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I don't know about this argument. I feel like it comes up a lot, but its always framed like every teenage boys value system is 100% based off sex. I was largely motivated by sex, but for me, getting laid felt more like selling out than not. If i wanted to get laid I felt like I had to exhibit qualities that were against my values at times. Like take the example of a guy getting a social circle of girls who were vegetarian. I feel like everyone is quick to say he would only be vegetarian to get l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:14 PM
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I think that is a possible explanation, but I do think its quite possible he does really think they are losers or that other women arent that attractive. I think people in LTR can obviously be out of touch, but I think single people can also have this fault when they get caught up in chasing people too much. I think people approach love/sex in enough different ways that its not really valuable to assume all single people act one way or all people in relationships are another. I also think when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:33 PM
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Like video games, many refuse to admit it has any effect on them whatsoever, cause admitting your favourite pass times could have influence over you is controversial I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:08 PM
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Really? My take is that PPD is convinced masturbating limitless videos of women having their brains fucked out has zero impact on a person. I guess im on the oppisite side of the argument though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:56 PM
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Yes! Thank you, people have such a hard on for this macho man asshole youd find in 80s action films, when ive seen so many women fall for effeminate men just have a fucking spine for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:49 PM
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Hey dude, thanks for the in depth response. Clears up some lack of understanding on redpill/MGTOW. I guess it just seems to me that at least feminism is well intended. While some laws may not be implemented in the best manner. I guess thats why I asked for specifics, cause im just not seeing the clear examples of it harming men. Ive seen lots of feminists dismiss mens problem, which sure is bullshit, but I just haven't seen enough that makes me feel like its worth stepping out of society for. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:28 AM
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Fair enough. I think most people want to see some change in regards to the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:27 PM
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I guess I just don't see considering women's issues to be mutually exclusive to considering men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:39 PM
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I mean I liked that post. I do wish men had access to better contraceptive methods, and thought it was a fair point. I didn't see it as an attack on men as seeing a pattern. I just don't see why can't aim to have birth control for both genders. I appreciate the article there, Its quite a read, but I see its on a website dedicated to fighting fall rape allegations by the looks of it. I'm not up to date on my fourth wave feminism in Spain, but I will do some reading. Pretty crazy to have so many a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:37 PM
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neat quote, not sure I'd bet money on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:19 PM
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Thanks for the input. How you framed the voting thing was helpful, someone else referenced that fact here, but stating it as a privilege that not everyone wanted made it make more sense. I guess I'm not convinced that is a fair assessment of everyone's feelings at the time, but I get the point. I do think there is an increasing need to have mens issues represented, but that is a Mens Rights issue rather than a Redpill issue to me. Redpill doesn't seem to be about changing society, rather exploit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:02 PM
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Ya that is kind of my take as well, I kind of regretted using the word "oppressed", but figure men compare their problems so much with women's problems maybe it would stir conversation better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:57 PM
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So what do you think this all implies? and I'm also curious to hear about how you think government programs designed for men would help. Not being facetious, I am genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:56 PM
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Ya I guess I've just me lots of great women and don't agree with this imperative that they are all just circumstances away from being like every other woman. I've also met women who it seems like they are just exploiting the position of a victimhood for gain, but I guess it just doesn't leave me discrediting all of Modern Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:54 PM
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You don't think men and women suffer in ways that are unique to their gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:51 PM
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Thanks for the input. I guess I see this all as a narrative being given to feminism, so I guess its not really how I view it. I acknowledge all the problems you list, but it just seems like we should have men advocating for men in public rather than trying to tear down modern feminism. I understand that "Males Rights Activists" is kind of holds a stigma though, so easier said than done I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:49 PM
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But shouldnt we try to make it less precarious?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:14 PM
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I mean I'm not denying your point. I just don't think it is necessarily the case that it women couldn't vote for that sole reason. Logistically that may have been a governing bodies decisions, but that doesn't mean women weren't subjugated. I am also certainly not denying the sacrifice of men. Even if women didn't fight for their own rights and only men did at the time, isn't the point that the problem needed to be changed in the first place? I was more asking about what specific events occurred…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:38 PM
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Ya'know its interesting you phrase it that way. I know a story of someone close to me who's quite a bit older who knew that while being interviewed in an windowed office space the men would hold up number rating the women being interviewed. Essentially the same as what you are saying, her being hired is determined by whether shes "fuckable". I never saw that as any kind of privilege though. To me that completely removed any possibility of her knowing she deserved a job, because of these kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:07 PM
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I will heed your advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:46 PM
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I'm not writing you a novel, you know what I am referencing. I'm happy to hear how its misleading. As for asking for specifics.... that is literally the point of the post. I don't know if you are trying to be clever here by showing an example of why you can't win being broad or specific, because you are telling me I'm being to "broad" and asking me to be "specific", and then give me a Bottom Line that is very vague and lacking nuance. I also don't see how the trivia bit you add about women only …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:46 PM
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Thanks for the feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:00 PM
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Ya.... I know redpill has people who don't, it's just hard not to see it in most posts some contempt for feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:58 PM
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Never heard of that system, i'll look it up. I guess if a woman is a single mother it would make sense why she would need greater subsidy, it would be interesting to see what their discussions looked like making this scoring system.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:57 PM
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Well put, good perspective. Thanks for the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:55 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I guess it seems like lot of women are thriving, but it seems like globally to me women are still in a precarious standing. I get the difference you make with Oppression/Manipulation, but if there were a n oppressor and a manipulator, I still think the oppressor has more power. I guess I wonder if manipulation is a response. I think men have a load of problems caused by the way our system is that need addressing, but it just seems framed so often that Feminism stands in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:51 PM
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Thanks for reply. That was a good read, definitely had a pile of things worth diving into for better understanding. I'm not sure I 100% take things for face value in it, but definitely filled with situations men have been affected by feminism, which is exactly what I asked for! so thanks. I do find it a bit ironic to post this link though since you are a guy on the internet stating what his "movement" means. Not trying to mock you, just thought it was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:40 PM
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truth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:56 PM
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Ya this always frustrated me too, I wish males had better options than just getting their dick snipped or wearing condoms. I would definitely get that needle if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:46 PM
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I'm not entirely sure what your assertion here is, being a successful man is a greater accomplishment than being a successful woman? or that expressing this list of male behaviors is more difficult? Do you think it's harder for a woman to achieve discipline or strength than a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:14 PM
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Ya, I think this sums up the fear really well. People in general can use this shit against you, but I've definitely met some women who felt particularly Evil in that they would say anything just to hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:29 PM
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I can relate to this for sure, and have definitely observed this fear in men, although I do see it as a reasonable thing to feel. I think you are right about your observations about men not enjoying being called out. I think men can worry a lot about how they are viewed, like their status, and I think it's just a harsh reality some of them are faced with when they get called out that they are failing to become what they want. ​ That said I found where I grew up in high school/Early 20's a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:24 PM
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Good post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:31 PM
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Its already been mentioned but where in the hell are you getting the idea that equality is causing this? Are you speaking from experience? Are you super old and remember women before they could vote? You just seem to recognize a trend of misery and place blame on some random variable? Based on a random self help thing about feminine energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:42 AM
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Ya, not saying it fucks everyone up, but it can be abused and cause problems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:38 PM
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We need a r/redpilldebate sub apparently. Or someone needs to make a post where redpillers can Atleast agree on what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:28 PM
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You can win every argument you want when you speak for both sides of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:12 PM
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I think having a true equality in powers is kind an futile goal. I think mutual respect is far more important. A lot of the time I think people look for people who exceed where they cannot or dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:05 PM
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Haha I like this perspective. We are all tripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:19 PM
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A lot of people who are trying to make a science out of dating here claim they want the least amount of baggage, while assuming they have none. If you struggle with mental illness you'd benefit from people who can relate to you in that they have their own experiences or currently have people in their life with those experiences. As for red vs blue, im not sure how to relate the pills to this. To relate to the pill analogy i guess id say: Red pill: leave matrix and abandon morality and expect peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:18 PM
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Could it be that the "disillusioned" red pill community is actually filled with delusions? Huhn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:36 PM
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Im pretty sure its the Christmas Vacation one, but im not a 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:57 PM
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I notice panty lines, and definitely can tell. This was even a joke in national lampoon where Chevy Chase is drooling over the lack if panty line on a woman because he knows shes either going commando or wearing a thong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:06 PM
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Buddy I don't even know where to start. Putting words in my mouth. If you think orgasming doesn't have any effect or reinforcing then there isnt really a conversation to be had. You are like the 100th guy in these subs to say "i jerked off to porn all my life and im fine!" Im sure you are, so am i. But ya dumb in the head if you think it had zero effect on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:55 PM
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Ya man Im a similar age. I think its definitely good to be critical of your thought process, but ya there is value and recognizing you can change how hour brain works. I remember masturbating to girls before I even know how sex worked, and when I found porn it got a good grip on me. Its hard to know how what you would be attracted to had you not found it. In university I took a human ethology course (ethology is typically studying animal behavior) and one of things brought up was sexual lifespan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:41 PM
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I think this is more about how fickle attraction can be and then attributing it AF BB. I don't think its the case. I understand how it would be an unfortunate situation, but I think its giving too much credit to the concept. Maybe she was just bored? May be she never planned on long term and that was just when the switch got flicked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:52 PM
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I personally think men are not as into younger women as "naturally" as this sub would believe. I think you see in some cultures of women being married off as young as 14 because they are seen as a functional part of a family and essentially become groomed for a role. This is for social purposes, not "nature". They weren't marrying off young girls in Morroco because they are "hot" at that age, its because they are virgins and practically kids that still need to be raised. Its obvious that people …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:37 PM
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This statistic gets brought up all the time, but just because she "initiated" or essentially did the paper work, doesn't mean she is the one fucking up the marriage, it just means she got the legwork done. Its probably a very similar statistic if you surveyed who bought the groceries or sets up appointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:18 PM
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I know a lot of dudes I could give anecdotes about, but it really boils down to them being losers or dirtbags who can't there shit together and just see what high-score they can get on Tinder. Always obsessed with girls they've met who are clearly milking their looks for all they are worth, and these guys are pissed they cant get a piece or are surprised when they don't have the value to get her. Ive also met women who seem completely detached from reality in what actual men are like, and seem l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:12 PM
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Ive known dudes who are anything but supportive. Met plenty who are, but Ive known a lot of guys who will sabotage when they get the chance to better their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:19 PM
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I don't usually relate with your posts dude, but this one hits. Hope you don't compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:16 PM
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Ya I feel I'm always a reminded of how little some people get out when they only complain about the opposite gender on here. So many men will throw other men under the bus, or spend there time trying to one up each other out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:36 PM
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Be an asshole, compromise what I want to do with my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:18 PM
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Thanks my man! I will, but id also think you were a dumb ass if you spent your time rearranging chairs or fuck women on a sinking a ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:03 PM
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You see a failing situation (the decline) and exploit it (enjoy it).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:46 PM
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I think for me it would be less about what I tell them and more the example I set and the activities I encourage. -be in a stable exemplary relationship, if divorce occurs, how you handle conflict will have major effects so do it amicably and with maturity. I think casual sex, while not always the case, is supplementary and without realizing what a healthy relationship looks like its easy to deduce from peers sex is the only worthwhile objective. -encourage sport or at least activities that requ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:43 PM
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I dated a taller woman and it made me insecure as fuck, but that was my issue. Did love all that leg though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:28 PM
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Because its man's nAtUre
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:18 PM
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Its like people who loot during protests
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:17 PM
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I get it. I'm not against the pursuit of seeing things for what they are, and obviously its benefited people, but it also fails men deeply in that it is overly simplistic. I honestly know mens spaces are in a shit state though, so its not like it falls on redpills shoulders alone, but thats ultimately why I participate. Modern man can't search for solutions without encountering some drivel about the "female imperative". It arrogant, and inconsistent. I can rarely find a thread where red pillers …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:58 PM
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Ya.... Might be true, but Ive seen enough success among the homely and unfortunate to believe obsession with online help us a special kind if sick. I do think the situation you provide is more likely in highly populated cities where life goals can be a bit more shallow or vapid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:09 AM
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Just dont whine about FDS and feminism while doing the same shit then. Also redpill rarely treats it as a generalization in my opinion. They think every woman is a chad away from cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:55 AM
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Lol this is gold
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:56 AM
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Ya I think redpill would be less toxic to the system if it said on the label: works only in specific circumstances for certain kind of people and only If you want to put notches on your belt and lay women looking for casual sex then sure. Saying "this is what women want, dont bother listening to them, just trust me and your insecurities will confirm them" is bound to lead to an unhealthy condition. People can say im projecting or whatever, but if watching what women do, not what they say yields …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:54 AM
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My parents didnt teach me shit, and then they got divorced. I think people blame media more than parents, but I honestly agree with you that it should fall more on parenting or rather on modeling what a good relationship is. I learned more from seeing my dad remarry than I did with both of my birth parents. My mothers behavior is pretty congruent with a lot of redpill shit unfortunately, but my dad really stepped up and was a great role model. Love my mom, but nurtured some pretty sensitive beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:27 AM
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Neat, I think "be yourself" combined with a little "serve yourself" is what worked for me. I always feel a lot of guilt taking or doing when I wanted when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:35 PM
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Could just mean they are very muscle bound
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:38 PM
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TIL banging one woman allows you to absorb full understanding of her country. Cool super power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:05 PM
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I think humans really arent intended to raise kids alone or even just a couple. Like other mammals we have multigenerational families. Grandmothers and grandfathers, aunts, uncles, etc. Would have once all contributed to the growth of the family. I think being young is not actually as ideal a time to have a kid as people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:26 PM
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How is not equally a straw man to reference the religious uggo who fucks the foot ball player that you can magically not confirm or deny?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:21 PM
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I don't think it is a smart idea to use the Internet as your sole source of your perception on these things without balancing it with real world experience. Not saying you are doing that, but it does sound like your making decisions based on what you read here. I have been a pretty neurotic guy who over reads into things and I think it comes down to learning how to cope with yourself rather than all the "facts" you read here. Like it is said already, blue pill doesn't exist, as a sub its suppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:19 PM
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Engaging with the topic as opposed to copy and pasting the sider bar of my cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:36 PM
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Hey my dude, another good post. You seem better read and engaged with current topics and ive been wondering if therer is something of a relationship with the prosperity of civilization (i feel like you hint at that). Mostly Im thinking high testosterone/aggressive men benefit from a leveraging of safety in times when peoples concerns would be more about survival (I'm thinking closer to the bottom of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, not sure if thats outdated now). I think this explains why you see m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:02 PM
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I think stoicism is good if you are processing, not obsessing, over thoughts as a way to allow a calmer experience of your emotions, but shoving shit out of mind I think is a bit of an old cliché that backfires and can lead to a person who doesnt know themselves or their limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:49 PM
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I got a validation, sex, a more realistic and sane grasp of reality, and potentially a wife. I was pretty hopeless, but realized I was mostly just sick in the head and that selfishness can come in some odd forms that make you feel like a victim when you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:39 PM
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As a former "loser" who had his head up his ass, I think you are right for the most part. Only disagree the pandering of this "feminization of man idea", I'm not wholly convinced yet that feminine men aren't attractive, I just think a lot of women are prone to social pressures and culture in that they want to belong and feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:31 PM
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Redpill could literally just be replaced with bots. Why bother commenting at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:59 PM
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I think bullying is just the first juvenile expression of seeing men do what they despite norms. I dont think its necessarily being a dick. Its being attracted to a resilient character uninhibited by something most teenagers struggle with: self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:34 AM
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I mean full transparency, Ive most likely overdosed reading this sub tonight and find the overly blackpill shit is just Unfortunate. I think dudes suffer from this perceived imperative that they are so rational and unbridled to their emotions they have to address women. Its a cop out. I don't actually disagree that womens standards are higher, but it seems irrelevant to complain about speculated standards when many men below them find success.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:28 AM
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Im sorry man, id say you saying me trying to come off as alpha made me cringe. I hate that shit, so I meant it when I said i wish you guys the best, I guess i just have this internet perception balanced with reality and reading all that really just sounds delusional. I know modern men are seeing shit that makes them feel worthless all the time, and I know guys have it hard in a lot of ways thats unrecognized, but there are places that are not cut throat and people who will seek you out for succu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:29 AM
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There are a lot of comments in this thread, the context is what you made it. I'm seeing men dismiss discussion because women are asking them questions, or refuse to think outside the a certain narratives. Honestly I find even the question OP is asking is pretty disingenuous and gaslights women. It tells them what they are expecting is unreasonable without specifying what those standards are, which based on the discussions here are physical attraction. Im not against these men as much as my origi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:16 AM
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Hey I agree that is a major problem not recognized is men don't let each other thrive. Its actually refreshing to see someone acknowledge it. I just cant stand hopelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:59 AM
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Shame will kill your game for sure. Self respect is nice too. All depends on what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:18 AM
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Holy fuck the men of this sub are more hopeless than I thought. I really wish you best the guys, I mean it, but the world isn't out to get you as much as you think. I don't doubt its been hard to be a straight dude growing up the last 10 years, but you got to humble yourself and get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:12 AM
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Well put. I would really like to hear these standards too. Ive met so many men who just play a superficial game and when the bottom falls out they cant imagine why their paper thin effort couldn't hold water.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:08 AM
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Ya, I think this is why guys can sometimes find themselves wondering how guys managed to score someone "out of their league", but also can be why relationships can end up being awful. Its easy to settle into.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:01 AM
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Ya.... I mean thats like blackpill 101. I don't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:01 PM
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I can appreciate the sentiment, but just cause enforcing things based on virtues can sometimes backfire isn't enough of a reason to not try for me. It is a complicated topic sure, but apathy in the face of clear hatred for another kind is not an idea I want to lift others up with. I think the redpill being quarantined has actually been better in that it leaves as the toolbox it attests to being, rather than a group of ass hats boasting about their latest abuse stories. I don't really card if it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:19 PM
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I mean small towns with nothing to usually have higher rates of substance abuse, doesn't make a good solution, just an unfortunate one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:57 PM
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Don't fault the guy cause you have some anti-intellectual emotional baggage and put them on a pedestal. If TRP didnt come on here to jerk off to studies that reaffirm their "agenda" im sure people wouldnt waste their time trying to offer them as a rebuttle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:32 PM
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You got to love how this sub is designed to debate red pill vs "blue pill" and when someone actually legitimately challenges it with good effort it barely gains traction. This place is just lurking down voting black pillers and disingenuous red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:24 PM
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Good job, OP, red pillers have been circle jerking so long they mostly "win" arguments by regurgitating the same garbage they think is settled, until people get exhausted arguing about the stupid semantics in studies. Well played.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:52 PM
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Id agree with on this take if I couldnt go over to red pill right now and read about boiling frogs and getting turbo sluts breaking their backs to suck your dick. Ive seen redpill offer a lot, but I think it gets represented by redpillers here as something far more "good" for something that proclaims to be amoral. It has good points for success in casual dating, and claims not to moralize things by using words like "good" or "bad" but then goes on about what men "should" do and how they "shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:46 PM
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Man even Bodybuilding.com can be filled with people calling each f@gs and gay. Some good support but man its not easy for insecure men to find role models now a days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:18 PM
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Ya, but as you say yourself, its not really to our knowledge if we know someone whos raped someone. I personally wasnt looking to get into the rape topic so much as thinking its a good idea to have things in place that make it harder for people to exploit positions of power, be it a boss or even a possible woman who would lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:29 PM
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I believe there are more barriers for them in some parts of society. Mostly in workplace situations. In the case of simply having windowed meeting rooms, or leaving a door open, I dont think thats detrimental, just smart. I do believe men have real problems. I just don't sympathize with some men parading as victims for being lonely or scared about interacting with women based off of their perceptions. Ive known men who have been falsely accused of things and horrible women, but ive met far more …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:17 PM
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I don't doubt the post is true in a way, but you brought into perspective. AWALT is a shit concept, to justify TRP bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:52 PM
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I'm pretty happy to see men think twice about their actions. Men do deal with a lot of shit that doesn't get talked about and deserves more attention, but I don't really care men feel like they have to tip toe around certain situations now. I think its great. Ive known awful abusive women who exploit social narratives for personal gain, but it hardly compares to vulgar and awful shit ive heard spewed and done by men Ive known too. I think both sides are very capable of lying, so workplaces shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:28 PM
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I think the take away is that not having these "creepy" features can make you less likely to perceived as creepy. Even in some cases where some people are being creepy. I think people more whine about attractive people getting away with creepy things, rather that acknowledging that they can in fact have some control over how they are perceived. Of course their are some women who use "creepy" as a means to control social scenarios, much like men use the word "crazy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:13 PM
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Nice catch OP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:01 PM
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I like your posts dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:36 PM
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I thought this was going to be a stupid post, but your right. I really fucking hate red pill terminology. The group in general seems to just take credit for things that were largely known already as if they are the only ones truely awake to reality of things. Especially now. Personally I think 10 years ago it was more of a place for bruised egos of gen X and Millenials to talk about their shitty realizations of what it takes to sleep with shallow people and the "feminization" of man. Now its a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:19 PM
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Ya except its free, accessible, world view altering, and so on. I'm not really going to argue. Honestly it just strikes me that you haven't put any effort into opposing your own view and arguing for the other side of this. Sure people aren't spending their life saving on porn and going hungry, but its doing noticable damage to peoples lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:57 PM
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That's pretty crazy, but Ive heard plenty of stories that are similar. Id say you were very fortunate in the end to have had someone intervene, despite the neglect you might have had. I look back and wish a lot that my parents had stepped up instead of turning a blind eye. Its good to let kids just "figure it out" a lot of the time, but the internet just exposes you to things no one would have seen before. Im a millenial and its just nuts that we got set loose on the internet. Like I had seen so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:54 PM
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Ya, there is a reason marketing is geared towards children so heavily. Trying to make you a consumer for life. Its why we have age restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:50 PM
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Ya.... I mean id rather hear that someone was into hardcore stuff from early exploration rather than trying to reconcile a traumatic experience, I just think a lot goes into making hardcore porn possible behind scenes that young people don't realize. Also peer pressure is a hell of a thing, and I know young girls can be more susceptible to it. Just hate thinking of people being used and abused just as a by-product of the porn industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:28 PM
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Ya... Im hoping a generation of people raised by technology wont be so naive about giving there kids unlimited access to the internet, but we will see. ..... I totally would get beat for a million dollars though..... Not gang banged though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:21 PM
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Ya I definitely wouldn't be. People don't naturally develop these fantasies, they are instilled at young ages during development from what I have studied. Its obviously something we still trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:19 PM
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Id really like to see science that supports that. I have no doubt of the popularity of BDSM and rough sex among women, but I am incredibly doubtful that women are even 10 percent of the demand created in the porn industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:14 PM
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I think your estimations are much further off than you think. If you believe people become addicted to things because they are idiots though, than there isnt really a point in having a discussion about controlling what people consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:12 PM
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I mean I am doubtful any pornstar has gotten paid a million for a single video. I'm more acknowledging the affect porn can have on a child world views at such a young age, and how that may make them more susceptible to doing something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:09 PM
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This is just people denying facts and crying about the potential of not having their porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:14 PM
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Nice post, people will still deny, but well done
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:08 PM
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So people are only being murdered because we tell them not to? I don't think its unseasonable to put restrictions on things to make less accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:02 PM
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You just experienced survivorship bias. I can't think for the life of me how you cant put 2 and 2 together and acknowledge there is a danger to having endless stimulation at your finger tips while having a fucking dopamine button between your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:55 PM
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Ya I feel bad for young women stumbling into mountains of videos of them being abused without any context. How do you rationalize that without thinking sex is you getting mandhandled all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:52 PM
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It substitutes finding healthier and real stimulations in the world around them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:48 PM
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There is a hell of a lot more negative to it than people care to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:46 PM
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I think admitting you are redpilled is the equivalent of saying you are the edge lord in highschool who liked wearing long leather jackets and sunglasses inside. I just think it is kind of embarassing, but who am I to talk since I'm here commenting. That said I have encountered so many experiences that align with what is talked about, so I can 100% see where redpill train of thought comes from. I saw a lot of this stuff before knowing about red pill, and never really had the biases of reading th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:51 PM
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I'm 30 now and I meet far too many new people through work. I naturally fall into introverted habits though so I think its good for me. Always happy to meet new people through friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:41 PM
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I feel like this post is just OP jerking off to his glory days
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:51 PM
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Ya Ive been surprised people are shocked to hear about womens sexual peak being later in life. I remember learning that in psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:27 PM
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I feel there needs to be talk about the difference between observable differences in the sexes, and roles we perpetuate and expect of the sexes or the discussion isn't really helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:38 PM
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This was a refreshing breath of sanity in this otherwise hell-scape of how to use and abuse sub
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 10:45 PM
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This is just a leading question intended for circle jerking purposes. You might have posted "why are you delusional".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:10 PM
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Ya dude, I had revelation in my 20s where I realized I was getting lots of attention for being a pretty boy but I honestly hated it, cause I wanted to be seen as a man, not a boy. In hindsight I wish I kind of just embraced it, but I guess you want what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:26 PM
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I think on an evolutionary stand point it makes sense doesn't it? You can only die once, so even if it is only a 1 in 10 chance, you'd need to be on high alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:16 PM
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I mean genuinely creepy or abusive? I'd say 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:11 PM
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I'm not going to argue with you, I totally agree. I also think some dudes are just filling voids with casual sex. I do think life long relationships are indeed hard and rare to be happy in without work, but i think most people would be more comfortable with serial monogamy. Although I get that some men are just bitterly taking what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:59 AM
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I mean I agree with the comparison but this guy is inconsistent and petty AF in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:53 AM
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Ya I mean if you have ever been insecure, Im sure it can be validating, but it can't last or being a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:04 AM
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I mean I don't think that is necessarily true, but I get what you mean. I do think there are highly desirable women who have low n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:12 AM
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Haha Ya I suppose, I guess that is why Mark kind of see's his father as a monster for dehumanizing his own mother to a mere pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:09 AM
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Ya! Well Ive felt like the odd one out of place, cant stand the idea of knowing I'm the kind if guy who makes people feel like they don't belong just cause of something superficial. I'm sure you'll be more empathetic yourself for having been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:15 PM
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Ya I had a girlfriend I knew was unconventional and I pretty much had to tell some of my more assholey friends before they met her that I wouldn't tolerate any disrespect. I think some people just are always trying to bring others down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:01 PM
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Ya I don't think it is a dignified position for someone to be in, although i think some women do it too. I think some men are really fixated on being a winner and getting the "trophy girl". I think most people can pick up on whether there partner doesnt want to be seen in public though. I agree though. Women can have a more diverse range of things they are attracted too, where I think men who are on the win/lose mentality prefer it to all be the same so they can feel like they have someone every…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:49 PM
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I remember reading thats the best way to understand males rating of women 1-10. Its actually affected by who youd be less embarrassed to be seen with. I personally don't think that is a healthy outlook, but ive met many men who equate their girlfriend to a wrist watch, or essentially a status symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:53 PM
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My philosophy minor is throbbing, thanks for that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:54 PM
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If this Isn't Larping, then good on you man. Give those black pillers hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:38 PM
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Based AF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:55 PM
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I know this is considered circle jerking, but good writeup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:43 PM
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I think you are definitely right, I think the thing missing here is you are talking to a group of aspiring sociopaths who ignore the factor of whether or not women are actually happy or fulfilled in the stage of their lives. The bad boys without a doubt do better, but I don't think its necessarily because women believe they provide better sex, fulfillment, or happiness. I think sleeping with risky men is more about offering a sense of control or having what others want alot more of the time. I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:35 PM
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Thought i was going to think this was stupid, but it was a good read. Loved that you brought up CBT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:44 PM
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Because gross misinterpretations of it, and having ones head too far up their own ass to realize ones biases effecting conclusions drawn from otherwise inconclusive studies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:37 PM
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Im not familiar with the show but ive watched enough survival shows and seen the trope. I also don't doubt most modern men are more geared towards survival than women, but the idea that women couldnt learn or become better at it is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:51 PM
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If its hopeless why do you bother trying to convince anyone? Feels like a validation post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:45 PM
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Well shucks i guess every one should just give up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:41 PM
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I was just thinking about this today actually. I dont think women need men as much as men have convinced themselves, but obviously men offer great advantages biologically that women don't have as easily. I just don't really have a lot of patience for the argument women couldn't have built a similarly successful world. I find it odd we are so determined to find other intelligent life in the universe but men refuse to garner any acknowledgement of the potential women have. To be morbid about it, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:18 PM
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Basing all of existence entirely off of the self
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:31 AM
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I mean its egocentrism, which is kind if the redpills point about women isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:16 AM
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Haha welcome to epistimology 101 I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:15 AM
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I mean I think believing that makes you solipsistic.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:38 AM
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I'm a little rusty on the details, but I believe its a topic in epistemology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:21 PM
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Solipsism is actually the Philosophy that only a person's mind can be proved to exist by their own mind. Ya'know Descartes saying "I think, there for I am".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:11 PM
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Lot of emotional baggage coming out in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:05 AM
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I'm not sure what a realistic percentage would be, I think it depends on if you mean of the dating population or the general population, but I think its a lot more than people think. Growing up I think most adults I knew had drinking problems at least and I recognized that as a child. Now I just see it everywhere. Addiction also comes in many forms, so I think even people may appear addiction free, but actually are addicted to technology, unhealthy habits, etc. I'd say like 40% have either an ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:36 PM
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I don't know what this "Young and Careless" love is you guys talk about. I had my first girlfriend when I was 14 and while all the novelty and being jacked up on hormones made it exciting, it was also a neurotic mess of an experience and full of anxieties.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 01:42 PM
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Yes, I remember in a sexual psychology course I took they spoke about how the willingness a woman has to sleep with a man grows over 5 years and then plateaus. Its a bit of a foggy memory now, but I think people have misconceptions about how human mating before technology was a longer process of trust building rather than this borderline porn fantasy of nubile women jumping on the first dick attached to a 6 foot athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:31 AM
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