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You hating them but still pulling them makes everything you wrote invalid. You still got relationships too. That literally proves my point. A regular guy who likes and loves women will never have those experiences. So how can it matter at all? They dont care about that
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:05 PM
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So yeah, you folks have to be more sure about yourselves even if it’s a straight lie. I’m far from a 10 but I should let you know that ALL HOT women I know, including my wife, are not dating 10s. 63% of young men are singke compared to 34% of young men. Who are they with since its clear they arent dating the average young man. And I dont see how telling guy to be delusional fixes anything Often, only young, futile women look for the so called “chad”. The best women are looking for a great person…
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:50 PM
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Where do yall think the self doubt come from? Do you think people just wake up one day and decide to think that way? Painting it as self destruction is false. Its repetitive negative reinforcement. Shit like this coming directly from women my age and goes viral daily: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI There are like 20 screenshots there and Im not the one who made it either So yes tons of guys are unwanted. Saying all this is a result of not wanting it or not trying hard enough is disingenuous.
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:42 PM
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Do players, fuckboys, and toxic men like/love women? They have women flocking to them no matter how they act. They still get love. Some people on this app dont live in the real world. None of that is required at all and nothing in life shows that it is
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:39 PM
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Yea. Probably because Im not attractive enough. Im above average on paper but that doesnt mean really mean much in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:06 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:01 PM
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The mod with the pink hair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:00 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:07 AM
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That looks good af ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:35 AM
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Im not the best but Im getting better. I messed up here but most of it sounds good. I play alot more now since I got hurt https://voca.ro/1kdR0M1IrsiO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:27 AM
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What do you think is most accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:12 AM
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I think they are basing it off of their test results not the description I posted. I get what you are saying tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:55 AM
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Tipped 1K on a 40 dollar order lol. Hes insane. I dont know what he thought was gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:17 AM
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Whats the correct way to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:05 AM
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i do! i paint a lot, it’s my favorite hobby. i would describe my style and appearance as artsy and alternative Thats cool. Do you show it off or just do it for yourself? Ive been playing guitar for maybe a year now. I was thinking about posting some stuff here but very critical of myself lol. i’m also very introverted, i find it funny when ppl here say that, but i get that a lot. i’m very friendly as i mentioned, but also naturally very reserved. i actually am realizing i prefer online friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:59 AM
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Any pictures of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:38 AM
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Only true if your other traits are at least average
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:34 AM
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I dont really know what they mean tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:26 AM
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What kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:03 AM
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Do you make art or do you just like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:50 AM
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Do you make art? And you dont come off as introverted tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:47 AM
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What lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:40 AM
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I dont think its that easy to stand out because other things play a role in being attractive. But it is an important part of it for most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:34 AM
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How long does it take?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:21 AM
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Which type are you? https://preview.redd.it/jwjdfxj353be1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c0c9a009002a5d5ae5d86666e2afcbd730ffec0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:20 AM
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You have a nice voice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:14 AM
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Same. Its hot af
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:12 AM
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The gym and working out is necessary for most guys to be seen as attractive. If they are in the gym young how would they miss their glory years?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:11 AM
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Idk I cant move mine. That or I dont know how to do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:06 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:19 PM
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I was talking about regular women not the pros lol. I just think they have and advantage over men in that area due to the way their voices are. They do sound better than men on average though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:18 PM
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True I guess lol. I know a bunch of guys suck at it but I just assumed women would be better at it naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:55 PM
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One thing I dont get is why arent more women good singers? Not even good just decent actually. And I mean like regular people not pros. Their voices are naturally melodic and have a sing song element to them. I feel like they have an advantage over men in that area
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:34 PM
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What kind of women are they
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:49 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:37 AM
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Since when was it that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:04 AM
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Shes prettier than Rubi Rose
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:43 PM
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Ok I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:34 PM
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Yea shes easily an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:29 PM
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Delusional lol. She looks better than almost all of the girls guys post on here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:28 PM
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10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:23 PM
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Shes a stacy to me. Idk what a stacy-like looks like ngl https://preview.redd.it/4h2l4aun2w7e1.jpeg?width=1124&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14285151c77d47d6d7aadc04710cc4aa5b5f6301
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:22 PM
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I didnt take offense lol I just know women who say that about men and that’s what they usually say about them when they aren’t around Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:05 AM
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I dont look like a woman lol. She just said that I would be pretty if I was one. Its kind of brutal when you put it like that ngl. But people do have masculine and feminine facial features so I guess he was complimenting my feminine ones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:38 PM
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I guess it was a compliment then. Idk if a lean body is considered masculine/manly tho. I might have to get more bulky to fit that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:20 PM
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Id like to think mine are mostly masculine but idk. I guess everyone has a mix of them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:02 PM
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I dont think I do. Im not really sure what they entail specifically tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:56 PM
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I got told by a girl that I would be pretty if I was a woman. Idk if that is a compliment or not. I didnt really know what to say so I just said thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:25 PM
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Im spiraling ngl. My grades are shit, my foot is broken, and I think I may be depressed cause im losing interest in almost everything so this probably isnt the best place for me to be rn lol. Sorry for throwing that all out at once How are you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:48 AM
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Almost every fucking league title comes down to a bit of luck going for or against a particular team, that's the reality of sports Good teams arent complaining about refs matchfixing a game. Thats a shit mentality. It should have been in their hands to decide it in the 1st place No, they just get relatively mediocre results until they get the players they need to fit their "system". No manager is 100% adaptable and pragmatic, especially w/o a preseason and at least some transfers We've had no su…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:19 AM
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Its shouldnt have came down to that. Youve already listed multiple. They arent forcing a system on players who cant fit them. They are top flight managers not one trick ponies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:17 PM
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Mid table mentality lol. He peaked during the 1st title run that he choked. New ideas could save the season
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:16 PM
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He seems crazy ngl. Who knows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:50 PM
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Idk anyone. Hes incompetent. Choked 2 titles in a row and this one is over before January. Its clearly not working
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:42 PM
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I get that. It was a pretty dumb thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:28 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:24 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:23 PM
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How you been? And yea yall got it this year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:22 PM
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Youre funny af lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:14 PM
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Arteta Out. Leagues gone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:14 PM
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Yea I agree it was reckless and over the top. I dont know what was going through his head when he thought of this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:12 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:09 PM
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What if he said that he wanted to make it memorable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:07 PM
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Damn lol can I get a hint
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:05 PM
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Idk lol its dumb af😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:59 PM
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Hey whats up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:51 PM
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Q4W: Your long time bf who you love dearly and are very excited to married proposes to you like this: https://np.reddit.com/r/AbruptChaos/s/VZ2K74l7lC Would you say yes or no?😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:47 PM
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Yea its pretty good ngl. Im watchin it the second it drops tn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:45 PM
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We had 2 injuries tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:33 PM
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I said Id be happy with it lol. I wasnt expecting much because of the form you guys were in. We shouldve won though. You know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:18 PM
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I did say I would be happy with a draw lol https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/539K6ga9BS Good game though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:03 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:01 PM
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Are you an Arsenal fan? Or just like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:13 PM
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🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:40 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/52xftptoc5xd1.jpeg?width=1124&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7c8f21a2f690b2dcf242d169a7f4ec2071c37fc1
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:49 PM
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Wesley isnt my real name I play D1 soccer I have a pet cat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:25 PM
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Oh ok. I didnt even know flair banning was a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:43 PM
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What does your flair mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:26 PM
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She looks way cuter here ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:01 PM
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She looks AI generated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:54 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:50 AM
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I feel that lol. I like fall most tho. Idk how people can like winter. I hate being cold
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:01 AM
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☠️☠️☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:39 PM
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Im alright. Been better. Things havent really changed from before so its pretty much the same. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:34 PM
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Yea it sucks ngl. And my dominant foot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:21 PM
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Only when Im anxious or nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:15 PM
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Maybe. We'll see I guess. Im not expecting much tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:14 PM
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Fire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:01 PM
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True. Calafiori is out too now. Im just being hopeful I guess. Yall are in good form so Id be happy with a draw ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:01 PM
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☠️☠️☠️ https://preview.redd.it/84l7bdomqdwd1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8df2b7a6713646f3790b49b104f1a80fc34d90fd Not me btw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:57 PM
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👀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:51 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:51 PM
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We're missing a bunch of key player so yall might take this one. We looked horrible against Bournemouth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:51 PM
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Soccer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:45 PM
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Id expect her to correct the narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:40 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:37 PM
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Yea thats what it was
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:37 PM
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Preciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:36 PM
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Legit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:28 PM
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I broke my foot so my seasons over. Tuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:20 PM
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You see it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:54 PM
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I dont get why people are saying what they are saying. Shes clearly pretty and I think this is a good picture
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:25 PM
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How can you even tell what her bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:21 PM
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Shes not a 3/10...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:19 PM
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New crush: <image> Shes really cute and her style is pretty cool if you see her IG. Shes pretty popular on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:05 PM
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True I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:26 AM
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Your not old bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:16 AM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:30 AM
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You can save your progress and come back to it later. You dont have to play every day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:30 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:11 PM
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This is wild wtf https://preview.redd.it/buetrru0w9jd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b7d3570d9d184aea8157145333dde7a309249a0c
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:06 PM
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Shes kinda hot ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:03 PM
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Good taste
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:38 AM
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That way too much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:09 PM
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That could actually work. Ill try it out. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:14 PM
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It might work but asking to hang out is still like asking a girl out on a date. Dont you think so? Its like if I have romantic intent its way harder to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:07 PM
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Ok so like I can approach girls and random people in general with no issue if asking them a question or other random things but when it comes to doing this romantically like to ask a girl out I cant do it. Like theres a mental block or something. Ik it sounds weird but Im fr. Like I can only really do it when my mind goes blank and thats what happened every time I have approached a girl. After the approach and introduction Im fine tho and can converse with no issue. Why is that and how do I fix …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:55 PM
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I get mine from a local place. Ive never had dairy queen lol. Heard its really good tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:49 PM
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Birthday cake
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:44 PM
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But she was still flirting after continously pushing back the date. If she didnt want more why not just stop replying or just send boring messages to put me off?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:42 PM
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What do you mean by keep it casual? I feel like she was like this from the jump with that mental recession comment. And why would she keep flirting with me and give me her number if she didnt want to go on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:29 PM
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Thanks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:16 PM
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That might be true. I wouldnt say I was simpy tho lol. I was just reacting to what she was doing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:06 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:03 AM
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Le NDA 🤫🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:02 AM
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Yea I can relate to that lol. Leaving really helps me forget about some of this stuff helps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:00 AM
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She never followed up with anything she said so I just stopped tbh. I just dont the point of what she was doing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:59 AM
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Yea this place and some parts of social media make me feel that way too. Thats why I stopped coming to this sub for a while and when I do its only to the daily chat. Theres too much negativity and depressing stuff here. I tend to ruminate a bit but as long as Im occupied with something my mind wont go down that path. I still have desire too idk what to do with it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:54 AM
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The part I dont get is why would she give me her number and flirt with me if she wasnt interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:38 AM
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I feel that. I only really feel down or sad when Im by myself. When im with friends my mood lifts a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:36 AM
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The thing is that she never proposed another day anytime. So I just stopped doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:33 AM
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Yea thats what I was getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:28 AM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:27 AM
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True but its easier said than done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:27 AM
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Update on this situation: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/61A7u6BCaT So she never did get back to me but I saw her again last month and she gave me her number. She asked for my IG and I told her that I didnt have one so she told me to take her number down. At the time I thought this meant that she actually was interested in me We texted for a bit then I asked when she would be free for a date and she said that she would be freer next week. She did the same thing the following week so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:25 AM
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Fr? Which post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:48 AM
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Isnt it true that most guys who can get hookups can also get relationships? I feel like girls may also want to date the guys they hookup with in most cases. I could be wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:45 AM
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This is funny af lol. He legit looks like the Arsenal 3rd kit https://preview.redd.it/3j68iedihkid1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=98d0c5acd322ec540dfc5d8ea123fca85c2b638d
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:40 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:08 AM
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I feel that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:40 AM
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Lift and Lurk type beat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:39 AM
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Id say yellow. And do you have new cow or cat pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:37 AM
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Plz dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:34 AM
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They look kinda cute and I heard they are friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:24 AM
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Momo Boyd or Renee Downer. Both are my crushes. I also like Teyonah Parris and Kelly Rowland but they are way past my age lol. Im probably forgetting someone else but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:13 AM
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Ok I get that. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:06 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:06 AM
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Tbh I find it hard to believe people who say that they dont compare themselves to others. Isnt that like a natural thing people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:04 AM
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How is that even possible? Everyone cares about that to some extent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:56 AM
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Ok. Would you agree when some people say that the only difference between friends and relationship partners is physical attraction? Its controversial to some so I get it if not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:51 AM
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Ok thanks. I was just wondering because some people use it differently
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:45 AM
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She is cute fr
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:09 AM
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I agree with that. Physical attraction is mandatory. The rest of the traits are negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:06 AM
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Ok. And I dont think any girl would want an ugly bf but I do think unattractive guys can have bf qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:37 PM
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What number is decent? Like rating-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:22 PM
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True both are needed I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:17 PM
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As in physically attractive or their vibe is attractive? Thats what Im trying to figure out I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:13 PM
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If you assume/think a guy has a gf does that mean you think hes attractive/good looking or just that he has bf qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:04 PM
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Bro hes weird af tho. He took less money to join the Mavs. Warriors offered him more before and he turned it down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:45 PM
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Id do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:27 PM
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Yea but he got the goal when they needed it the most
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:20 PM
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Jude is clutch af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:00 PM
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Jude is clutch af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:00 PM
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Bellingham just blessed yall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:56 PM
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Your figure is fire ngl. You look tall too lowkey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:58 AM
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I like the tiempos. These are my 1st puma ones I normally wear adidas ngl. The fit is pretty good and its really lightweight. I love the color
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:09 AM
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Rate my new cleats <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:58 AM
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2 weeks ago
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:57 AM
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It could be a fake pic tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:44 PM
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If a person who had 0 posts or comments DMed you and asked for your discord for a voice chat based off of a comment you made would you do it? Like add them and do a call I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:30 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:17 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:14 PM
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Do you take medication for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:57 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:51 PM
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Kitten thats always outside my house. I lowkey want to bring it in but Im allergic lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:37 PM
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Nah not into that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:31 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:30 PM
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Sci-fi, fantasy, dystopian, thrillers, action, mystery. Stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:14 PM
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Thats cute af
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:09 PM
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Yea. It was by a girl in the social circle I was in too. I talked about it before on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:08 PM
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Does anyone have book reccomendations for someone trying to get back into reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:06 PM
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I like it. You should keep at it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:20 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:47 AM
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I knew about her 1st
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:39 AM
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Momo Boyd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:40 AM
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Damn😭. Sounds brutal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:29 AM
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Hiii
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:14 AM
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See you know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:12 AM
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Well shes not that famous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:08 AM
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For a bit. Im trying to ascend lol. This place is bad for my mental health so I try to stay away from it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:05 AM
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She a famous celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:02 AM
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New crush. Shes pretty af and her vibe is fire. Very talented too https://preview.redd.it/31rsv6mbr09d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=23a242480443a4a5816fa8fa79f712200e3563d8
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:43 AM
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A necklace
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:44 PM
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You just need a hair cut and to lose some weight. Other than that you dont look too bad. I wanna put a pic up too but this sub has a bad rep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:11 PM
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Im only an inch taller. I thought you would be shorter tbh. I dont wanna know what the stats are for my height ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:19 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:15 AM
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Wow thats crazy. Most people here are so out of touch on topics like this. Thats why I rarely ever bring it up on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:42 PM
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Wow shes really pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:10 PM
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Only hope? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:45 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:38 AM
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Thanks a lot. I really mean it. I try not to focus on that kind of stuff but it does get to me at times ngl. Both of the things you said. I gotta get off social media for a bit tbh. I do know good women I just really hope I can find one that is interested in me. Im pretty closed off at times cause I dont want to get hurt but im trying to work on that. I wanna be stronger too. Its not easy but ill try. My goal is a relationship with the right woman like you wrote. I never thought being sensitive …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:20 AM
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of course you count. ❤️ what a wonderful story. im glad those words stuck with you. idk you that well but you seem like a really decent guy, and your thoughts deserve to be heard. Thanks I really appreciate it my kids aren’t at the age yet where they compare themselves to each other. being able to build a child’s self confidence is so so impactful and important. i’m glad you had them in your life and I imagine you have that impact on a few of your own kids that you teach! Yea I try to teach them…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:27 AM
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Is this true Processing img ov3uqdwxzwyc1...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:22 AM
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Is this true Processing img zpi6yywpzwyc1...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:21 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:18 AM
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Happy teacher appreciation week. I teach at an after school so idk if I count q4a: did you ever have a teacher or a coach or a mentor that changed your life ? Yea. I was really quiet in grade 4 like I never participated in class or talked in group work and I just stayed to myself alot. In my class there was always 4 levels for group work based on grades and I was in level 4 because I was a really good student. So one day he pulled me aside and said that theres no difference in me being in level …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:17 AM
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Exactly. If I get a gf im never coming here again. I think some people are larping or just here to brag if they even are telling the truth. Idk how they can have all those thing and still come here daily. I dont see any reason why the would. I had those things I wouldnt even know this sub exists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:32 AM
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What took you so long to change? You finally seen the light lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:34 PM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:20 AM
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Thanks and it doesn’t have to be a bad thing, as long as you protect your heart Can you elaborate on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:32 AM
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Attacking/center midfield. I play for my college rn i LOVE biking. the rush of the wind in your face Yea its really fun. Relieves a lot of stress too you seem like a sensitive type Idk if thats a good or bad thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:45 AM
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Soccer, Boxing, Guitar, Biking I guess streetwear/casual or athletic Being short hurts my dating chances/being in college I guess. Idk how people percieve me on here. I generally try to stay positive on here and not take it too seriously but have moments Chill, introverted, thoughtful I dont do drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:34 AM
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That sounds pretty fun lol. Do you have pictures? Not bad for a girl whose parents put her out on the streets at 17 with nothing but the clothes on her back! How did you deal with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:18 PM
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Do you live on a farm? Thats pretty cool ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:37 PM
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That would be my 13th reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:11 AM
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I started playing Fallout 4 and I really like it. I will try to watch the show soon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:05 AM
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Im playing Fallout 4 rn and its pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:13 AM
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Thanks I hope so too. How did you get better?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:46 AM
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I know I can have one but it will just be a bit harder. I wouldnt say I can have a good one tho. And obviously someone that height has it way worse than me but short is still short and thats what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:32 AM
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Has anyone see the Fallout show? I heard a lot about it and it seems pretty interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:21 AM
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5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:15 AM
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I mean its mainly toward myself and how I look. I dont really display it toward others. Idk how it comes off to people tho. I dont think they would be friends with me if it was that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:15 AM
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Im just short and have very low self esteem. I dont think im intolerable. I have friends and stuff. Idk what else it could be tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:30 AM
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Its because hes 5ft3. Nothing else matters once you are that short.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:45 PM
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Im literally 5ft7. I think I have an idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:02 AM
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The 2nd. I dont think thats a big enough height gap to give up being above average in looks. And being around average height isnt really a negative thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:54 AM
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Theres nothing really wrong with it I just dont think I look good at all. There are other reasons beyond face too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:45 AM
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I feel that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:39 AM
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I know looks matter but like you said if you were the exact same person but shorter you wouldnt have your gf rn. But your face would be the same if you were short so why wouldnt she still be into you? I have seen a girl say on here that once a guy gets below a certain height hes automatically unattractive so maybe thats it. I just dont get why height plays such a big role in attraction. Its clearly more important than a guys face because not even that can save a guy once he reaches a certain poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:36 AM
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You didnt feel weird hearing her say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:11 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:48 AM
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Tall. Being ripped means nothing really. Being lean is way more attractive in the eyes of most girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:43 AM
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I have no evidence that im not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:41 AM
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Idk if im actually ugly or I just think I am because my self esteem is so low
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:15 AM
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I had a crush on her tbh but thats done now. It wasnt a soft slap either. It didnt hurt much but it was clear she put force behind it. If it was a playful slap I wouldnt have cared
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:31 AM
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So brutal man. I knew it mattered but I didnt know it was that bad. Actually depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:15 PM
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And to think I had crush on her too lol. Thats over now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:29 PM
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I know. Im not talking to her anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:37 PM
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It was the ones in the yellow bag
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:55 PM
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Would you slap someone for that? And they probably would have said that I was doing too much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:47 PM
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It didnt hurt but it wasnt a soft slap either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:42 PM
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So basically we were in a group waiting by the door for a class to end and she pulls out a bag of onion rings which she always eats. And while she was eating them I said that they smell horrible and stink but in a joking way. She looked at me with a confused/annoyed facial expression then slapped me. Idk if she thought I was saying her or her breath stink but I clearly wasnt. I was talking about the chips she had
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:41 PM
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Got slapped in the face by a girl in my social circle and no one did anything. They just stood around and looked shocked. A few even laughed. I need new friends man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:24 PM
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I said the majorty not all. And its not that they want to financially benefit or leech its just that most dont want to be the main provider. The part about benefitting was from what ive seen women on here say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:40 AM
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Thats true I guess. Wheres the asshole part tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:08 AM
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What are the late stages?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:07 AM
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What do you mean too late? And what can I even do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:03 AM
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I mean yea it happens now more than ever but it still isnt ideal for them. Splitting the bill on dates is a red flag to most girls my age, so why would they want to split bigger costs down the line? Idk I was just going off of what Ive heard/seen girls say when I wrote that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:59 AM
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Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:28 AM
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When have I done that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:18 AM
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Well, you seem like you're stuck in negative thoughts and percieve things happening around you in the worst possible light every day, so it's no surprise Do I really come off that way? It suggests that in order to be perfectly mentally healthy you need to be a little bit delusional. This is prolly true ngl. That video game part is pretty interesting. Makes sense tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:14 AM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:51 AM
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Ive lost interest in all my hobbies recently and feel tired/apathetic a lot of the time. Idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:49 AM
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Yea I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:31 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:22 AM
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There are some in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:53 PM
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💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:24 PM
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I remember this one😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:16 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:51 AM
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She may like me but my inexperience may be too much to overcome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:42 AM
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The reality is that a pretty high number of women are fearful that an inexperienced man would view them as lesser for not being a virgin or having experience or whatever and would throw that in their face. Why would an inexperienced guy throw that in their face? The guy is in the exact same situation lol I'll admit that if a guy was like "I've never kissed anyone" that would give a pretty significant number of women pause. So not kissing anyone would make a significant amount of women pause but …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:33 AM
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Yea I am. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:06 AM
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Bro a lot of girls dont even want to be a guys 1st gf. I dont think its an overestimation. Being a virgin as a guy is a red flag to many girls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:03 AM
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Real. If a girl asks about it im lying ngl. Cause why would she pick me when she can get more experienced guys? And like you said she may leave if im not good in certain areas anyway. Its really a lose lose situation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:02 AM
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Take his spot. If its related to your field why wouldnt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:19 AM
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What are your thought on guys shaving their legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:03 PM
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I cant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:53 PM
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Yea but I wont say who it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:32 PM
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Mid doesnt exist for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:31 PM
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You should make a cooking channel on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:44 PM
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I meant shoulder ratio like body shape yk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:49 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:45 PM
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Lord willin🙏🏾 she dont even gotta be athletic fr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:38 PM
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What would an attractive one look like? And I think I meant shoulder to hip ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:09 PM
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Trueee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:00 PM
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Yea thats what I meant. I dont got the height part tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:57 PM
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Do girls care about waist hip ratio in guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:44 PM
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Do you like the team or just the player lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:13 PM
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A girl putting on a football kit adds 3 points to her rating. I dont make the rules🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:52 PM
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What skincare benefits does it have?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:35 PM
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maybe really bad eczema. I had this and it cleared up but I still hate having my arms or legs exposed. Idk when Ill get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:33 PM
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If its hot like 80+ degrees and someone is still wearing a sweater or jacket what would you think about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:09 PM
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What are the best scents a guy can have? Ive heard vanilla is popular
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:08 PM
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Prolly wont work lol. Girls adjust for heightflation and subtract that by default Ive heard. So when they say 6ft online they really mean an IRL height of 5ft10 or 5ft11
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:07 PM
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Wym? Like take deep breaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:54 AM
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No one actually plays that lol. The real ones are on roblox
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:17 AM
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It doesnt work like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:11 AM
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How do I get better at singing without getting lessons?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:57 AM
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Ok Ill try that. Believe it or not actually got kicked out of a reddit meet up group because I comment here 😭. Like I dont even say toxic stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:32 AM
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I get that. So would you recommend guys leaving the sub if they truly want to improve? I might uninstall the app for a bit ngl. I feel like I use it too much lol and there are a lot of jaded people here. I really dont want to become one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:16 AM
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No problem. Do you think this place is a net negative on the guys who come here regardless of how deep they are into the pill stuff? Or is it a place where they can see other persepectives and learn more stuff? Im leaning toward it being negative ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:04 AM
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Social anxiety and depression rates have spiked in young people Body and self esteem issues are growing amongst young men. And it’s brutal for an average guy to hop on a dating app and get almost zero matches Im feelin these 2 rn ngl. Im not on apps yet but I can only imagine how depressing it is to get no matches
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:31 AM
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I feel like you actually want guys here to improve. I dont get that vibe from a lot of girls here but it seems like you actually care. Idk I could be wrong lol. This is pretty useful tho so thanks for sharing this. Your last post was pretty good too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:53 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:22 AM
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Everyone knows a guy😂😂. I just laugh when I see stuff like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:50 PM
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Hes right lol. W fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:31 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jslpypot89xc1.jpeg?width=557&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12cba09236f27ad2289e23d2cb20004ff60be506
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:25 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:29 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:29 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:28 PM
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I have. There are a lot of cute girls on my campus and I have tried approaching a few. I have been told that Im overrating them but idk. I dont do it too often tho. I think it is frowned up more now but I want a gf and apps dont work for guys like me so I have to do it. I do have some self esteem issues and talk myself out of doing it most times but I am working on it. I havent had a bad rejection yet so Im glad for that. I do think guys are doing it less nowadays tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:59 PM
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Yall not getting another lol. Its over in Denver. Nuggets in 5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:20 AM
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Be fr man its over. Yall just delaying the inevitable😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:11 AM
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I got kicked out of a reddit meet up group chat because I comment on this sub. I dont even say toxic stuff on here. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:46 AM
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Real. If I could restart rn I would
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:42 AM
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Where im from the zone schools are trash and you have to put in an application to go to good high school. If your grades are bad you have to go to a zone school
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:07 PM
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Sounds interesting ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:13 PM
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Hmm ok. How do you think this would improve on how thing are now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:57 PM
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So the betas dont get to breed in this scenario? You dont talk about that. Or do they only breed with other betas? How would they benefit from this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:51 PM
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Fax. Most people on this sub are bots. No posts on their profiles and they only comment here. They arent real people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:24 PM
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You need good grades to get into certain high schools tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:27 PM
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Thats a good rating tho. If I put my pics up girls would probably rate me a 2 or 3 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:46 PM
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Wow. It seems like a lot of people generally dont fully move on from their last relationship before getting in another. Cause what is the reason for her still having that? I dont get it at all ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:39 AM
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True ngl. Dont even want to think about that fr
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:25 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:16 AM
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Man and white
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:15 AM
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No lol. Its true that most people arent ugly but you can tell the guys that they pick tend to be on the more attractive side and are one adjustment away from being considered good looking. Thats not regular
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:09 AM
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He just got a new cut and took off his glasses lol. They never pick guys who are actually ugly to do things like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:03 AM
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For guys who actually get matches on dating apps are the girls you match with more or less attractive than the ones you can pull IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:02 PM
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Thanks. Im pretty introverted too. Tryna work on starting conversations more tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:54 PM
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So what advice would you give to a young guy to fix it? Genuinely asking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:58 PM
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Its over man😂 get your broom ready lol🧹
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:55 PM
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Yea its over ngl. Bring out the brooms🧹🧹🧹
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:53 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:30 PM
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You gotta be direct. A real friend would never let another go out bad like that. Growin up I was told that your closest friends are the ones who arent afraid to tell you things to your face that other people gossip about. Idk if that makes sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:30 PM
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Noooo. Not at all lol. Maybe like philosophy a little cause you actually have to think in those classes. But the others are just memorization ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:49 PM
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This is true ngl😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:26 PM
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The same happens to short guys. People see them as less capable in alot of areas and look down on them. Short is seen as ugly by a lot of girls. And I feel like height is the most acceptable thing to put a guy down for at the momemt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:30 PM
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Sure it may not offset it but im pretty sure the 5ft11 guy would be more appealing to girls if they had to pick. 5ft5 is too short for most id say. And I dont think either has that bad of a social impact. Like you can still make friends and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:26 AM
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Exactly lol. They are out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:17 AM
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What do you mean by treated worse? Like in what sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:10 AM
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This is what a dad bod actually looks like 😂 Working out is a must as a guy. Unless your tall and can get away with the lanky look. This body type has never been desired by any girl https://preview.redd.it/rgo909gglrwc1.jpeg?width=300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ae8d64b6a990d1cd47de9e729064f67a5199980a
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:04 AM
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I can sympathize with socially inexperienced guys. They face a very steep learning curve, and due to how this plays out the rejection and awkwardness is front-loaded. This can be very discouraging and difficult to overcome, because it's not really a skill that you can become adept with by yourself. It's not like practicing piano at home being able to play publicly once you're good enough. Even when you're bad at it, there will be people there to witness it and the way they handle it can be painf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:44 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:36 AM
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6 or 7 is above average tho. And every short guy like that people bring up is super extroverted or very outgoing. Im not that. Never heard anyone talk about a regular short guy doing well lol. He has to be extraordinary in some way. And I dont have a niche
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:57 AM
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Idk about never being ugly enough lol. I think im just hypercritical of how I look
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:04 AM
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Ngl im not even ugly fr. Im at least a 5. I probably just gotta talk to more girls. Maybe Im delusional and overrating myself. Idk tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:54 AM
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What does this even show
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:35 AM
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True. A decent amount of people on here down play how important this is. And its always the ones who had those experiences too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:57 AM
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Agree. Being tall and atheltic is generally seen as more appealing/attractive. You arent even seen as an option for most once you are below a certain height regardless of how good you look
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:12 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:17 PM
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Idk most girls just dress casually on campus. Its mostly sneakers. The trends have changed I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:07 PM
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I see them other places but they rarely have them on. I was thinking about it cause some girls say that they want a guy taller than them in heels. I dont get it cause they rarely wear them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:59 PM
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Im im college rn. Why would you wear heels to class lol. And how do they work at the club? I though they hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:50 PM
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Why wear heels tho? Arent flat shoes more comfortable? I thought girls like being shorter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:45 PM
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When and how often do girls realistically even wear heels? Like in what scenario would a girl my age even have them on? I rarely see girls with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:23 PM
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Brutal. He lives in a different world man. I cant even imagine what thats like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:46 PM
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Delete this I got a ban for taking a screen shot of a comment she wrote. They are gonna ban you man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:43 PM
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The baby bear ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:23 AM
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I lowkey agree. Like they could go for non-white girls and do pretty well. They just dont want to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:56 AM
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A decent amount of girls of their own race look at them the same way. Dont know why people think its only with white girls lol. A white guy can be less attractive and pull the same caliber of girl regardless of what race she is. It is what it is I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:30 AM
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Thats a looksmatch in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:17 AM
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Its a comment. Im not linking to the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:51 PM
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Those guys have to be trolls. I think one guy said he was getting 10 matches a week or something like that and gets dates lol. No way they are serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:45 PM
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What do I have to hide? The rest of your comment is irrelevant to what ive shown. How does saying that they may eventually get married or date take anything away from the screenshot? And if I linked your comment it would get deleted for bringing threads into the daily chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:35 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:23 PM
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Shes a singer. Renee Downer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:13 PM
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Her. Shes number 1 for me rn <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:04 PM
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Some women on this sub are so disingenuous its ridiculous. Its either comments like this or telling straight guys to go to gay clubs to say how they have options but dont want them. Its weird af <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:51 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:46 PM
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Almost every negative trait a person could have looks way worse on men than it does on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:05 PM
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That doesnt mean they wont have the same mindset. Girls say guys their age are immature all the time. What she wrote isnt desireable to any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:55 PM
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So I basically I wont be able to get a girl who im on the same level as? If im young, fit, and dont have kids how am I supposed to get a girl like that if thats the type most men want? How low do I have to go standards wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:52 PM
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So what should I lower my standards too then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:46 PM
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They still want guys with experience though. No woman would want a guy like the one shes describing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:44 PM
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So that means they would want a guy like the one you described? Its sounds like a shitty option for anyone the way you explained it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:42 PM
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If women around average dont want those guys why would they? A women being less attractive does not mean she has lower standards. What are you not understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:39 PM
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They certainly can get a girlfriend. Just hit up a homeless shelter or retirement home. Disgustingly disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:38 PM
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What do you mean by underdeveloped brain? And why does life experience matter? The guys is going to get it eventually so why does it matter that he doesnt have it at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:32 PM
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This makes 0 sense. And if this is true why wouldnt young women have the same mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:29 PM
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Do less attractive women have lower standards than other women? I highly doubt that. They still want someone they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:24 PM
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Exactly. It makes no sense. I fit all 3 of those and apparently wanting a girl my age means my standards are too high. This sub is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:23 PM
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Why do you think those women have lower standards than any other woman? Thats not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:20 PM
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What child like features does an early 20s man have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:06 PM
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Yea this is actually kind of true. I feel like women dont really have to understand men to get them but men have to understand women if they want to get them. Like the woman version of this sub does not exist. They dont think about men this much at all. It really is an obsession that men have. Women cannot relate to this because they do not feel this way toward men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:42 AM
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I dont think one could fit under my jacket lol. And they do pat downs now cause people have tried to take animals in the past😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:04 AM
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I want a pet goat https://preview.redd.it/6itnhauk0zuc1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=96b71f94b78930af5ac67c3724b302c47bb8f188
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:53 AM
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How do you get over physical insecurities? Or how did you get over them if you already have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:49 AM
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Wow. Thats crazy ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:03 AM
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How is that even possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:50 AM
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The girls are just as cringe tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:41 AM
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What was she trying to do there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:32 AM
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Probably like 1% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:29 AM
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Tough https://preview.redd.it/y450yt0vhyuc1.jpeg?width=785&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f9618e989616512e62aab20e6c0cd13b0a408f29
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:08 AM
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Most of the people on this sub are white. They cant even comprehend the idea of race playing a role in dating. I dont expect any understanding from them with that. Thats why I rarely bring it up. Theres no point in trying to explain it cause they literally wont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:39 PM
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Why are you telling her to aim 5 to 10 years older?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:29 PM
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Exactly lol. I think every person except for 1 said she was very attractive or somethin like that. I dont even wanna see what my rating would be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:16 PM
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I didnt like that song too much ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:23 PM
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They are all 10s too. Pinkpantheress makes the best music imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:10 PM
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Wow. It looks really good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:02 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:44 PM
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What ive noticed is that they will disagree with the pilled stuff the way it is said outright but if you ask a question a certain way they will prove it to be true. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:32 PM
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Im not white. Thats not gonna work for me. And why would I leave the country just to find a girl who wants me for money? If im not attractive here I probably wont be attractive there either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:56 PM
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Most guys never get to that level of money or status. Dont know why people keep pushing that as if such an easy thing to do. Its really irrelevant because most guys will never have enough of either for it to benefit them significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:47 PM
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They wont. If its a girl they will say its a joke and just a trend so you shouldnt take it serious. But if a guy says something unrealistic like this these same people will jump on it and take it 100% serious and act like all men feel that way. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:29 PM
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The vast majority of women do not want to provide for a man financially and would never do it if they had the option. I doubt they care that they earn more and if they cant get a guy who makes as much or more they will just stay single. Earning less is probably an instant turn off for some. Money is crucial in relationships. Some women on here even say they wont date a man unless he improves their lifestyle. What am I supposed to think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:26 PM
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Im in shape but my face isnt that good man. Im average looking at best. And at 5ft7 thats not gonna cut it. I think he got tons of matches on apps too so Im gonna assume hes above average facially. I cant relate there. Still gonna try tho. I have no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:13 AM
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Yea you answered it in another reply so I just deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:47 AM
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True. Its tough man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:06 AM
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Why do you think some women place such a big importance on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:52 PM
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Not really tbh. Maybe once in a while. Ive never had a gf but as long as a girl put effort into the thing shes giving or doing it would mean a lot to me. Like a home made/thoughtful gift or just something small like making cookies for me would be cool. I do think a lot are subtle but it would be probably feel nice to be appreciated once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:20 PM
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True I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:57 PM
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You think so? I had hope she would let me know because she called me cute but the comments have me second guessing ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:56 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:16 PM
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The girl is still gonna be there tomorrow the double xp isnt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:14 PM
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Exactly lol. I actually think introverted women want extroverted and popular men the most tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:13 PM
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🤐 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:38 PM
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They will do the craziest stuff and still consider themselves straight. I dont get it at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:37 PM
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No woman made a comment disagreeing with it though. If its not somewhat true why wouldnt they speak out against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:53 PM
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I dont have another girl to talk to though. That was like a one time thing I did cause I normally dont approach girls. My mind just went blank and I walked up to her and started talking. Its not like that everytime for me I typically overthink it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:33 PM
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She said I was cute though. She has to have some sort of interest in me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:57 PM
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I doesnt happen on those viral tiktoks. Those are the posts im talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:53 PM
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So thats a no then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:49 PM
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Why do you say that? She could just be going through something at the moment. Idk tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:47 PM
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Would you actually follow up with a guy you told that to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:43 PM
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I asked a girl when she would be free for a date and she said that she would get back to me because shes in a mental recession. Idk what to think tbh. She did say I was cute so thats a plus I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:38 PM
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But its online. How can you virtually destroy your credibility lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:45 PM
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How is talking about a screenshot of a comment bringing a ppd thread to the daily chat? Im literally just talking about the comment I screenshotted...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:38 PM
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There are still guys who are interested if you take away those creeps. Girls have way more options than guys, especially with online dating added in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:35 PM
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The fact that people on here compare a straight woman not being into an average guy to a straight man not being into gay men or extremely elderly women says it all. Women have more options in both dating and casual sex. People who deny this are insane. The fact that this is said regularly is wild https://preview.redd.it/r5gbiybfzmuc1.jpeg?width=975&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f3246edf109881790ebe313ac51f239f1b759fd1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:25 PM
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Most men and women in general arent what you listed. Idk why a guy being average is him being a shit person. Why is it that guys who struggle are always labled as nice guy assholes? Why are they bad people by default? Thats disingenuous. And I think you should change your flair if you really believe personality is the reason for your success.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:03 PM
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What happened? Im there rn. Im already fit but im below average height if that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:07 AM
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True. Those are the only guys they interact with romantically anyway. In their minds they really are talking about men as a whole because the rest literally dont exist to them in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:04 AM
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Exactly. The are giving advice as if they are talking about a guy they are already into not realizing that most men dont even get over that hurdle. The advice they give is on how to keep a relationship not how to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:53 AM
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There are guys who do all of this and are still single or cant get dates. Why do you think that is? And it seems like you are talking about men who have no issues in dating, not guys who struggle to even get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:50 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:45 AM
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Thats exactly the reason. Idk what hes tryna say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:41 AM
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What is there to accept for you? You can get a gf or a hookup whenever you want pretty much. You dont relate at all to most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:40 AM
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Edited it. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:33 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ad7YWlcQAH This post is funny because women rarely check or call out other women when they post stuff like this about men. Or just content shitting on men in general. When men do it both men and women attack it. There are posts with millions of likes insulting men for things like height with 0 comments from women disagreeing. Women will just act like they dont see them or that they doesnt exist then get mad about comments like the one she highlighted. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:29 AM
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They are telling you to ask for it but its a turnoff if you do and they want you to figure it out through body language. How isnt that hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:03 AM
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People who say stuff like that dont even believe it themselves lol. Theres no way they do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:56 AM
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Girls generally like guys who have options though. Do you think a guy should have options before he tries to date? And dont you think they would rather try to turn the playboy stable than pick the stable guy? Cause being a playboy isnt a negative thing to a decent amount of them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:01 AM
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But why would he stay with the new girl if he already has a partner? That would make it worse for her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:56 AM
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So its better to get options and then try to date as a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:44 AM
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I thought it was more than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:44 AM
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Why wouldnt they just get a different guy? What does being better than the other girl do for her? Like why try to ruin a relationship for a self esteem boost lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:40 AM
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Do they consider the same type of guys "good men"? Because how is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:37 AM
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Is this true? https://preview.redd.it/cr88zht9ckuc1.jpeg?width=958&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=695a997b7a9bec4582a101759b1589c80c89df34
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:32 AM
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Damn. I cant even get a gf but there are guys that can do this. Its crazy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:31 AM
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I wouldnt say endless advantages. I do those things and havent seen much change tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:29 AM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:20 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1c3yv0n/women_of_reddit_who_chose_to_be_a_side_chick_to_a/ How common is this IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:19 AM
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People on here literally say that effort equals results when it couldnt be further from the truth lol. So Its not only those guys setting expectations on themselves its society too. The default belief is that if a guy isnt successful with girls he isnt trying hard enough. So how do they expect guys to feel when they do the things they are supposed to and still get no results? That mentality is what makes guys resentful. So I agree that the mindset change would help but its probably very hard to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:18 PM
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You can tell that be wasnt ugly to begin with tho. He just had a bad cut
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:59 AM
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I doubt tall guys think its weird if a girl says she only dates tall guys. Its a plus to them. And it is off putting but I dont see other girls calling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:43 PM
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I doubt tall men think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:32 PM
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Thats way different. Gold diggers dont actually like the guy. For the girls who have bios like that height is a prerequisite for them liking the guy. Most tall guys dont see girls who say they dont date guys below a certain height as red flags. They see it as boosting their chances with her. And I dont think most men care about the negative things women say about other men as long as it doesnt apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:27 PM
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I dont think most who say that are being honest ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:59 PM
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Yea some do have that in their bios. I highly doubt guys who fit the description she wants see it as a negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:51 PM
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Youre basically average you should be good if you arent too ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:25 PM
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I just wanna be at least average height. The 6ft thing is overblown in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:16 PM
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Yea this is probaly true ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:13 PM
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I wish it wasnt so risky
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:11 PM
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There is no such thing as too tall to a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:08 PM
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I dont hear it brought up IRL. And yea Ive been to the blackwomen sub and ive seen stuff from a mainly black women forum. Ive heard the sub isnt that welcoming of black guys so I stay away tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:03 PM
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Huh? How is it not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:20 PM
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We dont. Social media isnt real life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:13 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:53 PM
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I know. That why I believe most are trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:10 PM
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I dont agree but some women openly say men are useless ad un-needed nowadays. Idk why a guy saying the same is so controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:13 PM
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Where did I say there was requirement to post here? I never said that lol. What are you talking about? That was in response to her giving advice to men here as she said she does in her example on poverty finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:23 AM
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Damn. You should delete that comment then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:58 AM
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They would ban you for that? How is that banworthy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:42 AM
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Thats good advice but why did she tell you that? Do you just have a wide appeal or something? Idk if that applies to most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:32 AM
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I dont think its that popular but ive heard it before
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:06 AM
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Its get looks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:03 AM
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I feel that way with most tbh. I know its lame but Im tryna work on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:50 PM
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Do you ever get that feeling when you are about to approach a girl that theres no way that she would be into a guy like yourself? That just happened and I didnt do it. How do I get over this? Or am I just supposed to assume that she would be into me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:32 PM
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Id prolly go to the police ngl. Theres no way a camera didnt see it happen. Its self defense imo. What would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:48 PM
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Its pretty fun ngl. Why do you wish you knew some tho lol. You wouldnt wanna try it out yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:45 PM
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I mean it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:12 PM
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Why does that matter tho lol. What you asked me I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:07 PM
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If it came down to that yea. But it wont. Im not scared to get beat up if thats what youre asking. I dont care about losing a fight. Its the principle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:02 PM
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I know how to fight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:57 PM
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Not happening. Ive been boxing for the last 5 years I know how to fight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:52 PM
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Yea Id be fine with that ngl. Tall women are pretty attractive tbh. As long as shes genuinely into me I wouldnt have a problem with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:44 PM
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If a guy bullies my little sister I will fight him no matter what his age is. I really dont care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:38 PM
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Im not abnormally short though so I do understand that part but my height is still seen as short. And what if they compare it to their own height? Ive had girls im a few inches taller than say that we are the same height and a lot of girls want a specific height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:17 PM
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Yea its statistically average but people dont see it that way IRL. You dont think 5ft7 is noticeably different from 5ft9? 2 inches is a lot imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:43 PM
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Those guys are delusional. Its below 5ft9 in my opinion. Im 5ft7 and people here tell me it shouldnt effect my chances with girls but I know it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:19 PM
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Some guy wrote that height is a funny thing. If you are not short, it doesn't matter all that much, but if you are below a certain point, it is all that matters. I agree with this take. This is 100% true. Once you are below a certain height it becomes your most important attribute and you can get passed over just because of it. Why do you think people deny this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:13 PM
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Cool. How tall are you? And why do you think height is so important to a lot of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:49 PM
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Yea being born in the 2020s is crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:44 PM
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My neice is in the 90+ percentile for height. Idk what it is tbh but babies are getting bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:40 PM
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How tall is your bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:31 PM
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What is a napoleon fetish? Like you exclusively go for short guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:25 PM
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I get that. But more often that not they will say they dont care about height or that they like short guys but still end up with someone who is significantly above average. That cant be a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:23 PM
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Thats not advice though. And there are women who like short men they just arent that common. They do exist but there arent as much of them as people say. Especially in my age group
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:10 PM
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Obviously Uncle Bob. Money is money. Its not that straightforward in dating. You are dating as a woman not as a man. And you are dating men on top of that. Your advice would help women who struggle but how would it help men? Maybe you can help guys maintain relationships but I dont think it would be useful to guys who are trying to get into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:52 PM
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You can post on poverty finance and give advice to those people because you were in there shoes and can relate to them. How do you relate to the men here? You probably arent single, dont struggle with dating, and probably have not tried to date women either. So in what way do you connect with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:35 PM
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Its funny to me how girls will openly say how much they dislike certain traits and talk about how much they care about them but when guys get insecure about not having those traits they will make it seem like it comes from nowhere. Weird af ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:26 PM
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Idk tbh you gotta ask them that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:10 PM
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Everyone one here knows a guy. They love acting like height plays 0 role in dating and that short guys cant struggle because of that. Its obvious girls care about it but people will deny it until the end of time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:07 PM
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Lol. The jokes here write themselves. Almost every girl who says she likes short guys on this site is with a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:03 PM
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Hes 5ft10 hes literally delusional if he thinks height impacts him that much in dating. It only has a real impact at 5ft7 and lower in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:01 PM
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I dont think most girls care about that if they think the guy is hot or if they like him enough tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:28 PM
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I mean Ive seen some say that they come here for entertainment and to laugh. So idk how you can take the opinion of those women seriously after they admit that. And a decent amount here are just contrarians too. This is a comment I made before: A woman on here was telling me height isnt that important and how its not an issue cause most women dont care then she makes a comment saying that she doesnt know how she dated short men in the past. Im starting to think most of the women on here are trol…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:43 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/dhx0fr/short_men_are_gross/?share_id=yiYjK3p-_NqyutSa4kg6j Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:07 AM
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Same bro. Like its probably such an amazing feeling. I cant even imagine some of that stuff happening to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:08 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:40 AM
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Idk man no one seems interested in me rn and I wouldnt say im non masculine. Ideally I would date them or black girls like I said before but I dont really have any options atm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:12 PM
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Youre white though so its different for you. Deviations for you guys are more acceptable. Im pretty sure its not the same for black guys. And I like nerdy black girls but they dont really seem into me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:55 PM
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What if im going for black/latina women? Im black and also short
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:46 PM
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What do you think the average actually is then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:44 PM
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It's over for short ethnic men, at least in the West, unless he is willing to play on legendary mode. Damn this is tough to read man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:38 PM
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Im also 5ft7. Let me guess they are very charismatic or something? Everyone on here knows a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:10 PM
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Women dont check other women on stuff like this. They just agree or ignore it. Theres rarely any pushback. They can say they deserve a height difference or a certain type a guy with no issue but a man saying the same about thing about a type of woman he wants its the worst thing in the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:27 PM
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Thats exactly what hes saying. Hes weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:19 PM
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Sorry man. Imma pray 4 u
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:38 AM
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10 minutes is crazy ngl🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:18 AM
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Yea from what ive seen this is true. Its not about being just being taller than them they want a guy whos taller than other guys too. That has to be it. Because to a 5ft girl 5ft7 is a height that is signigicantly taller than her. Height is also one of the beauty standards for men so theres that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:58 PM
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No. Anyone can be either. That isnt dependent on looks. But people will percieve you differently based off of how you attractive you are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:46 PM
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Its literally false in everyway lol. Older men can get big bellies, go bald, and get ED. Nothing impacts a women they way that these things impact men. Women just look better older. I see attractive old women pretty regularly. Its literally a narrative older guys are trying to push🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:41 PM
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What did he do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:24 PM
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It was pretty long so idk. Maybe ask the mods how you can rework it to fit into discussion format
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:22 PM
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It was a good post tbh. Dont know why they takedown stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:19 PM
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5ft7 is where short starts for a guy imo cause its a noticeable drop in height from 5ft9 which is the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:10 PM
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No way that new post on short men is serious. Do girls really try to rationalize stuff like that? She has to be trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:52 PM
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I somehow doubt women have the same reaction when rejected by a tall guy. Of course they wouldnt. If its a tall guy hes an individual and an outlier. But if its a short guy that one experience represents all short men. This also extends to other scenarios. Everything else you said is true too. Its crazy that this is how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:46 PM
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Youre really tryna say you dont like short men because of a rejection in grade 5/6? And saying that alot of women can relate? Ive seen it all ngl. No way this is a real post🤣. Just say you arent attracted to short men. Why are you going this far to rationalize this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:40 PM
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Imma do mine later I wanna see what I get
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:20 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:20 PM
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What? Be fr man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:36 PM
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The average guy is a bit chubby too tho. Why wouldnt that be her match
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:02 PM
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How do you know your league without trying to go above it? And I dont think most guys dont approach women with out right sexual intent. Unless saying shes cute or something counts as that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:36 PM
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They would respond wayyy more positively to the guy that they think is in their league lol. Probably be more engaged and interested too. Theres no way they are saying that they respond the same way to all guys who approach them🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:13 PM
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my sweet summer child What lol. Tall average looking guys get girls. Height is an amplifier/bonus. If youre short and average looking its gonna be wayyyy harder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:02 PM
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If hes tall and lanky be will still be seen as attractive if his face is at least average. There is no equivalent to a chubby woman for a guy because negative traits hurt men way more than they hurt women lol. There is no trait exculsive to women that hurts them as much as being short hurts a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:50 PM
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Do you think girls do the opposite tho? Like where they say the women in a couple looks better than the man because their standards for men are way higher than the ones they have for women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:40 PM
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Thats a looksmatch in 2024 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:37 PM
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I dont know what you mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:15 PM
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Whats the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:12 PM
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Q4W: If you assume a guy has a gf does that mean you think hes attractive/good looking or just that he has bf qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:11 PM
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Its not about being good at it or being a bad person its just about having experience. Which is my most women dont care about body count in guys unless hes a virgin or has a very low one. A lot women assume guys with more experience are better at it by default. Which is why many do not want inexperienced guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:49 PM
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Shes was in a relationship with him. So in the eyes of most women he is the one she chose
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:13 PM
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Im still checking for them. They look really good to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:43 PM
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Why did you have to bring up height? Wasnt the rest enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:37 PM
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Youre saying that like it makes up for face and height. It doesnt. You can be soft and lanky/skinny fat but still pull cause you are good looking in the face and tall or at least average height
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:03 PM
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Im short and around average in looks I think. I will try dating apps soon but it will probably be a waste of time. I talk to girls through clubs and stuff but nothing ever really comes from it. I could try approaching girls more but the general success rate from that is so low it doesnt seem worth it. Plus im proabably not the type of guy most women would want to be approached by anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:53 PM
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Her choosing him means thats who she ended up with so yea she settled. When women get chose most prefer it be a scenario where a guy picks them out of all the options he has. Two totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:49 PM
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"Uggos" have the same standards as attractive women. Dont know why you think the opposite. They are still women at the end of the day. You must be attractive if you are saying that like they are easy to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:45 PM
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Fuck enough women so that you know what you’re doing Most guys cant do this. Women expect guys to know right away and most do not want to teach. So yea most guys have to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:40 PM
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A decent amount women openly say that they do not want to teach. Ones that do are not that common. How are guys learning then? You can do all the research on anatomy you want and learn how to please women but if you have no where to practice it, it means nothing. Most women like experienced men. If what you said was a common belief among women they would have no issue being with virgins or inexperienced guys but they do. Relationship skills are learnable too, but just like with sex most girls do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:38 PM
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Very few men are seriously repeating RP rhetoric off the internet to romantic interests. They know this. They just have to keep saying it so they dont actually have to address points being made. Most men are not redpilled so why do they act like its the default way men act whenever a guy brings up an issue with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:30 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:28 PM
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A decent amount of women cannot understand this thought process. Some say "but she chose you" to guys who express insecurities about certain things in relationships because thats literally how they think. Getting "chose" is the most important thing to those women, everything else is irrelevant. This is why some women do not care if a man was a player/fuck boy and even take pride in getting a man to leave that stage. Cause as long as he is with her now, nothing else matters. Most men do not think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:25 PM
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I wonder how many if you actually take the time to go to the gym 2-3+ times a week and do hard resistance training, and take care of your looks via grooming and fashion? I am fit/lean as I am an athlete for my school. I wear fitted clothes and have around average style for my age I guess. My face is clear and yes I shower. Do you have success with women? No Why do you think a lot of women do take care of their looks a lot more than men? just looks at places like Vindicta - some women take it ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:07 PM
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I wasnt saying its seen as arrogant just that its one way the person doing an action impacts how the action is seen. I dont have an example because like I said it doesnt really have to be arrogant behavior to be seen as arrogant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:49 AM
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I think he was being sarcastic but idk tho cause some people on here really think like that😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:31 AM
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What percentile are men 5ft7 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:09 AM
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It doest have to be arrogant behavior. Its seen as such because of who is doing it. Like how short guys who work out a lot are seen as compensating but for taller guys its looked at differently. Its not the action just who is doing it that changes how its seen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:30 AM
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I agree. They still would swipe on a tiny amount of men and the guys who were already getting tons of matches would just get even more. Next to nothing would change. People who say the gender ratio on apps is the reason for most guy struggling are not being real and just dont want to say the truth. The reason why most guys struggle on apps because most women do not find them attractive. Whether it be height or face most guys do not make the cut. More women on dating apps wouldnt make guys become…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:59 AM
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I agree. They still would swipe on a tiny amount of men and the guys who were already getting tons of matches would just get even more. Next to nothing would change. People who say the gender ratio on apps is the reason for most guy struggling are not being real and just dont want to say the truth. The reason why most guys struggle on apps because most women do not find them attractive. Whether it be height or face most guys do not make the cut. More women on dating apps wouldnt make guys become…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:59 AM
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They are percieved differently based on the person doing it. Thats why people say arrogance is unearned/unmerited confidence. The attractive guy "earned" it and has a reason to have it. The unattractive guy did not and is percieved to be arrogant. How you see yourself has no impact on how others see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:39 AM
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Yea thats true ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:21 AM
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How can girls have game lol. I guess by having a good personality but they dont really have to try that hard to get guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:59 AM
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Its not attractive on an unattractive guy. Its comes off as arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:53 AM
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Shes that good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:50 AM
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Its not about being ugly but the 2nd part of what you said is somewhat true. I dont think you have to be more desireable than the woman just more desireable than other men in some way. Cause ive seen cute girls act that way too. If the guy is that attractive to them they will act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:25 AM
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Thats prolly why most girls dont care about a guys body count and to some getting a getting guy to leave their player phase and commit is seen as an accomplishment. Cause getting picked and being the one he desires in the moment is the most important thing to them. Nothing else before that matters. For guys its basically the opposite. I think thats the reason why some women say "but she chose you" to guys who express insecurities about certain things in relationships. Because thats how they thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:18 AM
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I know. You literally cannot recreate those experience if you arent that type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:41 AM
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So what about guys on the monkey app or tiktok who have girls they dont know or have barely spoken to thirsting over them just based off of how they look? The same goes for celebrity crushes. The guy doesnt even have to talk to them in those cases
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:35 AM
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It is common. Look at how girls act with celebrity crushes or other attractive guys they see on the monkey app or tiktok. They have never met the guy yet still thirst over him. All hes doing is existing and thats enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:28 AM
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What do you count as effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:23 AM
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It gets harder to accept the idea that this is less idiosyncratic, and that there exist a class of men whose looks and alphaness create a qualitatively different sexual experience for most women that most guys will never be able to evoke in their partner. Exactly. This is so brutal. There are guys who can do this by just existing yet some girls on here act like its impossible. Theres an overlap too as in that one guy can do that to multiple women. And the fact that most men will never get to kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:12 AM
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There are tall lanky/skinny fat guys who have no issues with women. Muscle and getting fit is only a boost. Its not gonna make you more attractive on its own unless your fat or obese. If those guys I mentioned earlier add muscle they will have more success. If an unattractive guy does the same how much will it help him? Not much imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:59 AM
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Bro how is 4 year gap not considered older
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:54 AM
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3 years is a big gap lol. Thats almost a freshman dating a senior. Idk whats wrong with girls who date way older lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:47 AM
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Because some people on here act like it never happens. Its not the majority but its not as small as people say it is either. And what do you consider a big gap in age? Cause a guy below me said 5 doesnt count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:45 AM
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How doesnt a 5 year age gap count as an older man? Thats a big gap. The fact that they dont consider that older says it all. That is older
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:42 AM
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Bro they arent damaged they are regular girls. Freshman are dating seniors on my campus and the same happened in HS. I know girls who date older than that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:40 AM
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Women who can look past height exist but women who like short men are so rare they are basically non-existent so I dont think thats a good comparison. Most couple have an age gap with the guy being older too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:38 AM
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Some do tho. Im in college rn and freshman are dating seniors. Even in highschool it was like that. I even know girls who are dating guys older than that. It actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:37 AM
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What lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:29 AM
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Older women do not want younger men generally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:28 AM
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So who are younger men supposed to date? And women on here swear that younger women arent into older guys lol. 100% false. Its funny to me cause some women here have even admitted to dating older men when they were younger and I already know a few girls doing it. Also most of the things women value in men come with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:24 AM
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Did you idealize it when you where younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:21 AM
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100% True. Your immutable traits count way more to your attractiveness and even change how the things you can control are percieved. Muscles mean next to nothing as most girls dont like bulky guys. You can work out all you want but you will just be an unattractive guy with muscles. Money has value but wont genuinely make you more attractive either. Neither will dressing better or having a good job. Those are all bonuses but mean next to nothing on their own. When girls talk about the traits they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:15 AM
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Pretty much just means shes really attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:54 AM
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Um ok lol. Does this apply to college aged guys too or just old men? Idk how that applies to me ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:50 AM
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He prolly does better than me and most guys I know with girls around that age and thats my age group lol. Brutal. There are a decent amount of girls my age that like older guys. Idk why people on here act like it doesnt happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:47 AM
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W
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:22 PM
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Why did he respond to the diss initially then? He couldve just let it slide. Dissing back and then apologizing makes it seem like hes scared
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:20 PM
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Seems like hes scared of Kendrick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:16 PM
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What do yall think about J. Cole apologizing to Kendrick after responding to his diss? I dont get why he did it lol its a bad look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:52 PM
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Most of them are bots. They literally arent real people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:04 PM
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This is how a decent amount of them think now though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:55 PM
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This study on this page shows 5.1 to 5.5 is average. Those sizes you listed are above average. And if the size most wanted by women is 6.4 like you said there is more pressure for men to have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:42 AM
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So what do you think the average is then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:29 AM
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The average is around 5.1 to 5.5 in the US. How isnt that big lol. Its bigger than most men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:27 AM
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But the pressure to want them is pretty intense when you’re a young woman. What pressure is there to want this? Im pretty sure girls can decide themselves which size they prefer the most
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:18 AM
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How do you do it and how old are you? Im also 5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:16 PM
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Im pretty sure every woman wants the guy she is with to be attractive. Thats the baseline. Just meeting rule 2 means nothing to most women. Attraction has to be there. Not being unattractive isnt enough. Having a spark is easier if she sees the guy as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:45 PM
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And what about the small amount of guys she actually is attracted to? They get attraction just for existing lol. And they arent loving someone they arent attracted to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:35 PM
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I just wanna fall in love man. Feels like Im running out of time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:59 AM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:25 AM
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Go outside lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:08 AM
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Yea like they arent that good looking but their features are so striking it makes them standout. Idk its weird. I think harmony is better than just having certain features tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:07 AM
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Do you think most men can be good at it? Like do they have the potential to in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:37 PM
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Yea looks arent everything but there still has to be a baseline of physical attractiveness. You said he was objectively ugly so how did you get past that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:04 PM
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How is it an exaggeration if a woman experienced it and also said it was bad like men do? Its still an overall negative experience and she agrees with men. Her going through it and saying the same should reinforce the idea that it is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:05 PM
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Do you think most women are into inexperienced men? They probably arent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:58 PM
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Damn thats depressing but probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:55 PM
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Would you date a meh tho? That doesnt really imply interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:53 PM
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Im just curious to see if most will say the same personality traits. I dont think there will be much variety but lets see
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:52 PM
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Women want someone similarly educated and with similar incomes + black women attain degrees at higher rates than black men = black women pursuing white men to lower the risk of ending up with someone less educated. Women go to college more than men generally so wouldnt the attaining degree point apply to all races? So they go for white men because they make more money? You think this is the reason and not just attraction and preference? Cause most people make around average salary Being educated…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:47 PM
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I don’t think it’s healthy to view your race as an obstacle. Be open minded and focus on self improvement and becoming a desirable man. Race is just one part of you, don’t let it define you. It may not be healthy but its true. And not only white girls prefer white guys. Most women on this sub regardless of race are with white men lol. People still judge you off of it regadless of what you focus on. And do you really think most men can become desirable? Cause idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:31 PM
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I wasnt only talking about black women. And how can it be coincidental if they choose who they date? Thats intentional. assuming that women want someone on a similar level education and income wise, then white men would have an easier time than black dudes pursuing a lot of these relationships. What? Can only speak from my perspective but, being educated and not “stereotypical”, it really hasn’t been that hard for me to get dates from women of all races (though its been much easier to do so with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:25 PM
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Most of them are lying tho lol. Like you said its either that or its them being idealistic. It sounds cute to them on paper but in reality they probably be annoyed. How many women would be with a virgin at 20 anyway? Probably a very small amount so that alone disproves most of the comments. They arent being serious at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:18 PM
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White girls arent the only ones who prefer white guys tho. Im black and dont go for white girls either but its pretty clear to see that they have an advantage with almost every race of women. They dont have to deal with stereotypes either. And from what ive seen most woman on this sub regardless of race are dating white men. Ive only seen a few say they are dating a guy from another race. I dont really care but it is pretty interesting. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:09 PM
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Most people probably think that by default anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:12 AM
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It's okay, a big strong MASCULINE man, in the top 20, with favorable genetics will protect us. There's a reason why women flock to them. Weird af ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:14 AM
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I mean thats true I guess cause I do agree with the definition. But I dont see other feminists denouncing the man-hating radfems who give the a bad rep. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:52 AM
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Super tall women like that are rare. Most regularly tall women are still seen as attractive and shouldnt have much issues in dating. Shes extremely tall for anyone so yea it will be harder and maybe equivalent. But for women who are just a normal tall height its not equal at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:28 PM
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How do you not get sad about getting older?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:50 PM
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Wish more girls thought like that. Most see 5ft7 as short regardless of how tall they are. Short girls typically want tall guys the most
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:24 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:46 PM
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and looks like a cute girl Its always this at the end when a girl says she like short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:40 PM
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Why dont you think being 5ft7 has a noticeable impact? A guys options in dating decreases as he gets shorter. There are women who will write off a guy based off of that alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:10 AM
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If youre under 5ft9 height becomes the most important thing. Once you are below average height your face cannot save you in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:06 AM
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What do you consider slightly below average height? And most people in general arent charismatic so idk if thats the best advice. Most women prefer men who are at least average height. Idk why guys who are 5ft9 act like it impacts them in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:03 AM
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Yea but height isnt necessarily tied to either role. I thought it was more about the way they act
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:46 PM
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Im also young and in college so most women around me arent overweight and are in my age group. I dont think their standards vary that much. Idk if youre including older women when you say average but Im not around them often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:03 PM
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Ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:45 PM
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I wasnt saying those are the preferences. I was saying that those are tall heights that are relatively common. And idk about a 5ft5 man being fine. I feel like most women prefer a man to be at least average height which is 5ft9.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:34 PM
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Thats seen as compensating in the eyes of a decent amount of women so its probably generally a negative to be that big as a short guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:30 PM
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What do you consider short?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:27 PM
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What do you consider short?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:23 PM
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From 5ft11 to like 6ft1. Anything higher than that is way less common
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:17 PM
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Well what about lesbians or bi women? Do they not have that element?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:12 PM
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Why dont lesbians or bi women feel this way? I dont think most care about the height of the girl they are with. So why does this only apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:11 PM
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Just because a woman is less attractive doesnt mean that her standards drop. They still would rather be single than settle. If they cant get the guy they want they just wont date. Those women have height preferences and other preferences just like other women do. And tall men arent that rare so I wouldnt say wanting one is unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:06 PM
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It is and people will act like it guys are making it up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:00 PM
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Im black so none of that applies to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:54 PM
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Most women won't phase men out because of it This isnt true. Most women have a height that they wont date below. If you are below that you arent even an option to them A lot of women even prefer 'short kings'. This is false. Its not a lot. Ive heard a women say that shes specifically prefers short men my life. Ive heard some say that they dont mind short men but never a preference for short over tall. This is never said IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:52 PM
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Why dont lesbians or bi women who date women care about protection? Does that desire just go away once they start dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:46 PM
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This never made sense to me at all because women who date women do not generally care about the height of the women they are with. So why do women only think this way toward men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:45 PM
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Below average height for a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:41 PM
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Why would average women have lower standards? That doesnt make sense at all to me. Their standards are just as high in my opnion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:41 PM
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Ideally Id lose it to a girl Id be in a relationship with but its a red flag nowadays so idk if that will even happen. At this point if I get an opportunity with a girl Im attracted to I would take it. If anyone asks if I am one I will lie about it. It would only hurt my chances at getting a gf which is my main goal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:13 PM
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I am lean not skinny fat. I have a haircut and dress well enough. I havent hit the looks threshold. The fact that you said that I have to make up for having certain traits does mean that its high. Why even deny that? Im black, short, and introverted and fit none of the stereotypes so im literally seen as lame and nerdy by default. And Im not going for only white girls like you. I dont care about that. Girls who look like me arent even interested even though I prefer them the most. Dont know how …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:24 PM
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I kept hearing the name Henry Cavill bandied about and I had to look him up. Im not talking about him specifically but like I said before there are traits that will allow a man to have success with a large amount of women. He has some of them. And that doesn't mean I haven't dated men who were a few inches shorter (but anyone more than 3" shorter turned out to be disastrous/Napoleon effect, so I steer clear now). How could it be that all the guys that short had the same complex or was disatrous?…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:58 PM
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This is what you said: Most men are just generic people. They aren’t potential mates at all, they aren’t even men, they are humans. Its not possible for me to notice every person but yes I do see them as women. Dont know why age is relevant. Im wasnt talking about the potential mate part. You said that they arent even men. Are they only seen as men to you if they are a potential mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:18 PM
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You said you dont see them as men though. Do you see women the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:08 PM
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It really isnt as highly subjective as you claim. There are clear trends and yes there may be outliers there is a specfic type of guy who will do well with a very larhe amount of women. And if its so subjective have you ever heard a women say her ideal man is short IRL? I never have and probably never will cause most women prefer tall men. And shorter girls care the most about it so I never really believed that just be taller than me line. Like I said earlier the trends are obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:27 PM
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Most men are just generic people. They aren’t potential mates at all, they aren’t even men, they are humans. This is wild ngl. Like what does this even mean? How do you not see most men as men? I know most guys are NPCs to women but not even seeing them as men is weird to me. And most women are generic people too. I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:10 PM
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Assuming you're fucked and it's your genetics is just going to make you miserable forever Im not assuming im fucked. Im reacting to whats around me and what Ive seen. I know whats desireable and what girls like and Im not that. Im not delusional. Im realistic. you're actually scared of putting into the effort and still failing. I already put in effort. Dont know where you got that from. Im fit, play sports, and work. The problem every dude who bitches about this makes is their "self improvement"…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:02 PM
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I chose poorly in life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:47 AM
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Height is least important if youre at least average height. If youre below that its the most important thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:17 AM
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yeah I think for most women who don't use tiktok, "taller than me" is sufficient, So women who are old then cause like 99% of girls my age use it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:01 AM
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No ones saying you can clean up but its clear you have an advantage. Denying that is just lying. There are girls that are into that. Yall can get away with way more negative traits and its a fact. Dont know why thats so controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:59 AM
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I would say the majority of guys can have a hoe phase. The bottom quartile probably can’t. Dont think this is true at all ngl. There’s a big difference in the quality of the girls they’ve slept with depending on how attractive the guy is, but there’s not really a difference in quantity. My friend with the highest body count is relatively average looking. He’s about 5’10, sort of scrawny (runs but doesn’t lift), and nothing exceptional about his face. But he’s super charismatic and gives zero fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:53 AM
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I agree its not the rejection that hurts them its the lack of interaction at all. I think apps work for women and good looking men. I dont think it would work for most men. I doubt a woman would be interested in an average looking guy trying to chat her up to get her number or set up a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:19 AM
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I was thinking like 5ft10 or taller ngl. I feel like 5ft7 is a pretty common height for girls now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:57 AM
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My niece is in like the 90+ percentile for height. Shes gonna be tall af lol thats pretty cool ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:41 AM
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So 5ft7 is ok in your opinion? I know its below average but idk what you consider not too tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:36 AM
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Im not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:32 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:31 AM
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In terms of the question she asked about hoe phases. Literally any girl can have one and I understand why but this question couldnt even be asked for guys as it doesnt apply to like 90% of them. And idk why im getting downvoted. What did I say that was controversial?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:30 AM
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You don't think that socialize, get in shape, groom, get a hair style that suits your face, take care of your skin, get your money up, find things you're passionate about won't at least help your situation in dating? These are things that people should be doing anyway. This shouldnt be advice its common sense lol. Sure it could help. By how much idk. Cause if youre ugly it wont do much. I think we might not socialize the same way. I would assume it is even harder, but the constant is that, repet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:26 AM
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True🤣 shes highkey overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:44 PM
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It probably is. Most people on it are bots. Especially on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:44 PM
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Damn sorry. It happened to my cousin and he was never the same after that which is understandable. Hope you are doing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:39 PM
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She is really is lol they are obsessed with her and watch every move she makes. Haters be the biggest fans fr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:32 PM
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I was asking more rhetorically but I am glad you socialize. All i was trying to do is that, it is quantifiable to see progress in social and relationship aspects of life. I dont think you can in dating tho. You either have success or you dont. There really isnt a middle ground How is your situation the same as a millionaire? Money is money. Advice like saving, investing in certain things, and not overspending will guarantee that you get better with money. It may not be the same amount but it wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:27 PM
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If they feel like shit after a lot of virtual rejection how do you think they would feel after IRL rejections? Even worse. The numbers game is just delusion ngl. At some point you have to ask yourself is taking that many Ls worth 1 W. Cause its not in most cases. Most of it is luck and most guys end up failing as cold approaches barely work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:41 PM
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How many women do you talk to in a week? How many social situations and outings are you attending a week? Increase those, increase your odds of connection. Im in college rn and am in multiple clubs. I go to sport events weekly and play for my school. I talk to girls there Hell my brother is one of the most attractive dudes I know but he hasn't ever had a serious relationship and he doesn't sleep around that often. If he wanted to he could tho right? Its a choice hes making. In all likelyhood mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:38 PM
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Because that's just how progress and goals go. If you keep taking persistent leaps and steps toward a goal consistently you will get closer to said goal. Just... Kind of how shit goes. Thats how it works in every area of life except relationships. How do you measure someone getting closer to getting a gf? You literally cant. Reading comprehension.... "Of course there will be outliers and of course it is easier for different people If its easier for certain people that contradicts the idea that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:18 PM
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That is the thing. The people who want it the most spend time getting it. The guy who fucks the most is the one putting in the effort. Delusional 🤣. This kind of thinking is what makes men resentful after self improving and still getting nothing. Its 100% false. Effort ≠ Results. There are 0 guarantees. Dont know why people on here think thats the case. Let me guess youre tall and attractive but swear effort is the reason why you get girls right? Be fr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:54 PM
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What do you think about 5ft7 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:56 PM
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The sexual life of a 5'8" person vs a 6'2" person will be WAY WAY different than 6% and there's almost nothing the 5'8" guy can do to improve. Yea this is 100% true ngl. Their potential for improvement and their peak is way higher than a shorter guys. The rest of what you said is true too ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:56 PM
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Ok. What height do you think is midget/manlet tier for men? Like where they struggle the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:23 PM
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So whats the optimal height for a woman then? People act like it doesnt matter at all. And I know all of the height statistics sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:08 PM
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The kid can still come out short tho. Thats not a guarantee of anything. I just think they just dont like short men tbh. Because if what you said was true tall women wouldnt care about height in guys but they still do. And what is considered a midget to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:02 PM
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He could probably get height fetishists though. These are more common now that ever before tho. I think it only becomes a negative once it starts causing them pain. And most of them wouldnt want to be shorter anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:56 PM
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If youre that tall being good looking is not a requirement https://preview.redd.it/7i2zot7je4sc1.jpeg?width=834&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c5b0645d63dba8ff942fc3af9b8ef21ea363e144
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:48 PM
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Theres no such thing as too tall to a lot of women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:16 PM
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Im all 3 of those things and still dont have a gf lol. Its not as easy as you think for younger guys. The looks barrier is the biggest obstacle for most men imo. Most guys my age arent weirdos or obese. Like I was literally told on here that I should expect to date an unattractive woman because Im short. I dont consider myself an incel tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:15 PM
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Why did she date him then lol https://preview.redd.it/5sh9ae8364sc1.jpeg?width=1023&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1d4f258d28f2c9dacd3a9633da585215d394df3e
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:00 PM
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Kinda disingenuous ngl. A lot of the arent doing that. The bar for a girl to be considered cute by a guy isnt that high. Why would they be holding out for a top tier girl if a cute girl wanted them? Guys arent choosing to be single if they cant get their perfect partner like some women do. Thats a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:57 PM
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I feel like most women think like this but most men dont. Outside of this sub men actually despising and not liking women as a unit is not that common. Most men arent redpilled. I think most women see all men as pretty much the same until they can prove otherwise. Like its not that hard to find a girl who says she hates men but has a bf. The reverse almost never happens IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:47 PM
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Dont really care that much tbh as long as she makes a liveable wage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:29 PM
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A guy glowing up enough to leave the friendzone rarely ever happens. And that still probably wouldnt be enough for most girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:49 PM
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This only works for guys who are really attractive which are the guys women chase anyway. Those guys in the friendzone arent attractive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:37 PM
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I put her in the average range which is around 5
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:11 AM
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Im in college rn. You think Im overrating her? I feel like shes around average tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:08 AM
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I think shes around average but could still get a guy 1 to 2 points above her lookswise. An average looking girl and an above average looking guy is seen as a looksmatch nowadays. The difference would have to be extreme for people to say the guy looks better than the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:00 AM
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What detail did he go into? Some women here are just homophobic lol. Ive seen them hint at men here being gay before too. No one even typed out what you just wrote. And its funny how women can dance on eachother and do all types of stuff and be still considered straight but a guy paying attention to what girls find attractive is gay. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:54 AM
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No its not lol they are both relatively young. If you put her next to a decent/good looking guy people on here would be saying they are looksmatched. Hes just overweight and bald so he looks way older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:45 AM
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How is noticing trends expressing same sex attraction? Is a woman noticing that men like curvy women expressing same sex attraction? Yall just be saying anything on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:38 AM
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The fact that he pulled at all tells me everything I need to know. If youre tall and look better than him there should be no real issue you have in getting a girl. The short version of this guy doesnt exist. Walmart doesnt count either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:32 AM
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If they arent fat and average looking they should be good. If they get fit it will be even easier for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:46 AM
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Lowkey true ngl. You can get away with so much more flaws if youre tall and some girls even look over their red flags. And if this guy could do it why cant they? Hes overweight and not the best looking. The short version of this guy wouldnt even exist to woman lol. Ive been saying orgres are in now. The big boy tiktok trend exposed this. https://preview.redd.it/lbqt1qo6wzrc1.jpeg?width=824&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ce24381ca7a18fb711de6d7b49a91eb448bbc5a0
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:38 AM
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Yea I know and im not trying to compare I just dont get how some here can say most men do certain things when in reality its a minority of men who can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:57 AM
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True. Id even say average looking would work as long as they are tall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:27 AM
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Wow. And most single men arent spinning plates
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:22 AM
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I wonder how women here would rate his profile. It looks pretty basic ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:33 AM
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Kim Mulkey threw that game ngl. Dont know why she had Van Lith on Clarke. Horrible matchup. And they were going under screens too. Bad coaching fr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:31 AM
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Why not group him with the gym guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:00 AM
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Why do you dislike short men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:55 AM
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Hope everything goes well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:06 AM
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as for the height thing, keep in mind im 5’7 myself. so really i just like guys taller than me. Yea I understand that. I would be good if was at least 5ft9 tbh it’s unfortunate you say most people aren’t charismatic, social skills seem to be a dying art or something. even tho im naturally introverted and reserved, i had a very public facing job for awhile so my ability to talk to people grew a lot with practice and helped my confidence a bunch. Im thinking about getting a job like that ngl. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:01 AM
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Dont you have a bf? How would you know if most guys are dating or not? You arent even trying to date rn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:22 PM
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I think youre larping like the other guy said. You prolly have a bf and come here to troll lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:16 PM
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I thought she said she was married or something like that? I thought she was way older ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:10 PM
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Tough. Im exactly 5ft7 too lol. Most guys dont have a nice face in the eyes of women and most people arent generally charismatic either. I assume you prefer extroverts like most girls. So being introverted, short, and around average looking means it will be pretty rough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:57 PM
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Idk like 30+. And that would mean she was in college in the 2010s and in HS before that. Thats a lifetime ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:45 PM
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I didnt make the post or agree with it. Idk who you guys refers to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:21 PM
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Yea back in your day lol guys are barely dating in college and hs now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:16 PM
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I wonder if the men on here who defend women in literally every situation brought up realize that those women would never do the same for them. Thats like pedestalizing them at that point. Theres this guy on here who acts like they have 0 agency and everything they do is a result of what men do. Its ridiculous. The woman version of that does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:08 PM
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No they dont. Youre just generalizing cause you dont like guys like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:04 PM
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Ive never talked about what I want on here besides a gf generally. Im short, college student, fit, work part-time, and introverted. So basically nothing. What woman my age would be interested in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:35 PM
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Among men who can already get gfs. You cant be inexperienced and have a gf. That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:34 PM
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Good to know I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:29 PM
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Most men dont even do that. Yall just love generalizing to rationalize why yall dislike inexperienced guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:28 PM
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Youre dating or have been in a relationship right? Experience is crucial for men in dating. If I dont have that I wont have a chance. I need it to date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:28 PM
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The average in gen z is not 5ft9. Even women are taller than average now. There are a lot of men under 5ft8. Id say 5ft6 to 5ft7 is relatively common. Below that is rarer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:56 PM
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Most women come here for the same reason. To laugh at the men and to get entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:52 PM
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You should ask how tall they guy they were with last or dating now is. They will say height has no importance but were last with or are dating someone 6ft+
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:51 PM
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The vast majority of women would never pick the guy with no experienece no matter what the reason is. Experience is everything to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:43 PM
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If Im honest about it I may never have one at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:35 PM
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Its not for no reason lol its exactly what they want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:32 PM
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Youre average height you should be good. Im below that and wouldnt use lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:36 AM
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I feel like most guys who pedestalize women only had brothers or were the only child. Theres no way you can have sisters and still think like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:26 AM
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Really? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:33 AM
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Im fit, Im in college rn working part time, go to church, and idk about fun I have pretty niche interests. The funny part only matters after I get a match. And having all of those still doesnt guarantee success
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:50 AM
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How attractive are you facially?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:46 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:44 AM
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What would you rate their faces out of 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:44 AM
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some other desirable qualities Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:42 AM
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A short man realistically isn’t going to get a beautiful woman, he might have to settle for a below average woman. That is what you said. Do you really believe less attractive women would be more open to dating short men? Cause I dont think so. Their standards arent lower than any other womans. They would rather be single than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:35 AM
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They do lol. And they especially will if I dont list it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:07 PM
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Yea thats pretty much me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:50 PM
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I think they are generally around average but I feel like the average height has gone up in my generation. No way its still 5ft9.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:46 PM
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I dont think anyone is going for 5ft7 men on apps. And im black not latino or asian so theres that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:37 PM
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I dont think Im ugly but idk what I would be rated as
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:30 PM
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Everything else is alot lol. I basically gotta be perfect then. And shorter women like tall men the most
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:27 PM
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White men do the best on apps why would that be a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:26 PM
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Be 100% honest. Should I even try dating apps at 5ft7?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:17 PM
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I dont get why there us such a rush especially if its with a person you can see a future with. Whats a few years compared to the rest of your life? Its an important decision to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:14 PM
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True. The taller you are the uglier/fatter you can afford to be. The big boy trend on tiktok exposed this. Being short and fat or ugly is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:01 PM
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Its a real feeling among guys now. I think theres a study that said 45% of young guys have never approached a girl. A shift is happening but some of the people on here will deny it and act like the younger guys here are crazy when they talk about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:28 PM
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I think shes cute and no I dont think shes fat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:54 PM
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Girls live in a different world I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:08 PM
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Not telling any girl im a virgin. Its an instant red flag. If I tell the truth I will be single for life. Girls that dont care about it are so rare they basically dont exist. Men are way more lenient with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:06 PM
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Dont hate them and I want a gf. Yes its ridiculous but I dont think it impacts women nearly as much as it does men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:32 PM
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I’ve seen some women complain about ugly guys having “too” much confidence and asking why does this guy think he’s hot and has a chance with me. This is why I dont believe confidence is the most important thing. Ive seen this too. The confidence part matters if she finds you attractive and even then its not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:52 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:24 AM
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Youre a woman tho. You could get the same on an app if you wanted to. Has nothing to do with touching grass lol. 99% of Guys who touch grass daily would never get oportunities like that. Dont know why people act like going outside is the solution to everthing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:51 PM
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Reposting this cause its more relevant here: Most women dont care about a guys body count as long as he isnt inexperienced. Being a fuckboy is not a negative trait to a decent amount of them and getting a guy to leave that stage and commit is seen an accomplishment. I think thats the reason why some women say "but she chose you" to guys who express insecurities about certain things in relationships. Because thats how they think. Getting "chose" is the most important thing to those women, everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:39 PM
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Agreed. Most girls have attention from multiple guys at once mand they really think its the same more most guys lol. And I feel like a lot do compare guys and its worse now with social media. And its easier for women to date like that because most dont only have one basket and could get more if they really wanted to. They dont have to approach or ask out guys either so theres little investment on their end. If I ask out a girl that means I like her, girls be going on dates to find out if they li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:25 PM
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Fr🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:13 PM
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That guy was clearly your type lol. Seems like youre tryna force somethin thats not there. This is so specific it feels like a troll ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:07 PM
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Same im my biggest hater
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:51 PM
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Yes some gen z girls care. Theyll have a iphone 5c and clown you for having and android lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:33 PM
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The most brutal stuff Ive read on this sub has come from women ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:14 PM
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Youre one of the real ones
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:04 PM
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Youre the #1 bot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:04 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:02 PM
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This sub is a psyop made to push division. Most commenters and posters on here arent even real people lol. They only comment here and have 0 posts on their page. They are bots😂 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dead_Internet_theory
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:12 PM
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The average height for girls of all ages is is like 5ft3 to 5ft4
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:57 PM
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Idk about 6ft foot exactly but I think the average height for gen-z men and women is above average. Most women are 5ft5 to 5ft7 now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:52 PM
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No one likes hearing a man complaining lol. Dont think it really matters if the guy is toxic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:47 PM
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The people making the posts and tiktoks are regular girls. They go viral because of other girls agreeing and liking them. They go viral because they are a common opinion. Tiktok is the most popular platform rn. Tate is one person and he also get push back from many people. No one pushes back on what these girs say. There are many examples of posts like this by many different girls. In my age group thing like this are regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:23 AM
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Bro there are regular girls who think like this. This has 18K likes and there are multiple tiktok trends and twitter posts like this. This is common in my age group
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:10 AM
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Yea but the guys who say that arent regular guys. Thats a regular girl. And 18,000+ other people agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 02:11 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/qos7xvgmczqc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=00f120f0cb788f95fd4eb44e24d8dd86e4ade0c8
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:44 AM
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Halo/Horn Effect. 18K likes btw https://preview.redd.it/lxbbsoilczqc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f64b190ecdbc2c39e2a373cce351861733b509a5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:44 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/iaen4jn5czqc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1f51426a735e5d02392b4ddacdecd7f58600a76
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:41 AM
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Halo/Horn Effect https://preview.redd.it/tzpoemo4czqc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3edb0080d00f0a5a3f1b44005360d3d701aad161
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:41 AM
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No they arent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:41 AM
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I mean you basically dont exist to her. Like an NPC or something right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:14 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:09 PM
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Most men are seen as not so good looking and wont ever make that much money to compensate for the lack of looks. Kindness is a good trait to have on top of the other two but it isnt attractive on its own. I dont think most women would be content with a not so good looking man who is kind and makes average salary. Correct me if Im wrong but I think that may be what you were hinting at with this: Exactly. The only thing left to value is beauty and attractiveness. Women have friends so being a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:05 PM
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True. Guess they see them as basic or something. I dont think eye color can make someone more attractive. If they look good they look good. Dont know why they focus on it so much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:46 PM
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It took me a while to realize this but its kind of true ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:44 PM
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Wow thats so brutal. I never thought of it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:18 PM
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You agreed with the last comment about genetic lineage and said that the only thing left to value in men is attractiveness and beauty. And you said women have friends so just being a good person isnt enough. I interpreted that part as women are better company. Do you think look/attractiveness are the most important things for guys? Or did you mean it in a different way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:47 PM
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True. The most important physical features a guy has are the ones that he cannot change
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:28 PM
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Are you blackpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:24 PM
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I doubt it does IRL. What guy brings up how modest a girl is dressed when he talks to her. All these complaints are prolly based off of online comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:57 PM
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Yea but you said usually tho. The post we are under is a one off comment. Its usually the older guys both defending and pusing for it. Why would a younger guy defend that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:35 PM
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The funny part is it’s usually 18-25 year old guys defending 35-40 year olds Dont think thats true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:29 PM
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Its funny to me cause some women here have even admitted to dating older men when they were younger. Im pretty sure they were warned against it but did it anyway. Girls are gonna do what they want at the end of the day. Im younger and already know a few girls doing it. With an age gap closer to the 2nd example tho. Dont know why people act like it doesnt happen irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:27 PM
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You cant work on your genetics. Muscle means next to nothing in reality and getting in shape wouldnt help most guys much. They would still be seen as ugly. And does not equal results. There is no solution. How much better do you want them to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:11 PM
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Would you do it if the guy was rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:29 AM
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Its weird af imo. Dont know why girls have kids with guys that old. Basically gonna be a single mother after sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:58 AM
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Be fr lol. If he stays that height and got very lean or even skinny he would still look attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:18 AM
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The face shape has no impact on his attractiveness. Facial harmony is way more important
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:11 AM
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How do you know that the person behind you isn't putting any effort it? The person behind you could be working harder than you for all you know. Comparison is the thief of joy. It's best to focus on your strengths and what you have to overcome and the man that you need be instead of looking at where other men are already at. Im pretty sure most girls would pick a skinny fat or chubby tall guy over a fit short guy. One put in effort and the other didnt. I dont think there are women who prefer sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:59 AM
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Its pretty cool and the kids are fun too. The only issue is that I dont work that much hours cause its an after school program so I may look for another job soon so I can work more. But besides that its great. How do you like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:07 AM
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Rejection will feel personal, getting ghosted will feel personal, dead conversations will feel personal. But, none of that shit is true. It just means that person wasn't interested in you. Constant rejection with no success might be worthy of self-reflection and potentially a change. However, rejection is usually a fully individual decision that has zero bearing on anything that you can control. How can you not take rejection personally? Getting rejected is literally someone saying that you aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:30 AM
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Same. I know what good looking is and I dont think Im that. Im not delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:30 PM
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Thats how it is rn. People will deny it but its been proven again and again. Average guys shouldnt even use dating apps in my opinion. Its just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:59 PM
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They dont want to give it to him because hes a rookie. He deserves it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:53 PM
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How? Do relationships bring out the worst in people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:23 PM
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This might be true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:17 PM
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They dont. I just dont get how some women can say beauty standards for women are so high when that doesnt apply to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:07 PM
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Yea I never really understood this. I dont think women ever really cared about the standards of the average guy. They do it for themselves and the guys they are into so I dont get what that has to do with the standards men have as a whole for them. I feel like the strictest standards are put on them by comparing themselves to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:55 PM
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So true. They live in a different world I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:46 PM
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Yea but youre trad tho so its prolly different where you are from
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:34 PM
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Is that the main reason why you think guys want gfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:33 PM
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That you're just trying to weasel your way into some panties is transparent. How is wanting a gf doing this? No one knows what a relationship is like until they get into one. I dont get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:26 PM
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So dating around is the best thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:20 PM
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Ohh lol I thought it was serious ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:53 PM
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Its not settling if youre with a girl you like and find attractive tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:49 PM
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Bros talkin bout a roster of girls and I cant even get 1 lol. Thats how it is I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:40 PM
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Hi. Hope you are doing well too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:33 PM
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Men want relationships more than women do nowadays. At least in my age group anyway. If a guy says hes openly looking for a relationship its seen as him being desperate and a red flag. Its better off not being clear about what you are looking for as a guy. Girls dont really care about dating now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:32 PM
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Hes been a fraud lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:47 PM
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I see a lot of women say they have toxic exes so this may have some truth to it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:07 PM
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I kind of agree ngl. If the woman who made that post could do what she did and still have success imagine what a college aged girl my age could do. Theres no point in even being on apps as a guy unless youre really good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:59 PM
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They are still getting what they want from it tho. They arent being forced to have sex and the chance of a woman finding a relationship on there is way higher than a guy finding one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:37 PM
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1.8% swipe rate and a 51% match rate. For a guy to get those stats he litetally would have to be a male model or something like that. Even then it probably wouldnt even be possible. Idek why guys still use dating apps. Its pointless unless your above average and most guys arent that. And her profile is full of picture women on that sub tell guys not to take lol. Its all close up selfies and a few body pics. But a guy will have to have the most interesting profile in the world on top of being ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:01 PM
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I know it is cause ive seen it between 2 people IRL. I believe its way less common than people think tho and I feel like a lot of people throw around the word too easily. I just hope I get to experience it one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:24 AM
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Its stem based and what Im majoring in so I thought it would be cool. Its also connected to a program I did in HS so I got recommended for the position. I heard that teaching what you know makes you understand it better so I thought why not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:38 AM
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Oh ok. I hope shes doing better now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:35 AM
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lol So you only hung out with older people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:13 AM
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Oh ok. Im pretty new to this sub so maybe thats why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:10 AM
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2nd Who is Mrs Degree? Is she the sub founder? Ive never seen that account here ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:04 AM
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Who is Mrs Degree? Is she the sub founder? Ive never seen that account here ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:03 AM
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I think facial harmony is more important than having specific facial features. Like I know someone who has a slight underbite but is still pretty good looking. Its not that noticeable and if it was more severe it would probably have more of a negative effect but yall get the point im tryna make lol. The specific features dont matter that much its more important that they work well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:59 AM
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Yea its one of my favorite hairstyles on girls ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:19 AM
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I work at an afterschool program for grades 1-5 after classes and its pretty interesting to see how easy kids socialize and make friends at that age. Like even the quieter kids. I wonder what happens that changes and makes it harder when people get older. Maybe people are meant to make most of their friends when they are that young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:06 AM
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How do I do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:43 AM
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What does it do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:40 AM
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Yea but I didnt really like it that much ngl. And yea she does
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:12 AM
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Really beautiful tbh. Highkey got a crush on her <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:53 AM
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Yea. Im pretty sure thats normal tbh. Im on a campus tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:12 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:42 PM
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Are you alt? And they look pretty cool ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:26 PM
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How did you come up with this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:11 PM
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This is actually pretty interesting. I may try this ngl. Im tryna learning guitar rn so might as well start writing lyrics too. It does kind of take your mind off of things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:59 PM
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Youre right. Its because cause its not really body count thats the issue its dick count lol. Its the same reason why a lot of women are dislike bi men. I know people here will try to rationalize it differently but at its core that is what it is. Both men and women see this in the same light.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:56 PM
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If you were a straight woman I dont think people would suspect anything either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:55 PM
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I heard that when people make drastic changes like that divorce or cheating follows. But personally I dont think I would care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:47 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:46 PM
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The relationship between female friends is more homoerotic than most male friendships could ever be yet I only hear that term used when describing male friendships. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:44 PM
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Many women say this already. They will openly admit how much more attractive women are than men while also saying they are straight. I dont get it lol. If a guy said that they would call him gay or bi. Most straight women could probably find another woman she is attracted to easier than she could find a man that she is attracted to. They claim to be straight yet have higher standards of attractiveness for men than for women. It makes 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:40 PM
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You know his fanbase is majority women right? Women support him the most and are his biggest fans lol I dont think they care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:25 PM
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Im tryna figure this out too ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:22 AM
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Guitarlessons. Im teaching myself rn and I can answer almost any question I have by searching through it. Its pretty cool ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:21 AM
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I wouldnt even know when to go in for it. It seems like if you time it wrong the whole interaction is ruined. But if you dont do it or escalate in some way at all she will think you arent intersted lol. I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:18 AM
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Yea I dont think you said anything too crazy ngl. And the rudeness is just a trend here I guess. Alot of the people here regardless of their pill color are mean af. I hope nothing people said here gets to you. Digging through someones post and comment history just to insult them is weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:57 AM
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What did they do after?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:45 AM
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While the guy is married? Does the wife find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:22 AM
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Whats it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:15 AM
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Are you really good looking? How did yall meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:14 AM
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Im 5ft7 too and yea most are around my height. How do you do with girls? Im in college rn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:05 AM
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I think 5'7 is where you can start feeling the preferences cause its noticeably shorter than 5ft9 and there isnt that much of a difference between 5ft6 and 5ft7. And Ive had girls that Im 1 to 2 inches taller than say we are the same height so idk about them just not wanting someone shorter. I think the same height as them is the lowest most girls would go and thats being generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:57 AM
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Whats manlet tier?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:33 AM
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I think its true for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:32 AM
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Would you say 5ft7 is ok? Generally speaking. I know its below average so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:27 AM
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Ok. So what would you say is an ideal height range for most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:24 AM
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Lol I agree. But why do you think 6ft is the number women are set on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:15 AM
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167 to 174 I think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:12 AM
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Are you in the south? Someone else said girls are shorter down there so maybe thats why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:54 AM
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Never been on a date but I do it with my mom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:40 AM
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Not at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:38 AM
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Whats the average height range down there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:13 AM
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I mean women pretty openly say that they dont like inexperienced guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:01 AM
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The average height for Gen-Z girls is around 5ft5 to 5ft7. Anyone denying this isnt around them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:57 PM
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I think its real. There are guys who get that reaction IRL. Dont know why people think its fake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:48 PM
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No they arent attractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:28 PM
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Its insane how they look at him. I cant even imagine getting looked at like that by girls. He has a clip with one of the hottest women Ive seen looking at him in that way. With the white top and blue jeans. Thats life I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:27 PM
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Exactly lol. The same topics get recycled over and over its so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:48 PM
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Some of the responses on the deleted post about male vulnerability were pretty interesting. So some women will tell their man that they dont want to be their therapist but will be that with no hesitation for their best friends lol. And insecurity, lack of confidence, and sadness are all regular human feelings yet those are all seen as unattractive by those women. So do the women who think like this even like men as people or are they just physically attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:38 PM
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Agreed. Thats literally the ideal body type. Fit/lean. Im pretty much there I just gotta gain more weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:47 PM
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Exactly. No offense to the people here but some are a bit out if touch. Im in college rn and most of the things talked about here are literally irrelevant IRL. Thats why I mainly stay in the daily chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:24 PM
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It is true and the level of attraction was never equal. Men always wanted women more then women wanted men. Obviously there are outliers but it is generally true. And most women are not romantic at all. Romance is always portrayed as something thats done to/for a woman by a man. Most women dont have to do it and probably dont want to either. Men have to continuously externally show that they care for their woman or the relationship is over even though it should already be understood by both. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:00 AM
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I want a gf tho. And want to get married and have a family one day. I know people here probably think its dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:59 AM
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Are you joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:44 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:47 AM
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Even she thinks its over for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:43 AM
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My mom hinted that she she thinks im gay when im not because I havent brought a girl home yet. She also doesnt think ill ever have kids either. So depressing man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:37 AM
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There are 0 advantages to being short as a man. Ive never heard a woman say her ideal man is short either. And there is no short man that wouldnt look better if he was taller
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:08 AM
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Its the same with clothes and fashion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:53 AM
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There is no such thing as average when it comes to looks. People are either attractive or they arent. Average falls under unattractive. Just like with height. Youre either tall or you arent. Its one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:29 AM
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Did your parents or whoever raised you teach you things directly or did they expect you to learn by watching them do things? Which way do you think is better and which would you use with your children if you have/want to have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:39 AM
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Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:29 PM
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I dont get it either ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:28 PM
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Idk Ill see if she say it later
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:01 PM
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Lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:57 PM
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What about in college? And im more worried about them being seen as unattractive and ugly. I know people being into them are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:29 PM
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Im in college rn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:28 PM
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Yea but those girls actually had bfs like that tho lol. So some girls are into that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:27 PM
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Ive never seen a girl into them that much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:43 PM
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Idk it varies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:21 PM
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Orgemaxxing is real🤣. You just gotta be tall and bulky so not everyone can pull it off. And yea lean looks good on most people. Im lean rn but Im tryna gain weight. Im short so I just look skinny af lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:19 PM
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You got pontential bruh. Girl like ogres now. And if you get lean your face will look better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:07 PM
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Are you fr? I dont ever see girls talk about liking them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:55 PM
1

Really? When did the pain go away?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:32 PM
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Yea I just seen before and after transformations and they look really good. But realistically my teeth arent that bad. Ill probably just get the braces tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:32 PM
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Yea like its really just the same topics brought up every week lol. I looked at the top posts of all time on this sub and most were actually good topics. The sub fell off ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:26 PM
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Its kind of challenging at first but its not that hard to pick up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:22 PM
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My dentist said I dont need double jaw surgery and suggested I get braces instead. Are braces unattractive or a turnoff? I feel like they only look good on girls ngl. Ill probably get them behind my teeth instead of in the front
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:15 PM
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I like boy bands and girl groups a lot. I also like to crochet. I dont think gardening is girly but some people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:08 PM
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This is literally how it feels man. Its like she wants them to convince her why she should date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:10 PM
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She says hes perfect and is still wondering if hes worth dating becuase hes not tall enough. How much more can he compensate? Its so brutal. The fact that she even had to ask this means shes leaning toward no. If he was taller she wouldnt think twice. And people will still deny how much it impacts dating lol. They are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:54 PM
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It doesnt really matter what path women take. They basically cannot lose. The rules here dont exist in the real world. The only reason he wouldn’t meet your 6,6,6 is because he’s short What counts as short to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:15 PM
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What can you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:14 PM
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It doesnt really matter what path women take. They basically cannot lose. The rules here dont exist in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:14 PM
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Yea but there are only so many new experiences you can have with one person. Its bound to get boring eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:08 PM
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I mean yea he might not be. But most women arent gonna get to a point where they drop out of their partners attraction range. Most men probably will tho. And she almost 100% wont be into him if attraction is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:06 PM
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So getting into marriages and long term relationships kills desire? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:58 PM
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So they do this because the attraction is gone? And if the guy still wants to smash its because he finds her attractive to some degree. If attraction fades the woman is not going to want to have sex at all. They dont have sex with guys they arent attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:55 PM
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Women obviously are perfectly capable of having strong sexual attraction to men who do not meet their attachment needs outside of marriage. Maybe it’s different within marriage idk. But the reason women don’t have sex with their husbands in marriage is simply because they no longer desire them / their husband fails to cultivate desire for them. A husband can be a jerk who does not help out with the kids or meet his wife’s emotional needs. But if he cultivates desire, she’s still going to fuck hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:40 PM
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I think so too ngl. Its like a lot actually do view it as a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:37 PM
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It doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:30 PM
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Realistically, the kinds of people who are undatable are ugly, short, fat Im short and I feel this rn ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:20 PM
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True 100%. There is always someone better and its never been easier for women to find him. Literally one swipe or dm away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:18 PM
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True. Its that easy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:34 AM
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Yea. No doubt in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:13 AM
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Do they really think of it as him not deserving it and being unworthy if it? I though that they dont view it as a reward. Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:02 AM
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🔴⚪️🔴⚪️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:56 AM
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It seems like feeling the thing is there is more important than actually having the thing. It comes off as how they feel is more important that the reality of things Having big forearms and being taller than her will make her feel safer, but it won't actually keep her safe. Like this. It has 0 impact on their safety yet the feel safer because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:53 AM
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I just dont get why stuff like this is always on the men. Is the guy always doing something wrong? And if the women feel that way why dont they just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:48 AM
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Q4W: What type of women would you advise your brother/cousin/male relative not to date? Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:42 AM
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Do you believe the women who claim that they feel for men's loneliness and struggles when it comes to dating? I dont really think most who say they feel for it actually care. Their experiences are probably so far from it thats its almost impossible for them to put themselves in the shoes of a guy going through it. Some say they understand but as women they are not going to be in the same postion as a guy with dating issues so how can they really get it? I think they can understand loneliness on …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:12 PM
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I think its that they dont mind them. Not that they love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:26 PM
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I think so. There is a decent amount of men who prefer bigger women. You cant say the same about women preferring short men. Ive heard guys say they are into fat women. The most ive heard from women is saying that they dont care about height. Never heard one say she prefers short over tall
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:37 PM
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Yea I feel that. Self esteem is pretty important. At least people are telling you otherwise now tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:35 PM
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There is no trait exclusive to women that can limit their dating options like being short does for a man. Literally not one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:32 PM
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There is no equivalent at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:28 PM
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She posted her photofeeler stats and almost everyone that rated her said she was attractive lol. I dont think shes ugly at all based on that. I think shes larping as an ugly girl ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:14 PM
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If its a facet of attractiveness then it matters to him. If it had no impact on her attractiveness to him then I would believe what he says. Height is an attractive feature in men. And its one of the most important ones at that. People see taller men as more masculine and the ideal man for most women is tall. Ive never heard a woman say her ideal man is short. And it doesnt have to be the main reason they like them but If they find the feature attractive and their partner also has that trait it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:46 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:54 AM
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I think Ive seen it maybe once lol. And it was on reddit. Havent seen it ever on tiktok or twitter. Ive never seen it once IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:44 AM
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This is what you said: Really? Because I'm in my psych classes and theres been at least 5 instances of male students blaming loneliness and women "only going for 10 percent of guys" for mass shootings. I literally gave you an example of a popular subreddit making those kinds of arguments right after that shooting occurred. Our society blames everything but male entitlement and toxic masculinity. You said nothing about tate or trump. How is that even related? Why did you jump from the extreme thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:39 AM
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You think those are regular guys if they have that point of view? You think the average guy has a reddit account? Be fr. You sound ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:27 AM
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Exactly lol. That doesnt happen they just laugh along. Its very rare a woman will do that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:14 AM
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Sure there are women that shame short men, but a lot of girls do call that out. This is false. Its not alot of women who do that and its not common for women to call it out either. Have you seen tiktok or twitter? The typical response is either laughing along with it and making other joke on top of it. And there is a group of moderate/normie men that try to emphasize with the killers and try to blame women for it too. And no. Regular guys dont do this. Youre chronically online. Why even say that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:13 AM
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I just dont really care about all this stuff ngl. I already struggle in dating and nothing said here will help me in anyway. So theres no point really. And yea social media probably did make stuff worse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:48 AM
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I get that. And no problem lol. Im on the younger side of people here so maybe that why Im not fully sucked into this yet. I will probably leave this sub soon tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:23 AM
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So you are trying to push guys away from that mindset? Thats cool. I feel like a good amount of women here dont actually care and just come here for entertainment and to laugh. Ive seen this said a few times already. I feel like that only makes things worse. There are a few other women with that intention here and they are pretty nice. And the manosphere isnt there for anyone lol. Its all about personal gain. There is no real community imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:58 AM
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So why are you purple pill? Im no pill cause im not really into all of that stuff I mainly come for the daily chat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:32 AM
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Thats fair. Idk why youre so pressed tho lol As for my compliant about having to provide citations for MY statements while men seemingly do not, it’s predicated on the fact you don’t have any, don’t feel you need to provide any, state things as fact and insist they’re “just opinion” (no matter how they’re stated). On a debate sub. And Im not debating lol im just saying what I think. I never asked you for any studies either. If youre trying to convince people to change their minds here youre wast…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:15 AM
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5ft4 to 5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:44 AM
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Thats like telling guys to go for fat women as if they have lower standards. They are still women lol and arent going to drop them that low. Even women with low self esteem want to be attracted to their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:42 AM
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Thats from 2 different parts. “When in reality women are the ones who care way more” This is from the part when I was talking about what I think happens. Thats what I think. I never stated it to be a universal fact. You represented your claim as fact. And double down by saying “and it’s true” in this latest comment. This is from women wanting a bigger height difference. So either provide sources for what you’re claiming, or stop trying to present any of this as facts. If it’s your feelings, fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:33 AM
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I didnt say men dont care about height I just said that women care way more. Which is true. And the earnings thing is kind of similar because it was about women saying mens response to something ( a woman being taller or earning more money) is the reason why they do something else (prefer taller men or men who make more money). I dont think thats the case because the preferences were already there to begin with generally. And no I dont have a study. I said I feel like its a similar situation. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:18 AM
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What do you think about this one? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020 And I dont ask the question to women because like you said I already know the answer. Im just dont get the contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:57 AM
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Why would he date you in the 1st place if he felt that way? I dont think most short men are that aggressively insecure about it but some can be. Women generally care more about height than men do and want taller men more than men want shorter women. Look at this. And it seems to me being insecure about height is the worst insecurity a guy can have. I never hear any other one brought up. I feel like its a similar situation where women say men get intimidated by high earning women as a way to just…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:55 AM
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I know and im not talking about the guy just being taller than the girl because thats normal. Im talking about a significant height difference. Like ive seen comments where girls say they dont care about height but then say their bf is like 6ft3 or something. If you say you dont care yet still end up with someone on the extreme end of it something isnt adding up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:38 AM
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I know its to be nice but why lie about it if its so far from the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:30 AM
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There arent lots of tall women with short guys lol its a minority. I think most care and few do not. And you cant be indifferent and still prefer taller. That makes no sense. And she was trying to give me encouragement or hope I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:16 AM
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Many women who say they dont care still end up with taller men and would never date a guy below a certain height. I had a woman on here tell me that women dont care about it then a day later she said that she doesnt know how she dated short guys in the past. She was clearly lying about not caring
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:11 AM
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I have an exercise bike now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:09 AM
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Why do so many women claim they dont care about height despite there being a clear preference for taller guys? It seems disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:08 AM
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How often should I do cardio per week? And for how long? Thats the one thing im not really consistent with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:59 PM
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Same. If I was even average height like 5ft 9/10. I try not to focus on it that much though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:41 PM
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Im pretty sure they arent actually single because most women here are in realtionships. I also think alot just say things to be nice. I had a woman on here give me advice and then saybthe exact opposite a day later. Idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:17 PM
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I really dont know where all these women are IRL. It honestly feels like a lot of women here are outliers on topics many women agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:40 PM
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Its not really on purpose its just something that has been conditioned into men since they were young. And its not easy to escape that mindset despite it being some of the most repeated advice given on here. Thats like telling women to not put value into societies beauty standards. They have been shown it since they are young and it has been reinforced while they were growing up. You cant expect them to wake up one day and not abide by them. I dont know why advice that is so hard to execute is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:40 PM
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Its true though. No one says that about tall or fat women when they bring up dating issues due to those things. People just hate hearing men complain in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:02 PM
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The vast majority of men will never feel that type of raw attraction. Not even from their wives or gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:49 PM
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Genetics really are everything wow. And if you dont have that you need money to compensate for it. Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:48 PM
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Not true at all, its not very few women who expect men to pay. Idk where you are from but its literally seen as a red flag if you dont pay on a 1st date. Women like that are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:44 PM
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Isnt asking her out and showing up at the date showing interest? How does money show that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:42 PM
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Exactly. They frame having empathy and understanding for men they are with as labor or say that hes taking advantage of them in some way as a free therapist. Its a lose lose situation. You have to open up in the specific way they want or not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:31 PM
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Everyone has insecurites why is having a height one the worst? And its based on something you cant change and people judge you based of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:29 PM
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Why? Everyone has insecurities. Its a human trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:29 PM
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She said good face too. How do you work on that? And most people dont even have good personalities or all of those traits
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:20 PM
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Connecting self worth with success with women is something that has been pushed for as long as I can remember, and probably will continue to be pushed. Why do you think calling a guy an incel/virgin is an insult said by both men and women? Why is inexperience seen as a red flag and why do some women not want to be a guys 1st gf? Because its seen as a negative thing if a man doesnt get attention from women. Its pretty easy to internalize this and have it impact your self esteem/worth. How do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:50 AM
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Exactly. Thats why I think a decent amount of people here are just contrarians. And those walmart couples are all older people. That has no reflection on what things are like now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:07 AM
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If a guy is doing well on apps I automatically assume they are good looking. Im in shape rn and I dont think it provides as much of a boost as people think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:56 AM
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Im pretty lean rn so it wouldnt hurt to gain more weight I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:50 AM
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I think hes like 5ft9 and im pretty sure hes really good looking then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:40 AM
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Im already fit. If I gain too much weight Ill look ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:38 AM
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If by meh you mean average I disagree. I think tall and average face is seen as more attractive that short and handsome. Most guys are average looking so thats not a negative and the tall is a plus since height is an amplifier for looks. If you are shorter it takes points off. People even associate masculinity with being tall which is something most women are into. Nothing positive is associated with being short. There is no guy that wouldnt look better if they were taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:37 AM
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Its not a death sentence but its way harder. And Im black so idk if that will work for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:28 AM
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Im not talking about 6ft+ only girls. Im literally below average height. If I was 5ft9/5ft10 I wouldnt care. Its not about them asking for height cause in most cases you arent even an option if you dont hit a certain point. And you dont have to list height but if you dont im pretty sure they automatically assume that you are short.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:27 AM
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Im 5ft7
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:18 AM
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Just to get disregarded for a tall guy who has none of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:15 AM
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And if youre below average height? Im not white so I dont have that advantage either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:12 AM
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Thats one 1 trait needed to overcome being ugly allegedly. Look at all the traits she listed a guy needs to overcome being short. If and only if you have all those there is a possibilty she may overlook your height, and will put you on even footing with a taller guy who has none of them and is just tall. If he has one he passes you instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:10 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/xTRrOQ2YbV So if you arent tall just be a 10 in every other category lol. Got it. You have to compensate in every other way possible to make up for the one area you are lacking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:55 AM
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And women say porn is unrealistic. At least it contains actual people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:44 AM
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What did he say that hinted toward misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:48 AM
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You cant have the mindset with no abundance tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:00 PM
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Why would a woman who is less attractive have lower standards? Thats not how it works. That wont increase his chances at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:23 PM
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Exactly. Women do this with celebrity crushes and guys they see on tiktok/IG all of the time. Dont know why they deny this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:21 PM
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You might have to do some initial convincing, but once a woman is attracted to you, she's generally into you genuinely. If you have to do convincing I dont think she will ever be attracted to you in the same was she would be to a guy where the attraction was natural. If you have to convince her that means she finds you unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:19 PM
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Yea I think thats true ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:51 PM
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Why do some lesbians get with a masculine partner then? Isnt that in some way them trying to feel feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:51 PM
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There are a good amount into lesbians who act like men tho. They dont seem to care about height for those types
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:50 PM
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True. I think lack of mutual attraction is the main reason its disliked by them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:33 PM
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Do women only have height preferences for men? Cause I dont see lesbians talking about it at all. A good amount of women say that they want to feel safe/feminine/small so they go for taller guys. Does this desire just go away when they become attracted to women? And why is it only toward men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:32 PM
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Im pretty sure women have higher standards for men than they do for other women. Like Ive never heard about lesbians having strong height preferences or them saying that they want to feel protected so they need someone taller
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:24 PM
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Yea I dont really get how women rationalize this at times. If Im around a girl its only natural that Ill like them more if I hang around them alot. I dont get why they see guys liking friends as a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:21 PM
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Maybe you should get it checked out just to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:29 AM
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It was atopic dermatitis. Are you itching?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:22 AM
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It used to happen to me before kind of. Like my hands would get really hot compared to the rest of my body. Not really sure why but I think it was tied to a health issue I had at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:18 AM
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Ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:24 AM
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Yea thats pretty interesting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:43 AM
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Same, hope you reach your goals
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:40 AM
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I agree. Its like shes trying to convince herself that he is attractive when the natural feeling isnt really there. And I dont think attraction that was built over time is the same or as strong as attraction thats was natural
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:37 AM
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Are you physically attracted to him? And why did you ask him out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:19 AM
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