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| 5 | Are men becoming ok with no sex?why do men on this thread assume that’s what women are looking for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:22 PM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?ugh…this post makes me sad and concerned (even as a woman) it’s conflicting for me, because I do agree that women aren’t that willing to have sex with most men, but if the level of selectivity is so high such that decent guys can’t maintain a sex life, then this is cause for concern…lot of anger, frustration, pain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:21 PM |
| 3 | If you are in a casual relationship, or if the guy is trying to avoid commitment with the usual 'Not sure/Wanna take it slow' excuse, I think ya'll should be more impersonal and not offer anything apart from sexOr just stop fucking him and find someone who wants to commit to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Most ppl want to be the Adorersyeah, I feel men sacrifice less than women but when they do sacrifice, it's to a larger degree than women do, but this doesn't happen often, and it's only if they really care/love the person they're sacrificing for (idk if that makes sense) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:53 AM |
| – | Most ppl want to be the Adorerswomen are naturally caregiving, we'll fulfill the caregiving role even if we feel lukewarm towards a man. A man has to really like a woman to seriously consider her needs and go out of his way to make her happiness his priority; maybe I'm biased, but that's what I feel is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:43 AM |
| 0 | Most ppl want to be the AdorersSo…I think mutual adoration is the best, but I rather be the adored than the adorer, sorry 😅 I honestly think relationships only work if the man likes the woman more than she likes him 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Most ppl want to be the AdorersI was just going to type this up, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:06 AM |
| -2 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceControversial opinion, but I think men who let porn ruin their dating/sex lives and women who let social media ruin their dating/sex lives…would’ve had failed relationships even if those things didn’t exist; they’re just not relationship material in the first place. Stuff like porn and social media don’t change a person’s fundamental nature, just exposes and amplifies people’s tendencies and temptations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age?Yeah, I think men who complain about women aging on this sub are trying to make women feel bad, out of spite. They’re upset that they desire women, and women don’t desire them back. I don’t fault them entirely, as I wouldn’t want to feel undesirable, but don’t let it get to your head…I suspect most of it is projection. Men can be very mean when they’re projecting. It’s like a “fuck you all for making me feel unwanted/unloved - let me harp on your looks and your age, so you get a taste of what it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of timeIt doesn’t work unless it happens naturally…but to be honest, men never see women who they’re sexually attracted to as just friends, so once that factor’s in…”being friends” is a moot point; sex ruins everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like women can kind of have it all in a way men just can't ?Mmm, I’d say aside from constantly being sexually objectified by men…women on the whole have it easier in Western Society. I wouldn’t call it “having it all”, because no one can have it all, there are always tradeoffs, but men basically have to devote the entirety of their lives to building and preserving their value, whereas women are born and have value by nature of existing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:55 AM |
| 16 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketYour post answers your question…dating has become more about performance than intimacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Which guy are you picking?I would definitely date someone with a smaller penis if my ex was larger, so long as I like this new person and am interested in getting to know him; I don’t even take penis size into consideration when I choose who to date, let alone who to love 😑 that’s why this entire thread caught me off guard, lol. But I’m not here to invalidate your experiences, or to say all women are like me - I just believe love exists, though it’s rare, and someone who loves you will never reduce you down to your genit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Which guy are you picking?I hope you understand that there are girlfriends and wives who have partners that are paralyzed from the waist down and have stayed with them and loved them through thick and thin…you can’t generalize to all women; intimacy runs much deeper than the size of someone’s genitals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Which guy are you picking?A girl who likes you for who you are isn’t going to use your dick size against you…that’s pure toxic behavior; it’s like if a guy used my breast or butt size against me; it’s not normal, and it’s objectifying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Which guy are you picking?I think…you’ve dated some very toxic women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Which guy are you picking?I mean, that’s that specific survey - my friends and I would say 5-7 is just fine, lol. But also it varies from girl to girl - I’m just saying, you gotta make the best of what you have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Which guy are you picking?I think instead of fixating on dick size, which is something men can’t change or control, focus on how you can better pleasure a woman; there’s a lot that can be done that has little to nothing to do with size. Also, the survey literally says that women prefer 6-8 inches and that too big is also bad 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Which guy are you picking?Good Lord 🤦🏻♀️ guys need to stop watching so much porn; being able to pleasure a woman is about understanding female anatomy, knowing where her pleasure spots are and how to touch them (using the right amount of pressure and friction). The only female pleasure spot that is touched through penetration is the g spot, and a lot of women can’t even cum from it alone, and you don’t have to be huge to be able to hit the g spot. The rest of female pleasure isn’t even felt through penetration (read up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Which guy are you picking?hold up, what evidence do you have that that is incorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Which guy are you picking?You know a larger size doesn’t automatically equate to being better at pleasing women in bed, yes?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Which guy are you picking?Is dick size really a factor that had to be listed here 🤦🏻♀️ y’all are crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What are your opinions on beards?I always prefer clean shaven, don’t know why, facial hair just isn’t my thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultmaybe, I’d say personally I will take my peace over someone who doesn’t add value to my life, but I do agree it doesn’t mean I’m happy, heterosexual men and women need each other; but I rather be alone than in an unfair relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultDoesn’t that support the theory that women are more likely to be happy alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultwell, not backed up by statistics, just personal experience - most women I know would rather be alone than be with a man that doesn’t add value to her life; have also spoken to divorced women who were happier and healthier after they got divorced; women also initiate 70 percent of divorces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultThank you for your insights- I’m glad to hear I’m wrong about dominance; I don’t want it to be true that men seek to dominate each other and nature, because that means there is something innately destructive and antisocial about them…which I don’t want to believe to be true, but that narrative is so often spread around on the internet, and some of the men I’ve known have done some outrageous and destructive things to their partners; hierarchies based on competence are necessary; competition for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultit’s more if a man has a provider mindset; men who think “I want to make enough money so that my wife doesn’t have to work if she doesn’t want to and so our children (if they have any) are well taken care of”; my dad was like this, so it’s a standard I have lol 😅 nurturing and caregiving is also desirable, but I think it depends on the person; I want kids so I love the thought of their future father holding, feeding, bathing, rocking them to sleep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultI don’t know…by that logic, we’re saying men are only competitive and dominating because of women…but I feel that even without women, it’s sorta in men’s nature to dominate one another and nature? Like if an island was only made of men, would it just be peaceful? Or would it fall into the same power dynamics? I think it’s women that make men less focused on dominance and power hunger and more on caregiving and nurturing…which is a shift you see in men after they have children, something women gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultIt’s not that dating is easier for women, it’s that women are more likely to be happy alone, whereas men are more dependent on women to meet their emotional/sexual needs; you can’t blame them for this “desperation”, it’s how they’re wired…this is why men almost always welcome female attention whereas women are very selective of whose attention they receive and who they give their attention to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice thingsWomen in their 20s generally prefer men who are 5-10 years older, because a lot of men in their 20s are…for lack of better words, idiots - no accountability and emotional intelligence 😑 and it’s funny because many guys once they’re in their 40s or 50s will look back and admit that this was true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discriminationI think after your frontal lobe is developed (25+) and you’ve been working to pay your own bills, the age gap becomes less controversial…as long as the relationship isn’t based on some unequal balance of power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Do women overestimate how much value their guys will have in the future?The whole “men leaving their wives for a younger woman” is not true…; also, men, even more so than women I feel, mature a great deal in their 30s-40s, even more after becoming fathers; they still enjoy youth and beauty, but maturity and wisdom are what become necessary for intimacy, and intimacy outweighs youth/beauty in the long term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?Equal opportunity, not equality of outcome; I prefer men who are more skilled/intelligent than me in areas I’m weak in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:29 PM |
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