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LifestyleWendigoBarbarian/r/seduction17/06/24 10:18 PM
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Dancing. Run clubs. Bartender. Disregard any advice about not doing things to get girls. Logistics matter.
/r/seduction06/04/26 05:10 AM
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Talk to him. Seriously. Don't get your dating advice from Redditors. It could be any number of things. We've only got a small snippet into your life.
/r/seduction06/04/26 05:08 AM
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Because nothing you just listed includes flirting, cold approaches, talking to women, escalating etc. you can make yourself better looking, make more money, smell better or whatever, but you still need to know how to talk to them.
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:43 PM
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You don't? The game doesn't stop just because you get into an LTR. The things that worked for you in getting a girl to sleep with you still have a place in a long term relationship. If you think otherwise, there are entire forums on here filled with men in dead bedrooms who got too comfortable. Ignore at your own peril. Basically, you're supposed to internalize it, not wear it like a fancy suit you only put on for special occasions.
/r/seduction12/08/25 08:18 PM
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if she's fit. has a nice arse. pretty face. there have been exceptions to this but those are far and few in between.
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:21 AM
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Or. you know. learning how to flirt. Cold approaching consistently. Going on dates. getting numbers. that kind of thing.
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:54 AM
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Or. you know. learning how to flirt with women. consistent cold approaches. going on dates.
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:50 AM
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Nah. you absolutely can, you just have to time it right
/r/seduction23/09/24 11:05 AM
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Whatever two consent adults do is their business. Could be 18-40 or 25-25.
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:29 AM
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No lol. What two consenting adults do is their business, certainly not the business of a bunch of Redditors.
/r/seduction23/09/24 06:29 AM
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basically, you're the boring but reliable type, not the guy she wants to fuck.
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:15 PM
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They're better looking and fun to be around. I don't know why this is still even a contentious issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:17 PM
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I've always understood that part of improvement was socialising, learning how to flirt, learning game, getting girls, etc. You're supposed to do this stuff alongside the typical self improvement habits. I never got why we decided to separate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:43 AM
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The only reason they don't is because they aren't that into him. Reason tends to go out the window where lust is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:24 AM
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I like women who wear sun dresses. they look pretty. I think more women should wear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:11 AM
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I'm not some super charismatic or good looking guy my mans. I have to approach or else I won't get anywhere in my dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:21 PM
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plenty of girls sleep with a guy on the first date. this is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:11 PM
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Accept that your first approaches are going to suck. You're probably going to fumble it, say the wrong thing, etc And that's ok. There's nothing wrong with sucking at the start, most guys are shit at it to begin with. You embrace that and go for it anyway. It's gonna take time to build that confidence up so you might as well build it doing the thing you actually want to do.
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:19 AM
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I don't know exactly what your relationship is like but it sounds to me like you aren't exactly comfortable with this kind of behaviour. not gonna lie, in your shoes I'd be annoyed with my gf making those kind of comments about other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:54 PM
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Sounds like a case of mate guarding? From the sounds of it she picked photos specifically that made you look like a dork. The bragging thing sounds like a shit test to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:23 PM
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How do you think you get to that point dumbass? You gotta talk to them first.
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:02 AM
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Who you are as a person changes over time. You can be someone else and become that person if you really want to.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:49 AM
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If this is real then I'm sorry that it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:33 AM
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There's nothing wrong with approaching women you like and asking them out. you don't need permission from strangers on the internet to approach girls you think are hot. There's no tribunal waiting to punish you for daring to speak to a woman. Figure out a style of dating that works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:31 AM
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Thanks bro 👍
/r/seduction18/06/24 12:10 AM
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I'm all for enjoying the ride but it's harder to enjoy it when the results have been mixed at best and everyone around you is enjoying this thing so casually while it sits just out of your reach. I just want practical advice on how to change that. Confidence comes from competence and all that.
/r/seduction18/06/24 12:08 AM
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Where did you start? What's your approach with women? do you walk up and just ask them out?
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:43 PM
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That's what I'm trying to do my guy. But I need a bit more than "just be yourself", otherwise I wouldn't be asking.
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:40 PM
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I mean if you want to fuck younger girls that's fine, we all do. No need to sugar coat it with some nonsense about marriage or "Saving the west"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:07 AM
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Where can I learn game? Are there any guides/sources etc? I want to get started but I don't know where to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:43 PM
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I do all of these things, and I'm pretty fucking sexless bro. They don't make up for a lack of sex and female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:40 PM
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Social movement dedicated to the growth and improvement of men complains about women's health issues not being mattering You really must have put down the crayons for this take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:28 PM
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In a heartbeat. Sign me the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:03 PM
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Because I don't want to? Or maybe because I don't need romance novels written by women to tell me what women want. Don't get me wrong, they're fairly accurate, but it's not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:59 AM
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Bro doesn't know what the gym or a calorie deficit is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:53 AM
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I couldn't care less. decency doesn't get me laid. being an arsehole does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:33 AM
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I was speaking for myself. the male sexlessness doesn't concern me as such. More for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:46 PM
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I mean it's not like I talk to these guys. But the information has been invaluable when it comes to understanding women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:59 AM
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Isn't The red pill inaccessible? I haven't been able to access the sub since 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:46 AM
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It is what it is. Feels like most of the manosphere would rather complain over putting in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:42 AM
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Look mate, as someone who considers themselves redpilled I definitely wouldn't call them redpill. they're surface level at best
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:04 AM
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Rollo tomassi. He is considered the godfather of the redpill .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:02 AM
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None of those people are even remotely redpill. Most of them are either grifters or people who gave up on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:12 AM
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Plenty of women are looking for hook ups. this is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:37 PM
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Because no one teaches us the when and how? Anytime the topic is brought up it's always about what men shouldn't do or when men shouldn't approach. You never hear about when men should approach. And for a man to learn when and how he should, he'll have to approach a lot of women, and he'll make a lot of mistakes, inevitably doing it the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:56 AM
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