Werewolf1810 Archive

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–	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones I wasn't acknowledging it, like we're not acknowledging other, completely unrelated points about all kinds of things. My point was only tangentially related, and if only to suggest that the other person's point, the one you keep addressing, wasn't the "real" issue. I don't know why you would comment to me about their issue. I already said from the jump nothing I suggest has anything to do with coercing individual women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 03:46 AM
–	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones So you ignored the rest of the sentence where I was talking about the social issue, not the personal one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:10 AM
–	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones Ah, I see you didn't actually read and/or comprehend what I wrote, and are instead attacking a point someone else might be making	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:09 AM
–	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones You must be responding to the wrong person, I never said any of that. I don’t generally use the language of “leagues” at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 11:39 PM
1	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones I only speak for myself of course, but I've never suggested anyone should be coerced to do anything, nor have I said that women and men shouldn't be free to have any standards they wish. What I'm saying is, if a large proportion of society is having an issue with forming relationships, that's a societal issue that should be addressed. If for example the stat that says 40% of people under the age of 35 are struggling to find relationships, have sex, have kids, form families, etc then there is a m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 07:52 PM
3	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones Never have I suggested that was the answer. It's way more nuanced than that	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 06:53 PM
2	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones I’m sorry to tell you, we’re already well on our way if not already there	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:47 PM
5	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones I would posit it IS in fact unreasonable when it’s not an individual issue but one for society. Relationships are personal, but when you have 30/40/50+% of the population not forming relationships, that’s a societal issue, and if not addressed will eventually cause important societal breakdowns	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:45 PM
1	The Reactions to the Ice Spice/Tobey Macguire Kissing situation DEBUNKS the AGE GAP OUTRAGE myth What man has age gap rage? It's woman who are outspokenly against this, not men.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 02:27 PM
1	Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women As a man with a lot of stereotypically "feminine" personality traits, women/society will readily punish men who exhibit such traits, even though they claim they want men to be more "evolved, emotionally mature, in touch with themselves, go to therapy" etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 12:36 PM
3	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women What man are you talking about? I swear it’s always schrodingers man; if he’s so easily able to replace you, he’s obviously out of your league and it’s on you to understand that. Don’t chase men who are so popular they can pump and dump women at will. That’s your mistake. That type of man is rare though; most men are so happy to have a chance that they aren’t jumping to leave and find someone else unless you are so bad a partner that they are forced to leave	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 12:12 AM
1	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women I'm sure you, and most women, have had to deal with a certain amount of creepiness. Having to deal with weirdos and creeps isn't exclusive to women, and it's also a small price to pay for the perks of being a woman. All of us can focus on just the cons all day, but that's a mindset choice. It's incredibly ingenious, but also sadly incredibly common that women act like just because there are bad picks out there, that all they have to choose from is bad picks. That's just objectively wrong, for a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 06:31 PM
21	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women When women complain about having to navigate through "all these trash men" who just want sex, I can't help but think I would much rather have all the options come present themselves to me, and just pick well, then have to go pursue the options I think might be good (And believe me, there's still wading through so much trash) and hope I can both pick well and convince them to give me a chance. Its honestly like, you're complaining that 75% of the work is done for you, because it's not also 100% d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 01:29 PM
8	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women Do you even hear yourself? Yes, you're right, in that all but the tiniest top percentage of us will never truly understand the privilege of having so many people throw themselves at you, and being able to sit back and simply pick and choose. This is truly a champagne problem, and you talking about being fed up with it is so incredibly telling, it's exactly what we are saying, you're proving our point. To be upset, at all the power and opportunity and choice you get, simply for being who you are,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 03:53 AM
120	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women There's plenty of it in response here already, and I'm happy to see so many acknowledging it, but once more for the women out there.... it's bold of you to assume this type of man ever feels "true" desirability. Most men, from the time they are 12 years old (or whenever they hit puberty and start being attracted to women) to the day they die do not have the privilege of this kind of desirability you're talking about. They are so used to desiring women who won't pay them any attention unless they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 11:01 PM
–	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him Funny how women love to say never compromise, never lower your standards, until it's a men's issue, then it's "you need to accept whatever you get".	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 03:25 AM
2	Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men? To be absolutely fair, many professionals are starting to believe therapy works for certain kinds of people, largely moreso for women, as men are wired a bit differently and different kinds of therapies are more suitable and effective for them. You could both be right; there's a few variables. I say this as a man who has been to therapy many times, for various reasons. Relationship counseling, very helpful. Interpersonal issues, self esteem, confidence, trauma, not so much, and believe me I was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 06:34 PM
–	Q4w: who fucks better? I don't disagree, but I'm also not talking about pillow talk. When you barely know someone, when you're either hooking up with a stranger or just starting the early stages of dating, it's prudent to have a conversation about sex before you're actually having it. Knowing the broad strokes is good, and then you can refine things from there, often through the subtle experimentation. It's fucking wild that (presumably) some woman down voted me for advocating communication, let alone about/before sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 12:38 AM
–	Q4w: who fucks better? “Notices” is quite a weird way to describe this. The partners who have the best times, are the partners who clearly express themselves and aren’t afraid to direct their partners (who should be conscientious and humble enough to take honest feedback)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 08:05 PM
–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? Because it’s personally offensive. I’m single. I’m not an asshole. You don’t know me, or anything about me, but you’re happy to make sweeping generalizations about what kind of person I might be based on a single point. That’s never okay, never. If you think it is, that tells us a whole lot about what kind of person you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 05:26 PM
–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? What you've said has nothing to do with my point. I want people to stop making the claim that alone = morally poor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 03:50 PM
–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? No, its not comparing starving with lack of sex... its loneliness, which will actually kill you over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 03:43 PM
–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? THIS is part of the issue. You are saying "men who can't get dates must be assholes" and you have the math wrong. There are PLENTY of assholes with partners, in fact most actual assholes seem to be having no issue getting women. Most of the guys who can't get a relationship are in fact timid, kind, and respectful. Nothing dries a woman up quite like being polite, respectful, and reserved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 03:41 PM
–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? This has nothing to do with "liberals"... take that shit to a political subreddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 03:37 PM
5	Ideas of ways to be less resentful Damn, this advice is golden. I wish there were more women out there heeding that kind of advice, and more like you to spout such wisdom	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 02:45 AM
8	Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege" This, this, this 100% this! Thank you for saying all of this. Nobody is forced to put up with bad partners, if they have the courage to speak up, and leave if they aren’t respected	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 03:12 PM
3	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled One of the issues I think affecting men these days is our biological roles have been outsourced, whereas it’s not the same with women. You claim women don’t need men. On a personal level, you’re right. Because society has covered those roles. Men historically served the roles of protector, builder, provider, laborer, and of course their share in procreation. Now, a woman doesn’t need a man for any of that. You have police and fire services, construction contracting and laborers are all available…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 06:18 PM
1	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled Women’s standards are part of it too, though. If you think ordinary men aren’t relationship material, what else needs to be said? Men will happily date your average woman, but the reverse is not true. Again you can try to frame it as “woman shouldn't be forced to lower your standards”, but the real question is why are women so picky? What societal factors are at play to inflate said standards to unreasonable levels? Social media, constant comparing of everyone’s lives with the most famous and ri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 02:45 PM
3	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women What happens when a woman lies and says she's on birth control and isn't? What happens when birth control fails? What happens if a man is raped? Why under all of those conditions do I not have autonomy but you do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 06:04 AM
1	Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to women This is a nonsense take. Nobody makes a woman a parent, AND nobody makes you responsible. (Given) access to birth control and abortion, and given a man is informed well before time is up for one, there is no reason men should be on the hook without their consent. Obviously most women don't agree, they only seem to care about autonomy as it concerns THEM and THEIR bodies, but in the modern era it's so easy to eliminate unwanted parents and unwanted responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 11:14 PM
6	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled I swear, I just think most women are so self centered they can’t frame the conversation in their head around anything but themselves. They always jump to “So women should be forced to date people they don’t want”…. No, that’s not what I’m advocating at all. And even that wouldn’t be a societal answer; that’s PERSONAL. I don’t have all the answers, but here’s a thought. Maybe it would be good, to start, to stop pretending there isn’t an issue, to stop gaslighting men about it, and start at least …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 07:41 PM
12	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled Large portions of the population checking out, as we’re starting to see. No motivation to work hard or contribute to said society, more inclination towards crime, more likelihood to listen to people like Andrew Tate and other cults of personality. People who feel like they have little or nothing to lose are very likely to follow those kinds of people and be exploited for bad ends if they feel the promise of attaining things that otherwise feel out of reach. There are PLENTY of historical and sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 05:15 PM
3	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled Who is talking about consent? This isn’t a personal issue, because it’s not one man complaining, and certainly not about one girl not loving him. That would be a completely different thing. Some people can’t get and don’t deserve a relationship, or sex, or whatever. That’s of course true. But when that issue applies to 30-40% or more of a group, that’s systemic. That’s societal	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 03:15 PM
18	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled This idea that the majority of men with dating issues are putting it anything like that is a gross misrepresentation of what’s really going on. Most men are not saying “I’m this way, and no one loves me so there’s a problem I deserve love”. Ironically this is exactly what WOMEN say. WOMEN say “this is who I am and I deserve to be loved for who I am I won’t change for anyone”. MEANWHILE, in the manosphere, guys are saying “I’m a 20/30/40 year old that has never felt loved or been in a relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 03:00 PM
10	Men want something they can’t get. Women have something they don’t want—that’s the real dating crisis. Except that society hinges on the idea that we aren't ruled by nature. That small group of men that historically reproduced was also comprised of the strongest, most brutal men that murdered the other men and took women by force. That's not the world any of us wants to live in, right? Nature holds a balance. It never tips too far for long. If men cannot attain relationships, society will eventually fall apart and all the things society provides to women will fall apart with it and lead us back t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 06:03 AM
8	You cannot convince me that most men deserve women's submission There’s no such thing as an alpha male. You’re a fool for using that term. I hope someday you realize how dumb you’ve been :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 04:02 PM
–	How important is sex? I'm not going to contest that; I'm a straight man, so I don't deal with men in that way, but I have heard this from women. I guess you'd have to take me at my word, but I at least always love to please and go down on my partners, and I think it's becoming more and more common to feel that way	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 03:36 AM
–	How important is sex? Eh… the orgasm gap isn’t as black and white as “men don’t care/do enough”. That’s certainly part of it, but it’s also largely biology. Women don’t care about men’s orgasms either… they just don’t really need to, because men are biologically fortunate in that almost all sex with almost all partners is still good enough for them to get off, even with women who literally expend no effort at all sexually. Most women take that side of things for granted as well. If it were as hard for men to get off …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 01:25 AM
1	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? I’m not red pill. I have never met a red pill person in real life. Most men, myself included, love and cherish women even if they can’t seem to attract any. Men are open to most women, women are decidedly NOT open to most men. It’s simple data, not morality	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 08:47 PM
0	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? I think ironically men tend to feel that way more often. When women have issues with men, most of society will tell her that she’s perfect as she is, and the men are at fault. When men have problems with women, it’s obviously their fault, and they need to work on themselves. In any case, I think there is always some nuance here. Data shows that men aren’t picky, even about who they would try to have a real longterm relationship with. Women, on the other hand, are notoriously picky, to put it a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 08:28 PM
1	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? This isn’t a personal attack, but the old adage is always useful in dating. “If every person you meet is a problem, the problem may actually be you”. I promise you not 100% of Gen Z men are like this. Maybe you should look deeply into what kind of men you have been giving your interest and attention to. If 100% of them are an issue, it’s not men it’s something else	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 09:48 PM
1	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? As a man who has been dating women for nearly 20 years, I've never asked and never knew any men to ask this... I don't know how old you are or where you are, but that's very hard to believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 06:46 PM
6	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? I'm not advocating lying here... if a guy asks you your body count, you shouldn't be concerned with lying to him, you should be concerned with dating someone who would ask you that... No need to be snippy, I was kind of on your side here....	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 06:45 PM
5	Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire? You do know there’s no counter floating above your head telling everyone your body count right? Your body count is your own, and can’t actually affect anything if you don’t reveal it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 04:47 PM
-1	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. Okay, so let’s extend that logic further. Men are CONSTANTLY portrayed as doing less work at home, helping less with kids/child raising, and being less active in relationships after they’re established. But we don’t see ANY other women calling the women who complain out, telling them to just stop dating/marrying those kinds of men, have better standards. It’s absolutely unheard of. Instead, men AS A WHOLE are judged and thrown into this box despite the fact that there are plenty of men who aren’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 05:44 PM
1	Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kids If you personally don’t want kids and all the responsibility and costs in time, effort, money, sanity…. lol that’s totally understandable. But for many people what you’re saying isn’t true and it may be your normal but it’s not THE normal. Kids give more than they take for the right people, and the right relationship ( or as you put it, life) doesn’t end or even necessarily have a reduction in quality because of kids. There very much can still be romance, time, life outside of them. It’s all abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 04:56 PM
4	Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women? I think you’re personalizing something that he’s talking about in regard to society. No individual is responsible for any other other individuals needs, that’s absolutely true. But the idea is that certain things, if not obtainable for the average person, create a real issue in society. If men on average struggle to find relationships, and begin to lack satisfaction or motivation in their lives, it does become a societal issue. Relationships, family, love; these are absolutely 100% as important …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 01:37 AM
7	Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women? The thing is, every single man (well, 99.99%) who would have an AI g/f would prefer the real deal. It’s just that, for various reasons, they either feel it’s unobtainable for them, or the only options they have don’t feel worth the costs (energy, time, money, etc). In that way, artificial partners can become a “reasonable” option. It’s better than the alternatives. Can it ever truly replace women, I doubt that very much. Even if the technology was so good that it looked, felt, sounded like, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 01:26 AM
0	I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes. I'm absolutely saying that the vast majority of men aren't this type. Same way I'm saying most women see most of us as invisible. Not ridiculous at all. It's like saying "women have ovaries". Does that makes them a hive mind any more than making an obvious fact like "most women's dating psychology is pretty similar"? It's not that wild miss. Like saying "most men are into X/Y/Z"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 09:45 PM
12	I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes. Can we quit the strawman argument? Most men are not this type. We've said it a million times, the vast majority of quiet, stable, safe, relationship seeking men are invisible. That doesn't actually mean they don't count. The power dynamics women create by only being interested in the most attractive (not purely in a physical sense) men lead to those men being FAR less interested in committing. Hence this backwards notion. At least say "Only the men I care about are fuck boys and not interested i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 08:48 PM
2	The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at work Passport bros aren't just looking to get laid... yeah, you could hire a sex worker for that, but what if you want a wife? What if you want a family? What if you want love? MANY men who want these normal, reasonable things can't find them here. These things are absolutely worth the time, money and effort of traveling for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 06:17 AM
0	The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at work You will find, and often believe, what you like to. Especially on the internet. Most "passport bros" aren't here talking about it. They just went and did it. I live in a midsize, popular city. Not LA, or Chicago, or NYC. But still, there are plenty of men I know who went and did the PPB thing and brought back wives that they, for the most part, are very happy with. They aren't all losers, and they aren't all creepy, or disrespectful of women either. They are just men who were ignored here, or ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 06:12 AM
–	Sex robots are imminent You are so incredibly way off the mark with this, sorry to say	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 11:12 PM
-1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" How does a woman in my example lose everything, except in the case where she destroys the relationship? She would get half	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 10:09 PM
1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" I thought we were supposed to be equals? So, if a stay at home mom is considered equal to the man, but the opposite is not true, you don't see the hypocrisy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 10:08 PM
0	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" I tried to state plainly that it's exactly the same situation, yes she gets 100% if I cheat. Ultimately, if you don't believe it, that's fine I don't have time or energy to waste convincing you, but I would absolutely take that deal, as it IS safe, because the only way to lose is if you betray your partner. If you're not a cheater, abuser, or just get bored and decide to opt out, you can't lose everything. I don't know why you seem to think what I'm describing is somehow unfair for the woman, as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 06:31 PM
1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" If it means anything to you, it’s not about gendered roles. Under my own terms, I’d GLADLY be the stay at home parent. I just don’t weigh that as anywhere near equal to working hard enough to be a sole breadwinner. And I think being kept financially safe as long as you aren’t the person ruining the situation is fair 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:14 PM
1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" Not worthless, just not equal to working a job capable of supporting a full household	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:12 PM
0	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" If the deal is so awful, why are women by and large so unwilling to swap places? Under the very terms of my example, I would LOVE to stay home and have the privilege of raising kids and keeping the household.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:11 PM
1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" I absolutely do, I just disagree with your take. It’s okay to have different opinions. Read my other responses, but don’t act like someone is some fool or villain because they don’t share your take	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:09 PM
1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" I absolutely would not say that raising kids and playing homemaker is without value. I would say it’s nowhere near the contribution of being sole bread winner. And I say that as someone who would gladly be the partner staying home, under the conditions I set forth in my own example. If I ruin it, I get nothing, if I get betrayed I get half. I raised my daughter at home alone for the first two years of her life. I do half of the parenting and all of the home making in my household. I work 40-50 h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:08 PM
-1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" Staying home and raising kids isn’t anything like the work of going out and making the kind of money necessary for a single income household, in my humble opinion. And I’ve stayed home for two years of a child’s life to raise them; I’d gladly take that spot and let my partner work, but women don’t often like that idea….	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:04 PM
1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" What you’re saying makes sense, if you’re judging staying at home in pajamas and raising kids/doing housework to be anything near as rough as working. I do not. As someone who stayed home and raised a daughter for the first two years of her life, I’d so gladly take that position full time if I could. Weird though, how almost no women would allow a man that opportunity, even though may women have it	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:02 PM
1	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" I get what you’re saying, but I simply don’t weigh the two sides of the coin as equal. And to perhaps make you feel better about it, even if you don’t agree with me, as a man I’d be so willing to take up the other end. I would GLADLY stay home and play homemaker/dad if my partner wanted to shoulder the burden of being the breadwinner. Under the same conditions I explained before, I’d be happy with that arrangement (if I cheat or leave “at fault” I don’t get half of her stuff). In my humble opini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:00 PM
0	Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less" This might be a controversial take, but I feel like context is key. Let's say a man and a woman have been married, had kids, and built a life together, over 20 years. High school sweethearts, now in their late 30s - early 40s. The man worked, the woman stayed at home to raise kids and make the home. Now, in one scenario, the man cheats on his wife, or becomes abusive, or what have you, and the woman decides to leave him, divorce and all. I feel like she's definitely owed half, because not only d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 07:42 AM
1	The courting process never ends for men. Well, you replied with that to me, so....	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 08:41 PM
1	The courting process never ends for men. No, that's not at all what I said. I said men don't feel taken care of in this way, by women. That doesn't mean a man gets nothing out of the relationship. A lot of men are willing to be in what they feel is a lopsided relationship for companionship, for sex, to have a family... to be accepted by society and not be seen as a loner creep....	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 05:02 PM
1	The courting process never ends for men. In theory, you're right, but the reality is, sometimes you can be single, or you can carry a relationship. As much as it sucks, it's still better than being single. This is a common reality for men	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 03:22 PM
4	The courting process never ends for men. In 30 years of relationships I have never expected my partners to cook and clean for me. It's always been mutually shared. If you're with someone you make that arrangement with, it's on you. It's NOT the standard or default	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 12:26 PM
4	The courting process never ends for men. The VAST, vast majority of women definitely do not show this kind of effort to make their man feel special. The reality for most men is that they have to accept these kind of inequities, or be sad and single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 12:24 PM
3	The courting process never ends for men. I've never once had a relationship where I wasn't expected to (and certainly intended myself to) take care of those things equally. Yet as he said, I was expected to continue "making it special" for the woman, whereas they rarely if ever made any effort at all to make me feel special :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 12:22 PM
8	The courting process never ends for men. Most men do stay in relationships that don't feel mutually taken care of simply because of fear. Getting relationships is extremely difficult for many men, and often it feels like the only alternative to being in a one sided relationship is being single, which men will often avoid at all costs. I myself didn't truly come to understand that all relationships weren't always just a man giving up so much for so little by nature until I was in my mid 30s! A sad reality of being a man is often having …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 12:19 PM
2	Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great. Yet another long winded example of someone addressing the issue by firing 90 degrees away from the point. For the umpteenth time, the issue is who women are giving a chance to get to know. The vast majority of men that want a given women are ignored; they might be good, they might be bad, of course no one knows until you spend time with them and get to know them. If, like so so many women, you complain that there aren't "very many good men at all" out there, you're being victimized so to speak, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 03:54 PM
5	Men try to gatekeep standards History, social cohesion, even the economy… just saying… large groups of people giving up hope and/or checking out of society has not ever boded well…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 05:05 PM
12	Men try to gatekeep standards Because it’s not the man rejecting 90% of his prospects. Women are the deciders in this dynamic. Men would happily date many of the women who wouldn’t date them, it’s not us turning up our noses at most of the population and complaining about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 03:09 AM
1	Does it Get Better for Women Over 35? Just like women abandon men for losing their jobs	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 01:11 PM
-1	Does it Get Better for Women Over 35? Maybe it’s not a common idea, but when I read the stories of complete strangers, I try to do my best to remain neutral and not attach my diases and stigmas to things I am interpreting. There are certainly cases where people spout some wild things, and you can tell they’re leaving things out, or misrepresenting the truth, but more often I think the language they are using can be misconstrued against them, in a way that doesn’t jive with the overall intention of there post. A common example of thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 04:17 AM
2	Does it Get Better for Women Over 35? Every relationship is transactional! The way you define that and the way you express and communicate the terms may vary, but NO relationship EVER is without some kind of give-take proposition. Even if the transaction is love, is kindness, is marriage, is money, is stability, is sex, is companionship….. women just don’t like that this sounds unromantic, but there’s reality and there’s dressing it up like something else. It doesn’t mean love isn’t real, it doesn’t mean people can’t or don’t genuin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 07:58 PM
4	Does it Get Better for Women Over 35? You may be picking at semantics here, and I don’t know why it matters	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 07:54 PM
2	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes You responded to the comment need the top level where I literally gave my best advice on this matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 05:21 AM
3	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes Which man? Where? Who? It all starts with where you're looking. This whole sub is full of people looking in one direction and complaining about what they find, while being totally unwilling to change that direction. Sorting the wheat from the chaff is what I was trying to give advice on. Offer better advice then, if you don't like mine	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 07:18 PM
5	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes Okay. I disagree with you on some things, but in the interest of not getting mired in a pointless argument, I'll just say this. Either it's possible to do something, or not. What would your advice be? Even if EVERYTHING you said was true, what would you advise? If you thought men were perfect liars, and no woman was safe from them hiding their intentions, would you say the answer is to never chance love, chance intimacy, chance relationships? If you think waiting for months will work, the obviou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 07:14 PM
2	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes Sure, but you understand how the reality is they are normal. Call them unfair, call them immoral, whatever, but the fact is they exist and they are a normal part of life. We aren't all the same, we look for different things in each other. Women tend to care less about body count than men. I get that you don't like it, but what do you expect to happen? You expect it to change?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 07:10 PM
6	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes What you're talking about in your example isn't reality, it's fantasy, just as the example in mine is. The woman has hers, the man has his. Neither is realistic, and neither is what anyone serious about this stuff should be focusing on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 07:08 PM
10	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes Women are no different. How many want the bad boy that will be golden, but only for them? Many immature women date dangerous men, thinking they won't get hurt. It's all the same shit, just different sides of the coin	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 06:36 PM
2	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes From your perspective, sure, it is hypocritical. Is it hypocritical for a 5' women to only want 6' men? Is it hypocritical for a woman who works a 40k a year job to want to date men who make 6 figures? Is it hypocritical for women to expect a man to always make the first move, ask them out, etc etc? The dating world has never been symmetrical. You just don't like the parts that don't favor you or align with your ideas	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 06:32 PM
10	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes The same way a wealthy man vets for a gold digger. Not by never spending money, but by spending time and paying attention. You shouldn't need to hold out for more than a couple weeks max (assuming you're seeing them fairly regularly) to get a decent read on a person. I can't educate you on how to read people, it's just a skill that comes with time and experience. If you've never dated anyone and have no experience, it's going to be real hard, but you can look to other's experiences and look at s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 06:29 PM
23	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes This idea that people are helpless slaves to what they find attractive is pure nonsense. Hear me out: The human race, like every other animal out there, is designed to reproduce. We are designed to be able to find attraction in "most" others of the opposite sex; basically all but the most deformed, sickly, etc. Only in modern times have we been so spoiled and changed by all the artificial cosmetic nonsense that we turn up our noses at everyone. The key is to actually get to know people. The pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 06:23 PM
20	This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too. I don't think the OP's point is to deny reality. Most men on here that complain about their struggles in dating are trying to make women understand why men are saying the things they say, and acting the way they do. Sure, if you want to make an argument about inherent worth and it's imbalance in dating, you can, but the point is don't expect men to give a shit about women or their struggles if they don't care about ours. This isn't about women going against their nature, or ignoring their attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 11:18 AM
0	This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too. That is a total misrepresentation of what he said... he said men want sex more than women, and are more likely to talk about sex. He didn't say anywhere that it's all men want or care about, and newsflash, that's because it isn't. Of course there is a subset of men who are only looking for sex, but that's not even most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 11:09 AM
-13	Village idiot says idiotic things (Will Ferrell) Sure but it would be nice if we did better over here than they did over there	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 06:24 AM
5	Men are spinning narrative about them being desperate but they are desperate for top percent of women I find it hard to believe you don't understand that most people (This is not just a man thing) want their kids to be theirs biologically, they want to pass on their genes, it's the closest bond you can have with another person ever. I am willing to (and have) dated women with kids from a previous partner, but only if we also had the intention to make another between us. Edit And all this before even mentioning that there are MANY perils to dating people with kids; you do not and never will hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 12:10 AM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. First off, that figure is absolutely unreal, zero chance I believe that. However, what is your point? As I said, most dating is online nowadays.... so you agree....	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 10:30 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. Bro.... none of those things have any chance at becoming apparent when 80% of all relationships start online. People say online dating sucks, and it does, but it's insanely hard to meet people in person these days, so it's rock or hard place. Going out and cold approaching people is a no go, trying to find ways to meet people in a "safe, friendly, organic way" is extremely difficult, as once you're out of school and into the adult working world you have so little time, energy, and money. The one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 09:06 PM
0	Interpretations of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs highlights a disconnect between the level of importance men and women place on sex Why are you guys arguing over definitions rather than a coherent point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 07:01 PM
-1	The Red Pill advice for women is lame So she dates one man, it goes poorly because he's a bad partner, and somehow it's all men's fault? Fantastic example of just what I'm saying here	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 10:16 AM
-2	The Red Pill advice for women is lame Just so you know, it's not just men. Women do the same thing; I myself foolishly let a "beautiful, exotic, way out of my league" woman abuse me financially and emotionally for nearly 2 years. I'm not out there blaming women as an entity or as a whole; I bought it. Just like you did. The funny thing is though, that men are always called out for this stuff, and women are always excused. It's not like only women's kind nature or early trust can be used against them. The hypocrisy on things like thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 10:21 PM
-2	The Red Pill advice for women is lame I wasn't making an attack, I was just being honest. It's not an issue I don't have some sympathy for, but that doesn't mean it's not the problem. All I'm saying is take some accountability. Yes, you may have been young and unaware, that's understandable. Being young is about fucking up, making mistakes, and learning from them. Still about taking accountability rather than blaming someone/something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 10:06 PM
1	The Red Pill advice for women is lame It's interesting to me that you find this list offensive, but if you ask women (as a man) how to be a good man for women, you get much of the same advice. Learn to cook. Do laundry. Keep the home organized and clean. Stay in shape/hit the gym and muscle up. Be sexy, learn to seduce her mentally, physically, and emotionally. Initiate sex with her (always on the man to initiate, and to know when and how to initiate properly. Have genuine emotional desire for her (and be proactive about letting h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 10:01 PM
-5	The Red Pill advice for women is lame All this tells me is you are bad at picking, and sometimes that means moving too fast. NOBODY can hide themselves forever; even the most fastidious will start to fold after a few months. I have a rule about knowing someone for at least a year before I consider anything beyond dating as partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 09:57 PM
–	Just Feels Pointless Yeah, of course… what does that have to do with anything? Some Men will happily pay for play… that still has nothing to do with my point	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 03:02 PM
–	Just Feels Pointless What kind of attention? Men go to those types of woman for fun, short term fun. Men aren’t trying to establish longterm relationships with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 02:53 AM
1	Just Feels Pointless Literally refuted your point about looks, and yet here you still are trying to completely mischaracterize the entire conversation. You're not worth talking to, if you can't listen, which happens to be a very important character trait for men	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 02:01 PM
6	Just Feels Pointless You're writing your own narrative over the answer. I don't care what peaceful and friendly "sound like" to you, that's still not what I said. Imagine, taking your words, replacing them with something completely different, and then arguing against that? Get out of here with that nonsense. I don't want anyone to be submissive so don't put words in my mouth	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 02:00 PM
13	Just Feels Pointless You are absolutely confusing two different things. Men's standards are very different than womens. Men generally don't care if you make a lot of money, if you are super educated, or about your past if you've moved past your issues. That doesn't mean they don't care about the person... and honestly, how disgusting to think that the most important things about a person are their career, their past, or their education.... Men absolutely care about the person. Are they kind, are they respectful, are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 12:03 PM
5	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. I'm sorry that you've somehow become such an unempathetic person, truly lacking any sympathy for your fellow human beings struggling. You certainly sound like such a good example of someone not being a bad person, or a "useless waste of space". I don't look at ANYONE that way... Loneliness is not just a result of being a bad person, that is such an incredibly senseless take	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 09:13 PM
3	The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men. Loneliness has been proven to shorten your lifespan and reduce quality of life... I'd say lacking success certainly does cause suffering.... or do you want to look at the statistics showing so many middle aged, lonely men offing themselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 09:02 PM
7	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy If you’re desperate enough to be some woman’s stooge, in the hopes of getting laid, good for you, more power to you OP. Some of us simply recognize the game for what it’s become, and have enough self respect to walk away when it’s inequitable, which just so happens to be 90% of the time these days. Yes, those things work, and used to make sense before women wanted to equalize everything that didn’t work for them, while conveniently ignoring all their own advantages. No thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 04:22 PM
5	Did anyone else start liberal and then got to 28 and their perspective on people, friends, decisions and everything changed? If you mean the government liberals, sure. But the government conservatives even more so. Government, red or blue, give no thought or care to us. People, civilians, that’s entirely another story.	/r/MensRights	27/12/25 11:34 PM
4	Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations? In what sense? Again, it’s always been easier for women and still is	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 09:04 PM
5	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology We’re not talking about elite, we’re talking about this supposed bar in hell. I do moisturize, but I don’t pay professional stylists. Don’t try to move the goalpost here. I’m no model, but I’m not gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 06:17 AM
14	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology No it fucking doesn't, this is the gaslighting men are talking about. No, most men aren't disgusting unwashed barbarians in rags, with unkempt beards and yellow teeth. This is not the fucking case. Those types of men exist, but I see them with girlfriends more often than I see the completely friendly, groomed, decently dressed average but perhaps a little shy or neurodivergent men who are so often the ones struggling to get any dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 05:26 AM
2	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? Women have more and better methods of birth control than ever before, plus the option to abort on top of all of that. Sex has never ever ever been LESS risky as far as I wanted pregnancy….. logic, where is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 07:06 PM
1	Men don't have instant beauty tricks and it makes it harder for them! It's crazy the level of gaslighting in this thread. Makeup, better clothes, and the like technically existing for men is not really the point. And yes, styling your hair, wearing better clothes, using a nice cologne all do help to an extent. But the real essence of the point being made here is that Men are inherently drawn to the body of a woman that just does not exist the same way in reverse. 80% of women (who are not maimed, deformed, or morbidly obese), even if they have a terrible personali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 12:53 AM
6	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. Think about the things you said, and what you didn’t say. Is she paying her way? If she is, sure, we can go on multiple dates, and maybe I won’t feel led on, depending. But also, simply showing up is not “showing love, support, attention” etc. there’s a lot of variables left undefined. Personally, yeah, either way 5 dates without so much as a kiss is definitely a clear sign she’s not interested enough. Feel free to call me whatever you think, but I’m not porn addicted. I’ve been nearly exclusive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 04:06 PM
1	I think all women would be happier single I'm about to be 39, and I'm as voracious as when I was 16, still happy with one woman....	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 07:56 PM
1	I think all women would be happier single This is a choice. Nobody is forcing women to be in relationships with assholes. Even is studies show that most women do this, there are plenty of men and women and relationships that aren’t like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 01:06 AM
1	I think all women would be happier single What you’re describing is a scenario you’d be choosing. This isn’t how it is with every relationship. There are plenty of men and plenty of relationships that are completely awesome	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 01:05 AM
5	I think all women would be happier single Excellent way to explain it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 01:03 AM
11	I think all women would be happier single Is that some kind of strawman? I’m happy with one woman for the rest of life (provided it’s a good relationship obviously). Being open to other things doesn’t negate that. Personally, I can’t imagine being interested in that situation not because I wouldn’t enjoy it, but because I’ve read too many stories about couples doing that kind of thing and having it unravel their whole sexual relationship and to me it’d never be worth the risk	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 12:27 AM
37	I think all women would be happier single I disagree, as a man, that men can’t be satisfied sexually by one woman. I can and have been for many years at a time. It’s not some biological imperative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 10:57 PM
1	why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content? Actually, it’s not mutually exclusive. In an ideal situation, men would love for women to easily accept and commit to one man, hopefully for good. That’s not the same as easily sleeping with everyone. Be picky, be discriminating, within reason, but be monogamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 08:20 AM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. How on earth is this still, constantly, an issue for some men? As a man, I have zero concern about my dick size. I have dated/slept with enough women, and had enough conversations, to know that they are all different, with different preferences. Sure, some women will care about it, but most won't. If you've spent ANY time online looking into this, you'll have read that, over and over and over again. Guess what, some women (a tiny percentage) might care enough to not date you. But way more women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 11:51 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? We’ve given you the answers, and maybe you don’t like them, but there’s no argument to be had. None of us decided how any of this works, that’s just how it is. We can’t change it to any great degree, no matter how unjust or unfair or “socially blah blah blah” you think it is. It’s not based in any of that, and we can’t just change our feelings or preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 08:26 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? I think at the very least there’s a part of this that is rooted in biology and basic inherent instincts. A man and a women find different things attractive in each other. A man who has slept with many women has been marked as a successful and desired specimen, and ostensibly would be a good candidate for having successful and attractive kids with. Meanwhile, a woman who will just sleep around with almost anyone is looked down upon as not a good partner in a reproductive role, as not a good perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 06:22 PM
2	Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to it There is very large amount of nuance to the subject of attraction, but for the overwhelming majority of circumstances, men are much more interested in a much larger swath of the opposite sex than women are interested in men. There are plenty of people who are overly picky, but way more women than men turn up their noses at their "looksmatch" or "equal level" if such a thing even exists. "Most" women are/can be attractive to men, but women are notoriously picky and reluctant to even give most men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 09:02 PM
9	Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to it No, you're just straw manning. There are men who are good on all of those metrics who you will not even give a glance	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 08:35 PM
32	Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to it Except you 100% can get a RELATIONSHIP, not JUST hookups, as nearly any woman online. You just aren't interested in the guys who would want one with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 06:07 AM
0	Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to society This isn't a societal issue, and isn't relevant here. Nobody is forcing women to do most of the housework. This is a decision you make, you put up with. If you simply stop dating trash men, this problem isn't your problem anymore. You can't use this as a talking point against men generally or against society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 08:25 PM
2	Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently? Show me where I said only one person should support the family, or again how I think the current system is okay?? You are attacking me for what you are straw manning. I don't think only one person should pay, but more than that, I don't think the man should be able to abuse the woman and just leave with no risk either. I think it's fucked up that no fault divorce is a thing; whoever is unfaithful, abusive, manipulative, etc should be the one penalized. If the government can't take on the burden …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 09:12 PM
2	Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently? Isn’t it ironic how the institution of marriage is currently all risk and no reward for men, but when men say this, your response is to gaslight us and say that such a situation for women would be terrible? We men are already where you claim it would be horrible to be!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 05:54 PM
0	Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently? No, you’re putting me and my point where you imagine it to be, rather than what it is. At no point did I say if it’s the man’s fault he shouldn’t be considered as such; I was simply explaining why the way it is now makes it highly risky and unfavorable for even a completely good and honest man, he can still be completely destroyed if he does nothing wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 05:53 PM
1	Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in. lol are you blaming the view or the viewer? Because this is what we usually see....	/r/seduction	26/07/25 05:47 PM
1	Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently? " divorce and leave her destitute" if she's the one initiating divorce (nearly always the woman) she shouldn't get paid to do it. This is the problem with divorce not being judged by what and who caused them. You can cheat on your partner, move on emotionally with someone else, then blow up the relationship and collect $$$ on the way out (and take away the kids half the time or more too). This is why many men don't want to get married	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 04:51 PM
1	CMV: The next generation of women will have an even harder time dating Plenty of good partners are struggling to get dates already. In that sense I suppose nothing will change	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 06:08 PM
–	Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men? Sure, but even if you have 500 posts like this, that is still a tiny, tiny fraction of men, the most vocal of which come here to spew that stuff. It’s nothing to the millions and millions of normal guys who don’t feel that way	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 03:46 AM
–	Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men? But you’re not showing them what “men” are saying, you’re literally taking the bottom dregs, in their most intense moments of frustration and ugliness, and using that to paint a picture for all men. If someone took a “snapshot” of you at your absolute worst moment and then held it up to others and said “See! This is what she is, this is what she thinks!” would you call that fair? I’m sorry men say some truly vile, reprehensible things in their darkest moments. Many say things here they would nev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 02:35 AM
-2	Ideally, how much of your value do you think should come from sex? So then explain why some people are completely unable to get any attention from the opposite sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 02:37 PM
3	Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work. That doesn’t even make sense. You don’t know OP or me, and all he’s saying is it’s not worth the effort, which is what I’m saying as well. You can do the work, and still get little to nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 05:12 PM
5	Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work. Respectfully, @&$# all of this nonsense you said. I make close to 6 figures, and will surpass 6 figures in the next two years. I have a nice house and a nice car, both of which I take care of and maintain myself. I cook and clean, I decorate, I have friends who are good people, and I’m a phenomenal father, but exactly zero of that matters because I’m a 5 out of 10 looks wise and I’m not a great “opener” even if I do have good conversation skills. This isn’t “bottom percent behavior”, and I’m sic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 04:46 PM
2	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. I disagree with a lot of what you’re saying. Yes, it’s more expensive and harder to have children than ever; yes society has failed to place enough value on having kids, but women and feminism itself has done a lot to convince women that having kids and being a traditional mother is some kind of weakness. I have a kid; everyone around me who has kids has been intentional about it ironically other than me. I see no lack of men wanting kids; most who do want them struggle to find a good partner, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 06:50 PM
2	Would you guys do "duty sex" if women needed it but you didn't ? I’ve always done this? At least, whenever the woman wanted me to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 10:58 PM
2	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. Each is hard in its own way, for sure. But I do feel it’s never been harder for both than now. In fact, it was easier for me too as recently as a few years ago, prepandemic	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 05:46 PM
3	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. It’s funny how so many people turn the relationship vs hookups argument upside down depending on circumstance. Many people are looking to just hook up, and if you ask why it’s so hard to just get laid a lot, you will often be told most women aren’t looking for that, therefore you have to be exceedingly good looking, charming and seductive, ideally both if you want to hook up a lot. However, as someone looking not for hook ups but rather a longterm partner, I will on occasion be told it’s so hard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 05:45 PM
8	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. I can say with the utmost confidence and with complete humility, that I am not a very attractive guy physically, but I have a very good personality. I’m probably a 5 or a 6 looks wise, but I have a heart of gold, I’m friendly as it gets, and I love people and have nothing but empathy, even for people who are not typically deserving of it. Having the former seems to be much, much more important than the latter. Just having personality is not enough, unless you have a particular type of sly charm,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:36 PM
5	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. In your opinion, what makes a man “good”? The things I was raised to believe were good, I subsequently took to heart and practiced, and they are largely why I get ignored by women. In fact, as many men here say, the absolute douchebag guys I knew, from high school to now, are usually the guys who have the least trouble getting a partner. So tell me what that says about women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:17 PM
17	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. Why does there have to be so much gaslighting in this subreddit? Men aren’t angry that women like attractive men. They are upset that 80% of women won’t date men in their own “league” of attractiveness, or that 80% of women claim to only find 20% of men attractive because of their inflated standards. Claiming that only 10-20% of men are at all attractive or worthy of love is an objectively ridiculous proposition. Furthermore, the imbalance of things right now due to various social factors will e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:14 PM
2	Why do you want to be in a relationship? For most people, it literally is one of if not the most important thing in life….	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 04:37 PM
1	How plausible is the type of man you want? Do you understand that men are upset because when they struggle and ask for advice, there doesn't seem to functionally be any real advice? Go to the gym, get fit, work on your emotional intelligence, try to be more motivated, try to be more sociable, try to make more money... every single one of these metrics can be met and you can still be completely unsuccessful with dating. There are literally men out there who make great money, own their homes/cars/whatever else, are in great shape physicall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 05:18 PM
7	Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insane Well, hold on. Let's contextualize this a bit more. People who VISIBLY go to the gym, which in the context of dating is the point, often DO make the gym/fit life style a huge portion of their personality, because it turns out being fit enough that people notice it often does require a ton of effort. There are plenty of people who go to the gym but you'd never know if they didn't tell you, but the people who look appealing because of their fitness level are almost always VERY tight on what they c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 04:57 PM
33	How plausible is the type of man you want? Because there are TONS OF MEN who fit most or all of this, who can't get a date because they aren't attractive physically, or because women both online and IRL won't give him a chance to show off any of these traits because he can't get a date (See point one?) I don't care who you are or what you say, it's never going to be easy for anyone to just accept that they don't get to experience one of the most important parts of life. If the percentage of people who have to hear that is small, maybe it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 12:59 AM
2	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? To be completely fair, to give full disclosure, I only have my own experiences to fall back onto. I’ve dated something like 8-10 people ever, and out of those, about half seemed to be this way. The more vast experience of this though, for me at least, comes from my interactions with people I’m looking to maybe date via apps or meetups. It’s not a massive sample size, but it’s what I’ve seen and it echoes what a lot of other men I have spoken to have dealt with. Primarily, the frustrating part is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 09:41 PM
6	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? What I’m saying is, women tend to want it for thee but not for me. I’m an independent woman, I don’t need a man, I don’t need to have kids, I don’t need to dress/act/do X/Y/Z, but you’re a man so you’re expected to earn more, put me first, do the pursuing, take most of the risky moves in the relationship, be my emotional rock, and on and on and on. If you don’t do those things you’re not a real man. There are extremely few women who are either truly old school and give and take traditionally, or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 09:19 PM
9	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? Why is it okay for women to proclaim that gender based roles and ideology are solid and unwavering, but when men do it we are derided and insulted? And so then some of us who have genuinely tried to embrace the concept of equality and non traditionalism get burned for practicing what everyone else preached to us, sometimes told we aren’t manly enough, should be more masculine, should act or feel ways that are proscribed to us rather than what we feel from within, all while being told men and mas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 06:40 PM
–	I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realise A lot of men don't understand the different between intimacy and sex. Many of us lonely men do crazy the former, and not just the latter	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 12:06 AM
-12	Where do men even stand in society anymore today? You sound like a clown when someone asks you a perfectly legitimate question and you immediately get defensive and dismissive, attaching your own drama to it. It’s a perfectly valid question and the fact that you don’t actually have a definition, but rather to defer to some vague tribalism nonsense is hugely telling. I’m not radically liberal, and don’t agree with what many people might refer to as wokeism, but half the problem in the world is this need to classify and “other” every fucking thin…	/r/MensRights	04/06/25 10:40 PM
-1	Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man? You don’t know men if you think any of that is “necessary” men are super forgiving of looks unless you happen to be 5+ levels below them	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 10:43 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do I hope there’s no sarcasm there. The truth is, many of us learn the hard way that going for looks alone will burn you, sometimes spectacularly so, and then you want the average looks with the awesome personality far more	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 09:00 PM
2	Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to. I’m not here to try to waste time arguing with you about your own mindset. If you want to understand men, and the nuances of relationship dynamics, there are plenty of things to understand. Ridiculous beliefs like “ALL men HATE women” are just a complete waste of time and energy, and will only taint your own view of the world and people as a whole. But think what you like, I was only genuinely responding to the op, but so many are so full of vitriol that they don’t want understanding they want v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 08:24 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do I wasn’t talking about weight specifically, and this also is not what happened with the men I know personally. Their wives aren’t overweight, they just aren’t generally speaking anywhere near as attractive as their husbands, in physical attributes	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 08:12 PM
1	Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to. Wow, so you went digging through my post history to try to validate your own outrage? That’s troubling, you should probably step back from the Reddit for awhile. And that’s not women bashing, I was asking about a specific issue that I’ve encountered with some women, if you can’t see the difference I don’t know what to tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 08:10 PM
1	Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to. It wasn't meant to be, nor do all or even most men say disgusting things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 06:34 PM
0	Modern men hate women so unreasonably considering they have literally 0 reason to interact with us if they don't want to. If men truly hated women, they could easily say nothing and never interact with them. Men don't hate women, they hate that they love women, feel they need a woman's love and validation, and often struggle to navigate those needs. Men operate in a logical world, for the most part. Every single need outside of the love of a woman can be solved with concrete logic. Do X, you get Y result. Either you want it badly enough to act on that, or you don't. But love is different. There are few concrete ans…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 04:04 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do Also, yes, larger women tend to be nicer and have better personalities, that has been my experience too. Is that because they have to be? I don't know, I often wonder about the "chicken and egg" situation of does attractiveness create personality.... but in any case, the nicest woman on earth unfortunately will struggle to date if she is obese	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 03:23 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do This is one of those goes without saying things that sometimes you find yourself somehow needing to say. Yes, of course personality is a big deal. All the looks in the world can't make up for a bad personality, being boring, close minded, unfriendly, etc etc etc. And certain traits can make a 5 a 10, if their warmth and kindness and intelligence and all of that shines through and makes you love them. This should go without saying. However, on average, people are average in their personalities. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 03:21 PM
4	Best cities for dating This guy is ABSOLUTELY full of it! I have lived here in Vegas my whole life. Everyone who has lived here knows Vegas is an incredibly toxic dating scene. It's so hard to make genuine connections here, and most people are so transient, long term connections are super rare	/r/seduction	31/05/25 05:10 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do Define "buff guy". But honestly, yes, I constantly see normal/thin weight men with overweight women. It's WAY WAY more common than the other way around. In fact, I am pretty regularly shocked when good looking guys I know show me pictures of or I meet their wives/girlfriends and it feels like even said good looking guys are dating down	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 04:23 AM
–	Why are Men not good problem solvers when it comes to relationships?! Again, I’m not educated enough to say if this is more nature vs nurture, but whatever the case, the majority of men are able to comprehend hard logic far more than emotions. Emotions are ethereal, can change, are fluid, and whether you want to admit it or not, seldom follow logic. Physical, mechanical labor, is pure logic. You do this, you get this outcome, and you can determine what’s going on by physically examining the issue. Feelings aren’t concrete that way; if you come to me and say my bra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 01:47 AM
–	Why are Men not good problem solvers when it comes to relationships?! What I’m saying is many men aren’t taught it by their parents or anyone around them, and many of them aren’t even really aware enough of it to do anything about it. Many struggle to understand, let alone start to make any effort to improve	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 01:43 AM
–	Why are Men not good problem solvers when it comes to relationships?! But that’s the thing. The vast majority of men are not good at emotional intelligence or reading body language. By nature or nurture or somewhere in between, we tend to not be taught this stuff, certainly not like women. This is why men often miss cues, and fail to understand the perspective of women. It’s a foreign language to most of us. I think we (society) is starting to be a little better about it, but we’re just not there yet	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 01:10 AM
1	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad My parents, like most, are from a different era when online dating, social media, and smart phones hadn’t ruined dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 11:47 PM
2	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad No, not all. Some, maybe even most. But not all. But the respectful ones that aren’t out doing those things are invisible to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 08:38 PM
1	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad Respectfully, what are you talking about? Show up? Where, with who? Women don’t even let us in the door to start that conversation	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 08:29 PM
-5	At what point does sexualization become objectifying and dehumanizing? WHOOSH there it keeps going, right over your head	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 05:09 AM
–	Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having them I’m afraid this is one of those issues that women just can’t understand, as they can’t step into the shoes of men. Society, especially women, treat men very differently, and men are no longer comfortable with approaching women. Think of it like this; if I were speaking with you about how many times women don’t feel safe with men in certain situations, and I told you it was just as simple as trusting me, don’t worry about it, etc, would you place your intuition and feelings ahead of it behind any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 07:30 PM
0	Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex with With all due respect, your own family is anecdotal, and not at all a good sample of society as a whole. I get out just fine; most people don’t believe in forcing women to be with men. Religious zealots are not representative	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 07:26 PM
-1	Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex with You’re right, project 2025 is not good. I haven’t really seen anyone defending this stuff. So again, we ask who are these people? Almost no one says this stuff, and no one I have EVER seen has advocated for forcing women to do anything. This is all conflated nonsense. If these sick people exist at all, they surely should not be held up as some twisted example of men in general, or even incel men in general. Societies do fall apart when family units cease to exist; that’s not some kind of threat,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 05:35 PM
–	Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having them Approaching women is nothing like it was 20 years ago, before social media, online dating and smart phones. It’s no longer safe or desirable for most men to pursue women this way. I know, I’ve lived it and it’s not the same. I had steady relationships until just a few years ago; now it’s all but impossible to even get a date	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 03:18 PM
–	Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having them You’re trying to say every man who struggles with loneliness is automatically toxic, and therefore would only be able to have a toxic relationship; that’s just completely ridiculous. There are a vast number of perfectly decent, sane, valid men out there dealing with this issue. They don’t all hate or blame women either; they simply feel lost, lonely, and/or depressed with this situation. It’s perfectly reasonable to desire love, partners, having kids; none of that makes them toxic	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 03:10 PM
–	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it You could have married someone who was more willing to work with you. I’m not trying to be mean, but we all are responsible for choosing good partners are we not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 10:53 PM
–	Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue” Why are you so heartless? If you hate men, I’m sorry you feel that way, and I’m sorry if someone hurt you. But attacking other men only throws fuel on that fire. There are so many of us who aren’t anti women, we’re just suffering. You could at least leave us alone if you don’t care or want to offer any kind of useful opinion, advice, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 07:32 PM
-2	Women look for guys who will entertain them, and then are surprised when those guys bounce after sex. If you want to find guys who stick around, go for men with similar personalities. What are you even saying? I didn’t frame it as any of those things, you did?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 11:48 PM
-4	Women look for guys who will entertain them, and then are surprised when those guys bounce after sex. If you want to find guys who stick around, go for men with similar personalities. Why is it always framed this way, that men’s view is disgusting, inhuman, etc while women’s are “the right” or “proper” way to view things? Men are driven by their hormones to want sex. This isn’t exclusive to humans, basically all males of most species are driven this way. We also happen to have the capacity for, and the desire for, intimacy, connection, companionship, etc, but the general majority of healthy men desire sex. More than love, more than companionship, more than intimacy. I’m not e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 11:28 PM
3	Dating got easier not harder as people are making it out to be. Anyone else feel gaslit, or just like…. REALLY annoyed by this kind of post? Like, how incredibly tone deaf is this? How triggering is this? We are lonelier and more separated than we have EVER been, ever. We used to share intimate spaces, get introduced to family friends, have potential partners suggested or recommended by close friends and other loved one. Now, we stare at screens with hundreds of pictures and no substance, no way to genuinely get a feel for anyone, and we are all consumed wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 07:32 PM
2	What is wrong with modern men You skipped ahead to him having a partner; most of the men out here are asking how to get a woman to give them the chance at a relationship, let alone being their longterm partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 12:57 AM
2	What is wrong with modern men It is hard work getting a woman to give you a chance to show that you embody any of this. Which is exactly why so many men are upset; women love to say the bar is so low, it's so easy, and then you try and no one will even give you a date, or two, let alone get to know you enough to learn who you are and what non-physical traits you even embody, therefore no, it's not a low bar; maybe it's a low bar AFTER you pass the extremely high bar of getting that far to begin with	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 12:56 AM
6	As a man, "decentering" women is one of the best things you can do for yourself I have those friends. I'm so tired of people suggesting having a partner isn't incredibly important and conducive to having a good, healthy, happy life. There is no replacement for this. Don't get me wrong, I'm not sitting here whining about it, or blaming women, or any of that negativity. Being single doesn't mean I can't be happy, sometimes, or that my life is over. I'm not overly dramatic that way. But it IS important. It IS NOT something to be simply disregarded, downplayed, or ignored. I th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 04:15 AM
13	As a man, "decentering" women is one of the best things you can do for yourself This issue isn’t just about getting laid though. It’s about sharing emotional and physical intimacy, sharing your life with someone in the way you only get to with one person, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 12:43 AM
–	Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids? You are so completely full of it with this one. It’s incredibly obvious this is not the case, you can see the stats. Men are walked over by the courts	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 04:13 PM
0	Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young? No, I don’t expect any of that. Why the jump to some kind of extreme? All I’m saying is, YOU can’t have it both ways. If you want a man to support you and your kids, you either have to meet him early and help him to grow to that point, or you have to date him when he’s achieved that level of success, which is usually not until his 30s Listen to the way you describe things. “Shit out your babies”? Wreck your body? This isn’t a reasonable or rational way to even look at the situation. I’m sorry yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 12:33 AM
-1	Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young? You sound real pleasant, not at all horribly jaded and taking it out on random men on the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 05:49 PM
1	Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young? You’re talking contradictions. Young men aren’t in a position to provide for you, let alone kids with you. This is why many men who want kids can’t start responsibly until at least their 30s. And I don’t know what you mean by “old ass dude”, because again no one is saying 50-70 year olds should be dating 20 year olds, but there’s nothing wrong with a 30s man dating a 20s woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 05:46 PM
16	Q4M: Why aren't men as into Consensual Non-consent or raep fantasies as much as women? You're trying to make some kind of false equivalency, as if men who watch those types of porn are actually into those scenarios in real life, which is absurd. You don't see 60% of women with rape fantasies looking to get raped in real life; fantasy is not reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 01:50 AM
5	The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate" Man, I'm not going to lie, you had me for the first half. But the second you start talking this nonsense about "women are expected to do all the housework and raise the kids" you lose me. This is NOT the case, this is your selection bias. There are PLENTY of decent men who aren't like this. None of my friends or family are like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 03:52 AM
5	Its not women’s problem that men have low standards out of desperation. It’s absolutely not. Look, let me tell you one thing no sane person will ever disagree with. Men are absolutely obsessed with sex, it’s our strongest natural drive. If a man is treating you like crap, it’s because he doesn’t feel any need to treat you well enough to meet his needs, and that means he’s getting them met elsewhere. No man who wants to get laid will sabotage his own efforts in that way. Most men are desperately thirsty for affection, sex, and attention from women. The only ones who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:27 PM
8	Its not women’s problem that men have low standards out of desperation. Only the guys who don't care about putting in effort because they are getting results without it are like this. Which, is usually the top tier of attractive/charming, but terrible for relationship types. If you stop going for these guys, you find men aren't all like this. The sword cuts both ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 06:28 PM
–	Very few people out there actually want an "equal partner " Lmao I’m sorry man but you’re full of it. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. someone uses these all encompassing statements about their in group (“literally everyone else”) its complete nonsense. Why bother even commenting with such hogwash. People are people, everywhere. Your people aren’t special.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 07:48 PM
1	You can't complain about being lonely while failing to form/maintain social bonds. See, it is NOT though. Incel means involuntarily celibate, which includes men who are perfectly nice, socially adept, and have jobs/hygiene/don’t hate women. This other crap so many of you keep trying to attach to it just so it can be some kind of insult to use is sad and irritating. It has NOTHING to do with mindset at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 10:21 PM
7	One of the main reasons why single men disdain single women Except that’s not what he’s saying at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 03:15 PM
5	How would you help an average man get a girlfriend? Who said men are great at understanding women? That’s what I’m saying, women are not easy to understand, at least not in this way. Men are extremely easy to understand at least in regards to relationships. If you are decent looking, pleasant to be around, and you show any measure of care/appreciation/affection, you will have SOLIDLY won with 80% of men. The same just cannot be said of women, and that sucks. There are plenty of “good” men, who just can’t make it work. If you think that automatica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 12:14 PM
11	How would you help an average man get a girlfriend? I think that you’ve essentially done a lot more for this conversation than anyone has let on yet. I’m not trying to argue about what should or shouldn’t be, but simply acknowledging that the point here is that, women are incredibly difficult, and likely more difficult than ever, to meet, date, or get into a serious relationship with. You can care about that or not, that’s beside the point. But men are depressed, frustrated, even angry at times because it’s beyond difficult to court women, and it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 08:20 PM
2	Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women. "True feminism" hm? Funny how everyone's version of feminism is the "Real" or "True" version, almost like all the problems feminism may have created or exacerbated are never any feminist's concern or responsibility. What a great way to dodge any criticism or accountability	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 05:13 AM
1	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. What percentage of men are, by your own definition, "interesting"? Would you say that only that percentage of men deserve love? What about women? Women don't need to be "interesting" to be loved, to find relationships. I personally take issue with the idea that only some people deserve a chance at love. This is not something that is anyone's "fault", I just personally opt out of such notions, and believe that these kinds of toxic ideas are bad not only for people but for society. Also, I don't b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 09:01 AM
4	What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events? We hear this again and again from women, and we get it. You guys don’t value male attention because you have the privilege of getting a lot of it all the time (speaking generally). That is your perspective, but men get little to zero attention in general, and almost any man would LOVE to be cared about / given attention, regardless if it was just for his looks. I don’t understand why women can’t grasp these ideas. There is absolutely nothing wrong with someone being initially attracted to your l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 02:39 AM
4	Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school? So, you concede that it's easier, but your argument is that it's actually too easy and that is supposed to be a contribution to this discussion... against those saying it's the better role... what a wonderful mental gymnastics loop you've got here	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 06:18 AM
3	Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school? As a single parent, yeah, you're crazy if you think being a 24/7 parent is harder than going to work. Sure, there are some cake jobs, but for the most part it is easily the shorter end of the stick. I spent 12 hours a day with my daughter for a year and a half during covid, from the time she was born to just around 1.5 years. The first 3-4 months were intense, but after that, it was incredible. I'd kill to be a stay at home dad. Getting up, getting ready, commuting, working for 8-9 hours, and co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 02:44 AM
0	Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men? I wasn’t aware people had a right to not be looked at… and that only women suffer this egregious offense	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 04:42 AM
2	Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men? Your link adds nothing to the conversation, just pointless sass. I should link the infamous Dave Chappelle “Just because I dress this way….” bit, now that would be relevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 04:40 AM
-13	MATGA Movement Better yet, poison Trump. Win win	/r/MensRights	11/11/24 07:12 PM
6	Cringe indeed No, Ayn Rand was just an egomaniacal narcissist, who took breathing her own farts to the extreme. Balance in all things. She’s too far gone down that hole. So you’re half right. Reciprocity is important. Ayn Rand is just selfish and self centered and tries to justify it with her “philosophy”	/r/MensRights	04/10/24 04:29 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. That’s not what he/she said, and I think you know it. If you can’t be genuine, why bother entering the discussion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:24 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. I honestly don’t know many men who “don’t want women to have choices”. It’s the hypocrisy that pisses people off. If you want to abolish gender roles as a social norm, you need to extend that courtesy to both sexes. Which isn’t the current lip service. As long as most women want most men to be traditional in the ways that benefit them, you’re going to have massive relationship issues between the sexes 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:23 PM
3	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Completely not the same. If you can’t grasp science, you aren’t worth arguing reality with	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:07 PM
-1	The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice So, if it was super obvious, it sounds like…. You’re saying she should have known better and it’s her fault for ignoring the super obvious signs… right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 04:37 AM
1	The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice Yeah, because that’s the only alternative right? 🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 04:35 AM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations I suppose it’s anecdotal, but the idea that most men and/or women that can’t get a match are just terribly unattractive/lazy/unwilling to “improve themselves” seems wrong. There are plenty of totally normal and even above average people who have the same issue. Certainly some are like that, but I think far more often even average is simply unacceptable these days	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:29 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations How is it that both men and women complain that no one is serious about settling down and all that? Occams Razor says it’s likely that one or both sexes have unreasonable expectations or standards, otherwise the math would be mathing and people would be pairing up more. But anytime someone approaches trying to find a solution, either to meeting more people, or arranging dating situations, etc people start rallying against it as being pathetic or they get the ick, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:15 PM
0	Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them? Neither is it hard to understand what’s at play here, and yet here you are 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 12:53 PM
3	Why men today struggle in dating By the very definition, if they have a lot of success with women they are absolutely not “normal” guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 04:18 AM
4	Why men today struggle in dating This is where you cross the line. You immediately jump to the conclusion that “it’s a you issue”. You’re not a man, you have no idea how different it is for men (especially your average man, not super handsome men), and how your mere presence can cause people to label you a “creep”. You were literally just hinting at how men should pursue and not mind other people “as long as their intentions were good” and yet here you are already judging. Turns out, intentions don’t mean anything to the girl w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 04:18 AM
2	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals If you’re asking if both men and women use words to hurt and antagonize each other, then yes, for sure both groups are doing that	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:47 PM
13	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals Eh, strangers in general, no, but virtually everyone is nice and more caring, helpful, and trusting of women by default	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:43 PM
3	Women are not entitled to anything from men I’m sorry you feel attacked by some. But people are all different, and that includes men. Which is exactly the point I’m making, gender roles are bad for everyone. There were/are men and women both who fit their stereotypes and are just fine, but there are many who don’t, and that variety is the point. Want to stay at home and raise kids? Great! Don’t want to? Great! But only men are considered “lesser” if they do. What if a man wants to be romanced? Nah, sorry that doesn’t happen. What if a man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 04:30 AM
16	Women are not entitled to anything from men Don’t try to frame this as me saying it was fair, or unflawed, I’m only saying it’s actually less balanced than it was in a sense, because men are still expected to conform to all their gender roles while women have successfully escaped their own. It’s good that women aren’t treated so granularly, it would just be nice if society could extend us the same courtesy	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 03:51 AM
32	Women are not entitled to anything from men 100000%! Women absolutely expect men to take care of them, both in a relationship sense and in a macro, social sense. The social contract although flawed, used to be balanced at least. We could improve on it, but right now it's just entitlement with no reciprocation	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:30 PM
8	Mom 'too eager to be in a relationship' stood by as boyfriend beat her son to death I'm a 37 year old man, and I just.... I can't even read headlines like this without tearing up. What the fuck is wrong with humanity.... there's a lot of depraved things we do to each other but adults hurting defenseless children just completely destroys me in a way I can barely describe. How can you have a child and be that heartless? If I saw someone do something like this, to any kid anywhere, I'd go to jail for murder before I could start thinking rationally	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/08/24 06:15 AM
2	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Tantrum? That’s laughable. I was simply trying to put in my two cents. If you come to a discussion, expect to have some views thrown around. Don’t be so dramatic. And I’m telling you they (the two groups you describe) aren’t (or shouldn’t be) meaningfully differently viewed. Primary or shared custody has little to no bearing on how good a father a man is, how responsible he is, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 09:51 PM
10	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Is this not roughly the same as single mothers expecting their partners to support their kids as a parent and financially?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 06:47 PM
4	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? 100%, this. Ignore the clown above you	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 06:43 PM
7	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Who the F are you to declare such things? You sound like a pompous fool. So a woman with shared custody by your screwy definition isn’t a single mother?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 06:42 PM
5	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Poor description. A man who left his partner and child is one thing, but a man who “isn’t with the mother” isn’t the same thing. Your immediate bias is a perfect example of how OPs question is valid in how we pre-judge groups of people. In your two groups, they should be viewed the same, until you have more info at least	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 06:40 PM
1	Imagine marrying and then you can't ever follow your dreams again Jury? What kind of divorce involves a jury?	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 01:49 AM
1	Imagine marrying and then you can't ever follow your dreams again Oh, I see. Well, yeah, that is pretty fucked up; society is often hypocritical with how it views men and women, even when they do the same things and get different treatment. But it's still pretty tertiary in this case	/r/MensRights	01/08/24 10:21 PM
3	Imagine marrying and then you can't ever follow your dreams again There are personal issues, and there are social issues. Maybe I'm missing something here, but you choose your partner, and if you choose poorly, how is that a social issue? Social issues need to be addressed by society, personal issues are on us alone	/r/MensRights	01/08/24 10:09 PM
6	Imagine marrying and then you can't ever follow your dreams again There are a LOT of inequalities, issues with dating, contemporary culture, etc that I support other men on, but when it comes to men or women complaining about their partners, I just.... don't get it, and have a hard time sympathizing. Because these are not mens issues, these are not marriage/social/gender issues, these are personal issues. There will always be shitty people, men and women, and unfortunately sometimes you get involved with them. But if you married this person.... man, wtf were y…	/r/MensRights	01/08/24 09:39 PM
1	Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men? No, that's not true. Domestic violence from women is just as if not more prevalent, it's just under-reported because when men call the cops on women, they are still the ones who are immediately arrested and charged, and most often cops side with women in he said/she said situations. This is widely known	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 09:35 PM
-11	Women lose attraction to their husbands more than the reverse, and that's why women divorce much more often I’m sorry but I find in incredibly hard to believe any person, man or women, would be able to convincingly hide their true nature for years if you are paying attention. Wait to get married, wait to have kids, and I can’t fathom how in 99% of situations this isn’t completely avoidable	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 06:58 PM
0	What do you think about "men like woman more than the other way around"? This is a sad way to view yourself, but to each their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 09:36 PM
1	What do you think about "men like woman more than the other way around"? We cannot change our nature, and that's not what I was even alluding to. We also can be kind about it, gentle about it. Imagine if I went around talking about women like nothing so much more than the dirt I need to plant my seed, etc. This is what I liken to the way you seem to describe, and perhaps relish, the idea?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 08:22 PM
3	What do you think about "men like woman more than the other way around"? Can you imagine, using such hateful, ugly language to explain such ideology? Regardless of the validity, human beings are more than the some of their primitive, animal biology. Or at least, that's what women claim when men explain ANY aspect of their nature in such terms. Funny how that doesn't seem to apply to your chosen lexicon. No, women aren't the "filtration" system. Survival of the fittest is. And this too, is beyond biology in our modern world. Successful people are often not "biological…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 07:57 PM
–	How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating Market You think this is just a men’s issue? Woman are arguably more affected by the constant comparison effects of social media, especially because even an extremely mid tier woman can get simps online, inflating perception of self	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 04:24 AM
–	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life You don’t get to dictate standards for everyone, only for yourself. There are plenty of people of all sexes and types who enjoy non-committal sex, hookups, flings, etc. You can hate these people if you want, but you’re fighting a battle you will never win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 08:23 PM
–	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life You don’t get to dictate standards for everyone, only for yourself. There are plenty of people of all sexes and types who enjoy non-committal sex, hookups, flings, etc. You can hate these people if you want, but you’re fighting a battle you will never win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 08:22 PM
–	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life You don’t get to dictate standards for everyone, only for yourself. There are plenty of people of all sexes and types who enjoy non-committal sex, hookups, flings, etc. You can hate these people if you want, but you’re fighting a battle you will never win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 08:22 PM
–	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life How are you supposed to know? Because both common sense and common decency should dictate that you don’t just point to the worst example of a subset of people acting a terrible way and make blanket statements. It’s actually incredibly easy, and if you don’t understand this I think you’re simply a bad faith actor. “Men go out of their way to defend these subs” which men? The men from the subs themselves? Hmmm imagine! What he said is absolutely right. It’s a big world, with billions of people. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 08:20 PM
9	Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms? These are things men often feel regarding single mothers (don't shoot the messenger just explaining commonly held opinions!) Women who are single mothers show poor decision making, in that they chose a loser to have a kid with and didn't see the red flags before letting that happen Single mothers often expect you to be a father figure to their child, which includes devoting your resources (time and money) without allowing you the authority to actually be a good father figure (won't allow you to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 01:26 PM
5	Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays? lmao TF are you smoking? Your line about "they realized they are now in charge of all household affairs" is particularly laughable. You clearly don't know most men, certainly not most MGTOW men. Maybe that could make sense 40+ years ago, but men above the early 20s these days happily do their own chores, I don't see any men longing for women to "take care of the household affairs" and if anything MGTOW is stronger than ever. Dating and especially marrying has never been less appealing for men, e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 03:33 AM
2	A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward? Of course, there's no way to know how someone will be. The entire idea of the first date or two is finding out if dating the person is even worth it. But that's my only point, both people should come in at a neutral point, cover themselves, and neither will feel like they were unfairly used	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 04:06 AM
4	A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward? Because believe it or not men are human and most want relationships. Are you really this dense? It feels like you’re trolling us with this nonsense	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 11:21 PM
2	A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward? All the more reason to go 50/50 and be serious about not giving “those types” of men any excuse to feel entitled or used	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 11:14 PM
7	A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward? Whoah, are you kidding? You asked why and you got your answer. Men don’t like to feel like some woman’s entertainer, wallet, and transportation. Men who are kind enough to take a woman out on a proper date expect that the women at least be interested in them and grateful (no, not as a piece of meat but grateful in a decent, human way). Men being treated this way is exactly why this whole notion of being “taken care of and courted old school” is harder and harder to find. You can’t have your cake…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 11:09 PM
1	Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him? Do you realize how crazy and sexist you sound? Imagine if I said "If women aren't attractive and aren't submissive they bring nothing to the table". Your table sounds hollow, and shallow, and sad. I'd never want a seat at the table of someone who thinks my wallet and my physicality are all that I am or can offer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 07:45 AM
1	Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him? No, in fact, not all men want to be a provider. That’s exactly as wild as men saying all women just want to be mothers. Or stay home, or be provided for. When will women let men loose from these traditional roles that they themselves staunchly oppose… for themselves? I never said men were morally superior, I only attempted to show you how women’s hypergamy as it’s described in popular culture is not at all like men being attracted to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 01:38 AM
1	Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him? It might be hard to describe, but think of it like this: in theory, a woman might see a person as high value not just because they are physically attractive, but because of the way society sees them. High status, popular, loved and cherished and valued by others. Whereas a man doesn’t typically care as much if at all how the women is viewed (within reason) by society as long as he is PERSONALLY attracted to her. Like they often say, a rich man will gladly date a beautiful girl who works at Wendy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 12:22 AM
0	Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as default I don’t actually believe most men feel women can solve this problem for us. Women, other men, and even society as a whole feel stuck, and so men are much more inclined to stick to their habits of keeping everything in, hoping to feel love from that one partner, and sadly keeping the status quo because it feels like any attempt to change it is not only impossible, but will only backfire on you. I’m not saying that’s great, but nobody seems to know how to actually effectively change things. Mostly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 12:14 AM
3	Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as default Speaking as a man here, I think it’s nuanced and not as simple as some may think. Men are this way because we have been shown first hand our whole lives that we aren’t valued that way and very few if any people will want to hear us vent or be open with ourselves. Women in particular I think just can’t possibly understand what this is like. They sometimes say we “should just be vulnerable, open, etc” and then when you naively try that suddenly you “need to just man up dude” or in some cases peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 04:58 PM
3	Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him? I don't think men look at it that way; men aren't fixated on dating up, they are simply interested in what they find attractive. Most might admit that they think such and such women is "out of their league" but that's the extent of it	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 07:42 AM
3	As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happiness You're a real lowlife if you're trying to make the argument that "because women struggled, men should struggle". How incredibly toxic, and pathetic dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 07:23 AM
6	Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as default It's because only a good wife will care for and about a man in a particular way, that seemingly no other person can. I don't mean "cares" about him, or pays attention, though for 90% of men that's ALSO true. Women get that from sources all over the place, even from unwanted sources. It's not that women are just so wonderful, it's that no one gives a shit about men generally	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 06:09 AM
2	women who complain about dating only have themselves to blame What are you even talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 10:37 PM
–	Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort. You got the cart before the horse there, miss. We’re speaking to broad terms, but personal assumptions are something altogether, and are usually quite offensive in nature. The two long term relationships I had were both good, but we weren’t compatible long term. Both ended on good terms and I’m still friends with both. If you were to ask them today, they’d tell you I was a good partner, for the most part. I learned a lot from both. But it’s been many years, and everyone I’ve dated since has been…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 10:19 PM
–	Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort. Hm, so what’s the common denominator in your relationships? Maybe think about that and how you’ve failed to find any “good men”	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 04:55 PM
–	Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort. Your entire frame of mind is wrong though. Sex SHOULDNT be some kind of bribe or treat, and you shouldn’t feel used for having sex with your partner. You should actually love and enjoy your partner as much as they do too, otherwise wtf are you even doing dating them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 04:50 PM
–	Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort. You keep saying this, but it’s complete nonsense. There are always shitty people, but if you choose to date selfish dirtbags it’s on you, not “every other man in existence”	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 04:47 PM
–	Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort. I’m 37. I am no incel. I have had relationships and sex for most of my adult life. Doesn’t change what these guys are saying. Women by and large sit back and expect everything to be done for them and get bored and upset if that level of effort starts to decline. Only once did I ever date a women who was actually willing to put in as much effort as I did. I was young and dumb and didn’t realize that wasn’t how most relationships work and have been searching for it ever since. Just look at how rid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 04:44 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men I’m 37, and have yet to notice much change 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 01:25 AM
–	Women accept being alone better than men I don’t know why women can’t grasp the simple fact that men and women are different. Friends don’t fulfill us the way they do you, we can’t get everything we want and need from them. All the friends in the world will not override a man’s biological desire for a mate	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:47 PM
13	Japanese women are upset that they can't kidnap children anymore Because it’s not a woman thing, it’s a Japanese thing. The same could happen if a Japanese man married a foreign woman, then stole his kids back to Japan with him	/r/MensRights	13/04/24 10:33 PM
1	There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a man The issue is many, many men want things that society has ordained as only properly attained through gates such as marriage, like monogamous longterm relationships and having children. So it’s really not as simple or as fair as saying “fine just don’t get married”. This is toxic and borderline gaslighting. Men want to change marriage to make it more equitable and fair. Imagine if you saw an unfair law that affected your life and I simply told you “then just sacrifice the best hope for your dreams…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 07:17 PM
-1	Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important? So then you’re suggesting every household that pushes the father out (this OFTEN happens due to family courts being heavily biased against fathers) is because the FATHER was obviously abusive? Apples to apples right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 05:50 PM
5	How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly? But HOW CAN YOU JUSTIFY HIS LAST BREAKUP THAT HES STILL BITTER OVER TO HIM!? Can’t you see he’s definitely still in pain and you’re supposed to somehow absolve him, and by extension fix all relationships men have with women everywhere!? 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 05:06 AM
2	How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly? I’ll bet he didn’t learn anything at all, unless she happened to have that conversation with him. Because how would he know? If he said it and then 6 months later they broke up, this tactless person would likely have not connected those dots. So while it’s not on her to teach him, I think it’s a nice thing to do for all partners where things don’t work out, so hopefully they do learn and do better going forward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 05:00 AM
2	A man was falsely accused of raping a woman. When he gave the police a video showing the sex was likely consensual, he was instead charged with felony "video voyeurism" for the video which exonerated him of rape. Goddamnit, stop fucking associating everything you don’t like with the left. There are plenty of leftist types who are men’s rights activists. Remember the part where you don’t like women generalizing negative, harmful stereotypes about all men? Quit being a fucking hypocrite then, and understand not all leftists are purple haired, man hating fruitcakes who believe in 12k genders and all the other nonsense. You hurt your own position anytime you automatically demonize by association, which is ex…	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 01:34 AM
8	Men are being wrongly accused of “blaming women” instead of simply “improving,”when the reality is they are rightly sick of having to work for less than they are worth I’m sorry man, but market worth doesn’t work the way you’re making it out to be. Every single person on Earth could agree on your worth, but the person you’re selling to has the final say. It does not matter what you or me or anyone else thinks, just the buyer. You sound 100% like those girls right now, my friend. “I’m a 10, no question, it’s every one else who’s wrong”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 03:17 AM
12	Men are being wrongly accused of “blaming women” instead of simply “improving,”when the reality is they are rightly sick of having to work for less than they are worth Think about this for a second, because it certainly is true. We men get irritated by and criticize women constantly for thinking they set their own worth, thinking they are all 10s, etc. which is absolutely true, the market economics dictate that people, just like products, do not dictate their own market worth. “Market worth” being the important part here. Self worth is absolutely important, self love is important, but so many these days cross over into narcissism. That’s a different issue, lac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 01:47 AM
–	Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. No; I didn’t say that and you’re deflecting and addressing a point I never made. There are plenty of valid reasons to leave any relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 12:44 AM
–	Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. Here’s a revolutionary idea: talk to your potential/partner and find out what they like, rather than generalizing them with outdated notions of men. Imagine if I made such generalizations about women!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 04:35 PM
–	Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. Lmao! Yeah, back to reality where woman will reject you for “giving them the ick” for any or no reason; are the quickest and most likely to abandon a relationship or potential relationship at the drop of a hat, while happily proclaiming how wonderful it is to be single and not need anyone. They sure sound desperate not to be alone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 04:32 PM
9	"more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single. Anything in the vain, desperate attempt to feel like the world hasn’t actually decided to disregard your gender; like you might actually matter to women as much as they innately matter to your own sex. But that is indeed foolish	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 08:38 PM
1	Elon Musk, most followed person on Twitter, just reposted this: 'Life under the iron fist of The Patriarchy: Women in the US outpace men in AP course completion and college degrees (including PhDs), while men outpace women in deaths on the job, incarceration, drug addiction and homelessness Same as the other poster to respond, solid until that last paragraph. I went to school from 1992-2005 and college from 2005-2009 and I don’t recall any such “indoctrination” I don’t know where you get this idea either	/r/MensRights	08/02/24 02:10 PM
19	Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences" Except, in nearly all cases, weight is your own fault. Weight reflects poor life choices, lack of motivation and will power, etc. Height is beyond your control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 07:09 PM
1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself What the actual … ? There’s zero misogyny present, he’s just explaining the feelings of many modern men	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 10:23 PM
1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself All of this is fluff, when what I think most men really are trying to say is that it’s disappointing and soul crushing to realize most women find almost all men unattractive. It’s very very hard for almost all men to find a woman attracted to them, from the get go, which then allows for them being interested enough to get to know the real you underneath and maybe like you for personality reasons	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 10:14 PM
1	Debate: free romantic love has failed Having a family, a partner and children, creates a duty to them. This is the family bond you call “love”. Love is deliberate devotion and commitment, not stars and hearts and roses in the air. We’ve lost sight of that	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 04:15 PM
1	Debate: free romantic love has failed We are agreeable. The thing is, agreeable men are ignored. Women who don’t think most of us aren’t evil, lustful dogs are simply not looking at anyone other than attractive “top tier” men who don’t give a fuck about settling or commitments, as these are the only men who can get away with that type of behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 04:12 PM
–	The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the same Ah, blind then. My condolences	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 10:03 PM
–	The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the same If I may, I think the difference is men are okay with being like other men. Women are the ones who strive to make you think they're so "unique, special, NOT LIKE OTHER WOMEN!" you see this constantly on social media. Women seem to have this idea that they not only are unique special individuals, but therefore they deserve unique, special things/partners/etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 10:02 PM
0	Marrying and having kids young, risking divorce later vs. waiting till the good men are gone. Which is worse? A woman who wants to find a good partner and settle down can date and find that man relatively easily, assuming she doesn’t have outrageous unrealistic requirements. A man who isn’t incredibly charismatic and good looking can’t anywhere nearly as easily go find a date, let alone a good woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 02:53 AM
1	Is there truly a large subset of men who are financially stable, emotionally stable, honest, intentional, make the best of their physical appearance (grooming/etc), have interesting hobbies etc that struggle attract their equal? Nah, stop. He’s right. All of these people are absolutely right about this double standard	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 10:42 PM
-9	Men empathize with lonely women. Women are disgusted by lonely men lol the whole thing is so silly, isn’t it? But my favorite part is it has nothing to do with the actual point of the thread	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 11:16 PM
0	Men empathize with lonely women. Women are disgusted by lonely men But where is the lie?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 11:10 PM
16	The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them. You’re presenting anecdotal evidence, and of what, I’m not even sure here. I need only point to the literal thousands of years of human history where men will willingly put their own lives behind those of their kin. See war, see pre-civilized tribal life, see modern social norms (Titanic women and children first, etc) so it’s very safe to say I speak for most men. Nothing is ever 100% all, but we’re speaking to the generalities here not the exceptions	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 10:18 PM
35	The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them. Although there is quite a bit of nuance missing, essentially you’re proving the point. For better or for worse, men don’t see things this way. I can’t say whether it’s biological, sociological, or some mixture of both, but we do often feel the call to sacrifice ourselves for those we love. Kids, partners, even just friends. This is a noble aspect of men that just doesn’t seem to be shared by women and on some level at least, it shows the point being made is true. Women are far more narcissistic …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/23 08:57 PM
50	Men and women in 20 years. Where do you see it? It’s women who refuse to adapt. Modern women have sought to evolve past traditional ways and gender roles. They just won’t extend the same courtesy to us	/r/MensRights	18/12/23 02:15 PM
1	Are there more lonely men or lonely women? I don't know what conclusions you're jumping to, but I'm not desperate, clingy, obsessed with finding someone, etc. I last dated someone 2 months back, and broke up with them for being overly needy. I want someone, I do need someone, but that doesn't mean I'm needy. You should probably not make assumptions founded on.. well, nothing? I can't be as happy alone as with a good partner. This isn't even something that should be debatable really. My assertion is that telling lonely people to "just sto…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 11:07 PM
2	Are there more lonely men or lonely women? Im sick of this nonsense. We’re social animals meant to live in close intimate groups. Yes we absolutely do need people. There are many animals in nature that will literally die if they are kept alone for too long. It’s not too far a stretch to imagine physical and mental illness as a result of being lonely	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:31 PM
3	Single men are bitter. I wonder why? What is disgusting about this! It only is if you are assuming every man who looks for love outside of his own culture is trying to exploit power dynamics or something like this. But that assumption honestly says so much more about you than them	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 09:33 PM
2	Why is it that Men „enjoy“ being seen as Sex objects, while Women don‘t? But if you don’t know someone, and moreover if they don’t know you, how can you get mad that they notice your looks? How else can it start? Yes, some men surely don’t care about anything else and only think of physicality, but all men start by looking at you and admiring what they see. Everything else stems from that, so it’s not fair to assume sexual attraction is ill intended	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 11:49 PM
5	Why is it that Men „enjoy“ being seen as Sex objects, while Women don‘t? If we assume what you’re saying is true, and we assume that a decent amount of other women feel this way too, why is it insanely hard to get a women to actually know you? For example, many many men would love to date a woman and get to know them, not just for their “holes”, but for relationships. But a lot of those men are immediately written off. Also, how do you judge a man’s interest if you don’t know him? For example, if a man you’ve never met happens to come across you, and decides he’s int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 11:45 PM
-1	Women lose traits that men want in a partner as they get older Well, that’s just your opinion. Which isn’t surprising, as a woman. Men who are short don’t like to hear that women love tall men. Women don’t like to hear that men are most attracted to younger women. Fertile women, less jaded women with less baggage. It’s just nature, biology. It’s not always fun or fair, but to get mad at it or even try to act like it’s “disgusting” is a fools errand and won’t get you anywhere 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 04:56 PM
-1	Women lose traits that men want in a partner as they get older There’s no need for anyone’s opinions anywhere, right? In that case why are you on a forum for people’s opinions? 🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 04:19 PM
-4	Women lose traits that men want in a partner as they get older This is a bit dramatic. No one anywhere ever said older women are committing a crime by aging. And no sane person said they were unworthy of love. All these guys are saying is younger women are more desirable. That’s literally it. It shouldn’t even be something anyone has an issue with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 03:08 PM
3	Do you think there’s a lack of good men? Achieving even half of these qualities would require an insane amount of work both physically and otherwise; even if they were completely willing to undertake such massive effort, most people don’t have the time/money/energy to make such huge strides in their lives. And for what? For a partner who hasn’t done a quarter of that work, who simply expects to receive such a partner because she’s already “good enough as she is”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 08:38 PM
2	Do you think there’s a lack of good men? This perfect man you described exists, but there’s one of him for every 1000 women. And he would never settle for them when he can literally “feast” for most of his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 08:36 PM
1	Take the passportpill God you both sound like insufferable people. Not all men who are struggling are women hating incels. And men who travel abroad in search of a wife aren’t “superior WHITE men”, they’re just taking advantage of the fact that they have some real perks to offer to women in under privileged places. It’s absolutely a gamble on whether these women will have “real” interest in them or merely in their money/opportunities. To each their own. Some of these guys are awful, abusive people exerting undue powe…	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 02:27 PM
2	Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. Stop generalizing your poor choices to all men. There are plenty of men out there who take care of themselves, their homes, and their families every bit as much as their partners do. Every time you make these claims, you’re just announcing to the world that you put up with poor partners. Choose better. … “in all ways imaginable” women act like their existence is somehow a boon and you need to be grateful for it. Yeah, you sound real fun and lovely to be around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 12:22 PM
1	Why go on dates if he's not attractive ? I literally just gave you two examples of me asking them about whatever they choose to put on their profiles, and somehow you have extrapolated that I don’t ask them about themselves? That’s literally all I do. Most women will answer a few questions if you’re lucky, then ghost	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 01:26 AM
1	Why go on dates if he's not attractive ? Yes, that’s how you spend those early days. “Oh, you say you like to travel? What’s the last trip you took? Mine was Oahu!” Or “Wow you have an amazing picture of that cake you made for X event. Do you just bake as a hobby or is it something you monetize?” Etc etc but after a week or two you start to run out of steam on things in a persons profile	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 01:12 AM
1	Why go on dates if he's not attractive ? Oh, you mean the things you can plainly read right on a persons profile? You know a great way to immediately filter out people who aren’t serious? Look to see these things in their profile	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 12:25 AM
3	Why go on dates if he's not attractive ? Statistics show this is the absolute safest time in human history for everyone, including women. Walking along late at night in dark alleys is one thing, but simply fearing all men all of the time is not only incredibly ridiculous, it’s hurtful. Women have no idea how much the psyche of men everywhere in todays social media/internet climate is damaged by constantly being told they are not to be trusted, they are inherently treated as abusers, etc etc. No, if you make some common sense decisions …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 12:23 AM
2	Why go on dates if he's not attractive ? The things you claim sound fantastic on paper, but basically never hold up in my 15+ years of online dating. I have always put exactly what I’m looking for in my profile, so no woman has ever had to talk to me without knowing what our “life goals” were. So that’s satisfied. If that box is ticked, and then she sees what I look like and that’s not an issue, then the only remaining thing is to see if there’s chemistry, if you can get along well together. This is where it’s wonky because women const…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 12:18 AM
–	General rise in mens resentment towards women? But you’re shirking woman’s role in all this. Women have come to feel like they don’t need to follow traditional gender roles, but are hypocritical about it when it comes to men. 90% of women will not date a man who isn’t able and willing to be a traditional man. Takes the lead, plans, pays, is stoic, bold, acts brazenly etc all the while modern men who were told a lot of this is toxic and needs to be put aside see this very behavior lead to success with women. So this “don’t do as I say, but do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 08:33 AM
7	Do you think w*men could even comprehend how lonely most men (sub-8) are? Males of other species are not conscious in the way we are. But they do still suffer loneliness in many cases. It’s always tricky to compare nature to society, but there are certain factors that are objective, such as the innate drive to propagate, which is expresses very differently for men and women, as I mentioned. Also, I never said having a partner would make you happy, note the important distinction that I think one is required to be completely fulfilled and happy, but it’s far from the so…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 12:38 AM
9	Do you think w*men could even comprehend how lonely most men (sub-8) are? But that’s how life works. Sometimes I truly wonder how differently men and women might be wired, because women never seem to have this attitude or at least not to the degree men do, but yes, sexual, romantic, intimate relationships are something all (generalizing here) men deeply, biologically, psychologically, and sociologically require to be happy and healthy. It’s literally our main biological drive after food and sleep are fulfilled. At some point, it seems like maybe there can never be a t…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 12:10 AM
2	Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner will share 50/50 equal shared custody. How on earth were you paying child support when you had full custody?	/r/MensRights	15/10/23 10:22 PM
6	We live in an age of equality but women's sexuality still hasn't caught up. My god, such succinct and well spoken words, such meaning that rings true to my soul. Thank you for putting your thoughts out this way. I deeply echo your sentiments and wrestle with myself the same way, and have for a long time. But when you try to have these conversations with most people, especially women, you get gaslit or ignored	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 02:31 AM
1	How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)? It makes sense for women to cook, clean, and take care of children because of their biology /s 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 12:34 PM
1	Why don’t men just do what women do? Again, as has been said, you’re a woman and you are different. You don’t get to say things like “You (men) SHOULD want X” it’s not the same. We aren’t like you and we don’t interact with our friends the same way you do. You are looking at things through your lens. It’s not necessary or maybe even possible that you can understand. But you should respect those differences	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 04:26 PM
1	What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships? While I would say I appreciate people who have open minds, to suggest that close minded people don't have developed personalities is a weird sentiment. Developed personalities can be shitty, but....	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:51 AM
13	What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships? I have never once seen a fellow man cry over sports….	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 07:30 PM
13	What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships? The insane hypocrisy! Women cry about anything and everything, from serious issues (family death) to “irrelevant” (coworker spoke poorly of them; /work drama) and men are expected to listen and respect it. Meanwhile men cry about anything and women are repulsed. Lesson learned first hand	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 07:29 PM
8	What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships? “Severely underdeveloped personalities” what does this even mean? I have yet to meet many fellow men who don’t have opinions, ideas, hobbies, and goals. What more is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 07:25 PM
16	Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men? But you’re not actually even saying anything. “Water is wet”. People would prefer to have relationships with the best people. The issue is I think many men feel like women compare their realistic options to fantasy options, which leads to as you’d expect, not being satisfied/having overly inflated expectations and requirements. There are many supposed reasons for this; I don’t even necessarily care to fight over the what ifs. The idea that the vast majority of men are unappealing to the vast maj…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 04:10 PM
3	Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romance You’re arguing a different point. Everyone is superficial, which is really just saying everyone has a physical sense of whether or not another person is attractive. Men absolutely care more about looks than women do, but that just means a women factors in other aspects more than a man does when she decides how attractive he is overall. But that doesn’t mean men have higher physical standards than women. Men on average find something like 50-80% of all women attractive enough for their tastes phy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:57 PM
4	Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romance No, of course the world doesn’t owe men a beautiful wife. But that’s not why men are checking out. It’s because they can’t earn that beautiful wife either, or even one that’s looks matched to them, or in many cases the amount of effort it would take simply isn’t worth it	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 10:26 AM
9	Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romance This is downright laughable. It’s well known that men find way more women attractive than women find men. It’s women who by and large hold out for someone above their looks match, while men are all too eager to settle for women in and even below their league. Unless of course you’re only talking about the top 10%, who don’t need to settle for anyone and have the luxury of being picky	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 10:13 AM
16	Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romance Bingo! You nailed it! This is why men are checking out! Because society, but extra especially women, don’t care about us! And you think that’s just swell You are currently taken care of, paid attention to by, and valued by men and society. You can’t imagine and don’t care to understand what that’s not like. It’s literally the privileged class turning up their noses at the peasants	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 10:09 AM
1	Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered' But getting casual sex with women is incredibly different for you, a lesbian woman, vs for a straight man. You can’t just ignore the differences, as they are integral to the conversation. I’ve already explained why getting casual sex is easier for you, but to add to this, men on average crave sex much, much more than the average woman. That’s without even getting into the complex psychological, biological, and sociological differences between a woman and a man pursuing casual sex, even if both a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 09:47 AM
7	is it wrong to want a feminine woman ? As a single father with a two and a half year old daughter, I would like to mention the well documented phenomena of women being impressed and/or attracted to men who are good (nurturing, you might even say?) fathers, and to a lesser extent men who are good with pets. There is a reason why some have said going on walks with your dog, or taking your kid out to the park/market/insert public place can be good chick magnets, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 02:33 AM
5	Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered' What are you even talking about? I never said men get a pass for anything. All I said was as a woman you have no idea what anything is like as a man, full stop. You can’t possibly know, just like a man can’t possibly know what it’s like to be a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 09:30 PM
6	Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered' Oh the irony. I’m very liberal and detest about 90% of the conservative platform. Don’t see how that has anything to do with what I said though. Most women are only interested in the type of men who act this way. It’s telling that you immediately got defensive and tried to change what I was saying when it suggested any women might need to be accountable for who they choose to go after and who they choose to ignore	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 09:05 PM
7	Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered' Exactly. Again, so many women don’t have the discussion with a man they enjoy seeing, sleep with him once or a few times, and then get mad and feel used. Everyone needs to learn to communicate more and get over being too meek to have these conversations if they don’t want to feel used	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 08:26 PM
7	Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered' Because you’re a woman, you’re not threatening. You can’t get them pregnant then leave. You are far less scary in many ways. And because you’re a lesbian, they’re far more open to hooking up with you. It’s not even comparable. Women hate when we tell them “how it is” from their perspective. Kindly stop acting like you could possibly comprehend what it’s like as a man, to do anything It’s not the same. You can’t ever know	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 08:14 PM
5	Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered' That’s not what they said… duh, no one wants to be lied to. Obviously. The issue is women ignore the type of men who actually have respect and morals, opting instead for the pretty boy, the charmers, the exact type of men who have the charisma to win you over, which also means they have no reason not to smash and dash, on to the next girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 08:11 PM
1	why do women hate us so much? …. ?????	/r/AllPillDebate	28/07/23 10:32 PM
2	What is the big deal about submission? What does being “statistically more manly” have to do with anything? How obnoxious, to open any statement like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 08:58 PM
1	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? That’s not really what I’m talking about. Women do love looking/feeling beautiful, and many women love the amount of power that beauty gives them. But what they can’t understand is the other side of that. Of being so driven by lust, by falling for the other sex so easily just by seeing them. Obviously only a fool lets those drives direct them, but it’s extremely hard not to be affected by those hormonal drives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 08:17 PM
4	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? Honestly, that sounds great. I often think women can’t emphasize with men because they can’t see the world the way we do. They have no idea how driven we are by looks, and it’s not as simple as just calling us dogs or whatever. I don’t necessarily blame them, more like it’s just kinda depressing. Wish I didn’t feel attracted to the other sex so often and so easily, it would be so much easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 06:56 PM
1	What would you do if you had the ability to change your sexual orientation? I’m a man. I’m not like this. No man I know has been like this. Even if my evidence and yours are both anecdotal, I’m a man and you’re a woman. You don’t have as much if any say on this matter. You wouldn’t want me telling you how woman think/act/feel as an authority as a man, so respectfully, sit this one out	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 11:40 PM
1	What would you do if you had the ability to change your sexual orientation? You’re talking to a man, about how men interact with women, and you want to say this person doesn’t understand how men act around women? 🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 07:17 PM
–	CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for granted I too work in construction. I don’t know which trade you’re in, but construction sucks universally. I don’t know how in the hell you see it as easier than raising a child, but I guess some just aren’t built for parenting? 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 06:34 AM
–	CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for granted This is where I agree with you. I NEVER leave my daughter to be raised by a screen, and no decent parent ever should. It’s tantamount to child abuse, the things this does to a small child. Even when she was under a year though, and did indeed require near 24/7 attention, still better than any job	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 06:33 AM
–	CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for granted Sorry, you lost me instantly when you said raising a child is harder than any job… and I would know, I’m a single father. I’ve never had a job that was any easier OR more enjoyable than being home with my daughter. Playing with her, teaching her things, and sharing our experiences are wonderful fulfilling things, but they’re far from difficult. If I had the option, I’d gladly stay home and raise kids and do housework vs busting my ass working jobs I hated doing but do for my kid. Men and women s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 03:47 AM
1	Why are redpillers so insecure about BM/WW couples? Hey, as a white man who loves black women, I just can’t get behind this comment. And I see way way more white and Hispanic men dating black women than the other way around these days where I’m from on the western US	/r/AllPillDebate	22/07/23 06:22 AM
-1	Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior. That's not how value works, anywhere ever. Now don't get my message confused; I'm not here saying women shouldn't have the right to do whatever they want with whoever they want etc etc but the value of anything is decided by the market, not the seller. It's perfectly fine to shirk "the market" or whatever, live your life according to your values. But it would be horrible to tell anyone that they dictate their own value, which is kinda like telling men if they're "nice" they might get women when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 12:18 AM
4	ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone? Women do this all the time and no one bats an eye! Oh, found a top tier earning man who has a nice house and drives a Ferrari? Sounds like marriage material, and then right after it’s “oh but he works all the time and neglects me, I’m giving him an ultimatum or I’m leaving AND taking half his stuff”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:51 PM
1	ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone? So what was he supposed to do? Simply leave with no explanation? That’s the right answer here? The fact is you and I don’t know anything about this relationship beyond this text, and making all these assumptions about what happened before or after is nonsense so within that context, it seems he was explaining his feelings, and letting her know that even if they weren’t going to stay together, he still supported her. What else can you expect of a person? Would it be better if he just left with no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:48 PM
1	Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs? Are you trying to attack points I didn’t make? I’m not saying my take is unique, and if you don’t share it that’s okay but feel free to agree to disagree rather than making it more than that. And it was you who said “you have to be a parent to understand”, which while not true at all, I only addressed because you tried to make it a qualifier	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 05:50 PM
1	Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs? I wasn’t trying to say you were from the US; if not, that’s great. It should be even easier to find healthy foods not full of corn syrup and artificial flavor enhancers. Also, I’m not 15, but I do disagree. It’s certainly not a “Universal Truth” to keep on the excess weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 05:48 PM
8	Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs? I suppose here in America, one could argue it’s “normal” for everyone to be overweight. Certainly our lifestyle and food choices would reflect that, but that doesn’t mean we have no agency or control. It’s definitely not a good thing to accept poor health as inevitable or something we shouldn’t work to avoid	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 04:09 PM
10	Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs? I am a parent. The mother of my child went through two pregnancies, and I saw for myself and experienced for myself what a change in lifestyle it is. But nothing about it would suggest that weight gain is a given. It’s harder, yes. But eating healthy food, and not too much of it, is no harder (and arguably there’s more motivation to eat healthier for the sake of the baby if you’re breastfeeding)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 04:05 PM
12	Gal Gadot Rebukes Hollywood's Misogyny Narrative: Moviegoers "Do Want To See Movies With Women, If The Story Is Good" They didn't say she wasn't?	/r/MensRights	03/07/23 06:34 AM
-3	Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. How can you ignore the logic here so hard? The entire post is prefaced by saying none of this discussion is about forcing women to be attracted to people they aren't. And yet, the SOLE thing you have to bring up is exactly this strawman? Why are you even here? What a waste of your time and energy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 09:23 PM
6	Women getting upset over the fact that Men like younger women is mainly irrational Way to move the goalpost. He never said 16; we're talking about legal age ADULTS here....	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 05:18 AM
1	Women insist that their “taste” or standards are instinctual and without any outside influence, and that they can’t be changed when the opposite has been proven when it comes to physical attraction. Their inflated standards are quite clearly the direct result of their abundance of options. I think the thing here is that, regardless of how you look, there’s a much more “reasonable” amount of men who would still be interested in you as a woman (and no, I’m not talking about just for sex), whereas due to the nature of many things in recent culture (10-15 years max) it increasingly feels like average, even above average men, can’t find women who are in their range looks wise and even below in some cases. That feels unbalanced in a way that is unnatural. Nobody reasonable is saying a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 03:57 PM
6	No home for you. Kevin Costner vowed to have ironclad prenup after being left homeless from first marriage. The woman’s satisfaction… it’s a well known fact women resent men who they see as beneath them, be it financially or socially	/r/MensRights	17/06/23 03:33 AM
0	BLM in the streets, KKK in the sheets Whoah, whoah! Believing that minorities or women should be treated fairly and deserve rights and justice doesn’t mean you hate all white men… Jesus Christ. You really skewed the message here I think	/r/AllPillDebate	15/06/23 07:49 AM
1	CMV: Men who claim to be straight but seek trans gender “women” are not straight, they are merely gay in denial Right!? Like, how dare you do weird things with your weird things with weird people without my approval? 🤷🏻‍♂️🤣	/r/AllPillDebate	05/06/23 03:14 AM
2	Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local Zoo Badum-tchhh!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 09:01 PM
2	Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do. But doesn't this clash with the idea that if you pursue a women too hard, you come off as desperate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 11:48 PM
2	I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree. You are purposefully turning my explanation into something it’s not. I explicitly said it wasn’t about encouraging friends and loved ones, and you immediately tried to say that’s what this was about. There’s no point in engaging with someone who acts willfully ignorant. You’re talking about something completely different, so good luck with that I guess. Edit* I’m not even talking about dating, at all. That’s your baggage you’re bringing in here 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 05:12 PM
1	I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree. Take this as you will, but none of this is about “gassing each other up”. In this age of social media and instant gratification, we are breeding narcissism and delusions of grandeur in all kinds of people, men and women. And it serves no one to misconstrue discussions. Men aren’t by and large saying people/women shouldn’t be there for each other. But the extremes to which people tell each other (mainly a women thing) that they are perfect, beautiful, and don’t need to ever change anything for an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 04:41 PM
2	It appears that women don't want men If you’re trying to argue that the reason women are attracted to tall men isn’t biological, you’re admitting something I don’t think you mean to be. The idea that attraction to height isn’t biological isn’t logically valid in this day and age, just as men’s (involuntary, biological) attraction to certain traits in women doesn’t make sense logically by todays standards. The idea that you’re deciding to be (logically) ridiculous regarding a trait that doesn’t hold biological water regarding a pote…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 02:23 AM
19	It appears that women don't want men But that’s the point, more and more, the average man isn’t IN a relationship. You’re putting the cart before the horse. Saying that women who are with men they like, seem to like those men isn’t really very profound, now is it? By definition, these men aren’t average if they’ve managed to be in a solid relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 02:07 AM
1	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? This question also pertains to overweight women specifically. Being a normal or underweight woman is at baseline way more attractive than just being a normal weight or skinny man. As a man, it’s more like you don’t have weight as a negative, but it’s not really a positive unless you have good tone, muscles, etc whereas just being not overweight is a huge boost for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 07:11 PM
2	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? Men absolutely do not care about what a woman makes, at least not directly. Now a days, the only reason a man might care is because he may feel apprehensive about potentially losing a lot to a woman who may not make much of they divorce at some point, or feel nervous about her potentially leaving him at some point if she makes more	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 07:05 PM
8	Have you ever tried look at dating from opposite sex's perspective, by making a fake account? Pic not there	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 04:56 PM
4	Chasing women is a waste of time. So that’s YOUR point of view. And that’s fine. If you want to look at men that way, you will live your reality and your mileage will vary based on that. Everyone is free to assume, but they only make things harder or easier for themselves. A man who doesn’t pay for your date has no correlation with raising children. You’re comparing completely different stages of a relationship, and it’s key, but you do you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 04:32 PM
3	Society handicaps men where women are trained to be independent. You have it backwards, I’m not making it about me I’m making it about YOU	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 03:43 AM
7	Society handicaps men where women are trained to be independent. Seriously, this is so ridiculous and tone deaf. It’s this exact brand of hypocrisy that is turning men off to society or women etc. Any time a women has a problem it’s so important and brave and bold of her to speak out, and anytime men have a problem it’s crying. Women act like society or men are to blame for everything and make these generalizations about men to justify their inequitable behavior, meanwhile complaining about lack of equality. There are no excuses. You communicate with prospect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 03:06 AM
2	What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to do Not true at all. Men, whether because of socializing, inherent biology, or some mix of both, very much care about strange women, doubly so if they are attractive. It’s hard to say how much of this hard, emotionally detached logic it would be healthy to dwell on, but that seems the simple fact that upsets men so much. Men are hardwired to want women, to care about them, to seek them out in a way that I just don’t believe women are, but perhaps worse than that, they also for the most part seem to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 11:40 PM
21	What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to do This is why dating apps suck so badly for men. I would say so much of a woman’s attraction to a man comes from things she can’t perceive from just pictures or even a few lines of text that it becomes what we see; next to impossible to be noticed. In order to really stand out in such a situation, you have to be really exceptionally physically attractive, which of course the average man is not	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 11:34 PM
2	is it just me or men sometimes prefer less feminine bodies? Baaaaaad example for many reasons. The last reason these women do this is because they are turned on by short men….	/r/AllPillDebate	06/02/23 04:56 PM
2	What's with the collective denial that women hate short guys? When you address the individual, rather than the issue, you’ve already lost the debate	/r/AllPillDebate	06/02/23 03:32 PM
17	Men who are 50/50, how do you plan to compensate for child birth? I think maybe this was supposed to be a contextually minded comment. Ostensibly, a man who loves his partner and had a mutually wanted child with her, would never hesitate to provide. This is obviously not really applicable to the sadly massive amount of accidental, unwanted, or even maliciously created children :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 02:21 PM
1	It's exhausting to make female friends No, because it’s genuinely not why I would want a female friend. What I’m trying to explain like many others is that for most men it’s easy to accidentally fall for your female friends which then makes things awkward or even painful	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 08:50 PM
1	It's exhausting to make female friends Because women are different? Because they are not biologically programmed to see males the way men are programmed to see females? Because we have different hormones and they play a huge role in attraction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 08:33 AM
1	It's exhausting to make female friends Why is there usually one person just like you in these threads, who despite numerous attempts by people to explain something, just obstinately refuses? I think the eternal issue of men and women thinking and feeling differently about things is perhaps on display here. The issue isn’t that we don’t all see and feel the same way, the issue is that we can’t empathize with each other, can’t seem to accept that just because we see things one way, doesn’t mean it works that way for the other group or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 08:31 AM
2	It's exhausting to make female friends Second this, most men myself included can easily be attracted to 60-70% of women, especially if you account for getting to know them and finding out they have an awesome personality. Because the ironic reality is most men have a very low looks threshold, and any positive traits beyond looks can send a girl flying past the attraction point	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 08:25 AM
1	Why is MensRights an automatic bar to some forums? I don’t see anything about said bots. Can you expand on this? Which bots are these?	/r/MensRights	22/11/22 01:38 PM
7	Single Men vs Single Women Both the “seasoned bachelor” and milf labels usually refer to people in the 35-55ish age groups. Both men and women above that age are very rarely seen in any kind of romantic light by anyone, except for extremely exceptional cases (William Shatner, Christie Brinkley, etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 08:01 PM
1	CMV: Women should never have casual sex I’m not understanding here. If you sleep with someone, and it’s good and you guys get along well enough to form a relationship, how is this bad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 05:15 PM
20	CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do? I am a 35 year old man, and on occasion I feel the need to simply be heard and/or understood. Maybe most men don’t, maybe just some don’t, maybe you don’t. But at least some of us do. It is absolutely helpful to us. And while I never get upset when offered advice (not really sure why anyone would be at someone trying to help) it’s not primarily what I was after	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 08:35 PM
4	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? It's entirely clear that you're completely missing the point, No one here is saying that because it's normal it's good. But it IS extremely common. And there are so many factors at play here. It's not as simple as antisocial kids = bad parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 04:32 AM
1	why aren't open relationships more popular? There is no definitive answer to what our nature “really is”	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 09:40 PM
1	why aren't open relationships more popular? Being small minded is a terrible look for anyone. You sound very young though	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 09:38 PM
2	why aren't open relationships more popular? Treating people who enjoy monogamy like they have some sort of issue that needs to be resolved is ridiculous. Maybe you should look inside yourself and find out why people not sharing your point of view is so offensive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 09:35 PM
9	Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way around You’ve proven the OPs point! Women are rarely willing to give an inch, but if and when you do, said man will be more than willing to give you 5-7 inches in return	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 01:59 AM
1	What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappiness If any of this pertains to the common arguments around here about women and inflated standards, I think for most of us there’s a misinterpretation here. Some, most, of us? are NOT saying a women or anyone should be forcing themselves into a relationship with someone they don’t find attractive. I think the real issue is people, women, not giving people a chance to show them what kind of person they even are. You can’t judge someone you didn’t even spend time with and so many these days will find …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 02:27 AM
3	What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile. Sounds like maybe you need therapy for something unresolved?	/r/MensRights	20/10/22 04:06 PM
6	What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile. What a shit take, man. If two people are mutually happy shacking up just based on physicality, there’s nothing wrong with that	/r/MensRights	20/10/22 04:05 PM
4	Apple being sexist against men Ah, so you DID get it, but decided to act like an idiot anyway? Nice	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 07:57 PM
3	Apple being sexist against men How ridiculously tone deaf are you? The entire point the op tried to make went over your head	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 07:38 PM
8	CMV: Men are no longer the "prize" by default due to the rapidly changing landscape of womens' rights and equal pay, and they're now having to be equal partners and hate they it. What are you talking about? How would you lead with anything discussed here when it’s next to impossible to even get most women to talk to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 04:41 PM
2	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? No, they are not treated the same. A woman, again with the stipulation that abortion is accessible, always have the ultimate say in whether they have kids or not. You can argue that abortion is a consequence, but I would absolutely argue that it’s not nearly as serious as child support for 18+ years is. There is always going to be some inequality but is much much much rather be able to have an abortion, a right only a women has. Modern medical science has made abortions largely affordable, quick…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 07:23 PM
1	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? Women say that asking to go halfsies on a date kills romance. What will they say when presented with a legal form??	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 04:05 PM
8	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? But that's not what they said at all.... a woman has the choice of being a mother or not, provided she lives in a place where abortion is accessible, which is a stipulation of this whole discussion. So she is not forced to raise any child. Total equality is simply not possible in this way biologically, but per feminism, we should strive for as close to as possible. So both the man and woman should be able to have a say in whether they are a parent or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 08:27 PM
0	Are women happy with the current state of dating? Bro please just call it a cunt, you can say bad words on the internet. No need to sugarcoat it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 07:19 PM
2	“Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill Maher You completely lost me at your assumption rather than finding out his thoughts 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 11:30 PM
3	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? You have my respect and thanks for that	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 05:56 AM
4	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? How is any of this not okay, but forcing a man in the same situation (accidental unwanted pregnancy) to support that child, sometimes without even a right to see it? All abortion should be legal, including financial abortion for men who opt out	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 05:28 AM
0	Women always want something new with one man; men always want the same thing with someone new Perhaps showing them things so any of us have learned through time, pain, and experience is also trying to save them some time and hurt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 06:54 PM
-2	as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship. There are psychopaths out there, surely. But is it fair to try to use that as some kind of talking point against all men everywhere? Come now	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 03:52 AM
1	If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones? Ridiculously granular and nitpicky much with the language break down? Lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 06:11 PM
1	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? You don’t know me and yet you already think you know my situation. I’m not a poor socializer, though I may be average in looks. I’m not some red piller, I don’t believe in alpha males. None of that matters. Womens standards are through the roof to such a degree they will not entertain the idea of getting to know the average guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 07:28 PM
1	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? Take your strawman elsewhere. You’ve created a situation not related at all to my point. I’m not looking for anything beyond my stature; single mothers with good personality who aren’t looking for a handout is about the floor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 07:25 PM
0	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? If you think I’m pulling stats out of my ass do the research. It’s constantly linked across this subreddit. It is very much a changing society issue, and it is hurting both sexes in the dating world. Depression and loneliness are up across the board	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 07:23 PM
4	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? No, this is simply not the case. I used to be able to get dates, I have a kid. I'm no incel. Things have changed in the last few years, and even decent guys can have insane trouble getting any kind of attention or a chance to show who they are. Girls ignore 80% of men right off the bat	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 04:31 AM
2	Do men in general envy women? Actually it has nothing to do with my penis. Not that you would care, but I’m looking for a relationship, which if anything is even harder to find than casual sex these days	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 09:54 PM
2	Do men in general envy women? Look, feel free to disagree but shrugging off social pressures and norms is no easy thing, especially for so many desperate men who have an uphill battle trying to be loved or respected or appreciated. If you’re a woman, I definitely don’t expect you to understand it because it comes so much more easily and “freely” for the most part	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 07:33 PM
1	Do men in general envy women? Not exactly. Men make those choices in hopes of becoming seen as good enough to “earn” a relationship or sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 07:20 PM
4	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL I love how often people respond with these immediate strawman put-words-in-your-mouth arguments. Nowhere did he say women should put out on the first date! Or even the first month. He said if you are holding out, which usually means more than the average of a few weeks or so, which I think most men in most situations are totally understandable about. Past that point many lose interest because by then you should know how you feel and things should be progressing and if they are not it’s a huge re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 12:44 PM
1	Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned' What happened to the first beautifultomatillo??	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 10:31 PM
8	Discussion: Pill people, do you want a homebody? Your post made me wonder if you were either very young, very wealthy, or just worked very boring easy jobs. But this attitude confirmed the young and immature part. Everyone has different interests and hobbies and if you can find someone who is compatible with you in that way it’s a beautiful thing. It is certainly not a waste of life if you enjoy it, and more so if you can share it with someone. On the subject of art like movies, music, etc half of the fun is discussing the themes, meaning, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 07:11 PM
1	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? That’s very crass. I’m not antisocial, but between my job, school, and my daughter, I have very little time to try and go out. Many people are in similar situations	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 02:52 AM
2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? This is a luxury not everyone, most often men, can afford :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 11:19 PM
2	Why do people love shitting on men? 🤣🤣	/r/MensRights	29/07/22 02:28 PM
2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? There is this incredibly vague and nebulous means of attraction women often cite, where it’s not just looks but it is to some extent. And then again it varies in what women you ask. So I’m not saying date someone you find ugly. But women often say “He was cute, he has a lot going for him but I just didn’t get the tingles”. That’s the “give him a bit more time” or “give him a better chance” situation I’m referring to. Sometimes people take a few dates to warm up and become who they are when they’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 01:49 PM
3	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? I’m not ugly, but pretty average looks wise. I’m not obese, but I am 15lbs or so overweight (thanks Covid/pandemic!). I have a slight OCD, but nothing I let affect major things in life. But on the plus side? I have a fantastic career, I own my house, I’m very very good with money and I’m generous where it’s warranted. I’m far from a social butterfly, but I like people and get along with nearly everyone. I am open minded, fair, honest, and I genuinely want the best for those around me. I try real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 05:17 AM
1	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? I don't know where you're getting that; I wonder if you bothered to read what I wrote here or elsewhere in the thread. Trust me, like many others I know exactly how little the interests and affections of men mean to the average woman. They often make it abundantly clear, even when we attempt to surmise the most polite, inoffensive, and respectful way to approach them. As a man openly and honestly just looking to find way to approach women outside of apps, which are toxic and miserable for 95% of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 11:28 PM
1	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Unless there are flashing neon red WARNING SIGNS, this is a silly thing to worry about. This sort of speaks to what I mean; women seem to over analyze, become hyper critical, and make snap judgments before they even speak to most men. That’s what we wish would stop	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 09:50 PM
1	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? What are you talking about? I don’t know what you mean by your statement about my hypothetical example	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 07:25 PM
1	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? This is ridiculous. Seeing a cute girl and wanting to get to know her to see if there could be anything there =/= “just wants to fuck her” that’s you attaching your own baggage to the situation. Not all men feel this way, not even most Id say and the real travesty is the kind of guys who do only want to fuck don’t care what you think and are happy to openly flirt or ask you out as it’s all a numbers game to them but a decent guy often feels too much concern that he’d be crossing a boundary or of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 05:52 AM
2	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? But that’s just it, that’s how he would be able to get to know you. That’s the whole point! How can he already know you enough to ask you out if he doesn’t know you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 05:49 AM
3	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? “Have a reason to ask you out” so what exactly does this mean? If I see an attractive women somewhere that I have never met, and I’m interested, what reason could I possibly have without having spoken to her? Or is that what you’re suggesting, that it’s never appropriate to ask out a girl you haven’t already been fortuitous enough to have had a reason to speak to previously?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 05:47 AM
40	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I think most men simply wish (as fruitless as it may seem) that women would understand that when they say "There are no decent men, nobody wants a relationship" etc, it's often offensive to the chunk of guys who never even get a chance to present themselves as that kind of man. Whether you think it's reasonable or not, many men are dismissed very quickly if not instantly, and sometimes it's really silly. Social media/online dating has seemingly exacerbated this to the point that you get all the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 05:37 AM
–	Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively dating You’re deflecting, while essentially agreeing with what he said. You keep making this about sex and nowhere is it mentioned or the point. Many men are sick of women who do what he said; expect expensive dinners/dates/gifts and large efforts before they even know each other while simultaneously showing little to no effort of their own. Please notice I haven’t said that effort has anything to do with sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 01:38 AM
2	Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively dating You touched on something I feel is so hypocritical about the way men and women are viewed and judged. If a woman is pregnant, or on her period, society often excuses her/is more lenient in judging her actions because of her “wild hormones”. But then men who are every bit as susceptible to their own hormones are demonized, called dogs, are told they should be able to listen to their brain rather than their dicks, etc. This is absolutely not to say that inappropriate behavior is ever excusable. I’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 01:33 AM
13	Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively dating Then who was it directed at? This is nonsense. Most men I know myself included don’t want a meek, submissive woman who stays quiet. There may be men like that, but it’s not a talking point anymore, most men aren’t like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 01:23 AM
1	Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’ It’s not bad though. You can take a dumb take and make it your focus, or you can focus on men who don’t have dumb takes 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 04:08 PM
2	If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap. Lol you are just so determined to ignore the point he’s making and insert your own strawman here. Nothing he said is against equality, stop trying to derail	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 07:21 PM
2	THE NUMBER 1 REASON YOU LOOK LIKE A CREEP I want no part in another entitled little girl who thinks it’s my job to “lead her to exciting things”. If you can’t take initiative and find happiness in your own life and are always bored and think it’s my job to entertain you, you can piss right off.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 01:24 AM
2	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy If you have what, 5 minutes with someone (speed dating) pretty hard to really know anything about their personality	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:38 AM
1	What is the appeal of submission in women? I’ve been with people who were like you described, and while it may stem from being overly submissive for some, in my cases it was more like they just expected you to know what they wanted and if you had to ask or bring things up they thought you were deficient in some way 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 05:36 PM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? This is such a sad and broad brush to paint with. A dominant partner in a situation with a submissive partner where he or she takes care of a lot of the responsibility in the relationship simply does not want their partner to be an additional source of stress, upset, having to argue etc. they want them to be their peace, to help them decompress and escape their other sources of challenge in life. This is not laziness or funny or sad, it makes perfect sense. In my last major relationship, I worke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 01:40 PM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? It’s the opposite. A submissive PERSON won’t nag and complain, they will respectfully bring up things that bother them and try to discuss them with you in a calm and helpful way, whereas dominant people are far more likely to start an argument when they don’t get their way	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 01:32 PM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? Where did he say anything to that effect? I didn’t catch him say all men/all women, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 01:31 PM
1	What is the appeal of submission in women? Seriously? What are you competing for in a relationship in this context? Have you been in one?? POWER/CONTROL is what you are competing for, what everyone is usually fighting over in arguments. Women love to say they want a man who plans the dates, tells them when to be ready and what to wear, etc. This is submission, whereas most men don’t have this desire from women most of the time. They like to plan and set up, and the woman likes to follow. There are shades of this but it’s so easy to see t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 01:29 PM
2	What is the appeal of submission in women? Dude YOU are the one refusing to get it, your question was already answered repeatedly. And they are not getting defensive, you’re being pushy and trying to force a false narrative, and stretching REALLY hard to not comprehend. Like the other person said, kudos to kinhk for having so much patience with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 01:25 PM
2	Majority of American Men Fear Being Deemed “Creepy” According to New Research Whoah whoah whoah, check your toxic masculinity bro! You’re over here APPRECIATING a woman? Did you even ask for her consent first!?? /s	/r/MensRights	18/06/22 07:58 PM
1	What exactly is a "Low value man"? What we’re largely seeing is what you’d expect to hear from about 90% of women in response to OP’s question; unkind, insensitive, low motivation, broke, unambitious, emotionally out of touch, no life goals, poor personal care and etc etc etc. But I think the real essence of most questions of this kind are, why am I having trouble with women and/or how can I improve (with concrete instructions) and the problem is, at least in my experience, there is no concrete answer with women. With us men, it’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 07:31 PM
1	Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not? What is UMC?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 07:14 PM
1	Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves? I don’t know what it’s like to look at dudes profiles, as a straight man, but women catfish all the time. But it’s never been anything to do with their teeth. It’s hard to imagine this would be a particular and common enough occurrence as to warrant worrying about not seeing someone’s teeth. It’s also not something anyone can hide at all in person, so there’s nothing worth	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 04:15 PM
2	Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves? How is not smiling "hiding something"? The fuck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 04:30 AM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Nobody said that anywhere. Nobody! You’re arguing a point that has nothing to do with the discussion	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 04:20 PM
10	Unattractive Women I’m so so sorry you feel this way about men. Please remember that anytime you look at something like an online forum, you’re getting a very vocal slice of a specific kind of community. I frequent these forums, and I agree with many points other men here have, but I do not view women as evil, greedy sex objects or whatever it is they portray most women as. I think we both have our struggles and I wish this space was more utilized to find mutually beneficial solutions	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 02:48 AM
8	Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline? You did a wonderful job of further explaining this issue. This is exactly how so many men feel. Unwanted, unneeded, uncared for. It really destroys us	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 04:52 AM
1	So are “opening lines” played out at this point? But that’s just it. You’re not talking about looking at carbon copies of the same person, you’re talking about throwing out 4 of the 5 cover pages because they were in the same font. This whole “that’s the way it’s always been sorry” is just completely wrong. Men don’t sit here and tell women they have to sit at home barefoot and cook/clean/raise kids “because that’s just the way it is” and if they did they would be mocked and cursed by any woman with half a spine, and justly so. Do you not see …	/r/seduction	06/06/22 03:46 AM
1	So are “opening lines” played out at this point? I’m not one in a million, and I’m not pretending to be. Im also not looking for one in a million. I’m a solid, genuine, caring person and I never enter a conversation thinking “This is bullshit and I don’t actually give a fuck how this person is doing”. What a jaded fucked up way to look at things. But also, fuck off with this “don’t you wanna be special” nonsense. This is such a stupid thing to say, especially if it’s coming from women, who literally always use “hi” and nothing else, and usuall…	/r/seduction	06/06/22 02:00 AM
-3	Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline? I’m not going to argue with you over semantics. That’s the lowest class deflection there is, I mean come on. At least make a genuine effort to ignore what I’m trying to say lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 12:00 AM
6	Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline? No, you’re overstating your point. Men aren’t quitting their jobs, and deciding to live at home. That’s not how it works. Almost nobody wants to live at home regardless. Many men are forced to be at home because they can’t afford to live alone. Many men can’t “afford” to do many things with their time or energy that “most” women require, so they decide to give up trying because the fight is uphill and not guaranteed to even pay off. So they do what they need within those limits to find what happ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 11:57 PM
-3	Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline? Do you even read before you respond? Nowhere did I say any of what you’re attacking. I didn’t say most men, or half of men, or even 33% of men. I am a man. If you want to get mathematical about it, I have no idea what percentage of all men I am. I also don’t know what percentage of all men all the men in my life have been that are what I am talking about. I am simply saying, there are men, a good amount of them, who are willing to play this game many many ways, even ways women claim they want to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 11:48 PM
0	Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline? How do we know women don’t care? They outright tell us how we feel is wrong, they lie about their feelings and motivations, they deny facts about dating when they are given, the list goes on. But perhaps the most irritating are when they claim there are no good men, and then when pressed define good men in either ways that are easily proven to be outrageous or in ways that are too nebulous to be quantified. Either of these things are fine, by the way, if they are honest about them and don’t deni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 11:07 PM
-1	Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline? Lmao! Okay, so then you go tell all those women out there who don’t cook, don’t want to do most of the chores, are overweight, that don’t make good money, but only date fit, tall, high income, 8+ looks men with paid off homes how sexist all of that is. Women on paper love to talk about equality, no gendered expectations, etc but then demand men do everything traditionally expected of them. This is exactly why so many of us check out! Women want it both ways but never admit to it, and instead pla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 10:57 PM
12	Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline? This simply is not the case. The issues men have with relationships do push them towards checking out, you have it backwards. Plenty of men struggle to have a good job, house, etc but even the men who do have these things report having the same issues. Women ARE much more fickle, distrusting, and unwilling to give most men a chance these days. There are numerous causes but to say men have changed and women have not is hilariously disingenuous	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 10:27 PM
4	will the Gym help his dating life? What does “Indian girl” have to do with anything??	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 09:27 PM
1	So are “opening lines” played out at this point? I guess they are never interested then. 90% of women’s profiles literally say “If you say hi I will ignore/block you” “Looking for someone who knows how to actually have a conversation” etc etc. Personally I agree, just starting with hello, I’m X, how are you doing, should be a good START. Obviously if you can’t develop a conversation beyond that it’s a problem, but women always freak out about hi’s and hello’s, despite those being normal, sane ways to greet someone you don’t know 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	05/06/22 08:56 PM
3	Florida 50/50 equal shared parenting bill still with Gov. DeSantis, Florida bar fights against it. I think this isn’t up to date. I’m in Nevada and the presumption and goal here is split custody. You have to basically be homeless, jobless, and/or have a serious drug problem to lose half custody	/r/MensRights	04/06/22 11:07 PM
2	As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't serious I’m not sure many of us are arguing against what you’ve said, the challenge is how do you meet this kind of women out and about? So many of us have little time or energy to devote to hunting for that person, and oftentimes we hear women tell us we should never be out looking in the first place. It feels like online is the only acceptable place to be looking, and it is also the only place where it’s nearly impossible to show off good personality traits before you’ve passed the high looks bar 🤷🏻‍♂…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 07:38 PM
4	Why are some people's mating psychology more similar to the opposite sex? I’m just curious, why would stoicism be negative?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 04:26 AM
13	This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER have I am sick and tired of hearing this rhetoric. We are NOT all dogs just looking to fuck! The fact that most women make this assumption is infuriating. Many of us are after the SAME things you claim to be, so enough with this blanket nonsense	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 08:29 PM
1	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. I have split custody, half the week I have my daughter. I am 35, and I look for women from about 25-40. I am absolutely not opposed to dating a woman with a kid. Multiple kids is probably too much for me, but one is fine. I understand it’s not easy, and I don’t expect it to be. I just feel like it’s exceedingly hard, so like many men it gets tempting to lose hope. I am not sour or resentful though, I never treat women poorly or come in with preconceived negativity etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 11:47 PM
1	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. I kind of have, in various ways over the years. I’m not a super private person and it’s not like I shared anything incriminating… I just struggle to find a good long term partner, like many of us. I’m a pretty humble guy, I’m not showy and I don’t brag, but I feel like I’m in a very good spot, I’m not a model but I don’t think I’m ugly, I have a fantastic job, a nice car and house, and I’m friendly, open minded, very conscientious of my partners, needs, communication etc etc. So I just wonder ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 05:12 PM
1	Why are some people content with sexlessness? Sure, but there are plenty of examples of women treating all men as an inherent threats if not outright villains 🤷🏻‍♂️ It is the reason why if I go to the park with my daughter many of them will give me the look and scrutiny a mother would never receive. If you look online there are plenty of examples of men being attacked or accused of wrong doing simply for existing in certain spaces or situations	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 02:41 PM
1	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. I dunno why you can’t see them but I sent 4 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 02:36 PM
1	Another child dead after courts grant full custody to the mother even when social workers expressed concerns about her mental health As a single father with split custody, I am both grateful I had no trouble but also so deeply saddened and infuriated by this story. I can't imagine what that father must be feeling. There will never be justice for this	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 06:33 AM
0	Why are some people content with sexlessness? The problem is, as I see it at least, women generalize ALL of us based on those experiences. Even if 20% of men are uncouth enough to do the terrible things described above thats more than enough to make women feel objectified and creeped out, that’s enough that they will start to feel that all men are this way. The vocal minority usurps the polite and quiet majority. If one in five guys is this guy, you won’t notice the other 4 most of the time. I can’t say I have much of an answer other than t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 02:36 AM
1	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. ..? I did send messages, you never responded to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 05:04 PM
1	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. So much for that lol 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 02:13 AM
2	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. I can’t tell if you’re being serious or not but I am always open to fair criticism, advice, and discourse	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 10:09 PM
4	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. I’m 35, open to dating anyone from about 25-40. I don’t think the range is any issue. And when women talk about men being creepy, it’s often too vague to actually mean anything. Stalking, being perverted, unwarranted advances etc are one thing. But one womens romance is another’s creepy behavior, depending on whether she likes the guy or not. In any case, I am consummately polite and cautious whenever it comes to meeting new women, so… I would really hope being “creepy” has nothing to do with me	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 10:07 PM
6	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? This completely misses the point. Even if men and women were exactly the same in this regard (and they aren’t, sorry to rain on your parade but it’s far more complex than that), the situation itself is largely to blame. If we flipped it around and suddenly women were lusting after most men, then men would get picky and fickle etc.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 08:58 PM
2	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. If men who wanted a long term relationship and kids with the support system for said family in place were rare and in demand, then people such as myself wouldn’t have such a hard time finding a match. It usually takes me 6 months to a year to get a handful of matches, and usually if I’m lucky, one of those might suit me. And then it’s still of course a crap shoot on whether we’re compatible at a deeper level	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 12:47 PM
0	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? As I clarified, I don’t think basic life skills are crazy impressive. But you can’t have it both ways; women constantly complain that most men don’t have any domestic skills or are too lazy, so when I say look, I see why that would be frustrating, and I am not like that, I have those skills and am willing to do my share and then some, you are so quick to tell me how that don’t mean anything etc…. Like okay…. I don’t know what to tell you. Pretty poor way to act	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 04:37 PM
1	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? Well, I'm not every man. And if you've put up with it, that's on you but there are guys out there not looking for a maid/mother/babysitter in their partners. And if you think because I take pride in pulling my share I somehow have a bullshit attitude.... lol that doesn't even make sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 05:12 PM
1	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? Anything online can be fickle and easy to misinterpret at best. I don't mean to say (like some "nice guy") that being a regular, average, decent person means I deserve a relationship or sex or anything really. It's just frustrating that it has become so hard. Being an average guy or even just above average ( and I swear I'm not tooting my own horn here, I don't have any of the behavioral issues so many people have, I always treat people with respect, generous etc etc and to have any kind of actu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 01:25 PM
1	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? You’re moving the goal post here, so to speak. Nowhere did I say I was some fantastic guy because I can do basic adulting. I was talking about an issue in which I was better by relation to what women often complain about. Do I think doing chores and taking care of my house and life are some kind of amazing feat? No. And again nowhere did I say so. I was only saying this complaint seems ridiculous to me because there are many perfectly capable and willing men who will do their share of chores, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 12:30 PM
2	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? I guess at the end of the day this is just my anecdotal take. But I am a guy who makes good money, has a very friendly, calm, patient, open minded and eager to please attitude towards my partner. I communicate well, I do more than my share of housework because I’m used to living alone, and I even cook. On paper, shouldn’t I be an amazing catch? But I guess being a 6.5 or a 7 on my best day looks wise means I can’t catch a break. I dunno…. But it sure is maddening hearing women constantly complai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:59 AM
0	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? Seriously, this is such a shit attitude and a shittier thing to say. Negative, depressing, poisonous take. There are good and bad people out there, and the ones you choose to spend your time with are your problem, not literally every member of a genders’	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:54 AM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Sometimes I can’t help but feel people here are arguing over things that are just too personal. This is the kinda thing where you and your partner just need to work it out and come to your own agreement. Just because some people do it a certain way doesn’t mean you have to. And you shouldn’t be with someone you can’t find a decent compromise on this with. Speaking purely for myself, every woman I ever dated made far far less than I did. And yet I still did the “majority” of the household work an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 05:56 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. If you are just going to assume that all people are acting in bad faith, you have some serious issues to work out before you attempt dating. It’s not gonna go well with that mindset 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 10:34 PM
2	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. …. Ahem, WHERE THE **** have you been? Most men here complain about not being able to even get a date/any attention. This is the gate keeping out all men regardless of intention. But, most of us want relationships. Most people are PEOPLE (men included!) and crave intimacy, companionship, and sex is just a portion of the drives we have. Stop acting like we’re all just out to hump and dump. God, it always comes back to this with women in online dating discussions. If you are seeing all men in this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 10:32 PM
9	I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men. This is so ridiculously ingenuine! There may be plenty of men out there like that, but as a man who always tries to present himself with well thought out, interesting and polite conversation as well as being well intentioned as far as wanting a relationship, not just to fuck everyone that moves, I still deal with the problems all men that aren't the top 10% deal with. Mostly invisible, and when the rare women does pay me any mind, it's often super low effort "wyd" type conversation	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:42 AM
3	What's your thoughts on the idea of a financial abortion? Also kevin Samuel's is dead, thoughts? By your own logic, parents who don’t want a child will likely raise a child who will become a burden to society anyway. This isn’t like somebody coming to your door and forcing you to pay additional fees, your taxes are what they are. It’s a silly argument. If that’s your take, you should be out there campaigning for living wages, better cause and the same point	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 09:34 AM
2	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. You know, I started to respond to this with something derisive. I didn’t agree, how I was having trouble dating. But then I thought about something a second. I’m not an incel. I even have a daughter. In fact, I have had mostly steady sex from the time I lost my virginity at 20, until just a few months ago when I stupidly attempted to reconcile once again with the mother of said child. I guess I don’t really know if you’re right or wrong about incels. But I’ve been moderately successful, at least…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 06:53 PM
7	Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most. Gee, thanks, this was both enlightening and helpful. You sound really pleasant to be around yourself….	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 04:30 AM
7	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. Is this supposed to be a rebuttal to what was said? Don't generalize men (or anyone really, that's not cool). Some people, men or women, might do this, and both men and women who do are assholes. This is in no way a counter to what Abbreviations was trying to say	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 05:42 AM
1	Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more Someone is really living in a Disney fantasy land… and it’s so sad to see	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 10:30 PM
0	If you were a woman, how would you get a date with a man? What if I don't want friends? Why is it always about "making friends"? Many of us are so busy in our lives that we don't have time to go make tons of new friends, yet somehow (imagine, if you will!) we still want a partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 09:49 PM
0	Playboy model says she’s too beautiful for love: ‘Men are scared to date me’ I’m sorry, but if someone like this is struggling to find love, it just reinforces the idea that maybe women should take some agency in their love lives and quit waiting on everything to be handed to them. She could likely have nearly any guy she wanted, but never asked anyone? Why… could it be she feared rejection? How ironic!	/r/seduction	16/04/22 01:41 AM
3	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Whether you think this simply is the case or not, I want to know, do you think it’s right? That’s it’s okay? Men suffer in silence all the time and break down inside, until they can no longer. This isn’t healthy. Even if you think it’s the way it is now, don’t you think it should be changed, that we should try to progress in this? I assume you’re also a man, but if not please say so	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 02:45 AM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection None of what I was saying was intended to be an insult, just maybe a wake up call. Not that you’d care for the plight of the opposite sex most likely. I was using what you were saying to that other person as an example to explain what the dating scene writ large is like for men. You might be an exceptional person, or not. But that’s besides the point I was trying to make. And you happened to help my point. You immediately deflected into this “well of course I’d have to meet them and see if we ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 07:04 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection No, actually, that’s not what I’m doing at all. I don’t know you, and I have no idea what you are like. None of this is about you, it’s about men and women in general. If you want to personalize it to make a strawman argument, okay, have a nice day. The cowards door is right that way 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 06:18 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Okay, come on. Are you trolling? You’re here in purple pill. You must know the ups and downs here, right? Men are upset because dating can be lose lose if you aren’t in the top 20% or more in attractiveness. Women don’t want you to approach them in public, but then you also have no chance in OLD either. Women think they are all worthy of the “chad”, tall, fit, smart, handsome, etc regardless of what they themselves bring to the table. Social media / online dating ruined things and no one has rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:11 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Absolute deflection. This question was about a woman’s requirements. You literally get to choose the requirements, and yet that still isn’t enough. You don’t get to complain about generalizations regarding mens profiles when given the explicit opportunity to list your personal requirements. This is the point we’re making. If you ask men what they want, then present them with women who fulfill those requirements, they will accept most if not all of them. Even when given that chance, women will st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 10:41 AM
-1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Ah but this isn’t about getting along. You can’t know whether you get along or not by looking at pictures. We’re talking about initial attraction. You swipe left on tons of guys who fulfill the requirements you listed. Simple as that; you can’t know their personality up front.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 10:36 AM
7	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection The thing is, I’m sure we could show you a gallery of 100 men that meet or exceed all of those criteria and you’d likely not be interested in most of them. Show 100 men 1 woman that meets their requirements and you’d probably have 95% acceptance	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 11:44 PM
3	Questions for those who MGTOW / WGTOW Man’s nature is to care for and about what women think absolutely. Why do you think we (have to) work so hard just to gain any attention from them? It’s largely women who seem to be incapable of caring about men or their problems. Don’t get it twisted. You might be an outlier, but that doesn’t change the larger narrative society and WOMEN perpetuate	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 03:35 AM
3	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value I’m not arguing for or against any point made here, except to say that value is relative to who is judging it. A person can decide only the value they have to themselves, which has very little bearing on their value to others. This for example has a lot to do with women believing they are high value because of their income, or their intelligence, their independence etc when many men don’t value those things at all. Some do, but this is just my food for thought	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 08:43 PM
2	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? 100000% true. I think a large issue here is women act like they understand what things are like for men, and have no clue. I wish they would all watch that documentary we always mention around here where that lesbian tried being a man for awhile and was horrified at the reality of things on that side	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 09:34 PM
1	If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food? Definitely a miscommunication because it did in fact sound like you were saying you always pay. Of course with good friends I go back and forth on rounds, food, etc. It’s only the idea that you would always pay that didn’t make sense. And I never suggested that if a man does pay he’s entitled to anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 09:31 PM
18	If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food? Why would you pay if it’s platonic? Doesn’t this suggest that their time is worth more than your own or that just having a good time with you isn’t equitable? I don’t pay for all my platonic friends when we go hang out	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 12:37 PM
7	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? The reason some get annoyed isn’t individual, it’s on the whole. If it seems like an unnaturally large portion of women are happy to stay single because their expectations are perceived (notice that word, and understand that I’m not laying blame just explaining) as unreasonably high, then men who struggle to find relationships are understandably upset and feel it’s a social issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 08:30 AM
1	Question for BluePill - do you genuinely deny that women have a significant advantage, that men are regularly forced to settle below their SMV, and that women’s dual mating strategy and “the wall” exist? This is truly the woman’s privilege; it’s much much easier for them to accept being alone. Because most of them don’t need sex as validation of love and worth the way most men do, and they can still find social validation in friends and people in general in ways that are either much much harder for men or simply impossible for men. I don’t necessarily blame women for it, but it does exist and most women can’t/won’t empathize	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 09:57 PM
9	Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex? The thing is to most people sexual compatibility is a huge component of a relationship. Getting married before having sex is asking for trouble, especially for virgins who don’t even know what kind of sexual preferences they have. You wouldn’t make that kind of commitment to anything else before knowing what you were signing up for, so it should be an easy thing to understand	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 09:33 PM
0	What do you realistically bring to "the table"? The only problem is none of those things can be made apparent until after you pass every other metric. This is the boat I and I imagine many other men are in	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 08:15 PM
2	I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happiness I was completely on board with everything you said, except that you gendered it. Everything you said holds true for BOTH sexes. Women are just as likely to not find what they are looking for if they never lower expectations. That said, some people have fair expectations and many of us have higher than is warranted expectations. All of us should lower them, or accept that we might not find someone. There is nothing wrong with either approach, but it’s not just on men or women, this is a Human iss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 08:21 PM
3	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? I never said women, I said that attitude. It’s an attitude that some women possess, but it has nothing to do with labeling all women that way. I think language is important as far as intention is concerned; what other way do we have to interpret such things with people we don’t know? It’s easy to attach our own prejudices and judgements to the things other people say but I think it’s also important to remember to be open and not color other people with our experience. Just my opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 01:01 AM
3	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? Wow, you are toxic as fuck! Show me where I blamed women for anything? I simple said that this negative attitude towards men who are doing exactly what you’re talking about, and are just struggling with things, as human beings often do, doesn’t help anything. I don’t go around kicking people when they are down, why would you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 11:04 PM
0	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? How about the innate bias in the judicial system? How about overt discrimination and presumption of guilt in the eyes of law enforcement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 08:48 PM
3	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? Half the problem is this attitude that because men have been raised in a culture that pushes them to stuff their emotions up and not ever appear weak (one reinforced by many many women by the way) they deserve to be ridiculed and laughed at? What kind of sense does this make? Some of us are trying to improve and reflect and work in it but does it help when that struggle is exacerbated by this attitude? Thanks huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 08:46 PM
5	What is the point or purpose of having a hook-up? Maybe you’re not so bright, maybe you’re trolling, but honestly even if it’s more dangerous in relation, it’s not like it’s actually some super dangerous thing to do, as long as you’re taking basic precautions. Get to know the other person a little, watch for red flags or signs of strangeness, use protection, etc…. Pretty easy to have a perfectly safe and fun time with someone for the night	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 05:34 PM
1	What is the point or purpose of having a hook-up? Relationships are much much harder to find than hook ups. Trust me, there are plenty of us who would much prefer a long term relationship, but sex is a need for most people and if all you have a shot as is a hook up, it’s still better than nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 05:30 PM
3	TRP and FDS both seem to really hate men and women, yet they still want the very people they hate So what about men who require the kind of relationship where they can be vulnerable? You know, to be human? I guess the red pill says fuck those guys, they won’t ever be able to get a women or be successful dating hm?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 05:32 PM
1	Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing? Men are notoriously bad at reading indications of attraction, so it’s easy to feel like if you wait for something obvious you’ll never get anywhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 07:53 PM
1	Settling is one of the worst things you can do, next to cheating Wow, what an uncool thing to say	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 10:07 AM
0	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? I like how you’ve conveniently continued to miss the point (and the part where I said I agreed with her sentiment…) and tried to misconstrue it as me somehow being not understanding of the issue. This willful ignorance is what’s really telling here	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 03:58 AM
0	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? You’ve focused on the wrong part, friend. I’m not talking about that line, it’s the line “Some of us…” that is the insulting part. I’m sorry your rhetoric has been wasted lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 10:01 PM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I understand if someone is wearing clothes that are worn out, ripped, stained, sweats etc but if jeans and a t-shirt are a dealbreaker for you on an otherwise hygienic, shaved/cleaned person, that seems kind of overly picky. Is that a guy thing? I mean not at a wedding or something obviously but everyday life? Fuck you, I’d rather be comfortable 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:04 PM
4	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Don’t you realize when you insult people in a discussion you automatically lose all credibility or respect? You don’t have to agree with peoples points of view (I agree with her, by the way) but the fact that you have to insult other people because they don’t agree is just so immature and would make any mature participant ignore you 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 04:49 AM
1	What would you change about female sexuality? So, you get it then. Many men are sex starved	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 10:14 PM
1	What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship? Hold groups accountable? All men should be “held accountable” for being physically different than women? How is that doing anything wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 02:58 PM
6	What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship? This is the most absurd, sexist thing I’ve heard in awhile. So should society also offset the physical advantages strong men have over weak men? What about the advantages smart people have over dumb people? Does society owe those dumb people something? This is a ridiculous rabbit hole of an argument. Where is the logic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 02:54 AM
5	What level of female sexual selectivity and hypergamy is appropriate? I think for the vast majority of people, this absolutely hits the nail on the head	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:30 PM
6	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? You don’t have to accept it or agree, but no one is obliged to engage in arguing with you over what amounts to little more than semantics. When it’s not only held as a commonly accepted meaning, and then on top of that someone specifically tells you what they mean when they say it, you have effectively lost all of your ground to stand on. Arguing over already well defined meanings is a fruitless endeavor. Have a nice day	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 10:44 PM
7	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? Surely you can see that your argument is ridiculous. When anyone generalizes, it’s obviously reasonable to assume and understand they don’t literally mean EVERY SINGLE person of that type. It means Most, the Majority, 9 out of 10, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 09:24 PM
5	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? There are so many misconceptions here, from both of you. I’m a man, maybe a sensitive man, maybe an emotional man, but still a man. I work a manly job, I look fairly manly. But I am this way with people I count as close friends or family. Sometimes it’s a personality thing. I just need to vent sometimes, and it’s much like many woman use it as a way to decompress and build intimacy with someone, either on a relationship or personal level. I don’t do it with people who don’t appreciate or tolerat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 02:42 AM
2	Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman? “Living frugally” = lazy broke bums, according to many of these traditional women. It’s not often you’ll find someone who enjoys the idea of moving to some “rural” area in the middle of nowhere to try to scrape by on near minimum wage	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 11:22 PM
6	Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman? $15 an hour isn’t enough to support even two adults comfortably pretty much anywhere in America. The series of “dumb comments” you’re referring to are your own 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 10:29 PM
1	Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman? Not making enough to support you and himself is not lazy and broke! FFS the entitlement in the face of a no longer existent reality is appalling. Most women make more than men even do these days. The idea that every guy could, even if he wanted, to support a family by himself is laughable. This kind of attitude is why a lot of men don’t want anything resembling “traditional”. Not to mention that most women who want a traditional arrangement don’t even expect to fully hold up their end of the “tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 10:27 PM
3	Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience? Whether it exists or not is irrelevant. You don't get to use social conditioning as an excuse any more reasonably than a man could to say it was okay to catcall a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 07:48 PM
3	What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out? Your point doesn't really have anything to do with mine though. Obviously it's always worked this way. What has changed is the way we live our lives. Men no longer have some "innate" roles that might trigger this sort of attraction, is what I'm getting at. Which is in my opinion a piece of the greater picture that makes me feel like modern mating/dating is in a very broken place	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 07:34 PM
3	What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out? Would you agree that in modern society, it’s easy to see why this creates for so many men misunderstandings, depression, feelings of hopelessness, etc surrounding having relationships with women, especially outside flings and hook ups? If you ask a man what you need to do to become more attractive and captivating, he can tell you unequivocally. Lose weight, dress better, etc. But ask a woman, and every woman may give you a completely different answer. And on top of that, these answers are often …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 07:01 PM
1	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? Okay, well I’m sorry you have had such a negative experience somewhere along the line, but it’s never useful or clever to be so pessimistic. If you’re that jaded maybe just keep your tainted opinions to yourself. Also though, that doesn’t even really make sense in the greater context of the question 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 04:39 PM
1	If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun? The fact that you’re having such an intense emotional reaction to a simple inquiry shows some real inadequacy and/or insecurity issues on your part. Perhaps you should ask yourself why you have such a poor emotional mindset regarding this topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 07:04 AM
1	Men should never completely open to women. That’s not what men do, it’s what you do. And that’s an incredibly important distinction. If you feel best going about things that way, all the more power to you. But to suggest that other men aren’t actually men because they have a different perspective and different experiences is what is the real problem with varying philosophy	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 05:32 PM
12	Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you? You keep asking everyone what the difference is. Either you are incredibly naive or you’re trolling. I don’t know where you are located, but in most of the world marriage involves bringing the government and laws and regulations into your relationship, and many of us refuse to accept that as part of it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 12:48 AM
17	Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you? No, a partner for life doesn’t have to include marriage. There are plenty of reasons people have for not wanting to ever get married, but still want a partner for the rest of their life	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 12:44 AM
2	How much has losing weight impacted your dating life? What in the fucking fuck? 3.5k cal and LOSING? You have no clue how much some of us envy you assuming that’s true. I can eat like 1500cal and still can’t seem to drop weight, and I work in a place where I walk all day constantly as well as light lifting	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 06:02 PM
2	I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation. Nice try, secret 1%er 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 01:35 PM
9	Women promotions in corporate I don’t have enough time now to address this fully, but it’s easy to see how you have built up something in your head that you are prescribing to me. “You’re bringing up compensation from the get go” nowhere did I bring up any kind of compensation “What youre advocating for” nowhere did I advocate for anything you’re talking about You are filling in blanks here that don’t exist man. The only thing I was trying to say was you’re not serving “justice” for walking away without attempting to punish …	/r/MensRights	12/09/21 01:48 PM
18	Women promotions in corporate “ You can stand up for yourself without resorting to means like these “ So it’s better to ignore injustice and just walk away…? How is this victim mentality? If a company is abusing you, then they absolutely deserve to be punished	/r/MensRights	12/09/21 12:26 PM
8	Spousal Abuse Is Funny When It's Against Men. I’m going to go ahead and venture that if they are really this kind of person, they probably depend on their husband to take care of them financially so it becomes much harder for them to leave.	/r/MensRights	26/08/21 03:04 AM
3	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? But that’s not really true either. Not for many, maybe not even for most. In this day and age, I would think many men like myself don’t care about the physicality of their partner in relation to themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 05:28 PM
5	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? You went from asking a reasonable question to not listening to the answer. Many women here have been telling you the answer you are coming up with is not how they see it. If you’re not willing to actually listen to the nuance of the answer, why ask the question repeatedly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 05:25 PM
1	Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years! Whatever they had discussed and agreed on is another thing entirely; my statement is more a blanket "default" idea about stay at home parents and the whole marriage/alimony narrative overall. I would never get married, due to the way it works right now, at least not without some kind of iron clad pre-nup etc, but generally speaking, having the privilege of not having to worry about work and bills, to be able to stay home all or most of the time and care for your children shouldn't be seen as som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/20 08:09 PM
1	Marriage hits historically lows! Lowest Level in over 100 years! Doing all the home stuff? You mean all the home stuff that only has to be done because of the marriage/kids in the first place? If he wasn't ever married/didn't have kids in the first place, he'd be able to focus even MORE on that career. I can't agree with this logic. Like Pre-dental said, some alimony for a few years, to get back on her feet, sure. But anything past that is ridiculous	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/20 08:14 AM
1	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. I've heard of all places outside the US, Australia rates the highest for women being into American men. Hmmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 02:33 PM
1	How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her? As a man, this is also something I can’t help but think about a lot. I’ve had this discussion with my girlfriend in the past, since there are obviously few good ways to broach this subject with other women in my life, and her only answer was to say that she tries not to think about it as much as she can. But the reality is, pretty much anyone outside your immediate family can’t help but check you out to a certain extent. To think that your father in law, your boss, your best male friend, etc etc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/20 01:30 AM
1	Will women and men ever see eye to eye on this - not having sex immediately even though she has before Except that, wanting sex early doesn't mean that's all you want... these are not mutually exclusive ideas!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/19 09:26 AM
17	Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them. I’d love to see what you’d say to a guy who said that to a woman suffering pms...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/19 06:20 PM
1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? You don't even know what I am, racially. What does this have to do with it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/19 06:05 AM
6	Has men's standards of desired attractiveness in women always been so basic? Relationship standards are generally based on personality and demeanor, not looks. Unless you happen to be subhuman, in which case yes, a man will generally not want to be seen in public with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/19 03:12 AM
14	Has men's standards of desired attractiveness in women always been so basic? The reality is, evolutionarily, women want safety and support, and men want healthy and attractive women. Men, even if ugly, overweight, stupid, or just plain boring, can still improve their relationship situation by gaining wealth and status. But if you’re an unattractive girl, the there is very little you can do. On the flip side, becoming attractive is usually pretty doable. Just by being skinny you can gain a lot of points, so to speak. Being nice, having a good personality, that gains you p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/19 02:03 AM
1	PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives. I think you underestimate how much sex means to your average mans life lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/19 01:44 AM
2	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? But the complaint is that skinny women always want to date way above them. Being healthy weight is not enough to date a healthy weight woman, you must also be rich, or extraordinarily attractive, etc and so it’s not as simple as “be what you seek”	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 07:35 PM
2	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? I don’t doubt the truth in that. However, part of the point of this post is to highlight the fact that a normal weight girl, already hard to find, is doubly hard to date because she will hold herself to an unreasonable standard and date men way above her realistic level, leaving the rate healthy weight man stuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 07:28 PM
1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? Honestly, I’ve turned to just dating immigrants, especially those from outside the western world. There are insanely hot, fit, and most importantly, sweet and humble women not just looking to take advantage of you, without the western chip on their shoulder. I often joke that the 8/9 out of 10 girl I’m with right now would have never given me any chance if she were from the US	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 07:12 PM
3	What do most women fail to understand about men? What are you even talking about dude? What's bad, try to stop what? No one is over here advocating for refusing responsibility over themselves, saying cheating or fucking whoever you want whenever you want is okay because you can't help it, etc. No, the fact that I find women other than my partner attractive, and if my partner had no issue with it, partake in casual sex or whatever else is not bad. It doesn't make me a bad person. That's like saying the fact that when I'm around poorly behaved c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 05:13 AM
11	What do most women fail to understand about men? Say what you want, but every male friend I've ever had, and myself included, is incredibly attracted to other women. It's instinctual, it's hormonally driven, it's literally built into us and to deny this is to deny reality. The main thing that separates us Humans from animals is that we have a sense of reasoned morality, and I've never been tempted to cheat for that reason. But to act like you are above feeling attraction towards people outside your relationship.... I can't believe that's real …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 02:32 AM
4	Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart? What interests me more about this concept, is why on a biological level this idea of competition exists. We know why, biologically, men would feel the need to compete with each other over securing a mate, but for women that's not really biologically a thing, right? Because a man is generally more than happy to mate with all the women he can, biologically speaking. So where does this female notion of competition come from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/19 08:29 PM
3	Have Smartphones Destroyed a Generation? Increases in obesity and decreases in excerciss are the result of more technology. Sitting in front of screens all day instead of finding other ways to amuse yourself and socialize are the causes once again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/18 06:18 AM
5	Have Smartphones Destroyed a Generation? Generally, yes our day to day lives have never been easier or better. However, our awareness and subsequential anxiety over world issues, politics, global warming, feelings of being helpless in relation to most of these issues, etc can be extremely depressing	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/18 06:14 AM
5	Have Smartphones Destroyed a Generation? I dunno, I think that “depressive hamlet” goes by the name reality elsewhere. In any case, even if you disagree with him, there was no need to attack him. That only made your position appear much, much weaker. Doesn’t seem like it really bothered you all that much at all to be rude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/18 06:06 AM
1	Men want to be players not because it's their ideal lifestyle but because it is necessary to be noticed by women I think you're viewing this in a certain way that not all or even most people, let alone women, do. Women rarely say that, I believe, for the same reason I never would say that. Because being physically attractive isn't the most important thing to me, and I assume even most people. Women more so. I'd much rather have a cute girlfriend/wife who cared about me, was funny, had a solid personality, wasn't psycho, etc than have a smoking hot model-esque psycho-cunt who couldn't hold a job or friends …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/18 12:51 AM
2	Do you think it is easier or harder for a man dating in 2018? Maybe younger guys, and maybe less intelligent/mature guys, but I have to imagine there are plenty of guys like me, who want something more meaningful but women will rarely give us the time of day. Now, there very well could be something about me in particular that's a turn off, but ostensibly if they've seen what I look like, and don't mind enough to start chatting with me, why is it that within a few back and forths about work, life, goals etc they just go cold? It doesn't seem like there's en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/18 03:50 AM
2	Do you think it is easier or harder for a man dating in 2018? What is this "good conversation"? On dating apps, all I hear from women is they get swamped with obscene pics, or one note "hey dtf?" type responses. And yet, when I take the time to send a well written response, with proper grammar, 9/10 times I get ghosted within one conversation. What is it they are looking for, what is the magic response....	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/18 03:47 AM
1	Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sex I think whether we realize it or not is irrelevant. I don't structure society myself, of course, but we all ought to be told and taught that we are equal, and no one should do anything they don't want to do. I also believe sex is not inherently for men only, and there are plenty of women who love sex. I can understand your experiences and that's a shame, but not all women feel the same way and not all women have to have sex, for a relationship or for any reason at all really, if they ultimately …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/18 01:12 AM
0	Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sex If you don't feel right about it, don't have it. And more than that, maybe you should be upfront and mention that you don't enjoy it much to your prospective partner. That's assuming you don't like it much, which is just the vibe I've gotten. That way you'd immediately weed out some guys. Of course there are probably a few guys who will be acting whatever way they think you want so that they could get laid, but that's just part of dating. There are plenty of women who will pretend to be whatever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 11:21 PM
1	Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sex No, that's not right at all. Just because you slept with some "losers" doesn't mean all women will do that. And not all "losers" are the same anyhow; your losers might be someone else's winners. It's all subjective, the goal is simply to do and find what YOU want. It's not easy, sure but it's really not easy for most of us anyhow	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 10:57 PM
6	Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sex Why is premarital sex humiliating? I'm seeing a theme here I think. If you just don't like sex, then you need to find someone who also doesn't care much for sex. If you're having to have sex to get a relationship, you're setting yourself up for failure from the get go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 10:55 PM
1	Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sex I'm just not sure I understand this at all. If you thought they were ugly, why would you want to date them, let alone sleep with them? Everyone has minimums they need to feel happy about dating someone, but those minimums aren't always easy to find, hence the general dislike for dating so many have. If you enjoy dating, as a man or woman, you're probably outwardly above average attractive, and have an easy time finding dates. I think most of us don't have it so easy	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 10:52 PM
4	Why American men are getting less marriageable - Article Taking care of your kids is purposeless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 10:50 PM
4	Are sexual assault allegations preventing young men from developing the appropriate assertiveness that women find attractive? What makes you think this? I’m not sure as a woman you could understand the thinking of younger gen men. No offense	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/17 10:13 PM
1	Canadian Actress claims little boys should be taught to paint their nails, wear pink, and play with dolls. Also claims women shouldn't have to say no during sex. No, this is not the case. If you feel that way fine, but don't generalize for everyone. Being addressed as Young Man (I'm 30, and from 5-now this is always acceptable, when the person addressing me is older than myself) is not inherently condescending. It CAN be used that way , but is often used positively as well. It often does simply acknowledge that a younger person's energy, strength, or flexibility is required as opposed to the older person's abilities who was asking for assistance, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/17 07:45 PM
3	Do men genuinely not understand that, for women, having some guy who wouldn't been seen in public with you dump a fuck into you isn't some great thing? Why is it integral that a guy have non-sexual female friends? For my own part, I find it incredibly hard to have a relationship with a girl, and not begin to find her attractive, if even only because she's smart or interesting, etc. The things that I seek in friends, make me attracted when they are women, so it's easier not to have female friends. Otherwise it's a distraction	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/17 06:54 PM
1	CMV: Women initiate divorce because they're stressed from juggling a career and household duties I feel like this is an issue that any one, man or woman, could have avoided by communicating. And not all men or woman are a certain way. I happen to make more than my girlfriend, and do way more chores than she does around the house. But it's something that we have acknowledged and worked out, and agreed to certain terms on. If you didn't do that, you've earned whatever fate comes your way. Just my opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/17 07:08 PM
3	Remember the woman that freaked out on the couple for kissing? You answered your own question. I don't think most anti-feminists are actually trying to say they are against equality or anything, rather they are against the radicalism you tend to see on the internet. And can you blame them? Also, why feminism and not humanism?	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/04/17 05:54 PM