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Fuck her. The real question is are you ready for the relationship. I find myself in your position fast forwarded a year+. When she starts suggesting marriage and kids (and she will quite soon), what happens then?
/r/seduction23/09/17 12:47 PM
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This is why I stopped reading Red Pill. Their advice seems to be geared towards older guys. Maybe when women turn 30 they begin to be bitter and care a lot about what you say and how you act. But girls my age... If she thinks you're hot she'll be down for whatever. I've never scored a date, if there was initial attraction it escalated into something. Yes I have fucked up in the past, but I am an extreme case, of being crap at conversations. Girlfriend said she would dump me if the sex ever stopp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 08:28 AM
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You'll see when the girls show them. This is what I mean by natural - I noticed immediately because of how obvious it is and there was no anxiety/fear in talking to them. Stuff like looking at you often, smiling upon eye contact, hovering over your desk, unnecessary touching, compliments (Wow you are so funny, Do you work out, I bet you have a new girl every night, Wait you don't have a girlfriend?? Etc), extremely jealous when other girls talk to you... I told one of the girls that I'm going ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 08:03 AM
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But this is what I mean... Either the girl likes you or she doesn't. Yes, you have to go out, buy better clothes and style your hair, work out, tan, whiten teeth etc. to get hotter girls - this is putting in work, but not the social skills. I'm sure improving your conversation skills will get you more friends and expand your circle -> you meet more and hotter girls -> higher chance of getting laid. But is there really a direct correlation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:42 AM
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If...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:31 PM
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Pick up is all the inner/outer game BS marketed towards guys who think they deserve to be fucking models although they look like trash. It is putting in work, and I've seen PUA being advocated in Red Pill - saying that rejection is just a shit test, that looks don't really matter, fake the confidence. The second example had nothing to do with my game, or personality. There's no pick up 'art' involved. How could I be taught something that requires no skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:31 PM
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Posture is important, but it is part of your looks/presentation. So not quite the "pick-up" that advocates social techniques and faking confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:20 PM
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I'll admit, I'm quite the hermit (working on it). And I'm not saying you should sit around all day and never improve yourself... But it's really as simple as working on your looks and then showing up to the party. The rest - trying to cold approach everyone, talking about shit you don't care about, putting on the fake alpha personality - is just wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:14 PM
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Yes, I agree. If there's initial attraction, then conversation is easy and it feels natural to 'escalate' or be funny. If not - it feels awkward and just makes things worse. Talking about personality and confidence is just giving hope to the young guys that they can change their life around and bang the hottest models... Some people will never be pro athletes or CEOs, others will never get anything above a 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 09:05 PM
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First girl I met twice briefly at work before adding her on social media, no chance to get to know me. Second girl (now my GF) said apparently I was 'nice', but she was groping me from the get-go and she's a few years older, very doubtful my teenage personality and shyness would be attractive. Most other rejections, as I've mentioned, the girl didn't seem interested at all. Of course I'm keen on learning but it seems like if you show up at a place to get laid - none of the girls pay attention to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:44 PM
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