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So yeah, you folks have to be more sure about yourselves even if it’s a straight lie. I’m far from a 10 but I should let you know that ALL HOT women I know, including my wife, are not dating 10s. 63% of young men are singke compared to 34% of young men. Who are they with since its clear they arent dating the average young man. And I dont see how telling guy to be delusional fixes anything Often, only young, futile women look for the so called “chad”. The best women are looking for a great person…
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:50 PM
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Where do yall think the self doubt come from? Do you think people just wake up one day and decide to think that way? Painting it as self destruction is false. Its repetitive negative reinforcement. Shit like this coming directly from women my age and goes viral daily: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI There are like 20 screenshots there and Im not the one who made it either So yes tons of guys are unwanted. Saying all this is a result of not wanting it or not trying hard enough is disingenuous.
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:42 PM
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Do players, fuckboys, and toxic men like/love women? They have women flocking to them no matter how they act. They still get love. Some people on this app dont live in the real world. None of that is required at all and nothing in life shows that it is
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:39 PM
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Same. Its hot af
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:12 AM
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The gym and working out is necessary for most guys to be seen as attractive. If they are in the gym young how would they miss their glory years?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:11 AM
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Idk I cant move mine. That or I dont know how to do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:06 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:19 PM
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I was talking about regular women not the pros lol. I just think they have and advantage over men in that area due to the way their voices are. They do sound better than men on average though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:18 PM
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True I guess lol. I know a bunch of guys suck at it but I just assumed women would be better at it naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:55 PM
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One thing I dont get is why arent more women good singers? Not even good just decent actually. And I mean like regular people not pros. Their voices are naturally melodic and have a sing song element to them. I feel like they have an advantage over men in that area
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:34 PM
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New crush: <image> Shes really cute and her style is pretty cool if you see her IG. Shes pretty popular on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:05 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:06 AM
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Tbh I find it hard to believe people who say that they dont compare themselves to others. Isnt that like a natural thing people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:04 AM
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How is that even possible? Everyone cares about that to some extent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:56 AM
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She is cute fr
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:09 AM
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Bro hes weird af tho. He took less money to join the Mavs. Warriors offered him more before and he turned it down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:45 PM
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Your figure is fire ngl. You look tall too lowkey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:58 AM
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I like the tiempos. These are my 1st puma ones I normally wear adidas ngl. The fit is pretty good and its really lightweight. I love the color
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:09 AM
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Rate my new cleats <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:58 AM
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2 weeks ago
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:57 AM
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It could be a fake pic tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:44 PM
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If a person who had 0 posts or comments DMed you and asked for your discord for a voice chat based off of a comment you made would you do it? Like add them and do a call I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:30 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:17 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:14 PM
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Do you take medication for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:57 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:51 PM
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Kitten thats always outside my house. I lowkey want to bring it in but Im allergic lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:37 PM
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A necklace
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:44 PM
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Only hope? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:45 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:38 AM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:20 AM
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Im playing Fallout 4 rn and its pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:13 AM
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Thanks I hope so too. How did you get better?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:46 AM
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I know I can have one but it will just be a bit harder. I wouldnt say I can have a good one tho. And obviously someone that height has it way worse than me but short is still short and thats what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:32 AM
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Has anyone see the Fallout show? I heard a lot about it and it seems pretty interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:21 AM
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5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:15 AM
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I mean its mainly toward myself and how I look. I dont really display it toward others. Idk how it comes off to people tho. I dont think they would be friends with me if it was that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:15 AM
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Im just short and have very low self esteem. I dont think im intolerable. I have friends and stuff. Idk what else it could be tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:30 AM
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Its because hes 5ft3. Nothing else matters once you are that short.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:45 PM
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There are some in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:53 PM
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💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:24 PM
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I remember this one😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:16 PM
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You should make a cooking channel on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:44 PM
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Lord willin🙏🏾 she dont even gotta be athletic fr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:38 PM
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What would an attractive one look like? And I think I meant shoulder to hip ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:09 PM
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Trueee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:00 PM
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Yea thats what I meant. I dont got the height part tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:57 PM
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Do girls care about waist hip ratio in guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:44 PM
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Do you like the team or just the player lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:13 PM
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A girl putting on a football kit adds 3 points to her rating. I dont make the rules🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:52 PM
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What skincare benefits does it have?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:35 PM
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maybe really bad eczema. I had this and it cleared up but I still hate having my arms or legs exposed. Idk when Ill get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:33 PM
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If its hot like 80+ degrees and someone is still wearing a sweater or jacket what would you think about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:09 PM
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What are the best scents a guy can have? Ive heard vanilla is popular
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:08 PM
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Prolly wont work lol. Girls adjust for heightflation and subtract that by default Ive heard. So when they say 6ft online they really mean an IRL height of 5ft10 or 5ft11
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:07 PM
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I feel like you actually want guys here to improve. I dont get that vibe from a lot of girls here but it seems like you actually care. Idk I could be wrong lol. This is pretty useful tho so thanks for sharing this. Your last post was pretty good too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:53 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:22 AM
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Everyone knows a guy😂😂. I just laugh when I see stuff like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:50 PM
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Hes right lol. W fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:31 PM
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I have. There are a lot of cute girls on my campus and I have tried approaching a few. I have been told that Im overrating them but idk. I dont do it too often tho. I think it is frowned up more now but I want a gf and apps dont work for guys like me so I have to do it. I do have some self esteem issues and talk myself out of doing it most times but I am working on it. I havent had a bad rejection yet so Im glad for that. I do think guys are doing it less nowadays tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:59 PM
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Yall not getting another lol. Its over in Denver. Nuggets in 5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:20 AM
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Be fr man its over. Yall just delaying the inevitable😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:11 AM
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I got kicked out of a reddit meet up group chat because I comment on this sub. I dont even say toxic stuff on here. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:46 AM
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Real. If I could restart rn I would
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:42 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:16 AM
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Man and white
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:15 AM
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No lol. Its true that most people arent ugly but you can tell the guys that they pick tend to be on the more attractive side and are one adjustment away from being considered good looking. Thats not regular
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:09 AM
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He just got a new cut and took off his glasses lol. They never pick guys who are actually ugly to do things like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:03 AM
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For guys who actually get matches on dating apps are the girls you match with more or less attractive than the ones you can pull IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:02 PM
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Thanks. Im pretty introverted too. Tryna work on starting conversations more tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:54 PM
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So what advice would you give to a young guy to fix it? Genuinely asking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:58 PM
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I can sympathize with socially inexperienced guys. They face a very steep learning curve, and due to how this plays out the rejection and awkwardness is front-loaded. This can be very discouraging and difficult to overcome, because it's not really a skill that you can become adept with by yourself. It's not like practicing piano at home being able to play publicly once you're good enough. Even when you're bad at it, there will be people there to witness it and the way they handle it can be painf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:44 AM
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Agree. Being tall and atheltic is generally seen as more appealing/attractive. You arent even seen as an option for most once you are below a certain height regardless of how good you look
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:12 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:17 PM
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Idk most girls just dress casually on campus. Its mostly sneakers. The trends have changed I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:07 PM
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I see them other places but they rarely have them on. I was thinking about it cause some girls say that they want a guy taller than them in heels. I dont get it cause they rarely wear them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:59 PM
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Im im college rn. Why would you wear heels to class lol. And how do they work at the club? I though they hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:50 PM
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Why wear heels tho? Arent flat shoes more comfortable? I thought girls like being shorter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:45 PM
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When and how often do girls realistically even wear heels? Like in what scenario would a girl my age even have them on? I rarely see girls with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:23 PM
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The baby bear ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:23 AM
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I lowkey agree. Like they could go for non-white girls and do pretty well. They just dont want to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:56 AM
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A decent amount of girls of their own race look at them the same way. Dont know why people think its only with white girls lol. A white guy can be less attractive and pull the same caliber of girl regardless of what race she is. It is what it is I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:30 AM
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Thats a looksmatch in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:17 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:23 PM
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Shes a singer. Renee Downer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:13 PM
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Her. Shes number 1 for me rn <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:04 PM
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Some women on this sub are so disingenuous its ridiculous. Its either comments like this or telling straight guys to go to gay clubs to say how they have options but dont want them. Its weird af <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:51 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:46 PM
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Almost every negative trait a person could have looks way worse on men than it does on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:05 PM
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That doesnt mean they wont have the same mindset. Girls say guys their age are immature all the time. What she wrote isnt desireable to any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:55 PM
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They still want guys with experience though. No woman would want a guy like the one shes describing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:44 PM
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So that means they would want a guy like the one you described? Its sounds like a shitty option for anyone the way you explained it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:42 PM
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What do you mean by underdeveloped brain? And why does life experience matter? The guys is going to get it eventually so why does it matter that he doesnt have it at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:32 PM
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This makes 0 sense. And if this is true why wouldnt young women have the same mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:29 PM
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What child like features does an early 20s man have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:06 PM
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Most of the people on this sub are white. They cant even comprehend the idea of race playing a role in dating. I dont expect any understanding from them with that. Thats why I rarely bring it up. Theres no point in trying to explain it cause they literally wont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:39 PM
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Why are you telling her to aim 5 to 10 years older?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:29 PM
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I didnt like that song too much ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:23 PM
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They are all 10s too. Pinkpantheress makes the best music imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:10 PM
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Wow. It looks really good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:02 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:44 PM
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What ive noticed is that they will disagree with the pilled stuff the way it is said outright but if you ask a question a certain way they will prove it to be true. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:32 PM
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Im not white. Thats not gonna work for me. And why would I leave the country just to find a girl who wants me for money? If im not attractive here I probably wont be attractive there either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:56 PM
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Most guys never get to that level of money or status. Dont know why people keep pushing that as if such an easy thing to do. Its really irrelevant because most guys will never have enough of either for it to benefit them significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:47 PM
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They wont. If its a girl they will say its a joke and just a trend so you shouldnt take it serious. But if a guy says something unrealistic like this these same people will jump on it and take it 100% serious and act like all men feel that way. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:29 PM
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The vast majority of women do not want to provide for a man financially and would never do it if they had the option. I doubt they care that they earn more and if they cant get a guy who makes as much or more they will just stay single. Earning less is probably an instant turn off for some. Money is crucial in relationships. Some women on here even say they wont date a man unless he improves their lifestyle. What am I supposed to think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:26 PM
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Im in shape but my face isnt that good man. Im average looking at best. And at 5ft7 thats not gonna cut it. I think he got tons of matches on apps too so Im gonna assume hes above average facially. I cant relate there. Still gonna try tho. I have no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:13 AM
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True. Its tough man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:06 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:16 PM
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The girl is still gonna be there tomorrow the double xp isnt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:14 PM
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Exactly lol. I actually think introverted women want extroverted and popular men the most tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:13 PM
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🤐 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:38 PM
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They will do the craziest stuff and still consider themselves straight. I dont get it at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:37 PM
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No woman made a comment disagreeing with it though. If its not somewhat true why wouldnt they speak out against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:53 PM
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I dont have another girl to talk to though. That was like a one time thing I did cause I normally dont approach girls. My mind just went blank and I walked up to her and started talking. Its not like that everytime for me I typically overthink it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:33 PM
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She said I was cute though. She has to have some sort of interest in me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:57 PM
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So thats a no then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:49 PM
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Why do you say that? She could just be going through something at the moment. Idk tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:47 PM
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Would you actually follow up with a guy you told that to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:43 PM
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I asked a girl when she would be free for a date and she said that she would get back to me because shes in a mental recession. Idk what to think tbh. She did say I was cute so thats a plus I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:38 PM
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Most men and women in general arent what you listed. Idk why a guy being average is him being a shit person. Why is it that guys who struggle are always labled as nice guy assholes? Why are they bad people by default? Thats disingenuous. And I think you should change your flair if you really believe personality is the reason for your success.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:03 PM
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What happened? Im there rn. Im already fit but im below average height if that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:07 AM
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True. Those are the only guys they interact with romantically anyway. In their minds they really are talking about men as a whole because the rest literally dont exist to them in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:04 AM
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Exactly. The are giving advice as if they are talking about a guy they are already into not realizing that most men dont even get over that hurdle. The advice they give is on how to keep a relationship not how to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:53 AM
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There are guys who do all of this and are still single or cant get dates. Why do you think that is? And it seems like you are talking about men who have no issues in dating, not guys who struggle to even get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:50 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:45 AM
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Thats exactly the reason. Idk what hes tryna say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:41 AM
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What is there to accept for you? You can get a gf or a hookup whenever you want pretty much. You dont relate at all to most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:40 AM
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People on here literally say that effort equals results when it couldnt be further from the truth lol. So Its not only those guys setting expectations on themselves its society too. The default belief is that if a guy isnt successful with girls he isnt trying hard enough. So how do they expect guys to feel when they do the things they are supposed to and still get no results? That mentality is what makes guys resentful. So I agree that the mindset change would help but its probably very hard to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:18 PM
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I doubt tall guys think its weird if a girl says she only dates tall guys. Its a plus to them. And it is off putting but I dont see other girls calling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:43 PM
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I doubt tall men think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:32 PM
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Thats way different. Gold diggers dont actually like the guy. For the girls who have bios like that height is a prerequisite for them liking the guy. Most tall guys dont see girls who say they dont date guys below a certain height as red flags. They see it as boosting their chances with her. And I dont think most men care about the negative things women say about other men as long as it doesnt apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:27 PM
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I dont think most who say that are being honest ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:59 PM
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Yea some do have that in their bios. I highly doubt guys who fit the description she wants see it as a negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:51 PM
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Youre basically average you should be good if you arent too ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:25 PM
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I just wanna be at least average height. The 6ft thing is overblown in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:16 PM
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Yea this is probaly true ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:13 PM
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I wish it wasnt so risky
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:11 PM
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There is no such thing as too tall to a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:08 PM
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I dont hear it brought up IRL. And yea Ive been to the blackwomen sub and ive seen stuff from a mainly black women forum. Ive heard the sub isnt that welcoming of black guys so I stay away tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:03 PM
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Huh? How is it not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:20 PM
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We dont. Social media isnt real life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:13 PM
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I know. That why I believe most are trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:10 PM
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Where did I say there was requirement to post here? I never said that lol. What are you talking about? That was in response to her giving advice to men here as she said she does in her example on poverty finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:23 AM
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Why does that matter tho lol. What you asked me I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:07 PM
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If it came down to that yea. But it wont. Im not scared to get beat up if thats what youre asking. I dont care about losing a fight. Its the principle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:02 PM
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I know how to fight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:57 PM
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Not happening. Ive been boxing for the last 5 years I know how to fight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:52 PM
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Yea Id be fine with that ngl. Tall women are pretty attractive tbh. As long as shes genuinely into me I wouldnt have a problem with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:44 PM
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If a guy bullies my little sister I will fight him no matter what his age is. I really dont care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:38 PM
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Those guys are delusional. Its below 5ft9 in my opinion. Im 5ft7 and people here tell me it shouldnt effect my chances with girls but I know it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:19 PM
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Some guy wrote that height is a funny thing. If you are not short, it doesn't matter all that much, but if you are below a certain point, it is all that matters. I agree with this take. This is 100% true. Once you are below a certain height it becomes your most important attribute and you can get passed over just because of it. Why do you think people deny this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:13 PM
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Cool. How tall are you? And why do you think height is so important to a lot of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:49 PM
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Yea being born in the 2020s is crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:44 PM
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My neice is in the 90+ percentile for height. Idk what it is tbh but babies are getting bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:40 PM
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How tall is your bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:31 PM
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What is a napoleon fetish? Like you exclusively go for short guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:25 PM
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I get that. But more often that not they will say they dont care about height or that they like short guys but still end up with someone who is significantly above average. That cant be a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:23 PM
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Obviously Uncle Bob. Money is money. Its not that straightforward in dating. You are dating as a woman not as a man. And you are dating men on top of that. Your advice would help women who struggle but how would it help men? Maybe you can help guys maintain relationships but I dont think it would be useful to guys who are trying to get into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:52 PM
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You can post on poverty finance and give advice to those people because you were in there shoes and can relate to them. How do you relate to the men here? You probably arent single, dont struggle with dating, and probably have not tried to date women either. So in what way do you connect with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:35 PM
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Its funny to me how girls will openly say how much they dislike certain traits and talk about how much they care about them but when guys get insecure about not having those traits they will make it seem like it comes from nowhere. Weird af ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:26 PM
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Idk tbh you gotta ask them that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:10 PM
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Everyone one here knows a guy. They love acting like height plays 0 role in dating and that short guys cant struggle because of that. Its obvious girls care about it but people will deny it until the end of time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:07 PM
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Lol. The jokes here write themselves. Almost every girl who says she likes short guys on this site is with a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:03 PM
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Hes 5ft10 hes literally delusional if he thinks height impacts him that much in dating. It only has a real impact at 5ft7 and lower in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:01 PM
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I dont think most girls care about that if they think the guy is hot or if they like him enough tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:28 PM
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I mean Ive seen some say that they come here for entertainment and to laugh. So idk how you can take the opinion of those women seriously after they admit that. And a decent amount here are just contrarians too. This is a comment I made before: A woman on here was telling me height isnt that important and how its not an issue cause most women dont care then she makes a comment saying that she doesnt know how she dated short men in the past. Im starting to think most of the women on here are trol…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:43 PM
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Idk man no one seems interested in me rn and I wouldnt say im non masculine. Ideally I would date them or black girls like I said before but I dont really have any options atm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:12 PM
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Youre white though so its different for you. Deviations for you guys are more acceptable. Im pretty sure its not the same for black guys. And I like nerdy black girls but they dont really seem into me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:55 PM
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What if im going for black/latina women? Im black and also short
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:46 PM
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It's over for short ethnic men, at least in the West, unless he is willing to play on legendary mode. Damn this is tough to read man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:38 PM
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Im also 5ft7. Let me guess they are very charismatic or something? Everyone on here knows a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:10 PM
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Women dont check other women on stuff like this. They just agree or ignore it. Theres rarely any pushback. They can say they deserve a height difference or a certain type a guy with no issue but a man saying the same about thing about a type of woman he wants its the worst thing in the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:27 PM
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No. Anyone can be either. That isnt dependent on looks. But people will percieve you differently based off of how you attractive you are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:46 PM
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I somehow doubt women have the same reaction when rejected by a tall guy. Of course they wouldnt. If its a tall guy hes an individual and an outlier. But if its a short guy that one experience represents all short men. This also extends to other scenarios. Everything else you said is true too. Its crazy that this is how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:46 PM
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The average guy is a bit chubby too tho. Why wouldnt that be her match
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:02 PM
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How do you know your league without trying to go above it? And I dont think most guys dont approach women with out right sexual intent. Unless saying shes cute or something counts as that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:36 PM
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They would respond wayyy more positively to the guy that they think is in their league lol. Probably be more engaged and interested too. Theres no way they are saying that they respond the same way to all guys who approach them🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:13 PM
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my sweet summer child What lol. Tall average looking guys get girls. Height is an amplifier/bonus. If youre short and average looking its gonna be wayyyy harder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:02 PM
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If hes tall and lanky be will still be seen as attractive if his face is at least average. There is no equivalent to a chubby woman for a guy because negative traits hurt men way more than they hurt women lol. There is no trait exculsive to women that hurts them as much as being short hurts a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:50 PM
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Do you think girls do the opposite tho? Like where they say the women in a couple looks better than the man because their standards for men are way higher than the ones they have for women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:40 PM
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Thats a looksmatch in 2024 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:37 PM
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I dont know what you mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:15 PM
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Whats the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:12 PM
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Q4W: If you assume a guy has a gf does that mean you think hes attractive/good looking or just that he has bf qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:11 PM
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Shes was in a relationship with him. So in the eyes of most women he is the one she chose
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:13 PM
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Youre saying that like it makes up for face and height. It doesnt. You can be soft and lanky/skinny fat but still pull cause you are good looking in the face and tall or at least average height
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:03 PM
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Im short and around average in looks I think. I will try dating apps soon but it will probably be a waste of time. I talk to girls through clubs and stuff but nothing ever really comes from it. I could try approaching girls more but the general success rate from that is so low it doesnt seem worth it. Plus im proabably not the type of guy most women would want to be approached by anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:53 PM
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Her choosing him means thats who she ended up with so yea she settled. When women get chose most prefer it be a scenario where a guy picks them out of all the options he has. Two totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:49 PM
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"Uggos" have the same standards as attractive women. Dont know why you think the opposite. They are still women at the end of the day. You must be attractive if you are saying that like they are easy to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:45 PM
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Fuck enough women so that you know what you’re doing Most guys cant do this. Women expect guys to know right away and most do not want to teach. So yea most guys have to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:40 PM
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Very few men are seriously repeating RP rhetoric off the internet to romantic interests. They know this. They just have to keep saying it so they dont actually have to address points being made. Most men are not redpilled so why do they act like its the default way men act whenever a guy brings up an issue with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:30 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:28 PM
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A decent amount of women cannot understand this thought process. Some say "but she chose you" to guys who express insecurities about certain things in relationships because thats literally how they think. Getting "chose" is the most important thing to those women, everything else is irrelevant. This is why some women do not care if a man was a player/fuck boy and even take pride in getting a man to leave that stage. Cause as long as he is with her now, nothing else matters. Most men do not think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:25 PM
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I wonder how many if you actually take the time to go to the gym 2-3+ times a week and do hard resistance training, and take care of your looks via grooming and fashion? I am fit/lean as I am an athlete for my school. I wear fitted clothes and have around average style for my age I guess. My face is clear and yes I shower. Do you have success with women? No Why do you think a lot of women do take care of their looks a lot more than men? just looks at places like Vindicta - some women take it ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:07 PM
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I wasnt saying its seen as arrogant just that its one way the person doing an action impacts how the action is seen. I dont have an example because like I said it doesnt really have to be arrogant behavior to be seen as arrogant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:49 AM
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It doest have to be arrogant behavior. Its seen as such because of who is doing it. Like how short guys who work out a lot are seen as compensating but for taller guys its looked at differently. Its not the action just who is doing it that changes how its seen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:30 AM
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I agree. They still would swipe on a tiny amount of men and the guys who were already getting tons of matches would just get even more. Next to nothing would change. People who say the gender ratio on apps is the reason for most guy struggling are not being real and just dont want to say the truth. The reason why most guys struggle on apps because most women do not find them attractive. Whether it be height or face most guys do not make the cut. More women on dating apps wouldnt make guys become…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:59 AM
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They are percieved differently based on the person doing it. Thats why people say arrogance is unearned/unmerited confidence. The attractive guy "earned" it and has a reason to have it. The unattractive guy did not and is percieved to be arrogant. How you see yourself has no impact on how others see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:39 AM
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Its not attractive on an unattractive guy. Its comes off as arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:53 AM
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There are tall lanky/skinny fat guys who have no issues with women. Muscle and getting fit is only a boost. Its not gonna make you more attractive on its own unless your fat or obese. If those guys I mentioned earlier add muscle they will have more success. If an unattractive guy does the same how much will it help him? Not much imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:59 AM
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This study on this page shows 5.1 to 5.5 is average. Those sizes you listed are above average. And if the size most wanted by women is 6.4 like you said there is more pressure for men to have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:42 AM
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So what do you think the average is then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:29 AM
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The average is around 5.1 to 5.5 in the US. How isnt that big lol. Its bigger than most men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:27 AM
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But the pressure to want them is pretty intense when you’re a young woman. What pressure is there to want this? Im pretty sure girls can decide themselves which size they prefer the most
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:18 AM
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How do you do it and how old are you? Im also 5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:16 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:25 AM
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Go outside lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:08 AM
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Yea like they arent that good looking but their features are so striking it makes them standout. Idk its weird. I think harmony is better than just having certain features tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:07 AM
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Do you think most men can be good at it? Like do they have the potential to in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:37 PM
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Yea looks arent everything but there still has to be a baseline of physical attractiveness. You said he was objectively ugly so how did you get past that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:04 PM
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Damn thats depressing but probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:55 PM
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Would you date a meh tho? That doesnt really imply interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:53 PM
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Im just curious to see if most will say the same personality traits. I dont think there will be much variety but lets see
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:52 PM
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It's okay, a big strong MASCULINE man, in the top 20, with favorable genetics will protect us. There's a reason why women flock to them. Weird af ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:14 AM
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I mean thats true I guess cause I do agree with the definition. But I dont see other feminists denouncing the man-hating radfems who give the a bad rep. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:52 AM
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How do you not get sad about getting older?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:50 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:46 PM
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and looks like a cute girl Its always this at the end when a girl says she like short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:40 PM
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Yea but height isnt necessarily tied to either role. I thought it was more about the way they act
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:46 PM
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Im also young and in college so most women around me arent overweight and are in my age group. I dont think their standards vary that much. Idk if youre including older women when you say average but Im not around them often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:03 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:45 PM
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I wasnt saying those are the preferences. I was saying that those are tall heights that are relatively common. And idk about a 5ft5 man being fine. I feel like most women prefer a man to be at least average height which is 5ft9.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:34 PM
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Thats seen as compensating in the eyes of a decent amount of women so its probably generally a negative to be that big as a short guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:30 PM
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What do you consider short?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:27 PM
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What do you consider short?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:23 PM
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From 5ft11 to like 6ft1. Anything higher than that is way less common
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:17 PM
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Well what about lesbians or bi women? Do they not have that element?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:12 PM
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Why dont lesbians or bi women feel this way? I dont think most care about the height of the girl they are with. So why does this only apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:11 PM
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Just because a woman is less attractive doesnt mean that her standards drop. They still would rather be single than settle. If they cant get the guy they want they just wont date. Those women have height preferences and other preferences just like other women do. And tall men arent that rare so I wouldnt say wanting one is unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:06 PM
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It is and people will act like it guys are making it up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:00 PM
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Im black so none of that applies to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:54 PM
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Most women won't phase men out because of it This isnt true. Most women have a height that they wont date below. If you are below that you arent even an option to them A lot of women even prefer 'short kings'. This is false. Its not a lot. Ive heard a women say that shes specifically prefers short men my life. Ive heard some say that they dont mind short men but never a preference for short over tall. This is never said IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:52 PM
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Why dont lesbians or bi women who date women care about protection? Does that desire just go away once they start dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:46 PM
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This never made sense to me at all because women who date women do not generally care about the height of the women they are with. So why do women only think this way toward men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:45 PM
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Below average height for a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:41 PM
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Why would average women have lower standards? That doesnt make sense at all to me. Their standards are just as high in my opnion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:41 PM
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Ideally Id lose it to a girl Id be in a relationship with but its a red flag nowadays so idk if that will even happen. At this point if I get an opportunity with a girl Im attracted to I would take it. If anyone asks if I am one I will lie about it. It would only hurt my chances at getting a gf which is my main goal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:13 PM
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I am lean not skinny fat. I have a haircut and dress well enough. I havent hit the looks threshold. The fact that you said that I have to make up for having certain traits does mean that its high. Why even deny that? Im black, short, and introverted and fit none of the stereotypes so im literally seen as lame and nerdy by default. And Im not going for only white girls like you. I dont care about that. Girls who look like me arent even interested even though I prefer them the most. Dont know how …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:24 PM
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This is what you said: Most men are just generic people. They aren’t potential mates at all, they aren’t even men, they are humans. Its not possible for me to notice every person but yes I do see them as women. Dont know why age is relevant. Im wasnt talking about the potential mate part. You said that they arent even men. Are they only seen as men to you if they are a potential mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:18 PM
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You said you dont see them as men though. Do you see women the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:08 PM
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Most men are just generic people. They aren’t potential mates at all, they aren’t even men, they are humans. This is wild ngl. Like what does this even mean? How do you not see most men as men? I know most guys are NPCs to women but not even seeing them as men is weird to me. And most women are generic people too. I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:10 PM
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Assuming you're fucked and it's your genetics is just going to make you miserable forever Im not assuming im fucked. Im reacting to whats around me and what Ive seen. I know whats desireable and what girls like and Im not that. Im not delusional. Im realistic. you're actually scared of putting into the effort and still failing. I already put in effort. Dont know where you got that from. Im fit, play sports, and work. The problem every dude who bitches about this makes is their "self improvement"…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:02 PM
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Height is least important if youre at least average height. If youre below that its the most important thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:17 AM
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I would say the majority of guys can have a hoe phase. The bottom quartile probably can’t. Dont think this is true at all ngl. There’s a big difference in the quality of the girls they’ve slept with depending on how attractive the guy is, but there’s not really a difference in quantity. My friend with the highest body count is relatively average looking. He’s about 5’10, sort of scrawny (runs but doesn’t lift), and nothing exceptional about his face. But he’s super charismatic and gives zero fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:53 AM
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I agree its not the rejection that hurts them its the lack of interaction at all. I think apps work for women and good looking men. I dont think it would work for most men. I doubt a woman would be interested in an average looking guy trying to chat her up to get her number or set up a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:19 AM
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Im not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:32 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:31 AM
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In terms of the question she asked about hoe phases. Literally any girl can have one and I understand why but this question couldnt even be asked for guys as it doesnt apply to like 90% of them. And idk why im getting downvoted. What did I say that was controversial?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:30 AM
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It probably is. Most people on it are bots. Especially on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:44 PM
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I was asking more rhetorically but I am glad you socialize. All i was trying to do is that, it is quantifiable to see progress in social and relationship aspects of life. I dont think you can in dating tho. You either have success or you dont. There really isnt a middle ground How is your situation the same as a millionaire? Money is money. Advice like saving, investing in certain things, and not overspending will guarantee that you get better with money. It may not be the same amount but it wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:27 PM
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If they feel like shit after a lot of virtual rejection how do you think they would feel after IRL rejections? Even worse. The numbers game is just delusion ngl. At some point you have to ask yourself is taking that many Ls worth 1 W. Cause its not in most cases. Most of it is luck and most guys end up failing as cold approaches barely work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:41 PM
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How many women do you talk to in a week? How many social situations and outings are you attending a week? Increase those, increase your odds of connection. Im in college rn and am in multiple clubs. I go to sport events weekly and play for my school. I talk to girls there Hell my brother is one of the most attractive dudes I know but he hasn't ever had a serious relationship and he doesn't sleep around that often. If he wanted to he could tho right? Its a choice hes making. In all likelyhood mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:38 PM
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Because that's just how progress and goals go. If you keep taking persistent leaps and steps toward a goal consistently you will get closer to said goal. Just... Kind of how shit goes. Thats how it works in every area of life except relationships. How do you measure someone getting closer to getting a gf? You literally cant. Reading comprehension.... "Of course there will be outliers and of course it is easier for different people If its easier for certain people that contradicts the idea that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:18 PM
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That is the thing. The people who want it the most spend time getting it. The guy who fucks the most is the one putting in the effort. Delusional 🤣. This kind of thinking is what makes men resentful after self improving and still getting nothing. Its 100% false. Effort ≠ Results. There are 0 guarantees. Dont know why people on here think thats the case. Let me guess youre tall and attractive but swear effort is the reason why you get girls right? Be fr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:54 PM
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The sexual life of a 5'8" person vs a 6'2" person will be WAY WAY different than 6% and there's almost nothing the 5'8" guy can do to improve. Yea this is 100% true ngl. Their potential for improvement and their peak is way higher than a shorter guys. The rest of what you said is true too ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:56 PM
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Ok. What height do you think is midget/manlet tier for men? Like where they struggle the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:23 PM
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So whats the optimal height for a woman then? People act like it doesnt matter at all. And I know all of the height statistics sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:08 PM
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The kid can still come out short tho. Thats not a guarantee of anything. I just think they just dont like short men tbh. Because if what you said was true tall women wouldnt care about height in guys but they still do. And what is considered a midget to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:02 PM
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Yea I know and im not trying to compare I just dont get how some here can say most men do certain things when in reality its a minority of men who can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:57 AM
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Wow. And most single men arent spinning plates
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:22 AM
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Why not group him with the gym guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:00 AM
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Why do you dislike short men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:55 AM
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Hope everything goes well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:06 AM
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as for the height thing, keep in mind im 5’7 myself. so really i just like guys taller than me. Yea I understand that. I would be good if was at least 5ft9 tbh it’s unfortunate you say most people aren’t charismatic, social skills seem to be a dying art or something. even tho im naturally introverted and reserved, i had a very public facing job for awhile so my ability to talk to people grew a lot with practice and helped my confidence a bunch. Im thinking about getting a job like that ngl. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:01 AM
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Tough. Im exactly 5ft7 too lol. Most guys dont have a nice face in the eyes of women and most people arent generally charismatic either. I assume you prefer extroverts like most girls. So being introverted, short, and around average looking means it will be pretty rough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:57 PM
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Youre dating or have been in a relationship right? Experience is crucial for men in dating. If I dont have that I wont have a chance. I need it to date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:28 PM
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If Im honest about it I may never have one at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:35 PM
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Its not for no reason lol its exactly what they want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:32 PM
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Youre average height you should be good. Im below that and wouldnt use lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:36 AM
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I feel like most guys who pedestalize women only had brothers or were the only child. Theres no way you can have sisters and still think like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:26 AM
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Im fit, Im in college rn working part time, go to church, and idk about fun I have pretty niche interests. The funny part only matters after I get a match. And having all of those still doesnt guarantee success
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:50 AM
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What would you rate their faces out of 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:44 AM
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some other desirable qualities Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:42 AM
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A short man realistically isn’t going to get a beautiful woman, he might have to settle for a below average woman. That is what you said. Do you really believe less attractive women would be more open to dating short men? Cause I dont think so. Their standards arent lower than any other womans. They would rather be single than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:35 AM
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I think they are generally around average but I feel like the average height has gone up in my generation. No way its still 5ft9.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:46 PM
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I dont think anyone is going for 5ft7 men on apps. And im black not latino or asian so theres that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:37 PM
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I dont think Im ugly but idk what I would be rated as
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:30 PM
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Everything else is alot lol. I basically gotta be perfect then. And shorter women like tall men the most
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:27 PM
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White men do the best on apps why would that be a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:26 PM
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Be 100% honest. Should I even try dating apps at 5ft7?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:17 PM
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I dont get why there us such a rush especially if its with a person you can see a future with. Whats a few years compared to the rest of your life? Its an important decision to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:14 PM
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Girls live in a different world I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:08 PM
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Not telling any girl im a virgin. Its an instant red flag. If I tell the truth I will be single for life. Girls that dont care about it are so rare they basically dont exist. Men are way more lenient with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:06 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:09 PM
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Most men are seen as not so good looking and wont ever make that much money to compensate for the lack of looks. Kindness is a good trait to have on top of the other two but it isnt attractive on its own. I dont think most women would be content with a not so good looking man who is kind and makes average salary. Correct me if Im wrong but I think that may be what you were hinting at with this: Exactly. The only thing left to value is beauty and attractiveness. Women have friends so being a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:05 PM
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It took me a while to realize this but its kind of true ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:44 PM
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You agreed with the last comment about genetic lineage and said that the only thing left to value in men is attractiveness and beauty. And you said women have friends so just being a good person isnt enough. I interpreted that part as women are better company. Do you think look/attractiveness are the most important things for guys? Or did you mean it in a different way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:47 PM
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Are you blackpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:24 PM
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How do you know that the person behind you isn't putting any effort it? The person behind you could be working harder than you for all you know. Comparison is the thief of joy. It's best to focus on your strengths and what you have to overcome and the man that you need be instead of looking at where other men are already at. Im pretty sure most girls would pick a skinny fat or chubby tall guy over a fit short guy. One put in effort and the other didnt. I dont think there are women who prefer sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:59 AM
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Rejection will feel personal, getting ghosted will feel personal, dead conversations will feel personal. But, none of that shit is true. It just means that person wasn't interested in you. Constant rejection with no success might be worthy of self-reflection and potentially a change. However, rejection is usually a fully individual decision that has zero bearing on anything that you can control. How can you not take rejection personally? Getting rejected is literally someone saying that you aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:30 AM
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Same. I know what good looking is and I dont think Im that. Im not delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:30 PM
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Thats how it is rn. People will deny it but its been proven again and again. Average guys shouldnt even use dating apps in my opinion. Its just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:59 PM
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They dont want to give it to him because hes a rookie. He deserves it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:53 PM
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So true. They live in a different world I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:46 PM
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Its stem based and what Im majoring in so I thought it would be cool. Its also connected to a program I did in HS so I got recommended for the position. I heard that teaching what you know makes you understand it better so I thought why not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:38 AM
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lol So you only hung out with older people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:13 AM
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Yea its one of my favorite hairstyles on girls ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:19 AM
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I work at an afterschool program for grades 1-5 after classes and its pretty interesting to see how easy kids socialize and make friends at that age. Like even the quieter kids. I wonder what happens that changes and makes it harder when people get older. Maybe people are meant to make most of their friends when they are that young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:06 AM
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How do I do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:43 AM
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What does it do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:40 AM
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Yea but I didnt really like it that much ngl. And yea she does
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:12 AM
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Really beautiful tbh. Highkey got a crush on her <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:53 AM
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Yea. Im pretty sure thats normal tbh. Im on a campus tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:12 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:42 PM
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Are you alt? And they look pretty cool ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:26 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:46 PM
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You know his fanbase is majority women right? Women support him the most and are his biggest fans lol I dont think they care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:25 PM
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Yea I dont think you said anything too crazy ngl. And the rudeness is just a trend here I guess. Alot of the people here regardless of their pill color are mean af. I hope nothing people said here gets to you. Digging through someones post and comment history just to insult them is weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:57 AM
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What did they do after?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:45 AM
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While the guy is married? Does the wife find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:22 AM
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Whats it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:15 AM
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Are you really good looking? How did yall meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:14 AM
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Im 5ft7 too and yea most are around my height. How do you do with girls? Im in college rn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:05 AM
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I think 5'7 is where you can start feeling the preferences cause its noticeably shorter than 5ft9 and there isnt that much of a difference between 5ft6 and 5ft7. And Ive had girls that Im 1 to 2 inches taller than say we are the same height so idk about them just not wanting someone shorter. I think the same height as them is the lowest most girls would go and thats being generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:57 AM
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Whats manlet tier?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:33 AM
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I think its true for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:32 AM
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Would you say 5ft7 is ok? Generally speaking. I know its below average so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:27 AM
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Ok. So what would you say is an ideal height range for most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:24 AM
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Lol I agree. But why do you think 6ft is the number women are set on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:15 AM
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167 to 174 I think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:12 AM
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Are you in the south? Someone else said girls are shorter down there so maybe thats why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:54 AM
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Never been on a date but I do it with my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:40 AM
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Not at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:38 AM
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Whats the average height range down there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:13 AM
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I mean women pretty openly say that they dont like inexperienced guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:01 AM
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The average height for Gen-Z girls is around 5ft5 to 5ft7. Anyone denying this isnt around them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:57 PM
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I think its real. There are guys who get that reaction IRL. Dont know why people think its fake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:48 PM
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Its insane how they look at him. I cant even imagine getting looked at like that by girls. He has a clip with one of the hottest women Ive seen looking at him in that way. With the white top and blue jeans. Thats life I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:27 PM
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There is no such thing as average when it comes to looks. People are either attractive or they arent. Average falls under unattractive. Just like with height. Youre either tall or you arent. Its one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:29 AM
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Did your parents or whoever raised you teach you things directly or did they expect you to learn by watching them do things? Which way do you think is better and which would you use with your children if you have/want to have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:39 AM
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Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:29 PM
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I dont get it either ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:28 PM
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Idk Ill see if she say it later
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:01 PM
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Lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:57 PM
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Do you believe the women who claim that they feel for men's loneliness and struggles when it comes to dating? I dont really think most who say they feel for it actually care. Their experiences are probably so far from it thats its almost impossible for them to put themselves in the shoes of a guy going through it. Some say they understand but as women they are not going to be in the same postion as a guy with dating issues so how can they really get it? I think they can understand loneliness on …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:12 PM
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I think its that they dont mind them. Not that they love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:26 PM
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I think so. There is a decent amount of men who prefer bigger women. You cant say the same about women preferring short men. Ive heard guys say they are into fat women. The most ive heard from women is saying that they dont care about height. Never heard one say she prefers short over tall
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:37 PM
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If its a facet of attractiveness then it matters to him. If it had no impact on her attractiveness to him then I would believe what he says. Height is an attractive feature in men. And its one of the most important ones at that. People see taller men as more masculine and the ideal man for most women is tall. Ive never heard a woman say her ideal man is short. And it doesnt have to be the main reason they like them but If they find the feature attractive and their partner also has that trait it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:46 PM
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I didnt say men dont care about height I just said that women care way more. Which is true. And the earnings thing is kind of similar because it was about women saying mens response to something ( a woman being taller or earning more money) is the reason why they do something else (prefer taller men or men who make more money). I dont think thats the case because the preferences were already there to begin with generally. And no I dont have a study. I said I feel like its a similar situation. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:18 AM
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What do you think about this one? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020 And I dont ask the question to women because like you said I already know the answer. Im just dont get the contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:57 AM
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Why would he date you in the 1st place if he felt that way? I dont think most short men are that aggressively insecure about it but some can be. Women generally care more about height than men do and want taller men more than men want shorter women. Look at this. And it seems to me being insecure about height is the worst insecurity a guy can have. I never hear any other one brought up. I feel like its a similar situation where women say men get intimidated by high earning women as a way to just…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:55 AM
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I know and im not talking about the guy just being taller than the girl because thats normal. Im talking about a significant height difference. Like ive seen comments where girls say they dont care about height but then say their bf is like 6ft3 or something. If you say you dont care yet still end up with someone on the extreme end of it something isnt adding up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:38 AM
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I know its to be nice but why lie about it if its so far from the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:30 AM
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There arent lots of tall women with short guys lol its a minority. I think most care and few do not. And you cant be indifferent and still prefer taller. That makes no sense. And she was trying to give me encouragement or hope I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:16 AM
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Many women who say they dont care still end up with taller men and would never date a guy below a certain height. I had a woman on here tell me that women dont care about it then a day later she said that she doesnt know how she dated short guys in the past. She was clearly lying about not caring
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:11 AM
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Why do so many women claim they dont care about height despite there being a clear preference for taller guys? It seems disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:08 AM
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Its not really on purpose its just something that has been conditioned into men since they were young. And its not easy to escape that mindset despite it being some of the most repeated advice given on here. Thats like telling women to not put value into societies beauty standards. They have been shown it since they are young and it has been reinforced while they were growing up. You cant expect them to wake up one day and not abide by them. I dont know why advice that is so hard to execute is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:40 PM
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Genetics really are everything wow. And if you dont have that you need money to compensate for it. Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:48 PM
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Connecting self worth with success with women is something that has been pushed for as long as I can remember, and probably will continue to be pushed. Why do you think calling a guy an incel/virgin is an insult said by both men and women? Why is inexperience seen as a red flag and why do some women not want to be a guys 1st gf? Because its seen as a negative thing if a man doesnt get attention from women. Its pretty easy to internalize this and have it impact your self esteem/worth. How do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:50 AM
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Just to get disregarded for a tall guy who has none of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:15 AM
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And if youre below average height? Im not white so I dont have that advantage either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:12 AM
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Thats one 1 trait needed to overcome being ugly allegedly. Look at all the traits she listed a guy needs to overcome being short. If and only if you have all those there is a possibilty she may overlook your height, and will put you on even footing with a taller guy who has none of them and is just tall. If he has one he passes you instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:10 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/xTRrOQ2YbV So if you arent tall just be a 10 in every other category lol. Got it. You have to compensate in every other way possible to make up for the one area you are lacking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:55 AM
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And women say porn is unrealistic. At least it contains actual people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:44 AM
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Why would a woman who is less attractive have lower standards? Thats not how it works. That wont increase his chances at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:23 PM
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Exactly. Women do this with celebrity crushes and guys they see on tiktok/IG all of the time. Dont know why they deny this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:21 PM
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You might have to do some initial convincing, but once a woman is attracted to you, she's generally into you genuinely. If you have to do convincing I dont think she will ever be attracted to you in the same was she would be to a guy where the attraction was natural. If you have to convince her that means she finds you unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:19 PM
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Yea I think thats true ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:51 PM
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Why do some lesbians get with a masculine partner then? Isnt that in some way them trying to feel feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:51 PM
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There are a good amount into lesbians who act like men tho. They dont seem to care about height for those types
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:50 PM
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True. I think lack of mutual attraction is the main reason its disliked by them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:33 PM
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Do women only have height preferences for men? Cause I dont see lesbians talking about it at all. A good amount of women say that they want to feel safe/feminine/small so they go for taller guys. Does this desire just go away when they become attracted to women? And why is it only toward men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:32 PM
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Im pretty sure women have higher standards for men than they do for other women. Like Ive never heard about lesbians having strong height preferences or them saying that they want to feel protected so they need someone taller
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:24 PM
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Yea I dont really get how women rationalize this at times. If Im around a girl its only natural that Ill like them more if I hang around them alot. I dont get why they see guys liking friends as a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:21 PM
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Maybe you should get it checked out just to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:29 AM
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It was atopic dermatitis. Are you itching?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:22 AM
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It used to happen to me before kind of. Like my hands would get really hot compared to the rest of my body. Not really sure why but I think it was tied to a health issue I had at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:18 AM
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Do the ones who think like this ever fully invest in any relationship or guy? Because most could literally replace a guy very quickly if they wanted to. I think this line of thinking is becoming more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:54 PM
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How are you supposed to find a connection if you arent fully invested in the people you are talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:07 PM
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How do people expect to build a connection with someone if they are dating/talking to 3 other people at the same time? How do they rationalize this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:40 PM
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I had a girl I was 2 to 3 inches taller than say we are the same height lol its crazy nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:23 PM
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Im already fit/lean so I think gaining weight is my only option tbh. If I get too big ill look weird so I dont wanna gain too much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:21 PM
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Im 5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:58 PM
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I looked into it and its really expensive. I was told im not that short (idek what that means) and wasnt seriously considering it but it seems really dangerous ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:54 PM
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I dont watch wrestling at all but some of my friends do and want me to go to a show thats coming up. Should I go?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:51 PM
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Why did you date him then If you dont mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:34 PM
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This is partially why I made this post ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:30 PM
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Would you date a misogynist/misandrist if they said they saw you as an exception or "one of the good ones"? I feel like men are more likely to do this than women. I think women care alot about what men say about other women. But from what Ive seen men dont seem to care as much about what women say about other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:03 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:32 AM
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Ohh ok. Who was the post targeted for then? And is admitting to compromise a good thing? Im also on the younger side of people here I think so maybe thats why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:40 AM
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You have to be confident and you have to stop thinking that settling is bad! She can be perfect in all ways but she’s a little fat and doesn’t wanna lose weight, so what! Date her and get to see if you can deal with a fat girl, if not don’t blame the girl you can’t bag! Why should men settle tho? Many women here are against it and would probably never do what you suggested men to do. Most would probably remain single that settle in the way you wrote or any other major way for that matter. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:38 AM
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Atp I'm getting concerned about male body image and self esteem regarding their looks. Yea its probably at an all time low rn ngl. I struggle with it at times tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:19 AM
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Would you rather be left on read or left on delivered?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:27 PM
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Baba
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:03 PM
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The people who stay and argue are also schizos lol. No regular person can do this for any exteneded period of time. Thats why all the normal people leave the sub after a while or just stay in the daily chat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:16 PM
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These aren’t true statements, they are straw men At any rate, fat women or exaggerated curves have been desirable across epochs and cultures since the beginning of human history. Diminutive men have not. You said that and used the term shrunken masculinity. What you wrote above is literally saying that saying short men have not been desireable since the beginning of human history. How is that a straw man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:28 PM
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So short men are seen as less masculine? I dont think flat/skinny women are seen as less feminine generally. And if short men have never been desired and are seen as "lesser men" why do people say that women dont care about height? Since its never been a trait that has been desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:11 PM
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Im starting to realize that there is no average to girls lol. A guys attractive or he isnt. What they mean by average is whats on the lower end of what they find attractive. Actual average and below average guys are seen as ugly by default
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:00 PM
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So why do women lie about height not mattering? If it never was and never will be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:36 PM
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What do you mean by shrunken masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:34 PM
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But why tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:24 PM
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Yea that would be weird ngl dont think I could do it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:26 AM
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Why do some women say men are clinging to old gender roles as if the vast majority of women dont still enforce those same roles? Especially in the context of dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:05 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:56 AM
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When does it drop?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:28 AM
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I like cardboard box alot ngl. Summertime is good too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:21 AM
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Idk about the categories but my celebrity crushes are Kelly Rowland, Alicia Keys, and Teyonah Parris. They are really beautiful imo. But rn she is number 1 to me. Easily a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:01 AM
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True It sounds horrible if played poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:13 PM
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Why not? I think its a pretty cool intstrument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:08 PM
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Ok Ill try that and thanks for the app. Ill look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:55 PM
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Why did you stop? I used to take lessons when I was younger but stopped cause we moved. And you are probably pretty good if youve been playing for 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:53 PM
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I try to remind myself of this as im trying to improve my social skills too. And yea I know lol, Im not doing it for girls but it is a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:50 PM
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What did you start with? I just got one recently and dont know where to begin tbh. I plan on teaching myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:48 PM
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You play?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:42 PM
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What I try to tell myself about learning guitar lol. My musicmaxxing journey begins today😤. Songs otw <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:35 PM
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There are a lot of attractive older women lol. What happens after 30 that makes you sick?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:18 PM
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Thats very harsh lol. A 4 is below average and she isnt that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:52 PM
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I always wonder if they go on subs like that for attention or if they actually believe that they arent attractive. Cause she is cute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:31 PM
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😐
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:24 PM
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Spelling has nothing to do with being girly. And Im not 50+ like almost everyone else here lol emojis are regular
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:20 PM
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Shes still pretty af. And look at her other tiktoks. She my type 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:18 PM
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Your gut is wrong🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:14 PM
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Im not tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:13 PM
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How wtf😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:12 PM
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Why would I larp as a man lol. And what girl is named Wesley
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:03 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:01 PM
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22.7 😤 I do wanna gain weight tho. Im fit but I feel like I look too slim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:00 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@ay0.kylah/video/7191319013606116651 Neeed. Shes so pretty too wtf😭 Easily a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:56 PM
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Why is the convo always around men caring? Women care too just in a different way. Most are not into inexperienced guys or virgins. How are the 2 any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:45 PM
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