor men, while married women have shorter and more stressful lives than women who don’t marry. The reasons behind that may vary, but that is what the data show.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:39 AM
15

Because studies show that married men live longer happier lives while married women don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:49 PM
2

A risk I’m happy to take
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:39 PM
1

It was the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:12 PM
2

What if I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:01 PM
1

Oh, so you just disagree with modern science. That’s what I said initially. Basing your beliefs on the psychology of the 1950s is stupid. Do you also use leaded gasoline and asbestos and smoke while in labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:58 PM
6

Orgasms give me a good feeling and relax me. Sex feels good and is fun. I’m 36 and I’ve not yet experienced this terrible degeneration. When should I expect it to begin?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:31 PM
1

Find me the peer reviewed biology papers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:47 PM
1

Yes they do. Find me a peer reviewed article that says biologists don’t believe in gender. Find me one that claims human sex is strictly binary. Transgender people have existed since humans have existed. They’ve been defined in many different ways, but we have actual histories, proof, fucking photos and court cases of people who have been what we’d today call trans. Edit like find me a paper that says trans people don’t exist or are mentally ill. Scientists do not believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:03 PM
1

Biologists absolutely agree that gender and sex are two different things, and also that sex in humans is not a strict binary either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:47 PM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_gender_distinction Wikipedia is not a scientific source, but here you go. Your own article disproves the notion that there is only male and female, and doesn’t even mention gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:27 PM
1

Still waiting on that scientific source, bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:54 PM
1

Good for you! Fuck her. Go live your life how you want to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:27 PM
0

Yeah lesbians have been invaded by TERFs, and it’s pretty infuriating to see
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:19 PM
1

Yes. I thought I was bi because of my wife, but since it turns out she’s a trans woman, that explained that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:14 PM
1

Yes, she transitioned about five years into our marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:08 PM
1

I never said I dislike men? I don’t date them. I’m a lesbian, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:04 PM
1

No. I truly don’t know who you meant by the “we” and the “they” in your sentences. I’m married to a trans woman, so I don’t know where you got TERF from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:55 PM
1

Why would I think you’re not a straight man after you said this, “We have been socialized to treat them equally. Hence we need you to earn our respect, just as we would from a fellow man. Women have been socialized to believe men are abusive, emotionally stunted imbeciles whose only value is their wealth. Why the hell then would we Honor your demands for respect ??”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:51 PM
1

How? If you view women as potential mates, but not men, then how could you possibly treat men and women equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:47 PM
0

You’ve never hit on a woman before?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:45 PM
-1

You hit on men on the bus ride to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:36 PM
0

Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:05 PM
-2

Okay, is TERF considered an attack here? It’s on her profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:00 PM
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Then find me a scientific source that supports you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:57 PM
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I don’t know what that even means
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:21 PM
1

Why do you hate science
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:21 PM
1

Nobody believes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:11 PM
1

A dude in a dress isn’t a female
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:08 PM
2

https://www.google.com/search?q=skincare+addiction+reddit+boyfriend+help&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en&client=safari There are so many fucking posts from women doing this, come on, are you even fucking trying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:05 PM
1

Well obviously there used to be a connection there, since before we had a term for “homosexual” we called them “gender inverts.” I’m confused why anyone would still take part in such archaic beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:03 PM
5

I feel the same way I do about every person: if they are mentally healthy and taking necessary safety precautions, then I’m happy they’re happy. I’m polyamorous so being called a slut is funny and enjoyable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:37 PM
1

Okay? Does that negate my point? No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:44 PM
1

Yes? Why do you keep bringing that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:41 PM
1

Yes? That doesn’t negate my point at all, it proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:33 PM
2

Walk out your door and ask five adult humans what they think of “the red pill” or any of this stuff and they will look at you like you are a crazy person, and with good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:28 PM
-1

I don’t anymore, but lots of women do. Not everyone is just like you, hon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:25 PM
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Men aren’t socialized to treat women respectfully, that’s why. There used to be no need, but now you have to. That’s all this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:44 PM
1

That’s what it is. Trans women have never posed a threat to cis women, and trans people have been running the LGBTQ movement since day one. As a white lesbian myself, it’s infuriating. TERFs in no way follow feminist theory. They are part of the alt-right, pretending to be feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:42 PM
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TERFs believe that being a woman means having a vagina. It’s a way of viewing women as objects - walking vaginas, just like conservatives. Yeah, a lot of (white) lesbians are super terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:37 PM
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Both are based on very conservative, traditional gender roles. TERFs too. They’re all branches of the same movement. Literally nobody outside of kids on Reddit thinks this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:04 PM
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Fucking a guy isn’t letting him pump his load into your pussy, lmfao. More like I take him for a ride we both enjoy because it feels good. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:18 PM
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Kids these days are having less sex with fewer partners than their parents did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:15 PM
2

Oh okay everyone is exactly the same and has exactly the same body
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:19 PM
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Right, and so do many women who go out a lot. It’s something women like doing sometimes, just the act of applying makeup. It’s like painting. None of the makeup artists on YouTube are going to the grocery store in their full face after filming a tutorial, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:06 PM
1

Wow crazy that 80% of men never have a relationship or get married
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:49 PM
1

Why is it more reasonable in my case than in another woman’s case? If anything, I should never ever wear makeup according to your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:29 PM
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I do my nails and put on makeup when I’m staying at home all the time. I’m a stay at home mom, so I don’t leave my apartment much, and it’s rare if anyone except me or my wife see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:12 PM
1

Why do you equate being feminine with being gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:26 PM
5

This isn’t true. Girlfriends and wives try to get their male partners to take care of themselves more. They buy them skin care products and remind them to wear sunscreen. This is extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:25 PM
2

I think it’s awesome, women are gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:52 AM
1

That’s because most straight men are terrible at giving orgasms to women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:36 AM
1

Of course it is. Both of those remain monogamy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:44 AM
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Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski explains different kinds of arousal experiences, and why men and women often need different things to get going. But it looks more like a gradient than two-toned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:28 AM
5

That’s because people are individuals with individual tastes and unique bodies. Not everyone is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:44 PM
1

Yes, since about twenty years ago, we’ve seen more fat women in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:03 PM
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You don’t think that that’s because they see their wives all of the time and see their friends less frequently?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:09 PM
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Gilmore Girls came out in 2000, and she was a supporting character to the main two thin leads. Queen Latifah is a queer black woman, and her size has always been part of her activism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:06 PM
1

And you believe your six friends have lost interest in their wives because they call you to hang out and enjoy flirting with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:52 PM
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Yes, and it was a cultural sensation. That actress also didn’t get much work afterwards - have you ever seen a woman like her headline a movie that isn’t about her size?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:51 PM
1

Okay, so you are a middle aged woman who knows two (2) men who have behaved this way. Unless you know fewer than four (4) men, your beliefs don’t align with your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:39 PM
1

Okay, so you actually don’t know any men who have divorced their wives for “better” women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:31 PM
1

You are middle aged and have cheated with six of your married male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:26 PM
1

I’m not talking about your peer social circle. I’m talking about middle aged men and marriages, not college kids dating. How many adult men do you know who have divorced their wives in order to upgrade?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:12 PM
1

How many men do you personally know who have done that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:04 PM
1

Do you think “bluepilled” men are content in their relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:57 PM
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Women’s bodies carry more fat in order to bear children. Our hormones make weight loss more difficult than for men, and using our bodies to create babies does that too. Men with pot bellies (both people and characters) have been paired with thin and attractive women for decades. Having a fat woman on TV, however, is something we have only started seeing maybe ten years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:30 PM
1

What evidence do you have that supports that belief, though? Is that what most elderly married men display through their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:36 PM
1

So you’ve found a relationship that works for you. Why do you think that’s how all men and all women, essentially all straight relationships, should be? Or are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:20 PM
1

Do they believe that “the only thing of real value that average women can bring to the table is fembuxx”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:09 PM
1

Do they view their wives that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:02 PM
1

Fine, start with citing a source for your very first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:53 PM
1

Are the married men in your life like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:50 PM
1

That is complete bullshit with zero basis in reality or science. Can you find me a single peer reviewed article that supports this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:31 PM
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When we’re talking about adult romantic relationships, monogamy means a couple. Two people only. Non-monogamy comes in many forms, from swinging to polyamory. Polyamory is when you can be in relationships with more than one person at a time, or in relationships that are made up of more than two people. Due to the extraordinary amount of self-awareness and honest communication involved, when polyamory is done ethically, the relationships tend to be fairly stable even when they dissolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:25 PM
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Monogamous doesn’t mean you don’t separate. Monogamous only means you are in a relationship with one person at a time. Almost all divorces involve monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:57 PM
1

Yeah, that’s blatantly incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:45 PM
1

It sounds like you’re saying that there’s a biological reason that mothers love their children, and that fathers don’t have the same compulsion. You’re also claiming, it seems, that this biological reason exists to show children what relationships are like, in order to later procreate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:44 PM
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Most people don’t get married until their late 20s. Y’all are a bunch of children complaining of being left alone forever, and it would be hilarious if it weren’t so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:29 PM
1

You said “men have no biological compulsion to care for their babies.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:28 PM
1

Then what did you mean by this: “Yes, that is why we are literally hard wired to feel attached to parent or child, otherwise we would each go our separate way and not benefit from any relationship, and as weak as our species is that would mean our extinction within one generation.” ??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:27 PM
1

And how would you explain gay male parents? You really don’t believe that fathers have feelings for their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:19 PM
1

Haha, no, that’s a parental thing, not a lady thing. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6838998/ So what does that have to do with future romantic relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:12 PM
1

Monogamy isn’t necessary for a stable home environment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:02 PM
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Why would I be joking? AOC is exceptionally talented at social media, and she’s conventionally attractive. Why do widowers remarry so quickly if marriage doesn’t benefit them? Edit and some husbands kill their wives. What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:57 PM
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She’d do at least as well as AOC, another ugly old bitter feminist. Men who marry live longer than men who don’t. Their wives take care of them quite literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:38 PM
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Yeah, we all know how ugly Gloria Steinem is, lol “feminists are all old bitter women”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:12 PM
1

Explain that. You’re saying the parental/child bond serves purely to teach the child what a symbiotic relationship looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:42 PM
1

No, women are human beings, not “social capital.” Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:11 PM
1

Hmmm you sound like a TERF
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:10 PM
1

How about parents and children? Is that love a commodity too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:09 PM
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Testosterone increases risk taking behavior. That has nothing to do with intellectual curiosity. Also your paper is about adolescents.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:07 PM
2

That is the biggest load of bullshit I have ever heard and will definitely be needing a source for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:09 AM
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Alright well the top responses agreed with what I said, which is that what you think is intelligent conversation is not actually intelligent conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:40 AM
2

That sounds like you’re saying women aren’t intellectually curious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:39 AM
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That’s ridiculous, though, because intelligent men get married all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:37 AM
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When you look at the adult, married couples in your life, are those men intelligent? Are most intelligent men not married??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:13 AM
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I truly don’t understand how a reasonable human being could believe that women don’t value intelligence in their partners. Someone who believes that isn’t very intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:03 AM
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So women are smart, they just don’t like listening to what you have to say, maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:48 AM
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You wrote six paragraphs about how stupid women are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:24 AM
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Do you really believe that most women don’t want to get married for companionship and partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:44 PM
1

Yes, extremely conservative ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:19 PM
1

It’s a very conservative worldview to view men as providers/protectors and women as prizes/sex objects, which is all this theory is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:12 PM
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A woman who marries for money is likely going to marry a man who marries for sex, so I don’t see the problem there as long as they both communicate that. Most people don’t marry for money or sex, though. They marry because they want to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:04 PM
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Nothing wrong with either, as long as it’s completely the woman’s choice. Marriages can still be abusive, and sex work wouldn’t be stigmatized if we weren’t so puritanical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:57 PM
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Stop thinking of life as an escalator that you ride while passing various checkpoints. A relationship isn’t going to make a shitty life not shitty, and shitty people are going to have shitty relationships. Find a reason to live that’s not just finding a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:27 PM
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How does one “acquire” another human?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:40 PM
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I think you’re confusing “smart” with “condescending and arrogant”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:38 PM
2

Or we could just stop caring that humans like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:55 PM
2

Yes, all relationships are transitional in that growth and evolution continue. Commitment is what makes the difference - you commit to prioritize the relationship in addition to each of yourselves. I suppose if you consider emotional support and love payment, then relationships would be transactional too. Both people are doing it because they want to, so they must be getting something out of it. Nobody needs a significant other to survive anymore, and a lot of people would prefer to live alone. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:30 PM
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Haha yeah, for one reason that paternity tests clears up, and two made up reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:08 PM
14

Can gay men not cheat on each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:26 AM
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How about infidelity is equally bad regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:24 AM
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