WeeklyImpression6865 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do I have a chance? Interesting. I didn't know this. What state is this?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/23 10:11 PM
10	Do I have a chance? Hard situation to get out of. This story really shows why guys need to get out at first chance of any of the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" talk or anything equivalent (cheating, disconnecting from you, not loyal to you anymore etc.) Don't bother fighting to save the marriage (waste of time), instead one up her by filing the divorce on her ass first. Also I have no idea what your lawyer is talking about. 50/50 state usually means half your shit is going to her. If she brought in noth…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/23 09:21 AM
3	Did anyone here try telling your spouse that if they don’t contribute more then the marriage won’t work out? I wouldn't ask her. I would train her on how to do the stuff. Try to motivate her to help around, don't tolerate the talk anymore. Ultimately it was your choice to marry her though. You fully knew she was not able to get a job or simply had low job prospects. The laziness is kind of a wildcard though because women often try to maintain a certain type of image pre-marriage and then mutate into their true self after marriage. I honestly can't say I've seen many women improve after getting married.…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/23 12:23 AM
1	She spent 30k in 2 months..... Yup, that method as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/23 12:15 AM
5	I’m not looking forward to having to pay for my wife’s expenses all from the regulations making me? When you signed the marriage contract, you agreed to pay her. Only exception is if she makes more than you.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 10:16 PM
3	She spent 30k in 2 months..... If she is insane. Refuse all other mediations and go straight to trial.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 10:13 PM
3	She spent 30k in 2 months..... Could be laundering the money into assets that will have an alibi as to why they're gone or to encourage the man to not bother fighting over it. Wine, designer purses, makeup, shoes.....lots of these items have good resale value and can easily be explained as to have been used/consumed. If she is forced to give up the items, she can swap them with a shittier version while she keeps the new version. You get the $100 used pair of shoes while she keeps the brand new $2,000 pair.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 10:09 PM
2	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. Yup. Usually the ones I date go through the honeymoon phase before they start the "what do you mean to me" type of conversations. I see the ship is sinking and bail ASAP.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 05:13 AM
7	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. Women in general want it where they pursue career/money etc and get to be the boss babe if they're successful but if they fail in life financially then they still want dudes to be lined up to catch them from being homeless. I've seen female friends go full boss babe in their youth but then when they realize that working sucks they quickly pivot into some sort of conservative Christian girl that just wants marriage and kids. Imagine a world where most guys expected women to meet or exceed their l…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 11:45 PM
6	Divorce in CA or IL? 3 kids. No assets. Your post is confusing. You're saying SHE signed into a 300k job or YOU signed into a 300k job? Makes a big difference here. If you're the one with the 300k/job then do what pk2at said. Delay start on the job and get the divorce done ASAP. The status of your income/assets etc. at the time of the filing is what basically establishes the marital standard of living and everything after that will be calculated based on that date. Some states might do it differently so consult a lawyer for an exact s…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 09:47 PM
5	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. Yup, same here. Early 30s. I know exactly what you're talking about. After like 28 years old, the quality of women plummets significantly I noticed. I remember dating in my early 20s and comparing them to early 30s women and it is like night and day. Young women are optimistic about life, love and these sorts of things, fun to be around. Older women are jaded by past bad relationships, have kids, financially problems up the wazoo and more just overall unpleasant to be around. The ones that have …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 09:39 PM
2	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. Yeah, I hear you. It is somewhat instinctual for men to do this but socially it only means you end up getting used and abused. You need to start putting yourself 100% before everyone else. The only people that come before yourself is your kids, that's it. If some new woman comes into your life. Yourself and your kids always come first before her. Try to avoid the damsels in distress out there because lord knows I've met plenty of them and they're all big time trouble.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 09:19 PM
12	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. I've looked up and down at marriage and from what I can tell, it is 100% about money in the form of alimony and asset splitting upon divorce. When you're married, the benefits are marginal at best compared to what happens in divorce. So the marriage game entirely shifts to evaluating people based on their income, career, education and assets. Women already do this and are basically optimizing to try to find men with highest income, assets, best career etc when looking for marriage. Men need to d…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 09:10 PM
3	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. You should take this moment to reflect on why you did that. Women have feminism that basically tells them to abandon their responsibilities......just do whatever makes them feel happy. Well, men need to do the same thing. Men are socially taught to essentially simp/white knight for women but in an age with feminism, this belief system is effectively obsolete. Men need to do what women have already done: abandon your responsibilities to the opposite gender. Stop trying to defend women, help them …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 09:02 PM