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15

Why would you want to be a fuckboy if you've never even had sex? Try walking before you run
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:28 AM
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Do you even like this girl or is she just one of the few that is giving you attention? Sounds like she keeps you around to boost her ego. My advice would be to cut contact and let her miss your absence; if she really likes you she'll come back if not then you saved a lot of stress by not overthinking about someone who likes you far less than you like them.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:59 PM
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I suggest you watch the Key and Peele Text Msg Confusion sketch to see how ridiculously you're reading into this lol
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:13 AM
1

I recommend finding some sort of hobby or activity that forces you to interact with women in a 'no pressure' environment. Or perhaps a female therapist to professionally help you through things. No disrespect but from this post it seems your view of women is a bit skewed and you see them as almost a different species. You say you've never held hands with a woman but at the same time are being picky enough to want a 'pretty 21 year old girl'. Only you can answer if getting a girlfriend is 'worth …
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:20 AM
45

And for a good time make sure you rhyme
/r/seduction28/07/21 01:30 PM
1

Might be a good idea to look into therapy so you can talk through your feelings of inferiority and fear of intimacy. It would also make you accountable to someone other than yourself.
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:40 PM
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I'm excited to try to put all the information I got here in practice while tripping on acid. Personally I wouldn't go into the experience trying to game her or with the mindset 'I'm absolutely going to kiss her'. She obviously likes you so just let the experience happen, if it leads to being intimate great. Though I've only ever experienced lsd a few times so I'd probably be more concerned with how cool the grass feels or whatever than hooking up lol.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:46 AM
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Invite her to do something with just the two of you ie a date. If she wants to invite others you’ll have the answer to the friend zone question.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:40 PM
4

I hope you're not serious about the last line in your title. That's like someone who's never even played baseball his whole life one day deciding he wants to play in the majors. Start with small goals and go from there.
/r/seduction17/12/18 09:28 PM
17

Probably not a great idea to casually use Nazi terminology if you can help it
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:35 AM
227

A woman’s greatest fear is having sex with a beta male? Lol
/r/seduction14/12/18 08:28 PM
5

I’ll have what she’s having
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:35 AM
145

Looks like someone just learned the f word
/r/seduction16/08/18 10:05 PM
1

You ever seen the comparison photos of food in commercials versus what you actually get? If not spoiler - they almost always look drastically different. People's online personas are usually the same way. You're also not doing yourself any favors by recounting every detail of the interaction and learning everything about her before a text or date.
/r/seduction30/07/18 02:57 AM
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Maybe try going to a concert or sporting event- something where you’re around people having fun but there’s no pressure to socialize if you don’t want to. I’m in a similar situation and sometimes I’ll convince myself I don’t want to do fun things because of the effort required, but once I’m there having fun I realize my brain was just being an asshole. Doing something fun with others can also help kickstart you to be more social in general and hopefully get back to dating.
/r/seduction29/07/18 05:38 PM
4

That line is pretty hilarious though lmao
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:04 PM
3

The level of delusion needed to justify why this isn’t a lie just isn’t worth it. Whatever you want to categorize it you’re still being intentionally deceiving. The girl is gonna remember the first thing you said was that you were gay, the small technicalities of your sentence won’t matter.
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:39 PM
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Make her drip 🤮
/r/seduction06/05/18 10:31 PM
5

Uhh just read the sidebar? All the info applies to really really good looking people too. You’re lucky enough to have a seduction advantage but girls aren’t gonna do all the work for you. It’s like you’ve tried nothing and are all out of ideas.
/r/seduction25/11/17 04:35 PM
2

That thumbnail is ridiculous lmao
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:03 PM
7

It's funny that you're worried about being disrespectful yet you essentially just want to fuck girls without doing any work connecting with them whatsoever. If anything saying I want to fuck you is more authentic and less deceitful than anything else you could say judging by this thread. Girls will see through the disconnect between your words and actions real quick and asking to fuck straight away will only work if you're good looking and dealing with dirty/drunk girls.
/r/seduction12/09/17 05:58 PM
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No response at all
/r/seduction20/08/17 08:52 PM
4

If you're confident that means you're probably comfortable with who you are and would be fine with or without the girl
/r/seduction18/08/17 06:40 PM
3

Everyone has something to hide. Unless you're with him literally every hour every day theres no way for you to know he doesn't jerk off at least.
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:59 AM
3

Why is he karate chopping me
/r/seduction17/06/17 05:09 PM
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Yea, I mean you gave valid advice but it's akin to saying practice good hygiene and women will be more attracted to you. Fit and clean people are more attractive than fat and dirty people, this feels like common sense to me.
/r/seduction03/06/17 07:30 PM
11

When I see shit like this on top I wonder why I'm even subbed here
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:23 PM
12

This is the main point in Models by Mark Manson I think too
/r/seduction13/04/17 02:53 AM
16

Likewise, if you are talking to her every day with flirting here and there and then suddenly go silent, she will try figuring out what happened and want you more. Or more than likely she will just move on to the plethora of guys that hit on her and actually make their intentions known in the real world. Maybe this strategy can work on some in the snapchat generation but I feel you'll lose more fish than you catch playing these silly disappearing acts via text. So she invited you to hang out. I w…
/r/seduction26/03/17 02:00 AM
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He is a bit repetitive but it's to the benefit of the reader imo. Plus it's a very short book there's no reason not to finish it
/r/seduction23/03/17 07:29 PM
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Hey man, you're free to live and learn. I don't fully understand your situation and its always best to trust yourself instead of some stranger on the internet. If you think both parties would be able to be involved without leaving a wake of drama then ok, go for it. It just rarely happens like that. Say you try to hook up with her and she rejects you. You might be able to handle this rejection well and still be able to live with her like nothing ever happened. But how she reacts you can't contro…
/r/seduction06/03/17 04:54 AM
9

If she's your roommate you shouldn't be trying to fuck her
/r/seduction06/03/17 03:01 AM
1

I'm no tinder god but imo it's better to have 1 good picture than 4 mediocre ones. Obviously the more good ones you can make the better though. If you have a dog or kitty I hope to god you are using a picture of you and said furry friend. If not find a cute pup and take a pic with it. It is the ultimate icebreaker in terms of getting women to message you.
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:16 AM
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This. OP wants to add value to others but he still seems a bit selfish about it somehow. Like, he wants to bring value to the table but only because it will be good for him. The plethora of negative phrases (i.e. can't, won't, don't, not etc) isn't a good sign either. Imo adding value simply comes down to making people feel good about themselves. If you meet someone and they feel good afterwards they will want to see more of you. OP you say you're usually tagging along with whatever your roommat…
/r/seduction27/02/17 12:29 AM
22

TLDW join a club/hobby, online dating, social circle
/r/seduction25/02/17 05:13 PM
2

Lol'd at the emotional lifeguard bit Any advice for guys that are more quiet and emotionally calm? You stress the importance of giving her an emotional ride but as someone who doesn't get excited easily I don't want to feel inauthentic/fake
/r/seduction22/02/17 08:48 PM
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Yea it's completely anecdotal on ops part. It's a good mindset to approach with but let's be real, most girls don't suddenly take their glasses off and let their hair down and suddenly become beautiful. I would assume most attractive girls have been attractive since adolescence and have gotten male attention since then
/r/seduction21/02/17 10:40 PM
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Focus on the other person, Take up space, Smile, Eye contact, Get comfortable with silence
/r/seduction10/02/17 04:06 AM
3

Burberry London is my personal fav If you don't want to get a whole bottle there are sample vials for sale on Amazon. Places like Macy's and Nordstrom also keep samples out.
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:40 PM
1

As someone who went through something pretty similar at your age, the best thing would be to talk to a professional about what you're thinking/feeling. The negative feedback loop going on in your head will only get worse if left unchecked. You and your brain aren't therapists and can't accurately diagnose depression so stop trying to. If getting help isn't an immediate option for whatever reason, the best natural anti depressant can be found in exercise. Go for a run or bike ride - something exc…
/r/seduction28/01/17 04:45 AM
1

Sounds like a bit of a grey area. Try proposing another date with just the two of you and if it's the same sort of response you have your answer.
/r/seduction06/01/16 10:24 PM
5

And suck
/r/seduction02/10/15 12:08 AM
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Here's how I learned
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:02 AM
4

I'm no expert but the fact that you're so incredibly focused on "results" is a red flag. To you the only result worthwhile seems to be sex. Girls will pick up on this. Even if you did get laid on one of these terrible dates, what then? It sounds like you're approaching this like some video game trying to find the right button combo to unlock the achievement. If you start focusing on just having fun and getting to know the girl I guarantee you will get more "results".
/r/seduction22/09/15 07:36 PM
127

I've gone on plenty of silent dates. Minus the woman though.
/r/seduction11/09/15 09:31 PM
2

I feel like this article gets posted all the time here. Not the exact same..just random bloggers who tell you to be yourself with randomly capitalized words throughout
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:16 PM
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I like to bring my hourglass along and say, "Listen, I'm turning this over now. When all the sand is on the bottom we have to kiss." Gets em everytime
/r/seduction26/07/15 04:13 AM
2

I think a dog would be a great idea as well
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:41 AM
1

I would only use texting to set up a meeting or convey needed information. Having full conversations via text is pointless. You might as well be talking to anybody. Not to mention her impressions of you via texting will be impossible to match when you're physically together.
/r/seduction17/05/15 05:25 AM
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OP: I don't have any great advice but you do sound alot like me. Do you have trouble being intimate with people or simply sexual? It might be worth it to talk to someone like a psychologist about.
/r/seduction08/05/15 12:55 AM
1

I remember one time on his podcast Bill was saying how he really did nothing with his life until he was 25. Before that he was pretty sheltered and terrible with the ladies. He's more motivational and intelligent than he gives himself credit for imo.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/15 08:38 PM
2

8 So..how often do you masturbate? LOL
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:07 PM
0

lol..
/r/seduction27/09/14 04:09 AM
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Someone who is unashamed about their passions is attractive to many people. It's a funny posting too and easy to respond to (easier than the typical gym bro w/sports as sole interest)
/r/seduction22/06/14 12:09 AM
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And remember, you can jump from any height as long as there's a small patch of hay on the ground
/r/seduction14/08/13 06:58 AM
8

Have an IQ test ready to go
/r/seduction22/07/13 09:08 PM
2

you're probably the only person who would find that last part funny, but maybe im wrong
/r/seduction12/05/13 04:01 AM
32

Was going to post this. Author seriously overestimates the length of seconds it seems. If a complete stranger just looked at me for 10 seconds without initiating anything else, I would get pretty weirded out.
/r/seduction24/04/13 06:49 PM
2

Yea, as a retail worker I hate when people immediately open by saying my name. I just think, "How the hell does this stranger know my name?? Oh yea, I have to wear a nametag for this shit job."
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:54 PM
-9

sounds like quite the doucher
/r/seduction25/07/12 12:34 AM
7

This is fucking lame.
/r/seduction11/05/12 11:13 PM
5

You're familiar with the phrase 'dont put the pussy on a pedestal'? Well this girl to you is pretty high up on that pedestal. She's fucking floating above the thing. I don't know you and by no means am I a master pickup artists, but if you're approaching this with the attitude of her being 'the girl of your dreams' and you've been 'friends' for 3 years, the outlook for this does not look good. Maybe it will be a good learning experience though. My advice would be to cut off contact/stop thinking…
/r/seduction07/05/12 04:00 AM
2

Like others have said selfesteem is really important. You shouldn't be making the choice that you're unworthy for the girl let her decide. Some things on paper never match up in reality.
/r/seduction20/04/12 06:11 AM
1

Don't take it for granted. This post makes it seem like you've found the easy button for all of your problems.
/r/seduction20/04/12 06:03 AM
1

I dunno not about to watch them all over again. Pretty much any episode though will prolly do - it's just how he talks and tells stories he's always acting shit out, it's great.
/r/seduction17/04/12 05:29 AM
10

Good post. I've also been watching alot of Rob Dyrdek (Fantasy Factory) and he's a good example of how to use movements to enhance a story. Sometimes it makes it way more hilarious for some reason lol
/r/seduction14/04/12 10:51 PM
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For what it's worth - I've been going through pretty much the same thought processes recently. It's pretty eerily similar actually for most of your posts. On the one hand I know the philosophy behind 'being in the moment' and letting your true personality shine through. On the other hand putting that to practice 100% of the time is hard as shit. I don't know why it's like that - sometimes I can talk straight from the heart with 100 percent confidence, completely free. And others I'm mincing my w…
/r/seduction12/04/12 06:43 AM
1

Example of the 'When a girl says something fucked up...' bit?
/r/seduction11/04/12 06:43 AM
3

By no means am I qualified for giving life advice..but try getting a dog? Those fuckers will love you no matter what.
/r/seduction31/03/12 03:38 AM
1

Do you workout? I identify with alot of your post - my life has been rather sedentary but I know when I go to the gym regularly I have noticeably more energy.
/r/seduction22/03/12 06:06 PM
2

Fear of rejection isn't a real thing. It's all imagined by you in your brain. "Girls do want to be kissed, just not by me." Stop being an asshole. You're being an asshole to yourself and the women of the world by deciding that they don't want to. Unless you're some kind of leper with hideous facial deformities I can assure you there are woman that want to kiss you.
/r/seduction06/03/12 09:41 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/vLZIz.jpg I know, another picture with text. Point is- your fears are completely irrational. You need to step outside your comfort zone to achieve your full potential. This applies for your life in general not just dating and socializing. The next time you're about to not do something that would bring you closer to who you want to be, ask yourself - do I really want to live my life never having kissed a girl? You're afraid of things that aren't real. Girls want to be talked to…
/r/seduction04/03/12 07:22 AM
1

I like this. Better than framing a challenge as "Get Rejected Everyday for 30 Days!!" or whatever
/r/seduction02/03/12 05:11 AM
1

Thanks, this helps. I guess I should have clarified but if anything I'm underweight and need to eat more - but I want to know how to eat right, so this puts me in the right direction
/r/seduction23/02/12 08:06 PM
2

To OP: What exactly did you do for your nutrition? I sorta just eat a shitload of whatever I feel like at random times and kinda want something more structured/healthy. There's just so much material online telling you to eat this way or that it's confusing.
/r/seduction22/02/12 06:01 PM
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by stabbing them in the face
/r/seduction23/01/12 04:23 AM
1

Protip: Count out Oneonethousand twoonethousand etc to get the timing perfect. She won't expect it
/r/seduction22/01/12 03:53 AM
1

What if they both blink at the same time?! 0_o That is interesting though assuming its a legit study.
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:55 AM
1

Fair enough, I agree with pretty much all of this too. Just offering my perspective. But yes, we have different outlooks on how to live life I think, nothing wrong with that. There's 7 billion people on this planet and each one needs to find whats best for them. I'm just reacting to what I read. I wasn't there and I'm sure if I was it would be a different picture in my brain than the one I envisioned.
/r/seduction11/01/12 02:59 AM
4

This has been a work in progress for me but I've gotten alot better. Honestly I try to remember how fucking cool eyes are. Some people have some gorgeous fucking eyes. When you look at someone pick an eye and make a note of the color. Start small in terms of gaze length and work your way up. And just remember eye contact is part of conversation. You might not be comfortable with it yet but most people are and will expect you to look them in the eye. You're never going to form serious connections…
/r/seduction11/01/12 02:35 AM
11

Holy wall of text batman. Most of these made me cringe.
/r/seduction11/01/12 02:28 AM
3

Alright dude. Did your strategy actually work with this girl? Personal life style? The story you just told makes you sound incredibly insecure. Like your the type of person that needs to put others down to feel better about himself. You can justify it by saying it's all part of the chess game to get in her pants, but, whatever- to me that makes it worse. I just seriously question the maturity level of someone who calls people he's never met little bitches and faggots. If I was with a girl that w…
/r/seduction11/01/12 02:21 AM
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Eh..I try to shy away from doing shit like that. Seems kinda douchey. You don't know the dude at all you're just getting random shit from a biased ex-gf. He could be a cool dude. To OP: Just keep doing what you've been doing. What good would come out of a conversation about an ex? Make it about how cool/awesome/etc you are right now not about past failed relationships.
/r/seduction10/01/12 09:41 PM
4

Yea, also don't feel the need to respond to every text she sends you. Girls like to text dumb shit. just because they do doesn't mean you have to back if you have nothing of value to say.
/r/seduction05/01/12 01:25 AM
2

I don't understand this chart whatsoever
/r/seduction05/01/12 01:18 AM
1

Good post. Personally I've realized how much I dislike bars/clubs. For whatever reason I can never feel very comfortable drinking or being around drunks for very long. Might be from my parents drinking problems before they divorced. Anywho though just wanted to say this is good advice for me, thanks for posting.
/r/seduction05/01/12 01:16 AM
3

I've heard good things about meditation, though I've never dabbled too much into it- but you might want to try. Basically though there is no benefit at all in being inside your head. It's been a problem for me too but you need to learn to muffle that voice in your head that's talking to you and putting doubt into your mind all the time. People can tell pretty easily usually if you aren't entirely in the moment. When you mute that voice during conversations your interactions will be more genuine-…
/r/seduction23/12/11 02:51 AM
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