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| 1 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.You're assuming my ideological philosophies. They have nothing to do with paying for dates and everything to do with legal rights for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:40 AM |
| 3 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.I live in a state where abortion is banned even in rape. Men keep voting to take away women's rights. The majority of men I meet are conservative and the ones that aren't won't lift a finger to help us fight for our rights back. I'll keep my money where it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 08:07 PM |
| 4 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.Men try to use feminism as an excuse not to pay but don't follow any other part of it. If it's not your ideology then why are you using it to demand women pay for dates? But honestly I've never had a problem with men paying for dates, it's never even been brought up. The only ones I see complain about it are the ones that aren't getting dates anyway. So it's not really an issue in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:51 PM |
| 1 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.I will never pay for a date with a man that isn't a feminist. Which is 99% of men. Even bringing up women's issues gets men all pissy and wanting to change the subject. Unless he's read feminist theory, knows the state of women's rights in my country, doesn't use misogynistic slurs, and calls out other men I'm not paying for a date. Why would I give men the benefits of feminism when they actively hate every other part of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 02:39 PM |
| 2 | How many good women are there?Alright, how it's always said "he's a conman" and not "she's a conwoman"? Does that mean men are lying, conniving con artists? Does that mean society subconsciously knows that women are less likely to scam you and men can't be trusted? Your whole premise is silly, one saying about one gender doesn't mean the other gender incapable of having those qualities or are even less likely to have those qualities. And 95% of the good people I know in my life are women. They are the people that volunteer, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 02:57 PM |
| 2 | How many good women are there?How come we always say mankind is evil and not womankind is evil. That must mean there aren't any evil women /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Women in less developed countires are more gender-essentialistc, which imo is an underdiscussed draw for passport bros.From the female point of view it was women realizing that despite splitting bills 50/50 we were still doing the lions share of domestic labor. My mom and my fiance's mom both worked and both did all the cooking and cleaning while our father's just sat on their asses after work. Maybe mowed the lawn every other weekend. The women of the family did all the cooking and prep for holidays/events. So basically women have two jobs now. Id say 80% of families I've seen have this dynamic (I live in the U… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:52 PM |
| 4 | why cant you lust after average men?Women who show lust and have low standards are called sluts. It's a social consequence that is very unpleasant and can ruin future dating prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:08 AM |
| – | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Women's issues are legal and systemic. Laws can be changed to give women bodily autonomy. Men can be educated about consent or shamed/arrested for predatory behavior. These are more straightforward solutions to women's problems. But how are women supposed to help men with loneliness/sexlessness? Give out free pussy to their guy friends in a dry spell? Marry men they don't actually like just so he's not alone? I'm just not sure what women can do for men on this front. What are the solutions from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:46 AM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.It's not "realistic". There are plenty of men who are short, ugly, or have a small penis that are in relationships. I went to the grocery store yesterday and saw 4 couples where the man and woman were the same height (ranging from ~5'4-5'9). I see "ugly" men in relationships too. But these types of men will say that's "cope". That the woman is ugly so it doesn't count. Or the relationship isn't actually happy. Or she's going to leave him for a 6'4, rich, big dicked Chad. It's just choosing to st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 02:19 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?A spinster is a woman who hasn't married. It has a negative connotation. The male equivalent is bachelor which has a neutral or even positive connotation. Young, single women have fought to change public opinion about single women. Even still, in my country (USA) the far right is trying it's hardest to stigmatize women who delay or forgo marriage and childbirth (Charlie Kirk/Turning Point USA, Brett Cooper/Trad wife influencers, Joel Webbon/Christian nationalist pastors). And there isn't really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 01:43 AM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.Why do men love to doompill themselves? I see this for penis size, height, face, balding, etc. And if anyone dares to try to give advice or even just cheer him up they reject it entirely and stay miserable. Women lift each other up and reassure each other that they are full of worth even if they are fat, ugly, old, etc. It obviously doesn't make men happier so why do you do it? Truly what is the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 01:14 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Then why are men whining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 01:08 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Society doesn't have a stigma against single women? So all the crazy cat lady, spinster, you're gonna die alone insults aren't real? When the vice president of the United States disparaged "childless cat ladies" that meant nothing? Society clearly has a stigma against single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:41 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Genuine question: do you think you have a high moral character and if so, why? What makes you deserving of a relationship with a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:17 AM |
| 3 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholMen are typically the gender that commits rape. 98% of rapes being committed by males. Yah it sucks to be assumed as the perpetrator in these situations but that's just reality. We can be pretend men and women are equal in sexual assault all we want but they just aren't. Best advice to all men is to not heavily drink with the opposite sex. As a woman this advice has already been given to me and followed since I was a teen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:03 AM |
| 10 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholBoohoo men feel like they have to be cautious. Women have to be cautious too or they get raped. How horrible to be responsible for your behavior. The actual thing feminists are talking about is when a woman is passed out drunk or severely inebriated. Yes, it is expected of men to know the difference between tipsy and black out fucking wasted. Or unconscious. It's really not hard, men just want to whine (or get away with rape). And if it really scares you that much then don't rely on alcohol to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 02:33 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing.Men love to dress up their behaviors with nice sounding words like "practical, logical, rational" but the reality is it's just laziness/procrastination. 4 out of 4 men I lived with said they'll take out the trash later just let him finish this game. What happens? The trash overflows and stinks up the house. Dishes sit in the sink for days. Laundry goes unfolded. Until I, an adult who also works a full time job, have to take care of it so we don't live in filth. It's tactical laziness and pushing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:40 PM |
| 14 | Men need to learn from women how to actually fight a culture war if they want to win"Men learn to the power of being absolutely annoying and relentless about their beliefs to the point of absurdity." Brother they already are. Men spread myths, false statistics and flat out fabrications about women. And have for thousands of years. We have a whole God damn religion that blames a woman for the fall of mankind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:27 PM |
| – | I don’t understand the big deal about going DutchThe average woman probably spends 3-5 times what a man spends on beautification. If not more. But that's not really the point. The point is that I find it attractive. It's masculine. A man that whines about paying for dates makes me think beta loser. But I've never had issues finding attractive men willing to pay. In my experience the ones that complain about it aren't getting dates anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 01:25 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about victimhood mentality, weaponized victimhood?Do you really believe that being forced to carry your rapists baby to term is comparable to paying child support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 03:25 AM |
| 10 | Why do men slut-shaming?Erm, your ad hominem attack is a logical fallacy 🤓 Women are not forcing men to have sex. Men can choose not to have sex with "sluts" and uphold a respectful, marriage oriented dating market but they don't. They participate in hookup culture happily then turn around and blame women for low morals. Classic male aversion to accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:36 PM |
| 8 | Why do men slut-shaming?Yes. It's irrelevant. That doesn't absolve mens responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:27 PM |
| 9 | Why do men slut-shaming?Men will never take accountability for anything. Everything is women's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:21 PM |
| – | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?That's so stupid. That same argument can be said for racists or Nazis. "If the Jewish question wasn't based in a core of truth then it wouldn't have taken Germany by storm" Unless you're one of those guys too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:56 AM |
| 9 | What do abusive men bring to the table?Why do men choose women that abuse/cheat on them? Probably the same reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Why is the media women consume always sexual?Men jerk off to the most depraved porn every night but want to clutch their pearls at a book that has 2 vanilla sex scenes in it. There's this weird projection from men lately trying to make women out to be sex obsessed perverts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynySo...what do you think misandry is? Women just randomly started hating men one day? You know men made the same arguments about women hating men during the suffragette movement? Men have always seen themselves as the victims of feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 03:09 AM |
| 22 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyMarital rape was outlawed in the US at the federal level in 1994. My dad could legally rape my mom until I was 4 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 03:06 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the big deal about going DutchI find it attractive. I do uncomfortable and expensive things to make myself more attractive to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenDo you really think men care about equality? They just want to have their cake and eat it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Society is 'equal' everywhere except the expensive, high-risk part where men have to auditionWhen a man can birth 50% of our baby we will have true equality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 11:22 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Because I am a woman that has conversations with other women. I'm not a bitter man stuck in an echo chamber of porn and red pill "statistics" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 11:50 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?1) are men so delusional now that they consider past relationships to be cucking them? 2) the majority of women are not running around having tons of sex with random men. They get into relationships that don't work out for one reason or another. Maybe some have a couple one night stands or situationships. You're projecting male sexual desires onto women. You wish you could run around and bang hundreds of women but you can't. Just because men are sluts doesn't mean women take their offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Artificial wombs will displace female hierarchyArtificial wombs would be terrible for the child. Pregnancy is a full body process, not just the womb. As a baby is developing it hears it's mother's heartbeat, her organs working around it, her breathing, her voice, her laughter. It hears the voices of its father and its mother's friends and family. This affects and encourages brain development. If we replace that with a cold, dead machine there will be consequences. Men have fantasized about replacing women in reproduction since at least the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?As if mens balls smell like roses 24/7. But honestly if there are women out there making men eat sweaty pussy that's hilarious and heart warming. I have friends who won't even let a man's face near their pussy because they're too insecure from hearing men make fish and roast beef jokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:03 AM |
| – | I am pretty sure the women have a misunderstanding about pornography.False how? Why do you not want other men to see your girlfriend naked? Why is it so humiliating, devastating, degrading to have other men know your woman in such an intimate way? So much so that men even get butt hurt about too many previous sexual partners. It's because sexuality is special, you want to be the only person enjoying her in that way. So men want total exclusivity of their woman's sexuality but also want to enjoy the sexuality of other women with zero consequences. Men want to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?I'm genuinely confused. What sex acts sacrifice pride that men want women to do? What acts in a relationship sacrifice pride for a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:50 PM |
| 2 | I am pretty sure the women have a misunderstanding about pornography.If your girlfriend or wife put two-dimensional pictures of herself naked doing sexual acts on the internet for other men to jerk off to would you be mad? I mean it's not real. You're not losing a competition to those men since they can't actually fuck her through the screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here ever managed to change their type?I used to be into tall men. After dating shorter men I'm not anymore. Honestly large height gaps in couples looks odd to me now. But I'm short (5'4). My ideal height is 5'6-5'9. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you have any kinks that do not involve your partner being in discomfort or pain?Disproportionately? Do you have a source? I find that insanely hard to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 06:49 AM |
| 4 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?Why would you want your partner to do sex acts that hurt her pride? Men truly are sociopaths I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 06:41 AM |
| 6 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?Are you talking about eating pussy? I really cannot think of any sex acts that would degrade a man or cause him pain like it would women (anal, deep throating, choking, jack hammering). Unless you let women peg you because they want to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Hookups for women would amazing if it actually guaranteed safety.Not really. But even if she does so what? Men act like their dicks are magical or something. They're not. She's not gonna get damaged or stretched out. Your dick is not that big bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Hookups for women would amazing if it actually guaranteed safety.Relationships? Find a man you are romantically interested in. Have sex. Find out if you're sexually compatible. If yes, yay, on to the other criteria. If not break up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Hookups for women would amazing if it actually guaranteed safety.What if she gets stuck with a man that has a micropenis or is just not good at sex? Waiting till marriage is a terrible idea for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:53 AM |
| 22 | Hookups for women would amazing if it actually guaranteed safety.How do you know before you have sex with someone? Every man says he's a god in bed, he'll go all night, he'll make you scream blah blah blah. Guess we have to become lie detectors? I've also talked to men who admit they don't try as hard when it's just a hookup. So. Yah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:46 AM |
| 7 | Do you think biological realities playing into heterosexuality is a topic that leftists/feminists are ready to discuss?You think men forced women to mate throughout all of human history? You think it's natural to remove female sexual selection? I'm not saying large portions of men went without mating but the ones that were not good enough for any woman did not get to mate. We are seeing that right now. Less men are in relationships than in the past because women are not forced to rely on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Do you think biological realities playing into heterosexuality is a topic that leftists/feminists are ready to discuss?Yes while we were homo sapiens. We've been homo sapiens for 200,000 years. This would have been before the rise of strict patriarchal cultures and still in some cultures around the world after that. Many Native American societies had equal rights for women and women chose mates freely. And every other species on the planet. It's the way nature intended reproduction to happen. The one doing all the work (females) choose which males are worthy of passing on their genes. Restricting female choice s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 05:27 PM |
| 2 | The Male Loneliness Epidemic Is Like The Obesity EpidemicYes. What's the alternative... government subsidized wives? That was done under patriarchy and it did work well for men for many thousands of years. But in the West that age is over. Female sexual selection is the natural order. Improve to get picked or die alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 03:46 PM |
| 21 | Do you think biological realities playing into heterosexuality is a topic that leftists/feminists are ready to discuss?The physical force or coercion is patriarchy. Patriarchy removed female sexual selection for thousands of years. Women were forced to stay virgins until marriage or risk being killed at worst, left without financial protection at best. Many were not able to choose their husbands and instead were sold by their fathers. This was not natural. The female is supposed to select the best mate she possibly can to make her investment in reproduction worth it and continue to "improve" her species. Now tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 03:27 PM |
| – | Girls a question for you..And? Brown eyes look more masculine on men to me. Blue eyes can ruin some men's faces. Especially if they're cold blue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:29 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONWomen do care about men's issues, we just don't virtue signal about it. When men in my life get divorced with kids I make sure they know that the law in my state is 50/50 custody and that it is their right. 90% of custody agreements are decided outside the court (this means the parents themselves decided the arrangement NOT the judge). And when men do fight for custody in court they are 90% likely to win. Pretty much all the men I've told this to are shocked because they believe the fear mongeri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Society taught women to avoid accountability like it taught men to avoid household choresWhat makes a woman responsible for cheating? What makes a man responsible for cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Society taught women to avoid accountability like it taught men to avoid household choresYour first scenario is what the original poster gave as an example for women lacking accountability. Blaming her cheating on the man's actions. But I guess it's acceptable for men to blame their cheating on the woman? How is cheating ever the victims fault? Are men responsible for their woman cheating on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 01:07 AM |
| – | Do transmaxxers finally prove women do have it better?Yah if you're willing to let men penetrate you, you will have more dating options. Lonely straight men if you let other men fuck you in the ass you will also get more sex. Not really shocking. Not indicative of having it "better". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Society taught women to avoid accountability like it taught men to avoid household choresWhat do you think women taking accountability is then? A woman picked a shitty hot guy that cheats on her...should she never date again? Pay a fine? Go to jail? What is the "accountability" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 11:36 PM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Yah. Like minded women are trying to get women to raise the standard for men both personally and collectively. We tell other women not to date financially, sexually, physically, or emotionally abusive/ irresponsible men. I want all women to choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.I wish more men were good at it. Then I'd want it. But the vast majority suck/are lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 07:17 PM |
| 2 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationMale lust is not inherently degrading, men choose to degrade women they lust after. Men call attractive women who show skin sluts, whores, cumdumpsters, bitches, hoes, slags, etc etc etc. They may grab at her, whistle at her, make gross sexual comments at her. Men make it degrading. If you really cannot understand the difference between appreciating a woman's beauty and harassing her, you are socially retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsThe majority of well adjusted people? Those who go outside and have active social lives? The non porn addicted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 03:11 AM |
| 12 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsYes rich men can cheat on their partners and find attractive young women that will be with them even when they are old and ugly. But that's an incredibly shallow way to live your life. Those hot young women don't actually love or even like those men. Those men are just an inconvenience they have to endure to get his money. Cheating on your partners and constantly running to the next new relationship will leave you empty. How is that winning? And the majority of men are not rich. So you can't get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:13 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all menAre men ever responsible for their actions in your world view? Women are to blame for being single mothers. Single mothers are to blame for men growing up to hate women. Single mothers are to blame for men committing crimes. I thought men are the superior, logical sex? Yet apparently they are incapable of being responsible for their own actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 11:19 AM |
| – | Most of the female talking points on this sub are wrong for Genz.The logical sex 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Women tell us to not objectify them, but they end up doing it themselvesOBJECTify. OBJECT is the important part here. Women are not objects whether they cover up or pose naked. Men tend to devalue women in sexual situations. You should be able to look at a sexy, naked woman and still see her as a person. Not a "used car", or "chewed gum", or whatever other demeaning things men say about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 04:29 PM |
| – | Sex drive is a valid dealbreakerBud, she came with a study and you came with your feelings based opinions lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 05:24 PM |
| – | Women need to embrace, modernity all the way.I'll drop the dating expectations for men if I can stop shaving my legs and butthole. I hold up my end of the patriarchal dating rituals so I expect men to too. I spend money on hair removal, hair products, makeup, perfumes, lotions, skincare, attractive clothing, gym memberships. It's part of courting the opposite sex. If men would truly be happy with hairy, unpolished, non feminized women then I'll happily pay 50/50 on dates. Alternatively you could start shaving your buttholes too. As long as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 02:04 AM |
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