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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How do you effectively "apply pressure" after a 1st date without coming off as desperate? So I’ve just typed out an even longer response to everything you’ve said here. I’m on my phone so if you send me a message, I’ll send that over to you and answer any questions else you may have! For some reason the safari client messaging seems a bit buggy and I don’t want the message lost in the void. But I can respond. Lmao	/r/seduction	08/09/21 06:20 PM
3	It's crazy how important social circle and status is It’s definitely not your status, perhaps use the right words. That’s just about being a more interesting person. But the truth is, if you’re not an interesting person and you want an actual relationship then don’t lie about who you are. It’ll eventually come out and the relationship will devolve since it was only based on a false idea of who you are. If you just want sex though, then go out once a week to do something interesting so you have more conversation starters.	/r/seduction	08/09/21 05:54 PM
1	How do you effectively "apply pressure" after a 1st date without coming off as desperate? Lol yeah I am kinda surprised by how bad some of the advice on here is from guys. I’m sure some of it works on really immature girls, but dang they really have no idea what an actual, mature level headed woman wants do they?	/r/seduction	08/09/21 05:44 PM
1	How do you effectively "apply pressure" after a 1st date without coming off as desperate? Don’t do this. It is petty and does not work. Matching the tempo— i.e if they never respond on time then don’t always respond immediately, wait until you’re free— is fine. But don’t play mind games with women. Men seem to think girls like it when in reality they do not. At all. As soon as someone realizes you’re playing games, mature people instantly lose all respect and desire for you.	/r/seduction	08/09/21 05:25 PM
7	How do you effectively "apply pressure" after a 1st date without coming off as desperate? Woman here— if you’re consistently getting ‘texts too much’ or you’re getting no/delayed responses if you text anything more than 1-2 days before a second date a week out, then your first date just isn’t going as well as you think it is. If the date actually went well, women are super excited to text you and keep getting to know you. The signs you’re seeing— delayed responses, no responses, cancelling on you, blocking etc etc mean your problem isn’t in ‘after date care’ but in ‘first date care’.…	/r/seduction	08/09/21 05:21 PM

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