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2	TRP mindset too deep rooted in me - can't stop I think that if she wants it or you want it, it's possible to be a good idea, but if you don't want it you may be trying to force it as a measure that you think is right to take that isn't. A break like that CAN be a chance to gain perspective for sure, and if you feel you are too close to the situation it can absolutely be valuable. But generally when you ask for a break in a relationship you are signifying that you are soft ending the relationship but just want to leave your options open. What…	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/18 05:27 PM
2	TRP mindset too deep rooted in me - can't stop Well, he's wrong. Importantly, I think if you look at it logically from a game theory perspective you'll see there is very, very little to be gained from treating the relationship like it is broken, and a lot you lose. Since you are going to take therapy and work on yourself ALREADY, the only advantage you gain is possibly saving yourself some a bit of unhappiness, though you are likely to still be very unhappy ending it. What the cost is is GUARANTEEING that the relationship with your girlfrien…	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/18 04:32 PM