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| 1 | Obama today: "Women are smarter. This is true."It's in a very meta way. Like using improper grammar to tall about how good at grammar you are. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/14 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Obama today: "Women are smarter. This is true."Thank you for this. So many people, especially right now, are bitching about how, "rabble rabble I wouldn't have voted for the guy if I'd a thought he'd a gone and done that rabble rabble bullshit bullshit bullshit". As if not liking what's happening now means they made the wrong choice. Sure, dumbasses, he's faaaaar from perfect, but have you forgotten Mitt Romney? Because things could, and WOULD, have been so much worse with him. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Obama today: "Women are smarter. This is true."I'm not sure what this is supposed to be illustrative of. Unless it's a complaint that men aren't allowed in women-specific tournaments? Considering there's research to support the fact that these women-specific tournaments are actually self-handicapping toward women, it's actually worth complaining about. If, however, you're trying to insinuate that traditionally or politically derived segregation of genders in anything proves something or other about genders, then that just isn't good logic. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/14 02:39 PM |
| -3 | Some of the worst twitter trolls are women and not men - contrary to media stereotypsReally? I thought the stereotype was that women do that behind your back where you can see them and hear them, but they can smile in your face. I don't think I've ever come across your stereotype. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The Galactic Cap, a perhaps unlikely, but certainly more pleasurable condom. (Except maybe for the adhesives involved)The article mentions that, actually. Use a regular condom. This product is more about increasing protection against fluid transfers and increasing usage of birth control by providing another option. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/14 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Drunk man may have consented. Man found performing oral sex in him when he woke up found not guilty.So the answer is yes. Your reaction is completely because it's male/male. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Men Are ObsoleteYou're being oversensitive. It's a joke about the ridiculousness of taking the title literally. It's not a very funny one, albeit, but it's not one to freak out about or misrepresent. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | False rape claims never hurt anybody right?Curious to see someone using 'creepy and weird' as a slur on a MR subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/14 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The New Yorker magazine on Trigger Warnings, #YesAllWomen, and Isla VistaThat's beside the point I was making, which was, simply, the term trigger warning was developed due to PTSD. Not saying your comment is or isn't worth pursuing, just that it took a leap in order to question the validity of reading trigger warnings and PTSD, and that isn't the position I was arguing for. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/14 04:33 AM |
| 2 | NEW Gender Reversal Experiment - Man spikes Girl's drink vs. Girl spikes Man's drink (See Reaction).Hmm, not the most eloquent, are you? Please don't respond. I thought this was an interesting thread so I posted a valid comment. You chose to post an irrelevant string of expletives, with the underlying motive ostensibly that you couldn't understand me. More likely, I didn't continue the rhetoric of all women are this, or all feminist are that, so you didn't even try. You should really work on presentation if you don't always want to be the mascot for the MRA spouting negative and malicious driv… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Over 437k People like Domestic Violence Against MenThanks for the response. I agree and think that if you reverse genders it would totally get flack from a lot more than feminists, and deservedly, but I see these sorts of 'jokes' all the time and I'd like to see a lot more people call them out on it. Most of the people making the jokes or laughing about them, I'd wager, have never actually thought it through. If you told them it was a joke condoning domestic violence, they'd probably dismiss you BUT, if they're the kind of person who thinks of t… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 07:27 PM |
| 0 | NEW Gender Reversal Experiment - Man spikes Girl's drink vs. Girl spikes Man's drink (See Reaction).Thanks for expounding on your previous statement, I see the confusion. You took what I said too far. I never meant to state or imply that people were 'unable to imagine men being harmed, even when it's by something you know for a fact causes harm'. Of course people can imagine that. I was just saying that we use short cuts to process information and that this processing is weighed by how readily we can call instances to mind. I'd also hesitate to call anything demonstrated via hidden camera a va… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 07:17 PM |
| -1 | "There is no greater threat to women than men."Do you honestly think that calling men 'emasculated', 'pussy-whipped', betrayers of other men, or saying that acting this way couldn't be 'of their own volition' really isn't part of the positive feedback loop that fuels this subjective value placed on masculinity? Because I do. It's really a rhetorical question, though. I don't think there's much more to talk about here without both of us repeating ourselves or willfully misrepresenting each other. So, I'll probably just leave it at that, but t… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 06:37 PM |
| 3 | The New Yorker magazine on Trigger Warnings, #YesAllWomen, and Isla VistaActually, I believe they started with PTSD trigger warnings for veterans returning from war. I may be misinformed, but your comment is unnecessarily inflammatory. (I can't think of much that's actually 'about training girls to act scared') | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 06:27 PM |
| -4 | "There is no greater threat to women than men."It's not just about being politically correct, though. Words are indicative of thought processes and beliefs. I'm sorry to disagree, but I don't think I should be asked to slow down or stop pointing out negative and destructive labels against women and men, especially in this forum. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 06:14 PM |
| -1 | NEW Gender Reversal Experiment - Man spikes Girl's drink vs. Girl spikes Man's drink (See Reaction).Can you explain further how it's sexism? I'm not sure how to continue the discussion without being sure what you mean. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 06:03 PM |
| 2 | The male attractiveness chasmHah. Good point. Porn really isn't tailored to women, is it? | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 05:51 PM |
| -1 | "There is no greater threat to women than men."Again, 'emasculated men' supports a very negative view that only masculine men are real men. Statements like that are the same ones that make men and boys feel like they have to sensor themselves. Men who are afraid of being seen as 'emasculated' don't generally speak out when they are being abused, and it isn't the thing or person who did the so-called 'emasculating' that keeps them from speaking out, it's the people who then put them down and call them names, like pussy-whipped. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 05:40 PM |
| 3 | "Where does, "rule of thumb" come from?" Christina Hoff SommersNice. Here's the evolution of English at work. Now this urban legend saying is being debunked and rectified by feminist scholars, while teetering on the verge of becoming a trope used by certain Men's Rights activists as ammunition against feminists instead. If you don't want to be the kind of MRA who is defined by his hatred of feminists, don't be the MRA who thinks this should be used to disparage them. Am I mistaken in thinking that this is a video MRAs should be supportive of? A feminist sch… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 05:30 PM |
| 7 | The New Yorker magazine on Trigger Warnings, #YesAllWomen, and Isla VistaThis post is rated PG-13. I'm a little shocked that the professor who was mentioned in the article, the one who showed the rape scene, didn't give any sort of warning to his class. I can't think of any time in my high school or college life when a professor didn't do that automatically, can any one else? That seems like a failure on his part (unless it fit with the curriculum somehow, maybe, doubtful). Other than that, I'm very opposed to trigger warnings in classrooms. I've seen this mentioned … | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Over 437k People like Domestic Violence Against MenWas it decidedly feminist, enough to 'highlight Feminist hypocrisy'? To me, it's coming from people with really simplistic humor, at the base of which is that husbands should be buying their wives diamond rings. That doesn't really seem in keeping with most feminist theory I've ever heard about, even the stuff I've learned in here. Unless you really believe that the joke, and those comments, have anything to do with feminism, your comment just seems to be perpetuating the 'MRA are defined as ant… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Over 437k People like Domestic Violence Against MenThey shouldn't be banned but they definitely shouldn't be thought funny, either. Hopefully, with enough people acknowledging that this sort of joke is a serious double standard (and not acceptable on either side), less people will try to make them. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 04:33 PM |
| 0 | NEW Gender Reversal Experiment - Man spikes Girl's drink vs. Girl spikes Man's drink (See Reaction).I kind of hate these sorts of 'hidden video' type things, but it's definitely worthwhile for more people to be aware of these different sorts of scenarios. I bet a lot of people will focus on the speak/no speak ratio, as if it's some sort of giant catch-all indicator of something but it actually makes a lot of sense considering the availability heuristic most people use to process things they see based on examples they can readily call to mind. Most people who see a man put something in a woman'… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 04:23 PM |
| -4 | "There is no greater threat to women than men."I still feel like all of this is incredibly deprecatory towards both men and women. You outright state that men who post things like this betray their 'own kind'. It takes the autonomy away from men. Simply: If you aren't against what I, and 'any of us', are against, then you aren't making your own decision, you are letting women do it for you. You are betraying other men, you are 'broken dogs'. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 03:42 PM |
| 0 | The male attractiveness chasmIt seems like xNOM understood really well, that's why xNOM wrote, "I said sex. Not hooking up in a social environment." A nightclub is a social environment. Women who go nightclubs won't be representative of the population. Of course some women are motivated by sex, but, generally, women are much less motivated than men (or, they have overriding factors- like fear, mistrust, or worry about a double standard). | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 02:39 PM |
| 0 | The male attractiveness chasmWho says that women aren't motivated by looks? That's kind of a silly thing to say and I don't think I've ever even seen someone try to make it a thing in movies or on tv, and I've definitely never known anyone who wouldn't comment on attractiveness, or who pretended to be completely above looks (male or female). | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 02:24 PM |
| -4 | "There is no greater threat to women than men."I feel like these sorts of comments perpetuate the MRAs are misogynists stereotypes. Do you mean to? I only ask, because terms like 'pussy-whipped losers' and the implication that these men, who have pro-feminist and pro-women signs, could or would only do it because they are pushed around by women is pretty misogynistic. It's also pretty unfair to all men, because it takes away their own choice in the matter. Your posts comes across like this: I think only a women would post these sorts of sign… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 02:04 PM |
| 2 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.Congratulations, your ridiculous comment wins my response. I only have time for one before I shut off my phone, and I'm using that time to tell you that you are very, very wrong. You really ought to think about your comment and decide whether or not you simply used your amalogy as a self-stroking way to schoolyard taunt me for being 'gay', because that's how it comes across. Homosexuality is not an ideology, and it's crazy ignorant and insulting to imply that it is. If stating the dictionary def… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/14 01:24 AM |
| -1 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/"She supposedly actually exists". Or, in other words, She theoretically exists. ;) Keep mimicking my words back to me and I'll keep feeling valued. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Nope, I don't mean like that. That's a simplistic reading. I mean all the things about disrespect and projection and passive aggression and motives and yadda yadda, AND THEN coming to reddit for a way to respond and refute. I'm pretty sure all of those therapeutic industry professionals would tell you that this isn't the best way to go about it. Then again. It was a rhetorical question, considering I just rephrased your comment and felt that it was ridiculous in the context of a relationship. Oh… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:59 PM |
| -3 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.Well, see, you're just saying weirdly obvious things and I don't know what to do with it. Here's another. 50% of the population is not made of (insert any other ideology here). | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:37 PM |
| 0 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.Hitler's birthday. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:30 PM |
| -1 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/I would have to truly disrespect my SO to send something I thought was accusatory and bigoted in a passive aggressive move with underlying motives. My SO would definitely deserve that disrespect if the reactionary response was to see passive aggression and an underlying motive, and then to look for advice on Reddit instead of discussing it. Does anyone's relationship actually work like that? Consider this: When I asked my SO to read Under the Banner of Heaven, it truly was to have be able to tal… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:27 PM |
| -1 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Does it really, though? Your proclivity for denigrating a theoretical woman is pretty telling in its own right. Now why don't you and your sense of entitlement judge irrationally elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:17 PM |
| -2 | "Yeah, I agree. Women have some serious challenges in today's society. Oh, by the way - do you have 100% of your genitals? Because I don't."Really only to some men. I can't even imagine it's most men. Is it prevalent in China or India, because if so I'll change that assumption. And often it's dependent upon the religion. Now, if you want to talk about violations, lets talk about forcible baptisms, that's just as violating to some, even if the mark isn't as visible. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:07 PM |
| -1 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Ah, now if you follow the thread to where I explicitly state that I assumed Riktrat was talking about the gf making implications, rather than the article, you might see how irrelevant your post is in its current position. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:00 PM |
| -1 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/There is just way too much daylight between an idea and an ideology, and you've got way too many extreme analogies going on. To continue the theme of implications, however, by comparing someone to a Nazi sympathizer or follower, you kind of are "trying to pin this author to the same level". | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 03:27 PM |
| 0 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.Your FYIs are understood but here's one more for posterity: Feminist =/= "detractor" of MRM either. :) I don't know about your statistic, though, it sounds just as ballparked as mine, so it should probably be called out and nitpicked. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Woah now. That's a leap. Trying to open a dialogue about a socially relevant issue is not trying to bring back national socialism. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 03:01 PM |
| -11 | False rape claims never hurt anybody right?Sure didn't lose it. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Ah, I see. I didn't know you were talking about being offended by the implications in the article. I thought you were talking about the girlfriend making implications. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 02:46 PM |
| 0 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.Do you want me to be a feminist? Because I never identified as such. Not that I can recall, at least. Honestly, I actually almost liked TheRealMouseRat's post, but so so often, a good post is completely ignored in favor of notallmen comments. Of course not all men. Of course not all feminists. Of course not all anything. You aren't arguing against real statements, you are creating false ones to try and knock down. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 02:43 PM |
| 1 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.Just to clarify: I was saying (my formatting got messed up, so I can understand if it looks confusing) that MRA understand that although around 50% of the world population is men, only a few bad apples are violent against women, so don't blame all men for those few. Are you commenting on this or something else? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/I don't think that implication actually exists though. If she thought he was an "entitled pseudo rapist", I'd hope that she'd break up with him instead of sending him reading material. The only implication I choose to read into this, is that she assumes he's mature enough to read the article and discuss it with her rather than use it to base an ultimatum on. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 02:31 PM |
| -3 | False rape claims never hurt anybody right?How so? Projecting a viewpoint on to someone else is obtuse. Being sick because of your own projection is your fault. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 02:04 PM |
| -4 | False rape claims never hurt anybody right?You are right about me quoting a different user. I don't really want to be baited into restating what I've already stated. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 02:02 PM |
| -1 | "Yeah, I agree. Women have some serious challenges in today's society. Oh, by the way - do you have 100% of your genitals? Because I don't."Wait, so now you are pro castration. How is that any better than circumcision? I don't get you. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:59 PM |
| -1 | "Yeah, I agree. Women have some serious challenges in today's society. Oh, by the way - do you have 100% of your genitals? Because I don't."It's really not nice to call someone "subhuman" just because they haven't been circumcised. So what if my parents didn't want to lop off a bit of me to the delight of friends and families, it doesn't make me any less human than your mutilated penis does for you. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:42 PM |
| -1 | "Yeah, I agree. Women have some serious challenges in today's society. Oh, by the way - do you have 100% of your genitals? Because I don't."Just because I have all of my genitalia doesn't mean you need to find a different way to oppress me. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:37 PM |
| -6 | I commented on an article about child molestation on fb, then got this response. I'm speechless and frustrated.Hang on? So you are actually saying that literally (and I'm using this word correctly) all men are expected to be breadwinners? Because that's just hyperbolic. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:32 PM |
| -7 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)I don't argue with children who say, "I know you are but what am I?" either, so I've lost a lot of arguments of this caliber. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:27 PM |
| -10 | I commented on an article about child molestation on fb, then got this response. I'm speechless and frustrated.Not all men are expected to be breadwinners. hashtag notallmen That's how this works, right? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:22 PM |
| -7 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Haha, whoa! I didn't take the time to go up and see who the poster was above and it turns out it was you the whole time! I feel like I'm in some sort of soap opera. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:21 PM |
| -9 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.Who's a feminist? Who's defending feminism? Who's rephrasphing the typical MRAs rhetoric about NotAllMen in, what was assumed to be, a very very obvious way? I can answer that last one for you, if you need some help. The first two are on you, however. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:09 PM |
| -9 | False rape claims never hurt anybody right?If you think you are exasperated now, just try talking to someone who doesn't recognize the differences between words, or how to actually argue against stated, rather than perceived, arguments. Stop reading into what I'm saying and actually read what I'm writing, please. You baited me into discussing this quote, "Men who are unjustly accused of rape can sometimes gain from the experience." Which I never should have done in the first place. Why? Because you were only talking about that quote in t… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 01:06 PM |
| -7 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Is there an argument actually articulated by either you or 'thonkerl'? Because I don't see one. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:57 PM |
| -11 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.But not all feminists are like that, so posts like this could just make the majority of 'truthful' feminists just decide that, if they're gonna be treated like it anyway, they might as well just take the easier route. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:52 PM |
| -20 | False rape claims never hurt anybody right?Of course he did. Doesn't mean he gained good times and sugar plums, but he sure as hell had an experience and gained something from it. Unless he was in a coma the whole time. People gain something from every experience. That's how life works. But, again, 'gain' does not mean 'never hurt'. So, yes, really, yes. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:43 PM |
| 1 | One of my female friends posted this to facebook. Apparently this situation is gender specific...Because the best kind of friends are the ones who like a good circle-jerk! | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:40 PM |
| -8 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)See my reply to you above. :) | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:31 PM |
| -10 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Whoosh! I know. It's rhetorical. Your post doesn't merit a substantive response. Get it? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:31 PM |
| -6 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)All I realize is that you've never taken a logic course before, or indeed ever figured out how to fol.low.the.boun.cing.ball. :) | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:28 PM |
| -12 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Don't flatter yourself. I get what you are trying to do, it's just ridiculous. All over this subreddit, I see people shoot down anyone trying to make a point by equating women's rights with the civil rights movement, and yet here you are, trying to make a point. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:23 PM |
| -8 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Where are you reading this? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:19 PM |
| -10 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Woah, racist much? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:18 PM |
| -17 | They don't seem to understand that lying about us actually drives visitors here.I'm pretty sure the actual stated 'goal of feminists' is to support legal and social equality. I see MRAs stating over and over again things about how: -people live up to their labels, so be careful how you label them. -you shouldn't vilify 50% of the population just because of a few bad apples And yet, here's a post that specifically vilifies "feminists and other detractors of the men's rights movement ("They")" and specifically labels "their" movement as one meant to quash men's rights. Comple… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who thinks a lack of sex is a perfectly legitimate reason to be fucked up?Duh, Captain Obvious. Where's the absurd notion you speak of? The absurd notion as I see it is the entire premise of this thread, that sexual frustration is a legitimate source of anguish leading to a shooting spree. Now point me out a woman who went on a shooting spree after writing a manifesto around her sexual frustration, and someone trying to argue that it was a legitimate reason for her anguish, and I'll take back the "Captain Obvious" moniker. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Why #yesallmen should totally be a hashtagThe way I understand it: Often, men will interrupt a dialogue about personal experiences to say things like, "but not ALL men are like that, I'm not like that" etc. It derails discussions so that particular man can defend himself against a perceived accusation (perceived, because of course NOT ALL MEN are like that, it's generally a specific story about ONE PARTICULAR MAN who was like that). So, someone started the #yesallwomen as a mirror for #notallmen Because, although NOT all men rape, the o… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 12:02 PM |
| 0 | How can they do this to us? Saying #KillAllMen is alright but #KillAllWomen is not. When neither are alright and joking about them only enables potentially dangerous individuals.Huh? Who's "emotionally compromised"? How do women have what every day? "It's women who have it like you do in this moment" What does this mean? "How can they do this to us?" Do what? Your post sounds like you are completing a discussion that I wasn't part of. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 11:50 AM |
| -1 | "Yeah, I agree. Women have some serious challenges in today's society. Oh, by the way - do you have 100% of your genitals? Because I don't."That you try to make it fit as an argument where it doesn't belong definitely is. Now if you bring this up somewhere religion, or parent oppression is being discussed, perhaps you'd have a piece of your penis to stand on. Hmm... that's grosser than clever. Still keeping it! (Unlike your foreskin!) | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 11:44 AM |
| 0 | The MRA's narrative about feminists and women.You shouldn't have downvotes. The OP asked about MRA's narrative toward women and feminists, and I see posts like yours throughout this entire subreddit which adds to the narrative. So, really, you answered the question pretty faithfully. As it is, I'm downvoting you because it's a shitty opinion. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 11:38 AM |
| 1 | DAE notice that it's always "rapists, and Men's Right's activists" with the recent "feminist' posts?I haven't noticed this actually. Could you please post an example? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 11:35 AM |
| -14 | Until no women are suffering ever, all men are rapists! (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Your title leads me to believe you didn't read the comment you linked to. I'll shorten it for you: Fight against the few men who perpetrate rape (misogyny, etc.) instead of invalidating someone's experience or opinion because you aren't like that. Others are. No one said you are. No one, but you, said all men are. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Want to help prevent another Elliot Rodgers? Speak out against male virginity shaming!I like the phrasing of 'worthwhile partner'. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Want to help prevent another Elliot Rodgers? Speak out against male virginity shaming!I don't think a lot of girls want a sex partner who's been with a lot of other girls before them. You say higher status, I say higher risk of STDs. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 11:01 AM |
| 1 | CBS This Morning: Harvard alums refuse to donate until school addresses sexual assaults. I like how the non-female victims are sidestepped to continue talking about one gender of victims.Woah. Did you even watch that video? At every step, the Alumni guest states that it is a problem both men and women. For all their statistics, it shows the rate of incidence for both men and women. You must have linked to the wrong video, or something. Unless, you didn't actually watch it and just picked a headline you hoped would garner upvotes from more people who won't watch it. Some quotes, "...when a women finds herself in that sort of position, and it's not just women..." "...put him or he… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Group get 17 years' jail for vigilante murder of man falsely accused of rapeBased solely on this article, it doesn't say anything about a false accusation. It's an article about vigilante justice that was doled out based on a rumor. Just to clarify, rumors don't usually equate to a person making a false accusation. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 09:54 AM |
| -9 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Hmm.. If your intelligence is insulted because your girlfriend wants you to read an article, or wants you to better understand her feelings about something, that's really not on her. The best kinds of relationships are ones where discussions are open instead of shut down. If you feel the need to take advice from internet strangers, don't take advice like this. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 09:46 AM |
| -8 | I commented on an article about child molestation on fb, then got this response. I'm speechless and frustrated.Don't feel hopeless! I don't think you needed to assume the commentator was offended by your response. I didn't read it as one of offense, rather, someone with a blunt manner of speech who was attempting to get a point across succinctly. It's just a blunt post stating that commenting on an article about female child molestation to say that boys have to worry about it too, derails the discussion. I don't generally like using analogies on here, but this is kind of to illustrate what I mean: It's l… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 09:38 AM |
| -9 | I commented on an article about child molestation on fb, then got this response. I'm speechless and frustrated.This is a wildly inappropriate response if you don't want to come across like a kid getting angry on Halo. A response this defensive is incredibly juvenile and completely out of the scope of the topic, and the response. You would only be courting ridicule and dismissal. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 09:23 AM |
| -1 | Let's talk about this Rogers character.Ah, okay. I don't have a Tumblr so I'm not hip to any of that. But, just to give some of my perspective from outside of Tumblr: It's never 'all men' that they are referring to, it's just 'the one man' that might. If any of your friends are actually saying 'all men' do anything at all, please try not to get angry or hostile and just let them know that they hurt the overall rhetoric by making such blanket assertions. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who thinks a lack of sex is a perfectly legitimate reason to be fucked up?Haha. Sure, buddy. Look. If your argument is all about how not being able to have sex is "a "legitimate" reason to have all this anguish over" and then go on a murderous rampage then yeah, I'd tell anyone, regardless of gender, that if it's between you having a fuck or killing someone, stop waiting for a hottie to come along and realize what a special snowflake you are, and just have a fuck already. If you can't find a desperate member of the opposite sex (and they both exist- they just aren't g… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 09:12 AM |
| 5 | Am I the only one who thinks a lack of sex is a perfectly legitimate reason to be fucked up?That's the issue as I see it. Most straight men aren't willing to just have sex. They want to have sex with the person they want to have sex with. Like my comment about (nearby counties of, but excluding) Vegas, hookers are legal in some places. Save your money and pay for one. Voila! Rocks off. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 09:03 AM |
| -1 | Let's talk about this Rogers character.Where are you reading "all men" bullshit? I haven't seen any and I'd like to stay informed. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who thinks a lack of sex is a perfectly legitimate reason to be fucked up?If you want sex. Have sex. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who thinks a lack of sex is a perfectly legitimate reason to be fucked up?What do you think about all the comments surrounding 'fit' women and ranking women's attractiveness in general. Pretty much anyone can have sex (especially if you are over 18 and can drive to Vegas), but not if you self-impose 'standards' while hating on women because you don't fit theirs. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 08:47 AM |
| -7 | False rape claims never hurt anybody right?That is an entirely different sentiment. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 08:00 AM |
| 2 | So... how is everyone else dealing with the fallout?Maybe the more productive thing for you, for anyone, to do is open a dialogue to your friend and any others. Let them know you are a MRA and tell them where you stand against Idiot Rodgers. Help people understand that MRA isn't synonymous with PUAHate, racism, necessarily misogyny, and all the other crap that that jackass actually did stand for. If you don't spend a lot of wading into mensrights or other places, they do seem to blend together. If you think someone is ignorant, don't call them ig… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 06:43 AM |
| 151 | Time magazine's editorial includes a nasty quote from an MRA. One problem: it's not real.Relevant, productive, and not full of derailing hate. I like it! Upvote. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 06:37 AM |
| 0 | I'm at a loss for words. Censorship is an indication of a movement's vulnerability to corruption.Of course rules are meant to moderate and guide posts, which is why moderators use them to moderate and guide posts. I didn't say anything about the banning, I explained to the poster above why his comment about the mods was wrong. Where's the relevant issue? Except with my emoticon. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 06:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm at a loss for words. Censorship is an indication of a movement's vulnerability to corruption.I'd say that when the OP derailed the previous comment with a 'not all men' comment, he was doing the opposite of appeasement. Just because the OP talks about the extremes on both sides, doesn't mean he didn't just completely undermine the previous commenter for his own agenda. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 06:25 AM |
| 6 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Actually, in as much as this might be true, I think it's part of an even bigger issue widespread in our culture. Movies, for instance, always show guys ready, willing and able to have sex right away. But that's just not true. It's something girls end up learning by being around guys or by having a boyfriend, but it is something they don't inherently know on their own. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 06:17 AM |
| 1 | I'm at a loss for words. Censorship is an indication of a movement's vulnerability to corruption.Actually, you should follow the rules here, too. "Links to other subreddits must use NP format ("np" in place of "www")." | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 06:09 AM |
| -3 | So furious about Elliot fucking Rodgers"Feminists aren't focused only on the dead women. We are focused on the fact that a patriarchal idea caused the death of innocent people." And this should be copy/pasted all over this subreddit! Unfortunately, still to be overlooked because "Most men don't....yadda yadda...rare exception...yadda yadda....we appreciate your imput." | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 06:01 AM |
| 3 | So furious about Elliot fucking RodgersWith our powers (and google) combined.... Misogynistic shooter was also a racist! | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:57 AM |
| 2 | So furious about Elliot fucking RodgersI think your "my The internet" is broken. Everything I've seen on the internet tells me that he killed both men and women. I've also seen lots of things about how he was a racist as well as a misogynist. Although his misogynism definitely seems to be the fuel in his manifesto, and therefore relevant and, unfortunately, very widely covered online. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:54 AM |
| 7 | Long-distance girlfriend just sent this to me. Says she thinks everyone should read this. What the heck? Best ways to respond and refute? =/Do you want to refute it because you feel defensive? I wouldn't worry about that. I doubt she sent it to you because she thinks you act entitled to sex. (Maybe she did, but if so, you should talk it out with her and learn how she actually feels, instead of soliciting advice from here.) My guess is just that she thinks this is something that more people should read. She probably also sent it to her other friends, so you should only feel defensive if you actually do feel entitled. Hope that helps! | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:43 AM |
| 0 | I'm at a loss for words. Censorship is an indication of a movement's vulnerability to corruption.Actually, just in case you didn't realize this, you aren't freely able to disagree anywhere. This is reddit, in every subreddit I know your comment could be removed, and you could be banned, for a vast variety of things. Even in this subreddit, there is a whole sidebar devoted to telling you what could get your comment removed, so try stick to the rules. ;) | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm at a loss for words. Censorship is an indication of a movement's vulnerability to corruption.Can you clarify? Where's the appeasement? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:23 AM |
| 0 | "Women have always been the primary victims of war." -Hillary ClintonYou're being facetious, right? You just quoted her talking about visiting a program with definite parameters like it's her ideology. I once visited a school for girls. They only taught girls. Not boys. Alright, now where does that say that I think boys shouldn't have access to their own education? It doesn't, but, just to clarify, I am being facetious. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm at a loss for words. Censorship is an indication of a movement's vulnerability to corruption.Woah, buddy. Perhaps you should keep your day job, because you are no good at standup. These sorts of one liners definitely bring down the entire subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:09 AM |
| -9 | I'm at a loss for words. Censorship is an indication of a movement's vulnerability to corruption.It's not childish, it's actually spelled out in the sidebar. Different subreddits have different rules. It's clear that you are very against feminists, but you shouldn't be against mods doing their job. It's kind of childish. ;) There is a subreddit devoted to asking feminists questions /r/askfeminists | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 05:04 AM |
| 0 | I Never Thought I Needed MensRights...Um, only if statistics, or personal experience, weren't a thing. It doesn't make any sense to say that the strongest man in the world is as vulnerable and susceptible to harm as a person you've never met. It kind of makes it seem like you are simply trying to undermine the poster's valid position unnecessarily. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my very feminist sister that I can't agree with many of her views (without hurting our relationship)?I'm going to go ahead and say that shaming someone you love is never the way to go. Just in case it wasn't obvious. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 07:30 PM |
| -1 | I just feel like this is a crazy comparison from one of my friends on Facebook.Should I wait for the rim shot? Actually, your one liners are pretty witty, if unfounded. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 07:20 PM |
| -1 | The rate of suicide among men has remained unchanged over the last 30 years - with suicide currently the biggest killer of young men in the UK. The rate among the female population has decreased by 50That argument makes sense, though. Planned Parenthoods are often times the best resource women have for affordable and comprehensive medical care (and, as I've said, for men too). If you want to promote that same healthcare for men (just as much as women want to promote it for men and women), you should be supporting these arguments and supporting the funding for PP. I'm glad you weren't vilifying them, though, it's just that your comment comes across as slightly mocking. I don't want men to thi… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 07:09 PM |
| 2 | The shaming of boys to justify a dress codes needs to end.This is interesting. I haven't thought about this before, so thanks for the perspective. It's not just about blaming boys, as I see it, it's also teaching them that they have no control. Distractions happen, obviously, but it's totally undermining to tell a boy that he can't control himself and it's especially ridiculous to tell him he can't control himself around girls. These sorts of things are definitely behind victim blaming and rape culture today. Very good discussion. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Feminists prefer to see women get raped then take any responsibility for their own safetyWait a minute. I think you might be on to something here! | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 06:35 PM |
| 0 | The rate of suicide among men has remained unchanged over the last 30 years - with suicide currently the biggest killer of young men in the UK. The rate among the female population has decreased by 50Wait, men are allowed to go to planned parenthoods. Why would you try to vilify an organization that promotes mens rights? http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/men-4285.htm | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 06:32 PM |
| 0 | I just feel like this is a crazy comparison from one of my friends on Facebook.If that's true, they aren't doing a very good job. I can point you to a very poorly written and pathetically delusional manifeso if you disagree. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 06:23 PM |
| 1 | "Women have always been the primary victims of war." -Hillary ClintonJust for context: This was said during a speech about domestic violence in El Salvador in 1998. She also goes on to talk about how in prisons in the US, the vast majority of prisoners are MEN who are the victims of domestic violence. Hillary Clinton supports Mens Rights :) | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 06:20 PM |
| -2 | Rant: What the heck is with all this #yesallwomen crap popping up?It's very simply meant to mirror the #notallmen commentaries. Of course not all men rape, put down, hate, kill, etc. women, that is obvious. What isn't as obvious is the fact that practically ALL women have to worry about the ONE man who might. It absolutely isn't about how ALL men rape or ALL men cause women to worry when crossing a dark alley. Because it only takes one to make someone afraid. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Because we're taught "Don't run into open traffic" instead of "Watch carefully for pedestrians"... oh wait, we're taught both.I can do all those things, and more, without fear because I live in an awesome country. It's too bad that America can't get their shit together. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 05:48 PM |
| 2 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatNo, we are apparently discussing how completely you fail to grasp your own stupidity. None of your last post has anything to with your own initial argument. Practically nothing you have said has, either. We are not discussing history, we are not discussing anything. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatNo worries. My fault for being vague. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 08:48 PM |
| 2 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatYou cannot base an argument on something that isn't proven. I would probably have taken less offense if you had said, 'because the bible says so', because at least then you wouldn't be pretending to know. I don't care if you believe they existed, it's a fun myth, who wouldn't want to? I blame you for using it to base your argument that women are more aggressive. It's not that farfetched for me to believe that you use fantasy to support the reality you choose to see. That is my opinion. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 08:46 PM |
| 3 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatOh please, how many female body builders cut off a breast to better use a longbow? That is not what you were referring to. Not to mention, using a term doesn't make the myths real. If I called you quixotic, and we know you exist, would that mean Don Quixote actually fought giants? | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 08:34 PM |
| 2 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatYeah, could you quote it for me, because I just don't see it. This is the quote we are referring to, correct? "The history of war is primarily male-based because, throughout history, men have been the designated fighters. It's not that they wanted to. It's that people told them to. It was the social and cultural norm. They were expected to drop everything and fight, while women were expected to stay home and take care of the land and children until he got back. That doesn't mean that women are n… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatAh, yes, but the women they believe actually existed had two breasts, and fought alongside men. You are a fool for believing Heterodus' version of events is what they are referring to in Classical antiquity. Tell me, how does the sun come up each day? Apollo on a chariot? The Greeks wrote of that event too, so all of it must be real, right? http://www.arthistory.sbc.edu/imageswomen/papers/snideramazons/fact_fiction.html "The burial of a man and infant with the woman instead give evidence of a cu… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 08:12 PM |
| 0 | The Feminist Objection to Women in Combathttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amazons Perhaps adding the 'ians' was a bad idea. I thought it would make it easier to differentiate between the women of Greek myth and people from the Amazon. I believe both your interpretation and mine are correct: http://www.thefreedictionary.com/Amazonian | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 07:55 PM |
| 5 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatI will never believe anything you ever reference ever again, because the women who 'remove a breast to better use long bows' are fucking mythological! Are you sure that whatever you saw on the history channel wasn't actually a Wonder Woman episode. She was an Amazon too, you know! | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 09:37 AM |
| 5 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatUm. No, 'she' blatantly suggests that society has generally forced gender roles. Men to war, women to home. No where is it even implied that "wars would not happen because that's not what women do." What I read, was that women aren't expected to be violent, because society has always forced them into a role of being less violent, not that they actually are. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 09:29 AM |
| -2 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatExcept, of course, when strength has nearly nothing to do with modern warfare. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 09:23 AM |
| 1 | The Feminist Objection to Women in CombatTotally agree. Ancient Greeks even portrayed Amazonians as fearsome women warriors who only gave a shit about men enough to procreate, then they just tossed them back like so much refuse. If you gotta designate one, it's definitely men. Good spot! | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 09:21 AM |
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